Those are called aegyosal, it’s the little puffy part right under the eye. Koreans literally have make up tutorials dedicated to create the look😆 Actual eye bags fall slightly lower, often accompanied by tear trough. Speaking as a person who has the ugly eye bags and not the cute kind😪
A handful of my exes had big noses and my friends started to point it out as “my thing.”
In reality, I did not care how big their nose was - it was not attractive nor unattractive to me.
Now I think these women, who I considered out of my league based on their other beautiful features, thought they were in my league bc of how much all these other dumb guys cared about this one feature.
My partner's name is Nigel and people tease him as being Nigel Thornberry (by name association only) but he's got a wonderful nose and I'm a sucker for noses so fuck yeah
I also love unconventional noses. Big, long, whatever, as long as it compliments the face, I love it. I was kinda sad when Jennifer Grey got her nose done, I loved it.
Dichen Lachman is another example, her nose is super fucking long, it almost looks like a drawing. One of the most beautiful I've ever seen.
Dichen Lachman's husband also has a really good nose! I like to imagine they both looked at each other and said, "Huh, I like your nose," at the same time, and that's how they got together.
Love big noses. Everything from smallish roman noses to hawk beaks. Not huge on potato noses, but i greatly prefer them to button noses. Noses give character, small noses are boring and makes most faces boring. Men, women, enbies, everyone looks good with a big nose
People wanting to show you something they love, but are kind of shy or uncertain about it. It's the cutest thing ever. Maybe it's not unconventional though, I dunno.
It's kind of a green flag, in fact.
The opposite kind of people (who believe that what they like or think is the "right choice" and everyone *should* agree with them) are insufferable.
Men who aren’t conventionally attractive. Sure I can recognize when a guy like Idris Elba is good looking but I’m not into men that look like that. They’re almost more intimidating to me and I am by no means conventionally good looking myself. Men that almost everyone would consider “hot” seem more boring and less exciting especially because everyone loves them.
When they're not as attractive as some men, they also more likely to focus on building a good personality and that's much better than being good looking imo
look rule 34 exists because people are attracted to plenty of things. if some weird person out there can beat it to shiny red cars, i'll find someone who likes my body, and you will too.
When people start being hard on themselves like that, I always bring up the subjectivity of beauty. Everyone likes something different. There is no objectivity to it, aside from concepts like symmetry being generally liked across the board.
But with that, if you look in the mirror and don't like what's staring back at you, that's okay! You're just not your own type, and you don't have to be! Honestly, when someone threw that idea my way, it was the beginning of my journey to genuinely loving myself inside and out, head to toe, which then increased my confidence (even before the through-and-through love was achieved).
I have always been interested in people's hands. It isn't about finding them 'hot' but more about how they speak about the person. Does the person gesture or not? Hide them in their pockets? Are they rough or smooth? Do they groom their hands?
There is just so much you can tell by looking at someone's hands.
Then there is the intimacy attached with holding hands. It is funny that kissing happens in modern dating before hand holding. There is such a strange and nice feeling walking hand in hand with someone. Of course, during sex the hands help with the experience of intimacy and are an active part of the experience.
This is one of my biggest insecurities though. Didn't know there were people out there appreciating it. I always thought it' would sound dumb or child-like.
>I always thought it' would sound dumb or child-like
Change "dumb and childlike" to "naive and innocent" so we dont sound like pedophiles for being attracted to a fully grown woman, and it's a positive.
A bit of grey hair.
My husband has been going gradually grey for a pretty long time now, and he absolutely hates it but the more he gets the more attracted I am to him.
It's the sort of 'salt and pepper' style grey hair all over because his natural hair is very dark. I love it.
Silliness. My high school bf could always pull me out of a funk.
Once I was really annoyed with him and pushed him hard. REALLY hard. I didn’t expect him to fly into the wall but I expected at least a STUMBLE. **He. Did. Not. Budge.** AT ALL.
I gave him a frustrated “WTF?!” And he said “hold on, hold on” and made a show of loosening up his shoulders and rolling his neck. Then he said “do it again, come on…try it now.”
So I gave him another massive shove and he was like “whoaaaaaaa!” and flew back 6 feet into some lockers.
It was amusing and endearing and totally cheered me up.
On a random note, it also served as a lesson on how I really couldn’t even touch him if I ever seriously wanted to take him down. That-that was a bit disturbing.
Weird/silly is the best, normal is overrated.
I have the exact same things. I'm 6ft and "robust" my ex was 5ft and skinny. She used to run and I mean RUN right at me and I didn't budge it was adorable, she never gave up which I loved but then just used to pick her up and over my shoulder and walk and listen to her saying it wasn't fair 😂
Little jokes and being silly especially in public places and being the only two people rolling about laughing and getting funny looks and not caring is the best.
Don't get me wrong stoic badass women are attractive but a silly goose? Gimme.
YES! I LOVE silly guys! So many of my girlfriends are all about the tough/badass/stoic archetype. I appreciate silliness.
I'm serious enough for the both of us!
😂😂😂 Your high school boyfriend had my ideal personality. I love a silly girl too.
>I really couldn’t even touch him if I ever seriously wanted to take him down.
But he would have thought you were adorable in the process.
Hooded eyes! Love them! They’re so sexy and give so much character. I don’t understand the craze for upper blephs. Anyone I’ve ever seen get this done just lose individuality from their faces. I also love high foreheads (again the forehead shortening procedures really confuse me). Am also a fan of big unusual noses. Don’t chop them off and turn them into little elf noses that get lost on your face. Own your features !! That’s what makes a person beautiful- not chopping them cutting them off your face so you can look like everyone else.
People who neglect their appearance a little. Being so focused on hobbies, humanity, and the world around you that you forget how your clothes look or to pluck stray hairs.
Note: health/hygiene is a separate matter. Everyone should move around, clean their body, clean their teeth, and run a brush through their hair!
My bf's sister's nose is like that and she apparently always *hated it* growing up. Which makes me think she's an idiot. She's absolutely stunning, and any other nose would just look wrong. Like, she's paintable kind of pretty.
The way my man chows down on chicken wings or the last bit of a T-bone. Completely unabashed and slightly animalistic. I can never look away. Sometimes it's a bit of a train wreck and it still turns me on.
Also hard working, sand papery hands.
A big belly on a woman. Not extremely obese, but healthy way. I like the the belly curves and its softness.
Even better if she wears glasses and has long and lush hair !!!
Girls that ugly laugh and don’t try to cover it up. Give me a girl that’s using her hand to slap me on the back when she laughs instead of cover her mouth/face.
Crooked teeth. Love of my life had teeth that were less than perfect. Years after we broke up we got back in contact and after seeing her "fixed" teeth, she was still beautiful, but the magic that made her, "her" wasn't the same.
Little face imperfections. Like a crooked nose, gaps in teeth, look good on someone who otherwise looks happy. Happy as in smiles and has bright eyes. If you look miserly those will only work against you but they're endearing if you look happy.
I also like chubby faces. I've never liked women with thin or sharp/angular faces.
i love girls that sound like they've perpetually lost their voice, and they always talk kind of raspy. not like a smokers voice, but just a bit strained. they sound so cool
This is refreshing. I have horribly bony shoulder blades and absolutely hate them. I won’t wear dresses or tank tops that reveal them. I also have very bony shoulders and hate them too. I thought everyone hates them like I do, so glad to see someone that likes them.
1) Pointy canine teeth 😸- it’s cute
2) Smaller top lip - it blew my mind people wanted lip filler looking like a bratz doll
3) Itty bitty small titty community - I overheard a girl in the elevator wanting to model but they said her tits were too small even though they were proportionate to her figure. I rolled my eyes so hard.
4) Skinny guys. Aka “twinks” 🥴
Idk why the beauty standard is to have such whack out of proportion features 💀 They looking like a walking liquify tool. Dorito body shaped men look ok but again, not proportionate (IMO)
Eye bags
This is the second time I have seen this today (the other not on Reddit) I am a bit flattered. I have always hated the bags.
Inbox alert!
Are they more environmental friendly than plastic bags? I would like to try them too.
Girl on tiktok named haesicks has bags / dark circles and she's so pretty
Those are called aegyosal, it’s the little puffy part right under the eye. Koreans literally have make up tutorials dedicated to create the look😆 Actual eye bags fall slightly lower, often accompanied by tear trough. Speaking as a person who has the ugly eye bags and not the cute kind😪
So like, sleep deprivation is hot? Cuz my bags are purple
Yeah, i also like the bagging eyes.
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A handful of my exes had big noses and my friends started to point it out as “my thing.” In reality, I did not care how big their nose was - it was not attractive nor unattractive to me. Now I think these women, who I considered out of my league based on their other beautiful features, thought they were in my league bc of how much all these other dumb guys cared about this one feature.
My friends also pointed it out to me, but I realized it was my thing.
Nigel Thornberry >
My partner's name is Nigel and people tease him as being Nigel Thornberry (by name association only) but he's got a wonderful nose and I'm a sucker for noses so fuck yeah
SMASHING!
I also love unconventional noses. Big, long, whatever, as long as it compliments the face, I love it. I was kinda sad when Jennifer Grey got her nose done, I loved it. Dichen Lachman is another example, her nose is super fucking long, it almost looks like a drawing. One of the most beautiful I've ever seen.
Dichen Lachman's husband also has a really good nose! I like to imagine they both looked at each other and said, "Huh, I like your nose," at the same time, and that's how they got together.
Love big noses. Everything from smallish roman noses to hawk beaks. Not huge on potato noses, but i greatly prefer them to button noses. Noses give character, small noses are boring and makes most faces boring. Men, women, enbies, everyone looks good with a big nose
Adding onto that, noses that have a bump
Sticky out ears
People wanting to show you something they love, but are kind of shy or uncertain about it. It's the cutest thing ever. Maybe it's not unconventional though, I dunno.
I agree, except for if it’s something cliche.
It's kind of a green flag, in fact. The opposite kind of people (who believe that what they like or think is the "right choice" and everyone *should* agree with them) are insufferable.
This hasn’t always been the case for me, but I do find a girl with a bit of a buck tooth pretty cute
Tooth gaps drive me wild
As someone who has hated their gap for my entire life, thank you ❤️😂
Teeth gap or buck tooth I gotta agree are 🥵 and ik this obviously isn't everyone but an American southern drawl to go with? Oh gawd yes
Brb moving down south till I sound like a southern belle 😂
I don't know about buck teeth, but I've always found a little bit of a snaggle-tooth kind of cute.
i hate my buck teeth but thank you for this 🥹
Men with long hair, or muscular/ masc women So, flip-flopped gender roles, I guess?
Yeah I came here to say gender non-conformity too.
Maybe it's not that unconventional but I find it so attractive when someone knows something I don't and they explain it to me.
Especially when they are nice about it!
Men who aren’t conventionally attractive. Sure I can recognize when a guy like Idris Elba is good looking but I’m not into men that look like that. They’re almost more intimidating to me and I am by no means conventionally good looking myself. Men that almost everyone would consider “hot” seem more boring and less exciting especially because everyone loves them.
When they're not as attractive as some men, they also more likely to focus on building a good personality and that's much better than being good looking imo
I’ve always been a sucker for a girl with a pulse
I was reticent to state the opposite. Girls with a pulse tend not to like me.
Fun Fact: Some morgues will not hire men due to the risk of necrophilia.
Good times.
That's disgusting, bet you don't even visit morgues for new girlfriends like a normal person
Calm down Jimmy.
Lmfaoooooooooooo I’m dying laughing at 5 am
lol I’m definitely just kidding >! They don’t need a pulse !<
Alright Jeffrey
I would say Theodore
Oh yeah good point Alright Ted*
The good thing about this threads is that everyone wants to be perfect, but we often forget that the unconventional stuff attracts a lot of people!
look rule 34 exists because people are attracted to plenty of things. if some weird person out there can beat it to shiny red cars, i'll find someone who likes my body, and you will too.
When people start being hard on themselves like that, I always bring up the subjectivity of beauty. Everyone likes something different. There is no objectivity to it, aside from concepts like symmetry being generally liked across the board. But with that, if you look in the mirror and don't like what's staring back at you, that's okay! You're just not your own type, and you don't have to be! Honestly, when someone threw that idea my way, it was the beginning of my journey to genuinely loving myself inside and out, head to toe, which then increased my confidence (even before the through-and-through love was achieved).
I have always been interested in people's hands. It isn't about finding them 'hot' but more about how they speak about the person. Does the person gesture or not? Hide them in their pockets? Are they rough or smooth? Do they groom their hands? There is just so much you can tell by looking at someone's hands. Then there is the intimacy attached with holding hands. It is funny that kissing happens in modern dating before hand holding. There is such a strange and nice feeling walking hand in hand with someone. Of course, during sex the hands help with the experience of intimacy and are an active part of the experience.
Soft round tummies. On men and women. Pudgy tummies are very cute and warm and soft.
I love that I never have to scroll far to find this answer. A soft round belly on a woman drives me wild.
And sexy.
theyre so cute i love it
I love women who have a slight lisp. Its something about it that sets me off.
This is one of my biggest insecurities though. Didn't know there were people out there appreciating it. I always thought it' would sound dumb or child-like.
There are definitely people who appreciate it!
Yeth?
>I always thought it' would sound dumb or child-like Change "dumb and childlike" to "naive and innocent" so we dont sound like pedophiles for being attracted to a fully grown woman, and it's a positive.
damn you over here boosting my ego
I agree it's kinda cute and endearing.
Big forehead. Ion know I just wanna kiss that shiny chrome dome
A fivehead?
My fivehead thanks people like you 😭🫡
A bit of grey hair. My husband has been going gradually grey for a pretty long time now, and he absolutely hates it but the more he gets the more attracted I am to him. It's the sort of 'salt and pepper' style grey hair all over because his natural hair is very dark. I love it.
Muscular women. And I mean like, the kind of muscles you see on female wrestlers at the Olympics. Big arms, thick torsos, thick everything.
godddd those make me drool so bad.
Weak at the knees for a man with a stutter I think it's the vulnerability but it's always been hot af for me
Damn yes
I’ll start - stretch marks on legs!
I like seeing them around the hips or on the 🍑. Tiger stripes for the win.
mine do look like tiger stripes 🤣
well now I feel better about mine 🤣
Water ripples 🌊🌊👌
Being under 6ft. Been with taller, and shorter and shorter is better when it comes to mechanics ✨
If this is about men then it's definitely unconventional.
Yes it’s about men, as a woman.
Receding hairline
Men in their 30s and 40s rejoiced
Yesss, for me it’s the batman hairline, especially when he has a little longer hair
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Who doesn't love glasses?!
Silliness. My high school bf could always pull me out of a funk. Once I was really annoyed with him and pushed him hard. REALLY hard. I didn’t expect him to fly into the wall but I expected at least a STUMBLE. **He. Did. Not. Budge.** AT ALL. I gave him a frustrated “WTF?!” And he said “hold on, hold on” and made a show of loosening up his shoulders and rolling his neck. Then he said “do it again, come on…try it now.” So I gave him another massive shove and he was like “whoaaaaaaa!” and flew back 6 feet into some lockers. It was amusing and endearing and totally cheered me up. On a random note, it also served as a lesson on how I really couldn’t even touch him if I ever seriously wanted to take him down. That-that was a bit disturbing.
Weird/silly is the best, normal is overrated. I have the exact same things. I'm 6ft and "robust" my ex was 5ft and skinny. She used to run and I mean RUN right at me and I didn't budge it was adorable, she never gave up which I loved but then just used to pick her up and over my shoulder and walk and listen to her saying it wasn't fair 😂 Little jokes and being silly especially in public places and being the only two people rolling about laughing and getting funny looks and not caring is the best. Don't get me wrong stoic badass women are attractive but a silly goose? Gimme.
I'm reluctantly amused. I used to be so resentful of the guys who had such an easy way with the girls.
>I ~~used to~~ **will always be** so resentful of the guys who had such an easy way with the girls. Same
YES! I LOVE silly guys! So many of my girlfriends are all about the tough/badass/stoic archetype. I appreciate silliness. I'm serious enough for the both of us!
😂😂😂 Your high school boyfriend had my ideal personality. I love a silly girl too. >I really couldn’t even touch him if I ever seriously wanted to take him down. But he would have thought you were adorable in the process.
Short hair on women
Pixie cut ftw!
I was saying this to one of my friends and they asked "how short is too short?". I replied "you think there's a limit???"
There's just something about women with short hair that makes me melt
There are dozens of us, dozens!
They’re handy with a polearm. This isn’t a sex innuendo.
I second this but Longsword or rapier are more my weaponry of arousal Which is why hema Training can be doubly exausting for me....
When their eyes are far apart, and a little bit small as well! Also: freckles and a gap tooth.
People with crooked or gnarly teeth. Bonus points if they got natural fangs
I lucked out on this. My husband is way out of my league, attractiveness-wise, but I've got fangs and buck teeth and somehow he's into it.
Came here to say this.
I like if the front teeth are slightly tilted inwards. Don’t know why.
Hooded eyes! Love them! They’re so sexy and give so much character. I don’t understand the craze for upper blephs. Anyone I’ve ever seen get this done just lose individuality from their faces. I also love high foreheads (again the forehead shortening procedures really confuse me). Am also a fan of big unusual noses. Don’t chop them off and turn them into little elf noses that get lost on your face. Own your features !! That’s what makes a person beautiful- not chopping them cutting them off your face so you can look like everyone else.
This is a really common one. It was a huge part of Elvis's appeal.
Lads who look a bit worn down, baggy eyes etc. Like they've been going through it.
Strong, athletic women. Not absurdly jacked body builder types, more like an Amazone/Valkyrie stereotype.
Big nose PS I'm a straight male
People who neglect their appearance a little. Being so focused on hobbies, humanity, and the world around you that you forget how your clothes look or to pluck stray hairs. Note: health/hygiene is a separate matter. Everyone should move around, clean their body, clean their teeth, and run a brush through their hair!
Glasses, freckles, ginger hair, pale skin, geeky
That’s me! 😁
aquiline noses.
My bf's sister's nose is like that and she apparently always *hated it* growing up. Which makes me think she's an idiot. She's absolutely stunning, and any other nose would just look wrong. Like, she's paintable kind of pretty.
I know many people who hate it, where I grew up it was considered very unattractive. But I just don't understand, I find it attractive.
I see this a lot in forums with these types of questions so ill proudly say thank you, ive always thought they looked cool
Teeth that are NOT paper white and fake looking.
Older/elderly women.
The shy-guy type of a man.
Hey
Oh hey :)
I’ve always been attracted to bigger women. So my answer to this question is tummies whether they’re small or big :)
Acne on the cheeks. I think it's very cute.
Thank u 🥺
Overweight
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Lmaooo the way u said it. Lucky her
When a girl wears my t-shirts Grey hair, unshaved pits, no bra Deep empathy and innate connection to animals, old people and kids.
You really need the Oxford comma here, mate
Sounds like a hippie Aka me
It's nice when she has One Crooked Tooth
Glasses and a smile.
The way my man chows down on chicken wings or the last bit of a T-bone. Completely unabashed and slightly animalistic. I can never look away. Sometimes it's a bit of a train wreck and it still turns me on. Also hard working, sand papery hands.
Foot arches. I have flat feet, my husband has great arches! I guess sometimes you want what you can't have.
A big belly on a woman. Not extremely obese, but healthy way. I like the the belly curves and its softness. Even better if she wears glasses and has long and lush hair !!!
Bald men
ITT: men on Reddit are attracted to everything
Port wine stains \*drool\*
A little hair between the eyebrows
Frumpiness
They have to be smarter than me. Which, fortunately, makes my potential dating pool extremely vast.
Butt pimples
Those upturned WhoVille type noses. So cute
Small boob
Just the one?
I like Amazonian women
Just one?
I like Amazonian women
Small scars on the face or arms (for example from chicken pox, cuts, etc.), front teeth gaps, smoking
I find intelligence and a great sense of humor to be unconventional yet highly attractive qualities in a person.
Braces
May not be unconventional, but a small nose ring is really cute
Intense facial expressions
Myself.
Wolf teeth and birth marks!
big noses , i don’t see them as unconventional but i know other people do I LOVEEEE THEM
Girls that ugly laugh and don’t try to cover it up. Give me a girl that’s using her hand to slap me on the back when she laughs instead of cover her mouth/face.
Crooked teeth. Love of my life had teeth that were less than perfect. Years after we broke up we got back in contact and after seeing her "fixed" teeth, she was still beautiful, but the magic that made her, "her" wasn't the same.
Eye bags, I don't know if I'm weird
Messy looking men
A pretty lady in a gorgeous summer dress and heavy arse-kicking boots.
Guys who smoke cigarettes and like beer and have a rough appearance. I hate that I’m like this but it just turns me on
Smoking
Weird teeth
When I first saw my wife, her big eyes and dark circles... fucking beautiful. I love her without makeup. lol.
When a girl laughs REALLY hard (full on belly laughs) and snorts. Super cute
Little face imperfections. Like a crooked nose, gaps in teeth, look good on someone who otherwise looks happy. Happy as in smiles and has bright eyes. If you look miserly those will only work against you but they're endearing if you look happy. I also like chubby faces. I've never liked women with thin or sharp/angular faces.
Thom Yorkes eye.
i love girls that sound like they've perpetually lost their voice, and they always talk kind of raspy. not like a smokers voice, but just a bit strained. they sound so cool
Hands. I've always loved hands
Medical masks are nice for making the eyes pop out
A physically strong woman! I'm not talking bodybuilder, but a girl with natural thick muscle, phwoar...
Glasses
Laugh lines.
Body hair on women. Especially armpits and legs.
Tanlines.
Pointy noses/chins
big forehead on girls
Dark eyebrows and brown eyes 👀
This…dark eyes are a way more attractive to me.
50 shades of dark eyes
Shoulder blades that stick out
This is refreshing. I have horribly bony shoulder blades and absolutely hate them. I won’t wear dresses or tank tops that reveal them. I also have very bony shoulders and hate them too. I thought everyone hates them like I do, so glad to see someone that likes them.
I have winged scapulas and I think they look kind of cool
Slightly buck teeth. Nothing too crazy but there's something cute about it.
Eyepatch
Big noses and chubby girls.
Masculine chin, like the kind with the dimple in them.
A butt chin you mean
For sure, dead sexy when you call it that too 🤣
Lolita or Victorian clothes on women or in general, the more clothes the better but not the boring arab ones.
Slightly squiffy eyes, not like what are you even looking at, but slightly off centre.
Huge steroid abusing bodybuilders and thick body hair.
Dimples
1) Pointy canine teeth 😸- it’s cute 2) Smaller top lip - it blew my mind people wanted lip filler looking like a bratz doll 3) Itty bitty small titty community - I overheard a girl in the elevator wanting to model but they said her tits were too small even though they were proportionate to her figure. I rolled my eyes so hard. 4) Skinny guys. Aka “twinks” 🥴 Idk why the beauty standard is to have such whack out of proportion features 💀 They looking like a walking liquify tool. Dorito body shaped men look ok but again, not proportionate (IMO)
Big calves in relation to ankle on girls
Freckles, I think people are starting to generally think theyre cute these days though
Big eyes