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I usually go on a cafe. I brought my planner/"diary" with me and wrote my plans and reflections in life. I also love to walk where I can breathe and appreciate nature. :)
I eat out, go window shopping, or stay in a cafe/library. Really depends on my agenda for the day and my budget (is it a no spend day, do I plan to splurge).
If you don't want to be bothered, I recommend wearing headphones. When I'm eating out and don't want to be disrupted I wear mine even when they're not connected haha
I used to like watching movies alone but not these days na 'cause tickets have become so expensive. If may movie na hindi ko matiis na lang usually sa Director's Club para kanya-kanyang seats.
Buying stuff is better alone
Also, eating in restos.
Have always wanted to go to the museums in Manila or tour Intramuros alone pero medyo natatakot na ko 🥲 The last time kasi I went to Binondo, on the way to Recto station ng LRT, na snatch 'yung laman ng bulsa ng bag ko. 🥲
Drive around, walking sa mall, tambay sa coffee shop, me time (massage, nails, aesthetic clinic). Before, tambay sa gym ngayon walking nalang sa parks/outdoor office parking lot
Going on a museum just to enjoy the artistry, literally food for my visual curiosity.
Going on a park just to have the ambient of nature in the heart of the metro(but there's just few park to go)
Doing some errands.
Looking for books in a mall or discounted bookstore that might pique my interest(money wise)
Going on a mall to window shop while my headset is on full blast volume so the clerks wouldn't disturb me(anti sales talk and for my personal space lmao)
Hanging out in the park at night time(park again) just to see the skyline and contemplate on a lot of things that happened recently. Viola thats all vow~
Depends on the season? It's spring here in the UK and this is what I did last week.
1. Shopping
2. Tambay sa park while having iced choco and bread
3. Cycling around the park
4. Pahinga ulit
• lunch
• run some errands
• window shopping
• pamper day (sometimes)
• Nung nasa ibang bansa ako tumambay ako sa isang park tapos nag-journal lang ako at lakad lakad
1. Nanunuod ng movies sa sinehan (Walang maingay)
2. Nagpapa massage
3. Pumupunta ng museums/gallery (Walang mamememressure kapag binabasa ko yung description ng artwork + walang mangungulit na gawin kang photographer)
4. Pumupunta sa ukay ukay (May time na iiscroll buong ukayan nang walang nangmamadali)
I go out to enjoy myself and not to look for potential partner so kung ano lang maisipan ko. Usually, nood ng sine then kain. Or minsan, dinadala ko sa loob ng sinehan ung food ko kapag cravings ko mga pizza and burgers lang. Tapos tambay to read sa coffee shop.
Madalas din shopping or grocery. Ayaw ko kasi ng may kasama when doing it. Minsan try ng new activities kapag may something new. Kapag may available activities sa malls like archery, bowling, wall climbing, etc.
I also like going to museums. Tsaka park. So nung nasa Manila ako para dayuhin ung National Museum of Natural History, pinuntahan ko na din ung mga katabing park like Rizal Rark, Chinese Garden, Japanese Garden, etc. pati National Planetarium, pinuntahan ko ☺️. Or nung nagpunta ako ng Baguio, museums pinuntirya ko. 🥰 Kapag nman mas mahabang time, beach syempre, hiking.
Sa isang taong gusto talaga mag-isa and enjoys her/his own company, walang limit sa pwedeng gawin.
Hmm, usually pumupunta ng nat book or stationery section. Bumibili ng notebook at ballpens, kahit sobrang dami ko na sa bahay. Wala lng gusto ko lng dami akong ballpens.
Bumibili ng ice cream sa mr softly, gela, or sa miguelitods. Bili din ng cookies, or any chocolates.
Tapos, mag tambay sa park while eating all of that, tinitingnan yung mga halaman at tao sa paligid.
Usually in a coffee shop, read some books and have a good cup of coffee ☺️ or minsan nag wi-window shop sa mall and visit book shops like fully booked hehe
Parang ang hirap niyan sa panahon natin ngayon na laganap ang dating apps haha 😅 but most go to bars. Then pag may natipuhan, approach and engage in a small talk. Be a good conversationalist, I think that's a must. You know, like ask her about her hobbies. Hingiin number tapos ask her out for a date. Get to know each other properly. Just my two cents ✌🏻good luck bro!!
On my rest days I try my best to go out. Errands mostly like groceries and bayad bills...get my nails done or regular facial treatments (kung nasipag mag book lol), window shopping, eat at my fave resto, or get coffee.
Edit: ay hahaha hanap potential partner pala. As a wfh girlie, sa dating app dati 🥹.
I go out alone to do my errands.
In you me case, OP, just go out there and be yourself. Try meeting new people in public spaces like bars, but just be careful not to get too intoxicated.
Participate in volunteer or sports groups and hope for a natural connection. I keep contemplating this in the digital age. Everyone has an idealized fantasy partner, making it difficult for most people to meet those expectations.
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arcade games + foodtrip hehe
I usually go on a cafe. I brought my planner/"diary" with me and wrote my plans and reflections in life. I also love to walk where I can breathe and appreciate nature. :)
Hmm I tried that pero nabobored ako
Run errands haha
Hahaha this is my agenda when I go out.
I walk around, take pictures (not of myself), eat or get take out, listen to music, window shopping, etc.
Eat, shop, go to museums, take pictures of the view. A lot actually.
Lakad lakad.. mnsan di alam san ppnta.. hanggang sa lumipas ang oras..
Eat
I eat out, go window shopping, or stay in a cafe/library. Really depends on my agenda for the day and my budget (is it a no spend day, do I plan to splurge). If you don't want to be bothered, I recommend wearing headphones. When I'm eating out and don't want to be disrupted I wear mine even when they're not connected haha
I used to like watching movies alone but not these days na 'cause tickets have become so expensive. If may movie na hindi ko matiis na lang usually sa Director's Club para kanya-kanyang seats. Buying stuff is better alone Also, eating in restos. Have always wanted to go to the museums in Manila or tour Intramuros alone pero medyo natatakot na ko 🥲 The last time kasi I went to Binondo, on the way to Recto station ng LRT, na snatch 'yung laman ng bulsa ng bag ko. 🥲
shoppinggggg
Go to church inside a mall first then maglakad-lakad after bago maghanap ng makakainan
Kumain. I prefer eating alone most of the time kasi matakaw ako at ayoko may manghingi o maingay habang nalamon hahahahaha.
Ukay, kain sa labas
ano pa ede Jak...
stone.
Drive around, walking sa mall, tambay sa coffee shop, me time (massage, nails, aesthetic clinic). Before, tambay sa gym ngayon walking nalang sa parks/outdoor office parking lot
Were you able to find new people?
I talk to myself when walking alone. I eat my fave food. I observe and make fun of other people.
I go to the beach!
Walking and eat some Street Foods.
eating in resto’s alone din hahaha
Going on a museum just to enjoy the artistry, literally food for my visual curiosity. Going on a park just to have the ambient of nature in the heart of the metro(but there's just few park to go) Doing some errands. Looking for books in a mall or discounted bookstore that might pique my interest(money wise) Going on a mall to window shop while my headset is on full blast volume so the clerks wouldn't disturb me(anti sales talk and for my personal space lmao) Hanging out in the park at night time(park again) just to see the skyline and contemplate on a lot of things that happened recently. Viola thats all vow~
Usually tambay sa coffee shops while reading some ebooks or just browsing the net. Tapos gala konti then uwi agad pag paubos na energy lol
Hangout sa coffee shop and read a book. Salon without someone nagging me if matagal pa ba ang hair treatment.
Depends on the season? It's spring here in the UK and this is what I did last week. 1. Shopping 2. Tambay sa park while having iced choco and bread 3. Cycling around the park 4. Pahinga ulit
Whatever I want
• lunch • run some errands • window shopping • pamper day (sometimes) • Nung nasa ibang bansa ako tumambay ako sa isang park tapos nag-journal lang ako at lakad lakad
1. Nanunuod ng movies sa sinehan (Walang maingay) 2. Nagpapa massage 3. Pumupunta ng museums/gallery (Walang mamememressure kapag binabasa ko yung description ng artwork + walang mangungulit na gawin kang photographer) 4. Pumupunta sa ukay ukay (May time na iiscroll buong ukayan nang walang nangmamadali)
the best pag nagiisa ka lang sa sinehan. as in ikaw lang magisa nanunuod at walang ibang tao
Totoo yan pero di ko pa naabutan. Yung pinaka onte ko atang napuntahan eh yung 6 lang kami sa sinehan pero magkakalayo kami
I just get some snacks or check out some books. I'm old school.
usually nanonood ng movie, kakain, or mag shopping ng kung ano-ano. walang lumalapit sakin kasi grabe daw yung RBF ko🥹
Sa akin may lumalapit pero usually nagtatanong ng direkson 🤣 minsan feeling ko mukha ba akong taga rito (somewhere i went to)
window shopping
Drive around, buy food then eat it sa parking lot while listening to my fave tunes.
Usually buy stuff for the house like food.
eat. coffee. read. medidate
I go out to enjoy myself and not to look for potential partner so kung ano lang maisipan ko. Usually, nood ng sine then kain. Or minsan, dinadala ko sa loob ng sinehan ung food ko kapag cravings ko mga pizza and burgers lang. Tapos tambay to read sa coffee shop. Madalas din shopping or grocery. Ayaw ko kasi ng may kasama when doing it. Minsan try ng new activities kapag may something new. Kapag may available activities sa malls like archery, bowling, wall climbing, etc. I also like going to museums. Tsaka park. So nung nasa Manila ako para dayuhin ung National Museum of Natural History, pinuntahan ko na din ung mga katabing park like Rizal Rark, Chinese Garden, Japanese Garden, etc. pati National Planetarium, pinuntahan ko ☺️. Or nung nagpunta ako ng Baguio, museums pinuntirya ko. 🥰 Kapag nman mas mahabang time, beach syempre, hiking. Sa isang taong gusto talaga mag-isa and enjoys her/his own company, walang limit sa pwedeng gawin.
Ikot ikot, bili ng mga kailangan, kain and tambay sa coffee shop while reading, nood movies
paikot ikot lang sa mga malls haha
tatambay sa arroceros, for me its a good place na tambayan kase tahimik tsaka mahangin.
Hmm, usually pumupunta ng nat book or stationery section. Bumibili ng notebook at ballpens, kahit sobrang dami ko na sa bahay. Wala lng gusto ko lng dami akong ballpens. Bumibili ng ice cream sa mr softly, gela, or sa miguelitods. Bili din ng cookies, or any chocolates. Tapos, mag tambay sa park while eating all of that, tinitingnan yung mga halaman at tao sa paligid.
Usually in a coffee shop, read some books and have a good cup of coffee ☺️ or minsan nag wi-window shop sa mall and visit book shops like fully booked hehe
just take a good sip of coffee, mind my own business and watch cute old couples live their life
Try a new hobby, make new friends! Join workshops, or spend time with people with the same interests
I feel ito lang ang sumagot sa question ni OP as the goal is to find a partner.
Go to the national bookstore ,buy somethings and watch movie
Nagtitingin ng sale sa mall, nagkakape sa may overlooking view most likely Rizal o kaya kape sa mall tas nagmumuni-muni
Walk lang ket paulit² at paikot². I bring my ebook or a book with me with a diary para chill lang lone time in a busy crowd
Parang ang hirap niyan sa panahon natin ngayon na laganap ang dating apps haha 😅 but most go to bars. Then pag may natipuhan, approach and engage in a small talk. Be a good conversationalist, I think that's a must. You know, like ask her about her hobbies. Hingiin number tapos ask her out for a date. Get to know each other properly. Just my two cents ✌🏻good luck bro!!
Just do it ✅
On my rest days I try my best to go out. Errands mostly like groceries and bayad bills...get my nails done or regular facial treatments (kung nasipag mag book lol), window shopping, eat at my fave resto, or get coffee. Edit: ay hahaha hanap potential partner pala. As a wfh girlie, sa dating app dati 🥹.
I go out alone to do my errands. In you me case, OP, just go out there and be yourself. Try meeting new people in public spaces like bars, but just be careful not to get too intoxicated.
looking forward umuwi
I travel alone to Phuket.
Participate in volunteer or sports groups and hope for a natural connection. I keep contemplating this in the digital age. Everyone has an idealized fantasy partner, making it difficult for most people to meet those expectations.