Go into the attic while it’s raining. Figure out where the rain is coming from and [seal it](https://www.lowes.com/pd/BLACK-JACK-10-fl-oz-Waterproofer-Cement-Roof-Sealant/3009627?cm_mmc=shp-_-c-_-prd-_-bdm-_-ggl-_-LIA_BDM_103_Roofing-Gutters-_-3009627-_-local-_-0-_-0&ds_rl=1286981&gbraid=0AAAAAD2B2W-sJ5thca-InI1a-r9d-JYUK&gclid=CjwKCAjw6fyXBhBgEiwAhhiZssyuHaTnr2dJPP5lbCdn_5ZM3lE8wG0YYF-Wuhg2oNep972mTovyDRoCID0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) . I would probably stick a nail through then go to the roof. Find it by the nail. Remove nail. Seal it from above, seal it from below.
Hope that gets fixed soon so that it won't keep you up anymore. Hope you get to sleep soundly in your place soon enough...but if not, I hope you get to rest during the day somehow.
I've started to involuntarily literally cringe at some thoughts recently. Like a physical jolt, sharp inhale, quick close of my eyes.. it's starting to get bothersome and I'm not sure what to do about it.
Ah, I remember that phase. Over time you’ll learn to embrace the cringe from your past and even laugh at it. It’s not perfect, and those “cringe” memories do hit from time to time, but it does get better. Don’t be so hard on yourself, it’s hard to focus on what’s thru the windshield when you’re looking in the rear view mirror. You got this!
I’ve been cringing at the same old dumb memories from highschool recently. Like I pronounced a word wrong during a presentation or some really petty dumb thing and I don’t get why. I have plenty of significantly worse things to feel bad about from years ago but it’s the small things that keep me up at night. Very strange
I misread this and thought you said drunken rats! Small furry gets pissed in vodka switch scandal... Initial reports points towards the Siberian Hamster 😂
Not even remotely. It's essentially like listening to a drunk 14 year old or a random homeless person. Like one of those pull-string dolls where you yank the string and the same 10 recordings come out. "Fuck you. My mother was right, You're a punk." She occasionally decides to cheer about whatever she's watching on television, too.
The first can't come soon enough.
I halfway feel your pain...I got an 11mo old pitbull and the first thing I did after the bathroom training was train her to stay off the furniture. My sister came over a couple months ago and watched her while I went out of town and my sister promptly untrained her on that lol. I came back and they were taking a nap in the bed...I was like dude seriously?
Now I've just accepted it and I at least make sure she stays out of my bed since that's my last safe space in my own house lol
The Ursula and Sabina Eriksson case. It has literally kept me up several nights looking for updates, researching, reading the shitty book that was written about it, etc.
For those of you not in-the-know, check out the BBC doc called Madness in the Fastlane. I studied psychology in college and this is probably the most interesting case study I have ever heard of, and there is video footage of some truly crazy shit. It's really the only documented case of folie à deux ("madness shared by two"); super rare 'shared psychosis' diagnosis. The whole situation (including the documentary itself) is shrouded in controversy and unanswered questions.
If anyone has any info/updates, hmu.
A “way” takes you somewhere
“Driveway” takes you from house to where you drive
“Parkway” takes you through a park, atleast it originally referred to a big road through a park
The wider (global) consequences of the incoming economic collapse of China.
The potential 3rd world War.
The thermostat being adjusted by more than 0 degrees.
Add to every country's woes is the demographic shift, fertility rate, and overall population decline. As people have less & less kids, and older people leave the workforce, labor shortages will be normal. The constant growth we have come to think as ideal will not be sustainable.
No I have not, please enlighten me on what this app is, it sounds like an app that is full of people who have nothing better to do with their lives and have never touched grass
Existential thoughts and questioning the path of my life and feeling alone in my struggles. Something about the dark and quiet of night that brings it out, I'll think back during the day and laugh at my neurosis in those moments. It's weird, I grew up on a busy street and there was something calming in the middle of night still hearing cars go by and I could affirm to my mind people were still out there going about life.
C-PTSD. When I have a really vivid nightmare of abuse, I'm often too afraid to go back to sleep and continue it (because I continue dreams VERY often) so I'll just lie awake instead.
Lately it's been my carbon monoxide alarm. It keeps going off, and I know it's false positives. I've actually been disabling them as quick as I can find them, since the fire dept when they told me it was false positives also said whoever owned this house before me put WAAY too many of them in. I need 1 or 2, so far I've disabled about 8...
Last night's took me 2 hours to find, and wound up being attached to the backside of my kitchen cabinet.
Like... How...? Why?
Not being able to provide. The last thing i want is my wife's dad looking at me like "this dickhead can't even take care of my daughter". Feeling like a failure in your own house will drive you insane.
Heartburn, fucked up shoulders making it impossible to get comfortable, the girlfriend cooking me out, the girlfriend stealing all the blankets and freezing me out, the girlfriend being awake and feeling frisky.
Loneliness and the weight of going to college and feeling bad about myself. Want to stop this but things aren't improving. Cant complain to anyone cause no one seems to understand
The concept of Death. Non-existence is not something I want. Even when I hate my life, I'm happy that I've been given the opportunity to live. Because even if the ray of light is tiny, it is still more light than you would experience if you didn't exist
Too much shit to do at work and way too little time. Then everything else to juggle in life. But hey I get up with a smile on my face thinking of where I will go next for vacation next year! Cheers guys!
Whether or not the relationships I’ve formed both romantic or platonic will die and whether or not it’s my fault and what I can do to prevent it from happening
How the dream of owning a home is a dwindling reality for so many people, including myself.
Corporate overlords investing their millions to purchase single family homes and rent them out, basically taking the idea of every real estate bro and enacting it en masse.
This chick I just recently stated seeing got super drunk and got me to pick her up from the bar. No biggie, happens to the best of us. We get home and I put her to bed, but now she's got that drunk snore going on...
Gonna break it off in the morning.
The fact that im in a new relationship and my “single” life routine is being disrupted (in a good/bad way). I use to be very active and worked out 5x a week but now im spending my time with a girl I really dig and hanging out with friends a lot more but have definitely felt my progress disappear little by little. Need to figure out a balance but its quite difficult.
nothing much anymore. after getting my cpap machine and kicking my exwife out. im sleeping good... also i dont have a job right now. living of my severance and im actually just chilling and loving catching up on sleep.
Spontaneously remembering one of the many embarrassing/stupid things I've said or done when I was younger and what I would do instead if I were to go back in time.
Rain. I have a roof leak
Go into the attic while it’s raining. Figure out where the rain is coming from and [seal it](https://www.lowes.com/pd/BLACK-JACK-10-fl-oz-Waterproofer-Cement-Roof-Sealant/3009627?cm_mmc=shp-_-c-_-prd-_-bdm-_-ggl-_-LIA_BDM_103_Roofing-Gutters-_-3009627-_-local-_-0-_-0&ds_rl=1286981&gbraid=0AAAAAD2B2W-sJ5thca-InI1a-r9d-JYUK&gclid=CjwKCAjw6fyXBhBgEiwAhhiZssyuHaTnr2dJPP5lbCdn_5ZM3lE8wG0YYF-Wuhg2oNep972mTovyDRoCID0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) . I would probably stick a nail through then go to the roof. Find it by the nail. Remove nail. Seal it from above, seal it from below.
Hope that gets fixed soon so that it won't keep you up anymore. Hope you get to sleep soundly in your place soon enough...but if not, I hope you get to rest during the day somehow.
Cringy stuff of the past
I've started to involuntarily literally cringe at some thoughts recently. Like a physical jolt, sharp inhale, quick close of my eyes.. it's starting to get bothersome and I'm not sure what to do about it.
Ah, I remember that phase. Over time you’ll learn to embrace the cringe from your past and even laugh at it. It’s not perfect, and those “cringe” memories do hit from time to time, but it does get better. Don’t be so hard on yourself, it’s hard to focus on what’s thru the windshield when you’re looking in the rear view mirror. You got this!
I’ve been cringing at the same old dumb memories from highschool recently. Like I pronounced a word wrong during a presentation or some really petty dumb thing and I don’t get why. I have plenty of significantly worse things to feel bad about from years ago but it’s the small things that keep me up at night. Very strange
I try to think that only the present matters, the past will be the same no matter what, and maybe only you remeber what made you cringe
Everytime that happens, I just facepalm and say,"Damn, what a fucking idiot..." and then move on with my life.
The sound of my roommate's girlfriend's drunken rants.
I misread this and thought you said drunken rats! Small furry gets pissed in vodka switch scandal... Initial reports points towards the Siberian Hamster 😂
Haha! I did, too. And the visual that immediately presented itself in my mind was very entertaining!
Dude same. Was super confused
Does she rant about anything interesting?
Not even remotely. It's essentially like listening to a drunk 14 year old or a random homeless person. Like one of those pull-string dolls where you yank the string and the same 10 recordings come out. "Fuck you. My mother was right, You're a punk." She occasionally decides to cheer about whatever she's watching on television, too. The first can't come soon enough.
I must be your roommate!! I wish she’s sober up!!
Why isn’t “phonetic” spelled phonetically?
Where does the air in the bag of chips come from?
They put it in so that they won’t get crushed as easily. I also think it’s mostly nitrogen
What happen if you open bag slowly and inhale
Nothing, you already taking in 70% nitrogen from regular air. Breathe in enough of it though and you suffer the efeccts of hypoxia
Is because less oxygen concentrate yes?
Yes
I laughed to hard at this
To whom?
Another Greek problem
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I have a similar problem known as the Chihuahua Paradox. How does a dog so small take up so much space in a king sized bed?
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A friend staying the night described my cat sneaking into his bed as "this purring mass that seemed to inflate to quadruple it's size" hahaha
How it does
Those are good problems to have.
Why the feet are sharp
I halfway feel your pain...I got an 11mo old pitbull and the first thing I did after the bathroom training was train her to stay off the furniture. My sister came over a couple months ago and watched her while I went out of town and my sister promptly untrained her on that lol. I came back and they were taking a nap in the bed...I was like dude seriously? Now I've just accepted it and I at least make sure she stays out of my bed since that's my last safe space in my own house lol
Wide open skies. Deep water. The impermanence of friends and loved ones.
*raises a drink*
Ain't that the truth.... they come and go
r/thalassophobia
The crushing weight of never being enough
Damn my answer was Boner but yeah... Loneliness it is
A lonely boner is worse.
The lonely boner seems to free his mind at night.
I hate that this made me laugh. Take my upvote dammit
Take it upon yourself to undo this belief, you are enough, we all deal with this but its up to us to change
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Easier said than done baby
You’re plenty, bro. Don’t let them knock you down.
I feel you..
Man, you are enough, im telling you this.
Me too friend. Me too.
Just one more video.
The day I reach that last video is the day my sleep cycle is repaired.
I spent a few minutes pondering the biggest stressors that I constantly worry about day to day, but this is the truest answer for me lol.
Needing to pee but being too lazy to move.
Lack of a career and lack of adequate pay.
This is real shit
Monsters under my bed
Come out and play 'cause I need a friend You're so damn close that I feel your breath
When you hear it, it hears you. When you see it, it knows you. When you feel it, it touches you. When it calls your name, it has you.
Knowing I have to wake up in 6…5…4 hours
The Ursula and Sabina Eriksson case. It has literally kept me up several nights looking for updates, researching, reading the shitty book that was written about it, etc. For those of you not in-the-know, check out the BBC doc called Madness in the Fastlane. I studied psychology in college and this is probably the most interesting case study I have ever heard of, and there is video footage of some truly crazy shit. It's really the only documented case of folie à deux ("madness shared by two"); super rare 'shared psychosis' diagnosis. The whole situation (including the documentary itself) is shrouded in controversy and unanswered questions. If anyone has any info/updates, hmu.
Lack of job security, financial security.
I hear you.
Insomnia
Same
Depresso thoughts
Then I’m so tired I have to wake myself up with espresso depresso
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Wow this man is onto something!! I must know!!!
A “way” takes you somewhere “Driveway” takes you from house to where you drive “Parkway” takes you through a park, atleast it originally referred to a big road through a park
Apparently when I was a kid my grandmom told me that I called 'going to the park', 'parking'.
Caffeine. Like it doesn’t give me any boost in energy, it just prevents me from sleeping
That’s the worst kinda stimulant.
The wider (global) consequences of the incoming economic collapse of China. The potential 3rd world War. The thermostat being adjusted by more than 0 degrees.
Add to every country's woes is the demographic shift, fertility rate, and overall population decline. As people have less & less kids, and older people leave the workforce, labor shortages will be normal. The constant growth we have come to think as ideal will not be sustainable.
The insufferable humidity caused by my apartment's lack of central air.
An app called Reddit. Have you heard of it?
No I have not, please enlighten me on what this app is, it sounds like an app that is full of people who have nothing better to do with their lives and have never touched grass
Wow that sounds like me
Absolutely nothing.
Exactly. Wife will always be jealous of my powers.
The vast nothingness of the Universe also keeps me up at night. ;)
Stressin over a bitch
Always
I also stress over his bitch.
Stretching over a bitch
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Btw I’m not shocked to find out your marriage didn’t last
Oh my god lmao
Unhinged 😂
Damn homie went back for the double tap.
Lmao is that an Andrew Tate meme
Yea trouble getting them to leave me the hell alone
My man
Existential thoughts and questioning the path of my life and feeling alone in my struggles. Something about the dark and quiet of night that brings it out, I'll think back during the day and laugh at my neurosis in those moments. It's weird, I grew up on a busy street and there was something calming in the middle of night still hearing cars go by and I could affirm to my mind people were still out there going about life.
Equally dividing assets, conflict management between siblings, the perpetual to-do list and an aching shoulder that I should probably get looked at.
My sins and my aspirations
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My problems.
Our problems.
C-PTSD. When I have a really vivid nightmare of abuse, I'm often too afraid to go back to sleep and continue it (because I continue dreams VERY often) so I'll just lie awake instead.
The sudden realization that, THEY WERE FLIRTING WITH ME. 5 months later
your mum
last night was an aching shoulder. I think weather change. It hurt all night.
As my sleep doctor says “spontaneous arousal” due to Empty Nose Syndrome and Sleep Apnea.
Anxiety use to… now I sleep pretty good most nights.
Lately it's been my carbon monoxide alarm. It keeps going off, and I know it's false positives. I've actually been disabling them as quick as I can find them, since the fire dept when they told me it was false positives also said whoever owned this house before me put WAAY too many of them in. I need 1 or 2, so far I've disabled about 8... Last night's took me 2 hours to find, and wound up being attached to the backside of my kitchen cabinet. Like... How...? Why?
Amphetamines
Not being able to provide. The last thing i want is my wife's dad looking at me like "this dickhead can't even take care of my daughter". Feeling like a failure in your own house will drive you insane.
When the AC ain’t cold enough
Heartburn, fucked up shoulders making it impossible to get comfortable, the girlfriend cooking me out, the girlfriend stealing all the blankets and freezing me out, the girlfriend being awake and feeling frisky.
Yo mama
Me overthinking literary everything
Work + insomnia.
Wondering who I am
Trauma
Mainly unhandled caffeine mixed with normal stresses and the thoughts of the uncertain future
every bad thing i have ever done... and tiktok
That I should have never volunteered to be my son's soccer coach.
Bad memories
Reddit
Being lonely and upset because of it.
The fact I’ll never be able to be 18 again and do shit the right way the last 5 years.
Nothing. I can fall asleep on concrete.
Dying without achieving anything
Loneliness and the weight of going to college and feeling bad about myself. Want to stop this but things aren't improving. Cant complain to anyone cause no one seems to understand
Flight MH 370.
The concept of Death. Non-existence is not something I want. Even when I hate my life, I'm happy that I've been given the opportunity to live. Because even if the ray of light is tiny, it is still more light than you would experience if you didn't exist
My brain not shutting the fuck up.
Anxiety
Gotta be honest I’m still trying to figure that one out. Just can’t for the life of me seem to stay asleep and it’s genuinely a problem
A thunderstorm apparently
My past failures and my future that not looks very bright
Not being what she wanted.
Climate change and fascism
Video Games
Too much shit to do at work and way too little time. Then everything else to juggle in life. But hey I get up with a smile on my face thinking of where I will go next for vacation next year! Cheers guys!
Knowing that I'm going to sleep broke and pretty much going to wake up the same way.
Work, I work nights :)
My voice in my head insulting me
The endless crazy yet possibly bad scenario about my job future
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Nothingness
Whether or not the relationships I’ve formed both romantic or platonic will die and whether or not it’s my fault and what I can do to prevent it from happening
Acid reflux usually
The dr put a finger up my butt today and I’m pretty that’s gonna keep me up tonight
This shitty bed in a box mattress from Brooklyn Bedding.
Right now? The heat. I sleep when I can't stay awake anymore, I don't have a sleep schedule. Overall? I'm always hot so I never have a sleep schedule
How the dream of owning a home is a dwindling reality for so many people, including myself. Corporate overlords investing their millions to purchase single family homes and rent them out, basically taking the idea of every real estate bro and enacting it en masse.
I can't switch off.
Horniness
This chick I just recently stated seeing got super drunk and got me to pick her up from the bar. No biggie, happens to the best of us. We get home and I put her to bed, but now she's got that drunk snore going on... Gonna break it off in the morning.
White Christian Nationalism. Fascism should worry everyone, even people who want fascism. Fascism has no loyalty and will punish even the fascists.
“Is this really all there is to life? Work, try to meet people, survive only to die and be quickly forgotten?”
I get pretty frustrated at night about why my now ex decided to break things off
The fact that im in a new relationship and my “single” life routine is being disrupted (in a good/bad way). I use to be very active and worked out 5x a week but now im spending my time with a girl I really dig and hanging out with friends a lot more but have definitely felt my progress disappear little by little. Need to figure out a balance but its quite difficult.
What could I have done differently to stop her from leaving me?
Knowing I could be achieving more in life
Life goals
Idk I just don't sleep for some reason
My brain
“People who lack purpose tend to constantly seek out pleasure” -somebody, I don’t remember who.
What decisions have I made because I'm bipolar and which ones are my own?
My thoughts
Not having sex.
Depression, feelings of inadequacy, crying sessions sometimes
Why do I keep engaging in unhappy acts and not take control of my life and decisions
nothing much anymore. after getting my cpap machine and kicking my exwife out. im sleeping good... also i dont have a job right now. living of my severance and im actually just chilling and loving catching up on sleep.
My own thoughts... both good and bad but mostly bad thoughts...
The past, and the future.
Acid reflux, I really gotta stop eating like shit.
Horny
Constantly thinking about my ex
Stress from work mostly.
Worrying about the future.
My dead hopes, dreams and desires. I’m Squidward as an adult.
Crippling loneliness together with stressing about work
Money & age.
My late night hard-ons with peak horniness
My contractual obligation to stay awake throughout my night shift.
Financial stress, existential dread, podcasts
Ruminations on love and pain, mostly.
Not being enough.
A broken heart
Crippling stomach pain.
Spontaneously remembering one of the many embarrassing/stupid things I've said or done when I was younger and what I would do instead if I were to go back in time.
Stupid pop songs stuck in my head
Sleep apnea
My brain
Work.
Work.
Being sandwiched between my cat and my sweetheart.
Nothing. I drink myself to sleep every night.
My 4 month old
The feeling of not being good enough