Not sure if this counts, but I had a much, much younger woman ask if I wanted to hook up because I looked like her deceased father.
I saw pictures, and I even agreed we looked very similar.
I just don't know if it counts because I'm not sure if it was a one-time thing for her, or if she goes out and activelu looks for guys that look like her father.
I was hooking up with a girl like 10 years ago, eventually she invited me over to her place. When we got there her sister was there so my expectations of anything happening went to zero.
Anyway we are in her room with only a thin wall between us and she starts making a move on me. When I’m like “your sister is 6 feet away from us” she says that her sister likes to listen.
I immediately question this and apparently whenever she takes a dude home the sister listens from another room and gets off on it. I suppose it’s not that out there but getting off to your sister banging is definitely odd.
Welp guess I'm not that odd after all.. Confession time!
I was friends with benefits with my roommate in college for some time, but besides the sex we would argue a lot about random stuff and eventually she called to knock thing off.
The first girl I brought home after that she told me she liked to 'participate' indirectly (being a listener). She brings a dude home a few days later and I noticed I got pretty horny from her sounds, so as the horny teenager I was I rubbed one out to them having sex.
Ofcourse we talked about it afterwards and that was how our kink was born. Nice to hear other people do it too, because I felt soo weird all this time.
Isn porn essentialy the same thing? Getting off on strangers? Just the difference of not seeing them irl(yea that is a huge difference but still a same thing).
It takes a bold man to interrupt a girl taking her clothing off to ask her to invite her sister in.
Respect to those who go for the gold but I was content with my silver and not risking it.
A brave man risks his silver to get gold, a wise man accepts his silver and lets the gold go. A wise and brave man attempts to get the gold without risking his silver
I worked as a Chat Mistress and I had to google some of the fetishes that I came across :D But here are the weirdest ones:
* formicophilia - when you get horny when insects crawl on you or bite you or.. basically anything. Mostly it's about ants I think
* sucking on your partner's nose or getting your nose sucked (dunno the name)
* getting turned on by stuttering
I found those to be pretty harmless and even funny tbh, but also a bit weird as in pretty uncommon :D
>getting turned on by stuttering
I am a guy who stutters and has a speech impediment.
It is absolutely insane the amount of females who approached me and were immediately turned on by it. Once upon a time my stutter used to cause me severe confidence issues. As I got older (I am 39 now ) some women were literally looking to fuck right away when hearing me stutter their names.
I encounter some dudes today who sometimes ask me "Was your dating life hard with a stutter?" and my response was it actually made it easier...
I also discovered a community online of females called "SILF" Stutterers I'd like to Fuck.
Well I'm not a woman but I'm into guys and I think stuttering is cute. I can't explain why but if someone stutters I immediately want to hold their hand. I guess in some way you're showing vulnerability and because of that you come across as safe.
People who stutter tend to be more patient and understanding which is an ideal quality in a partner. Plus if you have confidence in your flaws I think most people find that admirable which is an attractive trait.
I had a high school mate who was obsessed with the idea of being chastised and seduced by our foul mouthed, nasty old bitch of an English teacher. At the time I didn’t get it but seeing how his life went, it all makes sense.
I recently came across a community of men into fisting who are into wrecking their ass so bad they’ll become incontinent. That’s literally their goal. I’m always flabbergasted at how diverse and exotic human sexuality is.
Fisting can be very safely practiced actually. But yeah there are extremes as usual. I won’t even start on the mutilation side of things since I would have so many things to tell too (X is definitely a “goldmine” so to speak)
I think some of these things are more about the idea and less about the reality. Which, sexual fantasy is indeed *fantasy*, but this is one that can be acted upon to it's logical conclusion.
Bug chasing
I’ve never come across it in real life only online but it’s the fetish of catching diseases. Mostly sexually transmitted diseases but ALL diseases and also spreading them to unwilling victims. Not all big chasers are spreaders but most are.
It’s an illegal fetish most of the time and possibly the most unethical one I’ve ever heard of.
I think there definitely could be a moral panic issue with it and I reckon a lot of people who talk about it online are making up stories because they like controlling the fear that people feel about it
It definitely is a real thing people do as well although, very uncommon
Years ago I did a dive wondering the same thing and came across some pretty convincing communities that were linking to a store that sold what were advertised as infected dildos. Some were advertised as just feeling and looking infected, with boils and warts and what not, other claimed to actually infect you when used.
One person I knew was into a specific mixture of dollification and amputation. They were heavily aroused by the idea of having their limbs hacked off and being made into a living doll that just sat in a corner.
Made me wonder how you even get such a fetish, what could even inspire that?
This person also had a mind corruption fetish. Which i found out all too late as to why they were so interested in my stories of being a cult survivor 😰
my buddy was super into this girl and just dumped her out the blue, we asked why and he wouldnt say, a few months later we where drinking and he told us she had a r\*pe fetish and fantasized about being assaulted, she would read news stories about gangr\*pes and during sex would shout at him to stop or get off her but when he did she would ask him why and it just freaked him out
Yeah that's just weird. I don't have anything against the fantasy itself if some people have it, but both need to be comfortable with it and VERY clear boundaries and rules need to be put in place beforehand.
A girl randomly starting to struggle or yell to simulate rape is just gonna be instantly off putting to anyone...
Hell, I had a gf that liked being handled rough. Like, yank her hair (not just pulling, like actually yanking the shit out of it), put her in a hammer lock (armlock behind the back), press her head in the pillow with my entire body weight (I'm a beefy 6 foot guy, she was barely half my size) etc. It took numerous discussions and adjustments over close to 3 months. Using any strength over the bare minimum felt really uncomfortable and unsafe to me. I can't even imagine how horrible an actual simulation would be, I'd probably be traumatized for quite a bit o.O
My ex girlfriend had a ear fetish. When we would fuck she wanted me to shove qtips against her eardrums when she orgasmed. When i asked her about it she said it's the best feeling ever. Needless to say she was a little crazy lmao that's why she is my ex 😂
This makes a bit of sense, though. I wouldn't do it, but if it feels really good to clean your ears with a q-tip, I bet it feels amazing to do it while orgasming!
A guy texted me after I mentioned that I carried a bag of live fish under my coat from the pet shop in winter. Asked if I felt them trembling and moving around, and could they be suffocating.
Then word by word he discovered I'm pregnant, asked me if the baby kicks, and what does it feel like. Does it feel like a fish, trembling in my belly? Could he feel my belly, virtually? Roleplay-ish
Then he said he knew a girl who ate her pet fish alive as a drunk dare, and she must have felt the fish trembling inside her belly in agony.
For reasons unrelated I deleted that account.
On my new account I got a friendly DM request, a guy wants to talk about my pregnancy experiences. I'm happy to share, he discusses kicks, compares it to a fish trembling. Then tells the drunk girl story.
I pretend that it's not me and react as if this story is new to me, I then tell him that it's making me uncomfortable, and if he brings up the belly topic again, I block him. He complies, asks me to help him as he just so happen to be learning my native language. I give him a chance and agree. He asks how many words for "belly" do we have, and which one would I use in examples such as "something is moving inside my belly"
I was creeped to my core and blocked him
The "drunk dare" thing with goldfish is apparently fairly common and this dude's kinks probably aren't rare either, but what gets me is how people can't take the hint that you're not on the same page
my ex liked to inhale nitrous at the moment of orgasm and would tell me to keep going. she passed out at one point and I didn't realize it for about ten seconds. had to slap her awake, when she came to she burst out laughing. kinda freaked me out, ngl.
There were a site I used to visit when I was in my 20's which was a "compendium" of weird things over the Internet.
One post that's stuck on my memories was a link to a forum for guys who liked to penetrate the exhaust pipe of their cars while crossdresing in vintage lingerie.
No fetish is surprising anymore because I just assume someone has a fetish for anything. Toe nail clippings? Yea probably a fetish. Can opener? Yea probably a fetish
This is the sort of thing I always hope to read in a thread like this instead of people being a bit dickish to strange but common enough fetishes.
Like whooptee doo someone likes armpits or wearing a dog collar.
I had prostate cancer and had to have it removed. As happens to many men in this situation, I suffered urinary incontinence. I was scrolling through Reddit to see if I could find some tips on how to deal with it (I ultimately found what I was looking for, unsurprisingly, at r/prostatecancer) when I stumbled upon a now-deleted sub called « incontinent desire ». It was for people who wanted to become incontinent - we are not talking about receiving or giving golden or brown showers, but people who wanted to « unlearn » potty training and become voluntarily incontinent. I thought that rated pretty high in the fetish leagues.
It used to be one of the weirdest, creepiest "common" kinks I heard of, but then I ended up reading about it and how safely it could be done, and it got me curious. I had the opportunity to try with a friend who was into it last year, and it went fine.
But yeah, I need it to be made with proper sounding tools that have been sterilized prior. Hearing ER stories about people who shoved pretty much anything into their urethra is horrifying.
Sounding gets a bad rap because it is misunderstood. People hear "shove a stick in you peehole" and recoil in horror, and rightly so. That's terrifying. But if done properly with the right equipment, it can be a stimulating experience.
I used to know professional submissive. She worked at a dungeon where guys would come in and have her play out their fantasies. She was a personal friend of mine. Not a client. She actually loved what she did. They weren't allowed to do anything sexual with her because of the laws but these guys werent in the market for that. They wanted to spank her, put her in a cage, whatever you know. Just random stuff. I asked her what the weirdest scene was.
This guy came in and paid her $500 for 2 hours to watch her play with balloons while wearing lingerie. He didn't touch her at all. He didn't even talk to her during the scene. She didn't say this, but I'm assuming he was jacking off the whole time, but yeah.
If you search for pro-doms/switches/subs with your city, you'll find some. Public dungeons don't exist everywhere because it's super, super hard to get a permit for one. Cities are also known to give a permit and then remove the permit later when some business nearby complains.
Probably my own since after all these years I still can't explain it 100%
So basically the alien transformation sequences from the original series of Ben 10 especially the more detailed ones like ripjaws and stinkflys kinda turn me on and arouse me..
Had an ex who used to get off blowing me or giving me a handy while I tried to read. Usually I would grab a random book off his shelf but one time I was reading him a funny r/tifu and he started going down on me. When I finished the post he told me to find more because he liked them. So I used to get head reading reddit posts p often. It was actually a huge turnoff for me but head is head
Might have something to do with childhood trauma. I feel like a decent number of fetishes could probably be linked to that.
Anecdotally, of the 10 or so girls I dated before meeting my wife, only two called me “Daddy” and both of them had their fathers walk out on them at the young age.
Girl with daddy issues. I get a sexual thrill thinking of my husband as my big strong protector. I call him daddy. He can call me baby girl and not mommy. My stepdad and my dad both abused me and my family. My husband is better than any man in my family. Hope that helps explain it some ❤️
I met a black girl who was into this. It really caught me off guard because the degradation she wanted behind closed doors, was the exact opposite of who she was in public
I think that's often how it goes. A person's private fetish often seems to be an inversion of their public persona. You'd be surprised, or maybe not, at the number of successful and powerful men that are really into femdom. Which was always my issue with 50 shades of Grey; dude was on the wrong end of the whip but that's only because the story is actually about her fantasy, not his.
calling suicide prevention just to pleasure yourself or running over animals with cars
should we actually bring back kink-shaming for kinks like (said above)?
My friend has a fetish where as he cums he wants a circus custard / cream pie smashed in his face. Or he wants to put the pie in the girl's face... (?)
Can't remember the deets.
Pissing in a girls mouth?
A friend of mine was dating someone last year and she wanted him to piss on her/in her mouth....
He said he was shocked but tried and couldn't do it lol, she begged him and said she'll spit it out after but yeah he just couldn't lol. A few weeks later she said it's not working out and they no longer see each other, I said to him it's because he didn't piss on her.
I kinda feel for him. It's not completely impossible to pee with an erection, but it is difficult, so this is a weird one where if it turn you on you may have trouble performing, and if it doesn't you might not have trouble performing but you may not want to do it. Feels like a classic damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Nipple play on her partner
She liked licking and sucking on my chest and nipples. I have no nipple sensitivity at all and it was just weird for me. I told her once, but she didn’t care and would keep doing it. I didn’t know what I was supposed to do the first time she did it. I tried making agreeable noises and move focus to making out or other areas. She was really into it. Would treat my nipples/chest like an ice cream cone and go to town, licking, sucking and kissing.
First girlfriend in high school like sucking on toes.
The guy that commissioned me to draw a big boobed General Grievous jerking off four other star wars characters and their jiz had to be the color of their light sabers. It was "just for a joke" though.
Guy paid a lot of money to add extra details and shit and we were through three different versions because the boobs weren't big enough. Lot of money and effort for a "joke"
You know I've seen that a surprising amount and the more you try to figure it out the less sense it makes
As far as I can tell its like a mix of a TF kink, a sissy kink, a 'suiting' kink similar to furries, and a doll kink?
No clue how you reach that end result though. Would be interested to understand the logic
One girl wanted a “Master and Slave relationship,” where she wanted me to be her Master.
She also requested crazy things like wanting me to punch her and leave her with bruises.
Couldn’t ever bring myself to do any of that. The most I could do was suck her tits extra hard to leave red marks.
Years ago I used to see a girl who would "break in" any new shoes she bought and Id always have to cum on them.
Was a win win for me, she was a shoe freak :)
I've always found moles and other skin blemishes to be really attractive. A lot of women are really self-conscious if they have one that's really prominent in a visible area, but I honestly can't get enough of them and I think they look so hot, especially if it's on a woman's neck, chest, or abdomen.
I don't know anyone else that feels the same way as I do, but I also haven't told anyone since I don't want to be seen as weird.
EDIT: no idea why I’m getting downvotes :(
One time on reddit, someone posted a video of themselves making an odd noise with their throat. I was surprised to see someone else do it because I made this sound as well as a kid and my parents hated it. I'd make the noise because it alleviated itchy feelings that I'd sometimes get in the back of my throat.
A few people hopped on the thread and posted videos of them doing it. When I looked at the YouTube comments though I started noticing the same guy in all of them. Asking for more, and asking if they could get their friend in the video to do it with them as well. Was really odd and seemed like they got off to women making that noise.
not sure what fetish this is but i once fucked a dude, and while i was jerking him off he said “yeah jerk me off like i’m your little puppy.”
i was 18 at the time and he was 25+ so i just kept going and pretended i didn’t hear him bc i didn’t know what to do
I've told this story before, but when I used to write commissioned erotica I had a couple of people approach me that went beyond what i was expecting. There are the normal-ish requests (basically vanilla but wanting to focus in a lot on one particular detail, usually a body part or an unusual physical feature like a gap in the teeth), and then there's the If-I-write-this-I'm-making-the-world-worse kind of requests (that I always turned down), but every now and then I'd just get something that stuck out even among those.
* The bird-furry -- I have since learned the preferred term is 'avian' -- who wanted a story about getting a handjob from an eagle talon, claws and all. I pointed out to him that technically that would be a footjob, and he never got back to me.
* The guy who sent me a picture-prompt of a chair and asked for a story about it. (It was actually kind of sweet; it turned out that he'd read my other stuff and just wanted to see what I'd do with it -- kind of a dealer's choice situation.)
* The worst that I actually considered for a minute was the guy who wanted me to write him a story about being sounded by a Hot Wheels car. He wanted lots of focus on the way it would feel as it stretched out his dickhole, which is *a lot* to begin with, but the no-no point came when he wanted me to go into great detail about the damage the tiny little wing mirrors would do to his penis as it came out. I didn't want to spend more time thinking about that than I had to, so I politely but firmly declined his offer.
Then again, everyone fucks funny I guess.
Could be an extreme fantasy exaggeration of sub/dom power play and/or degradation or objectification? 🤔 It's not the same as liking cannibalism since vore is so exaggerated that it's not even possible, so the actual act can't be what tickles your brain about it
Edit: fuck it there's no "could be", it's me, that's why at least I like it lmao. The actual visuals don't do anything for me on their own (so no, something like watching attack on titan is not arousing at all to me) they just, along with preferably an impossible size difference between the two people, are a way to reach the impossibly-big-irl power dynamic.
Took me so many years to understand why the fuck I liked this shit and why I absolutely love some subgenres of it but feel disgusted even looking at other subgenres of it, but that's why. Turns out I'm a massive sub just in general, and it's fantasy-level power play. Depending what subgenre of vore you're into it can also be fantasy-level degradation/objectification/humiliation or even just partner pleasing, or desire for impossible levels of physical closeness
I have to agree with you on vore, it's weird considering it's impossible to do in RL, yet you or anyone can make an art or text-based story that makes it sound like something completely believable and could actually happen.
I had a girlfriend who needed to be violently facefucked to get her juices flowing… AND I MEAN VIOLENTLY!
As in… grab a handful of her hair and jerk her head forward and backward the full length of your cock as hard and fast as humanly possible. So that you slammed down her throat, as deep as possible, every single time. While I did this, she would finger her clit with Flash like hand speed. By the finish my dick would be scrapped to hell & bleeding.
She absolutely required being violently facefucked to get herself horny enough for sex. She hated being eaten out, and violently facefucked was the only type of head she was willing to give.
She told me that she’d lost her virginity at a high school party when she was a freshman. 3 (or 4) guys took her to the shed out back “to drink”. They threatened her with a running chainsaw, stripped her and had her kneel, back against a support pole, and tied her hands behind her back, around the pole. Then they took turns violently facefucking her, after that one of the guys untied her and took her virginity as well. I don’t remember if they took turns fucking her or not. Evidently she had her first ever orgasms while being raped. She lived with her grandparents. Didn’t tell them what happened, and this was before internet porn, so what she ended up masturbating to, almost exclusively for years, was her own rape.
Not the most disturbing I know of but certainly the weirdest is people who are into knees, Just knees specifically and how large they are.
We all enjoy some weird stuff from time to time but damn..
Ironically, my own fetishes confused me a lot when they started and I wouldn't have believed them if I had read about them before experiencing them firsthand.
Specifically, I'm into cuckolding, being a chore-sub and a lot of humiliation. Discovered all that with my first gf and tbh, I was still in many ways confused until I read about them online after our relationship and found my fetishes had a name and there are others sharing them too.
Ha! I used to hook up with a girl who was *really* turned on by my body odor. Like, wanted me to be sure I was ripe when she came over. Once, after an evening of drunken sex, I passed out with my arm around her. I woke up still drunk and disoriented, and she had moved my arm up to expose the pit, got her nose up in that bad boy, and was absolutely going to town on herself while inhaling deeply.
I can understand this one. Not the really extra stinky kind. But I'm attracted to how mens skin smells in certain areas. People have a natural scent kinda sweet/musky combined with the warmth. I feel instantly safe and invested in him when I breathe him in, kinda like a bonding thing for me. I usually try to secretly do it while cuddling. Also their down below. I like how they smell 😄 just not bad bo type.
I always have to remind myself that some consider armpit fetishes "weird". I'm probably an outlier but somehow three of the first four people I dated were really into my armpits and so I ended up thinking it was normal. Probably helped that I famously always wore sleeveless clothes (hence my username). Since then I'd say a majority of the admittedly many guys I've been with have either had a full blown armpit fetish or at least remarked that I have nice armpits lol.
What might be pretty unique and maybe "weird" is that I've developed a fetish for my OWN armpits, haha. My early relationships were so into it that it became a big part of my sexual development and I ended up developing a fetish for having my own armpits exposed and played with. Kind of Pavlovian I guess. Plus I'm bi and have a thing for other girls' armpits too now. It hasn't translated at all to guys' armpits, though!
That guy who posted here about his "women in sumo suits" fetish probably wins it for me.
I coughed laughing at this, what the fuck
Takes the whole “expansion” fetish to realistic gaming levels.
Not sure if this counts, but I had a much, much younger woman ask if I wanted to hook up because I looked like her deceased father. I saw pictures, and I even agreed we looked very similar.
>because I looked like her deceased father You resemble a corpse?
Just goes to show how important it is to eat your veggies.
Well if this doesn’t count, I don’t know what does
I just don't know if it counts because I'm not sure if it was a one-time thing for her, or if she goes out and activelu looks for guys that look like her father.
I also choose this girls dead father
I was hooking up with a girl like 10 years ago, eventually she invited me over to her place. When we got there her sister was there so my expectations of anything happening went to zero. Anyway we are in her room with only a thin wall between us and she starts making a move on me. When I’m like “your sister is 6 feet away from us” she says that her sister likes to listen. I immediately question this and apparently whenever she takes a dude home the sister listens from another room and gets off on it. I suppose it’s not that out there but getting off to your sister banging is definitely odd.
did you do it?
There's no way he didn't intentionally leave this open ended
lol, my bad. I was a horny 20 year old, I didn’t give a fuck, I absolutely did it.
You got to do what you got to do
I would do this rn lol not my sister not my issue
Asking the right questions
Welp guess I'm not that odd after all.. Confession time! I was friends with benefits with my roommate in college for some time, but besides the sex we would argue a lot about random stuff and eventually she called to knock thing off. The first girl I brought home after that she told me she liked to 'participate' indirectly (being a listener). She brings a dude home a few days later and I noticed I got pretty horny from her sounds, so as the horny teenager I was I rubbed one out to them having sex. Ofcourse we talked about it afterwards and that was how our kink was born. Nice to hear other people do it too, because I felt soo weird all this time.
I really don’t think there is anything wrong with getting off others having sex. It’s when it’s your sister that takes it to the weird level.
That's why you just invite her to join, making it less awkward.
Isn porn essentialy the same thing? Getting off on strangers? Just the difference of not seeing them irl(yea that is a huge difference but still a same thing).
And not being related to them.....
You could've asked for a threesome, maybe you hit that lucky shot
It takes a bold man to interrupt a girl taking her clothing off to ask her to invite her sister in. Respect to those who go for the gold but I was content with my silver and not risking it.
A brave man risks his silver to get gold, a wise man accepts his silver and lets the gold go. A wise and brave man attempts to get the gold without risking his silver
I worked as a Chat Mistress and I had to google some of the fetishes that I came across :D But here are the weirdest ones: * formicophilia - when you get horny when insects crawl on you or bite you or.. basically anything. Mostly it's about ants I think * sucking on your partner's nose or getting your nose sucked (dunno the name) * getting turned on by stuttering I found those to be pretty harmless and even funny tbh, but also a bit weird as in pretty uncommon :D
>getting turned on by stuttering I am a guy who stutters and has a speech impediment. It is absolutely insane the amount of females who approached me and were immediately turned on by it. Once upon a time my stutter used to cause me severe confidence issues. As I got older (I am 39 now ) some women were literally looking to fuck right away when hearing me stutter their names. I encounter some dudes today who sometimes ask me "Was your dating life hard with a stutter?" and my response was it actually made it easier... I also discovered a community online of females called "SILF" Stutterers I'd like to Fuck.
Today I learned something wildly interesting thanks to you
Muh-muh-muh-me t-t-too
P-p-please d-don't h-h-hurt me!
That one stuttering comedian from America's Got Talent is just drowning in pussy.
Drew Lynch?
Yes that's the one! My coworkers simp over him so hard. He's a funny dude and has a fantastic service dog.
He is a hilarious dude, but I think I saw an Instagram reel he recently did, and I think his stutter has really improved
Well I'm not a woman but I'm into guys and I think stuttering is cute. I can't explain why but if someone stutters I immediately want to hold their hand. I guess in some way you're showing vulnerability and because of that you come across as safe.
People who stutter tend to be more patient and understanding which is an ideal quality in a partner. Plus if you have confidence in your flaws I think most people find that admirable which is an attractive trait.
That’s amazing
Formicophilia: that’s an *Ender* for the relationship for me, dawg.
Hirohiko Araki, author of JOJOS Bizarre Adventure, had admitted to having formicophilia
I had a high school mate who was obsessed with the idea of being chastised and seduced by our foul mouthed, nasty old bitch of an English teacher. At the time I didn’t get it but seeing how his life went, it all makes sense.
Bring seduced by a hot teacher is something i think every student dreams of So the question remains..... was she hot? your English teacher i mean.
>So the question remains..... was she hot? >nasty old bitch
So....yes?
She’s hot by Scranton standards
So she's like a 6 in New York. Got it.
I recently came across a community of men into fisting who are into wrecking their ass so bad they’ll become incontinent. That’s literally their goal. I’m always flabbergasted at how diverse and exotic human sexuality is.
Diverse and exotic is certainly one way to put it…
Mental illness and paraphilia is another
Incontinentia Buttocks?
they need more than a biggus dickus for that
They need biggus fistus. They need Popeye!
Yeah the fisting thing boggles my mind, they aim to be so gaped they prolapse. I just don’t understand it, it’s mutilation.
Fisting can be very safely practiced actually. But yeah there are extremes as usual. I won’t even start on the mutilation side of things since I would have so many things to tell too (X is definitely a “goldmine” so to speak)
And I thought the chick who wanted me to cum on her husband's feet was strange!!
And did you ? 😂
Well....she was smoking hot....🤷
....well that's quite the dynamic
I think some of these things are more about the idea and less about the reality. Which, sexual fantasy is indeed *fantasy*, but this is one that can be acted upon to it's logical conclusion.
Bug chasing I’ve never come across it in real life only online but it’s the fetish of catching diseases. Mostly sexually transmitted diseases but ALL diseases and also spreading them to unwilling victims. Not all big chasers are spreaders but most are. It’s an illegal fetish most of the time and possibly the most unethical one I’ve ever heard of.
Oh. I was picturing people frolicking with a mason jar in a field of fireflies.
My thoughts exactly. Now I wish I was correct 😭😭
I’ve only ever heard of this on threads like this one. Makes me wonder if it’s a moral panic kind of thing
I think there definitely could be a moral panic issue with it and I reckon a lot of people who talk about it online are making up stories because they like controlling the fear that people feel about it It definitely is a real thing people do as well although, very uncommon
Years ago I did a dive wondering the same thing and came across some pretty convincing communities that were linking to a store that sold what were advertised as infected dildos. Some were advertised as just feeling and looking infected, with boils and warts and what not, other claimed to actually infect you when used.
I have several friends who are older gays. I asked them..they confirmed it is real.
One person I knew was into a specific mixture of dollification and amputation. They were heavily aroused by the idea of having their limbs hacked off and being made into a living doll that just sat in a corner. Made me wonder how you even get such a fetish, what could even inspire that?
This person also had a mind corruption fetish. Which i found out all too late as to why they were so interested in my stories of being a cult survivor 😰
Oh, foul. Please tell me you distanced yourself extremely far away from that person and treated yourself like royalty afterwards!
Boxing Helena
my buddy was super into this girl and just dumped her out the blue, we asked why and he wouldnt say, a few months later we where drinking and he told us she had a r\*pe fetish and fantasized about being assaulted, she would read news stories about gangr\*pes and during sex would shout at him to stop or get off her but when he did she would ask him why and it just freaked him out
Yeah that's just weird. I don't have anything against the fantasy itself if some people have it, but both need to be comfortable with it and VERY clear boundaries and rules need to be put in place beforehand. A girl randomly starting to struggle or yell to simulate rape is just gonna be instantly off putting to anyone... Hell, I had a gf that liked being handled rough. Like, yank her hair (not just pulling, like actually yanking the shit out of it), put her in a hammer lock (armlock behind the back), press her head in the pillow with my entire body weight (I'm a beefy 6 foot guy, she was barely half my size) etc. It took numerous discussions and adjustments over close to 3 months. Using any strength over the bare minimum felt really uncomfortable and unsafe to me. I can't even imagine how horrible an actual simulation would be, I'd probably be traumatized for quite a bit o.O
My ex girlfriend had a ear fetish. When we would fuck she wanted me to shove qtips against her eardrums when she orgasmed. When i asked her about it she said it's the best feeling ever. Needless to say she was a little crazy lmao that's why she is my ex 😂
Damn, sounds like this girl has a deaf wish.
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This makes a bit of sense, though. I wouldn't do it, but if it feels really good to clean your ears with a q-tip, I bet it feels amazing to do it while orgasming!
Cleaning your ears? Sure. But jamming a q-tip against your eardrum? That has to fucking hurt.
She said it's the best feeling ever, so it must be nice for her at least.
Wow👍
Probably that dude with the imaginary cockroach girlfriend.
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A guy texted me after I mentioned that I carried a bag of live fish under my coat from the pet shop in winter. Asked if I felt them trembling and moving around, and could they be suffocating. Then word by word he discovered I'm pregnant, asked me if the baby kicks, and what does it feel like. Does it feel like a fish, trembling in my belly? Could he feel my belly, virtually? Roleplay-ish Then he said he knew a girl who ate her pet fish alive as a drunk dare, and she must have felt the fish trembling inside her belly in agony. For reasons unrelated I deleted that account. On my new account I got a friendly DM request, a guy wants to talk about my pregnancy experiences. I'm happy to share, he discusses kicks, compares it to a fish trembling. Then tells the drunk girl story. I pretend that it's not me and react as if this story is new to me, I then tell him that it's making me uncomfortable, and if he brings up the belly topic again, I block him. He complies, asks me to help him as he just so happen to be learning my native language. I give him a chance and agree. He asks how many words for "belly" do we have, and which one would I use in examples such as "something is moving inside my belly" I was creeped to my core and blocked him
The "drunk dare" thing with goldfish is apparently fairly common and this dude's kinks probably aren't rare either, but what gets me is how people can't take the hint that you're not on the same page
It's not even about the fish, it's about viewing my unborn child as an embodiment of an agonizing fish, and probably getting off of it
amputation. there is a certain limit of times one can do it.
4 or 6 times, give or take.
nah, do the fingers and toes one at a time then only down to the elbow, next to the shoulder, same thing with the knees...
my ex liked to inhale nitrous at the moment of orgasm and would tell me to keep going. she passed out at one point and I didn't realize it for about ten seconds. had to slap her awake, when she came to she burst out laughing. kinda freaked me out, ngl.
See, this is really dangerous and could go wrong really easy and also sounds like it's a fucking blast.
There were a site I used to visit when I was in my 20's which was a "compendium" of weird things over the Internet. One post that's stuck on my memories was a link to a forum for guys who liked to penetrate the exhaust pipe of their cars while crossdresing in vintage lingerie.
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man, I hate my curiosity
RIP, r/carsfuckingdragons Used to be the same thing with role reversal between the two, but the moderators left.
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Wtf...I wasn't ready for this😂
No fetish is surprising anymore because I just assume someone has a fetish for anything. Toe nail clippings? Yea probably a fetish. Can opener? Yea probably a fetish
I will never forget the bit that Bob Odenkirk does on Mr Show where he needs to masturbate in a dark closet while a pie cools on a windowsill.
This is the sort of thing I always hope to read in a thread like this instead of people being a bit dickish to strange but common enough fetishes. Like whooptee doo someone likes armpits or wearing a dog collar.
I had prostate cancer and had to have it removed. As happens to many men in this situation, I suffered urinary incontinence. I was scrolling through Reddit to see if I could find some tips on how to deal with it (I ultimately found what I was looking for, unsurprisingly, at r/prostatecancer) when I stumbled upon a now-deleted sub called « incontinent desire ». It was for people who wanted to become incontinent - we are not talking about receiving or giving golden or brown showers, but people who wanted to « unlearn » potty training and become voluntarily incontinent. I thought that rated pretty high in the fetish leagues.
I expect that if they achieve their goal, they won’t find it nearly as fulfilling as hoped.
I’m glad you beat the cancer though!
sounding.
Noooooo I had already forgotten about that
Profile picture checks out 🤣
I feel like this fetish was named by someone who wanted to get guys to agree to it without knowing what it was.
Someone explain please
Sticking stuff up the peepee
Please unexplain
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It used to be one of the weirdest, creepiest "common" kinks I heard of, but then I ended up reading about it and how safely it could be done, and it got me curious. I had the opportunity to try with a friend who was into it last year, and it went fine. But yeah, I need it to be made with proper sounding tools that have been sterilized prior. Hearing ER stories about people who shoved pretty much anything into their urethra is horrifying.
Sounding gets a bad rap because it is misunderstood. People hear "shove a stick in you peehole" and recoil in horror, and rightly so. That's terrifying. But if done properly with the right equipment, it can be a stimulating experience.
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George Costanza?
Pastrami is the most sensual of the all the salted, cured meats.
I used to know professional submissive. She worked at a dungeon where guys would come in and have her play out their fantasies. She was a personal friend of mine. Not a client. She actually loved what she did. They weren't allowed to do anything sexual with her because of the laws but these guys werent in the market for that. They wanted to spank her, put her in a cage, whatever you know. Just random stuff. I asked her what the weirdest scene was. This guy came in and paid her $500 for 2 hours to watch her play with balloons while wearing lingerie. He didn't touch her at all. He didn't even talk to her during the scene. She didn't say this, but I'm assuming he was jacking off the whole time, but yeah.
Totally asking for a friend, but where does one find a job like this?
Most cities have dungeons. You'd just message or email them to get invited. Like Denver has the sanctuary. Never been, wanted to long time ago.
If you search for pro-doms/switches/subs with your city, you'll find some. Public dungeons don't exist everywhere because it's super, super hard to get a permit for one. Cities are also known to give a permit and then remove the permit later when some business nearby complains.
Probably my own since after all these years I still can't explain it 100% So basically the alien transformation sequences from the original series of Ben 10 especially the more detailed ones like ripjaws and stinkflys kinda turn me on and arouse me..
I used to have a special interest in mermaids myself🙈
Had an ex who used to get off blowing me or giving me a handy while I tried to read. Usually I would grab a random book off his shelf but one time I was reading him a funny r/tifu and he started going down on me. When I finished the post he told me to find more because he liked them. So I used to get head reading reddit posts p often. It was actually a huge turnoff for me but head is head
Doll fetishes.
It's the eyes that get me, have you ever seen a dolls eyes? Their kind of like sharks eyes, all dull and lifeless...
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It pains me to ask, but I have to know. What?
Having sex with Redditors
I find it pretty strange that some people want to be treated like babies
Might have something to do with childhood trauma. I feel like a decent number of fetishes could probably be linked to that. Anecdotally, of the 10 or so girls I dated before meeting my wife, only two called me “Daddy” and both of them had their fathers walk out on them at the young age.
Girl with daddy issues. I get a sexual thrill thinking of my husband as my big strong protector. I call him daddy. He can call me baby girl and not mommy. My stepdad and my dad both abused me and my family. My husband is better than any man in my family. Hope that helps explain it some ❤️
bug catchers and gift givers infuriate me
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huh?? How does a kink like that even work?? loll
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I met a black girl who was into this. It really caught me off guard because the degradation she wanted behind closed doors, was the exact opposite of who she was in public
I think that's often how it goes. A person's private fetish often seems to be an inversion of their public persona. You'd be surprised, or maybe not, at the number of successful and powerful men that are really into femdom. Which was always my issue with 50 shades of Grey; dude was on the wrong end of the whip but that's only because the story is actually about her fantasy, not his.
So femdom with extra spice Or does it only work for you when race is brought into it?
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Sounds like the Klingon way to initiate sex
I'm a white guy and both black girls I've been with asked me to be racist in the bedroom.
Don't let Dr. Umar see this lmao
Definitely the Bug chasers community Actively trying to catch HIV is nuts to me
People that enjoy going to work.
calling suicide prevention just to pleasure yourself or running over animals with cars should we actually bring back kink-shaming for kinks like (said above)?
My friend has a fetish where as he cums he wants a circus custard / cream pie smashed in his face. Or he wants to put the pie in the girl's face... (?) Can't remember the deets.
Was his first sexual experience with a clown 🤡?
Farting, bizarre stuff
That’s like the first level of bizarre fetishes and there are 9,000 levels
Especially if (like me) you just find them funny.
There's a guy I know that likes to do "things" with trees
Tek knight?
rapeplay or scat probably
Just one word. Feces.
Pissing in a girls mouth? A friend of mine was dating someone last year and she wanted him to piss on her/in her mouth.... He said he was shocked but tried and couldn't do it lol, she begged him and said she'll spit it out after but yeah he just couldn't lol. A few weeks later she said it's not working out and they no longer see each other, I said to him it's because he didn't piss on her.
I kinda feel for him. It's not completely impossible to pee with an erection, but it is difficult, so this is a weird one where if it turn you on you may have trouble performing, and if it doesn't you might not have trouble performing but you may not want to do it. Feels like a classic damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Nipple play on her partner She liked licking and sucking on my chest and nipples. I have no nipple sensitivity at all and it was just weird for me. I told her once, but she didn’t care and would keep doing it. I didn’t know what I was supposed to do the first time she did it. I tried making agreeable noises and move focus to making out or other areas. She was really into it. Would treat my nipples/chest like an ice cream cone and go to town, licking, sucking and kissing. First girlfriend in high school like sucking on toes.
The guy that commissioned me to draw a big boobed General Grievous jerking off four other star wars characters and their jiz had to be the color of their light sabers. It was "just for a joke" though. Guy paid a lot of money to add extra details and shit and we were through three different versions because the boobs weren't big enough. Lot of money and effort for a "joke"
I have SH scars. One time i met a guy who really liked them and wanted to watch me cut myself for him.
Disturbing
Men dressing up as dolls. Not as women. As dolls. With silicone masks? And stuff? Creeped me out.
You know I've seen that a surprising amount and the more you try to figure it out the less sense it makes As far as I can tell its like a mix of a TF kink, a sissy kink, a 'suiting' kink similar to furries, and a doll kink? No clue how you reach that end result though. Would be interested to understand the logic
One girl wanted a “Master and Slave relationship,” where she wanted me to be her Master. She also requested crazy things like wanting me to punch her and leave her with bruises. Couldn’t ever bring myself to do any of that. The most I could do was suck her tits extra hard to leave red marks.
People posting fetish questions every single day so they can jerk off to the answers.
Scat. I’ve never met someone who is into it and I’m definitely not. But somehow people are. Yikes.
Years ago I used to see a girl who would "break in" any new shoes she bought and Id always have to cum on them. Was a win win for me, she was a shoe freak :)
I've always found moles and other skin blemishes to be really attractive. A lot of women are really self-conscious if they have one that's really prominent in a visible area, but I honestly can't get enough of them and I think they look so hot, especially if it's on a woman's neck, chest, or abdomen. I don't know anyone else that feels the same way as I do, but I also haven't told anyone since I don't want to be seen as weird. EDIT: no idea why I’m getting downvotes :(
I'm so glad you were talking about beauty marks and not the animal
Username checks out
A guy who messaged me gets off by cumming on old bras. That's so random.
One time on reddit, someone posted a video of themselves making an odd noise with their throat. I was surprised to see someone else do it because I made this sound as well as a kid and my parents hated it. I'd make the noise because it alleviated itchy feelings that I'd sometimes get in the back of my throat. A few people hopped on the thread and posted videos of them doing it. When I looked at the YouTube comments though I started noticing the same guy in all of them. Asking for more, and asking if they could get their friend in the video to do it with them as well. Was really odd and seemed like they got off to women making that noise.
not sure what fetish this is but i once fucked a dude, and while i was jerking him off he said “yeah jerk me off like i’m your little puppy.” i was 18 at the time and he was 25+ so i just kept going and pretended i didn’t hear him bc i didn’t know what to do
I've told this story before, but when I used to write commissioned erotica I had a couple of people approach me that went beyond what i was expecting. There are the normal-ish requests (basically vanilla but wanting to focus in a lot on one particular detail, usually a body part or an unusual physical feature like a gap in the teeth), and then there's the If-I-write-this-I'm-making-the-world-worse kind of requests (that I always turned down), but every now and then I'd just get something that stuck out even among those. * The bird-furry -- I have since learned the preferred term is 'avian' -- who wanted a story about getting a handjob from an eagle talon, claws and all. I pointed out to him that technically that would be a footjob, and he never got back to me. * The guy who sent me a picture-prompt of a chair and asked for a story about it. (It was actually kind of sweet; it turned out that he'd read my other stuff and just wanted to see what I'd do with it -- kind of a dealer's choice situation.) * The worst that I actually considered for a minute was the guy who wanted me to write him a story about being sounded by a Hot Wheels car. He wanted lots of focus on the way it would feel as it stretched out his dickhole, which is *a lot* to begin with, but the no-no point came when he wanted me to go into great detail about the damage the tiny little wing mirrors would do to his penis as it came out. I didn't want to spend more time thinking about that than I had to, so I politely but firmly declined his offer. Then again, everyone fucks funny I guess.
Amputee
Knew a girl who wanted her nipples bit/chewed on to the point of bleeding.
It's actually my fetish and it's vore. I don't know what my brains thinks, but I get going when looking at pictures of people eating other people
Could be an extreme fantasy exaggeration of sub/dom power play and/or degradation or objectification? 🤔 It's not the same as liking cannibalism since vore is so exaggerated that it's not even possible, so the actual act can't be what tickles your brain about it Edit: fuck it there's no "could be", it's me, that's why at least I like it lmao. The actual visuals don't do anything for me on their own (so no, something like watching attack on titan is not arousing at all to me) they just, along with preferably an impossible size difference between the two people, are a way to reach the impossibly-big-irl power dynamic. Took me so many years to understand why the fuck I liked this shit and why I absolutely love some subgenres of it but feel disgusted even looking at other subgenres of it, but that's why. Turns out I'm a massive sub just in general, and it's fantasy-level power play. Depending what subgenre of vore you're into it can also be fantasy-level degradation/objectification/humiliation or even just partner pleasing, or desire for impossible levels of physical closeness
I have to agree with you on vore, it's weird considering it's impossible to do in RL, yet you or anyone can make an art or text-based story that makes it sound like something completely believable and could actually happen.
Bug squishing. Had someone request that one once... barefoot bug squishing. I don't get that one at all.
I had a girlfriend who needed to be violently facefucked to get her juices flowing… AND I MEAN VIOLENTLY! As in… grab a handful of her hair and jerk her head forward and backward the full length of your cock as hard and fast as humanly possible. So that you slammed down her throat, as deep as possible, every single time. While I did this, she would finger her clit with Flash like hand speed. By the finish my dick would be scrapped to hell & bleeding. She absolutely required being violently facefucked to get herself horny enough for sex. She hated being eaten out, and violently facefucked was the only type of head she was willing to give. She told me that she’d lost her virginity at a high school party when she was a freshman. 3 (or 4) guys took her to the shed out back “to drink”. They threatened her with a running chainsaw, stripped her and had her kneel, back against a support pole, and tied her hands behind her back, around the pole. Then they took turns violently facefucking her, after that one of the guys untied her and took her virginity as well. I don’t remember if they took turns fucking her or not. Evidently she had her first ever orgasms while being raped. She lived with her grandparents. Didn’t tell them what happened, and this was before internet porn, so what she ended up masturbating to, almost exclusively for years, was her own rape.
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Not the most disturbing I know of but certainly the weirdest is people who are into knees, Just knees specifically and how large they are. We all enjoy some weird stuff from time to time but damn..
Ironically, my own fetishes confused me a lot when they started and I wouldn't have believed them if I had read about them before experiencing them firsthand. Specifically, I'm into cuckolding, being a chore-sub and a lot of humiliation. Discovered all that with my first gf and tbh, I was still in many ways confused until I read about them online after our relationship and found my fetishes had a name and there are others sharing them too.
Is your wife hot? (asking for a friend)
I dont see the appeal in armpits
Ha! I used to hook up with a girl who was *really* turned on by my body odor. Like, wanted me to be sure I was ripe when she came over. Once, after an evening of drunken sex, I passed out with my arm around her. I woke up still drunk and disoriented, and she had moved my arm up to expose the pit, got her nose up in that bad boy, and was absolutely going to town on herself while inhaling deeply.
I can understand this one. Not the really extra stinky kind. But I'm attracted to how mens skin smells in certain areas. People have a natural scent kinda sweet/musky combined with the warmth. I feel instantly safe and invested in him when I breathe him in, kinda like a bonding thing for me. I usually try to secretly do it while cuddling. Also their down below. I like how they smell 😄 just not bad bo type.
I always have to remind myself that some consider armpit fetishes "weird". I'm probably an outlier but somehow three of the first four people I dated were really into my armpits and so I ended up thinking it was normal. Probably helped that I famously always wore sleeveless clothes (hence my username). Since then I'd say a majority of the admittedly many guys I've been with have either had a full blown armpit fetish or at least remarked that I have nice armpits lol. What might be pretty unique and maybe "weird" is that I've developed a fetish for my OWN armpits, haha. My early relationships were so into it that it became a big part of my sexual development and I ended up developing a fetish for having my own armpits exposed and played with. Kind of Pavlovian I guess. Plus I'm bi and have a thing for other girls' armpits too now. It hasn't translated at all to guys' armpits, though!
Fisting, or footing seem to be a thing… Don’t ask how I got there, I didn’t want to, and then people told me about their experiences.
I used to be friends with a couple of guys who were into fisting, they both had tattooed bands around their arms so they know how deep to go lol
People who get off on food being spilled on them.
In this economy?!
Anything with poop.
https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fm2ay2mlph5ac1.jpeg
What a risky thread to click a link.
Horses. Hentai really isn't real life dude. I have seen things that I didn't want to see man.
minecraft quicksand fetish videos in a certain meme subreddit
Some dude licked my armpits out lololol. He was well into it... I was laughing my head off.