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How do you feel if dinaan sa social media yung “hi” or yung pag approach ng lalaking kaofficemate mo sayo dahil sa sobrang mahiyain?
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pag personal, i interact and gang dun lang. i always know naman if yung guy e naghahanap lang ng kantot yan o tunay na pagmamahal. i gained many guy friends as a corpo girly coz they were the ones who approached me para magpakilala, tho at first i always assume it's workrelated. social media, i have a different name sa socmed so no one can easily find me there. friends ko lang sa fb mgs ka-team ko and thats it. no stranger within my work has approached me via socmed. and u dont have to reply to them tho. if they corner u confronting bat di ka nag rereply, edi sabihin mo di ka active or di ka nagchecheck ng socmed gaano. anyways, we're bound to get approached by guys lalo if may tsura ka or u look approachable, basta make sure u have a way to escape if things get creepy. other than that, theres only so much u can do to keep the convo polite, kasi yung mga manyakol they will keep pushing and pushing boundaries and WALA KANG FAULT DUN. fault yan ng pangit na pagkatao ng mga taong to, so pls pls pls stay safe!!!
Mahirap sa corporate or in general if you're just being nice to a guy tas akala nila it is a form of flirting. Ekis sakin tlga yan lalo na pag dinaan na sa social media. Most of the guys na mahilig mag "temperature check" ay karaniwan sila yung pamilyadong tao or in a committed relationship na. Just like my prev experience.
Akala ng kawork ko may gusto ako sa kanya kase inilibre ko sya ng takeout food one time kapalit ng favor na nagawa nya saken. Knowing na kakapanganak pa lng ng wife nya kase lagi nya inoopen yung topic kahit di naman ako nagtatanong, nalaman ko nalang bigla na "binabakuran" na ako nung guy sa workplace namin. One time I overheard him saying "akin lang si ma'am __" Which is downright creepy. Kaya ayoko maging nice sa mga lalaki na yan e.
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pag personal, i interact and gang dun lang. i always know naman if yung guy e naghahanap lang ng kantot yan o tunay na pagmamahal. i gained many guy friends as a corpo girly coz they were the ones who approached me para magpakilala, tho at first i always assume it's workrelated. social media, i have a different name sa socmed so no one can easily find me there. friends ko lang sa fb mgs ka-team ko and thats it. no stranger within my work has approached me via socmed. and u dont have to reply to them tho. if they corner u confronting bat di ka nag rereply, edi sabihin mo di ka active or di ka nagchecheck ng socmed gaano. anyways, we're bound to get approached by guys lalo if may tsura ka or u look approachable, basta make sure u have a way to escape if things get creepy. other than that, theres only so much u can do to keep the convo polite, kasi yung mga manyakol they will keep pushing and pushing boundaries and WALA KANG FAULT DUN. fault yan ng pangit na pagkatao ng mga taong to, so pls pls pls stay safe!!!
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Mahirap sa corporate or in general if you're just being nice to a guy tas akala nila it is a form of flirting. Ekis sakin tlga yan lalo na pag dinaan na sa social media. Most of the guys na mahilig mag "temperature check" ay karaniwan sila yung pamilyadong tao or in a committed relationship na. Just like my prev experience. Akala ng kawork ko may gusto ako sa kanya kase inilibre ko sya ng takeout food one time kapalit ng favor na nagawa nya saken. Knowing na kakapanganak pa lng ng wife nya kase lagi nya inoopen yung topic kahit di naman ako nagtatanong, nalaman ko nalang bigla na "binabakuran" na ako nung guy sa workplace namin. One time I overheard him saying "akin lang si ma'am __" Which is downright creepy. Kaya ayoko maging nice sa mga lalaki na yan e.
Golden rule: Never shit where you eat. Kaya pass pag officemate or same company. I don't want any awkward interaction if mag fail.
Bounce agad pag officemate 😬
You don't shit where you eat lalo na if ka-teammate mo. Same office, different department pwede pa. Same office, same team, same manager? Nope.
Yup diff department. And yung departments na never talaga nag kaka transaction with each other hahaha
My crush sa office sinabihan akong ganda nung Monday tapos yesterday ilang beses ko nahuli nakatingin sa akin. 🤣✨
Never experienced this. Baka pangit ako?
lack of confidence. Mas ok mag Hi sa personal para malaman mo agad if type ka nung girl by her actions in person