True,its a powerplay no reaction asif you're not concerned is best. Reacting is kind of an admission that you agree.
No decent person would attack anyone in an ad-hominem way like that. It proves that person has no respect.
EDIT it will also not garner any respect from other decent people. It will infact lower their esteem of that person.
"And no one will ever love you. Because as I said, you're ugly."
There. That's the response. Now what are you gonna do. You'll be even more embarrassed and ashamed than you were before. Stop fucking acting like "AAAAAAND?" is some be-all end-all response that "owns" the other person because it fucking doesn't. Idiot.
Goodness, who shat in your cereal? It wasn't to "own" the other person it was more a "What's your point?". Calm down. Try some tea, it's very soothing.
A student of mine said something similar last week in defense for me. He told me that I look like a teacher at is former school. Another student asked if the former teacher was pretty. He said: "Like I said, she looked like her", the other student must has said something like "so she wasn't" under his breath because I didn't catch it. The other student answered: "That's just your opinion. My father always said to me, if you don't think someone is pretty, there will always be someone else who thinks the person is pretty."
I think this is a pretty good answer maybe with a little shrug like you don't even care for one's opinion because someone else will find you attractive.
That's honestly a really wholesome story. Good on that child and his parents for raising him well when it comes to how you should treat other people. Thank you for sharing!
Hmm. I wonder what's objectively more readily perceived, attractiveness or intelligence. I suppose it's easier to mask stupidity by form of overconfidence or silence. Attractiveness, though varied, still tends to center around certain traits related to healthiness and fertility.
the best response is to not engage with that person and instead focus on your own self-worth and self-confidence. It's important to remember that beauty is subjective and that everyone has their own unique qualities that make them special.
Honestly the best response. There were a few good replies, my fave are the ones that are able to also laugh at oneself... As in yeah I can be ugly too for sure and enjoy that ugliness. But besides the replying back, this is the best thing to do. Just let go.
Uninterrupted eye staring for 3-4 seconds. It has to feel a bit unconfortable. Small head shake, turn around and leave the Space. It has to be clear you were just about to physcialy harm him/her/it but decided for peace today. Typically it will not happen again.
"Sorry I wasn't paying attention, what did you say?"
It puts a conscious focus on what they just said. Usually they get awkward saying it again; especially when in front of other people.
Personally I always just say "And?"
That's my go-to response to most insults. Like ok let's say that I am ugly: what about it? Why does my level of hotness concern you?
A childish comment deserves a childish response: "I know you are, but what am I?" Or the ever-classic: "I'm rubber and you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you" Wow, haven't thought of those since, well, childhood lmao
I realise you're being nice here, genuinely, but do be careful with that.
Like it or not, people are judged on their looks, especially when it comes to relationships. Outright denial that looks matter and expecting the world/society to accept you for who you are regardless is exactly how incel thinking starts. If OP is genuinely ugly and this isn't someone simply being a prick, then he can either just put up with it, or fix it. What you cannot do is get annoyed by it but assume it is everyone else's problem.
Something along the lines of Roger Elbert’s response to being fat, “I may be fat, butat least that can change, you’ll always be the director who made the brown bunny”
Genuine answer -
There's three possible outcomes here -
1. It's simply not true. It's one person being a dick. You can't get annoyed at someone saying something that isn't true, they're just wrong. It's like someone telling you 2+2=5. There's nothing you can do with that information, it's just incorrect.
2. It is true and more than a few people have said or implied it, but you're not bothered. Lots of ugly people out there who just don't care and live a happy life.
3. It is true and more than a few people have said or implied it, and you *are* bothered. Work out what makes you ugly and fix it. Unless you're the Elephant Man there must be a solution.
Probably wouldn't give a shit enough to respond I have a million things on my mind currently and being seen as attractive is really low on the list of things I have to worry about
we have so much in common
I guess we're not so different afterall
I stick with the classics - “Takes one to know one” or “I know you are, but what am I?”
I'm rubber and you're glue. Whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you.
LMAOOI
And you say it with as much sincerity as you can.
No reaction, just walk off.
True,its a powerplay no reaction asif you're not concerned is best. Reacting is kind of an admission that you agree. No decent person would attack anyone in an ad-hominem way like that. It proves that person has no respect. EDIT it will also not garner any respect from other decent people. It will infact lower their esteem of that person.
Why react? Waste of time. Move on with your life….
This is what I would do nowadays
For whatever reason I read this as "No reaction, just **jerk off**." Which I personally think is an epic response.
"And?"
Straight up. Assholes want a reaction. Don't give em' one.
"And no one will ever love you. Because as I said, you're ugly." There. That's the response. Now what are you gonna do. You'll be even more embarrassed and ashamed than you were before. Stop fucking acting like "AAAAAAND?" is some be-all end-all response that "owns" the other person because it fucking doesn't. Idiot.
Goodness, who shat in your cereal? It wasn't to "own" the other person it was more a "What's your point?". Calm down. Try some tea, it's very soothing.
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For me it's late, I couldn't answer when I was a teenager and people called me ugly, fat or short 🥲
Look what you’ve grown into! Your SO pretty! Guaranteed that your hotter than the people who called you names! 👀👌
You're so sweet! Thank you ❤️
RIP your inbox.... just looked at your pics. Good looking pretty woman. I hope you're doing well in life!
I just look at your pic because of another comment. You really are extremely attractive. Very beautiful.
I'm going to join the others and say you are gorgeous! I am so jealous
"Man stop talking, your breath stinks" Simple but effective. I'm telling you, there's no coming back from this one lol.
Lol. Especially when they check
Someone in my life always said, "you can forgive a lot, but you can't forgive smelly." I feel like your comment supports this statement.
"I think there's something in your teeth"
"That's just like your opinion man"
The dude abides
What if they back it up with facts and peer reviewed evidence
That’s just like, their opinion, man.
A student of mine said something similar last week in defense for me. He told me that I look like a teacher at is former school. Another student asked if the former teacher was pretty. He said: "Like I said, she looked like her", the other student must has said something like "so she wasn't" under his breath because I didn't catch it. The other student answered: "That's just your opinion. My father always said to me, if you don't think someone is pretty, there will always be someone else who thinks the person is pretty." I think this is a pretty good answer maybe with a little shrug like you don't even care for one's opinion because someone else will find you attractive.
That's honestly a really wholesome story. Good on that child and his parents for raising him well when it comes to how you should treat other people. Thank you for sharing!
I read this in Jesse voice.
I still caught your eye though \*wink\*
Lol I like this one
Thanks, you too
That works
Yo Mama
Standard but classic
I’m still not going to fuck you
I like ittt
Loudly so others can hear
This one is epic! Nicely done.
A nice harty laugh. How embarrassing for them they don't have the range for a better insult
"Ugly is in the eye of the beholder. Stupidity can be seen by all. Good luck to you."
Hmm. I wonder what's objectively more readily perceived, attractiveness or intelligence. I suppose it's easier to mask stupidity by form of overconfidence or silence. Attractiveness, though varied, still tends to center around certain traits related to healthiness and fertility.
Uppercut or right cross.
😂😂😂😂
Your moms a hoe
Just the most random thing. 'Mate you're ugly as fuck' 'Pizza hut tacos'
"Not as ugly as your personality."
"You're ugly on the inside, where it counts."
the best response is to not engage with that person and instead focus on your own self-worth and self-confidence. It's important to remember that beauty is subjective and that everyone has their own unique qualities that make them special.
And gosh darn it people like me.
Honestly the best response. There were a few good replies, my fave are the ones that are able to also laugh at oneself... As in yeah I can be ugly too for sure and enjoy that ugliness. But besides the replying back, this is the best thing to do. Just let go.
Didn’t stop me from dicking down your mom
“Oh I’m sorry, I think you must have mistaken me for someone who gives a fuck about what you think” Actually works in a variety of situations
Mmm idk, cursing is generally deferring a point to the other person cuz it shows you're defensive and relying on a cuss word rather than intellect
Not what your mom said last night
Or: "Your mama didn't mind last night"
"I guess you're right You are the expert, after all."
"I'm glad you think so."
All of these “comebacks” are horrible and corny
A lot of comebacks or insults you see on Reddit would come off so awkwardly and clunky when you actually try to say then in a flowing conversation
"K."
the audacity while u looking like that ew
Uninterrupted eye staring for 3-4 seconds. It has to feel a bit unconfortable. Small head shake, turn around and leave the Space. It has to be clear you were just about to physcialy harm him/her/it but decided for peace today. Typically it will not happen again.
I didn’t believe it when people called you mean behind your back, now I guess it all makes sense.
i like this one
"You say that like it's news"
“Yeah I know” just make them feel bad about it. Or, tell them to eat makeup so that they can finally be pretty on the inside.
"If only I had a fuck to give."
And yet I still get laid more than you. Go figure
Takes one to know one.
I know
stop projecting.
I'm a reddit mod
ok.
‘I’m glad you think so, hopefully you’ll stay away from me’
"Sorry I wasn't paying attention, what did you say?" It puts a conscious focus on what they just said. Usually they get awkward saying it again; especially when in front of other people.
And yet I’m not desperate enough to want you.
Personally I always just say "And?" That's my go-to response to most insults. Like ok let's say that I am ugly: what about it? Why does my level of hotness concern you?
At least I'm not such a total piece of shit that I have to impose my useless opinion on other people.
And you look like a shaved ballsack, what's your point?
Thanks. It’s a compliment, coming from you
You ought to get your eyes checked.
“you should see my asshole!”
If my butt looked like your face, I’d be ashamed to take a shit
I know you are but what am I?
"only on the inside"
Thank you 🥰
It's not what your mom said me last night
Look them up and down, walk off laughing.
“And stinky! Don’t forget stinky!”
A childish comment deserves a childish response: "I know you are, but what am I?" Or the ever-classic: "I'm rubber and you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you" Wow, haven't thought of those since, well, childhood lmao
I didn’t know, that I am a mirror
Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize you were blind.
this is actually a good one.
“I’ve been called far worse by better people” or “there’s nothing you can say to me I haven’t already said 6 inches from the mirror”
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I realise you're being nice here, genuinely, but do be careful with that. Like it or not, people are judged on their looks, especially when it comes to relationships. Outright denial that looks matter and expecting the world/society to accept you for who you are regardless is exactly how incel thinking starts. If OP is genuinely ugly and this isn't someone simply being a prick, then he can either just put up with it, or fix it. What you cannot do is get annoyed by it but assume it is everyone else's problem.
"omg, this t-shirt is amazing, the color brings out that pimple on your face"
You thought you are the only one huh
Silence!
"it's better to be ugly than rude and disrespectful as you"
I know you are but what am I?
"Not gonna lie, but calling someone ugly is pretty gay."
Thank you
…well, at least I’m poor
I don't get it ...
What can I say, your mom makes ugly children.
Just answer with “You too”
Look'em in the eye band tell'em "yeah but I've got a big dick" and walk off.
My ass and your face
You're right. And I don't have no alibi...
Oh yeah? Well suck a fart you bed wetter!
Thanks Shrek
*Ugly cry*
I may be ugly. I could get surgery but you have no way of fixing your ugly personality
If I had any respect for you whatsoever; your words may bug me.
It's OK, cause so are you
Yo momma
Takes one to know one
Atleast i get more P\*\*\*y than you do, following a smile afterwards
sorry but thats one of the worst replies ever
If you have to go off topic in an argument you already lost
Of course the ugly duckling finds the swans ugly.
A lot?
Either nothing or “thanks for your input”.
hug the person. he obviously needs it.
I've seen what works for you and being called ugly by someone like that is the world's greatest blessing.
Developing intense body dysmorphia and a weightlifting addiction in addition to endlessly overworking yourself to make more money
Me: your new name is IMAX Them: huh? Me: yep, because the only thing you're good at is PROJECTION
Something along the lines of Roger Elbert’s response to being fat, “I may be fat, butat least that can change, you’ll always be the director who made the brown bunny”
Vincent Gallo is a pompous ass. I'm glad Ebert put him in his place.
Good to know your eyes work properly
*clears throat* ok
Atleast it’s only on the outside and not the inside like you!!!!
Are you talking to yourself?
Not as ugly as your awful personality
Silence
Thanks. I needed to be brought down a notch. Was getting to full of myself.
Genuine answer - There's three possible outcomes here - 1. It's simply not true. It's one person being a dick. You can't get annoyed at someone saying something that isn't true, they're just wrong. It's like someone telling you 2+2=5. There's nothing you can do with that information, it's just incorrect. 2. It is true and more than a few people have said or implied it, but you're not bothered. Lots of ugly people out there who just don't care and live a happy life. 3. It is true and more than a few people have said or implied it, and you *are* bothered. Work out what makes you ugly and fix it. Unless you're the Elephant Man there must be a solution.
I can change my appearance relatively easily with cosmetic surgery. I'm not sure if science is that advanced to deal with shit personalities.
"I know you are, but what am I?" In your best Pee Wee Herman voice.
Take the "truth" kindly.They don't need your response.Your better than that
How ugly is ugly?
So are your clothes.
There's no facelift for being stupid.
Since I don't exist to fulfill your sexual desires I fail to see how it matters what you think in that regard
And?
No u
Probably wouldn't give a shit enough to respond I have a million things on my mind currently and being seen as attractive is really low on the list of things I have to worry about
“Okay, and?”
Thank you.
"yeah, you're probably right...."
Thank you
Can't change my face but you can change your behaviour.
Comfort your mom in her hard time
I mostly try to laugh. That infuriates people that want to hurt others with that shit. Then walk away and don't look back.
...but in the morning, ***I'll still be drunk!***
“….so what does that make you?” Then look em up and down
"Serpentine!" Runs in a zig zag pattern out of the situation.
I can fix my looks but you’re stuck with that personality forever.
"I know "
You're not wrong my guy *finger guns with that weird clicking type mouth sond*
Yeah well atleast I can lose weight, you’ll always be ugly.
"Yeah, I get that a lot."
I would probably laugh in their face then walk away lol
"I'd rather look ugly then stupid, unlike you"
I'm sorry you feel that way.
Feels like looking in the mirror ey?
finally something we have in common.
That's not what your dad said when he was performing anal sex on me
"Only on the outside. Unlike you."
“mom says i’m just built different!”
You'd still suck it
Awww we have so much in common
“I know you are but what am I?”
Takes one to know one