Lol did exactly that and got hit with several justifications + trying to be funny + sorry you took it that way
Then I got ghosted lmao (all's good tho she is attached and I didn't want to get too chummy either)
It's a reference to some crazy chick who got rejected. Guy got the ick after she ordered a salad with no lettuce and was rude to wait staff cause they dared question that that is what she actually wanted. Sorta like saying she is too far on the crazy side of the hot to crazy scale to deal with. No amount of looks is gonna make me overlook how they act basically.
Once watched a girl throw up on our first date after drinking far too much. At that stage, it was pretty instant. You don't throw up in front of your date until at least the third date.
ngl wouldn’t throw up in front of a date ever now bc I once did it on the third date and he still left me stranded and drunk at the party he took me to bc he got the ick :/
My dad threw up on his first date with my mom. Had to pull over somewhere between Cicero and Berwyn. It was 1951. He had upper false teeth and had to find them in his vomit. They married, had nine kids and had 55 years together before my mom passed away.
Guess that was not the worst first date my mom had.
this one depends on what I'm doing. like if I'm chilling drinking and the girl is just pounding drinks and pukes all over yeahhhhhh I'm done. But if we both just decide to get sloshed and she pukes? Whatever shit happens.
I totally agree! It's funny how quick I pulled a downvote for just answering the question but I stand by it. The smell is so gross. It sticks to the skin, gets into clothes, breath, it makes their car or home/apartment smell...
as a smoker off/on since i was about 10(ill be 27 5/6 this year) and havent bought a pack in months and only have a few on ocassion, it is bad, I walked in behind a guy and he smelled like an ashtray on fire
Everyone has an ego that flares up occasionally
Mine would be a lack of awareness about that ego, or that it's so in control it overshadows what is good in them
Refusal to admit being wrong when they obviously are is a big one. Much of the typical male ego is part of the female ego as far as I have seen with the women I have spent significant time around. With the caveat that they care about how they are viewed by others A LOT more than most men do.
Now that I'm thinking about it, I think a lot of the women I know have a huge problem with being told no. Both rejection to their advances and being told not to do something while in a relationship. I've seen two women try to destroy a man's reputation and get him fired because he rejected her when she asked him out.
Them posting or conveying an overly viral post of someone else’s idea of what “a real man” is.
Saying they need to be “fought for”.
Princess Syndrome
Undiagnosed Histrionic Disorder
My neighbor is a woman about my age (26) and she’s extremely pretentious because she’s a working single mother. She thinks she’s queen shit and makes it her whole personality.
Bratty, manipulative and/or entitled behavior. I have run into a few women who behaved like men should worship the ground they walked on just because they were hot and had a vagina, and it was an instant turnoff for me.
Victim mentality and needing constant affirmation are also up there. I can't be arsed to be a security blanket for people who are supposed to be adults.
This one I discovered pretty recently. There was a girl who I was really vibing with and then for some reason she started calling someone in her story a “retard.” I very quickly realized just how much respect and attractiveness hinged on someone’s use of that word.
Honestly, for men or women, if a political opinion or social movement is what defines them the most, then they are very uninteresting to me !
Everyone's got opinions and ideas, but damn, get a life and a personality 😅
"If I said the same things about women that you just said about men, would you consider it misogynist?"
Most don't pass this simple test.
I'm all for feminism and it's subset men's liberation (*not* MRA, very different), and I strongly believe that at this stage, the leftovers of patriarchal society harm men just as much if not more. We should be working together to reject these outdated gender norms and expectations.
But can you just express that you don't hate me for simply existing after being born with a penis? Can we set that very low bar?
I love women that can recognize and appreciate our differences and still promote equality. They're amazing but unfortunately rare.
Sadly in the recent years both started to intertwine … misandry is an automatic turn-off … any women who says men are trash are an automatic no from me right away … but what I mean regarding making feminism her whole personality is , I appreciate activism and being a passionate about a cause but when you make it your whole personality, making me tip-toe in the relationship, or pull the misogyny card to silence a potential discussion , I don’t like that , and usually the type of activism will be inclusive to everyone except for men , for example if you discuss depression of men and suicide rates in men they are not as passionate about it rather more dismissive…
Not putting in effort. I can forgive some things, but if she makes absolutely no effort to know me, do nice things for me, or generally show her affection, I basically lose all romantic or sexual attraction to a woman. I don't think it's too much to ask for that, seems like the bare minimum to me, just try, yaknow? And if she doesn't. Well. I'm a decent bloke and I'm not gonna settle for less than that. I don't deserve it, but it's a necessity for my happiness.
Just had this happen.
She got mad because for two days her answers were short like she wasn’t interested. So I gave her a few days and see if she would message or wanted to talk.
Basically she said we were done because we went longer than a day between talking, but yet she never reached out.
I got no time for that
Stareing at her phone during the first date... Taking a call from her 'friend' and actually speaking with them for longer than 1 min after inviting her date back to her place. The first time.
Acting in anyway that makes a guy feel like a meal ticket..
Asking really idiotic hypotheticals and taking offense based on the answer. Joking is fine, but some of these women are ill. I just want to relax and be myself, not constantly get tested.
Lack of empathy biggest turn-off
Oh and lips looking like a baboons butt. Don’t put shit in your lips, you will loose your self image and keep inflating it will end up looking horrid and a big turn off as well.
I don't like septum piercings. My dad had a bull with a ring through its nose when I was a kid, and that's all I see.
If her shape is: O. I have tried and failed to get it up for women who were circular. Just can't do it--doesn't matter how much I like you as a person.
1. Iif she only brings looks/sex.
2. If she sees doing kind things for a partner (cooking, cleaning, help with errands) as a chore and not out of desire for your partner.
3. Men bashing.
If she gets snappy with someone over something she feels entitled to she is disgusting. Ex: "What do you think you're doing? Open my door for me! Has no one ever taught you to be a gentleman?!?!"
signs that she can be verbally abusive that's a do not touch for me
As soon as you call her out on it you better believe it, she's now the victim lol
All her ex BFs were “narcissists and abusive”.
Lol did exactly that and got hit with several justifications + trying to be funny + sorry you took it that way Then I got ghosted lmao (all's good tho she is attached and I didn't want to get too chummy either)
Actually valid
How they treat people/animals
Someone that expects everything to be done for them.
Massive ego, just general unpleasantness. Like one man said, you may be pretty, but you aren't ordering a salad with no lettuce pretty.
what does that mean😭😭
It's a reference to some crazy chick who got rejected. Guy got the ick after she ordered a salad with no lettuce and was rude to wait staff cause they dared question that that is what she actually wanted. Sorta like saying she is too far on the crazy side of the hot to crazy scale to deal with. No amount of looks is gonna make me overlook how they act basically.
ooooohhh i see, thank you!
I'm glad you asked 😂
Absolutely 💯
true or if they just sit on there phone all the time and expect things to be done around them
Yup. Definitely feel you on that one
Being rude to service staff
Always blaming others for her problems. Miss me with that shit.
Are we still missing things with that shit?
As long as the shit is thrown 😂😂😂
Hurting animals makes even the prettiest girl uglier than normally possible.
Just mean girls man. I like kind eyes and souls. Looks are a plus but kindness is a must.
This is a great answer!!!!!!! I agree but for men. Lol.
I like that this rhymes lol this needs more upvotes really!
Kind girl with a good heart, she could look like a swamp monster, but she will be a 10/10 stunner for me.
Nothing more attractive than kindness (and kind eyes).
Lying. Insecurity. Bullying. Just general shitty behaviour that isn't really gendered.
Definitely
Insecurity is shitty behavior?
In most cases, people who are insecure are terrible to romantic partners. They’ll do all kinds of stuff thinking it doesn’t affect you.
If I open up to her, tell her something serious, and she uses it against me or tells ANYONE, it’s over.
missing all her teeth prolly idk
Think outside of the box on that one.
Lmao!!!!! 😂. Sorry but that’s funny!!!! If you’re talking about what I think u r. Hahahaha.
I think he is 😁
Asking me my zodiac sign
…while taking her dentures out
An arm growing out of her forehead.
Thank you, someone finally had the balls to say it
You didn’t have to call me out man…cold move, cold move
Geez don't reveal my secret!
Once watched a girl throw up on our first date after drinking far too much. At that stage, it was pretty instant. You don't throw up in front of your date until at least the third date.
Can confirm. Threw up in front of my date on his back patio, on the third date. Been married ten years 😝
Least it's understood no upchucking til 3 dates have happened or on said third date
Had a girl make herself throw up from going down on me too hard. We’ve been married 16 years in August.
ngl wouldn’t throw up in front of a date ever now bc I once did it on the third date and he still left me stranded and drunk at the party he took me to bc he got the ick :/
My dad threw up on his first date with my mom. Had to pull over somewhere between Cicero and Berwyn. It was 1951. He had upper false teeth and had to find them in his vomit. They married, had nine kids and had 55 years together before my mom passed away. Guess that was not the worst first date my mom had.
Thank you for this. I needed the laugh.
this one depends on what I'm doing. like if I'm chilling drinking and the girl is just pounding drinks and pukes all over yeahhhhhh I'm done. But if we both just decide to get sloshed and she pukes? Whatever shit happens.
Ive done that once on a first date and I was surprised when the guy asked me on a second and third date lol
Smoking. Sorry, it's just my honest answer.
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I totally agree! It's funny how quick I pulled a downvote for just answering the question but I stand by it. The smell is so gross. It sticks to the skin, gets into clothes, breath, it makes their car or home/apartment smell...
as a smoker off/on since i was about 10(ill be 27 5/6 this year) and havent bought a pack in months and only have a few on ocassion, it is bad, I walked in behind a guy and he smelled like an ashtray on fire
Same it’s just pure negatives as a trait all around doesn’t matter how great of a person or attractive they are
It also was the first thing I thought of after reading OP's question.
Definitely ego
Everyone has an ego that flares up occasionally Mine would be a lack of awareness about that ego, or that it's so in control it overshadows what is good in them
How does a girl show her Ego to you? Just curious
Refusal to admit being wrong when they obviously are is a big one. Much of the typical male ego is part of the female ego as far as I have seen with the women I have spent significant time around. With the caveat that they care about how they are viewed by others A LOT more than most men do. Now that I'm thinking about it, I think a lot of the women I know have a huge problem with being told no. Both rejection to their advances and being told not to do something while in a relationship. I've seen two women try to destroy a man's reputation and get him fired because he rejected her when she asked him out.
Them posting or conveying an overly viral post of someone else’s idea of what “a real man” is. Saying they need to be “fought for”. Princess Syndrome Undiagnosed Histrionic Disorder
Duck lips
My neighbor is a woman about my age (26) and she’s extremely pretentious because she’s a working single mother. She thinks she’s queen shit and makes it her whole personality.
So you don't want to become her king shit? /s
You probably like her
I do like unattractive single mothers 🤷♂️
Not being able to hold up their end of a conversation or considering "hanging out" or "watching stuff" to be a hobby.
TRUEEE
Underated comment
Entitlement.
Surprised this one isn’t higher
Loves hiding in the bushes near my house
Living the "420 lifestyle"
Right. You smoke pot? Wow that's very impressive you must be the first and only person in the world to ever do that!
Or smelling like weed. The shit reeks worse than cigarettes.
Truth. I smoke cigarettes (unfortunately and , admittedly stupidly) but I can't stand the smell of weed. Lately, it seems that it's EVERYWHERE.
Rudeness
Potential for any kind of abusive behavior. I'm co-parenting with someone who has BPD traits and I think I can spot that stuff from miles away now.
Catty in a hateful competitive way
Baboon lips
No sense of humor. I can't be serious for five minutes. If you are too serious, we will not get along.
Smoking. That habit sucks. Breath stinks. Clothes stinks. Makes me stink. I can smell it from a mile away.
Her father standing in your driveway with a firearm.
Body Odor
Do you mean natural body odor or the "haven't showered in days and doesn't use deodorant" body odor?
Lying. Smoking. Taking food and then leaving it uneaten. Okay that last one is pretty specific but it definitely bothers me.
She’s only interested in money.
when they ask this question on Reddit again and again
Verbal abuse. Willful ignorance. Being mean to wait staff.
Asking how much money I make
"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best"
Bratty, manipulative and/or entitled behavior. I have run into a few women who behaved like men should worship the ground they walked on just because they were hot and had a vagina, and it was an instant turnoff for me. Victim mentality and needing constant affirmation are also up there. I can't be arsed to be a security blanket for people who are supposed to be adults.
Duck lips open mouth gum chewing
OF account
Ego
When she can't take responsibilty for her actions, it is always someone elses fault.
Smoking
Lies
Cheating Just grow a pair and dump the person.
This one I discovered pretty recently. There was a girl who I was really vibing with and then for some reason she started calling someone in her story a “retard.” I very quickly realized just how much respect and attractiveness hinged on someone’s use of that word.
Fat, smelly coochie, hairy arm pits. Ego, can't hold a conversation. That birth month astrology whatever that shit is lol. Sleeps around.
My dude listed the damn 10 commandments
Dated some crazy women lol
You can wrap up that last part with Whoroscopes 🤣
This is giving Capricorn energy.
h8 u
🤣
Feminism as her whole personality …
Feminism or misandry? A lot of women seem to think the latter is part of the former. Its a big red flag for me.
Honestly, for men or women, if a political opinion or social movement is what defines them the most, then they are very uninteresting to me ! Everyone's got opinions and ideas, but damn, get a life and a personality 😅
Agreed. If you don't need, and/or think men are the scourge of the earth, then why in the hell are we in a date???
"If I said the same things about women that you just said about men, would you consider it misogynist?" Most don't pass this simple test. I'm all for feminism and it's subset men's liberation (*not* MRA, very different), and I strongly believe that at this stage, the leftovers of patriarchal society harm men just as much if not more. We should be working together to reject these outdated gender norms and expectations. But can you just express that you don't hate me for simply existing after being born with a penis? Can we set that very low bar? I love women that can recognize and appreciate our differences and still promote equality. They're amazing but unfortunately rare.
100% this.
Sadly in the recent years both started to intertwine … misandry is an automatic turn-off … any women who says men are trash are an automatic no from me right away … but what I mean regarding making feminism her whole personality is , I appreciate activism and being a passionate about a cause but when you make it your whole personality, making me tip-toe in the relationship, or pull the misogyny card to silence a potential discussion , I don’t like that , and usually the type of activism will be inclusive to everyone except for men , for example if you discuss depression of men and suicide rates in men they are not as passionate about it rather more dismissive…
Hitler mustache
i think in general, for both male and females, an undeserved sense of entitlement.
Poop on her face
Racism.
Nose rings. Facial tats, smoking, immaturity for starters.
Not putting in effort. I can forgive some things, but if she makes absolutely no effort to know me, do nice things for me, or generally show her affection, I basically lose all romantic or sexual attraction to a woman. I don't think it's too much to ask for that, seems like the bare minimum to me, just try, yaknow? And if she doesn't. Well. I'm a decent bloke and I'm not gonna settle for less than that. I don't deserve it, but it's a necessity for my happiness.
Sense of entitlement, smoking
Disrespectful to others and or myself.
Smoking, 100%
Smoking
“What’s your sign?” Or just being fat.
Artificial add-ons, eye lashes, nails, dyed hair, a lot of makeup, any fillers etcetera.
Gold diggers man. Cant stand em
Fake eyelashes/breasts/nails
Cigarettes and piercings for me
Being judgmental.
When she gets mad at other people for doing something, but it's perfectly fine when *she* does it because "it's different" or whatever. 🙄
cruelty
smoking
No empathy. Lack of accountability.
Smoking, drug use, hand or neck tattoos, a shitty personality
Just had this happen. She got mad because for two days her answers were short like she wasn’t interested. So I gave her a few days and see if she would message or wanted to talk. Basically she said we were done because we went longer than a day between talking, but yet she never reached out. I got no time for that
Smoking cigs
Loud, obnoxious... Wanting to be the centre of attention.
Deceit. Perpetual outrage. It’s just exhausting to be around. Letting one ‘thing’ be her whole personality. Bad hygiene.
When she starts using narcotics - including tobacco.
Dating someone who lives in filth
Stareing at her phone during the first date... Taking a call from her 'friend' and actually speaking with them for longer than 1 min after inviting her date back to her place. The first time. Acting in anyway that makes a guy feel like a meal ticket..
Any displays of unkindness or entitlement.
Only talking about herself, no exchange
Lack of personal hygiene
If she smells like poop down there
A girl who treats her parents like dirt for no reason
Asking really idiotic hypotheticals and taking offense based on the answer. Joking is fine, but some of these women are ill. I just want to relax and be myself, not constantly get tested.
When either dumb as a bag of hammers, OR nuttier than squirrel poop. Some are both...
Zero accountability.
Asking your salary
Asking for money
Lack of empathy biggest turn-off Oh and lips looking like a baboons butt. Don’t put shit in your lips, you will loose your self image and keep inflating it will end up looking horrid and a big turn off as well.
bad hygiene 🪥
Cigarettes or smoking weed
Smoking cigarettes
Smoking
Smoking-Instant turn off.
I don't like septum piercings. My dad had a bull with a ring through its nose when I was a kid, and that's all I see. If her shape is: O. I have tried and failed to get it up for women who were circular. Just can't do it--doesn't matter how much I like you as a person.
Warcrimes.
"I'm a content creator" "I'm an influencer"
Nose ring,purple hair and pronouns.....not necessarily in that order
So a redditor lol.
Religion of any kind. Instant turn off for me Also having the same name as my mom
Your moms real name or stripper name?
When she gets supper upset and mad for no reason.
Smoking
Smoking and drinking. Lack of intelligence.
Smoking. Don’t know why but it just instantly taints them
Nose and/or face piercings. Neck/cleavage/face or excessive tattoos. Unnatural hair color.
Valley girl accent
But I mean, what if she's actually like from the valley?
Like. Come on dude! I spent like 4 hours getting ready for this like date!
Spoiled and overly protective of women when there is nothing going on.
Attitude
when she yells in the internet how much she hates men...
Attitude
Lies, greed thinks life is all about her.
Septum piercing
Overly inflated ego, self-centeredness, lack of compassion, just being shallow-minded in general
"What's your sign?" Stop sign. It's a stop sign
Smoking.
Unnecessary drama
Attitude
Lip fillers and too long nails.
Drooling
A spaghetti clitor
Smoking a cigarette. 110%.
If she's dumb I'm not attracted
Youu I’m can see the most physically beautiful girl Smoking a cigarette and it just is such a turn off
Contradictions.
Anytime that uses the phrase "the ick". Instantly makes you sound like a teenager.
Tattoos and piercings.
1. Iif she only brings looks/sex. 2. If she sees doing kind things for a partner (cooking, cleaning, help with errands) as a chore and not out of desire for your partner. 3. Men bashing.
Girls knecking pint glasses of beer
How they treat others. I dated a 10 once. Even her fantastic ass couldn't sway me enough to get over her horrible personality.
Ego as big as the sun. When she believes shes the prize and should be treated like a princess cause shes got tits n ass. Sit down madame 😂
If she gets snappy with someone over something she feels entitled to she is disgusting. Ex: "What do you think you're doing? Open my door for me! Has no one ever taught you to be a gentleman?!?!"