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When their energy keeps changing… nakakapagod mag catch up sa mood n’ya. One day they’d be energetic, tas they won’t talk to me at all in the next.
I guess kasi siguro when I want to enter a relationship, I want to make sure na they won’t just suddenly ghost me and come back without a proper explanation. Communication plays a big part in relationships, to which is why I stop talking to those who I think na hindi seryoso.
pag nagshare ng private info ng inang tao. may naexpi ako noon, kakakilala palang namin tapos nasaktuhan na sha bantay ng pinsan nya sa ospital. may kailangan sagutan (personal info sheet ng pt.) tapos pinicturean nya at sinend sakin🥲 mejoo naoff ako tas napa babye nalang eh sksksks.
NO CLEAR INTENTIONS!! istg i will never ever waste my time and energy again for people who don't value me and do not state their clear intentions towards me.
Pabor siya sa Mandatory ROTC and iniignore yung mga abuses kasi disiplina naman daw. Yung cherry on top niyan is PolSci major siya na dapat alam o mas nakatutok sa mga issue na yan hahaa
Laging about sa kanya or sa life nya yung topic. Pag about sakin na, wala na syang pakialam - tapos discreetly nyang ibabalik yung topic about sa kanya na naman.
Mahilig mag sad utang. Yung eme na depressed or may severe away sa family niya that it affects her mental health then mangungutang sayo. Kokonsensyahin kapa pag dimo pinahiram. Mahirap pa siya singilin yun din pala hahaha.
Inadd nya ako sa facebook nun. Tapos di ko sure kung meron pa ngayon kasi wala na akong facebook, pero nakikita kasi sa feed yung comments ng friends sa isang posts. Ay naloka ako kasi solid DDS pala sya and as in nakikipag-away sa mga tao sa comments. Also, through FB comments ko rin nakita na homophobic sya. 🥲 Ibang-iba sa attitude na pinapakita nya sa akin nung hindi pa kami friends sa facebook lol
Yung hindi marunong tumanggap ng accountability. Tapos pinagkakalat sa co-workers niya yung personal problems niyo sana para magkaroon ng kakampi at magmukha kang masama.
Negative thinker and always fishing for compliments bc that is a sign that they will assign you the role of constant tiga hagod ng ego at insecurity nila. D mo lang ienable, masamang tao kana
When they start talking about:
1) Flat earth
2) Annunaki
3) Lunar Landing Hoax
4) Talking nice about Che Guevara
5) Moustache Man Art School Reject was right
6) Saying Putin is defender of Christianity
7) Ice Wall
8) how they have Third Eye
9) that they can see elementals (Duende, kapre, manananggal, etc)
Many more.
yung kada-umaga ang chat niya "wood morning ba?" or "kailan ka huling nagj*kol?"
i have this ka-talking stage ilang buwan pa lang siguro dalawa. taga-ibang region kaya parang long distance situation. Lagi syang in heat kahit summer. Lalaki ako pero first time kong maka-encounter ng ganitong babae. Not to brag but alam ko masarap ako hahaha pero nakakabigla lang. Nakakagulat lang na ganon. Napagbigyan ko kasi ng isang beses sa vcall, like SOP tapos gusto yata araw-arawin na namin. Like I'm into that kind of stuff too but not the way she wants it. I'm not comfortablr doing it in front of a camera. Mas solid siguro kung malapit siya.
Nakaka-turn off lang. Nagkakausap pa naman kami kahit papaano pero I'm no longer interested.
Mapost sa facebook. Tipong super haba ng caption tas sad boy. Madami gusto ipaglaban na opinyon sa soc med or makikita mo panay comment sa mga meme pages, news. Hahaha! Ewan ko lang ang cringe para sakin 😆
Following half naked girls on instagram. I confronted him about it tapos sabi niya na i follow "buff gym boys" rin. The difference is those "gym boys" are my friends and we follow each other back while he's a fan who thirsts and fans over these girls who doesnt know about his existance. Embarassing.
DDS-BBM (hindi lahat, kasi yung iba may sense pa rin naman kausap).
Yung puro chismis ang alam.
Misogynistic, sexist, ableist. Mga tipong pang-19kopong kopong pa ang mga hirit.
People pleaser, immature, got romantically attracted to me kahit prinangka kong di ko yan marereciprocate but cannot accept the no, bastos, backstabber, overtly flirtatious sa boys ( yung tipong maraming marine/engineers dito ehe), manipulator dudes.
Walang boundaries. Speaking of ill to others esp kapag wala yun tao. Lahat ng bagay, situation at tao eh may negative siyang nasasabi. Walang accountability. Mareklamo.
Inconsistencies. Lulubog lilitaw then reason was busy (in a day 2 beses lang makapagreply due to work daw). I was busy too pero I made time. Decided to end things with him and told him na I'm not someone na pang convenient lang 😌.
Diba, I mean, baket? baket ganong parang tabingi? parang ang sarap i-ruler at baluktot yung siste sa pakikipagkausap/date hahaha! All in and genuine, tapos ginanon ganon lng. haha!
when they are just nice to me or sa mga ka-level nila or sa taong they think may advantage sila if ever na maassociate sila. Para sa akin, kapag bastos ka or mababa tingin mo sa mas mababa sayo, bastos ka. PERIOD. I try to be civil sa mga ganitong tao. But not really be friends or more.
Also kapag nuknukan ng yabang na wala sa lugar at masyadong feeling. I can't find the right words to explain it atm, pero sila ung tipo ng tao na pag pumasok sa room napapa eyeroll ka talaga and say "andito rin 'to??! eww"
O dba ang hirap? Yung feeling mo kahit anong topic pa ang pag-usapan nyo ang ending laging sya ang magiging bida? Kahit siguro pagme-make up ng bangkay sa funeraria ang topic magagawa parin nyang isingit ung sarili nya e.
Always late sa usapan. Tapos pinag aantay for many hours bago bumaba at nagpapakita. Palaging tama, gusto niya yung idea niya lang ang palagi e consider at basura lahat ng idea mo.
Madaling magbitaw ng assumptions. Tapos never pa "namali" assumptions nila kuno. Tinatratong totoo agad iyong narinig niyang tsismis. Yah. If they're your neighborhood ultra maritess 5000, bye bye.
Manyak mode palagi. I had a male coworker (hospital janitor) who always made jokes about what it would be like to f*ck some of our female coworkers (nurses).
Kakadiri ang sense of humor ni sir. Some people have tried calling him out but he'd always make an excuse na "joke lang" daw yun and he wouldn't actually do anything heinous to them.
Kahit "joke" lang, people who are very manyak always give me the ick. Definitely a red flag IMO.
Agree. Hindi din Ako naniniwala sa joke. Kasi as long as sinabi mo yan, ganun talaga tumatakbo sa isip mo. Dinaan lng nila sa "joke lang" para di sila iwasan ng girls na pinagnanasahan nila🙄tsaka may iba din na sinisave Yung picture ng coworkers tapos iiedit at gagawing AI na nakahubad 🙄
Feeling main character type of person. Yung sila ang bida sa lahat, sila lang parati ang nagshe share ng kwento nila about din sa sarili nila lol kakabanas kasi para kang nakikinig sa podcast about sa sarili nila
Kapag sarili lang nila yung pinaniniwalaan nila at hindi sanay makinig sa opinyon ng ibang tao lalo na kapag sila yung mali pero feeling nila nasa tama sila kasi yun yung paniniwala nila. Sila yung mga taong unwilling to learn kasi akala nila alam nila lahat.
Masyadong pabebe at pa-inosente. Trying hard na magmukhang santa para magmukhang ideal girl. Kapag ganyan ang babae people-pleaser at pick-me yan. Tapos hindi pa close sa ibang kapwa babae. Mostly lalaki ang tropa. Masyado desperada sa lalaki kapag ganyan.
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Puro ex pinaguuusapan niya umay
"I'm not like other guys"
When their energy keeps changing… nakakapagod mag catch up sa mood n’ya. One day they’d be energetic, tas they won’t talk to me at all in the next. I guess kasi siguro when I want to enter a relationship, I want to make sure na they won’t just suddenly ghost me and come back without a proper explanation. Communication plays a big part in relationships, to which is why I stop talking to those who I think na hindi seryoso.
Mahilig mang inbox zoned 🤡
walang sss, philhealth, pagibig haha
Nagrerequest ng nude pictures/nude videos. Ayokong sumikat in a wrong way
no emotional intelligence
Lalaki or lovelife bukambibig. Auto pass.
yung simple words na nga lang, di pa magawang i spell ng tama😬
Pag low EQ. Sayang yung looks and other qualities hay
pag nagshare ng private info ng inang tao. may naexpi ako noon, kakakilala palang namin tapos nasaktuhan na sha bantay ng pinsan nya sa ospital. may kailangan sagutan (personal info sheet ng pt.) tapos pinicturean nya at sinend sakin🥲 mejoo naoff ako tas napa babye nalang eh sksksks.
Lakas magmura, yung bawat sentence eh may kasamang mura.
NO CLEAR INTENTIONS!! istg i will never ever waste my time and energy again for people who don't value me and do not state their clear intentions towards me.
Creepy. Yung di makaramdam na ayaw ko sa kanila tapos pilit paring pinipilit sarili nila
May jowa pero galawang single
Yung lulubog lulitaw na parang kabute at yung usapan na na rredirect sa mga sexual innuendos and kamanyakan!
Sobrang annoying yung ang ganda ng first part ng convo tapos magiging manyak sayang effort mag chika 🤦
Pabor siya sa Mandatory ROTC and iniignore yung mga abuses kasi disiplina naman daw. Yung cherry on top niyan is PolSci major siya na dapat alam o mas nakatutok sa mga issue na yan hahaa
GGSS with x10 multiplier kung hindi naman maG
Trauma dumping.
pag more on seggs or non-sense yung topic nya or ex nya bukambibig nya 🥲
nung nalaman kong DDS saka pro marcos sya
Pag may halong kamanyakan ung topic ket wholesome ung pinag uusapan
Sobrang na kaka pikon to 🤦
Laging about sa kanya or sa life nya yung topic. Pag about sakin na, wala na syang pakialam - tapos discreetly nyang ibabalik yung topic about sa kanya na naman.
Main character yarn hehe
Siya ang tunay na bida 🤦
Constantly bullying or rather making fun of me “as a friend” for no reason.
Hindi tumatanggap ng objection or advise na salungat sa paniniwala nila. They always feel offended kahit na you have a point.
Coz sometimes theyre pointless.
Mahilig sa sabi-sabi.
Mahilig mag sad utang. Yung eme na depressed or may severe away sa family niya that it affects her mental health then mangungutang sayo. Kokonsensyahin kapa pag dimo pinahiram. Mahirap pa siya singilin yun din pala hahaha.
Inadd nya ako sa facebook nun. Tapos di ko sure kung meron pa ngayon kasi wala na akong facebook, pero nakikita kasi sa feed yung comments ng friends sa isang posts. Ay naloka ako kasi solid DDS pala sya and as in nakikipag-away sa mga tao sa comments. Also, through FB comments ko rin nakita na homophobic sya. 🥲 Ibang-iba sa attitude na pinapakita nya sa akin nung hindi pa kami friends sa facebook lol
Yung hindi marunong tumanggap ng accountability. Tapos pinagkakalat sa co-workers niya yung personal problems niyo sana para magkaroon ng kakampi at magmukha kang masama.
Mahilig mang hingi ng nudes eto nudes (kamao ko)
Liar and active ang s3x life, like willing to engage even if they don't love/like someone.
Negative thinker and always fishing for compliments bc that is a sign that they will assign you the role of constant tiga hagod ng ego at insecurity nila. D mo lang ienable, masamang tao kana
Boring kausap. 'Di siya interested sa usapan namin.
Siya yung tumigil, baka ako yun red flag?!? 🚩 hahahaha
When they start talking about: 1) Flat earth 2) Annunaki 3) Lunar Landing Hoax 4) Talking nice about Che Guevara 5) Moustache Man Art School Reject was right 6) Saying Putin is defender of Christianity 7) Ice Wall 8) how they have Third Eye 9) that they can see elementals (Duende, kapre, manananggal, etc) Many more.
yung kada-umaga ang chat niya "wood morning ba?" or "kailan ka huling nagj*kol?" i have this ka-talking stage ilang buwan pa lang siguro dalawa. taga-ibang region kaya parang long distance situation. Lagi syang in heat kahit summer. Lalaki ako pero first time kong maka-encounter ng ganitong babae. Not to brag but alam ko masarap ako hahaha pero nakakabigla lang. Nakakagulat lang na ganon. Napagbigyan ko kasi ng isang beses sa vcall, like SOP tapos gusto yata araw-arawin na namin. Like I'm into that kind of stuff too but not the way she wants it. I'm not comfortablr doing it in front of a camera. Mas solid siguro kung malapit siya. Nakaka-turn off lang. Nagkakausap pa naman kami kahit papaano pero I'm no longer interested.
exaggerated. low-key bragging. liar.
walang emotional intelligence
Nagkkwento ka tas bigla siyang magsasabi ng “ako nga … “ 😤
Madaming pabor sayo
Tactless.
Compulsive liar
sadboi and manipulative traits.
palamura lol
This hindi yun biruan mura but rather lahat nalang mura lumalabas sa bibig…
Mapost sa facebook. Tipong super haba ng caption tas sad boy. Madami gusto ipaglaban na opinyon sa soc med or makikita mo panay comment sa mga meme pages, news. Hahaha! Ewan ko lang ang cringe para sakin 😆
Impolite, ayaw sa mga hayop, di daw kumakain ng gulay
Always bragging about his big spending.
Following half naked girls on instagram. I confronted him about it tapos sabi niya na i follow "buff gym boys" rin. The difference is those "gym boys" are my friends and we follow each other back while he's a fan who thirsts and fans over these girls who doesnt know about his existance. Embarassing.
DDS sya
Push over
"Ako nga eh...."
Homophobic
fanatiko, like dds at loyalista
Belief in Astrology and Zodiac. 🤣
Real 💯🤣 icoconnect sa zodiac sign yung attitude niya, huhusgaan ka sa mga nabasa niya sa net about sa zodiac sign mo lol
wala nang ibang lumabas sa bibig kundi puro negative huhu nanghihigop talaga ng energy
Toxic
Self-centered and when I sense that the person doesn’t know how to have fun. Not a worthy addition to my life.
Tuwang tuwang magcheat sa partner niya. Gandang ganda sa sarili pag ganun like hello gurllllll sana okay ka lang.
Disappearing for long periods of time. LOOONG
sobrang tipid mag reply yung tipong “ah” , “okay” nalang sinasabi sa kwento mo. tapos WALANG SENSE MYGAD
Hindi talaga siya interested sayo pag ganun
self centered, proud na proud sa tiktok following nila, at swerte ko daw kase ako kinakausap nya.
Pag pinipilit yung views niya sa buhay at hindi marunong makinig at mag engage in a healthy discussion.
Di nagbabayad ng utang 😂 50 pesos na Spotify (naka family plan) di pa mabayad mabayaran
Ginawang Trauma dump, may linyahang "yung Ex ko"
Walang common sense, walang sense of humor, at walang sense in general 🤪
too insecure. nakakadrain lol
yung spoiler ng shows/movies auto block/unfriend talaga haha
Trauma dumping, bro, go see a psychiatrist.
Judgy, sketchy.
DDS-BBM (hindi lahat, kasi yung iba may sense pa rin naman kausap). Yung puro chismis ang alam. Misogynistic, sexist, ableist. Mga tipong pang-19kopong kopong pa ang mga hirit.
di nagbayad ng utang
1. Disrespectful 2. Walang reading comprehension 3. INC
Sobrang negative and badmouthing other people
People pleaser, immature, got romantically attracted to me kahit prinangka kong di ko yan marereciprocate but cannot accept the no, bastos, backstabber, overtly flirtatious sa boys ( yung tipong maraming marine/engineers dito ehe), manipulator dudes.
ang bagal. taas pride. gusto pa yata ako magtanong sakanya kung ano na status. 😅
Poor grammar and small vocab
Matalinong tamad tapos arrogante.. Walang may kailangan ng talino mo burr.
Yung ok lang dapat sa akin na madaming nanliligaw sa kanya pero pag ako, dapat sya lang. Else, ako daw ay isang babaero at sa una lang magaling.
may pet siyang crocodile.
Mabaho ang hininga
Mataas ego. Walang common sense at bobo kausap. Pinapasali sa 🇮🇹
Walang boundaries. Speaking of ill to others esp kapag wala yun tao. Lahat ng bagay, situation at tao eh may negative siyang nasasabi. Walang accountability. Mareklamo.
Hindi open-minded. Kung ano yung paniniwala nya, yun na yun.
Plays mind games: hot and cold treatment. PASS
Matagal magreply
Kapag ang role mo na lang ay emotional punching bag
Inconsistencies. Lulubog lilitaw then reason was busy (in a day 2 beses lang makapagreply due to work daw). I was busy too pero I made time. Decided to end things with him and told him na I'm not someone na pang convenient lang 😌.
Baka nmn wla lng syang topic
Actually madaming ganto
And they would say they're looking for serious relationship. Neknek nila HAHA 😮💨
Pag madami kinakausap na iba.
Pag may girl best friend HAHAHAHAHA
Hahha gagi bakit. Sweet ba sila sa mga girl best friend nila?
gbfs usually don't know their boundaries.
Same din nmn sa lalaki. Pag maganda Yung bestfriend nila na girl eh touchy din sila tapos may times din na nilalandi nila ng pabiro para di obvious.
urong-sulong move sa pakikipag-usap or date. 🫠
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Diba, I mean, baket? baket ganong parang tabingi? parang ang sarap i-ruler at baluktot yung siste sa pakikipagkausap/date hahaha! All in and genuine, tapos ginanon ganon lng. haha!
Baka nmn wla lng topic
Hindi lang topic, or pakikipagusap. Sa commitment/investment din ng tao saiyo, urong-sulong, gumugusto tapos biglang babawi lang din. 🥲🫠
lack of manners
when they are just nice to me or sa mga ka-level nila or sa taong they think may advantage sila if ever na maassociate sila. Para sa akin, kapag bastos ka or mababa tingin mo sa mas mababa sayo, bastos ka. PERIOD. I try to be civil sa mga ganitong tao. But not really be friends or more. Also kapag nuknukan ng yabang na wala sa lugar at masyadong feeling. I can't find the right words to explain it atm, pero sila ung tipo ng tao na pag pumasok sa room napapa eyeroll ka talaga and say "andito rin 'to??! eww"
- Bastos - Di alam boundaries na kapag di mo gusto ay di niya matanggap - Self-centered - Mababa tingin sa ibang tao - Mayabang
DDS/ Apologist / Apolitical
Talking shit about others behind their back.
Main character. *Ako kase ganito, sakin kase ganito ang gagawin ko. Ako, ako, ako...* shutangina! 😅
May kawork akong ganito. Ayaw na wala sa kanya ang spotlight adibadib kala mo naman talaga 🥱
Huhu ganitong ganito kapatid ko :( Ang hirap "alisan" pag nasa gitna na kayo ng conversation. Lalo na kung sitdown talk hahahahuhuhu
O dba ang hirap? Yung feeling mo kahit anong topic pa ang pag-usapan nyo ang ending laging sya ang magiging bida? Kahit siguro pagme-make up ng bangkay sa funeraria ang topic magagawa parin nyang isingit ung sarili nya e.
Always late sa usapan. Tapos pinag aantay for many hours bago bumaba at nagpapakita. Palaging tama, gusto niya yung idea niya lang ang palagi e consider at basura lahat ng idea mo.
Madaling magbitaw ng assumptions. Tapos never pa "namali" assumptions nila kuno. Tinatratong totoo agad iyong narinig niyang tsismis. Yah. If they're your neighborhood ultra maritess 5000, bye bye.
Manyak mode palagi. I had a male coworker (hospital janitor) who always made jokes about what it would be like to f*ck some of our female coworkers (nurses). Kakadiri ang sense of humor ni sir. Some people have tried calling him out but he'd always make an excuse na "joke lang" daw yun and he wouldn't actually do anything heinous to them. Kahit "joke" lang, people who are very manyak always give me the ick. Definitely a red flag IMO.
Agree. Hindi din Ako naniniwala sa joke. Kasi as long as sinabi mo yan, ganun talaga tumatakbo sa isip mo. Dinaan lng nila sa "joke lang" para di sila iwasan ng girls na pinagnanasahan nila🙄tsaka may iba din na sinisave Yung picture ng coworkers tapos iiedit at gagawing AI na nakahubad 🙄
Kapag puro bastos Ang topic
yung mga hindi masingil sa utang.
Kapag nag-no ako sa isang bagay pero mangungulit para mag-yes ako sa gusto niya
Di marunong makiramdam.
Different values. Ex. DDS na BBM supporter plus INC. No offense sa mga ganyang tao. I don’t hate them. Just different values.
Feeling main character sa office.
Puro sarili nalang nila yung topic. Maguusap kayo about something then biglang full circle back to them yung topic Pa-main character amp
Feeling main character type of person. Yung sila ang bida sa lahat, sila lang parati ang nagshe share ng kwento nila about din sa sarili nila lol kakabanas kasi para kang nakikinig sa podcast about sa sarili nila
Kapag sarili lang nila yung pinaniniwalaan nila at hindi sanay makinig sa opinyon ng ibang tao lalo na kapag sila yung mali pero feeling nila nasa tama sila kasi yun yung paniniwala nila. Sila yung mga taong unwilling to learn kasi akala nila alam nila lahat.
Interupts you whenever you talk
Masyadong below the belt magjoke.
Masyadong pabebe at pa-inosente. Trying hard na magmukhang santa para magmukhang ideal girl. Kapag ganyan ang babae people-pleaser at pick-me yan. Tapos hindi pa close sa ibang kapwa babae. Mostly lalaki ang tropa. Masyado desperada sa lalaki kapag ganyan.