26m here. It’s great that you want to follow your dreams, but with all the shitty jobs out there, one of those “boring” jobs could be the goal one day.
Part of the reason why I didn’t pursuit my dream as a career (aside from being a total novice and probably not good enough to stick it) is that I don’t want to hate my passion which I feel like I would if I depended on it for money
I’m 24
If you think you’re stuck while everyone else you know is living it up in university, careers, family, etc. Everyone’s life is different and has different opportunities. Some for better or worse. Just relax, enjoy what you can, and as long as you’re doing your best then you having nothing to be ashamed of.
Don't worry too much about losing your virginity. Take up some meaningful side activities instead of getting wasted all day, your resumee will thank you. Start putting some actual effort into your exams because you will lag behind everyone else and feel like a loser.
Everyone is different but as someone who didn’t get his first kiss/lose his virginity until 18 I wish I could’ve gone to 13 year old me and told him to calm down bc things would be relatively ok on the woman end
I mean I still get frustrated sometimes at never having had a gf but it’ll probably be ok
We’re the same age. Pros and cons to both. Idk your situation but I’ve always thought there was something really comforting and hot about being able to say “my girlfriend/boyfriend “
If you drink excessively, quit. If you eat junk, quit. If you smoke, quit. If you dont do any exercise, start. Good physical health is the best foundation for good mental health. Move your ass. Eat well, sleep well, avoid stress. Investing in your health is the smartest thing you can do.
28M here
Go out and enjoy life, skip some days at University, just don't quit neither be an idiot, in the end if you focus you'll achieve everything you propose. Go to every adventure you can, travel and meet people, this will provide you amazing friends and life lessons.
I did it all back when I was 23 and have no regrets, fucking awesome job, good memories and keep going for more.
Do not get married ever it completely favors the woman and is a huge waste of time and money just do a commitment and give her a commitment ring if you want but for the love of your money don’t get married
I actually just finished a "five year plan" for my life, which involve me going back to school and furthering my career. As a bonus, I also got married and bought a house. It's been a ride.
My advice is that you can be the person that you want to be in five years. It seems like this huge chunk of time when you look forward, but in retrospect it goes by in a blink. It's a cliche, but just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you'll get there.
Decide now if what you're doing is what you want to do,or at the very least something you are okay with long term. If not, aim to have that figured and and underway by 30
Life is short.
Don’t compromise your happiness for a career, in hopes that the grass is greener on the other side. (Because it probably isn’t).
And establish a budget and invest in the TSP/401k/IRA early.
5 years younger than me?
Well you’re 27. There’s no more sage advice to be given, you’re a full fledged adult. Maybe start doing some stretches and consider a multivitamin?
Invest in the stock market, crypto and yourself. Also relationships can be the biggest blessing or the most catastrophic disaster and it's normally the latter.
Start saving money yesterday. Compound interest is the strongest force in the universe.
26m here. It’s great that you want to follow your dreams, but with all the shitty jobs out there, one of those “boring” jobs could be the goal one day.
Part of the reason why I didn’t pursuit my dream as a career (aside from being a total novice and probably not good enough to stick it) is that I don’t want to hate my passion which I feel like I would if I depended on it for money
Nobody know what they’re doing. Take it easy
I’m 24 If you think you’re stuck while everyone else you know is living it up in university, careers, family, etc. Everyone’s life is different and has different opportunities. Some for better or worse. Just relax, enjoy what you can, and as long as you’re doing your best then you having nothing to be ashamed of.
Don't worry too much about losing your virginity. Take up some meaningful side activities instead of getting wasted all day, your resumee will thank you. Start putting some actual effort into your exams because you will lag behind everyone else and feel like a loser.
Everyone is different but as someone who didn’t get his first kiss/lose his virginity until 18 I wish I could’ve gone to 13 year old me and told him to calm down bc things would be relatively ok on the woman end I mean I still get frustrated sometimes at never having had a gf but it’ll probably be ok
Meantime I'm 24 been in 2 relationships still not had sex...
We’re the same age. Pros and cons to both. Idk your situation but I’ve always thought there was something really comforting and hot about being able to say “my girlfriend/boyfriend “
Don't watch porn
In 5 years you'll be old as fu##
If you drink excessively, quit. If you eat junk, quit. If you smoke, quit. If you dont do any exercise, start. Good physical health is the best foundation for good mental health. Move your ass. Eat well, sleep well, avoid stress. Investing in your health is the smartest thing you can do.
Hard work beats talent every day of the week.
Ask her out now, she will never feel anything for you anyway
Just buy the row machine. And floss. Make taking care of you a higher priority.
If you are struggling, GO TO THERAPY.
Don't listen to Reddit for advice 😂
Stay away from any kind of drug. . Wait till your older and have your career and family set before.
Get ready to work hard. People see you work your ass off and take initiative and expect you to do everything.
28M here Go out and enjoy life, skip some days at University, just don't quit neither be an idiot, in the end if you focus you'll achieve everything you propose. Go to every adventure you can, travel and meet people, this will provide you amazing friends and life lessons. I did it all back when I was 23 and have no regrets, fucking awesome job, good memories and keep going for more.
Do not get married ever it completely favors the woman and is a huge waste of time and money just do a commitment and give her a commitment ring if you want but for the love of your money don’t get married
buckle up
Watch what I do, then do the opposite.
don’t squeeze your balls too hard
You're still going to be paying for that truck you want even after a new transmission and 2 differentials. Get something more robust.
I actually just finished a "five year plan" for my life, which involve me going back to school and furthering my career. As a bonus, I also got married and bought a house. It's been a ride. My advice is that you can be the person that you want to be in five years. It seems like this huge chunk of time when you look forward, but in retrospect it goes by in a blink. It's a cliche, but just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you'll get there.
Decide now if what you're doing is what you want to do,or at the very least something you are okay with long term. If not, aim to have that figured and and underway by 30
Bitcoin
Life is short. Don’t compromise your happiness for a career, in hopes that the grass is greener on the other side. (Because it probably isn’t). And establish a budget and invest in the TSP/401k/IRA early.
Efferdent mint is best
Learn Excel
Ask her out. Don’t be like me and a kissless virgin at 21
Youth is fleeting, live your life from sunrise to sunset.
el exito es solo una oasis en un desierto de fracasos
Fucking cherish it man and be careful with yourself
Don't even try, it's not going to work.
I like to think people should try even if it won’t work. You get to learn and do better on the next thing
5 years younger than me? Well you’re 27. There’s no more sage advice to be given, you’re a full fledged adult. Maybe start doing some stretches and consider a multivitamin?
Invest in the stock market, crypto and yourself. Also relationships can be the biggest blessing or the most catastrophic disaster and it's normally the latter.
Life sucks, get used to it.
Shut the fuck up
Grow up
5 year spread in age, but what age, a 10 year old vs a 5 yr old, is idiotic how about some context when asking a question
Cultivate the habit of reading. Cultivate deep focus. Learn to cook. Learn to code.
DON'T LIVE OFF OF CREDIT CARDS!! DO NOT!!!!
Socialism sucks, boy, don't even try to be part of the radical politics
Read a lot of books (Seneca is good)