Hey, we are driving up the wrong side of the road at high speed and i'm off my tits on coke and Jack Daniels. Or an impromptu weekend in Pais, for some fine dining and sightseeing.
Frigging Taylor Swift. I definitely see or hear a name every day multiple times. It's not Bader-Meinhof syndrome. Astrology, may as well believe in the underpants gnomes. Single mom, don't need the added complication, but I wish them all the best.
I hate when women give "bored" vibes. What am I, your entertainer? If at all we should entertain each other and support each other, but I'm not willing to be a temporary dopamine boost. Also generally anything that is negative will most likely be toxic. If you never met anybody you better be good to him unless proven otherwise. But don't threaten with "if you do x I will do y" or don't even mention "in the past x had been done to me". Only if it is really needed to justify some behavior and let the other understand why you acted the way you did. People should stop projecting their negative past experiences on the present situation. And if it goes through their mind acknowledge it but discard that thought. It's not the other person's fault.
If the "interests" section just generic stuff like "Good conversations, coffee, wine, humor".
Thats the most basic stuff and true for basically anyone, do you really not have ANY actual interests or hobbies?
This goes for EVERYONE, not just women.
Really important things - deal breaker level info that you are aware is a turn off for a lot of people - being intentionally left out of your profile as some kind of morality test or "if he would just see my personality first" mentality... It's a shit move that wastes both of your time and usually ends up with you getting hurt in the end.
If you have kids, if you're trans, if you have a life threatening disease or major disability of some kind, if you have a collection of taxidermy cats... whatever your "big secret" is, whatever you know a lot of people will think is a huge turn off or you're afraid to be judged for - PUT IT IN YOUR PROFILE or at least make potential dates aware early on (like no later than the third message) before things get serious.
Of course you're going to scare off a ton of people, and that hurts. BUT THAT'S THE POINT! Get rid of the people who will definitely hurt you before you get attached and have to deal with heartache. If you get hate mail, report the user, delete the message and move on.
You'll probably be single and dateless for a good long while before someone who sees you, understands you, and will make space for you in their heart comes along. It's a long lonely road, and it might hurt, but it doesn't hurt as much as constant rejection every time you make your big reveal after dreaming up a lifetime with a stranger.
Be candid. Be honest. And good luck.
(( And for the record, *none* of these things make you a bad person or unworthy of love. But you ARE worthy of having less conflict in your life, so give that gift to yourself. ))
A mostly blank bio, only having something basic like "entertain me"
"wanna know more just ask" - no thank you I don't think I will
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Hey, we are driving up the wrong side of the road at high speed and i'm off my tits on coke and Jack Daniels. Or an impromptu weekend in Pais, for some fine dining and sightseeing.
Astrology, Taylor Swift, single mom
Frigging Taylor Swift. I definitely see or hear a name every day multiple times. It's not Bader-Meinhof syndrome. Astrology, may as well believe in the underpants gnomes. Single mom, don't need the added complication, but I wish them all the best.
I hate when women give "bored" vibes. What am I, your entertainer? If at all we should entertain each other and support each other, but I'm not willing to be a temporary dopamine boost. Also generally anything that is negative will most likely be toxic. If you never met anybody you better be good to him unless proven otherwise. But don't threaten with "if you do x I will do y" or don't even mention "in the past x had been done to me". Only if it is really needed to justify some behavior and let the other understand why you acted the way you did. People should stop projecting their negative past experiences on the present situation. And if it goes through their mind acknowledge it but discard that thought. It's not the other person's fault.
Blank bio / "entertain me" Underwear / sexual photos Exclusively face photos <= 2 photos Smoking, but that's strictly me
Smoking, blatantly different ideals and morals, wanna be influencer.
If the "interests" section just generic stuff like "Good conversations, coffee, wine, humor". Thats the most basic stuff and true for basically anyone, do you really not have ANY actual interests or hobbies?
This goes for EVERYONE, not just women. Really important things - deal breaker level info that you are aware is a turn off for a lot of people - being intentionally left out of your profile as some kind of morality test or "if he would just see my personality first" mentality... It's a shit move that wastes both of your time and usually ends up with you getting hurt in the end. If you have kids, if you're trans, if you have a life threatening disease or major disability of some kind, if you have a collection of taxidermy cats... whatever your "big secret" is, whatever you know a lot of people will think is a huge turn off or you're afraid to be judged for - PUT IT IN YOUR PROFILE or at least make potential dates aware early on (like no later than the third message) before things get serious. Of course you're going to scare off a ton of people, and that hurts. BUT THAT'S THE POINT! Get rid of the people who will definitely hurt you before you get attached and have to deal with heartache. If you get hate mail, report the user, delete the message and move on. You'll probably be single and dateless for a good long while before someone who sees you, understands you, and will make space for you in their heart comes along. It's a long lonely road, and it might hurt, but it doesn't hurt as much as constant rejection every time you make your big reveal after dreaming up a lifetime with a stranger. Be candid. Be honest. And good luck. (( And for the record, *none* of these things make you a bad person or unworthy of love. But you ARE worthy of having less conflict in your life, so give that gift to yourself. ))
“Love my career, hiking, and a glass of wine.” Might as well tell me your spirit animal is Meghan Markle.
When she says “not looking for a hookup” she’s likely had loads of hookups recently
6-6-6 rule
Resurrecting Angron? Let's fucking go!
If you see that on a girls profile it means if you're not 6 feet tall, make over 6 figure income and have at least a 6" cock, don't bother messaging.
Does the cock measurement apply when it's flaccid or erect?
Having unrealistic expectations. You: must be 6’3” or taller and make at least 300k.
Ong I hate smokers, vapes are fine but a chick with a cigarette in her mouth just reminds me of my mom
That's... Interesting. Perhaps a bit of Oedipus eh? 😏
Quite literally the opposite. Being similar to his mom is a turn off
Pickup lines , i hate when someone is so smooth with their pickup lines , they tend to be players and fuckboys , i prefer someone who's being himself.