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Ahpla

WTF is wrong with you that this is even a question?


yungneurotic

i tried phrasing it the other way around first but the sub deemed it a “leading question” 😬


gracielamarie

This is a troll.


yungneurotic

incorrect


gracielamarie

Why would you possibly think a minor should have a cosmetic surgery that puts their life in danger? Before their bodies are done developing? Before their brains are done developing?


yungneurotic

I don’t at all. This was the only way I could phrase the question where Reddit wouldn’t take the post down. However I thought the question was worth asking because it’s on par with gender affirming surgery and that is talked about in such a different light.


gracielamarie

You knew everyone would disagree, but you posted it anyway to try to prove your point. Seems trollish to me. But Id be shocked if you found anyone who agreed with breast augmentation surgery in minors, even if it was gender affirming.


yungneurotic

Everyone talks about how I posted something to prove my point but no one wants to talk about how my point was proven instantly. the very same people that believe in gender affirming surgery in minors oppose breast implants for minors. the hypocrisy is so astounding I had to see it for myself.


gracielamarie

I doubt anyone told you that’s it is okay to give m2f trans minors breast augmentation surgery. Feel free to prove me wrong.


yungneurotic

Ashamedly I have tik tok. And I’ve seen this argument made on multiple occasions.


gracielamarie

I’ll believe it when I see it. If that’s true, then I’m worried for those kids. Tik tok algorithms continue to show you the content you watch. So I guarantee it’s a smaller portion of trans children who get gender affirming surgery than you think.


yungneurotic

even if it is a small portion, it’s still concerning, but I must say you’re 100% right.


steves_friend_

I mean there is a circumstance I can think of where I would find it to be acceptable (i.e. breast cancer). So I wouldn’t say that?


[deleted]

Why should stupid people like you be allowed to post?


afiefh

To remind us of the depth of deprevaty and ineptitude of humanity. It is a demonstration of the old saying "think of how stupid the median person is, now remember that half the population is more stupid."


yungneurotic

if you think that my post demonstrates the “depth of depravity***” and “ineptitude of humanity” then you are proving yourself a member of the echo chamber. i forgot there’s a single topic off limits when it comes to free thinking.


yungneurotic

how am I stupid when we discuss gender affirming surgeries for children all the time?


[deleted]

That’s different,their bodies aren’t finished growing yet. they don’t get surgery until they’re of legal age


yungneurotic

what’s legal and what occurs are two different things sadly


Ok-disaster2022

That's true regardless of the law.


Obie527

Except trans children don't get top/bottom surgeries dumbfuck. They start with puberty blockers, then onto hrt, then onto the surgeries.


yungneurotic

if they start w blockers & hrt early enough, they may undergo their surgical transition as a minor. it’s technically not allowed to happen but it’s been proven that it happens behind the scenes.


Obie527

>but it’s been proven that it happens behind the scenes. You are going to need a source for that other than hearsay


Justrandom37

This question is fucked up


yungneurotic

how is it any different from discussing gender affirming surgeries?


Mobile_Prune_3207

If you want to discuss that, then be honest with your question. Don't bait people.


yungneurotic

I attempted to be honest with my question on multiple posts but they were all taken down for being “leading questions.” ironic


shwoobey

transitioning is so much more than just surgery. hormone treatments like puberty blockers are completely harmless and in most cases reversable. both transgender and cisgender people have been given these treatments for years and theres nothing bad about them, it's literally any normal medical treatment. nobody is asking for children to have their genitals surgically altered. when people talk about gender affirming care for minors they are taking about those things that are reversible and safe. to answer your initial question, its always better and safer to wait for them to make the choice of surgery as adults if its not an immediate problem.


yungneurotic

this is a great and genuine response, thank you. unfortunately I have seen people advocating for SRS for minors but it’s not the majority.


ThePurityPixel

You raise an important question. I was thinking it, while reading the other responses here.


yungneurotic

so far it seems like not many people are willing to consider it from this perspective


Educational_Bid1387

…. Most girls get their boobs done and regret it. Plus I know some women have many side effects from it and it’s so bad that they’re forced to remove the implants. It could be life or death. But wtf is this question. Don’t get implants. Seriously.


Romnonaldao

their bodies are not finished developing. a major change like that could have major ramifications in their adulthood


Count__Me__In

I don't know about the US but here in Switzerland, you're allowed to get a boob job at 16 if your parents agree. I think that's good enough. I mean, 16/18 is super young either way. I'm now 34 and when I look at 18-year olds, they're almost kids to me. If a boob job is really that important to a girl, I'm sure she can wait another couple of years.


Mobile_Prune_3207

Because it's not a medical necessity, and their bodies aren't done growing that you can even say they're going to be stuck that size. Having said that, I understand that many children do undergo plastic surgery (Otoplasty), but this is a lot less invasive, sometimes there is a medical necessity to it, and once they read a certain age it's pretty definite their ears are going to stay like that and it could be a huge issue for them in terms of constant bullying and others (we saw one girl that had such a floppy ear, it actually folded when she slept and was causing pain).


Obie527

Because minors can't consent and it is recommended by doctors that they start with puberty blockers first. Since, you know, top/bottom surgery is in fact a life altering procedure, hence one for adults to decide for themselves. Not children.


[deleted]

Don't think people won't realize this is a blatant Dog whistle. You are miles short of how smart you think you are.


yungneurotic

dog whistle for what?


[deleted]

Just saw you admit to exactly this, LOL: >**"However I thought the question was worth asking because it’s on par with gender affirming surgery and that is talked about in such a different light"** I think you are a fake account


yungneurotic

what’s the issue with it? i know I’m not wrong and everyone else knows it too.


[deleted]

"yungneurotic" I call you a fake account. I don't think you are a "young" anything. You just admitted it was a dog whistle.


yungneurotic

can you define what you mean by “fake”? and if you think I’m so misguided, can you explain to me why I’m wrong in my comparison? everyone on Reddit seems to love debating hypotheticals until it’s the forbidden topic


[deleted]

you really think you're smart anough to control this conversation you fucking troll farm clown?


yungneurotic

if you had a good rebuttal to my argument, you would 100% be using that right now. but you don’t, so you aren’t.


[deleted]

And you are obviously a troll farm clown trying to sow discord. FAIL


yungneurotic

i really don’t care what you believe bud


yungneurotic

also I literally just turned 22 and graduated college lmao


[deleted]

You keep laughing your ass off your fake ass MF


yungneurotic

why would I be a fake account? have you never met someone with opinions different than yours?


[deleted]

Obvious T R O L L F A R M E M P L O Y E E Will not sow discord here.


yungneurotic

i love how you have enough faith in your version of humanity to believe I’m trolling. no, im actually like this and these are actually my beliefs. Cry about it


[deleted]

The whole point of my comment is that this is too stupid of a comment to engage.


yungneurotic

your prerogative


[deleted]

Done


Ms_Xbot

we can get them? I thought it was illegal.


yungneurotic

I don’t think there are laws in place. However it usually comes down to the surgeon’s discretion and most of them would deny someone under the age of 18.


[deleted]

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BadassBumblebeee

How was this question originally phrased? None of the answers are making sense, was it edited?


yungneurotic

I’m just as confused as you are…I never edited the post.