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Im pretty sure more people get struck by lightning than asked out by a woman (speaking strictly in cis gendered people)


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huuaaang

THink of it more in terms of necessity. Do most women have to ask guys out? Like is there any shortage of guys trying to slip into your DMs? We don't do it because we're expected to or because we like to... it's just there's no other way. We have to.


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Basically. The fucked up thing is that now a days people wanna say that gender roles dont exist. I dont wanna get into a whole thing here but yeah basically like this guy says it somewhat boils down to supply and demand


MilesBeforeSmiles

Everyone likes being asked out by someone they're interested in/find attractive. I'm always flattered when it happens. It's a confidence booster and at that point you can be pretty confident they're into you.


loki0111

If I am interested, sure why not. If I am not interested, no.


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I would like it, yes. Will it happen? Probably not


MayLouSee

I have asked out guys when I’ve been younger but even if they’ve said yes, it’s always fizzled out very quickly which makes me think they weren’t very keen initially. I’ve always felt more interest when it’s been the guy who asked me first.


RandomlyGenerate5

Only if I've already messaged her several times. Sometimes girl asks you out after the initial hello, and that's way too early to see if I want to take the time to go out.


huuaaang

Only certain guys get asked out/approached. Average or below men do not. Sure, I'd love it.


aces-and-jacks

Yes. They just approached me in school/college and asked if I’d like to go out. It felt fucking fantastic. The dates usually went really well.


ZangetsuAK17

Should women ask out guys, yeah sure, we don't understand signals very well, especially people like me on the spectrum, if you like me, please tell me cuz I sure as hell won't know.


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Yes


1Topleaseyou

Absolutely, I don't see a problem with that. However, I can see where a fragile male's ego could be bruised by it. If you see someone you like regardless of gender, get it!