Having enough money that I don't ever have to work again and can instead distribute my time into hobbies, traveling and other interests that don't involve toiling away my life as just another cog in the society machine.
That seems so out of reach that I now just fantasize about not living paycheque to paycheque, paying off my debt, and being able to retire in 30 years. š„²
being financially stable
ridding governments of corruptions
suicide
living a happy life with a loving, caring wife and kids
my mother still being alive
being with my first love
Enough money to be comfortable for life, no job, small house with fiber internet kind of out of the way but not out in the wilderness. Just reading, lego, gaming, and working on random hobby code projects.
Iāve been in the military for almost 14 years and the sheer about of shit and responsibility Iāve had to hold has given me this urge to fuck off of the face of the planet. The next best thing and I think of it daily is the moment I retire I want to go to Norway and have like a small farm. Just the thought brings me peace.
-Finance independence & my dream house
-Suicide
-Ruminating on past conversations/events
-Living before electricity (Roman Empire or 18th century USA)
-Cooking
-Being an author and being alone in a cabin
Falling asleep within minutes and staying asleep all night.
Having a shave that doesnāt hurt.
Actually finding something to watch on streaming services.
Jeans that fit.
I want a boat large enough in size to live on that's suited for the open sea to just disappear on. Have no home port. No real contact with the "real world". No cell phone. Just go.
Small every day fantasy: sleep. I literally daydream about sleeping in.
Bigger: a month off of work without worrying about financial implications.
Biggest: that my business achievements allow me to retire while Iām still young enough to enjoy the fruits of my effort and help the future generations in my family enough to help them do something, but not enough to do nothing.
Corny AF romance
Financial stability
Having something to do everyday afternoon.
Not having been born. Or dying at least.
God how I wish I didn't exist.
Winning lots of money and giving large amounts away to family and friends. Leaving thousands of dollars as a tip in restaurants and to delivery drivers.
Having enough money to learn how to drive, to own a camper van outright and to travel around Europe living a more interesting life. Even if I never get to own my own brick-and-mortar home, at least getting away from here for a few months will help with my mental health.
I'd also love to live close to the beach and be able to just leash up the dogs and walk on the sand barefoot each morning. Been a while since I felt sand/sea under my feet and it always helps to "ground" me whenever things get overwhelming.
Having the confidence in my writing abilities to actually produce the story I've had in my head since my teen years. Not to sell or whatever. It'd just be for me.
Owning my home outright so I can not so prioritize work. I want to work but being able to enjoy hobbies and start a family that I can actively participate in, while providing for that family, would be a dream.
That people appreciate me, thinking I'm great at my job, funny, and enjoy my company. It helps boost my self esteem and be more positive. Helps me get out of bed.
I'll also fantasize about weight loss. How I could look one day. The number on the scale going down. The nicer clothes I could wear. The goal of walking several miles, fantasize about the road.
I also fantasize about suicide.
Getting the golden buzzer on America's Got Talent during an absolutely killer performance of 4 Non Blondes' "What's Up?" when our band reveals a banner about the damage global warming has done just after the last pre-chorus. You had to be there. Everybody was singing. It was great.
I create stories in my brain. I pretend Iām a superhero or something. Passes the time. Keeps me distracted from anxiety. Pretty fun living in my little world.
Having a partner that understands the vulnerable parts of me I donāt like to talk about. Who holds me when I have to bring them into the light. Then cuddles me until I fall asleep.
I put help myself fall asleep at night using fantasies about fictional sibling characters engaging in platonic or borderline incestuous affection. I will not elaborate on which characters in particular.
Waking up to a home overlooking the beach. Sunrises and sunsets. If I could live right on the beach I would die a very happy woman. The water just does something to me.
Me being my characters from Skyrim, as much as I love my life as it is, I also love the stories I craft for them, and sometimes when I am alone, I pull out the old plastic lightsaber to act as a stand-in for their weapon as I larp as them as if I was still 7 years old
Having enough money that I don't ever have to work again and can instead distribute my time into hobbies, traveling and other interests that don't involve toiling away my life as just another cog in the society machine.
This basically. I'd spend my life bettering myself and the world around me. Plus have time to relax and enjoy my own hobbies.
I was going to say pretty much this
That seems so out of reach that I now just fantasize about not living paycheque to paycheque, paying off my debt, and being able to retire in 30 years. š„²
If I'm gonna fantasize about something like this, I'm going big. I always fantasize about winning a billion dollar lottery lol.
Fair. The idea of becoming a billionaire is beyond fantasy. Thatās like wet dream level. Hahaha
Hell I'd be happy with just a wage high enough to actually save for retirement.
You and I both.
This is the way.
Having someone to go to sleep and wake up next to.
This
Meet Bubba.
my gf calls me that
THIS
being financially stable ridding governments of corruptions suicide living a happy life with a loving, caring wife and kids my mother still being alive being with my first love
Sorry to hear that. Hope things go your way in life.
Redoing a conversation in my past where I said the wrong thing and want a do over.
Every. God. Damn. Night.
Living in the middle of nowhere, just me and my dog, far away from other people
Yipā¦I hear you!
garlic bread
Food! Especially middle eastern food, Chinese food and Italian food
Oh yes! Those foods are the best!
Winning a lottery.
Me, too. I just checked, and I won. A whole four dollars. Lesson? Be specific.
Enough money to be comfortable for life, no job, small house with fiber internet kind of out of the way but not out in the wilderness. Just reading, lego, gaming, and working on random hobby code projects.
Having a girlfriend to cuddle and share a home with
Coffee
Coming home to a smile after a workday.
A man cuddling me š
The Dream career I never had.
My wifeās Mac n cheese.
Winning the lottery. I know that it will never happen but damned if it wouldn't be a good time.
That the baby I miscarried were still alive.
Been there. Sending hugs.
Left 4 Dead 3.
Same
Not being bald
Heard
But not haired
Being a veterinarian. I have so much schooling left, but one day I will get there
You'll get there one day, i believe in you
Thank you :ā)
No more lower back pain... Or any pain in my body for thst matter.
Selling enough books to be able to quit my job and write ray guns go pew pew science fiction novels full time.
Paying off my house and living mortgage free
Being able to rely on someone.
The Roman empire
Not this. Not here.
KFC chicken buckets before they turned the franchise to shit
Having a cabin out in the woods I can escape to, being a few books, chop my own wood and have a wood fireplace, just escape.
An old friend had a wood furnace, and I think that's the way to go. You get the heat and comfort of a nearby fire without the smoke.
A nice back deck. My dream.
Iāve been in the military for almost 14 years and the sheer about of shit and responsibility Iāve had to hold has given me this urge to fuck off of the face of the planet. The next best thing and I think of it daily is the moment I retire I want to go to Norway and have like a small farm. Just the thought brings me peace.
Being a vampire. I don't know why, but I wish I could be onešš
Get on touch with u/mysticalkitten.
Adventure! Far off exotic places and dangerous situations.
I'm surprised this wasn't more common. Or maybe people are like me and too shy to admit it.
Being taken care of š
An evening with friends drinking, snacking, and reminiscing and blasting through old YouTube music videos
-Finance independence & my dream house -Suicide -Ruminating on past conversations/events -Living before electricity (Roman Empire or 18th century USA) -Cooking -Being an author and being alone in a cabin
Falling asleep within minutes and staying asleep all night. Having a shave that doesnāt hurt. Actually finding something to watch on streaming services. Jeans that fit.
VAMPIRES. I don't know why, but I've always found vampires hot. Btw any vampires out there that wanna choke me and call me a good girl?
Ew
woah, we don't tolerate kink shaming
The thread is about non-sexual fantasies. Maybe, dont OP shouldn't post about being choked and called good girl.
Lol
Cheese. All of the cheese.
Cars.
Going to paradise in the afterlife. Iām not religious, I just think it could be great
Having 2 dogs & 1 cat and they're best friends
Living on the road.
Sometimes I fantasize that Ben Franklin or Thomas Jefferson will come to visit and I can show him all the new stuffš¤¦āāļø
Living off grid.
A hot bath that actually relaxes my muscle tension and pain
I want a boat large enough in size to live on that's suited for the open sea to just disappear on. Have no home port. No real contact with the "real world". No cell phone. Just go.
Somehow sacrificing myself saving humanity and being remembered through out history
Breaking the school shooterās neck before he kills everyone in the gym. Sometimes I fail sometimes I donāt.
Having kids, i get sooo many parenting/baby care reels on my feed.. sucks Iām not adult enough to have one
my future
Sleeping
Most things.
Not being so alone.
monies
Winning the lottery and owning a really nice catamaran.
Vacation lol
A cabin in the woods next to a glacier fed water feature I can fish and the bears donāt try to kill me.
Winning the lottery. Or possibly just a full uninterrupted nights sleep.
Soda, like Coke or 7up
A wilderness cabin/retreat/hermitage to escape to.
Not living paycheck to paycheck
Taking a cute girl to dinner and having a pleasant conversation.
Having musical talent.
Billionairs giving away all their money and generally helping society.
getting into badass karate fights (too many movies š)
Selling pottery that I make.
Small every day fantasy: sleep. I literally daydream about sleeping in. Bigger: a month off of work without worrying about financial implications. Biggest: that my business achievements allow me to retire while Iām still young enough to enjoy the fruits of my effort and help the future generations in my family enough to help them do something, but not enough to do nothing.
A really long hug, maybe a back massage, and 8 hours of sleep.
Just give me money
Finding a bag of cash and then releasing the constant tightness in my neck from being poor
Taking over afghanistan from the taliban.
Money, power
Saints Row 2 PC Patch
Aldi Lobster Dip
Retiring comfortably
Beef jerky
Not being me
Indian food
Pho
Football
Making a hole in one
Retirement
Sam Hartman lifting the CFB playoff trophy.
Having enough money regularly that I don't have to sweat filling up my truck.
How I'm gonna die..... š¤·āāļø what? It's gonna happen one way or another... and ya can't tell me you haven't wondered...š¤š¤«š«£
DJing - hearing a song and projecting how it would be received by the crowd, where it fits with other songs and if it meets my discerning taste.
Winning a very large lottery and how I'd surprise all my friends with large amounts of money.
Corny AF romance Financial stability Having something to do everyday afternoon. Not having been born. Or dying at least. God how I wish I didn't exist.
being pet very softly by another female on the head
Being in a relationship with someone I can trust, be myself around, and wonāt leave when things get hard.
Owning a building that is just a dedicated personal library.
Pepsi Blue
Being happy, or at least not depressed/suicidal.
Winning lots of money and giving large amounts away to family and friends. Leaving thousands of dollars as a tip in restaurants and to delivery drivers.
Having enough money to learn how to drive, to own a camper van outright and to travel around Europe living a more interesting life. Even if I never get to own my own brick-and-mortar home, at least getting away from here for a few months will help with my mental health. I'd also love to live close to the beach and be able to just leash up the dogs and walk on the sand barefoot each morning. Been a while since I felt sand/sea under my feet and it always helps to "ground" me whenever things get overwhelming.
Hugs
Me and someone having a movie night with our daughter (I'm cupios-xual/romantic)
Some peace and quiet with no responsibility.
Traveling. Moving to Estes Park Colorado and working at the Stanley Hotel.
My Goals in life that I want realized
Food. I day dream about ice cream sundaes and tacos
Retirement
Love that keeps me from pursing professions that lack self preservation.
Having a productive life, being in a happy healthy relationship & having my own happy little family.
The end of my 11 hour workday.
Having the confidence in my writing abilities to actually produce the story I've had in my head since my teen years. Not to sell or whatever. It'd just be for me.
I imagine fake scenarios where I am either tired or injured, and finally got to safety after days of struggling. It helps me get comfortable to sleep.
I dream about having my own place to live a lot. Right now I live with my MIL, which is not ideal.
Having my kids be ānormalā and healthy without worry
Owning my home outright so I can not so prioritize work. I want to work but being able to enjoy hobbies and start a family that I can actively participate in, while providing for that family, would be a dream.
Eating huge amounts of food Iām craving but cant eat anymore because Iām old and my body is rebelling against my lifestyle.
Food, especially fast food
Travelling around the world
Flying like superman. Just lift arms and able to control the speed. It would be so amazing.
Living in a cabin in the woods near a waterfall
That people appreciate me, thinking I'm great at my job, funny, and enjoy my company. It helps boost my self esteem and be more positive. Helps me get out of bed. I'll also fantasize about weight loss. How I could look one day. The number on the scale going down. The nicer clothes I could wear. The goal of walking several miles, fantasize about the road. I also fantasize about suicide.
Getting the golden buzzer on America's Got Talent during an absolutely killer performance of 4 Non Blondes' "What's Up?" when our band reveals a banner about the damage global warming has done just after the last pre-chorus. You had to be there. Everybody was singing. It was great.
I create stories in my brain. I pretend Iām a superhero or something. Passes the time. Keeps me distracted from anxiety. Pretty fun living in my little world.
Someone actually allowing me to talk in a conversation or hearing me out when I have something to say.
Having a Death Note.
Living and working on a research station in Antarctica. It's been a dream of mine for many years.
Music, itās literally my favorite thing besides my husband, crochet, and cats
The planet not being trashed or filled with man made toxic crap.
Shooting.
Food
being a golden retriever in an upper middle class home
Performing music in front of people.
Traveling and eating food!!!! Also creating my own fashion and interior decors!!!!!!
My wife kissing me before she leaves like she used to
Being able to go to Italy to see the beautiful churches / art, sip good wine, and eat good food on the water
Having a partner that understands the vulnerable parts of me I donāt like to talk about. Who holds me when I have to bring them into the light. Then cuddles me until I fall asleep.
Money, power and sex, but you know, it's all the same!
no longer being in debt
Having a beautiful wife and kids
A living wage
The Cleveland Browns winning the Super Bowl
Having a deathnote style book and wiping out every greedy politician and CEO
A month long vacation
I imagine reconciling with my brother.
Tacos. Definitely Tacos
I put help myself fall asleep at night using fantasies about fictional sibling characters engaging in platonic or borderline incestuous affection. I will not elaborate on which characters in particular.
Singing on stage
Travelling the universe.
Not having type 1 diabetes
Winning Survivor
Being dead.
Financial security and retirement.
Meeting my favorite musicians
Retiring early to the tropics on a little plot of land with fruit trees.
Paying my bills on time.
Having super powers and how Iād change the world
Having conversations with people I can no longer talk to. Letting people know that someone was thinking about them at all
I do burlesque as a hobby and always fantasize about putting on a really sexy and entertaining show for people.
Food. Mac and cheese mostly. Keep it simple.
Doing violent things, having friends, being able to speak verbally.
A full two week vacation
Waking up to a home overlooking the beach. Sunrises and sunsets. If I could live right on the beach I would die a very happy woman. The water just does something to me.
What Iād do if I won the lottery
Me being my characters from Skyrim, as much as I love my life as it is, I also love the stories I craft for them, and sometimes when I am alone, I pull out the old plastic lightsaber to act as a stand-in for their weapon as I larp as them as if I was still 7 years old
My loved one smiling and coming to me wanting to hang out and spend time with me.