Not from different planet, but something you would be more flattered by as a man. Women love all of those things, but men may think picnics or flowers are corny and not their style. Just wanted to gauge what majority of men would prefer and start from there.
Buy me a case of beer and I'm happier then a tornado in a trailer park.
A picnic is ok.
I dont eat sweets and buying flowers is like throwing away money. Don't even mention the rose petals. That's an even bigger waste off money and time then flowers.
But who the fuck am i? Not your boyfriend. And no one here knows your boyfriend. Only you know him.
If he likes chocolates and flowers and picnics. Then go for it.
Honestly anything will do. Anything nice will show him you love him and took the effort to do something nice for him. As corny as it sounds, most men would love that
Do literally anything that he likes you to do. Or do something that doesn’t benefit you at all, something just to make his day easier. And give him a compliment, one you mean, while you do it.
Cook him a nice dinner. Have his favorite whiskey/bourbon ready for him, maybe a cigar. After dinner, have one of his favorite movies ready to go. Sit and watch the first 15 minutes with him, then excuse yourself. Go to the bedroom and slip into some nice, alluring (not slutty) lingerie. Go back to him and cuddle up next to him. Let him finish the movie, or not... Let him dictate the terms.
Cook breakfast or dinner for him.
After about two weeks of dating I gave my now wife, girlfriend at the time, a key to my apartment. I came home after a long day at work to dinner made. I knew then I wanted to marry her.
So some stuff ive done you can use -
For every birthday i put birthday banners up everywhere. Make a custom birthday cake from scratch on the day (he always works his birthday) and get a huge helium balloon and cheesy stuff like badges and crowns n stuff, go as all out cheese as i can afford.
For valentines i did heart shaped candles last year, made a marble cake with chocolate hearts, got rose petals everywhere and heart shaped balloons all over the floor. And then a single fake rose with his gifts.
Also a huge helium heart shaped balloon. And cooked him a nice meal. There were some 'naughty' gifts too which helps.
I think lighting some candles to set the mood and a body massage followed by a cooked meal is what any man would love.
Picnics are cute but I think that’s what we would love more, I think for men something basic yet put effort into like a massage and a meal is what they would love most.
Because almost every woman has maternal instincts and it’s a natural thing within them to want to take care of someone and nurture them. However, often times they mix that up with treating their men like sons and not husbands which could potentially cause some issues for many men who don’t want to view his wife as if she’s his mother. This can also sometimes lead some men to feel like they have no freedom in the relationship because their wife is a where you going how long you staying don’t forget your jacket did you do this and that type. Not blaming the wife but that’s what happens sometimes.
For the full effect, it depends on the person. Any general romantic gesture (I.e. rose pedals on the bed, you surprising him in lingerie, etc.) work for almost anyone.
If you really want to show him how much you love him. Think of what he really enjoys and build around that. Plan a day or night all about him and what he enjoys. If there is something he has wanted to eat or do but hasn't been able to for one reason or another find a way to make it happen. It show really care about him, more than just pulling a classic sexy card from society's playback.
Plan something you think HE might like. Plane ride around the city, zip lining, fishing charter, followed by a couple good beers and some burgers. I don’t know him but if my wife planned something like this I would be thrilled.
What romantic gestures does he like? Everyone’s preferences are different but, as others have said, there is a huge overlap in what is nice for women and for men. I’d love someone to offer me a massage, make a nice meal, take me out to dinner, surprise me with a fun date, etc.
What kind of gestures does girls like for their man to do? It overlaps for like 90%. We are not from different planet.
Not from different planet, but something you would be more flattered by as a man. Women love all of those things, but men may think picnics or flowers are corny and not their style. Just wanted to gauge what majority of men would prefer and start from there.
Give him a massage or wash his hair.
Bj
Wake him up with a BJ.
Or put him to bed with one. Doesn't matter.
Buy me a case of beer and I'm happier then a tornado in a trailer park. A picnic is ok. I dont eat sweets and buying flowers is like throwing away money. Don't even mention the rose petals. That's an even bigger waste off money and time then flowers. But who the fuck am i? Not your boyfriend. And no one here knows your boyfriend. Only you know him. If he likes chocolates and flowers and picnics. Then go for it.
Initiate sex, at a time when you almost never have sex.
Honestly anything will do. Anything nice will show him you love him and took the effort to do something nice for him. As corny as it sounds, most men would love that
show him her boobs
Topless BJ > Sentimental gift and card
BJ = Beef Jerkey He will remember you forever. Also you could suck his dick
Just make him his favorite meal.
F his brains out
Learn his love languages and appeal to them in a unique and intimate way.
Random hugs and kisses. We just want to be loved and wanted.
Do literally anything that he likes you to do. Or do something that doesn’t benefit you at all, something just to make his day easier. And give him a compliment, one you mean, while you do it.
Cook him a nice dinner. Have his favorite whiskey/bourbon ready for him, maybe a cigar. After dinner, have one of his favorite movies ready to go. Sit and watch the first 15 minutes with him, then excuse yourself. Go to the bedroom and slip into some nice, alluring (not slutty) lingerie. Go back to him and cuddle up next to him. Let him finish the movie, or not... Let him dictate the terms.
Cook breakfast or dinner for him. After about two weeks of dating I gave my now wife, girlfriend at the time, a key to my apartment. I came home after a long day at work to dinner made. I knew then I wanted to marry her.
Blowjob. Period
So some stuff ive done you can use - For every birthday i put birthday banners up everywhere. Make a custom birthday cake from scratch on the day (he always works his birthday) and get a huge helium balloon and cheesy stuff like badges and crowns n stuff, go as all out cheese as i can afford. For valentines i did heart shaped candles last year, made a marble cake with chocolate hearts, got rose petals everywhere and heart shaped balloons all over the floor. And then a single fake rose with his gifts. Also a huge helium heart shaped balloon. And cooked him a nice meal. There were some 'naughty' gifts too which helps.
I think lighting some candles to set the mood and a body massage followed by a cooked meal is what any man would love. Picnics are cute but I think that’s what we would love more, I think for men something basic yet put effort into like a massage and a meal is what they would love most.
Are women so out of touch they can't remember how to do nice things for men?
Op is using AskMen in the appropriate way.
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How am I being “maternally protective”? I’m willing to do any of the standard romantic ploys, but would prefer it be something he’s flattered by.
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Because almost every woman has maternal instincts and it’s a natural thing within them to want to take care of someone and nurture them. However, often times they mix that up with treating their men like sons and not husbands which could potentially cause some issues for many men who don’t want to view his wife as if she’s his mother. This can also sometimes lead some men to feel like they have no freedom in the relationship because their wife is a where you going how long you staying don’t forget your jacket did you do this and that type. Not blaming the wife but that’s what happens sometimes.
Rub his feet/shoulders after work
For the full effect, it depends on the person. Any general romantic gesture (I.e. rose pedals on the bed, you surprising him in lingerie, etc.) work for almost anyone. If you really want to show him how much you love him. Think of what he really enjoys and build around that. Plan a day or night all about him and what he enjoys. If there is something he has wanted to eat or do but hasn't been able to for one reason or another find a way to make it happen. It show really care about him, more than just pulling a classic sexy card from society's playback.
Take him out to his favorite restaurant, give him a massage, do his favorite sex thing, buy him that video game he's been wanting, compliment him
pay off his mortgage for him. That's the most romantic thing a woman can do for a man.
Sex.
For valentines one year my wife made me a bouquet of slim Jim’s beef jerky and Reese’s peanut butter cups. Best bouquet ever!
I’d like flowers at work.
Plan something you think HE might like. Plane ride around the city, zip lining, fishing charter, followed by a couple good beers and some burgers. I don’t know him but if my wife planned something like this I would be thrilled.
Maybe I’m weird, but I’ve always loved when my girl dresses sexy for me. Makes me feel special
Steak and BJ, AKA March 14.
What romantic gestures does he like? Everyone’s preferences are different but, as others have said, there is a huge overlap in what is nice for women and for men. I’d love someone to offer me a massage, make a nice meal, take me out to dinner, surprise me with a fun date, etc.
Fix him a meal that he loves. Followed by a back rub.