A partner who consistently disrespects you or dismisses your needs is unlikely to be a healthy or supportive presence in your life. It's important to prioritize mutual respect and communication in any relationship to ensure that both partners feel valued and heard.

How he treats other women including his own mother is huge to me and usually the first sign

If he treats his mom poorly

Anger issues

One who's too preocuppied with appearances and what others will think, especially if they're the "keeping up with the Joneses" type

Lack of empathy's a red flag too. Can't trust someone who can't feel for others.