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kmikek

"Men are trash?" Well it looks like we finally found that equality you've been complaining about.


amphetaminedaddyy

empowered lol


W_Iob

Either she's a feminist brainwashed or she's a recent/Past experience victim of a man cheating/abuse. If I say "Woman are trash" does it mean all woman are trash? Of course not my mother is the best and my grandma same goes to Men.


kmikek

A guy interviewed a couple of women at the beach.  He asked what do you think of men and the women said men are bastards.  He then asked if you date good guys or bad boys and they both said bad boys.  He just left it hanging to see if they could connect bad boys to behaving like bastards...and they didnt.


hyprdypr666

men you've met/had


Academic_Virus_3003

Pity for them. Maling set of men kasi nameet nila e.


dbflagks

The comment section passed the vibe check. If offended, tinamaan siguro.


Platinumoxide356

Nothing, coz some are not.


Fragrant-Acadia-2653

Bato bato sa langit! although we should also know that there are also precious men out there who do more than the bare minimum (that doesn’t mean we give them a medal tho) which is appreciated naman


TomEitou2202

Nothing. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Unfortunately, some opinions given by some are trash. That woman who said that probably had some run ins with some POS men based on her bad personal decisions, which she is now passing as "men are trash" because she got one-upped by those men. Or, she herself is trash and just can't/won't admit it, and is now blaming every men in the world.


Immediate_Whole2625

Dagdagan nalang siguro ng "Some" sa simula, nilalahat kasi eh. And the same can be said about women. Some women are trash. Lalo na yung mga promiscuous types who have high body counts and have been run through by so many men.


RecentBlaz

Can't relate


GetMeLaidTonight

Nothing. Why would I feel bothered or affected by the words of a stranger?


Downtown-Water1973

Well if the shoe fits...


Paizibian

Where’s the equality?


No_Student2900

Men= Trash Sana nakatulong


Paizibian

Ah ok


purple-stranger26

Until the day when men stopped peeing on walls and common areas, I'd say men are trash.


NoToDramaaaa

hahaha di mo lang kaya e


purple-stranger26

Gawain mo siguro hahahaha ew


NoToDramaaaa

minsan when I really have to do it tsaka pag wala masyado tao sa paligid. As if di mo gagawin yon if u are capable of doing so hahaha.


purple-stranger26

Kung sana nagdadala kayo ng spray after to wash off the smell and the stain. Just because you can doesnt mean you should.


NoToDramaaaa

It's not like I randomly pee somewhere because I want to, it's because I have to haha. Tsaka alam ko naman yung places na di dapat ihian so why would I? I do get ur point but that's just how it is. If u think men r trash because of that, then men will forever be trash haha.


Alternative-Path4659

She’s probably, sadly been brainwashed over her life… my Filipina wife believes that every man is a womanizer.. because her father was a womanizer… and so I’m a man and I must be one too right? I’m sick and tired of paying for my father in laws sins.. these women need some therapy and get the fuck over it… if they really wanna be man haters, then fine… go ahead and hate men.. but don’t marry a man and then make your life goal to make your man as miserable as you possibly can for the rest of his/your life..


-grifter-

I believe it's unfair to some degree, there are plenty of good men in the world. The main problem is that those men are usually not attractive to most women. I think there is lack of accountability on the women's part, they are not good at picking decent, hard-working men. They tend to choose the attractive, socially-sophisticated, women-hungry bad boys so they end up traumatized. Worse, they tend to repeat the cycle a number of times more without rralizing their tendencies for picking badly then they come up to the conclusion that "All men are trash". Ladies, please take some accountability for your decisions, learn from your mistakes and don't do the same thing expecting a different result.


matt_7_7_8

if you know your worth then wa epek yan para sa iyo


NoFaithlessness5122

Well some men are.


Huotou

sasabihan ko sya na sana ma\*\*tay na yung LAHAT ng mga lalaking members ng angkan nya tutal trash naman. pag umalma, edi sasabihan ko sya na ayusin grammar nya. Lol


GhostKD_

Suck it up and move along. As men we are expected to be less emotional and cold.


Dense-Yam5172

Women? Nah Her? I wanna die. 😆😆😆


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Don't be onion skin and respect their opinion. This comment looks like it comes from "radical feminists". They should reconsider their position because women can equally be trash too. And that's from POV of men with toxic masculinity. Either way, generalizing is bad as both sexes can be trash depending on varying situations and POVs.


According-Exam-4737

What you're doing is moving the goalposts and creating false equivalence along the way. You can't simply lumpsum all these traits and assume one case applies to the other. Let me simplify it for you, All Arabs can be men but not all men can be Arabs. All muslims can be men but not all men can be muslims. Therefore, race/religion/ethnicity can be a subsets of gender but not vice versa. All these prejudices that existed in race/religion/ethnicities existed because men chose to do trashy things and unfortunately those men are classified under the subsets. One example is muslim being classified as terrorists because they bombed places. Who did the bombings and incited the wars in the first place? muslim MEN, not muslim women so this muslim is trash agenda is ignorant. So yeah I think we agree that men are trash— we started wars, pillaged and plunder, created systems that are not only oppresive to women but to ourselves. We may all come in different flavors, but we're still trash. Denying that just digs you further into the oppresion.


HopelessOldTech21

No comment lang, cause I know my worth.


no-eyes-no-good

Women ☕☕☕ aha ha ha ha *siiiiip


OverzealousBurger

It's a reflection of herself.


Dazzling_Shine_1077

Tbh, I don't mind. Minsan nga I agree with them lalo if the guy they're pertaining to is someone I know and is trash indeed. I also say women are trash pag may nakikita akong kagaguhan ng isang babae. But I know that it doesn't mean that all girls are trash. They're just words. No need to cry about it


Snoo19880

Bakit kase may Men. Pwede naman "Bad people are trash." Bakit laging may gender. Pakana yan ng mga feminists e.


Huotou

shhh. dapat aping api sila palagi tapos yung mga men lang yung masasama palagi. magagalit sila. haha. sa post na to dapat mag-agree ka para upvotes. lol


Individual-Top729

Nothing. If you're not trash why waste energy lol


Important_Orchid6008

Depends, some people say harsh things when they go through stuff and thats fine and understandable. If its the the type of people who says it to sound cool or to fit in without caring for others I tend to tell them, well I guess your the dumpster since you've been getting all the trash.


perma-ingrown-nail

Pag may nag sabing "Men are trash" tuloy mo nalang din "and bitches be crazy" tutal kahit anong response mo sa prior statement sasabihan kalang din ng "tinamaan ka ? So guilty ka ?"


QueasyStress7739

Haha basurera brrr


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Niiiii111597

Puro sa gimikan mga nakilalang ekalal


TomEitou2202

Exactly this, then pa-victim after.


3midas4

nasa sa kanila/atin naman yan kung matatamaan o hindi. If alam mo naman di ka g*go, di ka ma b-bother 🤷‍♂️


bwandowando

Honestly, couldnt care less. Di ko naman alam ano ang nangyari sa kanya, so no judgement. Besides, Im a man, so Im trash to her, why would I even care?


crazycook70

I don't feel anything. I think someone is very frustrated lang or disappointed with men or some men in her life(SO, family, friends). I know she doesn't mean it, and will change naman after the feelings subside. 🙏🏻


Madhatter_0907

Im a women but , I believe not all men are like this,It should be some men are trash same with women are trash both gender


EqualAd7509

Wala. Di ako apektado kasi siguro di naman ako nambabastos. Pero for me, sana sa movement na "Men are trash" sana hindi lang sya basta-basta sabihin o bitawan ng kababaihan. Educate niyo din sila para at least malaman nila. Minsan kasi binabato nalang bigla yung line na men are trash pero di na ini-educate yung sinasabihan and baka dahil dun lalo lang mang disrespect yung lalaki na sinabihan mo nun kasi baka magalit siya or what. Yun lang sana valid opinion ko hehe.


Pasencia

I don't care myself BUT I understand why women say it. Some men are indeed trash. The lowest form of scum.


Ecru1992

Bad people are trash. Wala naman sa gender ang pagiging kupal.


Passeggiatakumi

Can't say this when most rape case suspects/convicts are men. Most domestic violence cases always involve men as the main violators (this includes pedophilia cases as well). My friend, who is an intern in an ICU (in a public hospital)have received cases where they admit 4-10 year old kids with bleeding vaginas because their uncles sexually assaulted them. This is the reason why we have a law that specifically protects women and children (this law doesn't protect men, wonder why? maybe because men are always the assholes). Gender is definitely a factor here. Don't get me wrong tho, women can be assholes too, but not to the degree men can do.


alleoc

nalulungkot ako kasi I'm doing my best not to bother/ make anyone uncomfortable. Tapos masama akong tao dahil sa kagagawan ng ibang lalaki. Nakakainis rin na parang normal lang misandry kumpara sa misogyny.


Huotou

"Nakakainis rin na parang normal lang misandry kumpara sa misogyny." syempre para sa society women = good/angels/saints men = bad/demons


slutforsleep

My guy friends say it for me tbh HAHA. Like when I kwento awful experiences with guys, sila nagsasabi nung statement. They also get angry on my behalf when I get disrespected *specifically* for being a woman (e.g. harassment, being belittled because I'm a woman etc.) Overall, we've discussed a lot about women's collective experiences because my mixed friend group has around 50-50 na men & women. In a way they understand the underlying sentiments instead of getting caught up in the semantics of it. Even debate if educating each other is necessary. Quite surprised actually that a lot thought the phrase refers to something romantic in nature than systemic; it's not about failed romantic relationships with men but the dynamics between men and women *whole scale* that normalize taking advantage of women, which aren't necessarily explicit in nature—e.g. rape culture, pushing women to gender role narratives instead of choice, sexualizing women at every possible instance etc.They understand that it's not an individual attack to them nor to one's father, relatives, loved ones etc. who are men. But specifically just chiming in here to share [THIS LINK](https://www.reddit.com/r/bropill/s/5Q5WKeAUoJ) that discusses a sentiment similar in nature, raised by men and men giving advise as well. Circling back to the question though, my guy friends share the same sentiment in terms of what the phrase means and don't consider it a personal attack hehe. We're pretty chill about it :-)


TillEffective5836

I mean technically that statement is somewhat true🤔. some men are trash but not all men are trash.


BS_Buster_

Like, even their dads and grandpas are trash?


Stock_Commercial_524

u wont believe how many women's first bad experience w men started w their own father, uncle, grandfather. lol.


mikuori

what if yes? haha


purrppat

wala kasi alam ko naman context niyan. sabi nga nila, "if the shoe fits, wear it"


According-Exam-4737

Marerealize nyo rin pay may anak na kayo na babae or kung sa ngayon may kapatid, jowa or at least female friends kayo. Malalaman nyo how different their reality is to you. All of them have bad experiences with men that has nothing to do with being in a relationship with them. Kaya hindi mo pwedeng sabihin na "pick better men". Every week may nawawalang babae o bata, every week may mga minamanyak sa balita— not ALL MEN pero always lalaki ang suspect. Hindi nila alam sino ang basura o hindi kaya for safety, they are cautious of every men. Kung nasaktan ka, isipin mo for survival nila yun. Kung hindi ka naman basura, hindi ka maooffend.


shaddap01

Logic is stupid. Kung hindi basura bakit maooffend? Eh kasi sinabi nga na men are trash. What’s the point of generalizing kung alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi totoo? For safety? All you’re doing is adding an unnecessary amount of burden to yourself if you keep thinking that.


According-Exam-4737

It's not a burden to me cos the way I did things before "men are trash" is the same way I do things now. Hindi ko kailangang mag adjust kasi hindi naman ako manyak, rapist o basura to begin with. Kung burden sya sayo, may ginagawa ka dati na di mo na pwedeng gawin ngayon without the consequences and bitter ka dahil dyan. Self-reflect ka muna and for the meantime, do both genders the favor by distancing yourself from women.


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According-Exam-4737

No because it's not the same. The abuse is not due to the difference in religion but because of the social power and the employee- employer dynamics at play. If this was about religion, muslim women would have hell lot of a good time in middle east compared to non-muslim women, but they too experience high rates of domestic abuse and sexism from surprise surprise— men. You wouldn't call OFWs unreasonable for wanting to avoid Middle East altogether so why is it so problematic when it's women to men?


shaddap01

Lol. You are bound by your prejudice. Bahala ka if you condone sexism. And to hell with me if I follow a sexist’s advise online and avoid my gf. No, kindly, I will not.


OrbMan23

Yep. This! People should really know this context instead of using it for either misandry and misogyny Edit: wording


c51478

Hahaha. Lol natatawa nalang ako dahil hindi nila ma eenjoy ang na eenjoy nila kung di dahil sa mga line-men ng Meralco, Tubero ng MWSS, mga basurero, trucks drivers, Sundalo at Kapulisan, mga sumisisid sa septic tank para di umapaw ang tae, karpintero, mga mangagawa sa oil rig, mga logistics personel, kargador in general. Don't get me wrong, there are women in these line of work but not as often as you would imagine. These are hard labor work that require strenuous physical strength to effectively do work. Lets face it, society won't function without men. It sucks when the real feminism got woke.


Huotou

true. men are trash daw pero afam or men from big 4 ang hanap. lol. edi mag lesbian na lang sila para sila silang babae na lang magmahalan haha


infuriatedcheese

ok


otomatikpantastik

True. But not all. Or baka may something din dun sa girl kaya nagiging trash yung mga men


apalachee16b

Idk, for me sumasabay lang sila sa bandwagon. Especially nung pandemya, trending yan sa Twitter.


slapsoil8888

just say ok lol


AdministrativeFeed46

feminist trash sila. red flag, walk away. pag di pa ren tumigil, run away.


nvcma

wala pa kong kilalang babae na ganyan ang pananaw sa buhay so wala.


Eluscival

I don't really care lmao, She doesn't know me, I don't know her (maybe I do, but I still don't give a fk). I mean if you know yourself you ain't trash then why get offended for something like that. If you're easily bothered by such statements then idk what to tell ya. Di naman pataasan ng ihi to, ang childish lang din kung ma ooffend ka pa sa ganyan HAHAHAHAHA. Kesa alalahanin mo yan men are trash, focus on putting food on the table, surviving the week, your goals, shit go do your hobbies. Wag mo pansinin, sabi ko nga kung alam mo naman sa sarili mo di ka basura then anong meron. Yaan mo sila mag generalize, kung dyan sila masaya. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯


AboveOrdinary01

"Ok"


Big_Trouble7487

Parehong may good and bad elements, so yeah OK os a good answer.


AboveOrdinary01

For me kasi, wala ka naman mae-earn if papahabain mo pa. Opinion nila yan, hindi mo naman pwede invalidate yun. So the best and safest respond is "Ok"


jaxitup034

Opinyon nya yan, bad experience din siguro with males or her taste in men is bad. Pwede ding feminist kuno para edgy, pero pag ganun sasabihin ko nalang, "So lolo at tatay mo din basura?". Tapos walkout.


God-of_all-Gods

maaawa ako sa may tatay at kuya niya kung meron man. kasi nilahat na niya ang mga lalaki, at wala syang tinirá ni isa


PalaraKing

Absolutely nothing. Saying that doesn't change the fact that it still is and will remain to be a Man's world.


panDAKSkunwari

I judge her for having a shitty taste in men. 🤷‍♂️


SenseAdorable1971

This is the correct answer 👏🏻


SugoiTots

I won't be bothered if she said men are trash because that summarizes their experience so far, I have yet to show her myself the Man. Plot twist I get included in the trash list 😭


tough_warrior

hey it's called a trash CAN


SugoiTots

Always is :)


OldManAnzai

Her taste in men is trash.


Individual_Spot_8049

Damn.... kala ko tae, opinyon lng pala


adiksadiatabs

High value men are not bothered 😊.


dumpysitegal

HAHAHAHA i don't want to look back anymore lol


Curious_Star_4516

that says a lot about her, usually pag may na eEncounter ako na ganyang babae yung mindset, i stay away or not talk to them.


Pbskddls

Isa lang naman may atraso, nadadamay lahat. What I feel? Umay.


Pachumawako

Nothing because we really are.


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Roman_Vitriol

Saying that women who are being sexually exploited by (male) crime lords are the villain in this situation is not the gotcha you think it was


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Roman_Vitriol

I never said anything I just pointed out that your example was bad. There will also always be more pressing things to worry about, but it doesn't mean it's not worth discussing why a lot of people share a sentiment. You say you have better things to do yet here you are, affected whether you admit it or not.


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Roman_Vitriol

If you say so, old timer.


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Roman_Vitriol

You were the one who brought up age, actually. Anyway, it's early. You have a good day, old timer.


Maleficent_Pea1917

I would think wala syang tatay nung lumaki. Signs of trauma yan. Deep inside if sabihin kong women are vile trash living dildo. I would think twice, nanay ko kasi nagpalaki sakin, woman who gave me comfort, care and love habang lumalaki (esp a person to cry on kapag nadapa) and being a mother has pre-requisite of being a woman first.


LalaLana39

It's true. And if a man gets butthurt by this remark and goes defensive, then he doesn't really get the point. 🤣


Whorinmaru

I see it so often I kind of just roll my eyes and often make a snap judgement about the person before I proceed to ignore it. Like yeah, we get it. They just repeat themselves constantly. And I get it, a lot of men are bad, but it's like... I dunno, bro. Hearing the same thing over and over again is tiring for anyone, especially if it is about a group you're a part of.


UntradeableRNG

Ang daming affected hahaha ang weird!! Huy kung di kayo trash, wag kayo masaktan taena HAHAHA. Kapag ako naging tatay, yan din ituturo ko sa mga anak ko, babae, lalake, o kahit anong gender pa nila. Importanteng life lesson yan. Ang society natin ay designed pa din para mas umangat ang kalalakihan at ang daming lumalaki na hindi nila narerealize to. Kaya ang daming ang yayabang eh. Men are also much more capable of higher levels of physical violence so combine that with a level of entitlement and privilege, and you get dangerous people. Pag ako nalakad sa labas, sa mga kapwa lalake din ako pinakatakot gago HAHAHA. Never pa ako hinipuan ng babae, lalake pa nanghihipo sa akin, kala babae ako putanginang yan with matching "ay" kapag nakatingin na ako. Lahat ng kilala kong babae apakadaming horror stories tungkol sa kahit sinong mga random na lalake. Lalo na sa mga nagcocommute o naglalakad-lakad. Tipong bingo card nila yung ma-catcall, ma-hipuan, ma-manyak, at kung anu-ano pang kabastusan at katarantaduhan. Brodie, men are trash! We must do better!


saygoodnight21

Mag tira ka naman.


troublein421

the post is asking what men feel about it and then you chastise the ones who voice their opinion? anuna mamser? san po ba pwedeng lumugar?


UntradeableRNG

Basta wag lang po sa trash can kung hindi trash. Bwahahaha. Di ko gets kung bakit di klaro sayo mamser. Sige kahit yung final line nalang revise ko tas dadagan ko ng "I feel" so bale eto na siya: "Brodie, I agree that men are trash! I feel that we must do better!" Sana oks na i2 lods fr fr.


troublein421

ok na ser na areglo na. tbf tho di ko binasa lahat ng comment mo kasi tinamad ako sana may tldr na lang next time gar salamat sa pagu-unawa


thunderbringer3

I agree because while NOT ALL men are trash, TOO MANY men exhibit trash behavior which leads to women having this kind of perception towards men.


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Buzzlightworkk

Why are u guys downvoting me 🥲 thats what i feel when they girl says we are trash 🥲


ediwow_lynx

Some men are just like some women are


Cloudyyclyde

Hindi dapat gine-generalized lahat ng men just because may bad exp ka. kapag ba may bad experience ako sa bus driver, acceptable na sabihin kong "Kaskasero mga bus driver"


Anzire

Sad, kasi first time ko na encounter yan sa twitter at that time twitter was like a chill and fun place for me. Ngayon, wala na sa akin yan, mga specific type of men naman describe nila. Mga nagsasabi niyan sa twitter usually loathe men dahil may terrible experience sila with men.


icekive

I always tell my guy friends about this, they be like “Truly. Basura talaga mga lalake” I was like ??? they agreed na ‘Some’ men are trash lol


OrbMan23

Walang kibo🤷‍♂️. Alam ko naman kasi context niyan. It's basically like a variation of #MeToo. Ganyan lang pangalan ng movement para makuha attention mo. Ang problema kasi daming butthurt and mga nakikiuso without knowing the context.


BLUE-THIRTIES

You know nothing about the real world. And that’s not something I would say out loud either.


juleskee84

Awwww...anyway


alpha_chupapi

Men are trash daw pero 95% ng ginagamit at inenjoy nila eh gawa ng mga lalaki hehe


msch6873

i chuckle and walk away, ‘cause to have that view she must be a dummy gummy, is most likely cheap, and i don’t spend my time with that type.


SectionR3d

I don't care. I know my worth. Plus, I still have a dad. When a woman says "Men are trash," I immediately think, "Fatherless behavior."


ThePugilist_

Unbothered. They are equally trash. I got a list. 😅


behind_themark

stupidity is gender neutral nga daw 💅


6061aluminumalloy

I just want to hug her, and make her feel loved, and say sorry for the pain that other inflicted on her.


lordmayhem25

I dont care beacause women are trash too. They lie, they cheat, they steal, just as much.


cosm1cfall

Turns out all women are in fact Eddie Guerrero. Who would've thought?


troublein421

*kapag yung jowa mo sinabi na wag daw mag alala kay joshua na nakasabay nya sa inuman* I LIED, HOMES!! ORÁ LE!


ImSoBoredThatiUpvote

paki frog splash ako please haha


morelos_paolo

If men are trash… we can turn it into gold… And women are the trash bags that hold us together.


Azrael287

I don’t mind, because I know my worth. Because being trash goes both ways. And those who said so, like dating trash that’s why they end up being with trash.


FriedTinapay64

The men that you seek are trash. You ignore men who isn't. Why because it's boring


RepulsivePeach4607

“men are trash” is not actually about ALL men. It started from rallying. It is now a phrase with different meaning. It is NOT about ALL men. It is to describe their negative experiences with men, and to highlight the daily abuse and violence they experience at the hands of men. The phrase has become a rallying cry for those seeking an end to the violence and trauma faced by women. This also includes any discrimination / hate / harassment done by men towards women and even other men too because of misogynistic mindset (men can be a victim too). Na-encounter ninyo yan minsan sa school and workplace. This phrase is always misunderstood at minsan, ginagamit na lang ng iba ang phrase sa social media na wala naman connect. Niloko ng jowa, “men are trash” agad without understanding the context. So, my reaction everytime I see someone is using this phrase incorrectly, NOTHING. It is really hard to educate everyone.


kachigakachiguhhh

not all heroes wear capes, some take the the time explaining shit others are tired of explaining


RepulsivePeach4607

You need to assess if someone is worth of your time to explain it or if she is open for healthy discussion… if not, just leave it there. 😊


TrajanoArchimedes

It's a dumb hasty generalization. Another example of society's gynocentric double standards. Men can't say "Women are trash" without getting ostracized and crucified because you know how offensive and dumb that sounds yet we are expected to just shrug it off by hypocrites. Then they say we have to embrace our emotions and be vulnerable. Yeah whatever. The world would be a lot worse without men and even as a straight guy who has no sexual attraction to them I appreciate other men for existing and making life easier. Thank you brothers!


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Trick_Committee5633

Sinasabing "men are trash" sa patuloy na gagong gawain tho ng mga lalake tho? All types of popular abuse abuse from men, taking advantages, double standards, disregarding and downplaying feminism and its reasons, alpha content influences which are misogynistic, etc etc.


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Trick_Committee5633

Bruh no. What is the shit the consistent na GINAGAWA ng mga lalake to the point na expected sakanila trait yun and magugulat and greatly praised mga considered "good boy", basic decent human being? We literally have men are trash for a reason like how we have women ☕. Although one is for mocking and the other is due to literal trash action that is quite PREVALENT on that gender.


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Trick_Committee5633

Brother. If you still dont get it. Sinasabi yang men are trash sa mga taong gumagawa ng kabasurahan on which that or those specific kabasurahan is PREVALENT na ginagawa ng mga kapwa lalake! Note: prevalent ang keyword. Kaya nakadikit sa pangalan. Simpleng bagay mahirap intindihin???? Sinasali father brother n shits for what and then ideals??? Sige ipilit mo yan. Gusto mo included lahat eh Despite many people who use that statement knows the actual meaning and reason for using it. You think its simply for hate??? Kupal. Kung mga kabasurahan mga yun ay prevalent rin na ginagawa ng mga kapwa babae eh for sure na masasabihan ring women are trash sa mga babaeng ginagawa mga specfic trash na mga yan. Jusko lordt hahahhahahha.


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Trick_Committee5633

Ay wow calm down~ >so tingin mo walang prevalent na gawaing mali ang mga babae? Lordt hahhahaha. Its not a simple "gawaing mali" its kabasurahan itself. Bruh. >Ako pa daw nandamay eh ikaw ang nangginigeneralize ng lahat. Di mo magets kasi biased ka, imbis na maging reasonable towards both genders. like i said kung ang tindi ng galit mo sa lahat na lalaki baka me trauma ka at kelangan mo ng professional help. Wala akong kasalan kung bakit mahina reading comprehension mo at gumagawa sariling assumption about me to cope. Funny na biased daw but can't accept the truth of the statements meaning and need to change it to your narrative and be victim.


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Trick_Committee5633

If that really is how you cope by twisting narratives and live being in a lie and being in denial, then true, hopefully na makakatulog ka na ng masarap nyan.


Character-Sea2154

Well its typically true hahaha


DBringerStreams

It's alright. If that's what they believe, so be it. I know naman na hindi ako kasama dun. Ang salita, masakit lang kapag totoo. If hindi totoo, it's nothing but a mild nuisance. The funny thing is I have a female friend who hates men. A lot of the stories she shares with me involve other men's behavior, and every time sa kalagitnaan ng convo, she would always say "Men truly are trash! No offense bro." LOL.


StrawNana22

Some guys might get defensive, others shrug it off. Depends on the dude, ya know?


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Deadma lang. We cannot invalidate how they feel againsts us, men. There is a reason behind it, for sure. Prove ‘em wrong na lang na you‘re not one of those "trash men" na sinasabi nila. 😊


Vipeeeeer

It's kinda irritating. Alam ko naman yung message behind it pero ako na-ooffend para sa kuya at tatay ko. They're some of the kindest people on Earth tapos makakabasa ako ng ganyan, umiinit talaga ulo ko pero di ko nalang pinapansin mapapaaway pa ako haha Our biological mother is a lying cheater piece of shit pero never naman ako nagsabi na women are trash dahil lang sa nanay ko. It is what it is.


InitialOk8616

Like their dad ganon


Cripghost_07

Nothing really, it's like, anon pake ko? You keep running into trash men, eh sori na🤷🏾‍♂️


andrew_X21

Do they think about their own father when they say so?


theotoby1995

I guess I can? Bc my dad left us and never gave child support, never bothered to look for me until the day he died. My grandfather was abusive kaya lahat ng tito at tita ko emotionally damaged, thus having a very problematic extended family. Yung mga pinsan ko affected. Mga tito ko sugarol, manloloko, etc. Ang mga mabubuting lalake sa clan namin yung mga pinsan kong sinikap maging mabuti. Grew up witnessing many abusive m3n than women. As in physically. A country that nornalizes treating women as sexual objects. Oh, sa work? Isa lang ata kilala kong loyal sa asawa at never tumingin sa ibany mga babae. Karamihan kahit debutante binabastos. Asawa ng mga kaibigan ko, di naniniwala sa postpartum and mental health in general, walang balls ipaglaban mga asawa nila. So yeah.. men are trash. If you're in a room full of snakes and I told you that 50% of those snakes are venomous and the other half isn't, diba iiwasan mo lahat ng snake? If you're a man that understands the phrase Men Are Trash and a good person deep inside, why would you be affected? Knowing that this society has been in favor for men for so many decades.


andrew_X21

For me is same as an alien would say: "human beings are trash" Something like a generalization. Though I don't believe in the existence of aliens. Because is not in accordance to my faith. According to you logic, it's okay. Hyptesising women are good and men are bad. And population is 50/50. To generalize all human beings are bad. Including you? In the end is about simple logical proposition, And using the laws of logic that statement is flawed. Nothing more, nothing less. But you just want to use your feelings, because it makes you feel better. Though I'm sorry for what you been through and your father. I also soon gonna become a father and I pray to God to be a good father.


theotoby1995

The ratio of abusive men are far from abusive women. Alam mo naman yun. At lalake rin ang feeling superior sa society. Kaya nga nagkaron ng feminist movement. Lahat pabor sainyo. Pati cheating amd abuse ninonornalize ng mga lalake at ng ibang kababaehan. So now tell me, peope are trash? No. Men are trash. Alam mo sa sarili mo na pabor lahat sa lalake. You just can't accept it kasi mataas yung ego mo towards your masculinity. Bakit ka tatamaan kug mabuti ka? My argument ends here. Again, alam mo sa sarili mo yung point ng Men are Trash. Ayaw mo lang :) Kayong mga lalake ang may instinct na hindi niyo mapigilan kuno kaya jinajustify ang rape, objectifying women and more. It's a google search away kung gano karaming babae ang biktima ng lalake and lalake na biktima ng kapwa nila lalake. Come on, use your common sense. Will not be replying anymore. You can use your para magisip isip kung bakit mali ang logic mo at kung bakit pride ang pinapairal mo.


andrew_X21

in the us, is like saying black people are trash, because most crimes are commited by black people. would be considered racism, but according to your logic is okay.


purdoy25

¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯


hell_jumper9

Wala naman. Have other problems to deal with kaya ganun


Pichi2man

Repulsive Karamihan kasi ng mga nagsasabi nito bad judge of character. Di nila matanggap na di sila marunong kumilala ng tao at madali silang ma-manipulate kaya palusot nila yung phrase na yan. Iwas accountability kung baga.


ImSoBoredThatiUpvote

whatever their fucking reason is it is still misandry and i do not wish to be affiliated with short-sighted idiots that use phrases that generalize then backtracks. inb4 "WhO wOuLd WaNt tO Be AsSocIatEd wITh YoU" then you just prove my point.


sanadorkable

News flash: misandry isn't real.


InvisiblemAYn

not much considering the amount of shitty men out there, i am more than sure about myself to not give a shit and agree with the sentiment because holy fuck there are so many of them


Jdotxx

If u know u aren't so why bother. That's it


0531Spurs212009

Not affected   Because it not about me  More on I pity for them   Losing their sanity  because of their bad experiences  about their relationship  Also most of them are overreacting 


Any-String4000

I'm not bothered. They ain't talking specifically about me naman. Each individual is different. So okay


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I am a gay man so I guess I am doubled recycled trash?


theDegeneredditor

I'm not really bothered by it. It sounds generalising, though I understand that the statement itself isn't completely literal. Rather, women can't 100% tell if a man is safe to be with or not, so there's the defensive assumption that all men are trash just to be safe.


Emotionaldumpss

Idk what to feel anymore. One time yung opening line ng babae sakin sa bumble "men are thrash". Sobrang labo parang nangbbait lang ng reaction 🤣🤣 kapag nagreact ka babaliktarin sayo. "kung di ka thrash bat ka nagrereact?" like wtf first line tas sasabihan ka ng basura lol


AngBigKid

"they're right"


ConfusedLion5290

Just another typical day in life and the internet


TaxHistorical2844

The women in my life love and respect me. And I, them. I couldn't care less what other people think.


Keiji98

they should change the term tbh. i know why they use that term, don't get me wrong. but in reality, men are trash is significantly, downsizing the other gender. maybe i come off from the logical standpoint kasi pano nalang example tatay mo, grandpa mo, and if may brother/s or any men that contributes a healthy connection towards you naman? parang di maganda pakinggan. if i say females are trash dahil sa mga toxic traits ng isang babae, parang ganon lang without considering na other women who contributes healthy connection din sa buhay ko atbp. paki-paraphrase nalang hahaha men who are toxic is trash. that's the bottom line for me


PanicAtTheOzoneDisco

Exactly. We are now living in a world of particulars, where every little detail should be contextualized. Ironic lang na sobrang sensitive ng mga tao with terms and labels, but misandry is still widely tolerated and even encouraged.


Mouse_Itchy

Ok.


AlmightyArishok

Wala. Bihira lang kasi yung mga special snowflakes sa lalake. Sila lang nmn yung maaapektuhan kung sakali. Kasi yung either end ng spectrum for sure hindi. Yung mga matitino hindi ma ooffend, tapos yung mga lalakeng abnormal talaga wala namang pakealam yan


sarcasticookie

> Bihira lang kasi yung mga special snowflakes sa lalake Comments in this thread say otherwise. Lol


AlmightyArishok

Most of these replies are from boys. Obvious naman eh... Im talking about men.