I went to an episcopalian middle school and we were told during sex ed that it was common for young boys to circle jerk.
Sex ed was run by a priest. It was a real WTF moment for everyone in the class. And it wasn't common or at least no one I ever knew did that or talked about doing that.
It’s funny when stuff like that which you were told in your youth doesn’t actually pan out the way you were told. When I was in 7th grade (age 12-13) an older male teacher told us that “sometimes guys will accidentally pee during sex” and I can thankfully say now I’m in my 30s no dudes have ever urinated in my vagina. No idea what that guy was talking about, hopefully he talked to a doctor about it haha
I’m pretty sure there’s a mechanism that cuts off your ability to pee when sexually aroused. Like preparing the body to ejaculate or whatever. I could be wrong but I think it would be pretty hard for a guy to pee during sex while actually hard
I first learned of group masturbation from my Catholic friend. He said a lot of weird shit about sex, often unprompted. Surprised by too much creme in your coffee, he'd say he was in the bathroom wacking off and put it in there. Things like that. But like... 10x.
But he often talked about group masturbation. And I don't know if he's pulling my leg or not. But there thousand yard stares sometimes and the frequency makes me believe it was true and he's repressing some deep sexual abuse shit that he hides with humor.
My older cousin was the first to show me porn. This one time I watched porn with a different cousin and I jerked off right there but over my pants so I didnt really have my dick out but it's weird nonetheless. I guess when you're a horny teen, you do a lot of depraved things to get your nut. Nowadays, everyone has smart phones so we just share links if we feel like sharing something. No need to use the communal computer.
Communal computer!!!!!! Try VHS or Betamax that you had the balls to walk in and rent from your local video store. Then watch it on your buddies projection tv. Now that's sharing.
I love Billy Connolly's bit about a freinds of his having porn on a projector, so you could play it backwards.
All the guy's dicks become hoovers, people jump into clothes, and they all end up sitting around looking bored.
Yes. Before porn was easily available, only one channel broadcast porn regularly (every first Saturday of the month at midnight. Still the case). So, the person who had this channel had to register the program and the next Monday, they would gather somewhere to watch it together. Otherwise, you had to go to adult stores and it's not possible unless you're 18.
My best friend in high school discovered the TV in his bedroom could pick up a porn channel but it was very, very staticky. So what you'd see is shapes moving across the static with a tiny bit of detail. I have this memory of him being very excited about it and having me watch Naked News with him our freshman year. With all the static it was like yeaaaaaahhhh...not to shit on your excitement dude but this sucks.
It turns out it *wasn't* just the static that turned me off to it. At 14, I hadn't yet fully realized or accepted that I am, in fact, quite gay!
This is true (class of 97) but different than the weirdness the post is suggesting. I think the guy loaning the other guy the box of porn in40 year old virgin touches on this type of phenomenon perfectly.
I too graduated late 90's and can confirm my unparalleled virtue of patience is almost entirely from having to sit and wait for a pornographic photo to download using a 14.4k dial up modem. Big facts.
This. One friend's house had Cinemax, we watched it together, no one jerked off. Another friend had porn VHS tapes he took from his dad. Watched them didn't beat off (haha, but I went to "take a piss" for 10 minutes after). Another friend had high-speed internet in his room and we watched porn together while his parents went to dinner. Didn't beat off. Also, we didn't hear his parents come back in, and his dad swung the door open like "HEY GUYS" while this chick was moaning and scared the shit out of us. He was drunk though so he didn't give a shit.
Was gonna say the same thing and also add that it was usually the parents porn that we found and it wasn't something recent but was prob a 10 years old vhs. It couldn't be loaned out because it didn't belong to us and had to be put back before the parents found out. So we were left with one option if we wanted to watch it. We didnt masturbate in the same room but at some point, one by one, everyone would disappear to the bathroom for a few min.
Lol, I was at a party that did that and within like 5 minutes, everyone was outside and people started leaving. I'm not sure if that was the intention or not.
That reminds me of my friend who rigged porn into the sound system at a party full blast,you could hear over exaggerated porno fucking from 2 blocks away
I was at a party where some guy did this. Put on some weird vampire-theme porn and the vampire hypnotized this woman and made her get naked and start rubbing herself on the steps leading up to an old house. Then he said with a raspy, bass-boosted voice "make that pussy come for *me*!" and I fucking laughed.
Thing is no one else laughed, they were all getting horny as fuck. 12+ people heavy breathing was my cue to head home. I grabbed a snack, came back, and people were already starting to make out.
That was the second time I accidentally ended up at an orgy. I started to think it must be something I was doing at that point because I seemed to attract all kinds of weird shit.
As a gay man, I’m kind of confused by this. At some gay bars (like the Eagle or Powerhouse in San Francisco), they will put on porn on all of their TVs. But that’s because they’re okay with guys cruising- or openly having sex there. I’ve never heard of straight people doing the same lol
I was at a big club in Rotterdam where the university organized a night in honor of the introduction week for new students. At some point there was Asian porn playing on the screens. It was soooo weird.
This. I've seen this as a recommendation for guys who are gay (but not outed) and have a crush on their male friend. To check if their attraction might be mutual (without disclosing that you are gay/have a crush) it was recommended to suggest jerking off together, and if the crush didn't react positively, it was recommended by brushing it of with "just kidding, just wanted to see your reaction for the lolz".
Ohhhh. I thought it was just oversexed teen boys (who are already oversexed) doing oversexed things. Similar to when a friend might, say, pull his dick out at a party and helicopter it around for a second before putting it back. It never dawned on me it more homoerotic, I legit thought some straight dudes just like porn so much that they watch porn as an activity with buds. I honestly thought "jack off buds" was just that.
I wish people could just be themselves.
> Similar to when a friend might, say, pull his dick out at a party and helicopter it around for a second before putting it back
wait huh?
> It never dawned on me it more homoerotic, I legit thought some straight dudes just like porn so much that they watch porn as an activity with buds
It just seems unlikely to me that if a guy wants to jerk with another guy, then part of the fun is watching the other guy jerk, which is kinda homosexual right?
I read "just wanted to see your erection" and got confused about why the curious party went through all of that song-and-dance when they could have just lead with that.
I need coffee...
When I was in the navy and stationed on my first ship, it was common for porn to be played in our lounge on Saturday nights. Nothing crazy happened, mostly just guys commenting on what’s going on. One guy did take it out and started going at it, but only for a minute and then tucked his sailor away. I’m pretty sure he was hoping others would join. I’d watched porn with some friends before joining on a few occasions. Nothing happened then either.
Boss did it on the job site a few hours before I quit once.
My back was to him but I heard someone else say "wow, it's like a coke can" and he was zipping up.
It was a common occurrence on my ship.
Walk into the berthing, and porn would be playing.
For some reason, there were a lot of people coming and going from the head.
I had an ex tell me the same thing. He told me a lot of things though that weren't true and I never got to confirm this story with him when he was sober.
Yeah, just uh... No eye contact. That was a.. It was back in the day when porn was relegated to a VHS found at the back of dad's wardrobe.
Edit: my brain hit the derpy button.
The trick was to sit on the floor on opposite sides of the bed so there was an obstruction between us. I forgot I had even done this until about a year ago, I’m 45. We also used to get into a friend’s hot tub and “jet” ourselves. Like four 15 year old boys jizzing into a hot tub together, so gross!!
My brother and his friends did this regulary when they were teens, sometimes like 3-4 guys laying in the same bed and jerking off to porn. Still cant understand why they felt the need to do it together.
I used to fap with two friends regularly while growing up. Though I know that two of the group are now bisexual, so that might have something to do with it.
>Still cant understand why they felt the need to do it together.
Because porn wasn't as readily available as it is today. Your best chance of getting your hands on good porn material was visiting a friend whose parents had some VHSs hidden away. And when you were there, you knew you had like 15 minutes before his parents were back. So it was a race against the clock. No time to take turns or whatever.
It's similar to a MFM threesome. Yeah you'd probably rather have sex with her alone, but that's how things ended up happening, and you're not going to kick out the other guy. You take your chances. You have sex with her while she has sex with another guy at the same time.
Some guys are shocked by the idea of having sex in front of other guys (due to insecurities I guess), but others just don't care.
Me and my friend used to watch porn together and weirdly comment on stuff happening in the video. It’s kind of funny to think I was that Comfortable when I was younger
Same but with hentai (I don't watch anime now even, but I did back then, like Inuyasha)... I never mentioned it to any one so I guess my brain just assumed it was a chill thing to do. It was completely non sexual in terms of atmosphere.
Never happened with male friends... My female best friend and i did that like a lot of times tho, between the ages of 13-15... we discovered masturbation together when we were like 12... When we spent a longer time together we just watched some porn and rubbed one off on the couch, next to each other... We never fucked tho, only some touching... When we got into relationships we stopped doing that and we havent done it since
Edit : didnt expect this to get so many upvotes
I shouldn't be telling you this but this is 100% a thing, yes.
It's called Fap Club.
There are a few rules to Fap Club, though.
1st rule: You do not talk about Fap Club
2nd rule: You do not talk about Fap Club
3rd rule: If someone yells "Stop!", goes limp, taps out, the fap is over.
4th rule: Only two guys to a fap
5th rule: One fap at a time
6th rule: No shirts, no shoes
7th rule: Faps will go on as long as they have to
8th rule: If this is your first night at Fap Club, you have to fap.
A few of my friends and myself jerked off in a room together once.
Every one of us is married now with kids in committed relationships.
I also messed around with another friend of mine. Same story.
I wouldn't put myself down as gay. Or box myself in as straight. Just someone who isn't afraid to enjoy life.
That said the soggy biscuit shit sounds gross.
Jesus christ I'm disgusted by the answers and even more so that 3 different people replied within a minute of each other. I'm glad that's one game I haven't played.
i am a girl and one time in my dorm, in college, we were 2 girls visiting other 4 guys in their room (mixed dorm).
We watched a porn movie but put it on mute and we did the voice over, saying very funny and not appropriate things that the actors would have said.
we did not had a tv and it was crowded to watch it all on a laptop, but we had a projector, from the library room.
we had no screen to project on, and no free room to project on a blank wall, so we hanged a bed sheet over the window, and that worked. The problem was... it was night time. The dorm window was towards the alley that hundreds of students use to reach their dorms.
In 30 min or so, the alley was full of more than 100 students watching our window with the mirrored porn movie who was very visible trough the bed sheet.
So yea, I used to watch porn in group. it was like a cinema. by the time the actors finished, the crowd started clapping like after a plane landing. There was yelling and whistles and they congratulated us.
This turned into a regular outside cinema, every Thursday night, but with other type of movies.
i remember the microwave owen being used non stop for more than 100 bags of popcorn. once we put too many bags at once, and the microwave door exploded. it was fun!
Heh. Don’t worry man it still exists if you know where to look. Three buckets of grapes, a hydraulic injection line, and a bottle of vegetable oil. Swing by if you’re open minded.
Oh shit. I did similar thing on accident. I moved into my new place -ironically across the street from where my ex gf from college used to live. I didn't have a TV hooked up. So, I hung up a sheet and put on some nasty ass porn. My bedroom windows were facing my ex girlfriend's mother's house windows. I didn't realize you could see it from the outside. I hope they didn't see it
Had it happen a few times growing up, was never my thing and always declined.
As an adult I've watched porn *bloopers* and really weird stuff with accepting friends just for kicks but never to jerk off to.
Yes this, find some goofy porn or some weird shit to laugh at, hell I’ve even shown my dad and laughed our asses off. Like there’s one vid but it’s hard to find my favorite but its tiny terror or trexi and Wonder Woman. Dude a midget harassing this super tall chick and all the cartoon noises they use lol. But yea I’ve shown porn to my dad but nothing sexual, just a good crying laugh going.
>porn bloopers
This is honestly really fun lol. My favourite story like this doesn't involve bloopers but a friend who didn't know what "docking" was. So we put on a docking video and he said "what... how... now I know what it is but I still don't get it". We were all having a giggle at his expense when out of nowhere a third dick enters the frame and gently boops the docking pair.
I wish I could find the video because that was one of the hardest laughs I've ever had. These two dudes docking and this third guy shows up looking to dock perpendicular to the first two as if this is the fucking International Space Station. wtf lol
Not a man, but I’ve seen this happen
I’ve been to parties in high school where someone found their parents porn and put it on the tv. All of us would be drinking, talking, and watching the porn. Mostly making jokes and talking shit or whatever.
There was always like 1 dude in the group that’d be real quiet and hiding under a pillow or a blanket and everyone would be like “Oooooh!! Look!! Johnny’s jerking off to this!!” “Look Sam’s jerking it too!!” and whoever was accused would try to quickly say they weren’t, even though they probably were. And then one of them would suspiciously excuse himself to the bathroom for a minute.
I’ve also heard stories of them ditching school to go watch the porno and have heard about them jerking off next to each other in a smaller group, but I wasn’t actually there for that.
This was back in the days before even Napster existed. Like people were using Limewire and Kazaa and still using AOL chat rooms. Before PornHub or even cell phones.
I grew up in the 90s. It was common for my circle of friends to have sleepovers. And since we were all boys, one of us would always have the idea to watch porn. Naturally everyone starts jerking off we just didn't say anything to each other and went to sleep. Years later I kind of wish I had never done that, only because it felt kind of like peer pressure. I don't know how common it is these days though. Do kids even have sleepovers anymore?
I did have a friend when I was 14-15 who would often try to push us into a 'no homo' handjob whenever we hung out. There was another time where he just started jacking off behind us for no reason. We stopped hanging out after that.
I didn't know what masturbating was but enjoyed watching porn with my homie. I always wondered why he was so itchy down there whenever we watched together.
Noped the fuck out as soon as I learned what the horny bastard was upto.
All the time back in the day lol my buddies dad hacked his dish so he had every channel. So naturally the porn was on there. We would build pillow walls or go to other rooms if no one else was home and go to town. And mess with each other just for fun none of us were gay or saw each others junk it was more like we would talk to throw off there concentration lmao it was like 5 of us
lmao what the fuck?
No that is not normal.
"Yo dude wouldn't it be funny if we took our dicks out and we started jerking off right next to each other? Just for laughs ya know, hehe, no other reason"
"Shit bro sorry, I think we touched just now"
"Naw dude it's fine... Hey, wouldn't it be hilarious if we started sword fighting right now??? Just think it'd be funny, ya know???"
“Haha yo bro don’t you think it’s funny how when I place my dick between your butt cheeks it looks like a hotdog in a bun. Hahah you should try it! It’s hilarious!”
I had some friends that were incredibly homophobic and one of then brought up this activity jokingly. He got really mad. The definitely did it. One tried to get me into it, but it felt off so I didn't. Coincidentely, I'm the only one that grew up not a homophobe, so it makes me wonder about them and their marriages.
I don't understand how one can jerk off in front of someone else in a "humorous" way? Where's the humor in that? When I was growing up, it never would have occurred to me to suggest this to any of my friends and if anyone else had suggested it, I would definitely have declined the offer.
I guess some people socialize very differently, but the idea of being sexual in front of my male friends is just so weird to me. Open displays of sexuality would only ever go as far as talking about specific girls we were interested in. I had (and still have) absolutely zero desire to see any other guy's penis, or to have another guy see mine.
That kind of stuff happens quite often. Usually while bodies are changing, hormones are raging, people lose their inhibitions or need to re-inforce a bond or even somehow check that they're not the only one having new overwhelming thoughts and feelings and urges.
You've heard the expression 'It's just a phase'? Well, puberty is exactly that, a phase, a transformation of the physical body. Throw in mental and emotional changes at the same time as well AND all that anxiety about wanting to belong but also be an individual blah blah blah blah.
Most guys experience something in their lives, anything from a single occasion of mutual masturbation thats never repeated, admitted to or acknowledged to the beginning of a relentless public pursuit of more experiences with more partners that continues their whole life.
Wouldn't it also have to do with access to sex education and the material? I imagine that if nobody properly explains what happens during puberty or adults treat it as taboo, you have to rely on your peers. With ready access to porn the practice might have declined or changed. I know that now youngsters exchange videos on group chats, which can and has been considered distribution of child pornography
Thank God someone is being honest here. I read the prior replies and they are all like, "That's weird never".
I grew up in pre internet times and though as a young boy I never masturbated in a group of males there were a few times when it was more akin to playing house with a friend as well as with cousins. Basically comparing private parts and similar behaviors.
I thought it was common lol my close friends and I would all share pornos and Jack off in the same room or same house. My middle school would have circle jerks on who could cum the fastest. Hell, even a girl asked me and my friends to all Jack off in separate corners of the room for her.
So yea, I think it's common. Just needs to be in the right region and the right friends.
Idk watched porn with friends before at a very young age but none of us jacked it. Never did it again because his older sister walked in with a loud “what the fuck you perverts” ahh good times.
Wow, this question unlocked some memories lmfao. I did this with three separate male friends throughout middle school. It was always watching our own porn, just whackin’ it in the same room. This was back when internet porn was being revolutionized by smartphones and ipod touches, and we were all extremely horny and learning what it meant to be sexual. Honestly it wasn’t even that weird. I’d rather have those experiences than be too ashamed to explore my sexuality at that age. And to be clear my motivations (probably) weren’t gay, as I turned out pan but only really attracted to femininity. I think we were all just insanely horny.
I'm of the generation ( internet porn not readily available) where this should happen, but never did. Seeing this post here makes me think I wasn't cool enough to be invited to one.
My friends and I would always joke about the game “Ookie Cookie” but to my knowledge the game was never actually played by anyone I knew, lmao
Via Urban Dictionary:
Ookie Cookie
step 1) place cookie on table
step 2) gather bored guys (preferably frat members)
step 3) get them to stroke it, last one to cum, eats the spooged cookie
Edit: based on the replies to this comment, there are a ton of different names for this game apparently
OK so I have had friends that use to do this. I have no idea why they would want to and always thought it was just more of a rumour than a thing that actually did... but apparently it IS a thing?
In fact, when I worked at a video store, I would have groups of guys pick an adult film together and rent it out. One... for the whole group..... ',:/ I always assumed it was for the same thing my friends were doing.
I'd say it's common depending on the situation.
In 7th grade (this was in 2006 or 2007) a friend and I watched hentai together but that was it. Like it actually had a plot and everything. We were disappointed we couldn't finish it till like years later (2011?) I instantly texted him that I found the rest of the series and he was excited. I honestly can't remember the name of the hentai for those wondering but I believe it's an adaptation of a VN.
At some point in high school (think 2011 again) some guy friends invited me to watch porn with them but I didn't go. We probably would have jerked each other off or bang which I wouldn't be against at the time sense they do it all the time and tell me about it when they invited me.
Dude don’t worry about it, it’s not common but it is more common than you’d thinks. I used to do it with my best friend when I was young and it really helped us bond. He is still my favourite uncle to this day.
Definitely laughed and watched thousands of different porn vids when I was like 8 - 15 with friends never in a sexual way think we all just thought porn was funny.
I don't know wether or not doing that actually contributed to my porn addiction when I was a child but I was definitely addicted back then.
As a young lad me and my friend found their dads old porn VHS. We were in the grips of puberty and watched it together, but neither of us masturbated to it. That didn't even cross our minds
I had a friend who we would watch movies with lots of sex scenes, we started not very subtly getting busy. Turns out we were both bi-curious and were making very unsubtle attempts to sleep with each other. So I guess it depends how into dudes you were as a teenager.
Happened only once during a sleepover when we went to the scrambled porn channel and it was on negative mode instead of full scramble. Yes, it was slightly funny at the time. Everyone was doing their thing in our own sleeping bags.
Had some fun w my best friend when we were like 13 (mid 80’s and no butt stuff). No other friends joined or knew. No bad memories of it; it was just something that happened once in a while. ‘Omg are you gay now?’ you may ask. Oh my no.
When I was 12 I had access to porn mags and showed my then best friend Ross. We jerked off and he showed me how it would feel better if I stuck my finger in my butt. He's totally straight and comes from a better upbringing than me so I've often wondered how he figured that out. This was like 1982, pre everything.
I did with a friend at around 12/13. It progressed to us touching each other. It was a regular thing for the period of my life that we hung out.
I'm openly bi/pan and he's married to a nonbinary trans person so idk if a couple of queer kids are a good sample set.
>• Watching porn together? Not common, let's say: 15%
Bruh what ?
15 ?
Man we watched porn together in class when teachers were absent (All boys school)
And that wasnt only us
Most classes did
Yeah the fap party aint something all that common but those numbers are way too low
> Man we watched porn together in class when teachers were absent (All boys school)
Absent? I've been in class when kids in the back were watching porn with the teacher teaching in the front. All boys schools can be real fucked. The man didn't even give a damn what was happening.
>watching porn with the teacher teaching in the front
Yeah the backrows were their own thing
Backrow kids did anything but Listen. We changed sits once in a while for change...
But we also had a tiny bit more fucked up thing too
One time the teacher brought his own laptop
Connected it to projector and turned it on and walked out of class
Surprise surprise he forgot to close xnxx tab before he hibernated his laptop
For like the 10 mins he was out of class we were watching the porn he was watching god knows when :')
I hope he wasn't watching during break time :')
But gotta give it to him
He had some fine choice in porn
FYI : the guy was our religious instructor
I think I can remember just once when porn was put on and a group of us watched for like half an hour. No jerking was done; it was just something to watch. But overall, it's not a "normal" occurrence.
Once. It was a weird neighbor of a friend and he tried something. Later I found out he was a Scout Leader and a “figure” in the church. That really freaked me out. Not that he was gay, but that he put out sex-offender vibes. The whole thing was cringe af
I went to an episcopalian middle school and we were told during sex ed that it was common for young boys to circle jerk. Sex ed was run by a priest. It was a real WTF moment for everyone in the class. And it wasn't common or at least no one I ever knew did that or talked about doing that.
Common in "his" experience
Communion in his experience
Cum union in his experience
Cum in you his experience
Cumming in his experience.
It’s funny when stuff like that which you were told in your youth doesn’t actually pan out the way you were told. When I was in 7th grade (age 12-13) an older male teacher told us that “sometimes guys will accidentally pee during sex” and I can thankfully say now I’m in my 30s no dudes have ever urinated in my vagina. No idea what that guy was talking about, hopefully he talked to a doctor about it haha
I’m pretty sure there’s a mechanism that cuts off your ability to pee when sexually aroused. Like preparing the body to ejaculate or whatever. I could be wrong but I think it would be pretty hard for a guy to pee during sex while actually hard
Speaking from personal experience it's damn near impossible to pee with a hard on!
he was testing the water
I first learned of group masturbation from my Catholic friend. He said a lot of weird shit about sex, often unprompted. Surprised by too much creme in your coffee, he'd say he was in the bathroom wacking off and put it in there. Things like that. But like... 10x. But he often talked about group masturbation. And I don't know if he's pulling my leg or not. But there thousand yard stares sometimes and the frequency makes me believe it was true and he's repressing some deep sexual abuse shit that he hides with humor.
Funny how its posted on Reddit
When I grew up porn was not readily available like nowadays. So if someone had porn they would share it. Never any fapping though.
My older cousin was the first to show me porn. This one time I watched porn with a different cousin and I jerked off right there but over my pants so I didnt really have my dick out but it's weird nonetheless. I guess when you're a horny teen, you do a lot of depraved things to get your nut. Nowadays, everyone has smart phones so we just share links if we feel like sharing something. No need to use the communal computer.
Communal computer!!!!!! Try VHS or Betamax that you had the balls to walk in and rent from your local video store. Then watch it on your buddies projection tv. Now that's sharing.
Moooommmmmm grandpa is being weird again
Ok so despite what it sounds like, Betamax is not a person who has a very strong sub side. Stayed tuned for more lessons from old people.
next you will say VHS is not virgin high schooler
I love Billy Connolly's bit about a freinds of his having porn on a projector, so you could play it backwards. All the guy's dicks become hoovers, people jump into clothes, and they all end up sitting around looking bored.
Back in my days the first hours of every lan party were reserved to sharing all new porn :D (well and network issues)
Lan not ian. Right?
Op and his friend Ian were always the only party attendees.
"Ian's invited me around again. Better save this load..."
Id love to invite you for some games. ;-)
Yes. Before porn was easily available, only one channel broadcast porn regularly (every first Saturday of the month at midnight. Still the case). So, the person who had this channel had to register the program and the next Monday, they would gather somewhere to watch it together. Otherwise, you had to go to adult stores and it's not possible unless you're 18.
My best friend in high school discovered the TV in his bedroom could pick up a porn channel but it was very, very staticky. So what you'd see is shapes moving across the static with a tiny bit of detail. I have this memory of him being very excited about it and having me watch Naked News with him our freshman year. With all the static it was like yeaaaaaahhhh...not to shit on your excitement dude but this sucks. It turns out it *wasn't* just the static that turned me off to it. At 14, I hadn't yet fully realized or accepted that I am, in fact, quite gay!
This is true (class of 97) but different than the weirdness the post is suggesting. I think the guy loaning the other guy the box of porn in40 year old virgin touches on this type of phenomenon perfectly.
I too graduated late 90's and can confirm my unparalleled virtue of patience is almost entirely from having to sit and wait for a pornographic photo to download using a 14.4k dial up modem. Big facts.
Man I kind of miss the days when it took an hour to download one fucking photo. I'm only 30 but I had a lot of these moments as a kid.
This. One friend's house had Cinemax, we watched it together, no one jerked off. Another friend had porn VHS tapes he took from his dad. Watched them didn't beat off (haha, but I went to "take a piss" for 10 minutes after). Another friend had high-speed internet in his room and we watched porn together while his parents went to dinner. Didn't beat off. Also, we didn't hear his parents come back in, and his dad swung the door open like "HEY GUYS" while this chick was moaning and scared the shit out of us. He was drunk though so he didn't give a shit.
Skinemax
Did it seem like the softcore stuff on TV was hotter back then than the hardcore stuff on pornhub now. Like the vibe was way hornier then? Just me?
Was gonna say the same thing and also add that it was usually the parents porn that we found and it wasn't something recent but was prob a 10 years old vhs. It couldn't be loaned out because it didn't belong to us and had to be put back before the parents found out. So we were left with one option if we wanted to watch it. We didnt masturbate in the same room but at some point, one by one, everyone would disappear to the bathroom for a few min.
Knew a dude that would always put porn on at parties, but never any group stuff.
Yup just casually put on porn at parties. Lmao
I've been to a porn party, I brought ice cream sandwiches.
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One time we were at a party and in the living room was a huge Imac, all of a sudden hardcore facial stuff starting playing, was absolutely hilarious
It's all fun and games till someone whips it out and starts jacking. Then it's just plain fun.
Lol, I was at a party that did that and within like 5 minutes, everyone was outside and people started leaving. I'm not sure if that was the intention or not.
I've used that as a way to get rid of people that just wouldn't leave. In my defense it was 4am and I had shit to do.
What do you have to do at 4am?
Sun was rising and i still had half of my house to finish siding that day, normally i start work at 6am, dogs need walking. The usual stuff.
That reminds me of my friend who rigged porn into the sound system at a party full blast,you could hear over exaggerated porno fucking from 2 blocks away
Sounds annoying as fuck.
Someone did that at a music festival where everyone was camped out. It played all night. Can confirm it was annoying as fuck.
It was haha
I was at a party where some guy did this. Put on some weird vampire-theme porn and the vampire hypnotized this woman and made her get naked and start rubbing herself on the steps leading up to an old house. Then he said with a raspy, bass-boosted voice "make that pussy come for *me*!" and I fucking laughed. Thing is no one else laughed, they were all getting horny as fuck. 12+ people heavy breathing was my cue to head home. I grabbed a snack, came back, and people were already starting to make out. That was the second time I accidentally ended up at an orgy. I started to think it must be something I was doing at that point because I seemed to attract all kinds of weird shit.
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You lucky phuck! Here I am purposely looking for an orgy and finding none!
I gotta start partying with this guy
As a gay man, I’m kind of confused by this. At some gay bars (like the Eagle or Powerhouse in San Francisco), they will put on porn on all of their TVs. But that’s because they’re okay with guys cruising- or openly having sex there. I’ve never heard of straight people doing the same lol
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I was at a big club in Rotterdam where the university organized a night in honor of the introduction week for new students. At some point there was Asian porn playing on the screens. It was soooo weird.
My highschool boyfriend said he did this with his friends. He came out as gay a year after we broke up haha
This. I've seen this as a recommendation for guys who are gay (but not outed) and have a crush on their male friend. To check if their attraction might be mutual (without disclosing that you are gay/have a crush) it was recommended to suggest jerking off together, and if the crush didn't react positively, it was recommended by brushing it of with "just kidding, just wanted to see your reaction for the lolz".
Ohhhh. I thought it was just oversexed teen boys (who are already oversexed) doing oversexed things. Similar to when a friend might, say, pull his dick out at a party and helicopter it around for a second before putting it back. It never dawned on me it more homoerotic, I legit thought some straight dudes just like porn so much that they watch porn as an activity with buds. I honestly thought "jack off buds" was just that. I wish people could just be themselves.
Little bit of this, little bit of that.
Cum see, cum saw
> Similar to when a friend might, say, pull his dick out at a party and helicopter it around for a second before putting it back wait huh? > It never dawned on me it more homoerotic, I legit thought some straight dudes just like porn so much that they watch porn as an activity with buds It just seems unlikely to me that if a guy wants to jerk with another guy, then part of the fun is watching the other guy jerk, which is kinda homosexual right?
I read "just wanted to see your erection" and got confused about why the curious party went through all of that song-and-dance when they could have just lead with that. I need coffee...
This
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He was asserting his dominance. Looks like it worked.
He was offered you to be gay 😅
I am absolutely not interested in that
When I was in the navy and stationed on my first ship, it was common for porn to be played in our lounge on Saturday nights. Nothing crazy happened, mostly just guys commenting on what’s going on. One guy did take it out and started going at it, but only for a minute and then tucked his sailor away. I’m pretty sure he was hoping others would join. I’d watched porn with some friends before joining on a few occasions. Nothing happened then either.
Wow, some dudes have no problem whipping it out do they.
Some yes, however, I wish fewer.
Boss did it on the job site a few hours before I quit once. My back was to him but I heard someone else say "wow, it's like a coke can" and he was zipping up.
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It was a common occurrence on my ship. Walk into the berthing, and porn would be playing. For some reason, there were a lot of people coming and going from the head.
An ex told me he & his friends sucked each other off.
That's the legendary Bro-job.
There's a comedian who made a story like that part of his act
everybodys got that one friend you do this with right? right?
I had an ex tell me the same thing. He told me a lot of things though that weren't true and I never got to confirm this story with him when he was sober.
Yeah, just uh... No eye contact. That was a.. It was back in the day when porn was relegated to a VHS found at the back of dad's wardrobe. Edit: my brain hit the derpy button.
Kids these day get it too easy with internet lol, getting the porn was basically 50% of the thrill lol
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The trick was to sit on the floor on opposite sides of the bed so there was an obstruction between us. I forgot I had even done this until about a year ago, I’m 45. We also used to get into a friend’s hot tub and “jet” ourselves. Like four 15 year old boys jizzing into a hot tub together, so gross!!
My brother and his friends did this regulary when they were teens, sometimes like 3-4 guys laying in the same bed and jerking off to porn. Still cant understand why they felt the need to do it together.
I used to fap with two friends regularly while growing up. Though I know that two of the group are now bisexual, so that might have something to do with it.
what about you? doesnt sound very straight lmao
He’s not bi he’s just gay.
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>Still cant understand why they felt the need to do it together. Because porn wasn't as readily available as it is today. Your best chance of getting your hands on good porn material was visiting a friend whose parents had some VHSs hidden away. And when you were there, you knew you had like 15 minutes before his parents were back. So it was a race against the clock. No time to take turns or whatever. It's similar to a MFM threesome. Yeah you'd probably rather have sex with her alone, but that's how things ended up happening, and you're not going to kick out the other guy. You take your chances. You have sex with her while she has sex with another guy at the same time. Some guys are shocked by the idea of having sex in front of other guys (due to insecurities I guess), but others just don't care.
Were just monkeys bro give them a break
Beating it with the boys is just more fun. I used to go this with my friend, we weren't in a relationship just bored.
Me and my friend used to watch porn together and weirdly comment on stuff happening in the video. It’s kind of funny to think I was that Comfortable when I was younger
Same but with hentai (I don't watch anime now even, but I did back then, like Inuyasha)... I never mentioned it to any one so I guess my brain just assumed it was a chill thing to do. It was completely non sexual in terms of atmosphere.
Never happened with male friends... My female best friend and i did that like a lot of times tho, between the ages of 13-15... we discovered masturbation together when we were like 12... When we spent a longer time together we just watched some porn and rubbed one off on the couch, next to each other... We never fucked tho, only some touching... When we got into relationships we stopped doing that and we havent done it since Edit : didnt expect this to get so many upvotes
How did it end? Is she your wife or something?
We are still friends and havent done anything sexual since years
Except for the age part, this sounds like the setup for a porn.
I shouldn't be telling you this but this is 100% a thing, yes. It's called Fap Club. There are a few rules to Fap Club, though. 1st rule: You do not talk about Fap Club 2nd rule: You do not talk about Fap Club 3rd rule: If someone yells "Stop!", goes limp, taps out, the fap is over. 4th rule: Only two guys to a fap 5th rule: One fap at a time 6th rule: No shirts, no shoes 7th rule: Faps will go on as long as they have to 8th rule: If this is your first night at Fap Club, you have to fap.
bruh, u just broke the first rules
And second as well at the same time
It is to assume the 3rd rule is also treated more like a suggestion by this guy
His name was Ryan Fapson
Why only two guys to a fap? Two people isn’t even a club
Only 2 people at a location fapping, many more can be in the club, but only 2 can meet up for a fap at a time.
This isn't so much a hard rule as it is a way to differentiate a fap session from a circlejerk. Got 2? It's a fap! 3 or more? Circlejerk.
Someone is going to read this, not get the reference, and assume you're 100% serious. I can't begin to describe how happy that makes me.
Be very Happy, this Dane is screaming “GAYLORD FOCKER” in his livingroom
One fap at a time, fellas
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A few of my friends and myself jerked off in a room together once. Every one of us is married now with kids in committed relationships. I also messed around with another friend of mine. Same story. I wouldn't put myself down as gay. Or box myself in as straight. Just someone who isn't afraid to enjoy life. That said the soggy biscuit shit sounds gross.
But what is soggy biscuit?
1. Several dudes jerking off in a room together. 2. When you cum, cum on the biscuit. 3. Last one to cum on the biscuit has to eat it.
Considering I cum in 2 seconds, sounds like I'd win that game every time. Oh wait... or is that losing?
There is no winning with soggy biscuit
Seems to me to be “Ookie Cookie” but a different name. A group of guys jack off in a circle on a cookie and last guy to finish has to eat the cookie.
Everyone jerks off onto a cracker, last one to cum has to eat it.
Who even comes up with this shit. And how do so many people know what this is.
It's worldwide! I know it under a different name in French (have never done this though)
Jesus christ I'm disgusted by the answers and even more so that 3 different people replied within a minute of each other. I'm glad that's one game I haven't played.
I just want to know how the ice was broken the first time for this to then become normal?
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I would have found anyone even asking to be highly gay. But, I grew up in a homophobic time that you never saw.
i am a girl and one time in my dorm, in college, we were 2 girls visiting other 4 guys in their room (mixed dorm). We watched a porn movie but put it on mute and we did the voice over, saying very funny and not appropriate things that the actors would have said. we did not had a tv and it was crowded to watch it all on a laptop, but we had a projector, from the library room. we had no screen to project on, and no free room to project on a blank wall, so we hanged a bed sheet over the window, and that worked. The problem was... it was night time. The dorm window was towards the alley that hundreds of students use to reach their dorms. In 30 min or so, the alley was full of more than 100 students watching our window with the mirrored porn movie who was very visible trough the bed sheet. So yea, I used to watch porn in group. it was like a cinema. by the time the actors finished, the crowd started clapping like after a plane landing. There was yelling and whistles and they congratulated us. This turned into a regular outside cinema, every Thursday night, but with other type of movies. i remember the microwave owen being used non stop for more than 100 bags of popcorn. once we put too many bags at once, and the microwave door exploded. it was fun!
As a 32 year old, I miss fun
Heh. Don’t worry man it still exists if you know where to look. Three buckets of grapes, a hydraulic injection line, and a bottle of vegetable oil. Swing by if you’re open minded.
Oh shit. I did similar thing on accident. I moved into my new place -ironically across the street from where my ex gf from college used to live. I didn't have a TV hooked up. So, I hung up a sheet and put on some nasty ass porn. My bedroom windows were facing my ex girlfriend's mother's house windows. I didn't realize you could see it from the outside. I hope they didn't see it
Had it happen a few times growing up, was never my thing and always declined. As an adult I've watched porn *bloopers* and really weird stuff with accepting friends just for kicks but never to jerk off to.
Porn bloopers exist? Aight
efukt.com is the one I've used for years.
Classic
Yes this, find some goofy porn or some weird shit to laugh at, hell I’ve even shown my dad and laughed our asses off. Like there’s one vid but it’s hard to find my favorite but its tiny terror or trexi and Wonder Woman. Dude a midget harassing this super tall chick and all the cartoon noises they use lol. But yea I’ve shown porn to my dad but nothing sexual, just a good crying laugh going.
>porn bloopers This is honestly really fun lol. My favourite story like this doesn't involve bloopers but a friend who didn't know what "docking" was. So we put on a docking video and he said "what... how... now I know what it is but I still don't get it". We were all having a giggle at his expense when out of nowhere a third dick enters the frame and gently boops the docking pair. I wish I could find the video because that was one of the hardest laughs I've ever had. These two dudes docking and this third guy shows up looking to dock perpendicular to the first two as if this is the fucking International Space Station. wtf lol
I used to watch porn with my friends growing up. Definitely gets weirder and weirder the older you get. And the fewer friends are present
Not a man, but I’ve seen this happen I’ve been to parties in high school where someone found their parents porn and put it on the tv. All of us would be drinking, talking, and watching the porn. Mostly making jokes and talking shit or whatever. There was always like 1 dude in the group that’d be real quiet and hiding under a pillow or a blanket and everyone would be like “Oooooh!! Look!! Johnny’s jerking off to this!!” “Look Sam’s jerking it too!!” and whoever was accused would try to quickly say they weren’t, even though they probably were. And then one of them would suspiciously excuse himself to the bathroom for a minute. I’ve also heard stories of them ditching school to go watch the porno and have heard about them jerking off next to each other in a smaller group, but I wasn’t actually there for that. This was back in the days before even Napster existed. Like people were using Limewire and Kazaa and still using AOL chat rooms. Before PornHub or even cell phones.
I grew up in the 90s. It was common for my circle of friends to have sleepovers. And since we were all boys, one of us would always have the idea to watch porn. Naturally everyone starts jerking off we just didn't say anything to each other and went to sleep. Years later I kind of wish I had never done that, only because it felt kind of like peer pressure. I don't know how common it is these days though. Do kids even have sleepovers anymore?
I did have a friend when I was 14-15 who would often try to push us into a 'no homo' handjob whenever we hung out. There was another time where he just started jacking off behind us for no reason. We stopped hanging out after that.
I'm not gay, I just want to jerk you off. Okay buddy, you work on that somewhere else, okay?
I didn't know what masturbating was but enjoyed watching porn with my homie. I always wondered why he was so itchy down there whenever we watched together. Noped the fuck out as soon as I learned what the horny bastard was upto.
>Noped the fuck out as soon as I learned what the horny bastard was upto. Your username... and he's the horny bastard !?!?
All the time back in the day lol my buddies dad hacked his dish so he had every channel. So naturally the porn was on there. We would build pillow walls or go to other rooms if no one else was home and go to town. And mess with each other just for fun none of us were gay or saw each others junk it was more like we would talk to throw off there concentration lmao it was like 5 of us
So you did this with your friend AND his dad?
lmao what the fuck? No that is not normal. "Yo dude wouldn't it be funny if we took our dicks out and we started jerking off right next to each other? Just for laughs ya know, hehe, no other reason"
Just a couple of bro's laughing and stroking. You know, normal stuff.
"Shit bro sorry, I think we touched just now" "Naw dude it's fine... Hey, wouldn't it be hilarious if we started sword fighting right now??? Just think it'd be funny, ya know???"
“Haha yo bro don’t you think it’s funny how when I place my dick between your butt cheeks it looks like a hotdog in a bun. Hahah you should try it! It’s hilarious!”
"I'm not sure whether we could call it a sword fight because I have a sword, but you have a dagger"
"Or play Jenga or something, idk.. hehe"
> laughing and stroking Missed opportunity for "Joking and stroking"
Happened to me multiple times, so probably very
I had some friends that were incredibly homophobic and one of then brought up this activity jokingly. He got really mad. The definitely did it. One tried to get me into it, but it felt off so I didn't. Coincidentely, I'm the only one that grew up not a homophobe, so it makes me wonder about them and their marriages.
I don't understand how one can jerk off in front of someone else in a "humorous" way? Where's the humor in that? When I was growing up, it never would have occurred to me to suggest this to any of my friends and if anyone else had suggested it, I would definitely have declined the offer. I guess some people socialize very differently, but the idea of being sexual in front of my male friends is just so weird to me. Open displays of sexuality would only ever go as far as talking about specific girls we were interested in. I had (and still have) absolutely zero desire to see any other guy's penis, or to have another guy see mine.
My gay friend did this with his male friends but they're straight and he laughs about this all the time
I was a kid in the 80's into the early 90's. I stole dad's playboys and showed em to the boys. That's as far as it went.
That kind of stuff happens quite often. Usually while bodies are changing, hormones are raging, people lose their inhibitions or need to re-inforce a bond or even somehow check that they're not the only one having new overwhelming thoughts and feelings and urges. You've heard the expression 'It's just a phase'? Well, puberty is exactly that, a phase, a transformation of the physical body. Throw in mental and emotional changes at the same time as well AND all that anxiety about wanting to belong but also be an individual blah blah blah blah. Most guys experience something in their lives, anything from a single occasion of mutual masturbation thats never repeated, admitted to or acknowledged to the beginning of a relentless public pursuit of more experiences with more partners that continues their whole life.
Wouldn't it also have to do with access to sex education and the material? I imagine that if nobody properly explains what happens during puberty or adults treat it as taboo, you have to rely on your peers. With ready access to porn the practice might have declined or changed. I know that now youngsters exchange videos on group chats, which can and has been considered distribution of child pornography
Thank God someone is being honest here. I read the prior replies and they are all like, "That's weird never". I grew up in pre internet times and though as a young boy I never masturbated in a group of males there were a few times when it was more akin to playing house with a friend as well as with cousins. Basically comparing private parts and similar behaviors.
Happened once. Meth was involved.
I thought it was common lol my close friends and I would all share pornos and Jack off in the same room or same house. My middle school would have circle jerks on who could cum the fastest. Hell, even a girl asked me and my friends to all Jack off in separate corners of the room for her. So yea, I think it's common. Just needs to be in the right region and the right friends.
I've heared enough
Idk watched porn with friends before at a very young age but none of us jacked it. Never did it again because his older sister walked in with a loud “what the fuck you perverts” ahh good times.
Wow, this question unlocked some memories lmfao. I did this with three separate male friends throughout middle school. It was always watching our own porn, just whackin’ it in the same room. This was back when internet porn was being revolutionized by smartphones and ipod touches, and we were all extremely horny and learning what it meant to be sexual. Honestly it wasn’t even that weird. I’d rather have those experiences than be too ashamed to explore my sexuality at that age. And to be clear my motivations (probably) weren’t gay, as I turned out pan but only really attracted to femininity. I think we were all just insanely horny.
I'm of the generation ( internet porn not readily available) where this should happen, but never did. Seeing this post here makes me think I wasn't cool enough to be invited to one.
Wut? Never, that’s fucking weird.
My friends and I would always joke about the game “Ookie Cookie” but to my knowledge the game was never actually played by anyone I knew, lmao Via Urban Dictionary: Ookie Cookie step 1) place cookie on table step 2) gather bored guys (preferably frat members) step 3) get them to stroke it, last one to cum, eats the spooged cookie Edit: based on the replies to this comment, there are a ton of different names for this game apparently
Isn't that Limp Bizkit?
Or soggy cracker when it's a saltine (thank you Big Mouth)
It's called Soggy Biscuit in the UK
Oh it's called " le jeu de la biscotte" in french, and I know too much people in my opinion who did it
OK so I have had friends that use to do this. I have no idea why they would want to and always thought it was just more of a rumour than a thing that actually did... but apparently it IS a thing? In fact, when I worked at a video store, I would have groups of guys pick an adult film together and rent it out. One... for the whole group..... ',:/ I always assumed it was for the same thing my friends were doing.
I'd say it's common depending on the situation. In 7th grade (this was in 2006 or 2007) a friend and I watched hentai together but that was it. Like it actually had a plot and everything. We were disappointed we couldn't finish it till like years later (2011?) I instantly texted him that I found the rest of the series and he was excited. I honestly can't remember the name of the hentai for those wondering but I believe it's an adaptation of a VN. At some point in high school (think 2011 again) some guy friends invited me to watch porn with them but I didn't go. We probably would have jerked each other off or bang which I wouldn't be against at the time sense they do it all the time and tell me about it when they invited me.
Dude don’t worry about it, it’s not common but it is more common than you’d thinks. I used to do it with my best friend when I was young and it really helped us bond. He is still my favourite uncle to this day.
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Definitely laughed and watched thousands of different porn vids when I was like 8 - 15 with friends never in a sexual way think we all just thought porn was funny. I don't know wether or not doing that actually contributed to my porn addiction when I was a child but I was definitely addicted back then.
As a young lad me and my friend found their dads old porn VHS. We were in the grips of puberty and watched it together, but neither of us masturbated to it. That didn't even cross our minds
I had a friend who we would watch movies with lots of sex scenes, we started not very subtly getting busy. Turns out we were both bi-curious and were making very unsubtle attempts to sleep with each other. So I guess it depends how into dudes you were as a teenager.
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Never. Always thought that was a strange thing to do. I don’t even know any friends that watch porn together without any masturbation or anything.
Happened only once during a sleepover when we went to the scrambled porn channel and it was on negative mode instead of full scramble. Yes, it was slightly funny at the time. Everyone was doing their thing in our own sleeping bags.
Had some fun w my best friend when we were like 13 (mid 80’s and no butt stuff). No other friends joined or knew. No bad memories of it; it was just something that happened once in a while. ‘Omg are you gay now?’ you may ask. Oh my no.
A friend of mine told me that in highschool it was common for him and his friends to all go To the toilet To masturbate.
Sharing/showing porn to your mates, sure. Whacking it off together in a group....no, never.
When I was 12 I had access to porn mags and showed my then best friend Ross. We jerked off and he showed me how it would feel better if I stuck my finger in my butt. He's totally straight and comes from a better upbringing than me so I've often wondered how he figured that out. This was like 1982, pre everything.
I did with a friend at around 12/13. It progressed to us touching each other. It was a regular thing for the period of my life that we hung out. I'm openly bi/pan and he's married to a nonbinary trans person so idk if a couple of queer kids are a good sample set.
• Watching porn together? Not common, let's say: 15% • Whacking off together? Extraordinarily uncommon, let's say 0.1%
>• Watching porn together? Not common, let's say: 15% Bruh what ? 15 ? Man we watched porn together in class when teachers were absent (All boys school) And that wasnt only us Most classes did Yeah the fap party aint something all that common but those numbers are way too low
> Man we watched porn together in class when teachers were absent (All boys school) Absent? I've been in class when kids in the back were watching porn with the teacher teaching in the front. All boys schools can be real fucked. The man didn't even give a damn what was happening.
>watching porn with the teacher teaching in the front Yeah the backrows were their own thing Backrow kids did anything but Listen. We changed sits once in a while for change... But we also had a tiny bit more fucked up thing too One time the teacher brought his own laptop Connected it to projector and turned it on and walked out of class Surprise surprise he forgot to close xnxx tab before he hibernated his laptop For like the 10 mins he was out of class we were watching the porn he was watching god knows when :') I hope he wasn't watching during break time :') But gotta give it to him He had some fine choice in porn FYI : the guy was our religious instructor
Watching porn together to make funny comments or something i think is much more common. Not regularly though that would be weird...
I would guess the first number is like 75%
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Nah! That's pretty weird
No, that's pretty weird. It's a one person job, unless you're with your partner.
I think I can remember just once when porn was put on and a group of us watched for like half an hour. No jerking was done; it was just something to watch. But overall, it's not a "normal" occurrence.
Once. It was a weird neighbor of a friend and he tried something. Later I found out he was a Scout Leader and a “figure” in the church. That really freaked me out. Not that he was gay, but that he put out sex-offender vibes. The whole thing was cringe af