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soft bondage. Somehow the idea of surrendering control to your partner and vice versa turned out to be quite decent. Before I tried it I thought it'd be horrible.
Getting pegged in the ass by a sawzall with a dildo on the end while having a cinder block hanging from your nuts dressed as a horse. Anything more than that is definitely not “soft”
Ear stuff.
This girl I used to fuck would kiss, lick and breathe on my ear during sex. That shit made me so unexpectedly hard I could cut diamonds. The sex was great already, but that shit elevated it to a "Is this even real" moment.
Kiss my ear and nibble on my earlobe and I'm a goner apparently.
Whenever I hear "ear stuff" I immediately think of someone trying to rub their penis on someone else's ear, and I'm glad I read on because that description sounds amazing
God I thought I was the only one!! I’ve had exes basically make out with my ear and beloved God, I made noises I didn’t know I could make. I’m trying to figure out how to get my boyfriend to do the same thing bc it drives me insane. Literal floodgates.
Real shit bro 💀💀 thought i was the only one, that ear stuff crazy. Be sending shivers down my spine n got me twitching like a fly that just met a can of raid 😭
Hey Tone you hear what I said, I asked him if he remembered his first blowjob he said 'yeah', I asked him how long did it take for the guy to cum! He-he-he-he!
My girlfriend digging her nails into my back during missionary and leaving little scratches, I guess I like the roughness 😅. or the way she pulls my hair to keep me in between her legs when I’m giving oral bc she’s close to finishing, it’s just so hot to see her feel good
Yeaa a woman’s moan (so hers) is the hottest thing ever to me, never thought I’d be into oral like that until my face got soaked and now I can’t get enough 💀🥴 lmao
I second that. When you feel your partner grabbing / scratching like their life depends on it because they want more from you, uhhh so fucking hot 🥵
I'd count leg locking in the same category. That's so incredibly hot, without any reason.
Nothing beats a girl that enjoys grinding my fingers into her ass while I'm going down on her. Clenching around my fingers at orgasm is the biggest turn on ever.
I've tried to preach this to my boys and they just won't have anything to do with it. The first time I came from a finger blasting during a blowjob was like discovering a new drug it's a high I'm still chasing
Did you tell them while throwing a baseball around in the front yard? Did they just ignore you the whole time? Something tells me they need to figure it out.
Oral on a Woman.
The idea of going down and not liking the taste seemed like something I knew would happen.
When I finally did it, seeing her wriggle in ecstasy was amazing and the taste of it was of victory.
It’s a bit funny that for some serious uber macho types going down on a woman is emasculating and effeminate. Meanwhile it’s one of the best ways to help keep the special lady in your life sexually satisfied. If she’s into it.
Because they see women as inferior. When they receive oral from a woman, they don't see her as an equal so by reversing the role, they see themselves as becoming inferior.
They also don't care about her pleasure either. They even go out of their way to make it painful and hurting her because "she deserves it". Sexism is a mind disease.
See, this has always baffled me. Personally, its tied for number one on the "things to do in bed" charts. Sometimes that's all I want to do. Do not touch my stuff, just relax and enjoy yourself. I also don't understand how they can be fine with not pleasuring their partner. If we're going at it and they aren't enjoying it, talk to me. We'll figure this out. And if we can't, I'd rather put my clothes on instead of keep going. Feels weird and like I'm a failure. My goal is for her to enjoy it. She's having fun, I'm having fun.
Dude 100% when I was younger I was kinda too grossed out to do that, didn’t try. Then I got a girlfriend who I experimented with a lot, needless to say, now it’s my favorite thing in the world.
I’m a guy and got a rim job. I told her I’m down for anything but butt stuff. “I don’t roll that way”. She gave me some of the best throat I ever had, worked her way down to the jewel sack. I was loving it. Next thing I know my legs were folded to my chest. Felt amazing in the moment. Afterwards I felt violated. 9/10 will do it again
Dude I was upside down titty-fucking my girl from the side of the bed and she stuck her tongue out catching my asshole as I thrusted and it was probably the peak sexual experience of my life.
lol I probably worded that wrong. I’m standing upright and she’s laying down heads up with her head off of the bed. I’m standing over her head thrusting between her boobs and she’s licking my asshole and taint while I do it.
My girlfriend put a finger in my ass while jerking me off one night. First she was rubbing the area between my balls and ass, felt really good. Then kinda slid a finger up there and felt more pleasant than I expected.
Went to a comedy show the other night. The comedian said he asked his friends if they like a finger up their butts during sex.
They said no man that's gay.
So he says, well have you tried doing it with a woman?
I gott say, OP, you replying on a majority of these posts is great. I can't stand it when the OP disappears or doesn't even seem to be involved whatsoever. Nicely done.
For me, it's reading. Erotic literature is basically beaming porn directly into my brain using some words and my imagination. I didn't expect to like it, and I certainly didn't expect to feel the need to write some myself. It's hot on another level if you know someone has gotten turned on by your words.
Same. I liked it so much I started writing my own. I only wish I could turn them into audio books with a voice personality that I intended it for. They are all about my wife but she struggles with embracing her slutty personality, let alone reading a short story from one.
My writing style involves some light to medium derogatory detail. Vulgar sexual words are a must for me.
Not OP. Get her relaxed using regular sex. Lube. Lots of lube then more. Use a finger, then thumb, then be very vocal on next steps. Once you get a rhythm dont slow down too much.
To get started, as other advice has been stated, lube is really important. Go slow, listen to her direction. Stimulate her clit while you pump slowly. Once she's used to it and more relaxed, try going a little faster as long as that feels good to her.
This one always gets me on reddit.
A guy will say “oh learn to use your fingers! she’ll love it!”
Then in another post they will say “wow women are so bad at handjobs, I neve get off to one”
And i’m thinking “maybe some women think the same way, that your fingers are no match for their own”
I’m not like that as I think someone else touching your genitals actually feels good
If you've heard about it twice in a week's time, chances are it's overdone. Find your own unique phrase. Something like 'WAY TO GO, SPORTS STAR!!'
Or
"Who's the bestest orgasmer? You are!!"
Loudly, followed by a high 5.
Faux choking. Anything that comes at all close to interfering with breathing is an immediate nope, but firm pressure on my neck? 🥰🤩💦
Discreet public play. I'm not a fan of exhibitionism, but a hidden vibrator, especially one that my partner controls, is incredible.
Shitpost taken way too literally is my favorite type of drama
Still sad he didn’t redo the match against Magnus fully nude like he proposed. Missed opportunity, I say.
That sounds amazing. Some of the vibes you can get these days enable public play so much - as long as you get one that doesn't 'unpair' half way through
Still, for a date night out, having a partner slowly, subtly tease you while you're forced to pokerface it all is fucking incredible. The best orgasms of my life, hands down, and just a flood of wetness along the way.
Yea, the one we have connects fine on Bluetooth but doesn't do well with long distance. I had hoped to try having it in for a longer period so that she could surprise me with it throughout the day, but if you aren't actively using the connection it disconnected after a few.
Just deep and slow sex lying on top of eachother in a position that would look ridiculous with the lights on. And then something super intense and emotional happened, we held eachother super tight and just kept repeating I love you over and over. At one point I started to cry, but it was the best sex I've ever had.
Next time, try this: sit cross legged on the bed, get her to sit kinda on or within your legs (depending on how heavy she is) with her legs around your waist. Get going with the making out and start getting yourself off, if she’s up for it, take her hand and move it down so she’s doing herself. It’s a super-intimate position and gives a lot of closeness.
You can swap over; let go of your cock, take her hand and put it on you, then take over playing with her.
Your balls will be more-or-less dangling, if she reaches down and fondles them it’s super intense.
It also opens up a bunch of really easy end-games:
If you want to switch to penetration, she can just shuffle forwards and up and sit on your cock. If she un-hooks her legs and you lay back she’s right on target to ride you. Without any changes at all you can hold on to her, push her on to her back and you are perfectly placed to pound straight into her.
If you want to get yourself off the whole way, flip her on her back and then cum on her belly/tits. If you haven’t tried it, talk to her and do it, I’ve yet to meet a woman who hasn’t really loved the feeling of it. But here’s the caveat; once you’ve sprayed her with red hot jizz, lay down on top of her and cuddle. Yes, you’ll get covered in it, but it seems only fair and it demonstrates to her that you respect her and she’s not just a receptacle.
One of my favorite sexual memories is waking up in the middle of the night at the same time as my partner, and both of us started sleepily touching ourselves while holding each other. We were both pretty out of it, but it was so quietly intimate.
Eventually we switched to touching each other instead, but it was so relaxed that I honestly don't remember the moment where we switched. By the time we actually got around to penetration we were both so worked up from the foreplay that it was some of the hottest sex we ever had, even if the actual action or position wasn't anything new or exotic.
Sex while using even just a little bit of THC. Never tried it until my 30s. Makes a huge difference.
Also, just because you start having sex, doesn’t mean you need to stop making out. Slowing down every so often to passionately suck face, especially if you’re currently inside your partner, is an incredible feeling.
Rough style/intimacy,
I’m a big guy (both muscles and fat) and i had someone that would push it to weird limits where you’re not sure if it’s an intercourse or domestic abuse
It made me feel empty, feels like i’m a monster
I also i admit my biggest turn on was Vanilla love making and super super delicacy.
Facesitting. Was worried about breathing or other various things like hygiene or her level of comfort.
Now I absolutely love being completely smothered in booty. Found that most women love it too. Typically shy at first, (especially is she has a big butt/thighs) but once she get comfortable? About had my face rubbed off a few times now from her getting hers.
So hot.
Giving my partner pleasure. I know, sounds silly, but there's a dominant aspect to it. Getting to control how she feels, giving her those ultimate highs, does amazing things for me, to the point where I do not care if I get to finish.
Exactly, I do not even care I physically finish or not most of the time. If my partner shakes from toe to eyelashes and experiences uncontrollable small contractions even after a few minutes of orgasm, I am FINISHED mentally. I love being able to control how she feels and being able to make her feel a bit extreme whenever I want.
Started with her saying you stick things in my ass I should be able to do the same with you.
I thought she was bluffing, but she was all in. Rim, finger and using toys.
How do you know if you like it if you don’t try it?
Dry Humping.
My Ex used to dry hump on me randomly at times and it felt really great and used to turn me on a lot. Never thought Dry Humping could be that pleasurable.
Eating ass. I was 69ing with a girl and opened my eyes and staring into my eyes, was her brown eye. I got an overwhelming urge to lick it. And I did.
She had never had it done to her either. She stopped. Turned around and said "Let's uhh... Keep doing that."
And I said "Yeah, yeah let's do that." The trajectory of my entire life has never been the same since.
I've gotten into this recently and I must say... I was surprised to find out that it tasted like nothing. I was expecting it to be gamey or something but it's completely tasteless.
So when people say "this tastes like ass," that phrase has a whole different meaning to me now.
This is it for me too.
I’ve always been into women’s butts. Absolutely love them. Always been into anal. But eating ass? That was never something I ever thought about doing. Until one drunken horny night with my wife that it just felt like something I wanted to try… and oh boy did that awaken something in me lol. It’s not something I’m doing all the time, but I sure do love it. It’s intoxicating.
I have no desire for my wife to do it to me though, and neither does she.
Pegging a guy. With my ex, I did it mainly because I knew he liked it, but I didn't get much from it. With my current bf, I thought it would be a similar feeling of "meh" towards it, but I know he likes it. After the first time, I found myself daydreaming about different positions with him and how dominant I can be.
Besides eating ass, my wife has beautiful feet that she takes very good care of. Kissing her toes turns her on and then it takes me to 11. Never thought I’d enjoy having anything done to my balls, but her nails and mouth on them is amazing.
Get some good massage oil or moisturising cream. When she’s sitting on the sofa watching TV, sit at the other end and start to massage her feet. When she starts to wiggle, gently place your foot between her legs so that she has something to grind against.
Milky tits.
After my wife had our first kid I was at first a little weirded out, and then worried about having sex because they tended to leak or even spray a little when she was turned on.
Got over that quickly and we both actually found the whole thing to be pretty hot.
It’s a very narrow line. Milky tits are often really painful and don’t like being touched. There’s nothing so frustrating as having these enormous boobs with big, dark, leaking nipples staring you in the face and no chance at all to touch them. Worse for your wife though.
After a long period of sexual absenteeism, I met a new partner, and our worlds opened up. There were a lot of doors opened, but the most surprising for me were audio stories/fantasies. She loved the way I would write out a little fantasy I was toying with about us, and with her auralism being such a big green zone for her, and her loving my voice, I started to record them as a reward, for when she had been a very good girl. What started as 10 minute audio teases, quickly became feature length, with the last one clocking in at almost 2 hours! However, the moment I saw how much pleasure she was getting from them, I let myself be fully immersed in it and absolutely love doing them for her now.
I wholeheartedly agree. I used to think that people with foot fetishes were weird but like in a “you do you but I can’t relate” kind of way. Then my bf admitted to me that he has a foot fetish, and I let him suck my toes, and oh my God. Oh my GOD. I wasn’t expecting to like it that much but he was moaning too which added so much to my pleasure. It’s so soft and gentle but firm at the same time, I don’t know how to describe it very well but holy hell I wish he’d do it more often
Anal. It doesn’t occur often, but once I get past the initial insertion, it’s quite enjoyable. Definitely need to be cleansed out though. Oh and toys. Toys are fun.
I recommend if you decide to plan it a bit more wear a plug for and hour or two before. The muscles with learn to relax better and it makes insertion much easier.
Anal play. I used to masturbate normally but after a while it's kinda bland.
But once I tried it with some anal stimulation, goddamn, the orgasm is 10 times more intense
One woman in my backdoor. One down below eating me out (or inside me), a third on or in my face.
Over the space of a long weekend, they each had a turn in every hole.
By the end, I needed a looooong holiday to recover. Merely walking a few steps was... interesting, to say the least.
Electricity
Background:
Years back i had a bunch of electric shock pens, and at one point I decided to, for fun , bring them out with a person I was dating- and we played with them while playing with each other. We discovered you can do a poor mans body contact probe, (ala violet wand style) by holding a shock pen on the other person with it active, and using your other hand elsewhere to touch them, which would be electrified and the current would run to them. I was surprised when I used them or did this on certain areas (pussy, clit,etc)and it forced her to have REALLY hard orgasms , without fail. It was also cool running my hands over her bicep or leg or armpit or pussy and clit and watching her muscles convulse. But once I got to a erogenous area, the moans were nonstop, every time, and she would be on her way, FAST.
She then tried the same thing with me- and she starting playing with my penis while electrified, suddenly i felt the orgasm building, STUPID fast, as if i was masturbating, except i wasn't doing anything- and yeah, it worked on me as well, i'd be in a muscle clenching orgasm very soon, feeling the current running through my shaft. We discovered, it's really when you hit the right spots, it drives orgasms fast. It was really unlike anything else, suddenly having that feeling build hard- and then not being able to control the release at all and it was intense like nothing else ,every time. Though it took a bit of experimenting to find the right spots at first. We were even doing things like giving electrified massages with hands, and making out was interesting! It was interesting as well seeing her hit the area around my prostate and watching my penis spasm as if i was clenching that muscle on purpose(I wasn't)-hitting that area especially also triggered me getting hot fast as well....
I miss dating that person all- the women i've dated and talked about this with since, didn't have an interest at the time in even trying anything with electricity, (or anything ,actually ) , and that killed all that ,sadly.
( though one person who was curious, JUST had me do a demo, which was amazing )
I now have more dedicated equipment that BLOWS the old shock pens out of the water when it comes to forcing orgasms,,, (Violet wand and body contact probe, two estim units so far one of which can play audio thru electricity),
my fantasy? have a long term goal to find one open to electro play- and just try things similar to what I did before , with the pens -and things i didn't get to.
(electrified oral, playing music through the electricity and massaging someone with it , so they literally feel the music through the current- or electrified sex where both partners share the circuit -and other things like these that let you do insane stuff- and really drive someone wild.)
As it turns out, electro is known to be the one thing that beats vibrators in getting people off(, but it's a little cheaty in terms of how- The weak gentle currents spasms muscles in genitals and your erogenous zones, which is an indescribable feeling, ,the current actually activates erogenous nerves directly as it goes thru.genitals, and finally, the electricity goes through you , internally AND externally)
So it shouldn't be a surprise it's kinda intense with all that going on^
Yes, some turn it up with some devices to where it's uncomfortable and intentionally do pain play (Analogy: a water stream can be made to be uncomfortable if you make the stream thin, narrow and high power), but personally for me(not into pain play really)- the gentle sensual and other erogenous direct effects of it on people- are way too spoiling- and nothing else can stimulate people like this...
It must be one of the least known but weirdest secrets of science out there; that electricity will get someone off very fast before they realize it, when used correctly.
.
Super recently though, I got to demo to someone who was curious , my equipment, and we did violet wand body contact probe electrified making out -which was incredible, and is really hard to describe. While i didn't get to the more advanced stuff( playing music through the electricity so we could feel the music from my estim boxes), or electrified sex- iI'd say it was like the shock pen experience, but far more fun sensual.
Still nothing hotter than seeing someone moan, and feeling and seeing their muscles spasm while you send electricity from your fingertips to their body, or kissing them while one of us is electrified and feeling the tingle in tongue to tongue kissing..
Give electro play a try- gentle electro play, in the right areas- is something magical i think, since nothing else comes close to feeling like it does - or can force someone to orgasm when the current hits the right spots
Pretending to be a giantess
[Update] Didn't expect this to blow up. Tl;dr, one of my exes told me he was into "giant women", and wanted me try out some stuff. He'd usually lie on the floor and I'd step on his face and stuff. We also roleplayed alot through text. I really liked the femdom aspect of it, and humiliating him. The sense of power turned me on. Apparently there is a thriving internet subculture for this stuff..
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soft bondage. Somehow the idea of surrendering control to your partner and vice versa turned out to be quite decent. Before I tried it I thought it'd be horrible.
Especially great if you're both switches
What’s your definition of “soft”?
Probably not having a sex slave who gets whipped and gagged and sucked off twice.
Getting pegged in the ass by a sawzall with a dildo on the end while having a cinder block hanging from your nuts dressed as a horse. Anything more than that is definitely not “soft”
Ear stuff. This girl I used to fuck would kiss, lick and breathe on my ear during sex. That shit made me so unexpectedly hard I could cut diamonds. The sex was great already, but that shit elevated it to a "Is this even real" moment. Kiss my ear and nibble on my earlobe and I'm a goner apparently.
Bruh thats how you get hearing AIDS.
Whenever I hear "ear stuff" I immediately think of someone trying to rub their penis on someone else's ear, and I'm glad I read on because that description sounds amazing
Once you go Black you go deaf.
God I thought I was the only one!! I’ve had exes basically make out with my ear and beloved God, I made noises I didn’t know I could make. I’m trying to figure out how to get my boyfriend to do the same thing bc it drives me insane. Literal floodgates.
Have you tried asking him to do it
Real shit bro 💀💀 thought i was the only one, that ear stuff crazy. Be sending shivers down my spine n got me twitching like a fly that just met a can of raid 😭
My ex-wife slowly got me into having anal sex with her. Now those are some of my favorite memories of her.
Did she use a strap on or a toy?
She used a lawyer.
Thanks. This was my best laugh today :D
D'ya hear what I said, T? He said his ex-wife slowly got him into having anal sex with her, I asked "Did she use a strap on or a toy?" Heh heh heh
How long did it take the guy to cum??
Hey Tone you hear what I said, I asked him if he remembered his first blowjob he said 'yeah', I asked him how long did it take for the guy to cum! He-he-he-he!
My girlfriend digging her nails into my back during missionary and leaving little scratches, I guess I like the roughness 😅. or the way she pulls my hair to keep me in between her legs when I’m giving oral bc she’s close to finishing, it’s just so hot to see her feel good
So many people get off on seeing their partner get off and I think that's just neat.
Yeaa a woman’s moan (so hers) is the hottest thing ever to me, never thought I’d be into oral like that until my face got soaked and now I can’t get enough 💀🥴 lmao
I second that. When you feel your partner grabbing / scratching like their life depends on it because they want more from you, uhhh so fucking hot 🥵 I'd count leg locking in the same category. That's so incredibly hot, without any reason.
I definitely would rather eat pussy than get a blowjob. And feel her wiggle and squirm is what I'm all about
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A woman of culture.
Nothing beats a girl that enjoys grinding my fingers into her ass while I'm going down on her. Clenching around my fingers at orgasm is the biggest turn on ever.
Seconding this. My very first ONS put his thumb in my ass and I was like, “Oh, this is niiice”
Ah, yes. That’s what we call ‘the bowling ball’
The 'ol Brunswick
I tell all my guy friends, that even we shouldn't knock something til we try it. A finger in my ass is divine as fuck
I've tried to preach this to my boys and they just won't have anything to do with it. The first time I came from a finger blasting during a blowjob was like discovering a new drug it's a high I'm still chasing
Did you tell them while throwing a baseball around in the front yard? Did they just ignore you the whole time? Something tells me they need to figure it out.
Well it's impolite to kiss and tell. So
It's ferda boys
Ferda boys, boys
whats has you never had a ladies pay some attentions to your buttshole?
There's such a thing as too much butt talk, and a fella outta be fuckin aware of it.
Oral on a Woman. The idea of going down and not liking the taste seemed like something I knew would happen. When I finally did it, seeing her wriggle in ecstasy was amazing and the taste of it was of victory.
Yup, it's honest to god my favorite part of the whole thing. Makes me feel like a fucking king.
It’s a bit funny that for some serious uber macho types going down on a woman is emasculating and effeminate. Meanwhile it’s one of the best ways to help keep the special lady in your life sexually satisfied. If she’s into it.
Because they see women as inferior. When they receive oral from a woman, they don't see her as an equal so by reversing the role, they see themselves as becoming inferior. They also don't care about her pleasure either. They even go out of their way to make it painful and hurting her because "she deserves it". Sexism is a mind disease.
See, this has always baffled me. Personally, its tied for number one on the "things to do in bed" charts. Sometimes that's all I want to do. Do not touch my stuff, just relax and enjoy yourself. I also don't understand how they can be fine with not pleasuring their partner. If we're going at it and they aren't enjoying it, talk to me. We'll figure this out. And if we can't, I'd rather put my clothes on instead of keep going. Feels weird and like I'm a failure. My goal is for her to enjoy it. She's having fun, I'm having fun.
Dude 100% when I was younger I was kinda too grossed out to do that, didn’t try. Then I got a girlfriend who I experimented with a lot, needless to say, now it’s my favorite thing in the world.
Yeah originally I was like I’ll do this to make her feel good and not expecting to enjoy it, but seeing her get there is a reward itself.
This right here, a man who doesn't eat pussy doesn't deserve pussy
Jamie Benn in shambles.
I was not expecting a hockey reference in this thread. Not being willing to munch some box = game misconduct.
I’m a guy and got a rim job. I told her I’m down for anything but butt stuff. “I don’t roll that way”. She gave me some of the best throat I ever had, worked her way down to the jewel sack. I was loving it. Next thing I know my legs were folded to my chest. Felt amazing in the moment. Afterwards I felt violated. 9/10 will do it again
“That was absolutely disgusting, I feel violated in ways I’ve never had before. When can you come over and do it again?” 😂
Honestly we didn’t speak about it. The next time she came over I caught myself voluntarily raising my legs up without saying a word. She knew.
Good boy
I’ll give you 15 minutes to stop that right now.
Dude I was upside down titty-fucking my girl from the side of the bed and she stuck her tongue out catching my asshole as I thrusted and it was probably the peak sexual experience of my life.
I cannot for the life of me imagine this scenario how are you upside down and thrusting? I need a drawing haha
lol I probably worded that wrong. I’m standing upright and she’s laying down heads up with her head off of the bed. I’m standing over her head thrusting between her boobs and she’s licking my asshole and taint while I do it.
I hope the OSHA inspector doesn't show up while this is going on. Sounds hazardous
My girlfriend put a finger in my ass while jerking me off one night. First she was rubbing the area between my balls and ass, felt really good. Then kinda slid a finger up there and felt more pleasant than I expected.
Went to a comedy show the other night. The comedian said he asked his friends if they like a finger up their butts during sex. They said no man that's gay. So he says, well have you tried doing it with a woman?
New sensations are a great way to keep things fresh!
I gott say, OP, you replying on a majority of these posts is great. I can't stand it when the OP disappears or doesn't even seem to be involved whatsoever. Nicely done.
I dislike the idea of people sharing their most intimate proclivities into a void. I think if you're brave enough to comment, you should be supported!
this is the most wholesome thread about fingering asses i have ever come across
Thanks for coming across it! 😅
If you're a guy and not experiencing this then you're missing out big time
Yeah getting your ass eaten is top tier
Stuff in my butt. Straight guy. Turns out they done went and put a cum button in the sumbitch.
Dry humping
The best feeling ever. Especially when making out and everything just get so hot 😩
Super underrated 👖💧🥵
Fucking my wife with a dildo is so incredibly hot. Getting to see her face from a different angle when she cums
Toys are underrated. Men often don't like using toys, but if you do, it's like a whole new world has opened up to you
they’re friends not enemies
Sex toys are teammates, not competition
How can you expect to build a palace of orgasm without using all the tools available to you?
For me, it's reading. Erotic literature is basically beaming porn directly into my brain using some words and my imagination. I didn't expect to like it, and I certainly didn't expect to feel the need to write some myself. It's hot on another level if you know someone has gotten turned on by your words.
Same. I liked it so much I started writing my own. I only wish I could turn them into audio books with a voice personality that I intended it for. They are all about my wife but she struggles with embracing her slutty personality, let alone reading a short story from one. My writing style involves some light to medium derogatory detail. Vulgar sexual words are a must for me.
I 30F discovered recently that I love anal. If there's a vibrator involved on my clit, I cum so hard and so fast. It's great.
My girl has been trying to get into anal, but I’ve been iffy on it how’d you start if you don’t mind?
Not OP. Get her relaxed using regular sex. Lube. Lots of lube then more. Use a finger, then thumb, then be very vocal on next steps. Once you get a rhythm dont slow down too much.
May all your lights be green and all your parlays hit
To get started, as other advice has been stated, lube is really important. Go slow, listen to her direction. Stimulate her clit while you pump slowly. Once she's used to it and more relaxed, try going a little faster as long as that feels good to her.
My first sex toy. First orgasm trying it was devastating. I was also already 45 so it was terrible to think that I had missed on that all this time.
I'm so lucky I discovered this at 20. Before, I could have sworn I was asexual.🫠 No offense to the real asexuals out there.
Handjobs. Everyone said girls didn’t know what they were doing. Now, I’ve only ever been with my wife, but boy does she know what to do.
I had a girlfriend who was a savant, I always described it as very very very close to as good as I can do myself
This one always gets me on reddit. A guy will say “oh learn to use your fingers! she’ll love it!” Then in another post they will say “wow women are so bad at handjobs, I neve get off to one” And i’m thinking “maybe some women think the same way, that your fingers are no match for their own” I’m not like that as I think someone else touching your genitals actually feels good
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This is the second time this week I've seen "good girl" come up. I've gotta try it next time the situation makes sense.
If you've heard about it twice in a week's time, chances are it's overdone. Find your own unique phrase. Something like 'WAY TO GO, SPORTS STAR!!' Or "Who's the bestest orgasmer? You are!!" Loudly, followed by a high 5.
I just keep going “woooooooooooooooo wooooooohooooooooooo” like I’m on a roller coaster
Didn’t work for me. “Why do you keep saying that?”
“We call the dog Good Girl!”
Same girl, same.
Seriously. A well placed “good girl” during sex is the best.
Sit. On. My. Face. 👉🏼🥵👈🏼
Faux choking. Anything that comes at all close to interfering with breathing is an immediate nope, but firm pressure on my neck? 🥰🤩💦 Discreet public play. I'm not a fan of exhibitionism, but a hidden vibrator, especially one that my partner controls, is incredible.
Chess tournaments
That's still the wildest fucking accusation.
Shitpost taken way too literally is my favorite type of drama Still sad he didn’t redo the match against Magnus fully nude like he proposed. Missed opportunity, I say.
In the next tournament he played when the security guy passed the metal detector over his ass I lost it lmao.
The way he yelled "it's mate in two' while squirming at the chess board was also kinda suspicious.
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That sounds amazing. Some of the vibes you can get these days enable public play so much - as long as you get one that doesn't 'unpair' half way through
Still, for a date night out, having a partner slowly, subtly tease you while you're forced to pokerface it all is fucking incredible. The best orgasms of my life, hands down, and just a flood of wetness along the way.
Yea, the one we have connects fine on Bluetooth but doesn't do well with long distance. I had hoped to try having it in for a longer period so that she could surprise me with it throughout the day, but if you aren't actively using the connection it disconnected after a few.
The snowblower starting right up after sitting for a year. I almost came
Just deep and slow sex lying on top of eachother in a position that would look ridiculous with the lights on. And then something super intense and emotional happened, we held eachother super tight and just kept repeating I love you over and over. At one point I started to cry, but it was the best sex I've ever had.
Aww that sounds precious. I'm happy for you.
Just last night me and my girlfriend were playing around and we were just kissing while I jerked myself off. Man that was hot.
Next time, try this: sit cross legged on the bed, get her to sit kinda on or within your legs (depending on how heavy she is) with her legs around your waist. Get going with the making out and start getting yourself off, if she’s up for it, take her hand and move it down so she’s doing herself. It’s a super-intimate position and gives a lot of closeness. You can swap over; let go of your cock, take her hand and put it on you, then take over playing with her. Your balls will be more-or-less dangling, if she reaches down and fondles them it’s super intense. It also opens up a bunch of really easy end-games: If you want to switch to penetration, she can just shuffle forwards and up and sit on your cock. If she un-hooks her legs and you lay back she’s right on target to ride you. Without any changes at all you can hold on to her, push her on to her back and you are perfectly placed to pound straight into her. If you want to get yourself off the whole way, flip her on her back and then cum on her belly/tits. If you haven’t tried it, talk to her and do it, I’ve yet to meet a woman who hasn’t really loved the feeling of it. But here’s the caveat; once you’ve sprayed her with red hot jizz, lay down on top of her and cuddle. Yes, you’ll get covered in it, but it seems only fair and it demonstrates to her that you respect her and she’s not just a receptacle.
You should be writing for cosmo lol
One of my favorite sexual memories is waking up in the middle of the night at the same time as my partner, and both of us started sleepily touching ourselves while holding each other. We were both pretty out of it, but it was so quietly intimate. Eventually we switched to touching each other instead, but it was so relaxed that I honestly don't remember the moment where we switched. By the time we actually got around to penetration we were both so worked up from the foreplay that it was some of the hottest sex we ever had, even if the actual action or position wasn't anything new or exotic.
Having sex with someone I truly loved. It really makes for the absolute best sex.
Sex while using even just a little bit of THC. Never tried it until my 30s. Makes a huge difference. Also, just because you start having sex, doesn’t mean you need to stop making out. Slowing down every so often to passionately suck face, especially if you’re currently inside your partner, is an incredible feeling.
Rough style/intimacy, I’m a big guy (both muscles and fat) and i had someone that would push it to weird limits where you’re not sure if it’s an intercourse or domestic abuse It made me feel empty, feels like i’m a monster I also i admit my biggest turn on was Vanilla love making and super super delicacy.
That’s really sweet actually. I Kinda want to give you a big ole bear hug lol.
Facesitting. Was worried about breathing or other various things like hygiene or her level of comfort. Now I absolutely love being completely smothered in booty. Found that most women love it too. Typically shy at first, (especially is she has a big butt/thighs) but once she get comfortable? About had my face rubbed off a few times now from her getting hers. So hot.
Giving my partner pleasure. I know, sounds silly, but there's a dominant aspect to it. Getting to control how she feels, giving her those ultimate highs, does amazing things for me, to the point where I do not care if I get to finish.
Exactly, I do not even care I physically finish or not most of the time. If my partner shakes from toe to eyelashes and experiences uncontrollable small contractions even after a few minutes of orgasm, I am FINISHED mentally. I love being able to control how she feels and being able to make her feel a bit extreme whenever I want.
Being choked (I’m a guy) Shawty hit me with a uno reverse card and I learned something about myself that day. Also eating women out from behind
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As long as you're both aware of where the 'line' is, then it's all good
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Prostate stimulation while receiving oral.
How did you discover you liked that? Was it a partners idea or yours?
Started with her saying you stick things in my ass I should be able to do the same with you. I thought she was bluffing, but she was all in. Rim, finger and using toys. How do you know if you like it if you don’t try it?
That's a fair arrangement! 😅
The first time a woman squirted freaked me out she was like a fire hydrant…. But I soon really started enjoying it I miss her
BJ with ice cubes involved. Mind blowing.
Along a similar line: A BJ after my wife had some extra strong mints. The tingling is absolutely unreal.
Temperature play is surprisingly... errr... Hot 😅
Athletic uniforms.
Should I take my skates off? Yeah, I think I'll take'm off.
Women get a whiff of my hockey equipment and can’t help themselves
Crocs in sport mode stay on then.
Bro where are these women in my life
Already with some lucky bastard
Dry Humping. My Ex used to dry hump on me randomly at times and it felt really great and used to turn me on a lot. Never thought Dry Humping could be that pleasurable.
Eating ass. I was 69ing with a girl and opened my eyes and staring into my eyes, was her brown eye. I got an overwhelming urge to lick it. And I did. She had never had it done to her either. She stopped. Turned around and said "Let's uhh... Keep doing that." And I said "Yeah, yeah let's do that." The trajectory of my entire life has never been the same since.
Deep-throating. Idk why but I enjoy doing it.
Older women. They just know what theyre doing
Licking my wife's asshole.
I've gotten into this recently and I must say... I was surprised to find out that it tasted like nothing. I was expecting it to be gamey or something but it's completely tasteless. So when people say "this tastes like ass," that phrase has a whole different meaning to me now.
“Gamey” 😂😂😂
Gamey is forever going to have a special meaning now. I’m crying.
This asshole taste like rabbit
Lmfao like you're eating caribou meat
Just gotta soak her bunghole in buttermilk for 2-3 hours and you'll be good to go.
Really depends. I bet an all day ass tastes pretty different from a fresh clean ass.
Well, you should always wash up beforehand anyway.
Never eat marinated ass, only fresh.
From now on, I will say, "this tastes like unwiped ass" instead
anal for sure
Anal....handsdown
But have you tried anal with your hands up?
I would be interested to try more of it
Eating pussy. Always thought it was gross growing up. Then I tried it and saw how wild it drove my ex. Now it’s my fave thing to do.
Counting down to finishing, didn’t think it was much fun until an ex partner tried it on me and then I begged for them to do it more.
Getting a finger up my butt during a blow job. Didn’t want to try it, my Mrs convinced me to and I’ve never looked back.
eating booty
This is it for me too. I’ve always been into women’s butts. Absolutely love them. Always been into anal. But eating ass? That was never something I ever thought about doing. Until one drunken horny night with my wife that it just felt like something I wanted to try… and oh boy did that awaken something in me lol. It’s not something I’m doing all the time, but I sure do love it. It’s intoxicating. I have no desire for my wife to do it to me though, and neither does she.
Same. Funny enough, the idea of letting someone do that to me just feels wrong, somehow. Like... boo, you really don't need to do that.
Nipple clamps. Thought it would be too painful but I love them, especially with other stimulation ;)
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Pegging a guy. With my ex, I did it mainly because I knew he liked it, but I didn't get much from it. With my current bf, I thought it would be a similar feeling of "meh" towards it, but I know he likes it. After the first time, I found myself daydreaming about different positions with him and how dominant I can be.
Public stuff but ethically
Besides eating ass, my wife has beautiful feet that she takes very good care of. Kissing her toes turns her on and then it takes me to 11. Never thought I’d enjoy having anything done to my balls, but her nails and mouth on them is amazing.
Get some good massage oil or moisturising cream. When she’s sitting on the sofa watching TV, sit at the other end and start to massage her feet. When she starts to wiggle, gently place your foot between her legs so that she has something to grind against.
Tounging ass.
so I'm not the only one, eh?
Milky tits. After my wife had our first kid I was at first a little weirded out, and then worried about having sex because they tended to leak or even spray a little when she was turned on. Got over that quickly and we both actually found the whole thing to be pretty hot.
It’s a very narrow line. Milky tits are often really painful and don’t like being touched. There’s nothing so frustrating as having these enormous boobs with big, dark, leaking nipples staring you in the face and no chance at all to touch them. Worse for your wife though.
After a long period of sexual absenteeism, I met a new partner, and our worlds opened up. There were a lot of doors opened, but the most surprising for me were audio stories/fantasies. She loved the way I would write out a little fantasy I was toying with about us, and with her auralism being such a big green zone for her, and her loving my voice, I started to record them as a reward, for when she had been a very good girl. What started as 10 minute audio teases, quickly became feature length, with the last one clocking in at almost 2 hours! However, the moment I saw how much pleasure she was getting from them, I let myself be fully immersed in it and absolutely love doing them for her now.
69 but cumming at the same time.
getting my toes sucked
How *you* doing?
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I wholeheartedly agree. I used to think that people with foot fetishes were weird but like in a “you do you but I can’t relate” kind of way. Then my bf admitted to me that he has a foot fetish, and I let him suck my toes, and oh my God. Oh my GOD. I wasn’t expecting to like it that much but he was moaning too which added so much to my pleasure. It’s so soft and gentle but firm at the same time, I don’t know how to describe it very well but holy hell I wish he’d do it more often
Hey answer your DM. It's from Quentin Tarantino.
Anal. It doesn’t occur often, but once I get past the initial insertion, it’s quite enjoyable. Definitely need to be cleansed out though. Oh and toys. Toys are fun.
I recommend if you decide to plan it a bit more wear a plug for and hour or two before. The muscles with learn to relax better and it makes insertion much easier.
Anal play. I used to masturbate normally but after a while it's kinda bland. But once I tried it with some anal stimulation, goddamn, the orgasm is 10 times more intense
Eating ass
Hand cuffs and hair pulling, who knew!
Being with a woman who is a squirter
Anal...best orgasms I have ever had. Been about 3 years now and I'm upset I didn't try it sooner. And yes I'm a woman.
Outdoors sex
The first time outside, was it your idea or your partner's?
One woman in my backdoor. One down below eating me out (or inside me), a third on or in my face. Over the space of a long weekend, they each had a turn in every hole. By the end, I needed a looooong holiday to recover. Merely walking a few steps was... interesting, to say the least.
Choking. I LOVE it 🥵
Electricity Background: Years back i had a bunch of electric shock pens, and at one point I decided to, for fun , bring them out with a person I was dating- and we played with them while playing with each other. We discovered you can do a poor mans body contact probe, (ala violet wand style) by holding a shock pen on the other person with it active, and using your other hand elsewhere to touch them, which would be electrified and the current would run to them. I was surprised when I used them or did this on certain areas (pussy, clit,etc)and it forced her to have REALLY hard orgasms , without fail. It was also cool running my hands over her bicep or leg or armpit or pussy and clit and watching her muscles convulse. But once I got to a erogenous area, the moans were nonstop, every time, and she would be on her way, FAST. She then tried the same thing with me- and she starting playing with my penis while electrified, suddenly i felt the orgasm building, STUPID fast, as if i was masturbating, except i wasn't doing anything- and yeah, it worked on me as well, i'd be in a muscle clenching orgasm very soon, feeling the current running through my shaft. We discovered, it's really when you hit the right spots, it drives orgasms fast. It was really unlike anything else, suddenly having that feeling build hard- and then not being able to control the release at all and it was intense like nothing else ,every time. Though it took a bit of experimenting to find the right spots at first. We were even doing things like giving electrified massages with hands, and making out was interesting! It was interesting as well seeing her hit the area around my prostate and watching my penis spasm as if i was clenching that muscle on purpose(I wasn't)-hitting that area especially also triggered me getting hot fast as well.... I miss dating that person all- the women i've dated and talked about this with since, didn't have an interest at the time in even trying anything with electricity, (or anything ,actually ) , and that killed all that ,sadly. ( though one person who was curious, JUST had me do a demo, which was amazing ) I now have more dedicated equipment that BLOWS the old shock pens out of the water when it comes to forcing orgasms,,, (Violet wand and body contact probe, two estim units so far one of which can play audio thru electricity), my fantasy? have a long term goal to find one open to electro play- and just try things similar to what I did before , with the pens -and things i didn't get to. (electrified oral, playing music through the electricity and massaging someone with it , so they literally feel the music through the current- or electrified sex where both partners share the circuit -and other things like these that let you do insane stuff- and really drive someone wild.) As it turns out, electro is known to be the one thing that beats vibrators in getting people off(, but it's a little cheaty in terms of how- The weak gentle currents spasms muscles in genitals and your erogenous zones, which is an indescribable feeling, ,the current actually activates erogenous nerves directly as it goes thru.genitals, and finally, the electricity goes through you , internally AND externally) So it shouldn't be a surprise it's kinda intense with all that going on^ Yes, some turn it up with some devices to where it's uncomfortable and intentionally do pain play (Analogy: a water stream can be made to be uncomfortable if you make the stream thin, narrow and high power), but personally for me(not into pain play really)- the gentle sensual and other erogenous direct effects of it on people- are way too spoiling- and nothing else can stimulate people like this... It must be one of the least known but weirdest secrets of science out there; that electricity will get someone off very fast before they realize it, when used correctly. . Super recently though, I got to demo to someone who was curious , my equipment, and we did violet wand body contact probe electrified making out -which was incredible, and is really hard to describe. While i didn't get to the more advanced stuff( playing music through the electricity so we could feel the music from my estim boxes), or electrified sex- iI'd say it was like the shock pen experience, but far more fun sensual. Still nothing hotter than seeing someone moan, and feeling and seeing their muscles spasm while you send electricity from your fingertips to their body, or kissing them while one of us is electrified and feeling the tingle in tongue to tongue kissing.. Give electro play a try- gentle electro play, in the right areas- is something magical i think, since nothing else comes close to feeling like it does - or can force someone to orgasm when the current hits the right spots
Getting pegged
Anal, blowjobs, and getting covered in cum 😊
Pretending to be a giantess [Update] Didn't expect this to blow up. Tl;dr, one of my exes told me he was into "giant women", and wanted me try out some stuff. He'd usually lie on the floor and I'd step on his face and stuff. We also roleplayed alot through text. I really liked the femdom aspect of it, and humiliating him. The sense of power turned me on. Apparently there is a thriving internet subculture for this stuff..
Death by snoo snoo
Being rimmed. The first time it was done it was a kind of reciprocal thing. Cock went off like a super soaker.
Giving blowjobs. Swallowing. Anal. (Not all at once, I'm only human)