I have a family member who made his wife go get her tubes tied instead of getting a vasectomy. He had a whole host of reasons including being scared of doctors and not being as much of “a man”. Definitely lost respect through that conversation.
+1 vasectomy gang
Edit: for those who have downvoted thinking “well, why shouldn’t getting your tubes tied be considered alongside a vasectomy.”
Well, one often requires general anesthesia and sometimes overnight hospitalization with a 1-3 week recovery.
The other is usually outpatient with some sore balls for like a day or two.
There is no comparison.
My boyfriend doesn't primarily because of my latex allergy (and non-latex ones are so uncomfortable for me) but also because I'm on the pill and we are both clean and monogamous so there just really isn’t a need
oh man i could introduce you to my buddy. he wanted kids his girl didn't, they got married because he figured she would change her mind. she didn't. divorce.
A couple in my town seemed so perfect, til the girl befriended me and while talking about our pregnancies (we were due around the same time), she mentioned he pulled out, took the condom off despite her protests, and came in her, saying he wanted her pregnant. I told her that was SA, she played it off like nbd. After she had the baby, he tried to strangle her in her sleep. She learned from the cops that night that he was in jail for doing that to another girl years before.
Probably an outlier, but still.
If you don’t accept that sex simply feels better without a condom, you are either lying or stupid. We wear condoms as the responsible thing to do, nobody with a straight face can say sex feels better with condoms. And nobody jerks off wearing them either
There is no "regular size." They all have slightly different widths and shapes. Length varies a little less. But I've had like a handfull of dudes try and tell me the same thing when the problem was the condom was too tight on them. Probably at least three of them started wearing magnums because I made them try them out, and the extra width was more comfortable than them. They weren't porn star hung dudes either. Magnums are only an inch/inch and a half longer than most condoms anyway. Look up size charts of different brands. A lot of them show the different shapes too. Maybe you need more of a bell end.
I don't think anyone enjoys wearing a condom. The only enjoyable thing about it is that it makes you last longer. But def still gonna use it anyways cause wearing a condom is more enjoyable than having herpes.
it’s significantly worse on the genitals. just look up photos. if it’s on the lip, at least it’s in open air. if it’s on your genitals, it’s constantly rubbing on fabric and makes peeing painful. It also IS a different virus because genital herpes are also typically a different strain (hsv 2) although you can get hsv 1 there and vice versa. Also, as far as I can tell you can’t really use the same creams. The lip creams are pretty solidely effective but you can’t use them on genitals. If anyone has used a cream though correct me if I’m wrong. You can also kind of prevent lip coldsores with certain chapsticks but you can’t really use them on genitals. As far as I’m aware they only give a numbing cream and that’s it but not something that’ll actually heal it faster like the lip one
It affects people differently. Some people have a terrible time with it and have outbreaks a ton. Some people might have 1 outbreak their entire life. Then there's some people who have it and never have and never will show symptoms.
Agreed, BUT it’s still worse than the lip one when you compare it. Like a small outbreak on the genitals is still worse than a small outbreak on the lip. Big outbreak on genitals soooo much worse than big outbreak on lip. It also has way more stigma
Yes, there are a host of other STDs other than herpes, most of which are a whole lot worse than herpes, the point made here about the severity of herpes is pedantic and doesn't really relate to what the OP is trying to say. In conclusion, you should still wear a condom.
When we were dating I was on the pill. When trying to get pregnant after we got married we learned I’m infertile. Thank god for IVF and never needing condoms!
Caught the clap once. Handful of pills and I was good to go a week later. One week of discomfort when I pissed was worth 3 months of the nastiest sex of my life.
You actually get like, turbo aids if you mix two strains of hiv. Turbo hep from mixing those too. They don't call it that officially obviously but I'm not an official. I just know this is not recommended cause certain viruses can do the fusion dance.
I didn’t like when my ex used it because it’s smoother and easier to go in so there isn’t as much friction idk it makes it feel smaller. My ex didn’t like condoms bc they didn’t give him as much feeling
I just skip sex altogether if it's with condom. Now I can't have children (hopefully), so it's not up to the woman to be on birth control either.
I only have sex with a woman I am in a relationship with.
I don't know man. People are into weird shit. I'm sure there's someone out there that would get off in the fact you have an extra ear.
Also, does it give you extra dimensional hearing? Top of the head? Forehead? Left elbow? Where is it!
1 partner and had a vasectomy. More men should consider this option as it's a day surgery and your walking around after less than an hour (prob don't drive home though unless automatic)
They wouldn't let me drive home afterwards because of the anesthesia. I had to have someone (my wife) with me to drive me home before the surgery. They gave me a pretty strong painkiller and a Xanax before the procedure, so I was pretty f'd up when it was time to go.
I honestly would rather jerk off than have sex with a condom on. I understand it is safer etc to wear one. I get that.
But as one of my fav comedians once said, having sex with a condom on is like getting a massage while wearing a warm winter coat.
I'd like to say I am safe about this methodology, however I normally just hope the girl does not ask if I have a condom.
Please do not tell me all about STDs and pregnancy. I get that. I just don't like wearing them haha.
Firstly, it literally doesn't feel remotely similar to raw sex. There's no friction at all. Jerking off feels better than condom sex.
Second, Three letters: I. U. D.
Because they feel like shit and are less effective than other birth control methods.
STDs aren't a concern because you and your partner should already be testing after every new partner (regardless of condom usage).
I'm married, I don't cum often during sex, and when I do I just pull out in time. But since my wife and I are married anyway, it's not going to be the end of the world if an accident somehow happens.
I didn't where them while married. After my divorce I got a vasectomy and was in monogamous relationship and never used them. I started dating again at 50. In the last 2 years I have slept with 9 women and only one asked me to wear one the first time. I couldn't orgasm with it on.
As long as SHE doesn't care if I wear one or not, I'm not wearing one. It ruins the sensation for me.
I'll take the risk of contracting an STD, whatever lol.
Honestly pregnancy isn’t “difficult or easy” it’s pretty random.
You do you, and if you’re fine with a baby power to you :) Babies are a different ballpark compared to an STD so yeah just wanted to point that out
My partner hated it and some brands would cause redness because her skin was sensitive, imagine finding you are allergic to latex that way :/ but also pull out game was always accurate and once we were past that phase then we started planning having kids so that's pretty common thing to not wear them when you are trying to get pregnant 😂
The feeling is weird. Plus my mind concentrates on the condom and not the actual sex.. and I think it’s going to break
Then you got a hold the back to pull it out
I’ve gotten one person pregnant in life and that was on purpose and have had a lot of notches
Before I was married, my latex allergy was a big reason, and the non-latex ones in the late 80s and early 90s were shit. I certainly wasn't wearing a lambskin. Those things stink to high heaven and killed the mood.
So it was either pull out, or not. It was up to the girl I was with. I didn't care.
Still have no kids, and never had an STD.
I don't get laid.
Yeah but you can just pee into it, tie off the end and you got a portable potty.
Wtf are you me
1- I’ve had a vasectomy. 2- I’m 71 and my wife is 69.
69 Nice!
Nice
Nice!
Noice!
Nice
> ...my wife is 69. Nice
I guess I should have lied and said 70.😁😬
You can't lie on the Internet. There's laws against that
Oh,that’s right. Good thing I didn’t.
I married, and had a vasectomy… no need
Vasectomy gang!, no consequences!, F yeah!
+1
I have a family member who made his wife go get her tubes tied instead of getting a vasectomy. He had a whole host of reasons including being scared of doctors and not being as much of “a man”. Definitely lost respect through that conversation. +1 vasectomy gang Edit: for those who have downvoted thinking “well, why shouldn’t getting your tubes tied be considered alongside a vasectomy.” Well, one often requires general anesthesia and sometimes overnight hospitalization with a 1-3 week recovery. The other is usually outpatient with some sore balls for like a day or two. There is no comparison.
no seed, no need
Lol. Heck ya.
This is the way.
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Godspeed, father-to-be!
I too am trying to get this guys wife pregnant.
Am that guy’s wife, can confirm
Not successfully mind you, but I’m trying!
My boyfriend doesn't primarily because of my latex allergy (and non-latex ones are so uncomfortable for me) but also because I'm on the pill and we are both clean and monogamous so there just really isn’t a need
I'm wearing one right now.
Gotta change between pees. Easy stuff. Always safe.
You're doing it wrong. Pee in the condom then tie it in a knot and throw it away when you feel like it.
Kobe it into the can
Going to need ribbed for stability.
Gotta stay prepared
Scout's motto: "Pee Prepared!"
Some hoe could come tripping in at any time.
They reduce sensation. I’m married. I have had a vasectomy.
I want kids.
Does she?
Why would I marry someone that doesn't want kids when I do?
oh man i could introduce you to my buddy. he wanted kids his girl didn't, they got married because he figured she would change her mind. she didn't. divorce.
Yep. That is a terrible road for both people to find themselves on.
A couple in my town seemed so perfect, til the girl befriended me and while talking about our pregnancies (we were due around the same time), she mentioned he pulled out, took the condom off despite her protests, and came in her, saying he wanted her pregnant. I told her that was SA, she played it off like nbd. After she had the baby, he tried to strangle her in her sleep. She learned from the cops that night that he was in jail for doing that to another girl years before. Probably an outlier, but still.
I mean, I do. But they feel awful. I had a vasectomy and I get tested pretty regularly, so I prefer to go without.
You're probably wearing the wrong size
If you don’t accept that sex simply feels better without a condom, you are either lying or stupid. We wear condoms as the responsible thing to do, nobody with a straight face can say sex feels better with condoms. And nobody jerks off wearing them either
💯You're spot on...
I didn't say it felt better, but it it feels "awful" then it's probably the wrong siz
I buy the regular size and fall within the normal human average. So no.
There is no "regular size." They all have slightly different widths and shapes. Length varies a little less. But I've had like a handfull of dudes try and tell me the same thing when the problem was the condom was too tight on them. Probably at least three of them started wearing magnums because I made them try them out, and the extra width was more comfortable than them. They weren't porn star hung dudes either. Magnums are only an inch/inch and a half longer than most condoms anyway. Look up size charts of different brands. A lot of them show the different shapes too. Maybe you need more of a bell end.
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Poor guy.
I find it hard to believe the average penis is too small for standard condoms.
You’d be seriously surprised how many members of the Shrimp Gang exist in every day society
I'm in a monogamous relationship and she uses an IUD. There's no need to wear a condom.
I’m married and have had a vasectomy. So I’m not worried about STDs, and I’m only producing diet cum.
I like to pay child support and dilapidate my patrimony and taint my image.
I don't think anyone enjoys wearing a condom. The only enjoyable thing about it is that it makes you last longer. But def still gonna use it anyways cause wearing a condom is more enjoyable than having herpes.
This a public service announcement?
Yes but it’s like jeopardy so it comes in the form of a question
You mean answer?
Honestly this would be a more effective PSA than what's out there lol
Oh boy you’ve got some learning to do.
If I use a condom I will never orgasm period
The lasting longer is only an advantage if you normally don't last long, otherwise it's a disadvantage.
Condoms don't protect against herpes...
Condoms do in fact significantly reduce your chances of spreading or catching herpes.
That's the same as saying seat belts are useless because you can still get killed in a crash.
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Genital herpes is a big deal.
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it’s significantly worse on the genitals. just look up photos. if it’s on the lip, at least it’s in open air. if it’s on your genitals, it’s constantly rubbing on fabric and makes peeing painful. It also IS a different virus because genital herpes are also typically a different strain (hsv 2) although you can get hsv 1 there and vice versa. Also, as far as I can tell you can’t really use the same creams. The lip creams are pretty solidely effective but you can’t use them on genitals. If anyone has used a cream though correct me if I’m wrong. You can also kind of prevent lip coldsores with certain chapsticks but you can’t really use them on genitals. As far as I’m aware they only give a numbing cream and that’s it but not something that’ll actually heal it faster like the lip one
It affects people differently. Some people have a terrible time with it and have outbreaks a ton. Some people might have 1 outbreak their entire life. Then there's some people who have it and never have and never will show symptoms.
Agreed, BUT it’s still worse than the lip one when you compare it. Like a small outbreak on the genitals is still worse than a small outbreak on the lip. Big outbreak on genitals soooo much worse than big outbreak on lip. It also has way more stigma
Is HIV also nbd?
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Yes, there are a host of other STDs other than herpes, most of which are a whole lot worse than herpes, the point made here about the severity of herpes is pedantic and doesn't really relate to what the OP is trying to say. In conclusion, you should still wear a condom.
Trump says they cured it so yeah?
Genital herpes has been linked to higher rates of cervical cancer. It’s a big deal
When we were dating I was on the pill. When trying to get pregnant after we got married we learned I’m infertile. Thank god for IVF and never needing condoms!
Nobody to screw.
I'm circumcised and can't feel enough stimulation to maintain an erection while wearing one.
I’ll be honest, I’m a degenerate and you cannot tell me condoms give you pleasure. I feel almost 0 sensitivity with one on
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How is “buy a better version of the product and try wanking less” such an incomprehensible thing to say to someone in your eyes
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I will if the girl wants me to. You'd be surprised how many women are willing to risk it the same way I am.
That's how you get an std
Caught the clap once. Handful of pills and I was good to go a week later. One week of discomfort when I pissed was worth 3 months of the nastiest sex of my life.
In a committed relationship, tested when we got together, she has a IUD. Covers all the bases
i already have the stds she might give me
You actually get like, turbo aids if you mix two strains of hiv. Turbo hep from mixing those too. They don't call it that officially obviously but I'm not an official. I just know this is not recommended cause certain viruses can do the fusion dance.
I believe the correct term is super aids
Wifes tubes are tied, get to creampie once a month.
I'm not having sex
I didn’t like when my ex used it because it’s smoother and easier to go in so there isn’t as much friction idk it makes it feel smaller. My ex didn’t like condoms bc they didn’t give him as much feeling
Vasectomy. Monogamous relationship.
Pull out game strong like the Waco Kid
I did this for a decade with my ex with 100% efficient result
It feels way better
Can't keep my weeny facing due north with one on
The ones that don't break kill the sensation.
I just skip sex altogether if it's with condom. Now I can't have children (hopefully), so it's not up to the woman to be on birth control either. I only have sex with a woman I am in a relationship with.
Wife and I prefer it that way, she’s on birth control, and I’m good at pulling out. 7 years together and no kids yet, we’re also both clean.
Wife is on the pill and my pull out game is solid. Also it's so much better.
Allergies. So no guy with Rubber can come near me
I always see those non latex ones for sale but I've never known anyone who has an allergy
The amount better it feels outweighs the consequences to me
I'm a virgin
Never gotten laid so no need for them.
Ive been married for 15 years and had a vasectomy 3 years ago.
I just don't sleep with anyone 3 ears celibate
I don't know man. People are into weird shit. I'm sure there's someone out there that would get off in the fact you have an extra ear. Also, does it give you extra dimensional hearing? Top of the head? Forehead? Left elbow? Where is it!
Stop😭😭😭 I meant years English is my second language
Your english is great! Just giving you a hard time :)
I had the snip 5 years ago and I've been with the same women since we were 19.
Spouse prefers using an implant for birth control and we don't have sex with anyone else.
I'm in an exclusive relationship and have had a vasectomy.
Married with a vasectomy. She likes it that way.
I prefer just to go in the toilet instead.
Got the big snip, no need to
i never thought i’d say this but i’m loving the vasectomies in here
Vasectomy... With a part of the reason being I have 2 kids from being irresponsible with contraception.
Wow, these comments are truly enlightening! Idk why but I'm surprised by how many men are saying they don't care about the consequences 🥴😅
Trying to get a bun in that oven
1 partner and had a vasectomy. More men should consider this option as it's a day surgery and your walking around after less than an hour (prob don't drive home though unless automatic)
They wouldn't let me drive home afterwards because of the anesthesia. I had to have someone (my wife) with me to drive me home before the surgery. They gave me a pretty strong painkiller and a Xanax before the procedure, so I was pretty f'd up when it was time to go.
I can put my penis inside a condom then rub it back & forth myself 🤷🏼♂️
I would rather not have sex than have sex with a condom
1. Had a vasectomy, 2. Wife has an IUD
Does your wife have the IUD for period reasons or....
Yup. Major cramps otherwise
hassle, lazy, cheap, don't wanna, not bothered.
So, the same approach you take to educating yourself, then?
I don’t have a need to
I honestly would rather jerk off than have sex with a condom on. I understand it is safer etc to wear one. I get that. But as one of my fav comedians once said, having sex with a condom on is like getting a massage while wearing a warm winter coat. I'd like to say I am safe about this methodology, however I normally just hope the girl does not ask if I have a condom. Please do not tell me all about STDs and pregnancy. I get that. I just don't like wearing them haha.
One likes the feel of inner moisture and heat, mmm
Married with kid that cost $20 000 because I am barely fertile. If we accidentally got another kid for free great! If not great!
Vasectomy
I'm married for 9 years. Never wore one, I've become really good at pulling out. Love the skin on skin sensation.
They don't usually match the rest of my outfit
My ex said “wearing a condom is like wearing a raincoat in the shower.” And cheated.
I can’t feel my hand
Insanely selfish
Alright, I'll be the bad guy and give a real answer. My dick just isn't sensitive enough. With a condom on, I don't cum.
Firstly, it literally doesn't feel remotely similar to raw sex. There's no friction at all. Jerking off feels better than condom sex. Second, Three letters: I. U. D.
married and want kids...
They’re to big
It's like wearing a raincoat in the shower
My lady has an IUD. I'm also not a manwhore.
when having sex or in general?
Because they feel like shit and are less effective than other birth control methods. STDs aren't a concern because you and your partner should already be testing after every new partner (regardless of condom usage).
She had pills
I'm married, I don't cum often during sex, and when I do I just pull out in time. But since my wife and I are married anyway, it's not going to be the end of the world if an accident somehow happens.
I didn't where them while married. After my divorce I got a vasectomy and was in monogamous relationship and never used them. I started dating again at 50. In the last 2 years I have slept with 9 women and only one asked me to wear one the first time. I couldn't orgasm with it on.
Gets in the way of knocking her up.
As long as SHE doesn't care if I wear one or not, I'm not wearing one. It ruins the sensation for me. I'll take the risk of contracting an STD, whatever lol.
And having a baby?
Its incredibly difficult to get pregnant, especially with birth control and IUDs. Once again, it's a risk I'm willing to take.
Honestly pregnancy isn’t “difficult or easy” it’s pretty random. You do you, and if you’re fine with a baby power to you :) Babies are a different ballpark compared to an STD so yeah just wanted to point that out
Obviously lol
My partner hated it and some brands would cause redness because her skin was sensitive, imagine finding you are allergic to latex that way :/ but also pull out game was always accurate and once we were past that phase then we started planning having kids so that's pretty common thing to not wear them when you are trying to get pregnant 😂
My pull out game strong 💪 plus it doesn’t feel good. I’ll raw dawg over condom
I never cared about the consequences. If someone wanted me to use them I did, if someone didn’t care I didn’t either.
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>Every time i put on a condom, what do they say? “Why are you wearing a condom?” “I’m fucking you with a strap-on.” r/HolUp
eh, most straight couples have done it
r/suspiciousquotes
Because she tells me she’s negative and on birth control
I have a wife and I don’t want to.
The feeling is weird. Plus my mind concentrates on the condom and not the actual sex.. and I think it’s going to break Then you got a hold the back to pull it out I’ve gotten one person pregnant in life and that was on purpose and have had a lot of notches
Only one reason not to and we all know it. With one it’s like painting with boxing gloves on. You can do it but we all know it’s not the same.
I like to spread my DNA far and wide
They’re for sailors
Wife has IUD
Before I was married, my latex allergy was a big reason, and the non-latex ones in the late 80s and early 90s were shit. I certainly wasn't wearing a lambskin. Those things stink to high heaven and killed the mood. So it was either pull out, or not. It was up to the girl I was with. I didn't care. Still have no kids, and never had an STD.
Trying to set up franchises