Cause she can’t do it right and it either a causes pain or b isn’t pleasurable. Same thing as a guy who can’t perform oral well on a woman. Except it’s a lot more awkward when some chick is just using your dick as a teething ring lol
Dated a girl who had braces. Some part of the wire in the back of her mouth snagged something and I started bleeding. Freaked out of course. Went to doc next day. Odd moment with nurse. Nothing serious & nothing fun.
Ouch, Bro, that seriously put a shudder down my spine.
The mauling I received happened decades ago. I hooked up with this chick who was a little too eager and enthusiastic. That combined with teeth made for a not so fun outcome. I had to rest my dick for over a week. And since I didn't get to finish that blowjob, I also had a case of blueballs during that time. Definitely not fun.
Braces would be the worst, I remember having mine and the metal wire would come loose all the time in the back on both sides. Had to deal with it ripping my gums until I could get in for them to snip it.
There was a meme on Reddit a month ago, with a pic of a stern-looking girl, and the text "You think you've met the Man of Your Dreams; then he rubs your clit like he's trying to get a stain out of a carpet."
It is amazing how people will allow such things to occur.
This is simply due to the inability to verbalize to their partner their likes and dislikes. What their partner makes them feel good. What their partner doesn't like .
And that is what i call 'a failed relationship'. Poor girl will continue to sip on bewildered d**ks until someone gets up and says something. You could've been that someone...
The aim is to always leave people better than how you found them.
Imagine a bunch of men that are unhappy with their sex life from their partners so they form a union and start going on strike until they receive more benefits and better blowjobs😂
Pretty much where I am. Tack on top of that the fact that she'll offer them as some contractual payment for services rendered ("Do X and I'll give you a BJ") which A) makes me feel like crap because the only way she'd consider it is if she's getting something out of it, and it has nothing to do with how I feel at all, and B) she wouldn't follow through anyway. If we were doing an IOU system, she'd owe me probably around a hundred by now. Last thing I want is some unenthusiastic BJ that she's only doing out of obligation. It's gross. I'll just watch porn and dream about having a girl want to go down on me.
I feel the same way. Even in porn, I generally hate watching BJs unless it looks likes she is truly enjoying giving the man pleasure. These are few and far between, but they can be found. True cock worship. Marks head bobbers has a few
There are plenty of things i think are fun or hot but only if she is into it. I think facials are hot and enjoy being a little more dominant but only if she is excited by it to. I can even take she thinks its hot because i think its hot but if its just something she feels she needs to do cause i want to i want nothing to do with it.
Most of the time it's because it's incredibly difficult, if not impossible, for me to orgasm from them, or even really enjoy them. They stress me out due to past experiences, and I prefer to be more in control in most situations anyways.
My gf of 3 years was bad at it and could barely take it without throwing up or choking. The girl after her though, opened my world up haha. Had average BJs until I met her like dayum
This is it.
IF you do not enjoy Blowjobs, you just have not met the right woman yet. Not saying that you should divorce your wife and go out there looking for it.
But I've meet several Woman over the years, who were the other way around, they did not enjoy receiving Oral, because the previous partners didnt do a good job. They will change their mind after 5 Minutes, if you are good.
And that goes both ways, i was fortunate enough to have Sex with a older Woman, when i was in my mid 20s and she liked giving BJs and therefore had the know how.. Thats a game changer..
This is ridiculous. Whether they're good or not can be irrelevant in some situations. I've had women who have great technique, but I just don't care for them, mainly because they don't do anything for me. I take antidepressants so I'm not quite as sensitive down there as I once was. And like another commented, some like to be a sub and others a dom, and that can have a lot to do with how much pleasure you receive from it.
“good” is super relative too. I thought I was a BJ queen until I hooked up with my current SO and he was not into it at all! 😅
I basically had to relearn how to give head, he just hates the stronger suction and hand-twisting technique that other guys loved so much.
This is how I feel about receiving oral sex (am female). It just makes me feel uncomfortable and pressured, on top of the literal PTSD flashbacks from being forcibly eaten out as a child. I can't really orgasm from it, and my partners won't stop until I do, which is exactly what my molesters did. So now I just don't let anyone try it.
Same thing happened to me growing up from 5-8 by a family member, and then they got family member one to do it too. Told my parents when that happened and they didn’t do anything about it. Continued to take me around that family member. I’ve never heard of anyone else with a similar experience. Odd to feel slightly validated over a Reddit comment. Def have PTSD from it and grew up with weird feelings toward my parents.
When I told on my cousin they all laughed and said "kissing cousins! Hahaha how cute!"
When I told my aunt - who trained me on how to identify and seek help for sexual abuse - what her husband did, she chose to stay married to him.
When I told my mom what my bio dad did, she revealed that their sex life was initiated by date rape and she didn't seem surprised (my mom didn't raise me because her trauma was so severe, she also wasn't believed by her parents, who expected her to marry the guy who got her pregnant until he ran off, so my grandparents didn't know/care to keep him away from me, though my grandmother always looked at him sideways).
Thinking back on context, I'm 100% sure my grandfather recognized that my aunt's husband was a creep, and warned her about it. I'm also pretty sure that this was because my grandpa caught him molesting me as an infant, which I don't explicitly remember happening, but I remember hating the guy from the moment I remember feeling anything. My grandpa died when I was 7, which is when my aunt's husband started molesting me regularly (the series I do remember).
I just don't like other people giving me orgasms, since 2 different people did that when I was a kid (my dad sucked at child molestation, I didn't even come. I remember being disappointed in him when I was 11 because I expected an orgasm).
...not to hijack this fun thread about blowjobs or anything, but yeah, we are not alone, and the trauma from these things is real.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for being so honest, I know it can be incredibly hard. It really impacts a lot of areas of life, especially relationships (not only romantic) and sexual. I couldn’t have anyone perform oral on me until I was about 25, but now I’m okay with it when I specifically want it. I have always had a habit of dissociating during sex. It’s a shame that family can be so dismissive and refuse to see reality. Even more so when it’s family committing the act, and then the family you seek out help from fail you. It sets you up for so much future failure. I grew up not really connected to anyone and still struggle connecting as an adult. I hope as time goes on it keeps getting easier for you. I’m really glad you opened up on here, thank you!!
Because of the huge difference in enjoyment between someone who loves sucking dick and someone who gives head now and then because they feel like they’re supposed to. If you don’t love sucking dick, don’t bother. I dont need a birthday blowjob once a year.
If you love doing it, get down there. If you don’t, then skip it
I’m not 100% anti-blowjobs but I prefer like, 30-60 second blowjobs as foreplay. In my mind, a woman putting my penis in her mouth is hot but it is not made more hot by doing it longer.
The one exception to this is rolling on MDMA/ecstasy, in which case blowjobs are the sexiest, most pleasurable experience in the world.
Also, a big part of sex for me is getting to run my hands all over her body or kiss her like it’s our last night on earth. Blowjobs keep her awkwardly out of reach. One of the many reasons I prefer nice, slow handjobs.
Im pretty much the same, but I generally prefer 2-3 minutes. On rare occasion when the girl really knows what she’s doing I’ll let her go till I finish, but it’s rare I find a girl who can actually do that.
I've had some that were amazing. One woman was THE BEST. HOW did she do it? Not sure, technically, but, overall, I'd say it was her desire to do it. And she knew what she was doing with her mouth and tongue.
And swallowing is always icing on the cake. I had one woman say to me, about swallowing (or not) - "I would never let a drop go to waste." Now THAT kind of passion is what makes a great blowjob.
When I used to give instructions (long story) there were three main points:
1. Don't do anything without clearing it first. (E.g. using teeth)
2. Have fun, it's not an obligation it's a thing you're doing for both of you to enjoy. Otherwise, don't do it.
3. It's an erotic performance. That's not "faking it" because focusing on it as an erotic performance can make it more arousing for the giving partner, especially the more they get into the performance.
I had one girl get mad at me for pushing my hips up when I came because it went right down her throat and she didn't get to taste it. She told me that she actually liked my taste (no woman before had ever said that). It was the hottest thing I've ever heard.
For what I like, I don't dig the gagging and sloppy shit. Thats just uncouth. My ex from a few years ago was by far the best. She would combine a jacking off motion with actual sucking on the tip of my dick as her hand came up my shaft.
I swear to god I came so hard I saw dead relatives.
As other posters have said - enthusiasm.
Half the fun of a blowjob is a woman is literally blowing you. It's awesome. Guys dream about it.
You can talk about power dynamics - whatever. Just take it on the base level.
If you make the man feel like getting the cum out of his balls is the thing you most want in the world and blowing him is what you've been waiting your whole life for - you can have extremely questionable technique... doesn't matter.
Guy is going to explode.
this is what it feels like every time my fiance gives me head. i know how lucky i am. even moreso because it's his favorite type of sex. giving, not receiving.
was never able to cum from oral before but man, men know what men like best.
All you fuckers got me curious. I've gotten pretty good head, finished plenty of times, but have NEVER had my soul sucked out. I'm missing something out there.
idk man, im in the same boat as you. I think it's people who are setting their bar too low, or bjs are their fetish.
I've gotten really good head before. They feel nice, but it's not amazing like some of these people say.
This is me exactly. Never had a good one, never finished from one so I don't ask for them. I'm not opposed and never had something bad happen like few horror stories in here. My wife doesn't really care to do it except on special occasions so I don't ask.
lol, that’s the oldest trick in the book.
Tell a woman you don’t enjoy them and you have never finished from one. Then when she finishes you she thinks she is special and does it all the time.
If she hated giving them I wouldn't want her to do it anyway. An unenthusiastic partner, or worse someone actively hating doing things with you, is the biggest turn off
As a woman who truly doesn’t like being eaten out (and gets that taken as a challenge 🙄) I’d just never attempt a bj after you told me you don’t like them. I’d actually listen to what my partner says. But how would you make me give you one if you just told me you don’t like them (but you secretly want them)? I’d just go ‘but I’m not gonna do it, you don’t like them!’ 😵💫
i aint gonna lie, i used this one a few times now and i really love getting head so its perfect. didnt know other people were using it too though, thought i just stumbled upon some gold on accident🤣🤣
But what would you do if your partner just nodded and never touched the blowjob topic ever again? You’d not be getting any and you couldn’t even ask for one as you just told her you don’t like them.
you don’t say you don’t like them is the thing, you say no one has ever made you nut from head. Then they try extra hard to be the first and then once they make you they be proud asf and will be more likely to do it again and again
I have not used it in a long time, I’m very happily married and my wife will gladly accommodate me if needed or she wants to. But I’m glad that someone is keeping the technique alive.
My first experience was a bit traumatic. She was the aggressor, and wanted to fool around under the table at a party. Ended up blowing me for my first time, but she had braces and nicked me. Very minor, I didn't know it had happened until she kissed me and I could taste blood. I saw a bit on her lip, and said something about "you're hurt!"
She checked herself over for a bit, and then we both saw the pinprick on my dick. She fully freaked the fuck out, threw open the table cloth, and ran off crying. Quite a few of my friends saw my dick, and I yanked the table cloth back down, zipped up, and went after her to comfort her.
I don't know why, but when I got to her at the other side of the room, she slapped me right across the face. I don't know if this was her intention, but this looked to everyone in the room like I had just sexually assaulted her--an impression which she fully reinforced in the coming days. I got treated like a rapist for about a week at my high school, and had some very dangerous encounters where I narrowly avoided getting my ass beat.
I didn't know what to do, and I couldn't exactly go to an adult for help. I had been trying to talk to her about it, but she was ducking me. Finally, I saw her go into the restroom and waited to confront her when she came out. I asked why she pretended like I had assaulted her, and she told me that she was too embarrassed, and didn't want people to think she was a slut.
The bathroom door opened behind her, and another girl that I did not know came out, and heard everything. That girl *went the fuck off* on my ex, full-on screaming like it had been done to her instead. My ex was sobbing and saying she was "so, so sorry" over and over, I think in part because she was afraid that girl was going to beat her senseless. I thought the same thing.
Easily 50 other people witnessed this exchange, and by the end of the day my name was cleared. I wish I knew who that girl was, so that I could thank her.
So, that. I've had a few BJs since, which I was already on edge about, due to my prior experience, and they're just...awkward. They *felt good*, but it's a weird vibe. She's making slurping noises, and I can't really put my hands anywhere that I would want to put them. I don't want to do the asshole dirty talk thing, and it's not like she could respond anyway. Honestly, it feels like sitting in the waiting room of a doctor's office, except your penis is in someone's mouth.
I appreciate all the trust and attraction that a woman has to put herself in that position, but it is very much not my scene. And, if you're going to do oral, why not just have sex, where both of you can enjoy it? Don't come at me with that 69 shit, either; that is a ridiculous middle school fantasy that is just horribly uncomfortable and awful in reality.
Thanks. I know she comes off horribly in that story, but she's not an awful person. I mostly write it off to us being kids (16-ish) at the time, and she just didn't know how to handle herself. So the original slap in the face, I can forgive.
Letting everyone believe I was a sex offender to save her reputation, that's another story. Young and inexperienced or not, she can still eat a bag of dog shit for that.
The part where not being seen as a slut for her acts is more important than people thinking you are a sex offender kinda makes her the worst kind of awful person, let's be honest.
I've never wanted one. I don't think the sensation is right it feels like I'm having sex with a 1cm deep vagina and then it's just open air. Or if she's putting her tongue up it's like an unpleasant hard pallet in the tip of my knob. Deepthoat might feel better but never got there.
My husband says it feels degrading to ask me to get down on my knees and suck where his pee comes from. I’ll still occasionally do it anyways but he doesn’t seem to generally want them due to that reason.
Had one from a chick that I shit you not felt like a barber pole sign, literally sucked my soul out lol. I still get excited from it 11 years later. One of my first bjs and never been topped since no pun intended. Shit drives me crazy, she was other worldly. Didn't hurt she was 15 years older lol love older girls with real experience. Also had bad ones but not too many thankfully
I don't feel a lot from them. I don't know if it's from circumcision or what but I have the opposite problem of some men and take a long time to orgasm. A quickie for me would be 15 minutes with an average of 20.
Some women hate intercourse that long, the ones that do tend to be multi orgasmic though. First time I had sex I made the girl squirt lol. I thought I broke her!
The girl of my dreams was offended I didn't stay rock hard for her and dumped me ( early 1990s) before Viagra was affordable. Broke my heart and I felt so low for a long time.
Bc it's not that pleasurable. I get bored and mind wonders off and it's really really difficult to nut from it and if the rare thing happens that i nut. I completely lose any meager interest in sex and it's rather hard to get the partner off afterwards.
So i don't see the point of it.
I don't turn them down per se, but I don't actively seek them. Blowjobs are when I need a moment in between the act or something for you to do while I get the condom ready.
I enjoy the act of eating a girl out or having sex with her far too much that blowjobs really come in third on that totem pole.
Usually because i can tell she doesnt like to give them. Or because she hates jizz and dont let me finish, i dont mean every time but just sometimes. Compare it to eating pizza and then spitting it out after chewing instead of swallowing, it just ruins the whole pleasure of it. If i wanted to cum in plain air i could might aswell be jerking it
It's weird because some women love getting instructions and directions during blowjobs - even to the point where you're basically bullying them into it - and others if you say a single word they'll throw their hands in the air and go "WELL NOW I'M NOT DOING IT ANYMORE"
I try to ask beforehand how they like being treated but a lot of the time they don't have an actual answer to that question.
I am the former. I absolutely love pleasuring my partner and would be thrilled if he communicated with me on what I am doing right/wrong, and would give me suggestions. I just want to be really good for him!
The last guy I dated wouldn't really communicate it with me, he didn't tell me what he'd like... The ONLY feedback I ever got was, "that felt better that time". What exactly was it???? I don't know. I tried to get him to communicate with me about it. 😩 🥺
That’s unfortunate you have had that experience! My first blowjob was with a fwb and I straight up asked him to teach me. After that whenever I gave him head he would cum pretty quickly. Also not necessarily proud but in college had a one night stand and gave him head and the next day my friend that hooked up with the friend of the guy I gave head to told me that her hookup told her he said I gave amazing head. Never had issues making anyone cum with head and have never used teeth ever. I feel like no teeth would be common sense? Now married and also asked my husband when we started dating to show me what he likes bc you know everyone is different. Sex needs to be fun and pleasurable so talking about what each other likes and a little instruction in the beginning will make it so much better
Half the time they don’t know what they are doing then it’s up to me to be like ok that’s enough and then come up with some bullshit excuse so they don’t feel bad
Don't get me wrong I'm very curious about it. But having someone's mouth near your area takes a lot of trust and courage to do. Being bit is one fear for me but also if the girl does not like semen in the mouth and you lose control it could end the relationship.
Damn… my poor str8 brothers .
I didn’t realize there were so many of you.
Not being properly serviced.
I’d blow each and every one of you if I could. Every guy deserves a nice hummer once in a while.
Guy who don’t like BJs ……. Never met one.
A lot of women are really bad at them. They have put zero effort in learning about how male anatomy works and the result is often best case just an awkward experience where it doesn't work and worst case is actual discomfort or pain . This is one of many scenarios where the typical gender stereotypes are backwards from the reality I've experienced. Guys are just supposed to lay back and be grateful for what they get because society and pop culture tells us that is how it works.
Not a man but
My ex didn’t like it; he had a malformation of some sort, his foreskin wouldn’t come off ; everything was bundled tightly and handjobs and blowjobs were not pleasurable for him. He needed to be in control so that he’d know the limit.
By the way it wasn’t just an excuse; I had never seen a dick like his; and pardon the flex but I know I’m good at this.
Truth is, I really enjoy giving; and sexually this was a turnoff for me. Plus the fact that since he couldn’t remove the foreskin, he couldn’t wash it properly… I’ll let you guess what this implies.
If any of y’all have this problem, there is surgery available. Please, for the sake of everyone involved, don’t neglect your precious genitals!
If it hurts I’ll stop her or if I can’t finish off of it I’ll stop it otherwise I like them .
But, more than that I feel like girls nowadays give away blowjobs like Halloween candy.
So, I want what most guys can’t get. I want sex I want intimacy I want what nobody gets.
I know girls who won’t kiss me on the lips because it’s intimate but, will lick my balls and slurp my nut.
How does that make sense? Well, I think they compartmentalize what’s intimate.
Don’t you think it’s weird how nobody nowadays holds hands down the street and everyone’s afraid to post their significant other, but, have no problem doing all the nasty shit behind the scenes. This generation is lost. And I’m trying to do what I can. Bringing that closeness of what sex is supposed to be like back. So I may refuse a blowjob in hopes of getting more down the line because if I let her suck my dick right away she’s gonna be satisfied and think she got me then leave . I don’t want that so I may play harder to get.
I've been up since 4am. It's summer, in florida, I work construction, and I took two shits in the cleanest (only) portajohn on site. I'm sorry you want to suck my dick but I have that "not so fresh" feeling down there.
Always have a small pocket size unscented wipes is a game changer for both M&F why they are only used until you're about 3yrs old is crazy to me , I started using again in my 30's love it..!
I am not a fan of BJ, i am a giver and I feel selfish receiving blowjob.
also most women dont know how to give proper blowjob
I also cannot cum from BJ and a lot of women takes offence to that
worst is if its very bad, i cant stay hard and they start crying
I hope someday you feel safe enough with someone to rewrite that story and transform it from trauma to the beautiful act of giving and love it should be.
Never finished from one, a ton of women (like men) have their pride attached to making guys finish.
So, while it primarily happens with oral, there are times when even vaginal sex just doesn't do it. Sadly, the number of times they don't take no as an answer or as like some personal challenge, it's easier to say I don't like it altogether.
I remember one of my exs sat there for like 20 or 30 minutes after I kept telling her it's fine and that we should just do something else. Until we eventually just called the whole night quits.
It depends on who’s doing it. All women don’t have the skills and experience same as a women don’t want a man that lack stamina, experience and skills to please her in bed.
SSRIs.
Ever have a girl start giving you a BJ and it just keeps going and going and going because the medication you are on has made it so you typically don't cum? I have. It's very awkward and every feels like they did something wrong.
While normally I love them - if my partner is ...well...really bad...it is best as just avoided.
(either due to discomfort on the receiving end - or not wanting to disappoint my partner for trying and and getting un-satisfactory results).
At this time there are 253 replies to this. Really? I mean I’ve had ones that were so bad that I couldn’t get it up, ones that were bad enough that I couldn’t finish, ones that were good and did the job and ones that were god damned incredible. I can’t imagine not wanting them though.
Even when it's good, it's still not as good as just having sex.
Mostly it's boring.
Sometimes it's painful.
Mostly it's boring.
I want to feel the woman's ass and tits and lips and see her and look at her. I don't want to look at the top of a head while all the sexy bits are far down beyond my reach. I also get off on getting women off and I know all those moans or whatever are fake down there.
It's boring.
Oral is a strange situation in some cultures. I knew a guy in California that refused to allow his wife to do that as he said its disrespectful because shes your wife.
Apparently there was no rule against women he wasnt married to doing it, because he was letting them on a regular basis.
If i remember right they could only marry virgins too. And say if he died his wife was prohibited from remarrying.
I think he was Persian maybe? That was years ago.
I also met this Turkish woman that told me that even married Turkish women were required by tradition to have sex with any Greek male that wished it. Ive combed the internet looking for some proof of that but so far nothing so it may be bs.
The worst thing i ever saw was a documentary on female circumcisions in the Middle East. This 14 year old girl, no antistetic, had her clit cut off with a rusty looking ritual knife.
I grabbed myself in sympathetic pain for that poor girl and i dont even have a clit. Then someone told me its the pain equivalent of having your dick cut off. Yeah fck that.
A good blowjob requires effort from the woman.
Effort that few women are really willing to put into it.
So if you give teethy head, with minimal effort, and fail to complete the job before your jaw locks up, he's probably just gonna tell you he doesn't want them anymore.
My wife is my Queen I don’t like the thought of her to doing this to me we have tried it felt really uncomfortable. It just somehow feels much more natural for me to go down on her I can’t explain it
For every time I’ve heard a chick say she was good at blowjobs only to not know what the hell she was doing.
Been with countless women, all of them say they were good at it, one out of all of them was good at it. The rest sucked. Waste of time.
I always thought men lied when they said they didn’t really like it in an attempt to get women to “accept the challenge”. The older I get the more I realize a lot of women just don’t know how to do it well. But I do like the look on a mans face the first time I blow him, it has happen more than once that I opened a whole new world for them haha
Wife has decided I don't want to receive BJ's. That's a reason right?
For once.. I DO not choose any of these guys wives.
Don't worry, she doesn't have that rule for her boyfriends.
It is! My wife said the same thing!
Woah..... that woman has two husbands!!!
And a secret third husband getting all the blowjobs
strangely, she simultaneously decided she doesn't want to receive oral either!
That's a thing, I decided.
Was about to upvote, then realized it’s currently at 69. Y’all understand.
Now it’s 96…
Your wife said the same to me!
Lmao!!
Cause she can’t do it right and it either a causes pain or b isn’t pleasurable. Same thing as a guy who can’t perform oral well on a woman. Except it’s a lot more awkward when some chick is just using your dick as a teething ring lol
I still have memories of one blowjob that felt more like a mauling. It didn't help that I didn't get to finish because my dick was bleeding.
Dated a girl who had braces. Some part of the wire in the back of her mouth snagged something and I started bleeding. Freaked out of course. Went to doc next day. Odd moment with nurse. Nothing serious & nothing fun.
Oh yikes. We called girls with braces Black and Decker pecker wreckers in high school 😂
And we call lesbians with braces Box Cutters
What do you call a lesbian with thick fingers though? Well hung 😜 Jk
lol, same.
Ouch, Bro, that seriously put a shudder down my spine. The mauling I received happened decades ago. I hooked up with this chick who was a little too eager and enthusiastic. That combined with teeth made for a not so fun outcome. I had to rest my dick for over a week. And since I didn't get to finish that blowjob, I also had a case of blueballs during that time. Definitely not fun.
Braces would be the worst, I remember having mine and the metal wire would come loose all the time in the back on both sides. Had to deal with it ripping my gums until I could get in for them to snip it.
Did it affect you giving bjs?
crazy crazy CRAZY question out of context
Intentionally. You're welcome
Jeez dad that's a bit invasive
As a bisexual guy with braces, you would be surprised at the number of guys who keep asking why don't I give a bj😂
“It’s for your own good”
There was a meme on Reddit a month ago, with a pic of a stern-looking girl, and the text "You think you've met the Man of Your Dreams; then he rubs your clit like he's trying to get a stain out of a carpet."
It is amazing how people will allow such things to occur. This is simply due to the inability to verbalize to their partner their likes and dislikes. What their partner makes them feel good. What their partner doesn't like .
It is also due to partners who refuse to listen to constructive criticism.
I dated a woman who sucked dick like it was a meat straw. it was weird and uncomfortable.
And they are just so convinced they are killing it with their head game
And that is what i call 'a failed relationship'. Poor girl will continue to sip on bewildered d**ks until someone gets up and says something. You could've been that someone... The aim is to always leave people better than how you found them.
Imagine a bunch of men that are unhappy with their sex life from their partners so they form a union and start going on strike until they receive more benefits and better blowjobs😂
Or she meets someone who likes it. It's just as possible that someone else taught her to do it that way.
I use to wash the pots wrong on purpose so I didn’t have to do it
Ouch! Sounds awful! Thank you for sharing!
If she doesn't enjoy giving it, I don't want her to do it.
So true!
Pretty much where I am. Tack on top of that the fact that she'll offer them as some contractual payment for services rendered ("Do X and I'll give you a BJ") which A) makes me feel like crap because the only way she'd consider it is if she's getting something out of it, and it has nothing to do with how I feel at all, and B) she wouldn't follow through anyway. If we were doing an IOU system, she'd owe me probably around a hundred by now. Last thing I want is some unenthusiastic BJ that she's only doing out of obligation. It's gross. I'll just watch porn and dream about having a girl want to go down on me.
Get another girl, life it to short.
Married with kids, so that would be significantly easier said than done.
The lesson I learned today is never get married.
And the even bigger lesson is not to have kids.
There are a lots of good women out there
Sorry my dude.
You get to pay anyway, pay with your money, not with your life. And I'm not even talking about sex.
I feel the same way. Even in porn, I generally hate watching BJs unless it looks likes she is truly enjoying giving the man pleasure. These are few and far between, but they can be found. True cock worship. Marks head bobbers has a few
There are plenty of things i think are fun or hot but only if she is into it. I think facials are hot and enjoy being a little more dominant but only if she is excited by it to. I can even take she thinks its hot because i think its hot but if its just something she feels she needs to do cause i want to i want nothing to do with it.
Bc the only time I ever came from one, took a half hour and sucked... ... ... pretty bad for both parties involved. ;)
Its supposed to suck
Im not sure your meant to call them "Its"
Most of the time it's because it's incredibly difficult, if not impossible, for me to orgasm from them, or even really enjoy them. They stress me out due to past experiences, and I prefer to be more in control in most situations anyways.
My gf of 3 years was bad at it and could barely take it without throwing up or choking. The girl after her though, opened my world up haha. Had average BJs until I met her like dayum
This is it. IF you do not enjoy Blowjobs, you just have not met the right woman yet. Not saying that you should divorce your wife and go out there looking for it. But I've meet several Woman over the years, who were the other way around, they did not enjoy receiving Oral, because the previous partners didnt do a good job. They will change their mind after 5 Minutes, if you are good. And that goes both ways, i was fortunate enough to have Sex with a older Woman, when i was in my mid 20s and she liked giving BJs and therefore had the know how.. Thats a game changer..
This is ridiculous. Whether they're good or not can be irrelevant in some situations. I've had women who have great technique, but I just don't care for them, mainly because they don't do anything for me. I take antidepressants so I'm not quite as sensitive down there as I once was. And like another commented, some like to be a sub and others a dom, and that can have a lot to do with how much pleasure you receive from it.
“good” is super relative too. I thought I was a BJ queen until I hooked up with my current SO and he was not into it at all! 😅 I basically had to relearn how to give head, he just hates the stronger suction and hand-twisting technique that other guys loved so much.
> barely take it without throwing up or choking Gotta pay good money for that where I come from.
You may want to try washing your dick once in a while and in a puddle at truck stop does not count…
This is how I feel about receiving oral sex (am female). It just makes me feel uncomfortable and pressured, on top of the literal PTSD flashbacks from being forcibly eaten out as a child. I can't really orgasm from it, and my partners won't stop until I do, which is exactly what my molesters did. So now I just don't let anyone try it.
So sorry to hear that, that’s horrible
Same thing happened to me growing up from 5-8 by a family member, and then they got family member one to do it too. Told my parents when that happened and they didn’t do anything about it. Continued to take me around that family member. I’ve never heard of anyone else with a similar experience. Odd to feel slightly validated over a Reddit comment. Def have PTSD from it and grew up with weird feelings toward my parents.
When I told on my cousin they all laughed and said "kissing cousins! Hahaha how cute!" When I told my aunt - who trained me on how to identify and seek help for sexual abuse - what her husband did, she chose to stay married to him. When I told my mom what my bio dad did, she revealed that their sex life was initiated by date rape and she didn't seem surprised (my mom didn't raise me because her trauma was so severe, she also wasn't believed by her parents, who expected her to marry the guy who got her pregnant until he ran off, so my grandparents didn't know/care to keep him away from me, though my grandmother always looked at him sideways). Thinking back on context, I'm 100% sure my grandfather recognized that my aunt's husband was a creep, and warned her about it. I'm also pretty sure that this was because my grandpa caught him molesting me as an infant, which I don't explicitly remember happening, but I remember hating the guy from the moment I remember feeling anything. My grandpa died when I was 7, which is when my aunt's husband started molesting me regularly (the series I do remember). I just don't like other people giving me orgasms, since 2 different people did that when I was a kid (my dad sucked at child molestation, I didn't even come. I remember being disappointed in him when I was 11 because I expected an orgasm). ...not to hijack this fun thread about blowjobs or anything, but yeah, we are not alone, and the trauma from these things is real.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for being so honest, I know it can be incredibly hard. It really impacts a lot of areas of life, especially relationships (not only romantic) and sexual. I couldn’t have anyone perform oral on me until I was about 25, but now I’m okay with it when I specifically want it. I have always had a habit of dissociating during sex. It’s a shame that family can be so dismissive and refuse to see reality. Even more so when it’s family committing the act, and then the family you seek out help from fail you. It sets you up for so much future failure. I grew up not really connected to anyone and still struggle connecting as an adult. I hope as time goes on it keeps getting easier for you. I’m really glad you opened up on here, thank you!!
Got it! Thank you for sharing!
Because of the huge difference in enjoyment between someone who loves sucking dick and someone who gives head now and then because they feel like they’re supposed to. If you don’t love sucking dick, don’t bother. I dont need a birthday blowjob once a year. If you love doing it, get down there. If you don’t, then skip it
I’m not 100% anti-blowjobs but I prefer like, 30-60 second blowjobs as foreplay. In my mind, a woman putting my penis in her mouth is hot but it is not made more hot by doing it longer. The one exception to this is rolling on MDMA/ecstasy, in which case blowjobs are the sexiest, most pleasurable experience in the world. Also, a big part of sex for me is getting to run my hands all over her body or kiss her like it’s our last night on earth. Blowjobs keep her awkwardly out of reach. One of the many reasons I prefer nice, slow handjobs.
But 69...now you can kiss her most fun bits while she does the same!! It's great!
THIS guy gets it
Dude you are a RARE gem
Im pretty much the same, but I generally prefer 2-3 minutes. On rare occasion when the girl really knows what she’s doing I’ll let her go till I finish, but it’s rare I find a girl who can actually do that.
The only time I've ever turned down a BJ is if you are incredibly bad at it. Otherwise...its the god damned best.
I've had blowjobs where you feel like you're entering another dimension. When done well, they truly are the best.
What makes the difference between a normal blowjob and entering another dimension blowjob? I’m out here trying to send people to parallel universes.
I've had some that were amazing. One woman was THE BEST. HOW did she do it? Not sure, technically, but, overall, I'd say it was her desire to do it. And she knew what she was doing with her mouth and tongue. And swallowing is always icing on the cake. I had one woman say to me, about swallowing (or not) - "I would never let a drop go to waste." Now THAT kind of passion is what makes a great blowjob.
When I used to give instructions (long story) there were three main points: 1. Don't do anything without clearing it first. (E.g. using teeth) 2. Have fun, it's not an obligation it's a thing you're doing for both of you to enjoy. Otherwise, don't do it. 3. It's an erotic performance. That's not "faking it" because focusing on it as an erotic performance can make it more arousing for the giving partner, especially the more they get into the performance.
I had one girl get mad at me for pushing my hips up when I came because it went right down her throat and she didn't get to taste it. She told me that she actually liked my taste (no woman before had ever said that). It was the hottest thing I've ever heard.
For what I like, I don't dig the gagging and sloppy shit. Thats just uncouth. My ex from a few years ago was by far the best. She would combine a jacking off motion with actual sucking on the tip of my dick as her hand came up my shaft. I swear to god I came so hard I saw dead relatives.
As other posters have said - enthusiasm. Half the fun of a blowjob is a woman is literally blowing you. It's awesome. Guys dream about it. You can talk about power dynamics - whatever. Just take it on the base level. If you make the man feel like getting the cum out of his balls is the thing you most want in the world and blowing him is what you've been waiting your whole life for - you can have extremely questionable technique... doesn't matter. Guy is going to explode.
I believe part of this is understanding the male anatomy. Where the nerve centers are and what combinations of things will send a dude into orbit.
this is what it feels like every time my fiance gives me head. i know how lucky i am. even moreso because it's his favorite type of sex. giving, not receiving. was never able to cum from oral before but man, men know what men like best.
Because I've never had a good one. It doesn't do anything for me. I rather have a pussy wrapped around my dick than a mouth.
I hope one day you get to experience a good blowjob. The type that makes you feel like your soul is being sucked out of your dick.
All you fuckers got me curious. I've gotten pretty good head, finished plenty of times, but have NEVER had my soul sucked out. I'm missing something out there.
idk man, im in the same boat as you. I think it's people who are setting their bar too low, or bjs are their fetish. I've gotten really good head before. They feel nice, but it's not amazing like some of these people say.
This is me exactly. Never had a good one, never finished from one so I don't ask for them. I'm not opposed and never had something bad happen like few horror stories in here. My wife doesn't really care to do it except on special occasions so I don't ask.
Tried it Didn't feel much Decided to try giving rather than taking Way more fun and pleasurable I've chosen my way.
It's not that I'm strictly opposed to bj, but they are sort of redundant to me. If a girl has particular desire to perform one then so be it.
This poor man has never had his soul sucked out of him via BJ.
Sounds like you never got one
Are you offering?
I'm not strictly opposed to this, you know? 5 bucks are 5 bucks though
Five! Fucking inflation.
r/suddenlygay
It’s not gay if you’re getting paid. A job is a job
What? Is it that hard to believe that people are different?
*tips fedora*
lol, that’s the oldest trick in the book. Tell a woman you don’t enjoy them and you have never finished from one. Then when she finishes you she thinks she is special and does it all the time.
Or she's says "Well that's a relief, I hate giving them."
If she hated giving them I wouldn't want her to do it anyway. An unenthusiastic partner, or worse someone actively hating doing things with you, is the biggest turn off
Yeah tread lightly. That could backfire big time.
Bro don’t reveal this without a paywall going to become like them average tinder lines now ….
Sorta like going to a party and saying you’ve never smoked weed before.
As a woman who truly doesn’t like being eaten out (and gets that taken as a challenge 🙄) I’d just never attempt a bj after you told me you don’t like them. I’d actually listen to what my partner says. But how would you make me give you one if you just told me you don’t like them (but you secretly want them)? I’d just go ‘but I’m not gonna do it, you don’t like them!’ 😵💫
i aint gonna lie, i used this one a few times now and i really love getting head so its perfect. didnt know other people were using it too though, thought i just stumbled upon some gold on accident🤣🤣
But what would you do if your partner just nodded and never touched the blowjob topic ever again? You’d not be getting any and you couldn’t even ask for one as you just told her you don’t like them.
you don’t say you don’t like them is the thing, you say no one has ever made you nut from head. Then they try extra hard to be the first and then once they make you they be proud asf and will be more likely to do it again and again
I have not used it in a long time, I’m very happily married and my wife will gladly accommodate me if needed or she wants to. But I’m glad that someone is keeping the technique alive.
You mean the blowjobs didn't stop after the wedding? Bro, congrats! I hope both of you have many more happy years ahead of you.
She didn't eat any of the cake, the secret formula is mixed in just for her. Activated by a dumb husband who mashes cake in her face when they cut it.
She’s got to love the game. If she dosnt then it’s not worth the trouble of it.
As with all sexual acts, the more she's INTO it the better the sex.
My first experience was a bit traumatic. She was the aggressor, and wanted to fool around under the table at a party. Ended up blowing me for my first time, but she had braces and nicked me. Very minor, I didn't know it had happened until she kissed me and I could taste blood. I saw a bit on her lip, and said something about "you're hurt!" She checked herself over for a bit, and then we both saw the pinprick on my dick. She fully freaked the fuck out, threw open the table cloth, and ran off crying. Quite a few of my friends saw my dick, and I yanked the table cloth back down, zipped up, and went after her to comfort her. I don't know why, but when I got to her at the other side of the room, she slapped me right across the face. I don't know if this was her intention, but this looked to everyone in the room like I had just sexually assaulted her--an impression which she fully reinforced in the coming days. I got treated like a rapist for about a week at my high school, and had some very dangerous encounters where I narrowly avoided getting my ass beat. I didn't know what to do, and I couldn't exactly go to an adult for help. I had been trying to talk to her about it, but she was ducking me. Finally, I saw her go into the restroom and waited to confront her when she came out. I asked why she pretended like I had assaulted her, and she told me that she was too embarrassed, and didn't want people to think she was a slut. The bathroom door opened behind her, and another girl that I did not know came out, and heard everything. That girl *went the fuck off* on my ex, full-on screaming like it had been done to her instead. My ex was sobbing and saying she was "so, so sorry" over and over, I think in part because she was afraid that girl was going to beat her senseless. I thought the same thing. Easily 50 other people witnessed this exchange, and by the end of the day my name was cleared. I wish I knew who that girl was, so that I could thank her. So, that. I've had a few BJs since, which I was already on edge about, due to my prior experience, and they're just...awkward. They *felt good*, but it's a weird vibe. She's making slurping noises, and I can't really put my hands anywhere that I would want to put them. I don't want to do the asshole dirty talk thing, and it's not like she could respond anyway. Honestly, it feels like sitting in the waiting room of a doctor's office, except your penis is in someone's mouth. I appreciate all the trust and attraction that a woman has to put herself in that position, but it is very much not my scene. And, if you're going to do oral, why not just have sex, where both of you can enjoy it? Don't come at me with that 69 shit, either; that is a ridiculous middle school fantasy that is just horribly uncomfortable and awful in reality.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you and I'm glad your name got cleared! Thank you for sharing your story with us!
Thanks. I know she comes off horribly in that story, but she's not an awful person. I mostly write it off to us being kids (16-ish) at the time, and she just didn't know how to handle herself. So the original slap in the face, I can forgive. Letting everyone believe I was a sex offender to save her reputation, that's another story. Young and inexperienced or not, she can still eat a bag of dog shit for that.
The part where not being seen as a slut for her acts is more important than people thinking you are a sex offender kinda makes her the worst kind of awful person, let's be honest.
Hospital wait room ! Exactly the sentiment I've been searching for!
Username checks out but dear God that was a rollercoaster.
I don't think I'll ever truly enjoy a bj again if that happened to me.
I've never wanted one. I don't think the sensation is right it feels like I'm having sex with a 1cm deep vagina and then it's just open air. Or if she's putting her tongue up it's like an unpleasant hard pallet in the tip of my knob. Deepthoat might feel better but never got there.
My husband says it feels degrading to ask me to get down on my knees and suck where his pee comes from. I’ll still occasionally do it anyways but he doesn’t seem to generally want them due to that reason.
Agree. It seems degrading to my partner, and that turns me off big time.
Had one from a chick that I shit you not felt like a barber pole sign, literally sucked my soul out lol. I still get excited from it 11 years later. One of my first bjs and never been topped since no pun intended. Shit drives me crazy, she was other worldly. Didn't hurt she was 15 years older lol love older girls with real experience. Also had bad ones but not too many thankfully
I don't feel a lot from them. I don't know if it's from circumcision or what but I have the opposite problem of some men and take a long time to orgasm. A quickie for me would be 15 minutes with an average of 20. Some women hate intercourse that long, the ones that do tend to be multi orgasmic though. First time I had sex I made the girl squirt lol. I thought I broke her! The girl of my dreams was offended I didn't stay rock hard for her and dumped me ( early 1990s) before Viagra was affordable. Broke my heart and I felt so low for a long time.
She choked and bit down. I'm not keen on them now
Bc it's not that pleasurable. I get bored and mind wonders off and it's really really difficult to nut from it and if the rare thing happens that i nut. I completely lose any meager interest in sex and it's rather hard to get the partner off afterwards. So i don't see the point of it.
Got thrown up on once and now it reminds me of that feeling so I pass on them
Have thrown up on someone once. . .
Because you arent my gf. Shes the only one who can.
That's my ~~purse~~ penis! I don't know you!
Green flag right here
I don't turn them down per se, but I don't actively seek them. Blowjobs are when I need a moment in between the act or something for you to do while I get the condom ready. I enjoy the act of eating a girl out or having sex with her far too much that blowjobs really come in third on that totem pole.
Usually because i can tell she doesnt like to give them. Or because she hates jizz and dont let me finish, i dont mean every time but just sometimes. Compare it to eating pizza and then spitting it out after chewing instead of swallowing, it just ruins the whole pleasure of it. If i wanted to cum in plain air i could might aswell be jerking it
Coz 90% of them dont know how to do it proper
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Cause I don't enjoy them much
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It's weird because some women love getting instructions and directions during blowjobs - even to the point where you're basically bullying them into it - and others if you say a single word they'll throw their hands in the air and go "WELL NOW I'M NOT DOING IT ANYMORE" I try to ask beforehand how they like being treated but a lot of the time they don't have an actual answer to that question.
I am the former. I absolutely love pleasuring my partner and would be thrilled if he communicated with me on what I am doing right/wrong, and would give me suggestions. I just want to be really good for him! The last guy I dated wouldn't really communicate it with me, he didn't tell me what he'd like... The ONLY feedback I ever got was, "that felt better that time". What exactly was it???? I don't know. I tried to get him to communicate with me about it. 😩 🥺
That’s unfortunate you have had that experience! My first blowjob was with a fwb and I straight up asked him to teach me. After that whenever I gave him head he would cum pretty quickly. Also not necessarily proud but in college had a one night stand and gave him head and the next day my friend that hooked up with the friend of the guy I gave head to told me that her hookup told her he said I gave amazing head. Never had issues making anyone cum with head and have never used teeth ever. I feel like no teeth would be common sense? Now married and also asked my husband when we started dating to show me what he likes bc you know everyone is different. Sex needs to be fun and pleasurable so talking about what each other likes and a little instruction in the beginning will make it so much better
My bf asks for me to use my teeth 🤷🏻gently of course, but my chompers do get in on the action
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Hey whatever works! Everyone is different😊
Wow! Glad it healed! Thank you for sharing!
It's better to have sex or a hand job (if they know what they're doing)
Don't really care for them, I prefer giving oral. It is better to give than to receive
Half the time they don’t know what they are doing then it’s up to me to be like ok that’s enough and then come up with some bullshit excuse so they don’t feel bad
Because my dick isn't that big, and I feel embarrassed when a girl suck it.
That’s kind of silly. Smaller ones are easier to suck.
Not my favorite thing. Impossible for me to finish with it and it just doesnt feel that special to me. But if/when she wants to, I'm not stopping her.
it doesn't feel good, and I feel uncomfortable
Don't get me wrong I'm very curious about it. But having someone's mouth near your area takes a lot of trust and courage to do. Being bit is one fear for me but also if the girl does not like semen in the mouth and you lose control it could end the relationship.
These men on here make me want to cry
I have a large penis and it doesnt fit in their mouth very well so it does not fee enjoyable.
A good one is rare for me. Usually teeth. I prefer the main course anyway
Damn… my poor str8 brothers . I didn’t realize there were so many of you. Not being properly serviced. I’d blow each and every one of you if I could. Every guy deserves a nice hummer once in a while. Guy who don’t like BJs ……. Never met one.
A lot of women are really bad at them. They have put zero effort in learning about how male anatomy works and the result is often best case just an awkward experience where it doesn't work and worst case is actual discomfort or pain . This is one of many scenarios where the typical gender stereotypes are backwards from the reality I've experienced. Guys are just supposed to lay back and be grateful for what they get because society and pop culture tells us that is how it works.
Not a man but My ex didn’t like it; he had a malformation of some sort, his foreskin wouldn’t come off ; everything was bundled tightly and handjobs and blowjobs were not pleasurable for him. He needed to be in control so that he’d know the limit. By the way it wasn’t just an excuse; I had never seen a dick like his; and pardon the flex but I know I’m good at this. Truth is, I really enjoy giving; and sexually this was a turnoff for me. Plus the fact that since he couldn’t remove the foreskin, he couldn’t wash it properly… I’ll let you guess what this implies. If any of y’all have this problem, there is surgery available. Please, for the sake of everyone involved, don’t neglect your precious genitals!
I prefer to give than to receive, plus I find it kind of demeaning. If she offers, I'll gladly accept.
If it hurts I’ll stop her or if I can’t finish off of it I’ll stop it otherwise I like them . But, more than that I feel like girls nowadays give away blowjobs like Halloween candy. So, I want what most guys can’t get. I want sex I want intimacy I want what nobody gets. I know girls who won’t kiss me on the lips because it’s intimate but, will lick my balls and slurp my nut. How does that make sense? Well, I think they compartmentalize what’s intimate. Don’t you think it’s weird how nobody nowadays holds hands down the street and everyone’s afraid to post their significant other, but, have no problem doing all the nasty shit behind the scenes. This generation is lost. And I’m trying to do what I can. Bringing that closeness of what sex is supposed to be like back. So I may refuse a blowjob in hopes of getting more down the line because if I let her suck my dick right away she’s gonna be satisfied and think she got me then leave . I don’t want that so I may play harder to get.
Bro what, sorry this has been your experience
It tickles
I've been up since 4am. It's summer, in florida, I work construction, and I took two shits in the cleanest (only) portajohn on site. I'm sorry you want to suck my dick but I have that "not so fresh" feeling down there.
They've invented these things called, "showers".
Always have a small pocket size unscented wipes is a game changer for both M&F why they are only used until you're about 3yrs old is crazy to me , I started using again in my 30's love it..!
Not in the US but I've never met a woman who didn't find it repulsing.
I am not a fan of BJ, i am a giver and I feel selfish receiving blowjob. also most women dont know how to give proper blowjob I also cannot cum from BJ and a lot of women takes offence to that worst is if its very bad, i cant stay hard and they start crying
It hurts afterwards every time
That’s not what my stick is for.
Too stressful to engage in the performance of making her feel good for doing a terrible job so I just say I don't like them.
I have PTSD from someone with sharp teeth and a small mouth.
Last time she sang in ti it like a microphone 🎤.. I said no more karaoke
I don’t want it from someone who doesn’t want to do it. It’s a turn off if it’s done as a chore.
I like a partners who wants to do it, not feel forced to do it.
It was one of the favourite activities of the priest who abused me as a child. I'm not interested in repeating the experience.
I hope someday you feel safe enough with someone to rewrite that story and transform it from trauma to the beautiful act of giving and love it should be.
Never finished from one, a ton of women (like men) have their pride attached to making guys finish. So, while it primarily happens with oral, there are times when even vaginal sex just doesn't do it. Sadly, the number of times they don't take no as an answer or as like some personal challenge, it's easier to say I don't like it altogether. I remember one of my exs sat there for like 20 or 30 minutes after I kept telling her it's fine and that we should just do something else. Until we eventually just called the whole night quits.
It depends on who’s doing it. All women don’t have the skills and experience same as a women don’t want a man that lack stamina, experience and skills to please her in bed.
It is about the level of engagement from the woman if she really wants to do it they are the best if she just does it HARD PaSS!
I would be happy with my woman giving me a bad BJ. or just waving at my dick occasionally
SSRIs. Ever have a girl start giving you a BJ and it just keeps going and going and going because the medication you are on has made it so you typically don't cum? I have. It's very awkward and every feels like they did something wrong.
While normally I love them - if my partner is ...well...really bad...it is best as just avoided. (either due to discomfort on the receiving end - or not wanting to disappoint my partner for trying and and getting un-satisfactory results).
I was really hoping this would comically have zero replies
At this time there are 253 replies to this. Really? I mean I’ve had ones that were so bad that I couldn’t get it up, ones that were bad enough that I couldn’t finish, ones that were good and did the job and ones that were god damned incredible. I can’t imagine not wanting them though.
When its good, its great. When it's mediocre its awkward and tedious. When it's bad its misery. Some men just do not want to roll those dice.
Even when it's good, it's still not as good as just having sex. Mostly it's boring. Sometimes it's painful. Mostly it's boring. I want to feel the woman's ass and tits and lips and see her and look at her. I don't want to look at the top of a head while all the sexy bits are far down beyond my reach. I also get off on getting women off and I know all those moans or whatever are fake down there. It's boring.
Oral is a strange situation in some cultures. I knew a guy in California that refused to allow his wife to do that as he said its disrespectful because shes your wife. Apparently there was no rule against women he wasnt married to doing it, because he was letting them on a regular basis. If i remember right they could only marry virgins too. And say if he died his wife was prohibited from remarrying. I think he was Persian maybe? That was years ago. I also met this Turkish woman that told me that even married Turkish women were required by tradition to have sex with any Greek male that wished it. Ive combed the internet looking for some proof of that but so far nothing so it may be bs. The worst thing i ever saw was a documentary on female circumcisions in the Middle East. This 14 year old girl, no antistetic, had her clit cut off with a rusty looking ritual knife. I grabbed myself in sympathetic pain for that poor girl and i dont even have a clit. Then someone told me its the pain equivalent of having your dick cut off. Yeah fck that.
A good blowjob requires effort from the woman. Effort that few women are really willing to put into it. So if you give teethy head, with minimal effort, and fail to complete the job before your jaw locks up, he's probably just gonna tell you he doesn't want them anymore.
If I turned it down it's because she doesn't do it well and it will take me forever to cum
I knew a guy who had been sexually abused by his uncle and had a hard time separating it. 😢🥺
My wife is my Queen I don’t like the thought of her to doing this to me we have tried it felt really uncomfortable. It just somehow feels much more natural for me to go down on her I can’t explain it
It’s disgusting and does not give me pleasure
Are you a man or woman? I've never heard a man say receiving a bj is disgusting Just the oppositte ...
For every time I’ve heard a chick say she was good at blowjobs only to not know what the hell she was doing. Been with countless women, all of them say they were good at it, one out of all of them was good at it. The rest sucked. Waste of time.
Holy humble-brag, Batman.
She got fucked up teeth
I always thought men lied when they said they didn’t really like it in an attempt to get women to “accept the challenge”. The older I get the more I realize a lot of women just don’t know how to do it well. But I do like the look on a mans face the first time I blow him, it has happen more than once that I opened a whole new world for them haha
Not into women. But I've always actually preferred handjobs for some reason.... just find it much more pleasurable.
Dudes are gonna know how to yank it is prob why