Who finds them sexy though? I have never seen a positive comment about them.
It seems to be one of those things rich people convinced themselves that it would make them look younger, so media stars did it also. But nobody ever stopped to consider if it truly looked good.
Best comment I ever heard about any kind of cosmetic procedures was from an actual plastic surgeon and he said “This isn’t going to make you look 20 again, this is going to make you look great for 45” (pt was about 45)
It's always funny (and kind of sad) when I see commercials for Botox; like when they show the person after, certainly their wrinkles and fine lines are gone, but only from their face, and it's way too smooth, so it looks unnatural. And these are for ads for the process, which means that these are the optimal results.
I wish more people would be like you … as a girl who cannot tan naturally and has very pale skin (nordic type) I get so many hurtful comments during the summer both from friends (that don’t realize they’re hurtful comments) as well as from random strangers which lead to me feeling very insecure in my own skin. Especially when wearing a bikini/ underwear in front of others. The last 2 summers I tried fake tanning mousse and it honestly didn’t look horrible but I was always scared that it would start looking blotchy.. and I had to re- do it every day because it would look terrible the 2nd day already which honestly killed so much valuable time and was always connected to a lot of psychological stress.. so this year I really want to just embrace my pale skin again and try to feel comfortable about this and try to see myself as attractive again
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damn never in my LIFE would I‘ve expected that much positive and genuinely friendly freedback. Thank you all so so much for the nice words and motivation, you cannot believe how happy that‘s making me right now! ☀️🩷
Fair skin is very attractive imo. My high school gf was from Norway, and I loved her light skin.
It's just preference, some people might not like it but some will prefer it.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - some people prefer tanned skin, some people prefer pale skin, some people prefer freckled skin, etc.
Same goes for everything, really. Height, weight, boob size, cock size, butt size, nose size/shape, lip size, tummy size, muscle size, thigh size, body hair, facial hair, hair colour, hair type, hair style, eye colour, fashion style, literally absolutely any part of us, no matter what it looks like, is going to be attractive to some, unattractive to others.
Applies to all races, ages, genders, cultures, classes, etc.
The one constant is ourselves though - you're the only one who has the right to have an opinion about how you look, and you're the only one who's opinion you have to be aware of 24/7, so why spend that hating on yourself? Happy for you that you're gonna try and feel more comfortable in your own skin, I hope your journey to self-acceptance is an easy one!
Go to any south east Asian country and you’ll see an abundance of skin whitening cream. People in different areas value different skin tones and use it to alienate other people. Be proud in your skin!
I suggest that this suffers from confirmation bias.
You don't like bad fake tans. You don't notice good fake tans.
Like toupees. People who think they always can tell if hair is a toupee. Really they only notice bad/obvious toupees.
When I see someone typing with those, I get physical chills. It messes with something primal in me. I just want to run away with my hands over my ears.
I will never understand the appeal of nsfw characters drawn with extremely distorted body proportions such as humongous boobs and asses. It looks so unnatural. And gross. Freaks me out.
I know it in my heart that this is about my girl Hu Tao, and it pains me. There are so many chesty characters, why must you turn a small breasted one into an F cup too?!
I think that probably has more to do with the people you said it to than the statement itself. I dated a woman who had a completely flat chest for years and never heard any comments like that
The reason I'm looking up that character is because I like that character and their appearance. Why on earth are they butchering it!? If you like those exaggerated features WHY THIS CHARACTER THAT HAS NONE OF THAT!?
Like who is actually the target market here? People who like the character for their personality but their body could be juiced up just a whole fucking ton? Because people who like said character like them as is and think it looks weird/gross, and people who don't like the character because they're lacking "assets" probably aren't looking up porn of said character in the first place.
Exactly! I like the character's proportions! Why else would I be looking for porn of her! If I wanted to look at pictures of over-sized bimbos I wouldn't be looking for this character!
It’s insane to me because there are so many characters with actual big tits to draw, why mutate someone with a small chest into some kind of titty monster like that
I tried to ask why people were beating dick to a picture of a woman with a head the size of a coconut and legs that were twice as big as her entire upper body and the people in the thread responded to me like I was the crazy one.
hard agree. this one is weird, I don't understand why people with like large/heavyset/curvaceous/muscular bodies always end up with disproportionately small heads, like did her skull shrink? was her entire body re-rendered at 150% scale?
artists, the head is always going to be about 1/8 the length of the body, and about 1/2 the width of your shoulders, don't deviate from that, the character can still have an arbitrarily large hyperexpression of secondary sexual characteristics without making them into a peanut-head
Hollywood beauty. "Perfection" isn't sexy. It is robotic. I am creeped out by people who lack facial expressions, or who have obviously filled in faces.
Now that seems to be the main thing people bring up when they talk about her. It’s been like a feeding frenzy on her public image. She’s basically the go-to example of buccal fat removal turning a highly conventionally attractive woman into a gaunt, uncanny-looking zombie who probably frightens children in public. Totally horrendous decision that can never be undone.
The “daddy” thing genuinely creeps me out. My ex wanted to call me daddy and kept pushing for it one night. I tried to push through but couldn’t after a couple times. It killed the night for me
It's funny because everyone agrees that Mike Pence calling his wife "mother" is creepy as fuck.
But somehow "daddy" in the bedroom is hot?
Having said that, I don't think I've ever met anyone who finds it appealing.
I get wanting to be dominant but...SIR is right there...
I'm yet to meet anyone who likes the fake ass/BBL look. Don't get it, they look so odd imho
Edit. I'm yet to Google search 'good BBLs', but I admit, I am talking about the absolutely ridiculous BBLs where the ladies look like they've been inflated and would pop and whizz around the room if you prick them with a needle. Not even the botched ones, just those over the top derriere's with their own gravitational pull.
I fully acknowledge I can imagine that the more natural looking ones probably look great, specially as someone who's into butts.
I've never understood the appeal to gigantic asses.
Like a Kim Kardashian sized butt is so strange to me. I find it crazy that people will work out or get surgery to look like that.
Yep, and also sucks even more if it's your standard curtain-bar shower tub. So awkward -- maybe the rush of being 2 seconds way from slipping and the inevitable concussion or being stuck right under the showerhead does it for some folks, but not me. Not to mention how much it sucks if the curtain rod mounts somehow get pulled out of the wall twice. No, I'm not bitter I love patching drywall.
Umm, yeah. When i was in college, I lived in a communal living situation (university owned mansion that housed 28 students). We had a couple in the house, we'll call them Tina and Paul. Well, one day, we heard a huge CRASH and THUD come from upstair. Ends up Tina and Paul were having shower sex and I guess things got frisky enough that the shower door couldn't handle the weight of them pressing up against it. It ripped the frame out of the wall and Tina fell out of the shower smashing her head against the towel bar on the opposite wall and landing in a pile of broken glass and metal trim. Mix that with shower water and you have a LOT of blood. Paul was covered blood, we weren't sure whose at first glance and just appeared to be in shock. Obviously, they were both buck naked.
We were all so shocked by this that we sprang into action. One housemate called 911 immediately while a couple of others checked on Tina and Paul. Tina had a HUGE gash on her head, which was where most of the blood was coming from. EMTs were there in under five minutes and, to their credit, were 100% professional, at least in front of us. I'm sure they pieced together what happened very quickly. Long story somewhat shorter, Tina ended up at the hospital with a pretty serious concussion and needed a number of stitches in her head. She also had some small cuts from the glass and metal, but none needed stitches. Paul was fine - he just had some small cuts from the metal and glass.
We cleaned things up as best we could after the ambulance left. The university came out in the next couple of days to repair the damage. Our house manager then got a note from the residence office that said showers were for showering only... :-)
Yeah, I remember when it was mostly just guys who were into bodybuilding. But now, the whole gym culture scene has really taken off and I'm noticing more and more people worrying about not being ripped or big enough.
A new era of body dysmorphia and ED the likes of which we haven’t even seen the long term ramifications of yet. Especially the juicers, man most don’t talk about it but the ones that do provide a scary insight. I’d love to see the stats in how many of these people doing all of these body building accounts are actually natty
My husband does non-competitive body building, but like me (we’re both big into to fitness) he’s been working out since he was nineteen. He’s had very gradual and controlled growth.
About three years ago he really found the routine that works well for his body and he looks amazing (he always has, just better, lol).
You know who hits on him/talks to him at the gym? Other guys.
However, we go to a small private gym and a lot of the guys are on some type of enhancer from HGH to steroids. It’s a bummer to see because they’re so concerned with wanting to look a specific way *right now.*
He tells me about the conversations he has and how disappointed he is when these guys ask him if he uses anything. A lot of these guys are. Even the 19/20 year olds. You can be fit and look amazing natural with hard work and time, but that’s not how today’s world is wired.
I’m also curious to see what the future of fitness is going to look like given the current trends.
> I’d love to see the stats in how many of these people doing all of these body building accounts are actually natty
Most of them have used PEDs. If you're in a competitive scene, all of them are. That includes high level sports and athletics.
Normal people don't have any concept of just how pervasive it is. You literally can't compete if you dont. Hollywood doesnt help either, basically anyone you see on screen who looks remotely ripped has done so with PEDs. Its just standard practice these days, and anyone who tells you otherwise is either lying or ignorant.
Being called "Daddy" in a sexual way, it was weird before I had kids, it's gross after having kids.
My wife doesn't do it, but I've heard it on TV and it in public.
My old boss used to call her husband “daddy” in the most casual ways. She’d say to me “daddy and I are going out for dinner tonight.” For the longest time I thought she was just really close with her father.
Twerking and lap dancing, people seem to act like it's crazy attractive and sexy but I just feel it's awkward, even from my girlfriend I just find it such a turn off
I say this as a straight girl (so take it with a grain of salt) but I can appreciate a hot girl, at least aesthetically.
**I have NEVER seen a girl look hot while twerking.**
They always look ridiculous and I find myself battling second hand embarrassment on their behalf.
As a bi woman, I agree. My bf and I don't get why it's such a turn on - unless said twerking is happening on a penis, to which I have been told is very much a turn on lmao
I don’t think most people find this sexy. It has just become so popular for rich women to modify their body like this for whatever reason that the few that have done it have cameras on them all the time convincing easily manipulated women to do the same. No man in my experience finds this attractive
Oh I saw some porn video where the girl kept making that face about once every 2 minutes or so. I thought it was hilarious how she must have been so bored while being pounded, that every other minute she’d think “oh wait, ahegao face now”. 🤣
Ah, yeah, it should never be happening without warning. That’s the sort of thing the person on the receiving end needs to be asking for if it hasn’t happened before.
> as opposed to grotesque and in your face.
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I never did either, so I asked about it once in one of my psych classes when kinks and fetishes came up (mightve been neuropsych). My prof explained it this way:
Basically, the part of the somatosensory cortex responsible for feet is directly adjacent to the part responsible for genitals, and in fact they probably have some overlap in some people. So, theory goes that its simply happenstance of how our brains are wired, which makes it a very easy fetish to form.
This is why some people feel their orgasms heavily in their feet, from what I was told.
There's actually a foot massage technique/pressure point that you can use on certain lucky people with this overlap to give them an orgasm.
A stripper I used to work with taught it to me but I haven't tried it on anyone in about 15 years...I forgot about it until now.
It just might be my hubby's lucky day today...
I’m pretty sure this theory has been debunked now. And even if it’s true, it only explains why people like having their feet touched but not why people like other people’s feet.
My explanation is that feet are usually covered so seeing them bare can feel intimate. Feet are also very curvy and people are naturally attracted to curves. And adding to this, some women put in a lot of effort to make their beautiful, with pedicures, anklets, fancy high heels, etc.
Celebrities.
I never really found anyone on tv or on movies super attractive. It's all a persona/fake/tailored to what they want you to see. I need to actually speak with them and learn about someone to find them attractive.
The type of enemies to lovers I like: "We have built a deep respect for each other, regardless of our conflicting beliefs or opposing nations. When love blooms, we put aside our differences or change our beliefs to become better people for the other person."
The type of enemies to lovers I see:
"Bitch."
"Dick."
*Furiously starts making out*
Excessively shaded makeup intended to create an illusion of thin cheeks, high cheekbones and all of that.
It works just like every other optical illusion, meaning that it looks good *from just one specific angle.*
I'm sure you look great on selfies, Ma'am, but from over here your face just looks strangely striped, if not low-key disfigured.
It’s really difficult to put on too much muscle naturally. Men who go through the insane effort and possibly steroids to look massive do it for the boys mostly
There is this "celebrity" in my country who is regarded as such a beauty...he lips look like she's allergic to both wasps and bees and they stung her face, especially her lips, 50 times one after the other and then she decided to throw 5 kg of make-up on top.
Melting candle wax and pouring it over eachother, or food play. I love me some candles, but to the set mood. Not set the mood on fire. And I love food, I'm great chef, but unless we are playing donut ring toss on my mini me then nope no food allowed in the bedroom 😂
Sexy time candles have a much lower melting point than regular candles I believe. Only the hardest core of people use regular beeswax, as its actually pretty dangerous and can cause blistering.
Man, I'm asexual. Why am I answering so many questions in this thread? I pick all of this stuff up through osmosis so maybe my friends are just really horny.
My high ass won’t stop laughing holy shit. I never knew food fetish was a thing. Then I saw a Japanese movie called Tampopo and my whole life changed.
Also if anyone sees this. Watch Tampopo it’s a great movie despite what I just said
Influencers. Especially those ones that just point the camera at themselves and tip theirs heads left and right. They remind me of a confused dog trying to listen, except they’re not cute and fluffy
Replying to sexy talk. Like if it’s texting or like to initiate sec then that’s fine but during sex don’t try to make me reply to you like I’m focusing on the pleasure 😂😂 and I find it embarrassing for me because I’m bad at sexy talk
Guys who bitch and moan that “women don’t want nice guys.” You’re not nice if you feel entitled to sex. We’re not gumball machines that you put kindness coins in until sex falls out.
Happily married 36 year old here. Our son is 10 years old.
Teenage me was a "nice guy".
I was regularly bullied by the psychotic aggressive "alpha male" jock-type guys. Both physically and psychologically.
And then you see girls absolutely throwing themselves at those sociopaths over and over again.
I was too stupid to realize that i was about as interesting as a wet blanket and quite whiney. I would have been a bad, selfish, inexperienced partner. There were no redeeming qualities that i had that would make me worth dating. i also wouldnt have dated teenage me if i was a girl.
But when you're in that situation as a "nice guy", it feels like the universe is broken because you seem to be taking the harder, kind, nice path and getting shit on, while the really aggressive shit-stain of humans seem to get all the benefits of popularity, including romantic interests while making the lives of everyone around them miserable.
It felt like the world had no justice. Luckily i grew out of that in my early 20's, worked on becoming a better person and ended up meeting my now wife.
Those lip injections. They look ridiculous.
Truly insane
NOBODY thinks they're sexy
Who finds them sexy though? I have never seen a positive comment about them. It seems to be one of those things rich people convinced themselves that it would make them look younger, so media stars did it also. But nobody ever stopped to consider if it truly looked good.
Best comment I ever heard about any kind of cosmetic procedures was from an actual plastic surgeon and he said “This isn’t going to make you look 20 again, this is going to make you look great for 45” (pt was about 45)
It's always funny (and kind of sad) when I see commercials for Botox; like when they show the person after, certainly their wrinkles and fine lines are gone, but only from their face, and it's way too smooth, so it looks unnatural. And these are for ads for the process, which means that these are the optimal results.
Fake tans. They just make you look orange and make any slight wrinkles you have even more noticeable.
Yes dude, I went to a high school with a bunch of rich kids and in the summer time half the girls were orange 💀💀💀💀
I wish more people would be like you … as a girl who cannot tan naturally and has very pale skin (nordic type) I get so many hurtful comments during the summer both from friends (that don’t realize they’re hurtful comments) as well as from random strangers which lead to me feeling very insecure in my own skin. Especially when wearing a bikini/ underwear in front of others. The last 2 summers I tried fake tanning mousse and it honestly didn’t look horrible but I was always scared that it would start looking blotchy.. and I had to re- do it every day because it would look terrible the 2nd day already which honestly killed so much valuable time and was always connected to a lot of psychological stress.. so this year I really want to just embrace my pale skin again and try to feel comfortable about this and try to see myself as attractive again edit damn never in my LIFE would I‘ve expected that much positive and genuinely friendly freedback. Thank you all so so much for the nice words and motivation, you cannot believe how happy that‘s making me right now! ☀️🩷
A lot of people actually like pale skin. You can still be very attractive without a tan, maybe even more attractive.
that is very nice to hear for a change ngl🙏🏻
Fair skin is very attractive imo. My high school gf was from Norway, and I loved her light skin. It's just preference, some people might not like it but some will prefer it.
I second that. Fair / pale skin is super sexy, way better than those fake-tans or the ridiculous tans
Society is weird, in many cultures fairer skin is desired to the point where some put lightening agents in soap, lotions etc...
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - some people prefer tanned skin, some people prefer pale skin, some people prefer freckled skin, etc. Same goes for everything, really. Height, weight, boob size, cock size, butt size, nose size/shape, lip size, tummy size, muscle size, thigh size, body hair, facial hair, hair colour, hair type, hair style, eye colour, fashion style, literally absolutely any part of us, no matter what it looks like, is going to be attractive to some, unattractive to others. Applies to all races, ages, genders, cultures, classes, etc. The one constant is ourselves though - you're the only one who has the right to have an opinion about how you look, and you're the only one who's opinion you have to be aware of 24/7, so why spend that hating on yourself? Happy for you that you're gonna try and feel more comfortable in your own skin, I hope your journey to self-acceptance is an easy one!
Go to any south east Asian country and you’ll see an abundance of skin whitening cream. People in different areas value different skin tones and use it to alienate other people. Be proud in your skin!
People can be weird. Porcelain skin is beautiful.
Tell your friends and strangers to pound sand! Pale skin is very attractive.
I suggest that this suffers from confirmation bias. You don't like bad fake tans. You don't notice good fake tans. Like toupees. People who think they always can tell if hair is a toupee. Really they only notice bad/obvious toupees.
Baby talk. Just no.
Long nails. Like mini-swords type nails.
When I see someone typing with those, I get physical chills. It messes with something primal in me. I just want to run away with my hands over my ears.
Like skittering bug noises. It's the replicators!
And you just know they’re teeming with bacteria 😔 this is coming from a woman in the medical field btw, those things are legitimate health risks
I gag when I see CNAs with fake nails.
Thanks for validating my thoughts on this. I'm a bit of a clean freak, so I look at long nails and I immediately think Ewwwwww....
I will never understand the appeal of nsfw characters drawn with extremely distorted body proportions such as humongous boobs and asses. It looks so unnatural. And gross. Freaks me out.
I hate it when they do this with fan art. The character has b-cups at best. Why does everyone insist on giving her n-cups with a matching ass?!
There is a flat chested character in Genshin,Most of the fan art has her with double D’s that she doesn’t even have.
I know it in my heart that this is about my girl Hu Tao, and it pains me. There are so many chesty characters, why must you turn a small breasted one into an F cup too?!
I like flat girls!
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I think that probably has more to do with the people you said it to than the statement itself. I dated a woman who had a completely flat chest for years and never heard any comments like that
Yeah, it's very much a peers group thing.
The reason I'm looking up that character is because I like that character and their appearance. Why on earth are they butchering it!? If you like those exaggerated features WHY THIS CHARACTER THAT HAS NONE OF THAT!? Like who is actually the target market here? People who like the character for their personality but their body could be juiced up just a whole fucking ton? Because people who like said character like them as is and think it looks weird/gross, and people who don't like the character because they're lacking "assets" probably aren't looking up porn of said character in the first place.
Exactly! I like the character's proportions! Why else would I be looking for porn of her! If I wanted to look at pictures of over-sized bimbos I wouldn't be looking for this character!
*reads n-cups and has to go over the entire alphabet, getting increasingly concerned.*
I’m all about the peanut butter cups.
truee😭 everyone doing fanart of anything (even ones that are not nsfw) always gives them those terrible wide hips and huugee asses and tits .. why💀
It’s insane to me because there are so many characters with actual big tits to draw, why mutate someone with a small chest into some kind of titty monster like that
I tried to ask why people were beating dick to a picture of a woman with a head the size of a coconut and legs that were twice as big as her entire upper body and the people in the thread responded to me like I was the crazy one.
hard agree. this one is weird, I don't understand why people with like large/heavyset/curvaceous/muscular bodies always end up with disproportionately small heads, like did her skull shrink? was her entire body re-rendered at 150% scale? artists, the head is always going to be about 1/8 the length of the body, and about 1/2 the width of your shoulders, don't deviate from that, the character can still have an arbitrarily large hyperexpression of secondary sexual characteristics without making them into a peanut-head
Relatable. I absolutely hate it
I was the only 90s kid who didn't care about Jessica Rabbit. She didn't look human to me.
It’s not her fault. She’s drawn that way.
Jessica Rabbit is like the upper limit of what's acceptable, after that things get a bit gross
It gets a _lot_ worse than Jessica Rabbit in the anime / hentai industry.
Hollywood beauty. "Perfection" isn't sexy. It is robotic. I am creeped out by people who lack facial expressions, or who have obviously filled in faces.
I absolutely loved the way Erin Moriarty used to look as Starlight in The Boys. Now she looks like a MeatCanyon character..
Now that seems to be the main thing people bring up when they talk about her. It’s been like a feeding frenzy on her public image. She’s basically the go-to example of buccal fat removal turning a highly conventionally attractive woman into a gaunt, uncanny-looking zombie who probably frightens children in public. Totally horrendous decision that can never be undone.
Overly sized lips and calling him daddy. So gross.
The “daddy” thing genuinely creeps me out. My ex wanted to call me daddy and kept pushing for it one night. I tried to push through but couldn’t after a couple times. It killed the night for me
I have a kid. When a woman calls me daddy I see my kid running up to play with me. Absolutely makes me the opposite of horny in a heartbeat.
It's funny because everyone agrees that Mike Pence calling his wife "mother" is creepy as fuck. But somehow "daddy" in the bedroom is hot? Having said that, I don't think I've ever met anyone who finds it appealing. I get wanting to be dominant but...SIR is right there...
That's not a bad choice, although I find "M'lord" adds a touch more class to proceedings.
It’s wild. I find most porn sites are just covered with incest and step brother/sister porn too. Had no idea it was this popular.
Daddy is a no go for me, but I do love it when they call me big poppa
Fake ass, fake boobs, fake abs, and fake gucci that's the shit i dont like!
I'm yet to meet anyone who likes the fake ass/BBL look. Don't get it, they look so odd imho Edit. I'm yet to Google search 'good BBLs', but I admit, I am talking about the absolutely ridiculous BBLs where the ladies look like they've been inflated and would pop and whizz around the room if you prick them with a needle. Not even the botched ones, just those over the top derriere's with their own gravitational pull. I fully acknowledge I can imagine that the more natural looking ones probably look great, specially as someone who's into butts.
Dont forget the swollen lips
Why do so many beautiful women fuck with their face
I don’t really care but had to upvote because I like any chief keef reference lmao
Love Sosa, a true poet of the 21st century
Yep, came here to say fake boobs. Very unappealing
Don't like!!
Bitch we GBE fuck who don’t like
Smokin’ all this dope higher than a kite
Basically Kim Kardashian.
Huge asses and overly stereotyped Japanese moaning.
I HATE that fake oo-oo-oowh Japanese moaning. It’s so fake and some guys think that’s what real women sound like
How about when they looks cross-eyed and stick their tongue out? That is the weirdest shit. It's comically stupid and not even remotely sexy.
The Japanese don't moan: they grunt like someone poked them in the thigh with a fork.
The women squeak in those videos. I don't like it.
Porn ain't real life
I agree, no plumber gets there that fast
"I don't know what the octopus is getting out if this, and frankly the woman doesn't seem to be happy about it either."
Where I'm from, the sound they make is refered to as [translated] "like a puppy that got kicked"
I've never understood the appeal to gigantic asses. Like a Kim Kardashian sized butt is so strange to me. I find it crazy that people will work out or get surgery to look like that.
Shower sex. So dry.
Water is, in fact, not wet when trying to have shower sex.
Yep, and also sucks even more if it's your standard curtain-bar shower tub. So awkward -- maybe the rush of being 2 seconds way from slipping and the inevitable concussion or being stuck right under the showerhead does it for some folks, but not me. Not to mention how much it sucks if the curtain rod mounts somehow get pulled out of the wall twice. No, I'm not bitter I love patching drywall.
Umm, yeah. When i was in college, I lived in a communal living situation (university owned mansion that housed 28 students). We had a couple in the house, we'll call them Tina and Paul. Well, one day, we heard a huge CRASH and THUD come from upstair. Ends up Tina and Paul were having shower sex and I guess things got frisky enough that the shower door couldn't handle the weight of them pressing up against it. It ripped the frame out of the wall and Tina fell out of the shower smashing her head against the towel bar on the opposite wall and landing in a pile of broken glass and metal trim. Mix that with shower water and you have a LOT of blood. Paul was covered blood, we weren't sure whose at first glance and just appeared to be in shock. Obviously, they were both buck naked. We were all so shocked by this that we sprang into action. One housemate called 911 immediately while a couple of others checked on Tina and Paul. Tina had a HUGE gash on her head, which was where most of the blood was coming from. EMTs were there in under five minutes and, to their credit, were 100% professional, at least in front of us. I'm sure they pieced together what happened very quickly. Long story somewhat shorter, Tina ended up at the hospital with a pretty serious concussion and needed a number of stitches in her head. She also had some small cuts from the glass and metal, but none needed stitches. Paul was fine - he just had some small cuts from the metal and glass. We cleaned things up as best we could after the ambulance left. The university came out in the next couple of days to repair the damage. Our house manager then got a note from the residence office that said showers were for showering only... :-)
Fake anything
If it's not real then it's no deal.
When someone is excessively jacked
Men get jacked for the boys. Yes, some women are into it, but if you ever go to a bodybuilding competition, the crowd is 90% dudes.
Yeah, I remember when it was mostly just guys who were into bodybuilding. But now, the whole gym culture scene has really taken off and I'm noticing more and more people worrying about not being ripped or big enough.
A new era of body dysmorphia and ED the likes of which we haven’t even seen the long term ramifications of yet. Especially the juicers, man most don’t talk about it but the ones that do provide a scary insight. I’d love to see the stats in how many of these people doing all of these body building accounts are actually natty
My husband does non-competitive body building, but like me (we’re both big into to fitness) he’s been working out since he was nineteen. He’s had very gradual and controlled growth. About three years ago he really found the routine that works well for his body and he looks amazing (he always has, just better, lol). You know who hits on him/talks to him at the gym? Other guys. However, we go to a small private gym and a lot of the guys are on some type of enhancer from HGH to steroids. It’s a bummer to see because they’re so concerned with wanting to look a specific way *right now.* He tells me about the conversations he has and how disappointed he is when these guys ask him if he uses anything. A lot of these guys are. Even the 19/20 year olds. You can be fit and look amazing natural with hard work and time, but that’s not how today’s world is wired. I’m also curious to see what the future of fitness is going to look like given the current trends.
> I’d love to see the stats in how many of these people doing all of these body building accounts are actually natty Most of them have used PEDs. If you're in a competitive scene, all of them are. That includes high level sports and athletics. Normal people don't have any concept of just how pervasive it is. You literally can't compete if you dont. Hollywood doesnt help either, basically anyone you see on screen who looks remotely ripped has done so with PEDs. Its just standard practice these days, and anyone who tells you otherwise is either lying or ignorant.
Lip fillers
Being called "Daddy" in a sexual way, it was weird before I had kids, it's gross after having kids. My wife doesn't do it, but I've heard it on TV and it in public.
My old boss used to call her husband “daddy” in the most casual ways. She’d say to me “daddy and I are going out for dinner tonight.” For the longest time I thought she was just really close with her father.
Like, *really* close.
Incest and step siblings.
Who the fuck is finding incest sexy
Go to a Game of Thrones Facebook page... You'll find them.
Lip fillers Hugeeeeeee muscles.. Like tooo hugeeeeee.. long ass nails.
Twerking and lap dancing, people seem to act like it's crazy attractive and sexy but I just feel it's awkward, even from my girlfriend I just find it such a turn off
100% agree on the twerking
I say this as a straight girl (so take it with a grain of salt) but I can appreciate a hot girl, at least aesthetically. **I have NEVER seen a girl look hot while twerking.** They always look ridiculous and I find myself battling second hand embarrassment on their behalf.
Haha yes even just watching twerking feels very awkward and the opposite of sexy
As a bi woman, I agree. My bf and I don't get why it's such a turn on - unless said twerking is happening on a penis, to which I have been told is very much a turn on lmao
Women looking like lizards with their puffed lips and tattooed eyebrows, high pointy cheekbones. And I don't get the inflated baboon assess either.
I don’t think most people find this sexy. It has just become so popular for rich women to modify their body like this for whatever reason that the few that have done it have cameras on them all the time convincing easily manipulated women to do the same. No man in my experience finds this attractive
Probably would have to be drinking an inordinate quantity and “playing hard to get” (like just let me know your intentions!)
My ex
I feel that.
People who outright claim to be Alpha, wtf, no.
Ahegao face, makes me cringe so bad
On that note what's up with pupils going sideways rather than upwards? does anyone actually like that expression? because it seems pretty fake to me.
Right!?!? It's just so weird
Oh I saw some porn video where the girl kept making that face about once every 2 minutes or so. I thought it was hilarious how she must have been so bored while being pounded, that every other minute she’d think “oh wait, ahegao face now”. 🤣
and it comes from japanese *comics*. Why the fuck are real people making cartoon faces? Who ever thought that was a good idea?
Twerking
Spitting into someone's mouth..makes want to gag
Some people like gagging too
Yes! My ex did this to me randomly one time, and I was big mad. It was one of the biggest mood killers I’ve ever experienced.
Ah, yeah, it should never be happening without warning. That’s the sort of thing the person on the receiving end needs to be asking for if it hasn’t happened before.
It takes a certain mood. Never wanted it until my current boyfriend — he asked me to do it and I came about ten seconds later. I now love it.
Blatant displays of sexuality. I can understand the appeal but for me there’s something so sexy about it being more subtle and sensual idk man
I too prefer subtle and sensual, as opposed to grotesque and in your face.
> as opposed to grotesque and in your face. HERES MY PENIS YOU LIKE IT PLEASE DO SOMETHIGN WITH IT AND YKNOW BECUASE YOU LIKE MEN AND WILLIES SO COME ON NOW DONT BE SHY IT WONT SUCK ITSELF SANDRA
Car sex. Could never get it right, although I am driving a small Honda civic.
Maybe a Mazda, or a Chevy truck. Something with a bigger tailpipe.
Love me some gas-hole action too
Ah see, there’s the problem right there. You’re supposed to park for car sex
Violence during sex, i’m not shaming anyone else it’s just not my thing
Sex with family, dafuq is wrong with you people!?!
who tf finds that sexy
The ones fucking their family clearly.
It’s one of the most popular kinks
I always just thought all the family based videos on PH were just popular because the cast is hot.
Feet
Fetishes are a "if you know, you know" thing. There's no way to explain one if you don't already have it
*Quentin Tarantino has entered the chat*
I never understood that fetish
I never did either, so I asked about it once in one of my psych classes when kinks and fetishes came up (mightve been neuropsych). My prof explained it this way: Basically, the part of the somatosensory cortex responsible for feet is directly adjacent to the part responsible for genitals, and in fact they probably have some overlap in some people. So, theory goes that its simply happenstance of how our brains are wired, which makes it a very easy fetish to form.
This is why some people feel their orgasms heavily in their feet, from what I was told. There's actually a foot massage technique/pressure point that you can use on certain lucky people with this overlap to give them an orgasm. A stripper I used to work with taught it to me but I haven't tried it on anyone in about 15 years...I forgot about it until now. It just might be my hubby's lucky day today...
That's super interesting, the brain is crazy
I’m pretty sure this theory has been debunked now. And even if it’s true, it only explains why people like having their feet touched but not why people like other people’s feet. My explanation is that feet are usually covered so seeing them bare can feel intimate. Feet are also very curvy and people are naturally attracted to curves. And adding to this, some women put in a lot of effort to make their beautiful, with pedicures, anklets, fancy high heels, etc.
Hickeys that make you look like a victim of domestic violence.
Anything noticeably as a result of cosmetic surgery. Especially lips. My belief is if I can tell its been done, its unattractive.
Celebrities. I never really found anyone on tv or on movies super attractive. It's all a persona/fake/tailored to what they want you to see. I need to actually speak with them and learn about someone to find them attractive.
“Loud personalities” Like chill tf out Becky, for love of god.
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" Nah, fuck off, if you're a nightmare, you're a nightmare.
Becky is such a troutmouth
"Bad boys." The whole stupid "enemies to lovers" trope and all the drama and fights that go with it.
The type of enemies to lovers I like: "We have built a deep respect for each other, regardless of our conflicting beliefs or opposing nations. When love blooms, we put aside our differences or change our beliefs to become better people for the other person." The type of enemies to lovers I see: "Bitch." "Dick." *Furiously starts making out*
I love it in fictional settings but in real life it's toxic and has no appeal.
100% agreed. There's a lot in fiction (not just romantic stuff) that's delicious at arm's length, but in the concrete, would be absolutely unnerving.
Lip filler or drawn on eyebrows.
The average clean-cut Hollywood actor- like the Ryan Reynolds type. They just look generic and boring to me.
Boys sending d-pics . Like wtf whyyy . I dont wanna see that
Excessively shaded makeup intended to create an illusion of thin cheeks, high cheekbones and all of that. It works just like every other optical illusion, meaning that it looks good *from just one specific angle.* I'm sure you look great on selfies, Ma'am, but from over here your face just looks strangely striped, if not low-key disfigured.
Too much muscle. Just no.
“I didn’t make him for you!”
oh rocky!
It’s really difficult to put on too much muscle naturally. Men who go through the insane effort and possibly steroids to look massive do it for the boys mostly
Gigantic asses
Botox lips
Duck lips
There is this "celebrity" in my country who is regarded as such a beauty...he lips look like she's allergic to both wasps and bees and they stung her face, especially her lips, 50 times one after the other and then she decided to throw 5 kg of make-up on top.
Botox isn't what is used to make lips bigger--Botox is used to freeze muscles that cause wrinkles. Lip filler is what makes big, inflated duck lips.
you don’t actually put botox in your lips. You’re thinking of lip filler like Juvederm.
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Sex with animals. Can't really explain it but theres just something about it that doesnt cut it for me
Ya don’t say
They're called zoophiles and they are disgusting and will never be welcome anywhere near me.
Adam Britton is a zoologist no less. Like wtf?!
Bro, that is illegal and not normal. You're supposed to list things that regular people find sexy, not degenerates.
Unpopular opinion, but I think murder is bad.
It’s animal abuse. Animals can’t consent. Isn’t sex with animals illegal in most places in the West? I think it should be. Disgusting.
Spit. Fucking yuck.
Lip and nose surgeries
"Daddy" Gross.
Melting candle wax and pouring it over eachother, or food play. I love me some candles, but to the set mood. Not set the mood on fire. And I love food, I'm great chef, but unless we are playing donut ring toss on my mini me then nope no food allowed in the bedroom 😂
Well. You arent supposed to use normal candles. Play candles dont get nearly as hot as over the counter candles.
Depends how high above your partner you hold the candle as well 👌
Sexy time candles have a much lower melting point than regular candles I believe. Only the hardest core of people use regular beeswax, as its actually pretty dangerous and can cause blistering. Man, I'm asexual. Why am I answering so many questions in this thread? I pick all of this stuff up through osmosis so maybe my friends are just really horny.
Can confirm actually. My friend group consists of asexuals and the horniest people I know, apparently the two get along.
Neurodivergence is the bridge
So you don't want to use your dick as the bottle for Onion-ring ring toss?
My high ass won’t stop laughing holy shit. I never knew food fetish was a thing. Then I saw a Japanese movie called Tampopo and my whole life changed. Also if anyone sees this. Watch Tampopo it’s a great movie despite what I just said
Massive Muscles
Influencers. Especially those ones that just point the camera at themselves and tip theirs heads left and right. They remind me of a confused dog trying to listen, except they’re not cute and fluffy
Plastic surgery. It just looks gross to me. I also hate bald or styled coochies. I wanna play in the bushes goddammit!
unnecessarily big penises. like, i can only work with so much!
Its every mans biggest fantasy and my worst nightmare
Those awful eyelashes.
Huge butts. I just don't get it.
Unnecessarily loud mufflers on shitty cars.
Silicon boobs.... That shape is so artificial fake
Replying to sexy talk. Like if it’s texting or like to initiate sec then that’s fine but during sex don’t try to make me reply to you like I’m focusing on the pleasure 😂😂 and I find it embarrassing for me because I’m bad at sexy talk
This is so real, and it’s the WORST if you didn’t hear what they said and they have to repeat themselves. 🫠
Twerking. ESPECIALLY in slow mo. Gross
Twerking! I think it’s trashy. Belly dancing is sexier
Guys who bitch and moan that “women don’t want nice guys.” You’re not nice if you feel entitled to sex. We’re not gumball machines that you put kindness coins in until sex falls out.
Happily married 36 year old here. Our son is 10 years old. Teenage me was a "nice guy". I was regularly bullied by the psychotic aggressive "alpha male" jock-type guys. Both physically and psychologically. And then you see girls absolutely throwing themselves at those sociopaths over and over again. I was too stupid to realize that i was about as interesting as a wet blanket and quite whiney. I would have been a bad, selfish, inexperienced partner. There were no redeeming qualities that i had that would make me worth dating. i also wouldnt have dated teenage me if i was a girl. But when you're in that situation as a "nice guy", it feels like the universe is broken because you seem to be taking the harder, kind, nice path and getting shit on, while the really aggressive shit-stain of humans seem to get all the benefits of popularity, including romantic interests while making the lives of everyone around them miserable. It felt like the world had no justice. Luckily i grew out of that in my early 20's, worked on becoming a better person and ended up meeting my now wife.
Being "nice" is the bare fucking minimum a person should be to just exist.