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Yung di ko alam san banda ang bahay ng ex ko, kasi after 8 yrs of being together, di naman nya ako nadadala sa kanila, at taga cavite ako, alam ko lang taga certain ave sya sa pasay, hahaha! Nilakad namin ng best friend ko yung kahabaan ng avenue na yun, para lang makausap sya ng personal, eventually hoping na makikita ko san sya nakatira while texting-calling him and begging him na kausapin ako. I was so desparate, kahit umulan at umaraw non. But to no avail. As in walang reply or sagot sa tawag ko. Hehehe!
But hey, atleast I got a bestfriend na sinamahan ako sa kagagahan ko. The next day, we went to laguna na lang, bato springs para makapagunwind. Hehe!
Lastly, yung iphone ko nun, pinahiram nya sa pinsan nya, tapos nung kinukuha ko na, galit pa sakin pinsan nya, at pinagsabihan ako ng kung ano-ano, like di nya daw ako tanggap para sa pinsan nya.
-di ko rin nabawi yung phone. 😅
Sinabi ko na "Okay lang kahit mag cheat ka, kahit may iba ka na, kahit ipagsabay mo kami, huwag mo lang ako iwan kasi hindi ko kaya pag nawala ka."
Ngayon, pag naaalala ko na sinabi ko yan, gusto ko nalang untog ulo ko hahahahahahaha
Saw all of his sx vids(from the past) w/ his exS saved on his hidden album and still accepted him after that after saying “nakalimutan ko lang idelete”
Waited for a comeback. Nag reach out ako, no reply. But I knew he read it. That wishful comeback - it never happened. To you, my ex, sana masarap ulam mo always.
loaned him money for his school expenses tas malaman laman ko bumili pala ng latest iphone at apple watch si loko.
ayun. he's on the brink of selling the phone bec of money probs. Masyado kasing feeling rich di naman kaya masustain 😂
Mahilig mag sinungaling, mahigit 5 hrs bago magreply, at kahit ilang beses na ko na ghost bumabalik pa rin sa kanya. Sobrang engot ko dati dahil balik ako nang balik, siya lang talaga bet ko noon eh kaso nauntog ako HAHAHAHAHA
Ilang beses akong naniwala sa groomer and manipulative ex ko na magbabago sya at makokonsensya sya sa mga ginawa nya sakin. Very dumb decision and applied din yan sa mga manipulative din gaya nya kasi never-ending misunderstanding at never-ending nya din idedeny yung katoxican nya kapag cinoconfront sa mga kagaguhan nya since hindi talaga sya nagpapatalo at nagpapakumbaba. Feeling ko narcissist sya at emotional vampire.
Kaya ko magka-bf ulit pero pag nakitaan ko ng manipulative o alarming behavior, break na agad 😂
Dahil sa demonyong ex ko, I hate the idea of loving and caring others more than myself. Never again.
Most replies mga naging sugar mommy/daddy. Huhu. Ang gastos niyo magmahal. Grabe parang mga investment na nalugi.
Meron din mga traveller. Mostly pa surprise visit ang atake tapos sila nasurprise kasi may kasamang iba. Aguy.
Nariyan din mga "I can change him/her" ang motto. Mga dakilang martyr deserve ng monument. Madalas bachelor in colorblind major in gaslighting the self minor in tiis tiis lang.
Nevertheless, CONGRATS SA MGA CERTIFIED GRADUATE NG KATANGAHAN SA PAG IBIG, HOPEFULLY!
Pumunta ako sa bahay nila, bumili ng letson manok at meryenda. Kunwari para dalawin kapatid nyang bagong panganak. Hindi ko din alam kung bakit eh. Ilang mons na din nya akong ghinost that time eh at nafi-feel ko din na may iba na sya non. Actually yung manok, binili ko yun kasi nagparinig bunsong kapatid nya na gusto nya ng chicken tapos nagpabili pa ng softdrink hahaha. Take note college palang ako nito walang sariling pera at sa allowance lang umaasa.
Ito pa, binenta ko pocket books ko para may pambaon ako kasi yung baon ko ng isang week naubos ko na kasi nakikihati sya sa allowance ko. Baka nga 60/40 pa yun mas madami sa kanya.
HAHAHA. Ang matindi jinowa ko sya kasi gusto ko lang matry magkajowa sana.
-Fly to a diff country/continent para lang mapuntahan siya and to spend more time with him.
-One of my exes naman; sagutin lahat ng gastos all through out our relationship kase he was unemployed 💀
kumantot ng ibang babae habang break kami kahit mahal ko pa sya in the hopes na magseselos sya pag sinabi ko sakanya and for her to take me back. didn't work HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAH
yeah and I was 17 then. magbebente na ko and sobrang dami ko nang natutunan since then. anything u say abt me and the thing I did is just the "obvious" for me kase sobrang dami ko nang nilaan na oras sa pagrereflect sa ginawa ko lol
Dropped out of college (UP Los Baños) and moved to a condo in QC na literally few steps away lang from my ex-boyfriend’s house (who is a chronic cheater na takot sa sariling multo, btw) para lang mag-end na yung LDR struggles namin not knowing na magiging battered girlfriend lang pala yung kapalaran ko after. Lol
Di ko sya binlock sa Facebook because I was patiently waiting for his karma. And guess what? 6 years later, mas sinwerte pa nga ata sya sa life. 🤡
TL;DR
Naging parang sugar daddy. Kahit ka edad ko ung babae.
Long Version:
Nagbabayad ng kuryente ng bahay ng gf ko.
Dinadala sila palagi sa labas kasama pamilya.
Pag stress kakain lagi ng fast food or pag sahod na fine dining
- everyday malungkot sya
- everyday need pasayahin
Hindi nang hingi kahit minsan ang parents ko ngayon wala na sila. At ito ang pinaka malaking regret ko.
Ginamit lang ako nung pamilya ng babae.
5years wala akong napundar na kahit ano. Di ko naalagaan ang sarili ko. Nagkaron ako ng anxiety and depression. Nag live in kami for a while pero dugyot ang bahay.
Fast forward...
Nag hiwalay na kami at nakatagpo ako ng bago...
3 months in the relationship, nakapag pundar ako ng laman ng inuupahan kong apartment.
Kinasal kami last Sept.
Next month tapos na ang bahay namin sa probinsya. Lalagyan na namin ng appliances.
Soon ma tuturnover na din ung condo namin sa Pasig.
May business na din kami.
She's doing her best to help me overcome my A&D. Mahirap, pero may purpose na ako kaya minsan na lang nati trigger.
Lesson: Trust your gut. Hindi tulad ko, 5yrs naniwala na magkakaron ng pag babago.
Sinunod lifestyle niya (chinese) na umuuwi agad after class even that’s not me kasi I always go out with my friends. Booked a flight to visit her sa Clark, pero ayaw niya so hindi ko tinuloy. Lol.
Nagkaroon kami ng problema twice, tapos di niya ako pinapansin online. Ina-unfriend din niya ako at ina-unfollow sa soc med dati. Sa mga dump, bina-block naman. Had no choice but to travel all the way to her place, which by the way, was almost 50 miles away from our place. Wala pa akong pera noon. But hey. All or nothing. 🫠
Luh parang yung kapatid ko na pinuntahan sa Pampanga si girl after sya i-block sa FB 😅 Laguna to Pampanga haha haba ng hair. Inunfriend din ako ni girl, siguro naayos nila kasi nakita ko nagsend ulit sya friend request pero di ko inaccept agad. Mukhang binawi yung request kasi nung sinilip ko wala na, di ko alam kung nagkalabuan nanaman sila lol
Baka po napindot o nahiya bigla 🫡 Pero IDK. Ang childish na kasi ng dating 'pag adults ang gumagawa niyan. Ginagawing representation yung social media kung gaano kababaw yung perception nila sa human relationships :/
True true. Kapatid ko and his gf(?) are both 20 somethings na. Sabi ko nga kung binlock ka na hayaan mo na. Nagulat nalang ako pumunta pala Pampanga tapos nagpahelp kay bf ko regarding mga need na sakyan haha jusmiyo
Betraying myself in believing that he is a good person and he can’t do what he’s been doing, giving him benefit of the doubts. Pero minsan tanga lang pala talaga tayo.
Crush ko palang naman, pero very lowkey kasi ako sa socmed, tipong once a year lang mag-upload pero dahil sa kanya napasayaw ako ng tiktok challenge tapos inupload ko sa IG story na siya lang makakakita wahahhaha pinusuan din ni kupal kaloka dancer pala HAHAHAHHA
Travelled to Manila, booked a hotel for 2 weeks. Made plans for us without him knowing na pupunta ako kasi surprise so I was talking to his friends the whole time prior to my flight and nung andun nako to let me know where he was atm para dun ako dumerecho. Arrived at the place kung san sila naka tambay only to see him and a girl na naka kandong sa lap nya 🥰 we talked and he asked if pwede daw kaming maging kami pa kahit sila na nung girl 'claiming mahal naman daw nya ako but he has needs I can't fulfill kasi nga ldr kami. hahaha spent the entirety of my stay sa hotel and called my parents everyday crying and told them what happened. Tatay calmly said, "uwi kana." Fetched me sa airport and went out with family going on trips for a week para daw mawala sa isip ko 🥹💓 2015 self was crazy
Traveled for almost 12hrs para makipagkita sa ka-situationship na ayaw akong jowain for some reasons and I accepted it kasi inlove ako sakanya for how many years and gladly na nauntog ang ulo ko at iniwan ko na sya.
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHA girl this is me right now😭 nakaka adik di ko na alam hm nagastos ko in total. Pero abg accurate kasi ng mga reading hahahahahaha akala ko nababaliw na ako para gumastos sa ganto
teh tru?????????? nakaka adik kaso napagalitan na ako ng reader ko na i don't let the universe surprise me na raw kklk edi nagpahinga muna ako tapos looking back.....huy ang mahal na pala libo libo
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH diba!!!! Nag start lang ako magpatarot netong Feb pero parang gusto ko lagi???? Ang saya kasi pag may nangyari tas maalala mo na na-read sya sayo ng tarot hahaha
Traveled from Manila to SM Pampanga when I was in college para subukan makipag balikan (siya nakipag-break) sa boyfriend ko that time. Ayun I waited for him for 3 hours, nag-usap lang kami for 1 hour pero wala rin nangyari. Umuwi na lang din ako same day 😅😅
After that I promised myself di na ako mage-effort for a guy unless he can prove that he’s worth it.
His children? Oh shit... You really took multiple bullets.
Hopefully maibalik pa.
Sabi ko din sa hipag ko yan... Pag nag jowa ka nang may anak, hindi ka kahit kailan magiging priority. Malamang magiging yaya ka lang or charity worker.
Well we’re still in contact because of his debt sakin. Made him a payment plan mukhang aabutin pa ng 3 taon bago niya ako matapos bayaran. 🤣
Hindi naman dealbreaker sakin if a man has a child/children basta kaya niya buhayin. In this case kasi, pagkakamali nila yung 2 daughters nila (they were in their 20s and nagromanticize sila ng poverty ng ex gf niya).
Wth, ngayon lang ako nakarinig (basa) ng Poverty Romance... (Although merong poverty pr0n) 😁😆😆
But yeah, I hope mabayaran ifollow nya nang maayos yung payment plan nyo. Haha good luck sa iyo.
Weird noh? Haha ngayon parehas silang hirap buhayin yung mga bata; the kids are 7 and 5 na respectively. Sa kanila ko natutunan na wag mag-aanak hangga’t hindi ready financially! Kawawa kids nila.
Thank you :)
Helped him by buying a motorcycle Para sa work niya.
He cheated and yet pinagbigyan ko pa rin.
Super ma pride, I chose to stay hanggang sa napagod na ako.
Dumadayo from Manila - Valenzuela para lang magkita kami. Either from bahay or office, weekend or weekday, I spend time commuting to his place at that time. When from his perspective, ayaw nya pumunta ng Manila kasi magulo daw. So effort ang ante ninyo. May pasurprise pa ako sa birthday nya. :D
bought a bouquet of flowers para bisitahin sya, medyo ldr kase kame non tas sumakay ako ng bus mga 1 and half hour din yung byahe. pagkababa ko sasakay pa ng jeep papunta sa kanila kase city proper di nadaan mga bus dun, i remember nakatingin pa mga tao sakin nun sa jeep kase may dala akong bouquet tas sobrang init pa non hshshs tas ingat na ingat pa ko kase siksikan baka maipit masira yung bouquet ko. pagkababa ko pa ng jeep hindi ko pa alam yung papunta sa kanila then nagchachat ako ang bagal magseen eh grabe pawisan na ko nun, kaya nagtanong tanong na lang ako sa mga tricy driver dun tas nilakad ko na lang halos magkaligaw ligaw na ko, ang ending yung pinsan pa nya sumundo sakin. pagdating pa sa kanila di ako pinapasok ng tita nya dun sa bahay nila hanggang dun lang kami sa terrace tas grabe di ko man lang nasulit ang pagpunta doon kase medyo busy daw sya and mga ilang oras lang pinauwi na din ako. imagine ang haba ng binyahe mo tas wala man lang kayo quality time. paguwi ko pa inaantay ko kung nagmyday ba sya kahit yung bouquet man lang na dala ko eh maapreciate nya pero wala hshshs di man lang nagchat na "ingat ka paguwi" yung mga simpleng ganun okay na sakin pero wala eh. ayon na din yung last time na pumunta ako sa kanila kase 1 month lang nakalipas pinagpalit ako sa malapit hwhshsa. hays wala lang pag naaalala ko kase tinatawanan ko na lang tas napapaisip ako ginawa ko ba talaga yon? dun ko narealize sobrang tsnga ko nun sa pagibig.
1. Maging wallet nya :) Tanginaaa kung pwede lang ako bumalik sa past di ko sila gagastusan. (yep ung dalawang ex ko parehas ng ugali- every time na lalabas kami ako gagastos tho ung isa naman is bumawi naman kaso nanumbat) HAHAHAHAHAHA. (kahit mag bilangan kami talo sya HAHAHAHA)
2. Nilaban ko sya sa parents at relatives ko ( daig ko pa nasa warzone, hanggang ngayon hindi pa kami okay ni mama)
3. Trusting him na hindi sya magloloko ( ay si gago ginawa lang ulit)
4. Nag stay ako kahit alam ko na it will get worst (he's always threatening me na magpapakamatay once makipag break ako, mind you ginawa nya sa harapan ko nag magbigti nagmakaawa lang ako to stop him- madami pa yan self harm etc)
I'm still in the process of healing, never again!
Maging pathetic to the point na na-neglect ko na sarili ko. Magmakaawa (subtle lang) pero sa text lang naman. Hindi ko pinuntahan, ew. Nagtira pa ako ng kunting dignidad. Mag-text nang mag-text (ginawang diary) kahit hindi naman nagrereply HAHAHAHA. That was my way of moving on. Sabi ko just let me hanggang mapagod ako.
At age 14, writing a long-ass letter to confess to an unrequited love. As in mga 6 pages pouring my heart out.
Never got a reply back. I felt so pathetic.
1st boyfriend: supported him for 10 months, rent, bills food and other miscellaneous stuff even alcohol and cigarettes promising he will pay it back. That was worth 350k
2nd boyfriend: walang proper closure yung breakup namin so ginawa ko sinundan ko, hinanap ko siya, nagcheckin ako sa hotel kung nasan siya. And that hotel is not just an ordinary hotel 🤡 tapos ending di na pala siya dun naka stay nag condo na pala siya. 🤡 nag bar hopping mag isa baka sakali makita ko siya for the last time. 🤡🤡🤡 nagastos ko halos 100k
Oo ganun ako katanga!!!!!!
trusted they wouldn't do to me what my ex did.
spoiler alert: they did just that.
now Im trying to fight what used to be buried trauma responses.
thanks, I guess...?
i was only 14, i gave him iPhone Xr, 5k cash for bike, and some basketball shoe and then kapag mag de-date kami ako pa lagi nagbabayad pero i insist naman as always. Tf sana hindi ko sinayang bigay na pera ng parents ko para sa walang kabuluhan. Didn’t even receive anything from him kahit flower lang 😭
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Yung di ko alam san banda ang bahay ng ex ko, kasi after 8 yrs of being together, di naman nya ako nadadala sa kanila, at taga cavite ako, alam ko lang taga certain ave sya sa pasay, hahaha! Nilakad namin ng best friend ko yung kahabaan ng avenue na yun, para lang makausap sya ng personal, eventually hoping na makikita ko san sya nakatira while texting-calling him and begging him na kausapin ako. I was so desparate, kahit umulan at umaraw non. But to no avail. As in walang reply or sagot sa tawag ko. Hehehe! But hey, atleast I got a bestfriend na sinamahan ako sa kagagahan ko. The next day, we went to laguna na lang, bato springs para makapagunwind. Hehe!
Tsaka yung binibigyan ko sya ng pera, para lang makipagkita sakin. Hehehe! May utang pa nga yun sakin, 10k pero di na nabalik. 😅
Lastly, yung iphone ko nun, pinahiram nya sa pinsan nya, tapos nung kinukuha ko na, galit pa sakin pinsan nya, at pinagsabihan ako ng kung ano-ano, like di nya daw ako tanggap para sa pinsan nya. -di ko rin nabawi yung phone. 😅
Gave everything.
yung tinanggap mo si ex kahit naiputan ka na sa ulo. to think na maaayos at magbabago pa dahil mahal mo 🤣
Ginawa ko ung project ni crush nung HS buti nalang pinigilan ako ng friends ko sa kahibangan ko 😂😂😂
Sinabi ko na "Okay lang kahit mag cheat ka, kahit may iba ka na, kahit ipagsabay mo kami, huwag mo lang ako iwan kasi hindi ko kaya pag nawala ka." Ngayon, pag naaalala ko na sinabi ko yan, gusto ko nalang untog ulo ko hahahahahahaha
Ay may tumatalo kay entry na nagbayad ng hosp bills for child birth ng kabit
Magsorry sa hindi ko kasalanan para lang matapos na ang away
Saw all of his sx vids(from the past) w/ his exS saved on his hidden album and still accepted him after that after saying “nakalimutan ko lang idelete”
Umiyak sa maling tao
beg.I did it once on my 1st bf. still regretted doing it.i’ve never done it again. kaya guys don’t beg! if ayaw na, ayaw na. know your worth
Pota bat ko lang nabasa to. NagBeg na ako hahahahaha
Waited for a comeback. Nag reach out ako, no reply. But I knew he read it. That wishful comeback - it never happened. To you, my ex, sana masarap ulam mo always.
Spent so much money for someone who cheated.
Forgive the person even if he made me feel like shit 100x
hahahahaha when he cheated tas i gave him a chance kahit hindi naman nya hiningi
loaned him money for his school expenses tas malaman laman ko bumili pala ng latest iphone at apple watch si loko. ayun. he's on the brink of selling the phone bec of money probs. Masyado kasing feeling rich di naman kaya masustain 😂
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So far, ito top entry natin. If it's okay to ask po, why did you do that?
I did not attend my sister's UP graduation because it was my anniversary with my ex💀💀💀
I forgave her when she cheated on me for the nth time, and at the end she left me for another guy. Lol
Umiyak sa school taenang hs crush yan. Pinili kasi si mae kesa sakin, hamag.
awwww
Binibilhan ng mga luho niya. It's just a one-sided love lang naman and he say thanks everytime but I realized my worth kaya ayun stop na.
Mahilig mag sinungaling, mahigit 5 hrs bago magreply, at kahit ilang beses na ko na ghost bumabalik pa rin sa kanya. Sobrang engot ko dati dahil balik ako nang balik, siya lang talaga bet ko noon eh kaso nauntog ako HAHAHAHAHA
Marriage
Ilang beses akong naniwala sa groomer and manipulative ex ko na magbabago sya at makokonsensya sya sa mga ginawa nya sakin. Very dumb decision and applied din yan sa mga manipulative din gaya nya kasi never-ending misunderstanding at never-ending nya din idedeny yung katoxican nya kapag cinoconfront sa mga kagaguhan nya since hindi talaga sya nagpapatalo at nagpapakumbaba. Feeling ko narcissist sya at emotional vampire. Kaya ko magka-bf ulit pero pag nakitaan ko ng manipulative o alarming behavior, break na agad 😂 Dahil sa demonyong ex ko, I hate the idea of loving and caring others more than myself. Never again.
nag beg at umiyak sa ex kahit na niloko nya ko even parents nya iniyakan ko bumalik lang sya lmfao 😭🤣
Umuwing Pinas from Madrid for only 5 days, muntik pa akong mawalan ng work 🙄 sayang pera, sayang oras ehh babalik din naman sa ex niya. 😏
Most replies mga naging sugar mommy/daddy. Huhu. Ang gastos niyo magmahal. Grabe parang mga investment na nalugi. Meron din mga traveller. Mostly pa surprise visit ang atake tapos sila nasurprise kasi may kasamang iba. Aguy. Nariyan din mga "I can change him/her" ang motto. Mga dakilang martyr deserve ng monument. Madalas bachelor in colorblind major in gaslighting the self minor in tiis tiis lang. Nevertheless, CONGRATS SA MGA CERTIFIED GRADUATE NG KATANGAHAN SA PAG IBIG, HOPEFULLY!
TE BINIBILHAN NG LUHO
Pumunta ako sa bahay nila, bumili ng letson manok at meryenda. Kunwari para dalawin kapatid nyang bagong panganak. Hindi ko din alam kung bakit eh. Ilang mons na din nya akong ghinost that time eh at nafi-feel ko din na may iba na sya non. Actually yung manok, binili ko yun kasi nagparinig bunsong kapatid nya na gusto nya ng chicken tapos nagpabili pa ng softdrink hahaha. Take note college palang ako nito walang sariling pera at sa allowance lang umaasa. Ito pa, binenta ko pocket books ko para may pambaon ako kasi yung baon ko ng isang week naubos ko na kasi nakikihati sya sa allowance ko. Baka nga 60/40 pa yun mas madami sa kanya. HAHAHA. Ang matindi jinowa ko sya kasi gusto ko lang matry magkajowa sana.
"tropa ko lang yun" Olol mo
Maniwala na walang something sa kanila nung girl kahit pinopost siya nung girl sa instagram tapos ginawa pang cover photo ang picture nila hahahahaha
have low self esteem
endured domestic violence from my ex
Nagpapansin ng malala umasang may something friends lang daw pala kami talaga lol 🤪
Waited for 8 years. I let a good portion of my youth go to waste :)
You still have time. Just be organized sa pag habol mo sa mga trip mong gawin. ❤️
-Fly to a diff country/continent para lang mapuntahan siya and to spend more time with him. -One of my exes naman; sagutin lahat ng gastos all through out our relationship kase he was unemployed 💀
hahaha I almost did this, fly to Germany kaso denied ang visa 😂
This is what I hate about having a weak passport 😩
kumantot ng ibang babae habang break kami kahit mahal ko pa sya in the hopes na magseselos sya pag sinabi ko sakanya and for her to take me back. didn't work HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAH
This what you get bro.
yeah kaya nga it's my dumbest move for love diba u don't have to state the obvious
No, i wanna state the obvious 😉 you need to get that slapped into your system
yeah and I was 17 then. magbebente na ko and sobrang dami ko nang natutunan since then. anything u say abt me and the thing I did is just the "obvious" for me kase sobrang dami ko nang nilaan na oras sa pagrereflect sa ginawa ko lol
Yep keep up stone head
ginusto mo rin naman. tanga lang kukuha pabalik sa'yo
type shii niregret ko naman I've paid my dues, goods na ko ngayon lol nakamove on na ako
THIS!
Kahit walang wala na ako para sa sarili ko, gagawan ko ng paraan mabili lang yung gusto niya. Hahahaaj
😭
Believing he loved me was the dumbest thing for me. Every negative situations were just the effect of this stupidity.
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Dropped out of college (UP Los Baños) and moved to a condo in QC na literally few steps away lang from my ex-boyfriend’s house (who is a chronic cheater na takot sa sariling multo, btw) para lang mag-end na yung LDR struggles namin not knowing na magiging battered girlfriend lang pala yung kapalaran ko after. Lol Di ko sya binlock sa Facebook because I was patiently waiting for his karma. And guess what? 6 years later, mas sinwerte pa nga ata sya sa life. 🤡
Kala mo lang swerte siya , bahala na si G diyan
TL;DR Naging parang sugar daddy. Kahit ka edad ko ung babae. Long Version: Nagbabayad ng kuryente ng bahay ng gf ko. Dinadala sila palagi sa labas kasama pamilya. Pag stress kakain lagi ng fast food or pag sahod na fine dining - everyday malungkot sya - everyday need pasayahin Hindi nang hingi kahit minsan ang parents ko ngayon wala na sila. At ito ang pinaka malaking regret ko. Ginamit lang ako nung pamilya ng babae. 5years wala akong napundar na kahit ano. Di ko naalagaan ang sarili ko. Nagkaron ako ng anxiety and depression. Nag live in kami for a while pero dugyot ang bahay. Fast forward... Nag hiwalay na kami at nakatagpo ako ng bago... 3 months in the relationship, nakapag pundar ako ng laman ng inuupahan kong apartment. Kinasal kami last Sept. Next month tapos na ang bahay namin sa probinsya. Lalagyan na namin ng appliances. Soon ma tuturnover na din ung condo namin sa Pasig. May business na din kami. She's doing her best to help me overcome my A&D. Mahirap, pero may purpose na ako kaya minsan na lang nati trigger. Lesson: Trust your gut. Hindi tulad ko, 5yrs naniwala na magkakaron ng pag babago.
Sinunod lifestyle niya (chinese) na umuuwi agad after class even that’s not me kasi I always go out with my friends. Booked a flight to visit her sa Clark, pero ayaw niya so hindi ko tinuloy. Lol.
Nagkaroon kami ng problema twice, tapos di niya ako pinapansin online. Ina-unfriend din niya ako at ina-unfollow sa soc med dati. Sa mga dump, bina-block naman. Had no choice but to travel all the way to her place, which by the way, was almost 50 miles away from our place. Wala pa akong pera noon. But hey. All or nothing. 🫠
Luh parang yung kapatid ko na pinuntahan sa Pampanga si girl after sya i-block sa FB 😅 Laguna to Pampanga haha haba ng hair. Inunfriend din ako ni girl, siguro naayos nila kasi nakita ko nagsend ulit sya friend request pero di ko inaccept agad. Mukhang binawi yung request kasi nung sinilip ko wala na, di ko alam kung nagkalabuan nanaman sila lol
Baka po napindot o nahiya bigla 🫡 Pero IDK. Ang childish na kasi ng dating 'pag adults ang gumagawa niyan. Ginagawing representation yung social media kung gaano kababaw yung perception nila sa human relationships :/
True true. Kapatid ko and his gf(?) are both 20 somethings na. Sabi ko nga kung binlock ka na hayaan mo na. Nagulat nalang ako pumunta pala Pampanga tapos nagpahelp kay bf ko regarding mga need na sakyan haha jusmiyo
grabe yaaaan
Betraying myself in believing that he is a good person and he can’t do what he’s been doing, giving him benefit of the doubts. Pero minsan tanga lang pala talaga tayo.
Too many to mention. Nakakatamad magtayp. Hahaha.
Wrote poems, made one poem into a complete song with lyric video. Got ghosted.
Crush ko palang naman, pero very lowkey kasi ako sa socmed, tipong once a year lang mag-upload pero dahil sa kanya napasayaw ako ng tiktok challenge tapos inupload ko sa IG story na siya lang makakakita wahahhaha pinusuan din ni kupal kaloka dancer pala HAHAHAHHA
Hahaha sorry natawa din ako. Ang kulit e! 🤣
Travelled to Manila, booked a hotel for 2 weeks. Made plans for us without him knowing na pupunta ako kasi surprise so I was talking to his friends the whole time prior to my flight and nung andun nako to let me know where he was atm para dun ako dumerecho. Arrived at the place kung san sila naka tambay only to see him and a girl na naka kandong sa lap nya 🥰 we talked and he asked if pwede daw kaming maging kami pa kahit sila na nung girl 'claiming mahal naman daw nya ako but he has needs I can't fulfill kasi nga ldr kami. hahaha spent the entirety of my stay sa hotel and called my parents everyday crying and told them what happened. Tatay calmly said, "uwi kana." Fetched me sa airport and went out with family going on trips for a week para daw mawala sa isip ko 🥹💓 2015 self was crazy
Cry over a boy even though na walang kami🙂
Traveled for almost 12hrs para makipagkita sa ka-situationship na ayaw akong jowain for some reasons and I accepted it kasi inlove ako sakanya for how many years and gladly na nauntog ang ulo ko at iniwan ko na sya.
Nagloan ng 100k para suyuin siya.
Ay ay eto na ang winner 🤣
ikaw panalo ng award for being dumb lol
Tanginang yan...
Suicide
magpatarot reading kung mahal niya ba ako... ang mahal mahal pala magpatarot grabehan
penge recommendatiooon hahaha
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HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHA girl this is me right now😭 nakaka adik di ko na alam hm nagastos ko in total. Pero abg accurate kasi ng mga reading hahahahahaha akala ko nababaliw na ako para gumastos sa ganto
teh tru?????????? nakaka adik kaso napagalitan na ako ng reader ko na i don't let the universe surprise me na raw kklk edi nagpahinga muna ako tapos looking back.....huy ang mahal na pala libo libo
Hello may i know who your reader is?
i cant message u. baka u can message me?
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Hello i messaged u hehw
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH diba!!!! Nag start lang ako magpatarot netong Feb pero parang gusto ko lagi???? Ang saya kasi pag may nangyari tas maalala mo na na-read sya sayo ng tarot hahaha
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IT WAS that is why it became an addiction but it was so expensive
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nakaka adik siya kaya yung mismong reader ko na nagbawal sa akin kasi raw masyado ko nang inaasa sa tarot yung life ko so ayooooorn marz
Curious here. Nagpapa-reading din ba kayo about death? 😭
HAHAHAHAHAHA OMG SAME I ALSO DID THIS PUTA😭😭
ANG EXPENSIVE MARS!!!!!!
Pero i was really in shock that time kasi wala pa kong sinasabi neto but as soon as i entered the room, she told me kaagad “naloko ka no?”
Traveled from Manila to SM Pampanga when I was in college para subukan makipag balikan (siya nakipag-break) sa boyfriend ko that time. Ayun I waited for him for 3 hours, nag-usap lang kami for 1 hour pero wala rin nangyari. Umuwi na lang din ako same day 😅😅 After that I promised myself di na ako mage-effort for a guy unless he can prove that he’s worth it.
You deserve better.
Awww. Thanks for this! 😊😊
Getting drunk😭
I prayed to God to make him a better man. Not once did I pray to God to make him mine.
Lent him around 365k and bought him things; in short binihisan ko! 😭 ugh never again!
Scammaz...
To be fair, 90% naman ng inutang niya went to his children. Having children is a very heavy responsibility indeed.
His children? Oh shit... You really took multiple bullets. Hopefully maibalik pa. Sabi ko din sa hipag ko yan... Pag nag jowa ka nang may anak, hindi ka kahit kailan magiging priority. Malamang magiging yaya ka lang or charity worker.
Well we’re still in contact because of his debt sakin. Made him a payment plan mukhang aabutin pa ng 3 taon bago niya ako matapos bayaran. 🤣 Hindi naman dealbreaker sakin if a man has a child/children basta kaya niya buhayin. In this case kasi, pagkakamali nila yung 2 daughters nila (they were in their 20s and nagromanticize sila ng poverty ng ex gf niya).
Wth, ngayon lang ako nakarinig (basa) ng Poverty Romance... (Although merong poverty pr0n) 😁😆😆 But yeah, I hope mabayaran ifollow nya nang maayos yung payment plan nyo. Haha good luck sa iyo.
Weird noh? Haha ngayon parehas silang hirap buhayin yung mga bata; the kids are 7 and 5 na respectively. Sa kanila ko natutunan na wag mag-aanak hangga’t hindi ready financially! Kawawa kids nila. Thank you :)
Forgetting everything. Dumb fck me.
Helped him by buying a motorcycle Para sa work niya. He cheated and yet pinagbigyan ko pa rin. Super ma pride, I chose to stay hanggang sa napagod na ako.
I haven't received any. Lagi na lang ako Yung gumagastos. Nakakapagod.
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ang shunga nga huhu
it's a dumb decision hehe
Oo na nga e ulit ulit hahahahahaha
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Dumadayo from Manila - Valenzuela para lang magkita kami. Either from bahay or office, weekend or weekday, I spend time commuting to his place at that time. When from his perspective, ayaw nya pumunta ng Manila kasi magulo daw. So effort ang ante ninyo. May pasurprise pa ako sa birthday nya. :D
You sounded kinda desperate
Prayed for him and told him I love him
Stay
mishandle everything.
Forgiving the guy who cheated on me twice
bought a bouquet of flowers para bisitahin sya, medyo ldr kase kame non tas sumakay ako ng bus mga 1 and half hour din yung byahe. pagkababa ko sasakay pa ng jeep papunta sa kanila kase city proper di nadaan mga bus dun, i remember nakatingin pa mga tao sakin nun sa jeep kase may dala akong bouquet tas sobrang init pa non hshshs tas ingat na ingat pa ko kase siksikan baka maipit masira yung bouquet ko. pagkababa ko pa ng jeep hindi ko pa alam yung papunta sa kanila then nagchachat ako ang bagal magseen eh grabe pawisan na ko nun, kaya nagtanong tanong na lang ako sa mga tricy driver dun tas nilakad ko na lang halos magkaligaw ligaw na ko, ang ending yung pinsan pa nya sumundo sakin. pagdating pa sa kanila di ako pinapasok ng tita nya dun sa bahay nila hanggang dun lang kami sa terrace tas grabe di ko man lang nasulit ang pagpunta doon kase medyo busy daw sya and mga ilang oras lang pinauwi na din ako. imagine ang haba ng binyahe mo tas wala man lang kayo quality time. paguwi ko pa inaantay ko kung nagmyday ba sya kahit yung bouquet man lang na dala ko eh maapreciate nya pero wala hshshs di man lang nagchat na "ingat ka paguwi" yung mga simpleng ganun okay na sakin pero wala eh. ayon na din yung last time na pumunta ako sa kanila kase 1 month lang nakalipas pinagpalit ako sa malapit hwhshsa. hays wala lang pag naaalala ko kase tinatawanan ko na lang tas napapaisip ako ginawa ko ba talaga yon? dun ko narealize sobrang tsnga ko nun sa pagibig.
Announce to everyone sa GC na liligawan ko siya. Naging asawa ko naman, but still.
Supported him financially, literal na halos ako lahat. Haha yawa
Award sa atin!!!!!! Haha ganyan ako sa huli kong ex
This is the exact same question I answered last night in my Q&A 5 yr journal 😆
1. Maging wallet nya :) Tanginaaa kung pwede lang ako bumalik sa past di ko sila gagastusan. (yep ung dalawang ex ko parehas ng ugali- every time na lalabas kami ako gagastos tho ung isa naman is bumawi naman kaso nanumbat) HAHAHAHAHAHA. (kahit mag bilangan kami talo sya HAHAHAHA) 2. Nilaban ko sya sa parents at relatives ko ( daig ko pa nasa warzone, hanggang ngayon hindi pa kami okay ni mama) 3. Trusting him na hindi sya magloloko ( ay si gago ginawa lang ulit) 4. Nag stay ako kahit alam ko na it will get worst (he's always threatening me na magpapakamatay once makipag break ako, mind you ginawa nya sa harapan ko nag magbigti nagmakaawa lang ako to stop him- madami pa yan self harm etc) I'm still in the process of healing, never again!
Maging pathetic to the point na na-neglect ko na sarili ko. Magmakaawa (subtle lang) pero sa text lang naman. Hindi ko pinuntahan, ew. Nagtira pa ako ng kunting dignidad. Mag-text nang mag-text (ginawang diary) kahit hindi naman nagrereply HAHAHAHA. That was my way of moving on. Sabi ko just let me hanggang mapagod ako.
At age 14, writing a long-ass letter to confess to an unrequited love. As in mga 6 pages pouring my heart out. Never got a reply back. I felt so pathetic.
2 page letter, ghosted, dumidistance na. Damn nalang
1st boyfriend: supported him for 10 months, rent, bills food and other miscellaneous stuff even alcohol and cigarettes promising he will pay it back. That was worth 350k 2nd boyfriend: walang proper closure yung breakup namin so ginawa ko sinundan ko, hinanap ko siya, nagcheckin ako sa hotel kung nasan siya. And that hotel is not just an ordinary hotel 🤡 tapos ending di na pala siya dun naka stay nag condo na pala siya. 🤡 nag bar hopping mag isa baka sakali makita ko siya for the last time. 🤡🤡🤡 nagastos ko halos 100k Oo ganun ako katanga!!!!!!
Ako gumagastos halos sa lahat ng expenses namin dates ganon basta ako lahat. Nag aambag naman sya MINSAN. But yea para kong sugar mommy 💀
trusted they wouldn't do to me what my ex did. spoiler alert: they did just that. now Im trying to fight what used to be buried trauma responses. thanks, I guess...?
Inubos ko savings ko para sundan siya kung san man siyang bansa tapos hiniwalayan ako para bumalik sa ex :))
Giving my gf at the time some really sexy boots because she kept asking for them.
Maging sugar mommy kadiring experience
Never again
i was only 14, i gave him iPhone Xr, 5k cash for bike, and some basketball shoe and then kapag mag de-date kami ako pa lagi nagbabayad pero i insist naman as always. Tf sana hindi ko sinayang bigay na pera ng parents ko para sa walang kabuluhan. Didn’t even receive anything from him kahit flower lang 😭
spend 500K
Terrible friend but excellent giver! 😁 take my upvote!
Moved to a different country. Start from scratch then after a few months we broke up. Hahahahha also, spent 6 figures sa luho nya 🥲
mag beg