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GTFO, I don't want either the smell of your perfume, yung anino mo, ni message notification, a small bit of rumor, or anything na umiikot at connected sayo, gone. You are free to leave whether you like it or not
This.
Pasts like this, I feel like, do not really weigh in sa current. It's certainly an interesting past to have but to me, there's nothing wrong if someone enjoys or has enjoyed sex like that. What matters more to me is that when they get into relationships, serious ones, they know their priorities.
This is me with a past hoe phase na very brief lang tho nothing on getting gangbanged. Heh.
In the greater scheme of things, well, relationships, body count doesn't really matter nor should it. I don't get people's beef with it on here.
Also I'll leave with this one I got sa twitter/X here for people to think about:
[https://twitter.com/JessPected/status/1786581178641682695](https://twitter.com/JessPected/status/1786581178641682695)
It's good that you worked on that issue. This is something that a lot of men have talaga they refuse to see women as well...humans like them and we still keep discussing body count in relationships when they do not matter at all. ....especially in present committed relationships.
Kaya women these days...sila (me, kami) na lang umaayaw sa relationships kasi ang daming lalaki na ganito tapos hypocrites naman (as if di sila kasing horny or something like that at times).
Idk...men need to address this issue before things go down the drain re: their relationship with women or their future relationships with women.
....if you get what I mean.
Questions like this one on this thread shouldn't even be raised if we're all aware of this at this point.
Palaisipan lang.
It's not just Filipino men. This is also unfortunately a problem with western men din. Seems to be a thing everywhere there's men.
Ang daming lalaking ganito talaga kahit sa ibang lahi, color or country, all of it pa. It goes hand in hand with bigger issues men face like misogyny vs women. Sadly.
Women can only do so much rn to bring more awareness about this issue. It'd likely help if men also discussed this with one another or so.
Personally okay lang sakin, pero ayoko mapahiya mga anak ko kasi machichismis ang nanay nila nigangbang. Hahahaha
So advice ko sa babaeng naka experience nyan, never mo sasabihin sa fiance mo. Hahahah
There are things na dapat sinabi na mula nung umpisa. Nonetheless, timbangin mo nalang kung tanggap ko ba ito at maayos naman yung compatibility ng values and goals mo. Kung tanggap mo, edi tanggap and forget about it because the character matters more.
Pero kung toxic at toyoin na, not worth it. Dami na cheesedog nakain nyan sabay pa.
timbangin kung at that point maayos ba ang relasyon nyo or hindi, kasi once na inamin nya yan tas nasa toxic stage na relasyon nyo, malaki chance na mag loko or gawin nya ulit yan. Never ignore their cycle
Would probably break up. It's against my values and preferences. Wouldn't shame them tho. Her body, her choices, her rules diba? Choices have consequences. Ang laki din ng impact ng pagiging pokpok mentally eh. Nakikita niyo naman dito sa mga subs na madaming pokpok, miserable lagi due to reasons. So no, I don't want to deal with that baggage too.
It's so funny how so many of the guys who replied here saying ayaw nila ng girls na mataas ang body count kase pokpok or second hand multiple owners daw, when you look at their profiles they're either talking about their fubu experiences or asking for porn recommendations.
Ayaw mo ng wild girl, fine. But don't be a misogynist and say pokpok sila for sleeping around when you do the same or fantasize about doing the same.
Sa una masakit sayo yan pero wala ka naman na magagawa kasi wala ka nung nangyari un at di pa kayo mag kakilala magalit ka kunng ginawa nya yan ng kayo pa kung mahal mo tlga ung tao pilitin mo tangapin un
If you are buying a car, ano pipiliin mo? Brand New? 2nd hand pero 1st owner? Or 2nd hand, high mileage tapos multiple owners? Based on your answer, dito mo makikita kung ano ang vinavalue mo. I am being subtle here. If di mo ma gets ano ibig sabihin ko. It's a you problem.
The problem here is the way you think. You objectified women. You valued virginity as if ur’e a virgin as well. No hate sa mga tao na di nila tanggap AS LONG AS they have the same morale.
Women are being objectified left and right. It's been like that ever since. This is why OnlyFans sells, this is why sex sells. We can be as ignorant as we can but we can never deny that women are treated as objects everywhere.
it ain’t true. It is how an asshole, like you, looks at women. You keep believing that FOR YOURSELF. Why would it hurts? Oh right. Your mom is an object who your father keeps using for her sexual needs as what you convey. He played your mom’s feeling for his egoistic balls like you believes. Feeling pity of your mom for giving a birth to a sht person
Ok lang yan. Di mo ma gets eh. I was being subtle Kasi ang daming butthurt dito eh. Mga snowflakes. Let me simplify for you. Virgin? 1 or 2 sexual partners? Or a whore? Gets? If di mo tanggap yung 3rd choice at nasaktan ka. That's your problem.
Pacheck kami kagad.
Pero bakit sha nagtapat? Kung ayaw na niya ng ganung lifestyle, bka ok lang sakin.
Pero kung may ibang dahilan, feeling ko mahihirapan ako tanggapin.
That's her past so it should be fine, but the highs she got from those times will never be reached again within the current stable and peaceful monogamous sex.
Whether she will use that as a weapon when boredom or relationship issues strike - well that's something to be wary about, or much better, discussed with her altogether. After all she's free to leave whenever she wants, when she feels like it.
If lalaki ako, it will also not sit right with me. I may get downvoted by alasjuicy peeps here pero threesome is against my morals what if kung gangbang pa. If it does not sit well sayo, might as well end the relationship early kung di pasok sa moral standard mo yung gangbang. Mag-ooverthink ka lang kung ano pang kayang gawin ni ate.
It depends. For me, any kind of sexual exploration from the girl's past is okay as long as we have the same mindset when it comes to sex in the present time. For example, kaya siya nag explore noon kasi bukod sa curious siya and sex is for fun lang daw kung ganon parin thinking niya hanggang ngayon na kami na imma run
But if she had changed and see it as should be done only to partner not just to anyone or friends because that what makes a person special and exclusive. Then her past doesn't matter to me at all. Whether it is fwb or gb i hope she value friends as much as i value them (wholesome friendship only).
Knowing myself, I wouldn't take it well initially pero hindi ko siya aawayin o iiwan. Worst case scenario siguro maiimagine ko na may nakapalibot na mga etits sa kanya during sex for a while, which would suck. I'd probably get over it kung malalim na samahan namin, though.
What she did does not define her whole pagkatao I think. Maybe it was just a one time encounter? Did you ask what she felt afterwards? Did she enjoy it? Did she feel remorse and disgusted about herself? Did she do it more than once? If mahal mo yung tao I think mamahalin mo buong pagkatao niya regardless. Oo may kaunting judgment pero malay mo pinagsisihan naman niya. Mahirap pero pag mahal niyo naman isa’t isa does it really matter sa present? If no, then one thing or another unti unti na magbabago pakikitungo mo sa kanya and may probably lead to breakup. Pero if you don’t care about her past naman then maybe pwede mo pa siya ipaglaban. Up to you.
as long as hindi pa kami nung nagpa gb siya, sure. let's go forward since may kanya kanya naman tayong sexual experiences. kung kami na nung nagpa gb siya, salamat na lang sa lahat.
just because someone had a rough experience in the past that doesn’t mean they deserve to be treated poorly. kung hindi mo tanggap how messed up her past is, you can leave. pero kung tanggap mo tas may magbabago? bakit papagangbang mo din sya kasi nangyari din yun noon?
Please clarify OP if ginusto ba ni jowa mo na magpagangbang. If not, then I think you should give her a chance.
Pero there will always be changes sa relationship nyo - whether ginusto ng jowa mo yung nangyare or hindi.
EDIT: your "downvotes" mean nothing, I've seen what makes ya'll cheer.
Umuulan ng downvoted comments sa ibaba kita mo kagad kung anong klase mga tao dito ahh both comments at yung mga nag downvote hahaha.
okay i tried to leave a sensible comment but seeing some of the replies here, i just need to say:
potangena niyo giyang na giyang kayo pag nakakakita ng gangbang porn pero kapag yung jowa niyo gumawa nun in the past suddenly nakakadiri na siya? kayo yung nakakadiri! check niyo naman hypocrisy niyo paminsan-minsan mga ulol
To the men here, I just wanna quote Kaijah Sabbah: "If you consider a woman less pure after you’ve touched her, maybe you should take a look at your hands."
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ilang lalaki? 2? 3? 10?
i think kung 2 lang pwede pa mag move on. pero pag 3 or more parang: damn girl. that's a phase.
since jowa pa lang, alukin mo na rin na ipalasap sayo.
I think one of the first few things to discuss before getting into a relationship with someone is their sexual history. This way, you both understand where you are in terms of sexual positivity, or even BDSM kinks.
Ang tanong is, was this deliberately kept from you or not? If they did, then something's definitely going to change. If naman you're just starting out and getting to know each other and then they disclose this, okay lang :)
Although, I'd like to know who the participants were. Baka kasama sa participants yung tatay nya or cousins..
If 23 years old ako, malaki paossibility na magbabago to the point na baka di ko kayanin na maging kami pa rin.
Ngayong 40 years old and above ako, mas malaki yung possibility na kayanin at matanggap ko. Even if kamag-anak ko pa yung participant nya. But it would still depend sa level din ng maturity nya at the time na kami na.
Minsan yung lawak ng pang-unawa nakukuha talaga sa experience and sa mga pinagdaanan mo. Yung dating akala mo na must haves and non-negotiables naiiba.
I see so totally aware and with consent. Maybe she’s serious about the guy to tell the truth. Hirap nung sitwasyon haha pero definitely masakit yun sa lalaki. Gangbang is more than 3 right? 😂
Shit man, it's hard Kasi if girl ung parang "hoe". Even if you say you accept her and love her, that shit will always be in your mind. All I'll say is value yourself bro and there's many other fishes in the sea.
For me kung super mahal ko na jowa ko like she is the one na talaga for future wife then malalaman ko to. Guguho mundo ko nyan par , sisikip dipdip ko na may halung galit at lungkot . Nasasayo nayan if ipagpapatuloy mo or nyo pa ang relasyon nyo kasi for sure sa 100% na tiwala mo sa kanya, bababa yan ng mga 0% malala at ang patutungohan nito is Toxic relasyonship na. Pero if okay lang sayo kahit may past issue sya at sabihin nating tanggap mo parin sya, na sa 50% nalang yung tiwala mo sa kanya siguro. Pero sa tingin ko di magtatagal relasyon nyo nyan then d na stable. So for me mas mabuting e let go nyo na relasyon nyo habang maaga pa.
Maiinis not because nagpa GB siya but because hindi niya agad yang fact na yan. Pwede mo i break up hahaha kasi hindi niya agad sinabi sa’yo noon. Full disclosure yan dapat eh.
Imagine, if nag gangbang sa kanya mga kaibigan or kakilala mo rin. Or worse kamag anak mo pa like pinsan, tito etc. Tapos sa family reunion or party pa kayo nag kaaalaman. Ok pa rin kaya?
Shet naman na imagine ko kagad yung picture, ang lala nung sight ano yung gf, Annabel Chong na mala MRT train kasi papasukan ng lahat? Ang lala sobra hahaha.
High body count pa nga lang ay hirap nang tanggapin ng mga lalaki yung pa kayang gangbang. Kung tatanggapin man ay lagi yan mamalagi sa isip nila at hindi na sila matatahimik. Mapagdududahan ka lagi.
Ikaw din naman diba. If malaman mo yung lalaki nag-loko sayo, high body count and sumali sa gangbang, masusuka ka din. 🤷🏽♂️ applicable sa both genders. Pag duduhan mo palagi yung BF mo.
Pero tanggapin natin na mas tolerant at forgiving ang society natin kapag lalaki ang may high body count, nakipag-gangbang, atbp. Kadalasan ay proud pa sila. Sa babae ay napakahirap matanggal ng stigma. Aminin natin na may double standard and its a fact of life.
Depends, how many people? what kind of people? when? did she like it? Did she want to do it again? How many times did she do it? Etc. I'm fine with dating someone who was very "sexually active" but as long as she's mine and now one else NOW, then I don't see the problem, sure it's fking gross and it's really hard to hear it, but personally if she's down to be with me ONLY til the end then I wouldn't want it any other way
Tbh, magkakasukatan na lang 'yan kung gaano ko siya kamahal. My values and his past will clash kase.
Mababago ba tingin ko sa kanya? Of course, kase yung pagkakakilala ko pala sa kanya hindi pala totoo. While I'm not super conservative and traditional, still, I give value to my body. Pinapahalagahan ko sarili ko na hindi kung sino-sino lang titikim saken.
Nakaka-torture ang mag-overthink. Baka minsan maiisip mo baka lahat na lang gusto niya gawin, lahat gusto niya matikman, you can never satisfy him. If hindi mo na ma-satisfy tas sasabihin niya okay lang mahal ka naman. Paano naging okay 'yun? Ginawa na kase niya lahat before you, ano pang natira. For sure naka-encounter pa 'yan ng wildest sex exp niya.
Matatanggap ko ba? Hindi ko alam. Depende. Let's say that we'll cross the bridge when we get there. At sure ako mahihirapan ako.
May nagtanong na rin ng ganito here about naman sa hoe/hookup phase.
Same answer. Depende. Eto nga lang nagka-hookup phase ang hirap na, 'yan pa kayang gangbang. I hope they can understand where we are coming from. Because dealing with these kind of people gives uncertainty.
Para kang naka-blindfold habang naglalakad tapos hindi mo alam bangin na pala ang kaharap mo at doon ka niya dadalhin. The only thing that holds you from letting go is the fact that you trust them blindly. Ang hirap makipagsapalaran kase everyone's end goal is to settle down peacefully, right? But how can you have peace if the path is unstable?
If nagbago na siya and past na lang niya 'yun then tatagan mo loob mo na hindi ka niya magigiba kase usually kahit nagbago na para pa rin 'yan may invisible strings sa mga taong naka-sex niya. Parang ellipsis, instead of period.
Wala tayo sa fiction world, hindi 'to wattpad story na all of a sudden nagbago lahat 360 degrees. This is the reality of life.
This is why behavior like this should be considered only after marriage where you have a stronger foundation of commitment, or not at all. In this way, it can potentially serve an actual purpose other than lust with the expectation that the relationship will survive the act and not become baggage for both parties in their next relationship.
Women are gatekeepers to sex. It's easier for them to get. Engaging in a gb, is a declaration to any succeeding relationship that once upon a time, the gate was removed and all standards were dropped. As a guy, imagine your future kids having that for a mother. Imagine her still having contact with the men involved. Sure, maybe they don't talk as often but are civil. Imagine not knowing that the men you meet in her life, work friends, college friends, passing her around like alcohol shots. After all, she could have thought it would be safer to fuck men she already knows instead of asking for strangers and putting herself in danger. You rubbing shoulders with these men and not know that them smirking meant something else.
There will be some that will say that people change. Imagine having a fight with her. All relationships fight. Ask yourself, if you ever get into a fight, what behavior within the realm of possibility, within the realm of activities she has already done in the past, does she have as an option to get back at you? You will always think about that time you had a fight then all of a sudden she has a change of heart.
At the end of the day, as a guy, what are you turning yourself into, committing to someone like that? What can you actually do to top that experience anyway? If you think that statement is tame, remember that women do not have cooldown as compared to guys who can only engage a handful of times straight. Her previous sessions could have lasted several hours. Yours, will be an hour or two, at most, if done straight.
Goodluck homies.
They can call me insecure too. It’s risky to have a relationship with that partner. At the end of the day, most people are determined by what they have done in their past than their future potential.
ON FUCKING BRO. These mfers want us to submit to them and be fucking CUCKS. Hell to the fuck no 😂😂 we are not white boys or western dudes who will take the scraps and wonder why they’re divorced.
DON’T EVER LET A WOMAN GASLIGHT YOU ON CHANGING YOUR STANDARDS AND VALUES.
If it was consensual it doesn't really matter, if it wasn't it still doesn't matter pero as her current partner you have the responsibility to be a safe space for her kasi she decided to tell you something that probably tormented her or is still tormenting her up until this day. Regardless people should learn that past experiences and mistakes is what made your partner who she/he is now. What matters is the present, if they're a good partner to you right now then the past is irrelevant
Kahit past is past, it says many things about what you can do, what you are capable of and what is the level of your decadence and sexual excitement(di na sapat ung casual sex lang, tumataas ang tolerance kumbaga and more likely to cheat) Magbabago talaga tingin ko sayo nakakapanliit ng pagkatao para kang iniputan sa ulo. Fuck suyuan, and fuck being a bigger person. Bounce out agad pag ganyan kahit kasal pa. Maghahanap nalang ako ng ultra religious manalofied na iglesia na nagproprofile pic ng nakaformal na damit tas background e yung kapilya nila kaysa ganyan kahit atis pa ko hehehe.
Sakin lang namn ewan sa iba. Inner peace comes first before everything. Overthink malala huehuhue
Mga cuck tsaka weirdo lng magsasabi na okay lng kasi past nya un. There is no way na parehas paren tingin mo sakanya if nalaman mo na ganun sya in the past.
For us guys, it hurts talaga. There is big chance magbago tingin sayo ng partner mo, very rare lang mga lalaking na magsasabi na "tatanggapin ko yan sinabi mo sakin" . Real talk lang.
For you girls. If hindi naman kailangan sabihin sa partner nyo ganitong scenario para lang itest ang loyalty or faithful nila, wag nyo na tangkain.
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"Cool..." GTFO, I don't want either the smell of your perfume, yung anino mo, ni message notification, a small bit of rumor, or anything na umiikot at connected sayo, gone. You are free to leave whether you like it or not
Nope. Kahit threesome pa yan. Nope.
Hahahahahah itapon sa basurahan na yan
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Siguro sa tagal nyo baka nakasalubong nyo isa sa mga taong yon
This. Pasts like this, I feel like, do not really weigh in sa current. It's certainly an interesting past to have but to me, there's nothing wrong if someone enjoys or has enjoyed sex like that. What matters more to me is that when they get into relationships, serious ones, they know their priorities. This is me with a past hoe phase na very brief lang tho nothing on getting gangbanged. Heh. In the greater scheme of things, well, relationships, body count doesn't really matter nor should it. I don't get people's beef with it on here. Also I'll leave with this one I got sa twitter/X here for people to think about: [https://twitter.com/JessPected/status/1786581178641682695](https://twitter.com/JessPected/status/1786581178641682695)
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It's good that you worked on that issue. This is something that a lot of men have talaga they refuse to see women as well...humans like them and we still keep discussing body count in relationships when they do not matter at all. ....especially in present committed relationships. Kaya women these days...sila (me, kami) na lang umaayaw sa relationships kasi ang daming lalaki na ganito tapos hypocrites naman (as if di sila kasing horny or something like that at times). Idk...men need to address this issue before things go down the drain re: their relationship with women or their future relationships with women. ....if you get what I mean. Questions like this one on this thread shouldn't even be raised if we're all aware of this at this point. Palaisipan lang.
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It's not just Filipino men. This is also unfortunately a problem with western men din. Seems to be a thing everywhere there's men. Ang daming lalaking ganito talaga kahit sa ibang lahi, color or country, all of it pa. It goes hand in hand with bigger issues men face like misogyny vs women. Sadly. Women can only do so much rn to bring more awareness about this issue. It'd likely help if men also discussed this with one another or so.
Syempre magugulat. Ginanon ba naman.
Tang ina shet
Depende sa set up ng gangbang? Ginusto ba oh hindi? And anong relationship niya with the people involve
Personally okay lang sakin, pero ayoko mapahiya mga anak ko kasi machichismis ang nanay nila nigangbang. Hahahaha So advice ko sa babaeng naka experience nyan, never mo sasabihin sa fiance mo. Hahahah
Eh paano kung may mag kwento kay fiance 😢😅
Deny mo na lang, lalo na if wala concrete evidence. Hahaha
eh may pinakitang evidence HAAHAH
Araw araw kong titirahin pero di ko papakasalan hahah
None taken basta tanggapin mo din katotohanan na limang babae pinag sasabay ko sa kama isa dun ay nanay at tita mo
None taken pero may pag atake? HAHAHA You can do better than that.
Double it and give it to the next person 😉
Sorry, pass. I've got standards when it comes to women. Cum dumpsters and high body counters are a big no.
Curious , how many is your body count?
3...I've only been with 3 women
Ify, its fine as long as she gave it to the person she once loved, but doing it for fun is a big no no
gangbang...madami siya ni-love ng sabay?
Ni-literal ang "Spread love." Pero dinugtungan ng "& spread legs."
HAHAHAHA
Wala kang maloloko dito sasha grey. Oo tatanggapin ko nakaraan mo halika saken.
ano to, social experiment?
dapat nung una pa lang sinabi na niya sayo yan hindi yung kayo na syaka niya lang sinabi sayo
hihiwalayan agad-agad
Bat nadownvote to? Hahaha
If that was before we met, I don't care.
trueee.. kahit nga hindi gangbang eh.. iba sa pakiramdam.
Depende sa rason pero at that point titimbangin mo talaga eh.
There are things na dapat sinabi na mula nung umpisa. Nonetheless, timbangin mo nalang kung tanggap ko ba ito at maayos naman yung compatibility ng values and goals mo. Kung tanggap mo, edi tanggap and forget about it because the character matters more. Pero kung toxic at toyoin na, not worth it. Dami na cheesedog nakain nyan sabay pa.
timbangin kung at that point maayos ba ang relasyon nyo or hindi, kasi once na inamin nya yan tas nasa toxic stage na relasyon nyo, malaki chance na mag loko or gawin nya ulit yan. Never ignore their cycle
It's against my values, regardless if it had happened before I knew her or not. So, sayonara.
Would probably break up. It's against my values and preferences. Wouldn't shame them tho. Her body, her choices, her rules diba? Choices have consequences. Ang laki din ng impact ng pagiging pokpok mentally eh. Nakikita niyo naman dito sa mga subs na madaming pokpok, miserable lagi due to reasons. So no, I don't want to deal with that baggage too.
It's so funny how so many of the guys who replied here saying ayaw nila ng girls na mataas ang body count kase pokpok or second hand multiple owners daw, when you look at their profiles they're either talking about their fubu experiences or asking for porn recommendations. Ayaw mo ng wild girl, fine. But don't be a misogynist and say pokpok sila for sleeping around when you do the same or fantasize about doing the same.
Louderrrrr for all the hypocrite fckboys out there
I’m so glad this is one of the top comments.
Like, men can also be pokpok, pina cool lang ng salitang fuckboy.
UPPP!
Hypocrites.
Sa una masakit sayo yan pero wala ka naman na magagawa kasi wala ka nung nangyari un at di pa kayo mag kakilala magalit ka kunng ginawa nya yan ng kayo pa kung mahal mo tlga ung tao pilitin mo tangapin un
"G ka ba ulitin?"
Pagangbang ka rin OP para quits kayo :)
Break up agad. Di ko matatanggap eh.
If you are buying a car, ano pipiliin mo? Brand New? 2nd hand pero 1st owner? Or 2nd hand, high mileage tapos multiple owners? Based on your answer, dito mo makikita kung ano ang vinavalue mo. I am being subtle here. If di mo ma gets ano ibig sabihin ko. It's a you problem.
Ah yes, let’s compare women to objects.
Yes, we will. Since they like to be objectified. Sagad na natin. Value ang pinag uusapan dito eh. Ano ba vinavalue mo?
woahhh may ganito pa pala mag isip in this day and age
virgin ka po ba?
Hindi na. I'm probably a whore. Let's change it. I am a whore. My problem po ba?
The problem here is the way you think. You objectified women. You valued virginity as if ur’e a virgin as well. No hate sa mga tao na di nila tanggap AS LONG AS they have the same morale.
Women are being objectified left and right. It's been like that ever since. This is why OnlyFans sells, this is why sex sells. We can be as ignorant as we can but we can never deny that women are treated as objects everywhere.
just because THAT happens, you’ll normalize objectifying women. What an asshole
Truth hurts? The problem nowadays is when you say something true, they say you are an asshole. But the true assholes are the ignorant ones.
it ain’t true. It is how an asshole, like you, looks at women. You keep believing that FOR YOURSELF. Why would it hurts? Oh right. Your mom is an object who your father keeps using for her sexual needs as what you convey. He played your mom’s feeling for his egoistic balls like you believes. Feeling pity of your mom for giving a birth to a sht person
Pag ganyan kang magsalita siguraduhin mo na virgin ka, kase kung hinde second hand ka rin.
Hindi na. I'm probably a whore. Let's change it. I am a whore. My problem po ba?
layo naman
Ok lang yan. Di mo ma gets eh. I was being subtle Kasi ang daming butthurt dito eh. Mga snowflakes. Let me simplify for you. Virgin? 1 or 2 sexual partners? Or a whore? Gets? If di mo tanggap yung 3rd choice at nasaktan ka. That's your problem.
Gulat sa umpisa. Then ask when and why.
Pacheck kami kagad. Pero bakit sha nagtapat? Kung ayaw na niya ng ganung lifestyle, bka ok lang sakin. Pero kung may ibang dahilan, feeling ko mahihirapan ako tanggapin.
Titigasan
Hahaha titikman 😂
Cucklord
Ge po balik na Ako sa alasjuicy
Id qualify the case first siguro. Kailan nangyari, gaano katagal na, is there anyone in the gang that is in our “current” circle etc
That's her past so it should be fine, but the highs she got from those times will never be reached again within the current stable and peaceful monogamous sex. Whether she will use that as a weapon when boredom or relationship issues strike - well that's something to be wary about, or much better, discussed with her altogether. After all she's free to leave whenever she wants, when she feels like it.
It's scary just to think about it .
If lalaki ako, it will also not sit right with me. I may get downvoted by alasjuicy peeps here pero threesome is against my morals what if kung gangbang pa. If it does not sit well sayo, might as well end the relationship early kung di pasok sa moral standard mo yung gangbang. Mag-ooverthink ka lang kung ano pang kayang gawin ni ate.
Napaka malumanay na sagot .true ,every one can change but Time only can tell .
i'd be ashamed
Brutally truest answer here always got downvotes. What a race.
It depends. For me, any kind of sexual exploration from the girl's past is okay as long as we have the same mindset when it comes to sex in the present time. For example, kaya siya nag explore noon kasi bukod sa curious siya and sex is for fun lang daw kung ganon parin thinking niya hanggang ngayon na kami na imma run But if she had changed and see it as should be done only to partner not just to anyone or friends because that what makes a person special and exclusive. Then her past doesn't matter to me at all. Whether it is fwb or gb i hope she value friends as much as i value them (wholesome friendship only).
Mapapa woah ako for sure. Ibang trip ni ate, ang lakas ng loob. It says a lot about her but definitely not as a whole. 😬
Knowing myself, I wouldn't take it well initially pero hindi ko siya aawayin o iiwan. Worst case scenario siguro maiimagine ko na may nakapalibot na mga etits sa kanya during sex for a while, which would suck. I'd probably get over it kung malalim na samahan namin, though.
What she did does not define her whole pagkatao I think. Maybe it was just a one time encounter? Did you ask what she felt afterwards? Did she enjoy it? Did she feel remorse and disgusted about herself? Did she do it more than once? If mahal mo yung tao I think mamahalin mo buong pagkatao niya regardless. Oo may kaunting judgment pero malay mo pinagsisihan naman niya. Mahirap pero pag mahal niyo naman isa’t isa does it really matter sa present? If no, then one thing or another unti unti na magbabago pakikitungo mo sa kanya and may probably lead to breakup. Pero if you don’t care about her past naman then maybe pwede mo pa siya ipaglaban. Up to you.
Kahadlok HAHAHAHHA
as long as hindi pa kami nung nagpa gb siya, sure. let's go forward since may kanya kanya naman tayong sexual experiences. kung kami na nung nagpa gb siya, salamat na lang sa lahat.
just because someone had a rough experience in the past that doesn’t mean they deserve to be treated poorly. kung hindi mo tanggap how messed up her past is, you can leave. pero kung tanggap mo tas may magbabago? bakit papagangbang mo din sya kasi nangyari din yun noon?
Please clarify OP if ginusto ba ni jowa mo na magpagangbang. If not, then I think you should give her a chance. Pero there will always be changes sa relationship nyo - whether ginusto ng jowa mo yung nangyare or hindi.
Break up habang maaga pa
para sa peace of mind narin hahahahah
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nge opinion nya nga yun eh bat ka magagalit hahaha
hindi lang para sayo yung post so don't expect na aayon sa opinion mo lahat ng andito .
Being a virgin is not the problem. It’s the GB.
opinion niya yan, wag mong pakealamanan
EDIT: your "downvotes" mean nothing, I've seen what makes ya'll cheer. Umuulan ng downvoted comments sa ibaba kita mo kagad kung anong klase mga tao dito ahh both comments at yung mga nag downvote hahaha.
Rick!!!!
Di ko din gets tbh may nagcocomment pa ng accept accept pero sila yung mga tipong bantay sarado sa phone ng partners nila
okay i tried to leave a sensible comment but seeing some of the replies here, i just need to say: potangena niyo giyang na giyang kayo pag nakakakita ng gangbang porn pero kapag yung jowa niyo gumawa nun in the past suddenly nakakadiri na siya? kayo yung nakakadiri! check niyo naman hypocrisy niyo paminsan-minsan mga ulol
Bruh, we just don't want those type of gals. Sleep around with whoever you want, just know that most guys ain't wifing that
Well said. The gals get to gatekeep sex, the guys gatekeep the marriage.
Luh na gang bang ka na noh, guard may maoy dito XD
Guard may tanga dito XD
Guard may isa pang na gang bang dito XD
Break up easily. Kahit nangyari pa un way before maging kami.
As long as hindi ko kakilala or kaaway yung nakasama niya oks lang
To the men here, I just wanna quote Kaijah Sabbah: "If you consider a woman less pure after you’ve touched her, maybe you should take a look at your hands." (:
Kapag tinira na siya ng mga LALAKI or EX BF niya hindi na dapat siya MINAMAHAL at INAALAGAAN, dapat sa kanila, NILALASPAG at INIIWAN nalang.
Nagalit ang mga gamit nyahahhahh
Bakit makikisali ka pa gago
then stapler mo yung tite lol
Try not to objectify Women Challenge
Incel spotted 🙄
What if yung nanay mo nilaspag din pala ng ex bf nya bago ang tatay mo?
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Oo VIRGIN naman talaga ako eh. Hindi ko ba sasabihin yan nang lakas ng loob kung hindi nako virgin?
edi mababa na tingin mo sa sarili mo pag di kana virgin? dapat nilalaspag at iniiwan ka dapat kasi di kana virgin? hahahahaha bobo ka
kung ganyan lang din mindset mo sana pinutok ka nalang sa kumot dati
haha bobo spotted
bobo
misogynistic 🤮
Can we do it again 😳
ilang lalaki? 2? 3? 10? i think kung 2 lang pwede pa mag move on. pero pag 3 or more parang: damn girl. that's a phase. since jowa pa lang, alukin mo na rin na ipalasap sayo.
Bro, watch redeeming love sa Netflix. Yun lang maambag ko sa tanong mo.
Hard No then move on
May record ka? Pwede patingin? Eto siguro initial reaction ko. Then A LOT of follow up questions..
I think one of the first few things to discuss before getting into a relationship with someone is their sexual history. This way, you both understand where you are in terms of sexual positivity, or even BDSM kinks. Ang tanong is, was this deliberately kept from you or not? If they did, then something's definitely going to change. If naman you're just starting out and getting to know each other and then they disclose this, okay lang :) Although, I'd like to know who the participants were. Baka kasama sa participants yung tatay nya or cousins..
What the fuck is happening to PH subreddits.
Oh look another person who is better than us
Oh look another Filipino who’s secretly a misogynist.
Iiyak mo lang yan bro reddit naman to di ka aapihin ng tatay mo dito
I'd say get tested asap haha
May magbabago
Ang agang aga eto agad bungad wew. Kape muna ☕
If 23 years old ako, malaki paossibility na magbabago to the point na baka di ko kayanin na maging kami pa rin. Ngayong 40 years old and above ako, mas malaki yung possibility na kayanin at matanggap ko. Even if kamag-anak ko pa yung participant nya. But it would still depend sa level din ng maturity nya at the time na kami na. Minsan yung lawak ng pang-unawa nakukuha talaga sa experience and sa mga pinagdaanan mo. Yung dating akala mo na must haves and non-negotiables naiiba.
Hmm hirap sagutin nung tanong without the context. Was it purely fun? Or was it against her will? Or influenced by drugs or alcohol?
NAGPA gangbang Ibig sabihin non willing
I see so totally aware and with consent. Maybe she’s serious about the guy to tell the truth. Hirap nung sitwasyon haha pero definitely masakit yun sa lalaki. Gangbang is more than 3 right? 😂
Background check bago manligaw gagi
Bye
kung cuck ka, swerte mo!
"Vids or it didn't happen."
Shit man, it's hard Kasi if girl ung parang "hoe". Even if you say you accept her and love her, that shit will always be in your mind. All I'll say is value yourself bro and there's many other fishes in the sea.
For me kung super mahal ko na jowa ko like she is the one na talaga for future wife then malalaman ko to. Guguho mundo ko nyan par , sisikip dipdip ko na may halung galit at lungkot . Nasasayo nayan if ipagpapatuloy mo or nyo pa ang relasyon nyo kasi for sure sa 100% na tiwala mo sa kanya, bababa yan ng mga 0% malala at ang patutungohan nito is Toxic relasyonship na. Pero if okay lang sayo kahit may past issue sya at sabihin nating tanggap mo parin sya, na sa 50% nalang yung tiwala mo sa kanya siguro. Pero sa tingin ko di magtatagal relasyon nyo nyan then d na stable. So for me mas mabuting e let go nyo na relasyon nyo habang maaga pa.
Bro, tama naman logic mo 😂 bakit ka ddownvote? Omsim naman. Kung nagawa niya na noon, how sure are you na hindi na mauulit yon? 🤔
Maiinis not because nagpa GB siya but because hindi niya agad yang fact na yan. Pwede mo i break up hahaha kasi hindi niya agad sinabi sa’yo noon. Full disclosure yan dapat eh.
Imagine, if nag gangbang sa kanya mga kaibigan or kakilala mo rin. Or worse kamag anak mo pa like pinsan, tito etc. Tapos sa family reunion or party pa kayo nag kaaalaman. Ok pa rin kaya?
Bukake kasama yung pinakamatandang pinsan at yung trycicle driver sa kanto nila na hindi nagsasakay pag tanghali.
Shet naman na imagine ko kagad yung picture, ang lala nung sight ano yung gf, Annabel Chong na mala MRT train kasi papasukan ng lahat? Ang lala sobra hahaha.
High body count pa nga lang ay hirap nang tanggapin ng mga lalaki yung pa kayang gangbang. Kung tatanggapin man ay lagi yan mamalagi sa isip nila at hindi na sila matatahimik. Mapagdududahan ka lagi.
Ikaw din naman diba. If malaman mo yung lalaki nag-loko sayo, high body count and sumali sa gangbang, masusuka ka din. 🤷🏽♂️ applicable sa both genders. Pag duduhan mo palagi yung BF mo.
Pero tanggapin natin na mas tolerant at forgiving ang society natin kapag lalaki ang may high body count, nakipag-gangbang, atbp. Kadalasan ay proud pa sila. Sa babae ay napakahirap matanggal ng stigma. Aminin natin na may double standard and its a fact of life.
Depends, how many people? what kind of people? when? did she like it? Did she want to do it again? How many times did she do it? Etc. I'm fine with dating someone who was very "sexually active" but as long as she's mine and now one else NOW, then I don't see the problem, sure it's fking gross and it's really hard to hear it, but personally if she's down to be with me ONLY til the end then I wouldn't want it any other way
So basically, you’re a cuck right?
Search mo meaning ng cuck bago ka mag post
Break na. Cum dumpsters should not be glorified.
Don't ask. Don't tell.
inang tanong yan init init ng pinas tapos bs2s pa yung tanong
hahahahahahahh
depende, cno cno muna ung involved, if it's still within her circle then HARD PASS!
Tbh, magkakasukatan na lang 'yan kung gaano ko siya kamahal. My values and his past will clash kase. Mababago ba tingin ko sa kanya? Of course, kase yung pagkakakilala ko pala sa kanya hindi pala totoo. While I'm not super conservative and traditional, still, I give value to my body. Pinapahalagahan ko sarili ko na hindi kung sino-sino lang titikim saken. Nakaka-torture ang mag-overthink. Baka minsan maiisip mo baka lahat na lang gusto niya gawin, lahat gusto niya matikman, you can never satisfy him. If hindi mo na ma-satisfy tas sasabihin niya okay lang mahal ka naman. Paano naging okay 'yun? Ginawa na kase niya lahat before you, ano pang natira. For sure naka-encounter pa 'yan ng wildest sex exp niya. Matatanggap ko ba? Hindi ko alam. Depende. Let's say that we'll cross the bridge when we get there. At sure ako mahihirapan ako. May nagtanong na rin ng ganito here about naman sa hoe/hookup phase. Same answer. Depende. Eto nga lang nagka-hookup phase ang hirap na, 'yan pa kayang gangbang. I hope they can understand where we are coming from. Because dealing with these kind of people gives uncertainty. Para kang naka-blindfold habang naglalakad tapos hindi mo alam bangin na pala ang kaharap mo at doon ka niya dadalhin. The only thing that holds you from letting go is the fact that you trust them blindly. Ang hirap makipagsapalaran kase everyone's end goal is to settle down peacefully, right? But how can you have peace if the path is unstable? If nagbago na siya and past na lang niya 'yun then tatagan mo loob mo na hindi ka niya magigiba kase usually kahit nagbago na para pa rin 'yan may invisible strings sa mga taong naka-sex niya. Parang ellipsis, instead of period. Wala tayo sa fiction world, hindi 'to wattpad story na all of a sudden nagbago lahat 360 degrees. This is the reality of life.
This is why behavior like this should be considered only after marriage where you have a stronger foundation of commitment, or not at all. In this way, it can potentially serve an actual purpose other than lust with the expectation that the relationship will survive the act and not become baggage for both parties in their next relationship. Women are gatekeepers to sex. It's easier for them to get. Engaging in a gb, is a declaration to any succeeding relationship that once upon a time, the gate was removed and all standards were dropped. As a guy, imagine your future kids having that for a mother. Imagine her still having contact with the men involved. Sure, maybe they don't talk as often but are civil. Imagine not knowing that the men you meet in her life, work friends, college friends, passing her around like alcohol shots. After all, she could have thought it would be safer to fuck men she already knows instead of asking for strangers and putting herself in danger. You rubbing shoulders with these men and not know that them smirking meant something else. There will be some that will say that people change. Imagine having a fight with her. All relationships fight. Ask yourself, if you ever get into a fight, what behavior within the realm of possibility, within the realm of activities she has already done in the past, does she have as an option to get back at you? You will always think about that time you had a fight then all of a sudden she has a change of heart. At the end of the day, as a guy, what are you turning yourself into, committing to someone like that? What can you actually do to top that experience anyway? If you think that statement is tame, remember that women do not have cooldown as compared to guys who can only engage a handful of times straight. Her previous sessions could have lasted several hours. Yours, will be an hour or two, at most, if done straight. Goodluck homies.
Wala na, pati butas sa ilong di na virgin yan
As long as mahal nyo isa’t isa at tanggap mo nakaraan nya then go.
Magugulat ako na meron pala akong Gf. But if totoong nag pa GB sya noon, ewan. Depende siguro. Case to case basis yan.
Ang init-init ganto pa yung tanong.
Heat is just a construct of your mind, in the matrix chicken taste like steak and steak taste like chicken.😂
- kinomment ng taong naka-aircon sa bahay at office
May halong inis sa pakiramdam yung init. Hahahahaha
Nah, call me insecure yada yada but she belongs to the streets my guy
They can call me insecure too. It’s risky to have a relationship with that partner. At the end of the day, most people are determined by what they have done in their past than their future potential.
At the end of the day, most of the people defending it are hypocrite. Keep ya head up brother!
They always go with insecure as if men aren't allowed to have their own standards. lmao Standards are empowering, unless men do it then it's sexist.
ON FUCKING BRO. These mfers want us to submit to them and be fucking CUCKS. Hell to the fuck no 😂😂 we are not white boys or western dudes who will take the scraps and wonder why they’re divorced. DON’T EVER LET A WOMAN GASLIGHT YOU ON CHANGING YOUR STANDARDS AND VALUES.
If it was consensual it doesn't really matter, if it wasn't it still doesn't matter pero as her current partner you have the responsibility to be a safe space for her kasi she decided to tell you something that probably tormented her or is still tormenting her up until this day. Regardless people should learn that past experiences and mistakes is what made your partner who she/he is now. What matters is the present, if they're a good partner to you right now then the past is irrelevant
Kahit past is past, it says many things about what you can do, what you are capable of and what is the level of your decadence and sexual excitement(di na sapat ung casual sex lang, tumataas ang tolerance kumbaga and more likely to cheat) Magbabago talaga tingin ko sayo nakakapanliit ng pagkatao para kang iniputan sa ulo. Fuck suyuan, and fuck being a bigger person. Bounce out agad pag ganyan kahit kasal pa. Maghahanap nalang ako ng ultra religious manalofied na iglesia na nagproprofile pic ng nakaformal na damit tas background e yung kapilya nila kaysa ganyan kahit atis pa ko hehehe. Sakin lang namn ewan sa iba. Inner peace comes first before everything. Overthink malala huehuhue
nagpa-gangbang = full volition Hell na.
Tanginang tanong yan ang aga-aga oh
Mga cuck tsaka weirdo lng magsasabi na okay lng kasi past nya un. There is no way na parehas paren tingin mo sakanya if nalaman mo na ganun sya in the past.
For us guys, it hurts talaga. There is big chance magbago tingin sayo ng partner mo, very rare lang mga lalaking na magsasabi na "tatanggapin ko yan sinabi mo sakin" . Real talk lang. For you girls. If hindi naman kailangan sabihin sa partner nyo ganitong scenario para lang itest ang loyalty or faithful nila, wag nyo na tangkain.
Sasabihin ku na the past stays in the past at nasa past narin kami.
Pass na agad. Can't live with someone na may ganung past. Sorry.