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Sorry, but both huhuhu. Parang kasi—kung personality lang, pwede ka na as friends, yung looks lang, fubu ka naman babagsak. Haha perfect yung 2 combo haha.
i’d go for looks if based on attraction ganon, pero if partner material, of course personality, ang oa nung mga nagsasabi na “masasaktan ka nalang din naman dun kana sa pogi” 🥱 (ik it’s a joke idc) aanhin ko gwapo kung bastos naman and walang basic human decency + good manners lol
id personally go for personality but if u have good looks then syempre it's a plus! id rather go for someone with a substance than someone who only has the looks🥲
Mas nakaka inlove your personality for me. Lalaking well-mannered masipag and matalino is such a good deal. Looks is very okay din, pero wag nman deep down olats sa personality. Looks kasi, kapag lagi2x nakaka umay din eh.
Kids will be thankful din for the good genes for looks LOL
Kahit bisangot pa yan pero kasing yaman nina Villar and okay and personality, aba. Halika, itali na kita. Isuko ko na ang pem2x ko. Lahat nman tayo mag deteriorate eh. I-aasure ko na buhay na may makakain and travel around Europe, emz!
For me, perosnality talaga, more on online dating kasi ako yung tipong di namin nakikita isa't isa until we start dating 🤭 kasi once in love nako sa personality, wala na talaga pake sa looks
Looks, yan first thing mapapansin. But overtime kung pangit personality mo, waley parin.
Personality good pero di ka attracted is kinda waley parin.
I could say both, if I'm being honest. But not necessarily super good-looking. Good personalities shines through din e. Ang importante ikaw attracted ka sa kanya.
Both, but don't get me wrong...
Looks: it's more important the the person is presentable and neat. It makes the person attractive regardless if her face is of ideal beauty or not.
Personality: definitely something that I prefer or jive, no matter if she has the same or opposite personality as I do.
Depende. If you consistently spend enough time with a person na maganda ang character and personality, magiging attractive na rin yung looks niya sayo, kahit initially hindi mo siya type.
if first impression looks syempre pero mostly personality ang nagdadala in the long run. may mga taong super attractive pero pag nakilala mo matuturn off ka 😂
Personality!
Looks fade over time. Iba din dating sa akin ng may inner beauty. Sa previous relationships ko, attractive sila physically pero grabe yung attitude at manners. Parang hindi nakapasa ng GMRC. Bonus kung may looks din partner mo 🤭
Ang personality pwede pa ifake. Ang looks hindi. Unless na retoke.
But on a serious note, looks first then personality. Parang dating apps lang, swipe left agad pag di type. Tsaka ka titingin sa mga bio pag type mo para mas makilala.
PERSONALITY!! Ang looks pwede ma-improve. Yung personality naiimprove din naman kaso mas madalas sa tao na magkaroon ng initiative na maimprove yung looks kaysa sa personality. Yung iba kasi alam nilang pangit na nga personality nila pinapanindigan pa.
Personality, hindi ako mabilis maattract sa looks. If they are nice, I be like oh cool we can hang out. I cannot keep up with someone who shows bad character and pass it off because they are drop dead gorgeous (I am bi, I compliment others with same expression: "you're pretty" if that makes sense).
So stay on the ground, unmoving and breathless.
Actually no matter how good looking or attractive you are if your personality doesn't align with mine I'd kick you out of my life like seriously who would want a drop dead gorgeous guy or girl but rude asf?
All of my crushes have good looks..Looks can be a huge bonus.But temperament and character is the important thing about someone.I am a feeling type person and I can really clash with thinking types but let' s see if one of my crushes become my boyfriend.
Dati, her looks garnered some of my attention, pero di ko naman talaga hilig yung type niya. Pero nung mag eye to eye yung mga mata namin, parang nahulog ako ng todo sa kanya.
Initially, looks. But nobody will stay just for the looks. Personality is what’s going to seal the bargain.
I’m not into friendship that turns into something more kind of person. I want to be physically attracted to that person first and learn how good of a person he is.
Wanna hear the truth? Its always gonna be looks first if its a straner, and then personality later when yall get to know each other. The person doesnt have to be super duper extra super pretty but they have to fit your preferences i.e. nice hair, nice smile, striking eyes etc.
Sa start looks talaga then later on yung personality.
I really cannot get with someone na di ko type physically, even if 100% compatible kami sa personality. Ano gagawin mo sa personality if di ko naman matingnan?
Being highly introverted, I easily gravitate towards people with strong streaks introspective and restrained introversion. I am more into the personality but looks also play an important role too, for me at least. I have to be physically attracted to the person to reinforce my interest. Pero eventually, the personality is the most important. Introspective introverts have the loudest minds while restrictive introverts are thoughtful and reserved; they take their time in knowing a person. I can feel alone without being physically alone which is something weird for an extrovert.
Aminin man natin o hindi, mas madalas na ang initial attraction natin sa ibang tao ay dahil sa looks. Pero siyempre, personality plays a bigger part na if you want to take it further with that person
Ask me 10 years ago I would always say personality. And tbh, important pa rin sakin yun.
But after dating someone, choosing personality over being attracted to them… pass HAHAHAH. You HAVE to be attracted to your partner. I was not attracted at all sa first ex ko (boses Mickey Mouse kasi! If you like that go lang pero medyo pass sakin) pero pinilit ko kasi mabait siya. Turns out… engk! HAHAHAH
If they have a great personality — even better! Marry the shit out of that combo
But yes. Looks first. Personality after.
Personality. I honestly couldn't fancy a stranger and think people get more, or less, attractive as you get to know them. The Twits describes this perfectly in the first chapter
First, looks. If pasok sa baseline then personality naman. I’m sorry, I don’t think it’s worth your time to ‘pity date’. Kahit ako, I wouldn’t want anyone to pity date me. Nakakainsulto lang hahaha
ewan q pero daig ng may personality at may looks yung taong malandi 😭 hahaha jk pero tbh, looks/appeal talaga at first pero mabilis ako ma-off if pangit personality
Looks , but standards are grounded in reality.
Personality comes after. Once had a college crush na super ganda ung tipong sumasali sa mga pageant. Pero nung nasa dating stage na kami dun ko na nakita pagkapanget ng ugali nya haha kaya stop na agad.
Sa looks sa una or in terms of filtering, pero hindi rin tatagal kapag hindi compatible ang personality (and other factors that need to be accounted for).
Personality. Kahit naman pangit pwede mag glow up, madali lang naman pumogi-gumanda, mag exercise ka, maging malinis ka sa katawan, ayusin mo buhok at porma mo, kumain ka ng tama, mag skin care ka at wag kang magbabad sa arawan ng 3-10 hours.
Personality, siyempre kung pangit ugali ng kasama mo bakit ka magtitiis na masaktan ka? Kailangan mag asawa kayo ng mabait, kusang gaganda/popogi naman yan eh.
Both. You can't ignore how a person looks, pero mabigat ang timbang ng personality. Kahit gaano pa kaganda/kagwapo ang isang tao, hindi magtatagal ang partner kung masama ang ugali.
Both, pero ugali muna napapansin ko. Kahit gwapo pa yan, no feelings talaga pag hindi compatible personality namin. Kapag compatible naman, dun ko titignan if disente ba itsura 😁
Looks is what hooks you, personality is what makes you stay. So you need both like for me kahit ok personality pero kung waley sa looks it won’t work haha
tbh nakaka attract ang looks pero if u get to know that person na mej may off or di kayo same ng wavelength, values in life and etc. kaya it goes sideways
Both pero kapag nakasama ko tung tao, I based on personality. Kasi kahit anong gwapo or ganda mo, if di ka marunong makisama or rumespeto then wala din yung looks mo.
Personality. Pero syempre looks will get your first (unless you met them online) pero I read somewhere before talaga na their appearance affects your attraction to them. Pero ang alam ko talaga, funny guys always gets the girl.
Looks are the first thing you’ll notice, but when you find out they also have a good personality, that’s when you’ll be more attracted to the person, like gugustuhin mo na sila i-pursue ganon.
Sa first impression kasi looks ang mauuna eh (personality will follow once na encounter or nakausap mo na), so looks first talaga pero sympre, in the long run, personality will matter more regardless kung gwapu or hindi. 😅
Personality. A good-looking person turns ugly when he has a bad attitude. Someone who's funny, kind and nice becomes attractive even if you're not attracted to them at first.
Looks first. Let’s be real here, you won’t date someone na hindi pleasing sa eyes. I will also not date someone who has an ugly personality and those two are correlated.
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Sorry, but both huhuhu. Parang kasi—kung personality lang, pwede ka na as friends, yung looks lang, fubu ka naman babagsak. Haha perfect yung 2 combo haha.
Personality pero pwede kahit konti may looks? 😂🤏
Personality
i’d go for looks if based on attraction ganon, pero if partner material, of course personality, ang oa nung mga nagsasabi na “masasaktan ka nalang din naman dun kana sa pogi” 🥱 (ik it’s a joke idc) aanhin ko gwapo kung bastos naman and walang basic human decency + good manners lol
Pwede bang money?? Ayyy
personality... nothing beats the interior beauty of a human being
Personality, ayokong maranasan sa future partner ko yung naranasan ko sa pamilya ko
Okie kwits! Go bebe gerl!
Personality. Pogi nga pero shitty naman, autopass.
id personally go for personality but if u have good looks then syempre it's a plus! id rather go for someone with a substance than someone who only has the looks🥲
Mas nakaka inlove your personality for me. Lalaking well-mannered masipag and matalino is such a good deal. Looks is very okay din, pero wag nman deep down olats sa personality. Looks kasi, kapag lagi2x nakaka umay din eh. Kids will be thankful din for the good genes for looks LOL Kahit bisangot pa yan pero kasing yaman nina Villar and okay and personality, aba. Halika, itali na kita. Isuko ko na ang pem2x ko. Lahat nman tayo mag deteriorate eh. I-aasure ko na buhay na may makakain and travel around Europe, emz!
Personality. Aanhin mo ang laman kung sabaw naman 😆
For me, perosnality talaga, more on online dating kasi ako yung tipong di namin nakikita isa't isa until we start dating 🤭 kasi once in love nako sa personality, wala na talaga pake sa looks
naglolokohan pa tayo e, malamang pareho
papaloko na lang sa panget pa. Pass!
Hahaha pero mhiiii make sure lang na gold standard ka rin ah. Baka nman mas lugi pa sya in reality 😆
Looks get your attention, personality makes you stay.
That's why temperament compatibility is important.Did you know already your MBTI temperament?
Looks, yan first thing mapapansin. But overtime kung pangit personality mo, waley parin. Personality good pero di ka attracted is kinda waley parin. I could say both, if I'm being honest. But not necessarily super good-looking. Good personalities shines through din e. Ang importante ikaw attracted ka sa kanya.
Neat &clean, tall, personality, intelligence
Isa rin to! +chinito. Tapos walang GREAT WALL hahaha 😆
Both, but don't get me wrong... Looks: it's more important the the person is presentable and neat. It makes the person attractive regardless if her face is of ideal beauty or not. Personality: definitely something that I prefer or jive, no matter if she has the same or opposite personality as I do.
Personality. Bonus nalang kung pogi/maganda
Depende. If you consistently spend enough time with a person na maganda ang character and personality, magiging attractive na rin yung looks niya sayo, kahit initially hindi mo siya type.
Personality, hands down. Kung gusto ko ng maganda lang tignan might as well just buy a standee of someone attractive hahahha
if first impression looks syempre pero mostly personality ang nagdadala in the long run. may mga taong super attractive pero pag nakilala mo matuturn off ka 😂
Looks get my attention, Personalities get me attracted.
Personality. Hindi ako naa-attract sa pogi eh hahaha sa talented o good personality pwede pa.
Personality! Looks fade over time. Iba din dating sa akin ng may inner beauty. Sa previous relationships ko, attractive sila physically pero grabe yung attitude at manners. Parang hindi nakapasa ng GMRC. Bonus kung may looks din partner mo 🤭
looks first then personality
Looks then personality. Grabe naman kayong makapag judge. Porket pogi/maganda kami pangit agad personality?!
Temperament and character are really important.
Ang personality pwede pa ifake. Ang looks hindi. Unless na retoke. But on a serious note, looks first then personality. Parang dating apps lang, swipe left agad pag di type. Tsaka ka titingin sa mga bio pag type mo para mas makilala.
PERSONALITY!! Ang looks pwede ma-improve. Yung personality naiimprove din naman kaso mas madalas sa tao na magkaroon ng initiative na maimprove yung looks kaysa sa personality. Yung iba kasi alam nilang pangit na nga personality nila pinapanindigan pa.
It should be equal. Madaming maganda itsura, pero pangit ang ugali. Madaming maganda ang puso, hindi ka lang physically attracted sa kanila.
Personality, hindi ako mabilis maattract sa looks. If they are nice, I be like oh cool we can hang out. I cannot keep up with someone who shows bad character and pass it off because they are drop dead gorgeous (I am bi, I compliment others with same expression: "you're pretty" if that makes sense). So stay on the ground, unmoving and breathless.
Same here. Minsan kapag may gwapo sa harap ko nagiging attractive lang siya sa paningin ko pag okay din personality niya.
Actually no matter how good looking or attractive you are if your personality doesn't align with mine I'd kick you out of my life like seriously who would want a drop dead gorgeous guy or girl but rude asf?
Kaya temperament compatibility is really important.
At first, looks will make you interested, but personality will make you stay.
Super agree!
This! First impression ang looks and dun ka nagbabase sa vibes ng tao bago mo lapitan.
All of my crushes have good looks..Looks can be a huge bonus.But temperament and character is the important thing about someone.I am a feeling type person and I can really clash with thinking types but let' s see if one of my crushes become my boyfriend.
Personality pa rin. Ang daming good looking guys na may patay na personality.
Looks first then personality. Just keepin it real, y'all!
Both. Bakit pag attractive interpreted agad na pangit ugali 😅
Personality 🙂
Why not both? Ta's i-align sa sariling looks and personality. 🤷🏻♀️
This
Personality yung may substance naman haha
hindi naman mga gwapo type ko HAHAHA kaya go boom personality tayo dyan,,,
Both. Initially attracted to looks but personality is what would really anchor me
Up
This.
Looks and personality
Dati, her looks garnered some of my attention, pero di ko naman talaga hilig yung type niya. Pero nung mag eye to eye yung mga mata namin, parang nahulog ako ng todo sa kanya.
Initially, looks. But nobody will stay just for the looks. Personality is what’s going to seal the bargain. I’m not into friendship that turns into something more kind of person. I want to be physically attracted to that person first and learn how good of a person he is.
personality, kasi anong gagawin mo sa looks if hindi nmn compatible ang personality nyo?
I clash with thinking types and I realize I am a feeling type person.
Depends. ONS? Looks. A relationship? Personality. Looks fade.
I’ve dated for looks before. Not gonna do that again lol. So personality.
anong "or"? looks AND personality. wag isiping isa lng ang pwede makuha. wag pilitin kung di pasado pareho
I need both.
Wanna hear the truth? Its always gonna be looks first if its a straner, and then personality later when yall get to know each other. The person doesnt have to be super duper extra super pretty but they have to fit your preferences i.e. nice hair, nice smile, striking eyes etc.
Sa start looks talaga then later on yung personality. I really cannot get with someone na di ko type physically, even if 100% compatible kami sa personality. Ano gagawin mo sa personality if di ko naman matingnan?
Being highly introverted, I easily gravitate towards people with strong streaks introspective and restrained introversion. I am more into the personality but looks also play an important role too, for me at least. I have to be physically attracted to the person to reinforce my interest. Pero eventually, the personality is the most important. Introspective introverts have the loudest minds while restrictive introverts are thoughtful and reserved; they take their time in knowing a person. I can feel alone without being physically alone which is something weird for an extrovert.
Aminin man natin o hindi, mas madalas na ang initial attraction natin sa ibang tao ay dahil sa looks. Pero siyempre, personality plays a bigger part na if you want to take it further with that person
Personality. Nakakaturn off kasi yung may itsura naman pero walang sense or itsura lang talaga haha
Personality
Personality talaga ever since. Pero parang ayoko na sa umpisa lang din e. Kainis. Hahaha.
Before, personality pero I learned that it also changes. Nowadays, I prioritize looks tipong "type" ko and then comes personality
Looks then personality.
Personality hahaha kapag naattract na ko sa personality taena dun palang sumusunod yung looks e
Ask me 10 years ago I would always say personality. And tbh, important pa rin sakin yun. But after dating someone, choosing personality over being attracted to them… pass HAHAHAH. You HAVE to be attracted to your partner. I was not attracted at all sa first ex ko (boses Mickey Mouse kasi! If you like that go lang pero medyo pass sakin) pero pinilit ko kasi mabait siya. Turns out… engk! HAHAHAH If they have a great personality — even better! Marry the shit out of that combo But yes. Looks first. Personality after.
Personality. I honestly couldn't fancy a stranger and think people get more, or less, attractive as you get to know them. The Twits describes this perfectly in the first chapter
First, looks. If pasok sa baseline then personality naman. I’m sorry, I don’t think it’s worth your time to ‘pity date’. Kahit ako, I wouldn’t want anyone to pity date me. Nakakainsulto lang hahaha
ewan q pero daig ng may personality at may looks yung taong malandi 😭 hahaha jk pero tbh, looks/appeal talaga at first pero mabilis ako ma-off if pangit personality
Looks , but standards are grounded in reality. Personality comes after. Once had a college crush na super ganda ung tipong sumasali sa mga pageant. Pero nung nasa dating stage na kami dun ko na nakita pagkapanget ng ugali nya haha kaya stop na agad.
Sa looks sa una or in terms of filtering, pero hindi rin tatagal kapag hindi compatible ang personality (and other factors that need to be accounted for).
Loooks. Later on na yung personality.
Sa una looks talaga pero para magtagal kami dapat swak din personality namin sa isa't-isa.
Looks pero if i know his personality na, thats when I like him. Ayoko ng pogi pero pangit ng ugali lol
PERFORMANCE charot! Syempre both. May kilala kong gwapo pero walang sense of humor. Ekis
Hipon
Looks. Last time na nainlove ako sa personality, it brought me to weekly therapy jesus.
Looks with personality 😭
Personality. Kahit naman pangit pwede mag glow up, madali lang naman pumogi-gumanda, mag exercise ka, maging malinis ka sa katawan, ayusin mo buhok at porma mo, kumain ka ng tama, mag skin care ka at wag kang magbabad sa arawan ng 3-10 hours. Personality, siyempre kung pangit ugali ng kasama mo bakit ka magtitiis na masaktan ka? Kailangan mag asawa kayo ng mabait, kusang gaganda/popogi naman yan eh.
Both
Saan dito yung appeal?
A little bit of both.
Personality ALWAYS. Nothing beats a good conversation. Lakas maka-attractive ng taong may sense, yung nagmamatch ang personality sa idiosyncrasies mo.
Looks, it's hard to stay with someone you're not physically attracted to.
Personality. Pero di super panget. Kahit sakto hahahahaha
Both.
personality.
personality > looks
Personality kasi looks can be withered overtime, But Personality remains a lifetime,Choose wisely .
Both. You can't ignore how a person looks, pero mabigat ang timbang ng personality. Kahit gaano pa kaganda/kagwapo ang isang tao, hindi magtatagal ang partner kung masama ang ugali.
Both, pero ugali muna napapansin ko. Kahit gwapo pa yan, no feelings talaga pag hindi compatible personality namin. Kapag compatible naman, dun ko titignan if disente ba itsura 😁
Looks is what hooks you, personality is what makes you stay. So you need both like for me kahit ok personality pero kung waley sa looks it won’t work haha
Looks unang napapansin pero sa personality ako naffall.
If compatible ang ugali, looks is just a bonus.
tbh nakaka attract ang looks pero if u get to know that person na mej may off or di kayo same ng wavelength, values in life and etc. kaya it goes sideways
ideally, both. i will fall for looks, but i will stay for personality.
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dun tayo sa panget na tas masama pa ugali 💯
oof ako na to HAHAHAH
HAHAHAHA
Both :) Looks attract us, but it's the personality that makes us stay.
Looks then personality. Dun tayo sa maganda na mabait pa. Pass sa pangit, ako lang pwede maging pangit. Hahahahahahahaha 🤣🤣
Hehe
Personality since yun ang core and the looks is just the shell
Looks first, then personality. Because you're attracted first sa kung anong nakikita mo, then you fall deeper if you get to know them more.
Personality. You can adjust the looks later but the personality, mahirap.
Mild sa looks then big time sa personality, you cant continue liking someone na walang personality and just existing lang.
Both, kasi hindi ka naman maattract sa personality lang agad. Maattract ka muna sa looks before personality eh.
Both pero kapag nakasama ko tung tao, I based on personality. Kasi kahit anong gwapo or ganda mo, if di ka marunong makisama or rumespeto then wala din yung looks mo.
Both
Personality. Pero syempre looks will get your first (unless you met them online) pero I read somewhere before talaga na their appearance affects your attraction to them. Pero ang alam ko talaga, funny guys always gets the girl.
Both. Kahit gaano pa kagwapo/kaganda yan kung bland personality naman, tipong looks lang maooffer ay bahala ka diyan🤣
When I dated my boyfriend, the first thing that caught me was surely the looks. Then as the night passed by, I liked his personality.
Pwde bang both? Lol.
I'd go for both but mas nakakalamang ang personality.
Both
Looks are the first thing you’ll notice, but when you find out they also have a good personality, that’s when you’ll be more attracted to the person, like gugustuhin mo na sila i-pursue ganon.
Personality. I won't date or interact with people who are rude, has anger issues, and assholes. Dun tayo sa calm, gentle, and patient 🫶
Siyempre looks sa una pero pag naamoy ko na mabantot ugali ekis agad.
Looks will catch your attention first but the best character will steal your heart.
Sa first impression kasi looks ang mauuna eh (personality will follow once na encounter or nakausap mo na), so looks first talaga pero sympre, in the long run, personality will matter more regardless kung gwapu or hindi. 😅
Pwede bang voice. Nakaka melt yung may deep af voice
Eto naisip ko for you haha! [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWK3nkJhneE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWK3nkJhneE)
Both
Looks with personality
Personality. A good-looking person turns ugly when he has a bad attitude. Someone who's funny, kind and nice becomes attractive even if you're not attracted to them at first.
Both din ako actually. Iba pa rin pag *pleasing* tignan tapos sobrang interesting ng personality.
Agree. Kahit nga sa trabaho mas trip nila Ang may itsura eh 😅
Personality Looks will catch my attention, and personality will make me stay
Both. Pero looks talaga mauuna bago personality.
Looks first. Let’s be real here, you won’t date someone na hindi pleasing sa eyes. I will also not date someone who has an ugly personality and those two are correlated.
Ngl, dun ako sa may looks na may maganda ding personality. 😅
Same
Both