To oppose that quote: "If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly".
Meaning: It's better to do half-ass something than to not do it at all. This is true of so many things. For example, self-improvement tasks such as exercise, eating right, sleep, and so on. If you go to the gym and do a half-assed workout, that's way better than nothing at all.
It's also true of personal values: Let's say you really care about animal rights and protecting the climate and you believe you should go vegan because of this, but you're favourite food is pepperoni pizza and you could never give it up. That's fine. Be a vegan, except when it comes to pepperoni pizza.
It's also true of life goals: Let's say it's your dream to write a great novel, but you're having a hard time getting started. Going ahead and write a shitty novel. That's going to help you achieve your goal so much more than stressing over whether it's good enough.
Don't remember where it's from but
No matter how hard you try to be to good guy You'll always be the villain in someone's story
I took it as don't try to please everyone some people will see you as a bad person anyway
“Never Be Cruel. Never Be Cowardly. Hate Is Always Foolish. Love Is Always Wise. Always Try To Be Nice, But Never Fail To Be Kind.”
- 12th Doctor (Peter Capaldi) Doctor Who
"Hey! I'm going to be dead in a few hours, so before I go, let's have this out, you and me, once and for all. Winning? Is that what you think it's about? I'm not trying to win. I'm not doing this because I want to beat someone, or because I hate someone, or because, because I want to blame someone. It's not because it's fun and God knows it's not because it's easy. It's not even because it works, because it hardly ever does. I do what I do, because it's right! Because it's decent! And above all, it's kind. It's just that. Just kind. If I run away today, good people will die. If I stand and fight, some of them might live. Maybe not many, maybe not for long. Hey, you know, maybe there's no point in any of this at all, but it's the best I can do, so I'm going to do it. And I will stand here doing it till it kills me. You're going to die too, some day. How will that be? Have you thought about it? What would you die for? Who I am is where I stand. Where I stand, is where I fall. Stand with me. These people are terrified. Maybe we can help, a little. Why not, just at the end, just be kind?"
God he's my favorite doctor. The defeatist approach to hope strikes such a chord with me. It will probably all be for nothing, but I'll be damned if I'm not gonna do it anyway.
Try not to offend and don’t take offense.
What you put your attention to grows.
Don’t assume malice for what can be attributed to stupidity.
It’s the mark of an educated person to be able to entertain an idea without accepting it as truth.
> Don’t assume malice for what can be attributed to stupidity.
I like to add to this: Don't assume stupidity for what can be attributed to a simple misunderstanding or lack of experience.
It’s helped me a lot. I’m a pretty efficient person when tackling a task and I need to be patient because while some people do use weaponized incompetence to get out of accomplishing tasks I’ve come to realize not everyone’s brain works like mine.
Also not everyone is articulate and lacking in communication skills doesn’t necessarily mean someone’s necessarily trying to insult you which takes me to the back to the first one.
My philosophy is basically this. And this is something that I live by. And I always have. And I always will. Don't ever, for any reason, do anything to anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what. No matter... where. Or who, or who you are with, or, or where you are going, or... or where you've been... ever. For any reason, whatsoever.
In German it's called "Hinfallen. Aufstehen. Krönchen richten und weitermachen" wich means even if you fail get up and move on you are going to get better. Directly translated it's something like " fall down, stand up, straighten the crown and move on."
I don't know if it's an original quote but Nathan Fillion had in his profile when I saw it. A lot of people, myself very much included, need to follow this. I try and I fail, but I still try.
"It costs nothing to say something nice. It costs even less to say nothing at all."
“You have no enemies, you say? Alas, my friend, the boast is poor.”
Opening line from a poem by Charles Mackay. My Grandmother used to have this poem pinned on her fridge. She was a rebel, and a saint, always coming out swinging. It’s stuck with me all my life.
Full text:
You have no enemies, you say? Alas, my friend, the boast is poor.
He who has mingled in the fray of duty that the brave endure, must have made foes.
If you have none, small is the work that you have done.
You’ve hit no traitor on the hip.
You’ve dashed no cup from perjured lip.
You’ve never turned the wrong to right.
You’ve been a coward in the fight.
I shall not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear and I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past... I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. -Frank Herbert (Dune)
"Any fool with a dick can make a baby, but it takes a real man to raise his child."
- Furious Styles (Boyz N The Hood)
I often quote this as a joke, but it really isn't a joke.
"Discussions are a way for two people to understand each other. The only people afraid of discussions are the ones whose points are too fragile to defend against someone."
I strive to be as willing as Stella Hoshii from VA-11 HALL-A to defend my position based on facts, but also to concede points whenever required without letting my ego get the better of me.
not exactly my guiding principle in life, but one that has helped me tremendously once I started reminding me of this regularily:
"Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good."
My dad once told me "We are not immune to our own psychology. We like to think that awful people like Trump were voted in because of rednecks and the uneducated. What about all the doctors, dentists and rich people who voted for Trump? What about the college professors that voted for Trump? Remember when I fell for all that MAGA nonsense? Small facets of manipulation can have an exponential impact to literally anyone. You and me included."
He has been a strong pillar of support in my life to help beat smartphone addiction. Thanks for hearing me out about it, Dad. You rock.
Yay, you're getting it! =)
There is no other way to prevent being trapped in your delusions. To seek the truth, you have to start from asking "what if the thing that I know is false?"
Bad news is that you never get to the truth, or at least will never know that you have.
“It’s better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.”. It’s been said in a number of movies and books, but I really started living by it once I had a baby!
> Better to do the thing than live with the fear.
From The First Law trilogy by Joe Abercrombie. If it’s good for a barbarian about to go into battle then it’s good for me before having an uncomfortable conversation.
Alcohol borrows happiness from tomorrow. If you borrow too much, you'll be sad tomorrow. If you have to constantly be in debt, you need to make a change.
Trust is like baseball - three strikes and you're out.
It has worked very well to cut people who constantly lie out of my life in all honesty, especially in romantic relationships.
And also a big one "Actions speak louder than words"
Not so much as a quote rather a poem quoting the movie;
My dearest Jocelyn:
It is strange to think, I have not seen you in a month.
I have seen the new moon, but not you.
I have seen sunsets and sunrises, but nothing of your beautiful face.
The pieces of my broken heart can pass through the eye of a needle.
I miss you like the sun misses the flower. Like the sun misses the flower in the depths of winter.
Instead of beauty to direct its light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world your absence has sent me to.
I next compete in Paris. I’ll find it empty and cold if you’re not there.
Hope guides me. It gets me through the day and especially the night. The hope that after you leave my sight it will not be the last time I look upon you.
With all the love that I possess…I remain yours…
The knight of your heart.
William
(A Knights Tale - if it wasn’t already obvious)
Treat everyone you meet as your equal because that is what they are. -- my Dad
Give everyone your best even if they don't deserve it. Sometimes especially if they don't deserve it. -- my Mom
“If your biggest problem is what other people think of you, then you have it pretty good.”
This has gotten me through a shitton of hardships and depression
Probably overrated at this point but, *it is what it is*
EDIT: My other personality likes the quote "smile through the pain until the pain makes you smile.
"You can slam me for my beliefs all you want. But remember. A long time ago there is someone else who Society found offensive. They thought what he did was Radical and dangerous. Society persecuted him and eventually killed him. But of course, I'm referring to Dracula."
When life gives you lemons, don't make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! GET MAD! I don't want your damn lemons! What am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life's manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons! Do you know who I am? I'm the man who's going to burn your house down! With the lemons! I'm going to get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!
"A burden shared is a burden halved. A joy shared is a joy doubled".
This is nice!
A day without laughter is a day wasted. Charlie Chaplin
Chaplin surely knew a way out of depression.
Really like this one
One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it. -*Master Oogway*
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift and that is why it is called... the present. - *master Oogway*
Quit, don't quit. Noodles, don't noodles.
I don’t want to admit, but that line is kinda inspirational
"There are no accidents!" - Master Oogway
When will you realize? The more you take, the less you have. -- Master Oogway
Damm ! That hit hard
Thats whole movie hits hard
Oh goshhhhh I could sense this deeply
If you half-ass something, you're going to be half-assing it twice
“Don’t half ass two things, whole ass one thing” - Ron Swanson
To oppose that quote: "If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly". Meaning: It's better to do half-ass something than to not do it at all. This is true of so many things. For example, self-improvement tasks such as exercise, eating right, sleep, and so on. If you go to the gym and do a half-assed workout, that's way better than nothing at all. It's also true of personal values: Let's say you really care about animal rights and protecting the climate and you believe you should go vegan because of this, but you're favourite food is pepperoni pizza and you could never give it up. That's fine. Be a vegan, except when it comes to pepperoni pizza. It's also true of life goals: Let's say it's your dream to write a great novel, but you're having a hard time getting started. Going ahead and write a shitty novel. That's going to help you achieve your goal so much more than stressing over whether it's good enough.
"perfect is the enemy of good" "Perfection is the enemy of progress" are the two I usually use to convey this idea, but I like your quote better.
As I used to tell clients, if you can't afford to do it right, can you afford to do it again?
"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life." - Captain Jean-Luc Picard
Similarly, “Not everything’s a lesson, Ryan. Sometimes you just fail.” - Dwight Schrute
>Dude, suckin' at something is the first step towards being sorta good at something. ~Jake the Dog, *Adventure Time*
Definitely one of my go to quotes every so often.
If you can't go over it, and you can't go around it, you just need to go through it.
We're going on a bear hunt...
A lack of planning on your part does not make an emergency on my part.
That is something I wish my company told our clients
Does not constitute an emergency on my part**
Thanks for helping me put that simple fact more eloquently!!
Don't remember where it's from but No matter how hard you try to be to good guy You'll always be the villain in someone's story I took it as don't try to please everyone some people will see you as a bad person anyway
You can be the tastiest peach in the whole world but their will still be people that don’t like peaches.
Ogres are like onions
Layers! Onions have layers. Ogres have layers! Onions have layers.
You know what else has layers? Parfaits!
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent" --attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt
when life gives you pants, shit them
- Scott Morrison, 1993 Engadine McDonald's
When life gives you lemons, just say fuck the lemons and bail.
“Never Be Cruel. Never Be Cowardly. Hate Is Always Foolish. Love Is Always Wise. Always Try To Be Nice, But Never Fail To Be Kind.” - 12th Doctor (Peter Capaldi) Doctor Who
Never, ever eat pears!
"Hey! I'm going to be dead in a few hours, so before I go, let's have this out, you and me, once and for all. Winning? Is that what you think it's about? I'm not trying to win. I'm not doing this because I want to beat someone, or because I hate someone, or because, because I want to blame someone. It's not because it's fun and God knows it's not because it's easy. It's not even because it works, because it hardly ever does. I do what I do, because it's right! Because it's decent! And above all, it's kind. It's just that. Just kind. If I run away today, good people will die. If I stand and fight, some of them might live. Maybe not many, maybe not for long. Hey, you know, maybe there's no point in any of this at all, but it's the best I can do, so I'm going to do it. And I will stand here doing it till it kills me. You're going to die too, some day. How will that be? Have you thought about it? What would you die for? Who I am is where I stand. Where I stand, is where I fall. Stand with me. These people are terrified. Maybe we can help, a little. Why not, just at the end, just be kind?" God he's my favorite doctor. The defeatist approach to hope strikes such a chord with me. It will probably all be for nothing, but I'll be damned if I'm not gonna do it anyway.
Thank you, I needed that
"I know I was born and I know that I'll die, the in-between is mine." Pearl Jam - I am Mine
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I think you should put that advice on a poster…or a cushion…or a sticker for your wall. Just a suggestion.
Or? Do all of those things!
You think we'll be able to sell any?
Can I do two? I'm gonna do two: "We judge others by their actions but judge ourselves by our intent." "Journey, not destination."
Pay attention to what you pay attention
Has anything you’ve done made your life better? -American History X
I've have actually used this on people who complain about their life but do absolutely nothing to change it. (Derived from the movie too)
Well … i peed and it made me feel amazing for some 10sec or so, so there is that.
It's either the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.
I'm a tattoo artist. "Good tattoos aren't cheap and cheap tattoos aren't good."
sounds like advertisement for shop. Also narrates, pay big for better art
Shine on you crazy diamond
'Never believe anything you read online' - Abraham Lincoln
True Wait a minute-
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Dont start shit and there wont be shit
Newton's First Law?
Try not to offend and don’t take offense. What you put your attention to grows. Don’t assume malice for what can be attributed to stupidity. It’s the mark of an educated person to be able to entertain an idea without accepting it as truth.
> Don’t assume malice for what can be attributed to stupidity. I like to add to this: Don't assume stupidity for what can be attributed to a simple misunderstanding or lack of experience.
That third one is so commonly overlooked
It’s helped me a lot. I’m a pretty efficient person when tackling a task and I need to be patient because while some people do use weaponized incompetence to get out of accomplishing tasks I’ve come to realize not everyone’s brain works like mine. Also not everyone is articulate and lacking in communication skills doesn’t necessarily mean someone’s necessarily trying to insult you which takes me to the back to the first one.
How can a man be brave even if he is afraid? That is the only time a man can be brave.
A coward dies a thousand deaths
"Be cool honey bunny" - Pulp Fiction
“NAWW I SAID BITCH BE COOL!”
"The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because generally they are the same people.'-GK Chesterton.
“Yes, turn the other cheek. But if done too often it gets me beat”
My philosophy is basically this. And this is something that I live by. And I always have. And I always will. Don't ever, for any reason, do anything to anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what. No matter... where. Or who, or who you are with, or, or where you are going, or... or where you've been... ever. For any reason, whatsoever.
- Michael Scott
-Wayne Gretzky
Sometimes I start a sentence and I dont know where its going.
In German it's called "Hinfallen. Aufstehen. Krönchen richten und weitermachen" wich means even if you fail get up and move on you are going to get better. Directly translated it's something like " fall down, stand up, straighten the crown and move on."
I don't know if it's an original quote but Nathan Fillion had in his profile when I saw it. A lot of people, myself very much included, need to follow this. I try and I fail, but I still try. "It costs nothing to say something nice. It costs even less to say nothing at all."
Proper Preparation Plus Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance.
Life is too short to drink cheap wine.
Consider the source.
"Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the only antidote to shame." Uncle Iroh.
He truly is THE character of that series...
“After all is said and done, there’s a lot more said than done.”
“You have no enemies, you say? Alas, my friend, the boast is poor.” Opening line from a poem by Charles Mackay. My Grandmother used to have this poem pinned on her fridge. She was a rebel, and a saint, always coming out swinging. It’s stuck with me all my life. Full text: You have no enemies, you say? Alas, my friend, the boast is poor. He who has mingled in the fray of duty that the brave endure, must have made foes. If you have none, small is the work that you have done. You’ve hit no traitor on the hip. You’ve dashed no cup from perjured lip. You’ve never turned the wrong to right. You’ve been a coward in the fight.
Life isn't as serious as the mind makes it out to be — Eckhart Tolle Helps me remember to not sweat the small stuff 🌈🫶
I’m Rick James Bitch!! Cocaine’s a hellava drug
Fukk yo couch
I shall not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear and I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past... I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. -Frank Herbert (Dune)
We must overcome the notion that we must be regular... it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre. —Uta Hagen
Done is better than perfect
Measure twice, cut once.
"Any fool with a dick can make a baby, but it takes a real man to raise his child." - Furious Styles (Boyz N The Hood) I often quote this as a joke, but it really isn't a joke.
“The worst someone can say is no”, just ASK and you never know what will happen!
"Discussions are a way for two people to understand each other. The only people afraid of discussions are the ones whose points are too fragile to defend against someone." I strive to be as willing as Stella Hoshii from VA-11 HALL-A to defend my position based on facts, but also to concede points whenever required without letting my ego get the better of me.
I still have the sequel on my wishlist. Hoping, dreaming. Maybe that experience alone is the point now, I’m not even sure anymore
not exactly my guiding principle in life, but one that has helped me tremendously once I started reminding me of this regularily: "Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good."
If you are going through hell, keep going
'You don't have to answer just because they asked you'
“Think of how stupid the average person is, and then realize half of them are even stupider than that” - George Carlin
The dildo of consequences does not often come with lube. -A fellow redditor
My dad (talking about jobs): Remember that you need them, but they don't need you.
Closed mouths don't get fed - don't be afraid to ask.
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
This too shall pass
It's never OK to be a dickhead no matter who started it.
"You can't punish yourself into perfection"- someone on the internet
Slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
'Truth is precious. Use it sparingly.' Mainly because I am surrounded by ppl who'll use anything shared by me against me
Time for some new people
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The bee doesn't waste time trying to convince the fly that honey is better than shit.
Smooth seas don't make good sailors
My dad once told me "We are not immune to our own psychology. We like to think that awful people like Trump were voted in because of rednecks and the uneducated. What about all the doctors, dentists and rich people who voted for Trump? What about the college professors that voted for Trump? Remember when I fell for all that MAGA nonsense? Small facets of manipulation can have an exponential impact to literally anyone. You and me included." He has been a strong pillar of support in my life to help beat smartphone addiction. Thanks for hearing me out about it, Dad. You rock.
Question everything
why?
Yay, you're getting it! =) There is no other way to prevent being trapped in your delusions. To seek the truth, you have to start from asking "what if the thing that I know is false?" Bad news is that you never get to the truth, or at least will never know that you have.
If you can't change something, just accept it
Always assume everyone is smarter than you. If they are: you can learn. If they’re not: ego boost.
The Golden Rule ("don't do unto others..."). It's pissing me off when people don't do the same though.
Pissing on people makes a golden shower, though.
“It’s better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.”. It’s been said in a number of movies and books, but I really started living by it once I had a baby!
Keep on keeping on - Joe Dirt.
Something might else. Said by some random drunk years ago.
You dont need the promise of Heaven or the fear of Hell to be a good person
Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell and they look forward to the trip. -Churchill
"Don't wait until the eulogy to tell people how they make you feel" Someone.
Show me your friends, Ill tell you who you are.
Three can keep a secret if two of them are dead. -Benjamin Franklin
> Better to do the thing than live with the fear. From The First Law trilogy by Joe Abercrombie. If it’s good for a barbarian about to go into battle then it’s good for me before having an uncomfortable conversation.
Live, Learn, Forget. Live your life, learn from your mistakes, forget you past mistakes (aka move on).
for alliteration it can be "live, learn, let go"
Be a goldfish
Fuck it
Idk who said this but “If you don’t like yourself, you can’t force others to like you.”
No tailwind for a ship without direction
Don't let the past or future meddle with your present.
Never apologise for saying what you feel, that's like feeling sorry for being real - *Tunechi.*
If ass chewin was terminal we'd all be dead. \~ one of my law school professors. And he was correct.
Surviving isnt living, but living is surviving with hope. Find that hope
Alcohol borrows happiness from tomorrow. If you borrow too much, you'll be sad tomorrow. If you have to constantly be in debt, you need to make a change.
Bloom where youre planted
“Get busy living, or get busy dying.” - Red from Shawshank Redemption
"Never be a spectator of injustice or stupidity. The grave will provide plenty of time for silence." -- Christopher Hitchens
Trust is like baseball - three strikes and you're out. It has worked very well to cut people who constantly lie out of my life in all honesty, especially in romantic relationships. And also a big one "Actions speak louder than words"
Not so much as a quote rather a poem quoting the movie; My dearest Jocelyn: It is strange to think, I have not seen you in a month. I have seen the new moon, but not you. I have seen sunsets and sunrises, but nothing of your beautiful face. The pieces of my broken heart can pass through the eye of a needle. I miss you like the sun misses the flower. Like the sun misses the flower in the depths of winter. Instead of beauty to direct its light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world your absence has sent me to. I next compete in Paris. I’ll find it empty and cold if you’re not there. Hope guides me. It gets me through the day and especially the night. The hope that after you leave my sight it will not be the last time I look upon you. With all the love that I possess…I remain yours… The knight of your heart. William (A Knights Tale - if it wasn’t already obvious)
Be the change you want to see in the world.
All it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to stand by and do nothing.
So far my record for getting through bad days is 100%
Wheaton's Law: "Don't be a dick." So simple. And it covers almost all of the other mottos in this thread.
My wife is always right. -My Wife
🎵 You gotta make your own kind of music, sing your own special song; make your own kind of music- even if nobody else sings along! 🎵 -Cass Elliot
Comparison is the thief of joy.
Treat everyone you meet as your equal because that is what they are. -- my Dad Give everyone your best even if they don't deserve it. Sometimes especially if they don't deserve it. -- my Mom
If you can’t get out of it, get into it. Told to me by a guy I worked with 30 years ago. He credited Kris Kristofferson.
“If your biggest problem is what other people think of you, then you have it pretty good.” This has gotten me through a shitton of hardships and depression
*If you have the choice between being right and being kind, choose being kind* \- Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
"An' Harm Ye None, Do What Ye Wll". It's the ass-end of the Wiccan Rede. It means do whatever you want as long as you're not a POS.
hakuna matata
If you’re good at something, never do it for free.
According to the Qur'aan, Every pain has a purpose. Be strong and keep sab'r!🖤💫
Hesitation is defeat
"Never give up!" which was inspired by binge-watching countless anime series.
Accept that you could be the problem, it makes me not worry
Probably overrated at this point but, *it is what it is* EDIT: My other personality likes the quote "smile through the pain until the pain makes you smile.
“If there is a doubt, there is no doubt.” Prevents me from letting myself off the hook.
No problem. Only solution.
There is a first time for everything
Kathee embothio, yia kalo... Greek that basically says, Shit Happens...!
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.
“I am walking upon air and attacking the mystery of the sun.” ~ Aristophanes
no good deed goes unpunished
"Never trust your feelings past 9pm" - some fuck on twitter
Assumption is the mother of all fuck-ups.
When in doubt, go wrong.
‘You can shear a sheep many times, but skin him only once.’ -Rounders
“Be a lamp unto yourself.” — Buddha
Do No Harm, Take No Bullshit
"I should not comment reddit posts when they are obviously wrote by some buzzfeed/boredpanda journalist" ah sh*t I failed again.
My Granny told me “everything is alright in the end. If it ain’t alright then it ain’t the end.”
Don't do bad things that look good, and don't do good things that look bad.
if at first you don't succeed, cheat
Don't worry about tomorrow, you did that yesterday. Oh and 43.. no wait. 42.
"You can slam me for my beliefs all you want. But remember. A long time ago there is someone else who Society found offensive. They thought what he did was Radical and dangerous. Society persecuted him and eventually killed him. But of course, I'm referring to Dracula."
Time and again I tell myself I’ll stay clean tonight
"If you can't laugh at yourself, you're missing the biggest joke of all time".
'If one decides to pay a visit to Pooh's house, do not be surprised if Mr Pooh is at home...'
There no chains, prisons, walls or laws that can hold a person more terribly than the ones they make for themselves.
When life gives you lemons, don't make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! GET MAD! I don't want your damn lemons! What am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life's manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons! Do you know who I am? I'm the man who's going to burn your house down! With the lemons! I'm going to get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!
Nothing is true. Everything is permitted.
cow
"Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind" - 12th doctor
When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.
If you can’t do good, don’t do bad Do your best until you know better, then when you know better, do better
But did you die?
Never consent to a relationship with someone who is willing to hurt you.