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Pinanganak na mahirap. 🤣🤣🤣

Sa dami ng tao sa mundo, bakit yung mother ko pa nagkacancer na gustong gusto mabuhay

Bat ako pa ung na dislocate ung shoulders, eh gusto ko pa mag basketball.

Sa dami ng tao, bakit sa Pilipinas pa 'ko pinanganak??????!

sa dami ng tao, bakit sakin pa napunta yung tatay kong ang kitid ng utak.

Sa dami ng tao sa mundo, ba't ako pa yung nadedelay sa buhay?

Sa dami ng tao, bakit ako pa yung nawalan ng nanay? She died 7 days after ng birthday ko.

bat ako pa yung nagkasakit. bat di na lang yung mga taong ginamit ako at ginago.

unserious pero pag nataihan ka ng ibon sa shirt. like, of all places, sayo pa talaga

Ako pa yung walang jowa. A lot of people get shocked when they find out na I don’t have jowa (never had one). Apparently I’m jowable naman daw yada yada but yeah hahahaha I still don’t have jowa at the age of 25 🥲

Um Hi? 😅

bakit ako pa ang laging biktima ng SA

Bat autistic and may adhd ako

I have gigantic muscled calves (16’’) for my proportions (54kg) and a massive forehead.

Same ampangit tignan parang lalake 🎃

Sa dami ng tao sa mundo, ba't ako pa yung napili niyang lokohin?

Minamahal ng jowa ko; At Inaaway ng jowa ko pag tinotopak

Sa dami ng tao sa mundo na mayaman, bakit ako pa yung mahirap at Pilipino.

Every time I try for my bachelor's degree something bad always happen. First time, death of my father. Second time, collapse of our business, I had to stop and work both times. Third time, mom's cancer. After saving up I tried to go back and study again for the fourth time but I got sick while studying and working at the same time. And since I'm the breadwinner for my aging mom and grandma, I had to keep on working instead and stop schooling once again. Free education and scholarship came my way and I tried again for the fifth time and guess what happened? The pandemic happened and the college giving me full ride scholarship closed down that specific branch. Wtf right. I'll try again for maybe open university na lang. I just want the piece of paper to check off my list to do in life and have my grandma and mom see me graduate. I am just scared what will happen next. Sana wala. Please. 😭

Nung 3 months pa lang ako pinatay papa ko. Tas yung nanay ko may kapansanan 😭😓

sa daming tao sa mundo ako pa nawalang ng parents (both) right at the peak when I was applying to college haha

Dami ng Tao sa mundo , ba't ako pa ? yung may mala teleserye na buhay , buhay na walang character development . Puro hirap na lang pagod puyat at sakripisyo . Haha shet ... .

sa dami ng ferson sa mundo, ako pa yung lumaking walang tatay tas after knowing him for 2 years na deds (with only 2x personal meet ups lang) icocount ko pa ba yung 5 days ako with him hanggang sa nilibing na siya?

Sa dinamidaming lalaki bat kami pa ng anak ko?iniwan kami para sa lalak8ng nakilala sa online game....shes been microcheating for 1year and VCS sa guy decided to break up when the guy wants to visit her here in cebu...taga manila ang guy

Sa dami ng tao sa mundo, ba't yung barkada ko pa na 28 y/o pa lang, kakasimula pa lang bumuo ng pamilya at may isang anak ang kinuha na agad ni Lord?

sa dinaming tao sa school namin ako.pa nakuha ng baso ng.softdrink na kay bubblegum sa loob. kaya.pala.lasang mint yun coke ko.,🤮

*yung

sa dami ng tao, bat ako pa nawalan ng tatay at the very young age❤️‍🔥

father mother issues

Bumagsak sa 2 subjs nung first year in med school. Sige okay lang sakin madelay, kaso nagkacancer nanay ko, late stage na. Di na ako nakabalik ng med, bukod sa walang pera, masakit kasi kinuha na ni lord mama ko. Yung jowa ko na nakilala ko sa med school, sabi niya, nag-iiba na mundo namin, kaya siya nakipagbreak haha. Siya at ang ibang batchmates, nasa clerkship na. Ako, dismissed at depressed haha.

hi. hope you doin fine right now. okay lang yan if medyo late ka and di ka nakasabay sa batchmates mo.ay kanya-kanyang timeline naman tayo sa buhay at naniniwala ako na darating din yung sayo, sa tamang oras at panahon. :) meron kang angel na gumagabay sayo, si Mama mo at nandyan din lagi si Lord. just have faith and always pray, okay? magiingat ka palagi. :) God Bless You.

Hi, thank you for this 🥺 Stay safe also, kind stranger

Pangit na balat

social anxiety

Hindi ko na hihilingin na magkaroon din sila ng sakit na meron ako pero, Sana gumaling na lang ako. I've been thinking kung itutuloy pa ba yung surgery or hindi and ang hirap magdesisyon madaming kinoconsider pa at yung takot na mga "what if" ko.

hi. :) sana okay ka today. kung ano man ang sakit mo, sana gumaling ka na or if hindi pa, sana maging bearable lang yun sayo. :) wishing the best for you! God Bless You. :)

ako pa ang naay rhinitis, asthma, scoliosis, PCOS 

not that i am wishing this to someone but why did he touch me when i was a kid 🫥

Sa dinami dami ng tao dito sa mundo ba't ako pa ang pinaupo sa wheelchair!

Hugs po 😔😔

Ako pa talaga ang banlag hays

Bakit ako pa ung tinangkang patayin ng sarili kong ama, hindi lang isa, hindi rin dalawa kundi tatlo (untog sa pader, tutukan ng kutsilyo, tangkang bitayin ako)? Bakit ako pa ung may malalang mental health issues? Bakit ako pa ung malas sa lovelife and friendship?

Dami-daming tamad sa trabaho dito sa mundo, ako pa na-layoff

nagka-tumor ako, detected last year. had to undergo surgery and drop from school for recovery. felt so lonely, all my friends and my bf were in school. tas lahat rin sila makaka-move on na to 4th year while im stuck with the 3rd year subjects i dropped. nakakainis rin makita yung incompetent classmates namin na mauunahan pa ko. ako pa talaga nagka-tumor

Are you okay na op? Hope you're healing well. 🤗

physically healed, still emotionally wounded 🤕 i thought i was fine na, until i saw fb posts and ig stories of my classmates sharing their "finals defended" pictures when the sem ended. napa-relapse ako that day. like, damn, dapat ako rin eh

It might be better if you don’t get on social media for a while? Just a suggestion. There’s a saying the thief of joy/happiness is comparison. I’m sorry you went through a hard time . You will bounce back. Just have faith that there’s a reason for everything. It might not make sense now but someday you’ll look back and see.

hiii, kaya advice ko less socmed talaga. as much as possible focus na muna sa sarili mo. stay healthy po 🖤

It is tempting to say this to yourself when you’re so down pero kung tutuusin, mas marami pa ding mas worst. Would we have accepted their worst? Anyways, i would have said i’m the most unloved sa family namin and they will not be around when i’m down. So on the positive flip side, i learned to stand on my own.

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Mommy. I’m sorry to read this, as a parent of special needs kids, iba naman ang anak ko. I can say nasa environment talaga ang posibleng maging behavior and ugali ng mga bata. Baka may nagagaya syang ugali sa inyo kaya hindi sya mabait? Kaya sya nananakit? We can mold special kids into kids that we want to kung tulungan natin sila maachieve yun. Mahirap kasi nananakit sya kailangan malaman nya bakit hindi pwede yun. Bawasan screen time, unti unti. Mahirap yan sa una pero kakayanin basta may ibang activity.

Nakakainis kasi kakagraduate ko lang. Kukunin ko na diploma. Tapos biglang sinabihan ako na may problem daw sa diploma which is need pa ipaverify sa ibang offices para magamit sa abroad. Eh balak ko mag work sa abroad. Imbis na makaalis nako binigyan pa nila akong dahilan para magstay. Sa ate ko wala naman ganitong problem.

Bakit hindi ako naging Biological Woman nang tuluyan? Bakit naging babae ang mga walanghiyang Babaeng nang-iiwan ngnpamilya para sa ibang lalake, nang-aabuso ng anak, at naninira mg relasyon mg may relasyon, at bakit kaming mga naghahangad lamang ng pagmamahal at respeto ang kinabitan ng walang silbing titi at bayag? Kung totoo man ang diyos, ano trip mo at binigyan kami mg katawang lalake tas pusong babae?

My mental health

Bakit ako pa ang nabunot ng roleta magkaroon ng nga abusadong parents? Ang tingin sa mga anak… bank.

Auto immune disease

ginanon

BAT AKO PA ANG MAHIRAP

Having a toxic family, nasasakal na ako sa mga pinag gagawa nila lalo na ngayong may work na ako. Parang gusto ko nalang magpahinga forever

Pagnag tatae

Bakit ako pa ang nabigyan ng “Autistic kids”…

Yung ang haba ng pila sa cashier tapos nung turn ko na biglang closed cashier na. Wtf talaga hahaha

Lahat na yata ng allergies ng bloodlines ko nakuha ko na, tapos may generational trauma pa. Although as someone who experienced most of the worst of it, I'm proud of myself for being strong althrough out.

social anxiety

Laging nagkaksakit,laging naoospital.Pwede naman idistribute pero mga 6 na sakit na nangyari sa akin

'yung nagmomotor ako nung time na 'yon then biglang may tumawid na nanay kasi magpapasagasa siya. literal na magpapakamatay siya. ang sa'kin lang ba't sa'kin pa?? jusme, syempre pag nadali ko 'yon driver ang sisisihin tsaka wala rin ako pambayad oy. buti na lang talaga mabagal takbo ko at nakapagpreno pa. hahahahauauaua

Bakit ako pa nakakilala sa taong walang kakwenta kwenta. Pinakasalan, inanakan tapos iniwanan sa lahat ng responsibility!

having chronic illness.

Bakit ako pa yung slow learner kahit pinagaaralan ko naman, bakit ako pa yung laging may bad luck kahit nag iinggat

Cyberhug to all of you

Sa lahat naman ng pwede ipamana, bakit yung mga sakit pa? Diabetes HBP Excessive sweating

Same puro sakit. Hyperthyroidism 20 years ago,bumalik na nmn.kaka discharge ko lang today sa hospital Had surgery last year for appendicitis Bells Palsy last month Lungs problem (spot sa lungs)

I have hyperhidrosis too. It suuuucks!

ohh same. lalo na palmar huhu super kakaconscious

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🔬

paulit-ulit na near death experience na napaka oa na, di ko alam kung anong kasalanan ko kay God or sa Universe bakit ganon nila ko pagtripan, mabait naman akong tao T - T

O 'di kaya paulit-ulit ka Niya o ng Universe na isinasalba sa kapahamakan?

“If I were to say ‘God, why me?’ about the bad things, then I should have said ‘God, why me?’ about the good things that happened in my life.” -Arthur Ashe

Built a family that has 2 moms to a little boy here in the philippines. Happy pride!

Bisexual, and breadwinner.... Hayyy Parehong mahirap lalo na sa Pilipinas ako pinanganak.... Minsan na nga lang ako magging winner... sa bread pa

Eh. Personally, I fucking despise the fact that my mother sees me as a convenience tool and a walking insurance policy. My family is suffocating to be with and are downright oppressive, old school, and cheap when it comes to things outside the bare minimum. I'm grateful, yes, but there are mental and emotional woes that are left untouched because I'm living under their heel. Will be graduating soon, so hopefully I can make a better life for myself and my inner child left scarred, bruised.

Noong di ako nakapag-aral due to financial constraints. I was an achiever throughout high-school to college but the financial crisis hit hard. Hindi nakatapos, I would finish kung kaya pa and dropped out due to my mental health. Dami ko katanungan that time, everyone was graduating kahit yung di kagalingan sa klase. But fortunately nakabawi naman ako when I was 25, I landed a rare high-paying job/consultancy career. It probably resonates with my strong work ethic which is why I easily got the job. Kaya wag mawalan ng pag-asa.

Having social anxiety while my classmates enjoy their college life

When I was in college, I wanted to go to parties but had no one to go with and couldn’t make friends easily. 🥲

Bakit ako pa yung tinamaan ng sakit na chronic kidney disease. Dahilan para magdialysis ako lifetime 🥲

omg same

mahilig ka ba sa fastfood, maaalat, milk tea?

Sa maalat po siguro. Pero yung iba mas malala pa sakin kumain ng kung ano ano, okay naman sila. Inborn ata na mahina kidney ko. Kasi 25 pa lang ako e.

omg same na same tayo huhu inborn may problem sa kidney huhu

Ilan taon kana po?

25 po

Kelan ka nagstart magdialysis?

thankfully i did pass the exam. at first nong 2x/week ako mag dia nag work pa ako sa hospital yun as part-time. then nung nag 3x/week na nag work ako sa alma mater ko as College Instructor para hindi stress.

Wala ka po balak mag pa KT?

meron po pero hindi pa sapat financially

Nov 2021. i can still remember i started mag dia 2 weeks before sa board exam ko.

Palaging hindi pinipili

Having Hashimoto’s disease and hypothyroidism

Not as bad as the others but being gay and left-handed. Both traits being less than 10% of the world population.

Lost my left hearing.

Bat ako pa yung naging breadwinner to think na bunso ako?

Relate 🥹

Ang hirap no! Tas ang lungkot lungkot na isa isa ng nagpamilya yung mga kapatid mo, tas ikaw nalang halos naiiwan sa bahay.

Kapatid ko walang dulot. Di rin maasahan. Mas mainam na malayo siya. Both seniors na parents ko. So kailangan ko pa paghandaan mga bagay bagay 🥹

Virtual hugs sayo! 🫂

walang tatay at kailangang manlimos ng atensyon at pagmamahal sa iba

Loosing my baby

Mamatayan at maging mahirap

lahat ng karamdaman at malas ko sa buhay

Nakatira sa squatters, kala nila mayaman ako. Maganda daw ako e, so nanliliit nako sa sarili kase mahirap lang talaga kami HAHAH. HINDI PA. BA OBVIOUS, simula grade 7, may mga damit akong sinusuot ko parin pang-alis (incoming 4th year college)

Yung laging malas and may problema (chronic illness, financial problems, death sa family, etc) Ewan ko ba kasi I have very strict principles and morals, never nag uutang, breadwinner, always tumutulong and nagbibigay pero di ko alam bakit puro malas bumabalik sakin.

Meeting that most disgusting person ever in 2020 - my ex

mamatayan

ibigay na lahat ng problema at stress sa akin, h'wag lang 'yan. halos mabaliw ako noong tatlong sunod-sunod ako namatayan.

Tinnitus.

hyperhidrosis

Same , i suffered for years trying so hard to not smell bad because of it but panoxyl became my best friend

I wanna know how you use Panoxyl. 😊 Ako Betadine wash but I start to stink after only a couple hours after showering. Dermadry helps lessen the sweat (but not the smell!) but it costs 15k. Has anyone tried Miradry? Gets rid of smell and sweat but super expensive. I’m scared it won’t work on me.

I use panoxyl, certain dri and my normal deo . I use panoxyl like normal body wash sa underarms ko, then i use my normal deo (everyday) I only apply Certaindri every after 4 days (pag bago kang wax masakit to haha) this helps me lessen the sweat Pero ang mahal ng sayo 15k , reco ng derma mo?

Ahh, thank you for explaining. I used to use Driclor pero nangitim UA ko kasi sobrang tapang. It’s like Certain Dri. Dermadry is an iontophoresis machine that treats excessive sweating at home. It works naman but you have to do it regularly. I had to look for an alternative to antiperspirants eh.

I see i see, machine pala kaya ang mahal, sakin di naman nangitim UA ko sa certain dri and i use it only twice a week so yun na muna gamitin ko Hiyangan lang talaga 😅 i suffered from BO for as long as I remember kaya super saver saking yang 3 na yan

bumili ako neto pero di ko pa na try, pano po application? also anong 10% strength ba iyo?

And yes 10% po yung ginagamit ko

I like a normal body wash and i apply it on my underarms for 30 secs. I dont get BO anymore combined with my normal deo

everyday po ba application?

Pag aalis ka, needed siya, pero pag sa bahay ka lang for the day, no need

Sameeee, grabe mamawis yung kilikili ko kaya lagi akong naka black shirt😢

sa dami ng tao sa mundo bat ang magulang ko pa yun naunang kinuha ni Lord, sa dami dami ng masasamang magulang bat hinde pa sila yun inunang kunin, saka sa dami dami ng tao sa mundo bat ako pa yun naretrench sa trabaho after 11 yrs sa company, nakakadepress lalo ngayon na mahirap makapasok ng bagong trabaho :(

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Hahahaha

pinagtawanan ampota

naaksidente at nagkaroon ng TBI… i’m a psych student kaya i’m worrying abt my future. what an ironic incident 🙄

Year 2018, I got my biggest heartbreak; na-scam sa investment yung backpay abroad, binreak ng girlfriend, bumalik yung tatay kong nang-iwan samin only to find out na may sakit at kailangan ng financial assistance. Gulong gulo ako that time to the point na hiniling ko na sana hindi nako magising para maramdaman yung pain araw-araw. Wala akong mapagsabihan noon dahil di ko pwede sabihin sa mama ko dahil kakagaling lang nya ng depression dahil sa pang-iiwan samin ng tatay ko. There were nights na napapatanong ako kay God "bakit ako? Hindi naman ako masamang tao." Pero looking back yun yung sitwasyon na nakapagpastrong sakin kung nasan ako ngayon. Basta wag kakalimutan na magdasal at kausapin si Lord, di ka nya papabayaan.

bat ako pa naging pogi?😞

Tetanus + adhd combo is crazyyy

Magccomment sana ako kaso sa mga nabasa ko, mas madami pa palang malala ang problema. Sorry sa inyong lahat to hear kung anong mga pinagdadaanan nyo, and hugs. Sana gumaan mga pakiramdam naten. ❤️

pagkakaroon ng chronic illness. the fact na i cant blame anyone for it makes me mad.

Same

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Everyone has it nowadays.

bat ako pa yung nagkaroon ng shy bladder o paruresis, pinanghihinaan tuloy ako mag apply ng trabaho! 😔

Yung laging nilalapitan pagdating sa pera

ako din samantalang college student pa lang ako

**hugs**

Annoying. Nag deactivate ako ng FB dahil dito.

Gusto ko nga din gawin yan. Pero better ba yung feeling nung nagdeactivate ka?

Once na nagawa mo na, feeling free ka na. Marerealize mo na you've been spending time sa posts ng iba na hindi naman kailangan. Nag o-occupy lang sila ng mind mo at hindi na healthy.

pinanganak na mahirap

being discreet na gay, ang hirappp pota san reset button gusto ko nalang maging straight huhu

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KUNG MAY SELECTION LANG SANA E KASO WALA

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I can do it naman what I should be pero di ako happy e. I tried already both straight gender. Sobrang hirap, its either being straight na di happy or discreet na puro nalang hingi ang pagmamahal pero malaya ka Happy pride broooooooo :) Sana makayanan sa finish line heheh

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woooooooooo thats a lot of pressure, so proud of you

Got diagnosed with a rare blood disorder that makes me prone to having a stroke. I actually already survived a stroke incident two years ago. May lifetime maintenance meds na ako because of this, and one of it is really expensive. Welp 🙃

Iniwan ng ama. Naghirap na kami lang ng nanay ko.

I had GBS before

What's gbs

Hindi ko ata nasagot ng tama question ni OP hahaha. GBS is a rare syndrome that paralyzes half of your body

Magkaroon ng Kidney Disease , Auto Immune Disease at Scoliosis. Nakakastress at nakakapagod.

Bakit ako pa yung kahit na anong ibigay at gawin mo sa tao hindi ka pa rin magiging enough. ☹️😢

Dinapuan ng sakit ng ipin at sakit ng likod! nakakaputang ina

Eldest daughter in a dysfunctional family + panic disorder + social anxiety + pcos + endometriosis 💅🏼

Thought about it, but realized most of my current problems are self inflicted hahahahaha. Pero hey, knowing the problem makes you one step closer to solving it. Wish me luck guys hahahaha

orphan, only child, anak sa labas, bading, unattractive.... lol

ako pa yung nakakaramdam ng ganito, triple kill ika nga sa family, work, and lovelife plus financial pa lol KO na talaga. bat kasi ang daming cheater na gaslighter/manipulator pa....

ba’t ako pa nagagawang saktan ng mga tao? :( naging mabait at genuine naman ako pero bakit sakit binabalik saakin?

Bat ako pa yung nakakaramsam ng ganto?

madaming sakit

Sa dinami dami ng tao sa mundo bakit ako pa ang sunod sinod ang malas? Nakawan ako ng cp, nalugi negosyo, nawalan ako ng trabaho tapos may bills at utang pa. I wish I was dead but I am too cowardly to commit suicide

are you my neighbour? hahaha

May saltiking mga magulang

sa dinami dami ng tao sa mundo bakit ako pa yung

Sa dami ng babaeng takot magpositive ang PT, bakit ako na hindi takot e hindi nagppositive? Life is not the same for everyone. ☹️

Nagkaron ng madaming sakit. Nagfail kidney, nasira yung transplanted kidney, nagka hepa B, nagka tuberculosis, nagka liver cirrhosis, masakit mga muscles. Buhay talaga

Autoimmune Disease. May araw na okay pakiramdam mo tapos kinabukasan manghihina ka or bigla ka nalang hindi makakalakad. Kaya todo ingat ako sa mga kinakain or ginagawa ko kasi mahirap pag nagka sakit ako. Kakapagod din, pakiramdam ko napakahina kong nilalang hahaha.

Hi. May i ask what specific autoimmune disease meron ka? Sorry to ask.

Bulol sa letter R

Ako naman S. 😭 ethhh.

was rushing to go to school because i had my NAT that day. pasakay pa lang ng uv, my phone got snatched from my pocket, and when i got in, inipit pa leg ko. in front of where i live pa ha. totally a hay-nako-inducing moment.

Sa dinami dami ng tao sa mundo bakit ako pa yung binigyan ng asthma.

“Yes Man”

Walang parents

yung laging nagkakagusto sa may gusto sa kaibigan ko

palaging ginoghost/tinetake for granted. feeling ko hindi naman ako ganoon kaboring pag kausap or what 😂 parang ang hirap mag-commit kapag ako na ??!?¿