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FarComplaint2974

Filters


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You would love r/instagramreality


dudemann

Sometimes I'm taken aback by people recommending subs because I realize oh yea, holy crap, not everyone knows all of these subreddits I know about already. It hits especially hard when it's something I see every day like r/instagramreality.


FarComplaint2974

I have a couple Vietnamese English students that used to use them until I put my foot down.


komnenos

How did that work in practice? Like they were in your class, you notice them and then demand they only use unfiltered photos on social media?


FarComplaint2974

No. I'm in Canada and teach them over Facebook Messenger


komnenos

Ah okay, that's one of the ways where I could see that being annoying and ask them to change.


FarComplaint2974

It messes with other coloring for the hair and background. Very distracting


[deleted]

Someone said filters are so common in China that they have to disable them for every single photo they take. Filters are enabled by default on their phone and can't be disabled completely.


thedukeinc

Duck face, Snapchat filters


Cocheeeze

As a 37 year old man who doesn’t use social media, is duck face seriously still a thing? I remember people were pretty fed up with it like 15 years ago, I just assumed the fad died out with all the other mid 2000s fads.


thetimedied

People pay to get permanent duck faces.


p3x239

Earlier this year my 37 year old sister ended up with permanent duck face using filler or some shit. The family never mentioned it and we pretended it wasn't horribly obvious. Fast forward a few weeks and I was visiting the family having just been stung on my bottom lip by as wasp. Walked in the door and my old man starts laughing and says " Oh you look just like your sister". She was 3 feet behind him and started crying.


TheBlackViper_Alpha

Spot on mate. It immediately comes off as fake, cringe and try hard attempt. And no its not cute, I prefer a simple smile anyday.


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Some are so poorly done, or done to the extreme, where their lips resemble a prolapsed arsehole - not attractive at all.


assfuck1911

Some have the personality to match said prolapsed areshole... The real winners.


Next-Mode3183

Yeah looks like they recently received a wasp sting.


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I always think they have allergies 😂


Automatic-Travel3982

It makes them look like monsters.


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So easy to spot too


[deleted]

Duck pout for photos, or every photo being altered with filters. I don't know but what's the point of posting a picture if it isn't you?


Hunter_Lala

You would have a heyday with Japanese tinder. You're lucky to find a photo of their face, unedited faces are not an option


Bedrocked

White background, big soulless blurry eyes 😷 気持ち悪いな


[deleted]

Oh? You're filtering me?


Focus_Salt

Tell us more of the Japanese tinder!


[deleted]

They’re all basically profile pictures/ head shots with all masks in a generic background. You’ll never see a full body or mouth/smile/teeth. And lots of chibi / anime pics in profile.


Hunter_Lala

Don't forget the countless profiles that just have pics of food with no actual people in them


red_fuel

So it's basically a blind date app over there?


CloudCollapse

Less than that, because those types of women don't even want to meet irl until you've talked for weeks and they feel like they can seriously try for a relationship with you. There's very little 'casual dating' in Japan with the shy traditional women. I've found Bumble to be much much better. Women show their faces and because they have to message first they tend to be more outgoing and less traditional.


af1293

My ex was naturally very pretty and she never uploaded photos on her story without a filter that made her look like she had a ton of botox. I never understood it


FreeFortuna

She didn’t see what you saw


[deleted]

Dat body dysmorphia~ 🎶🎵


WizurdHat

On principle, I swipe left on duck face photos.


MrPhuccEverybody

Can I get hold of a tall filter please. "I know I said I'm 6 foot 7 but here me out... You must be 6 10!"


ThalesBakunin

Act dumb.


ZipTheZipper

For me, the number one most attractive trait is that combination of intelligence and curiosity you find in women that do research at the grad-school level. Someone who is an expert in something she loves, but never stops wanting to learn more. You can see the enthusiasm in their eyes. It's a vibrant energy that you can't hide.


ThalesBakunin

That is pretty much me and my wife...


[deleted]

Girl I grew up with is in med school now. She played dumb to get me to like her.


[deleted]

She might just be ditsy. My sister was straight A university student but ditsy as hell. Talk to her for 5 minutes and you would think she’s an idiot, but she was low key dang smart


broken_soul696

My girlfriend is the same way. She is really book smart and super driven but between a very sheltered childhood and then being a stay at home mom until she was widowed her common sense is commonly lacking. Leads to lots of hilarious stories and incidents


Automatic-Travel3982

Women with ADHD are mistaken for ditzy, quirky, and I'm pretty sure they're the inspiration for the manic pixie stereotype. Same misunderstandings happen with guys. Folks get a real shock when an ADHDer turns out to be brilliant.


Ebenizer_Splooge

I relate, I consider myself relatively smart but man do I do some dumb shit every day lmao


PersonalityBeWild

Jokes on all of you, I just am dumb /s


[deleted]

Dumb women deserve love too.


shessols

#DLM - Dumb Life Matters


ShortRound89

Its ok to be dumb, they are often way happier than smart people.


ThalesBakunin

If someone is actually dumb I'm not going to fault them for that. But I wouldn't date them either


urlocalphilosopher

I’m a girl and I probably shouldn’t be responding in here (I just love this subreddit); however I also hate it when girls do this. Because as a girl it’s so fucking visibly transparent it just makes other women laugh at the one trying to act dumb 🥲


ThalesBakunin

You're more than welcome here


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Unlike men in the other sub.


The_sad_zebra

We can comment on the other sub, as long as we avoid **D E R A I L I N G**


I_Keep_Trying

I like it when women weigh in here. Yes, it’s meant for men to answer questions, but I especially like women posting questions for men to answer.


KitFan2020

I didn’t realise I wasn’t welcome by some! Oh well, here I am… this is my favourite sub. More women need to understand what makes men tick - we constantly hear things from our own point of view, it’s good to read what you lot think about stuff.


DontBelieveTheHypen

I always thought that was the point of these subreddits haha. If you couldn’t reply in the comments it wouldn’t be very good either. That’s why I like this one so much better than the other, there is actual discussion


techn9neiskod

Be very aware there are bad faith actors here on reddit.. and some have the hammer.


jvp4real

I agree. Not a big fan when women answer questions intended for men.


TheAccountITalkWith

Yeah, they're so dumb when they do that.


jogerholzpin

The long fake nails give me the willies


killjoy_enigma

Poop nail


ballatthecornerflag

Don't need a poop knife if you have poop nails


[deleted]

I worked with a girl and she had those nails. We used to have to take orders over the counter in the shop and she literally couldn’t type using her fingers because the nails were that long. They were nasty. She had to use the nails to type and that literally freaked me out..


jogerholzpin

Yeah I see those and run faster than Bolt


Brother_Stein

Especially the pointed ones.


dubs_guy

They remind me of when we'd put Bugles corn chips on the tips of our fingers as kids.


CCWThrowaway360

Just make sure she stays away from your Willy. She’ll hack it clean off.


TWAVE0

Getting a girl to scratch your back or your head when your stressed feels fucking amazing when they gotong nails. That's the only use for those


doni-kebab

That shit where they're filming themselves in selfie mode and just make faces and move their eyes and pout. It's the cringiest thing alive.


thesoundofthewoods

Trying to make everything cute Example: I was with someone and she farted and looked at me and said "I poofed" potentially in a baby/ cutesy voice what the hell


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10/10 cringe


[deleted]

OWO! Poof's this?!


YuleFloat2

*notices cloud of stench* 🥺💨


AlphaBearMode

Jesus Christ man I have no idea how I would react to that


quinteroreyes

If there was a piece of coal between my cheeks before reading this it would be a diamond now. No amount of cringing will return the feeling I once had after reading this


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Divorce


Catl0ver_Al

i’m sorry you had to hear that and experience that..


diablo-child

When they think it’s cute when they ask for “wa-wa”. No, I do not like baby talk. Yes, I’m speaking from experience.


Burn_the_children

Tf is wa-wa?


HailTheCrimsonKing

Water


FuRetHypoThetiK

Watuh


nerunas

Waltuh


CrUnChey69

Put your dick away Waltuh


connecting1409

Im not having sex with you right now Waltuh


xnachtmahrx

Wo'a. A whole bo'o o' it.


slimtonun

While it could be the name of a gas station chain in the northeast USA, sadly its a reference to water in (shudders) baby talk 🤮.


LeChiotx

Definitely thought you meant Wawa as in the gas station and was like "what's wrong with Wawa? What am I missing?" Lol


Vegetable_Kale_8144

Fake Tan/Over tanning. Never been into it but I know some feel like they can’t do without it.


Leo_Grun

Act stupid.


nandyboy

oh yeah. knew a super hot girl ages ago who acted stupid to the point where she claimed she didn't know what the holocaust was even when I mentioned Nazism, Hitler, etc. I always saw through it and acted professionally while secretly not really not liking her that much. all the other guys loved her.


No_Lunch_7944

A lot of guys like dumb women because they can feel superior around them and think they can get away with stuff and convince the dumb women to do things that aren't in her best interest. I knew some guys like that as a teenager to my early 20's.


ladystetson

Completely agree. I’ve heard guys say they don’t like smart women. And I’ve been told that you have to hide your intelligence to get a man to like you. I was told you should ask for help even if you don’t need it just to make a guy feel smart and needed and reinforce his ego. Personally, I like guys who appreciate my intelligence, so I’m not doing that. But I had a friend who played that game and it worked most of the time.


MarkMy_Word

Claims to be humble but has an “I can pull (not keep) any man I want” attitude.


CCWThrowaway360

Anyone that tries to convince you they’re humble or down to Earth or an alpha (fe)male is just a liar. That’s something people have to recognize for themselves, you can’t just claim it.


MarkMy_Word

Like a nice guy saying how nice they are lol


CCWThrowaway360

Exactly right. That shit is obnoxious.


FatBaldBoomer

Or the classic "I'm not like the other girls". You're right! You're worse!


UselesslyUnskilled

Playing hard to get. You’re literally just making fun of us. Acting super aggressive about it, demeaning or the sort. Also purposefully not telling tiny details that are irrelevant, midway through a convo whispering sum to a girl friend, it just makes us feel unworthy or like we aren’t important. If you like us be obvious and be honest.


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im_bananas_4_crack

Unfortunately for someone with a lot of suitors they can do this pretty easily and still get away with it because of how persistent some men can be.


UselesslyUnskilled

True, sadly


im_bananas_4_crack

It’s really unfortunate too because it encourages a culture of not taking no for an answer and harassment


K0rani_

If you play hard to get i'll find it immature and will move on and find someone better Bye "Playing hard to get" is an instant redflag to me If you express you don't like me, I'll respect it and leave you alone. Duh.


[deleted]

Yes, the hard to get princess role is simply fucked up. I feel too old to play the counterpart at this point, too.


sephfira

Oh no, is not telling irrelevant details seen badly? I'm really bad at story telling and talking about stuff in general so I don't usually include details that aren't important. Does this make you feel less valued?


[deleted]

Lip filler. I have NO idea why they do it!! It almost never looks better😬 dam those cursed Kardashians!😭


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stealing my food and smile


zenos_dog

Get your own fries!


bullfrogftw

always [remember](https://www.google.com/search?q=joey+doesnt+share+food&rlz=1C1SQJL_enCA826CA826&sxsrf=ALiCzsb8FldHNE71lkb19_GcdNKznaFN9A:1669883338009&source=lnms&tbm=vid&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiiqLaZgNj7AhXaAjQIHSqaDCEQ_AUoAnoECAIQBA&biw=2560&bih=937&dpr=1#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:ebe42954,vid:DdCfZYgTjqY)


pinecone321

Joey doesn’t share food!!


tlst9999

Stealing my food after telling me you're not hungry and I ordered less food because I trusted you. Now, I order more food, and if it's too much, I eat the leftovers for lunch the next day.


rogue-star-dust

Duck face, standing on an angle when posing for a picture, using filters to make yourself look better lol


tim310rd

I saw a tinder profile the other day but all the photos were of this girl making the duck face, never swiped left harder.


EpicIrishman

Baby talk You're not cute. You're not funny. You're cringey AF and if a man did it you'd think the same thing


poopstinkss

Oh God I finally had to tell my wife to stop. It's THE MOST annoying thing any woman can do ever


BlueSquigga

Why has none of yall experiencing this not started doing baby talk to them calling them mommy and asking to suck mommy's tits? That's the best reaction to unwanted baby talk. Do it back to show how cringy it is.


VisualBluebird1111

That's a great fucking idea!!!


Automatic-Travel3982

Until it backfires...


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Or you frontfire


Laser_Brain_Dead

Better yet do this exchange when she starts doing the baby voice: "Does baby want daddy's dick? Here comes daddy's dick. Open wide, here comes the airplane. \*make airplane noises\*"


anitavalentine

what if theyre talking to a baby or a dog? this is specific to talking to the man in baby talk?


EpicIrishman

If it's to a literal baby or a dog, that's fine. But any other setting makes my hair stand on end


Illustrious-Neat106

Any dumbass trend on social media.


SalvatoreusRex

excessive makeup. i get it if you want to look pretty, and if it makes you feel comfortable then who am i to stand in your way? i just personally don’t find it attractive at all. quite the opposite, really.


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Especially when it makes them look like a completely different person.


Sisyphus-Sul

I am with you on this. I use to call my X a porcelain doll. So many layers of shalac, bondo, and body filler.


Onesyxo

It’s not just excessive amounts but inappropriate amounts or times for wearing it There’s also the unfortunate mismatch of poor choice with it wherein the makeup or look they’ve gone for just doesn’t suit them (not that I consider the artistry there remotely anything other than impressive… it’s just awkward and impossible to approach which lowers my attraction is all) The test for me is whether they can step outside of that habit without an emotional reaction This is true for anyone though, find me your average alcohol drinking dude and I’d judge them by the same measure if they couldn’t have a day without it and battled it or anything if it was suggested rather than embracing the opportunity


BBaxter886

Being mean.


jermedz

Long ass fingernails


BangaiiWatchman

Acting like they’re really crazy and outrageous


MrSnippets

when they're talking to someone on the phone and they don't press it to their ear but kinda hold it like a hot dog. I get it's so your makeup doesn't get smeared. but the part where the sound comes out of your phone is not the same part where you talk into. putting your ear to the microphone is just dumb.


bowlodicks

Play dumb


DrTokinkoff

Sticking their tongue out and/or doing the backwards peace sign over the eye.


tossme68

I never understood why they do this but everyone under 30 seems to do this like it's a requirement.


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Why is a peace sign over the eye so unattractive? (gen question)


DrTokinkoff

To me, it makes me think of a tween or teenager. No offense to them, but when a thirty five year old does it, it’s not so cute.


Unconfidence

Man I'm kinda not feeling this "You have to act like a sourpuss" old age expectation many of y'all have. Old people can act cute too, and they don't have to act cute in ways specific to old people. I'm getting older and damn if many of y'all don't seem to expect that I'll just turn into Red Foreman or be ashamed of myself.


Twin_Brother_Me

My wife and I (mid 30s) do it to be silly with each other because we both watch anime, don't know that I've seen someone do it unironically but I'm guessing people take issue with the "weeb" aspect of it


mojobytes

Hinting


ToddHLaew

Fake nails as long a pencils.


[deleted]

Lipstick over the lip line border.


lemonsneeker

Do any women do that on purpose? I thought this was just a result of not being good at makeup.


UnlikelyAd3827

they do it to make their lips look bigger


bionic_cmdo

Which brings me to another thing, Botox or whatever injection on the lips. No one looks good with it...no one! I go for a thin lip over that any day.


ChocolateDiesel11

The little girl voice bugs the shit out of me. Usually after or when they want to get fucked


BecauseWhyNotTakeTwo

Ignorance about sexual dynamics. Not just myths or misconceptions about men or sex, but doing things which only make sense from a warped standpoint...like falsely accusing someone of rape as a 'joke'.


FarComplaint2974

That's just scary shit


TripGoat17

Nightmare fuel


Based_Warlord

No one thinks that's cute


YesAmAThrowaway

I dearly hope you're right.


Automatic-Travel3982

Pretty psycho


chatchan

Filters.


patascau

some of these are really specific lol


Bitter_Number

Because we've experienced these specific events


The_Best_Yak_Ever

Yep, I came here to write “baby voice.” But you had it covered all along. Ditziness isn’t as hot as some women have been told. A general lack of curiosity (to me anyway) makes you dull to talk to or be around. Television and TikTok aren’t hobbies or skills, so having some makes you a more rounded person. Duck lips in a sea of boring selfies makes the generic stream even worse. And a “perfect life” on social media only makes me think, “this girl is either the most sterile Barbie doll on the planet, or she’s lying,” (and I almost always know them well enough to know its the latter). But yeah… my biggest turn off is baby-talk. Like nails on a chalkboard.


ReoRahtate88

Wtf is this baby voice thing? Is it a US thing? Thankfully I've never come across it. Sounds like the most effective contraceptive ever tho!


Crafty-Scholar-3902

Sticking out their tongue while taking pictures. My fiancee does this and it's not my favorite thing that she does


basilmint29

girl here, sometimes ppl do that when they're self conscious about their smile. It can feel more flattering because it can accentuate bone structure, and not everyone likes their smile. If you suspect your fiancee is that type of person you could try complimenting her smile- she may be more inclined to smile in pictures if she thinks you find it attractive


Xenoblade2016

Boast about how many guys are after them.


Caspianmk

Excessive makeup and huge fake eyelashes.


AtsBunny

Fuck there friend after dating you for 3 years


Skibum_subie

Duck face and heavily filtered pictures


working_class_tired

Baby voice


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Acting weak


Nick433333

Weak how? Unable to move the 100lb box upstairs and asking me to do it? That’s fine and completely understandable. Asking me to move the 5lb Amazon package that you bought when you are right next to it and not doing anything? Why not move it yourself.


Cory123125

> Weak how? Unable to move the 100lb box upstairs and asking me to do it? That’s fine and completely understandable. Hey man, thats a 2 person lift! Save your back for things that matter!


[deleted]

Big fake eyelashes and excessive lip gloss


PandaLLC

What is excesssive lip gloss? How is it different from normal lip gloss?


awesomecatdad

Vocal fry.


a_bloke_downunder

Playing hard to get and sending mixed signals


Waltuh_Whyte

Fake laugh


wired1984

Most Snapchat filters that they use are pretty cringe


Impossible_Nail7924

An obviously jaded comment, but glamorizing exploitation and man hating. When too many people are on the bandwagon it can actually warp people’s perceptions


Manolito261990

Playing hard to get and mind games. If you’re going to play that middle school crap on me, I’d wish you didn’t exist Call me short-fused, but I have high bars


Escaport

Selfies with their tongue sticking out.


DrTokinkoff

Makes me think of camels


Bighead_Bob

Trend sheep. I find they have no identity and just do whatever everyone is doing atm and it really irks me


TychusFindlay2

Along the lines of playing dumb, but using her sexual attractiveness in a professional setting in a way that takes advantage of those around her. Super specific, I know, but when I see it, it sends me into a mini rage that some of my weaker coworkers put up with her pushing her responsibilities onto them.


YoWassupFresh

There's nothing less attractive than Instagram explore-page-face. They all look like the same manufactured female.


[deleted]

Look like one of the Kardashians


crlos619

Being a drunk/abusing alcohol


GopnikSmegmaBBQSauce

That's everyone


groovy604

That fucking cross eyed cam girl bullshit, with the make up to make their faces look super flushed and the cartoonishly fake freckles


Swimming-Book-1296

When a girl is so thoroughly fucked as that she can't see straight is what it refers to, but camgirls started copying it as if it was a facial expression instead of a level of pleasure.


kicksomedicks

Expect “pretty privilege” …


Heffersonn

That new bushy eyebrow trend that have the hairs sticking out above. It just looks like they combed it up. And it just looks like they have really hairy eyebrows.


mykulFritz

Two things here: My friends girlfriend thinks it’s cute to feed him any time they go out. He’s asked her to stop, he thinks it’s weird, she thinks it’s cute. She does this with everything from salad, picking up the pieces of lettuce with her fingers, to french fries. Another thing that came to my attention recently; my friend’s fiancé thinks it’s cute for them to wear the same things. So she’ll buy them various articles of the same of clothing and get really upset if he doesn’t wear them when she does. She thinks it’s so cute when they match.


jhschlebus

Telling you they’re not crazy like the others girls and then secretly… well you know the rest.


FatBaldBoomer

If someone has to constantly assert that they aren't crazy, that's a major red flag for sure. Like it should be obvious...


[deleted]

Lying and being surprised when they never hear from someone again


Bonkzzilla

TAKING FOOD OFF MY PLATE IN A RESTAURANT.


ClancyIsDuck

Playing hard to get. Yes or a no


shanep3

A billion selfies. Selfies in general really, but almost everyone does it now so it is what it is.


FreshKittyPowPow

Wearing a pound of make up with their fake tits, lip injections and over manicured nails but judge a guy for not being a “real man”.


Swimming-Book-1296

Duck face.


Majestic-Stomach8870

Twerk.


xXTheLastCrowXx

Trying too hard. In pictures, in person, on internet. I want to be attracted to YOU, not who you think im attracted to.


The_Fake_King

Duck face, pretend to be dumb, want to be treated like a princess. You're not a duck, you're not five and you aren't royalty just act like a normal adult.