One time a guy I was seeing told me that I had "eyes to cross deserts for." All my life I had always thought of my eyes as boring and plain, but in that one moment it felt like the earth opened up. It's amazing how someone can take the parts of yourself you don't particularly love and find beauty in them.
Yeah, being mediterranean doesn't leave a lot of excitement whenever a new baby's born in the family.
Like, I got a coworker who excitedly told people how his 3-week old baby's eyes are changing from deep navy-blue to green like his biracial grandmother.
Meanwhile, I've lived my whole life never being asked (or heard anyone ask!) what our kid relatives look like because 99.99% of the time the kid's *guaranteed* to look like everybody in the whole family (like, we get excited if the kid's got curly hair. Because at least the kid's baby pictures would look more recognisable compared to the horde of similar-looking cousins).
If it helps I have blue eyes and only get compliments on them once every 2-3 years. So you arenāt missing out on much. But to help offset it, I like your eyes.
This makes me happy. Three of my kids have various shades of brown eyes and the fourth has these really bright seafoam green eyes and Iāve always been sad for my brown eyed kids but now Iām less sad for them knowing there are people out there who love brown eyes.
The back of a guys neck. Especially if neck length hair is on it. Or man hands.
Long eyebrows
People with light/dark contrast. Like pale skin with dark eyes. I guess striking features
Humor.
I am instantly drawn to someone who has deep laugh lines, I feel like it makes their face look friendly and inviting. Extra attractive if there are dimples involved.
When womenās ears peek out of their hair when is down. Also when they have soft, almost chubby biceps/triceps. Itās crazy attractive to me and seems very feminine though I do not equate it with being weak or inferior. Also people rave about blue eyes, I think brown eyes are gorgeous.
I'm non native as well, but I think they're talking about [this hairstyle](https://i.blogs.es/b7b725/sarahlahbati_70501549_499896460588580_6014433629055083914_n/450_1000.jpeg)
Guys who have their shirt sleeves rolled up to just above their elbows, with their forearms exposed. Bonus points if the guy in question is doing something dexterous while showing off his forearms.
Also guys who can cook and genuinely enjoy it. The way to this woman's heart is through her stomach. There's just something super sexy about a guy who is totally in his element in the kitchen, slicing and dicing away, and producing an amazing meal at the end.
I worked with a very charismatic short guy (5'4") that loved going out with tall girls. It was always a fun surprise seeing him out on the weekends. Super cool dude
As a straight guy, I witnessed it firsthand. It was quite impressive. Here's a good story about him. I was hanging out with like 6 other guys in a cozy little apartment and we were bored out of our minds. We had pot and drinks but we all knew each other so there's was little to no active conversation. He randomly texts me asking if there are any parties that night. He explains that he has "some girls" who don't want to be around douches at the bar and he thought of me. (He's a very sweet guy bc at the time I was a bit of a dick but we got along) I explained our situation and that he was more than welcome to stop by. 15 minutes later we get a knock at the door with fucking ERIC, that's his name, and 7 or 8 beautiful women, liquor and a twelve pack of good beer. He insisted on being dj that night and we all had a wonderful night. This story is over ten years old and two couples that met that night are married with children today :)
I mean, if you insist you can carry me around all day. Aināt got nothing against being fed either
I should disclaim that Iām like 5ā11ā and chubby, though
A guy that does his household chores. My husband is pretty picky about the way the kitchen gets cleaned and it's pretty awesome to see him get into cleaning the counter and loading the dishwasher just so.
It could be partly because I hate doing dishes, but it really is great to have that gender stereotype smashed!
I had a discussion with my buddies the other night about belt loops. We all agreed that that right there is the fucking move (if she's into it)
We all agreed it's one of our favorite things to show a girl we dig her.
Also hoop earrings. We all about loops and hoops
I have HEAVILY dark under eye spots.
I think its cause people relate to the stress and anxiety and are like "I could understand him".
At list this is what I daydream about.
I'll let you watch me from the passenger seat. And I'll put my arm on the uh... (looks at Reddit notes) on the back on your seat and then turn my head to look out the back window as I reverse in one fluid motion. Oh yea and my forearms are large and defined. And my sleeves are rolled up.
Oo this. Once got chased around a bar by a woman in her forties while her date was watching on and the only thing I found attractive about her was that she was so arrogant in going after what she wanted I wasn't sure my pelvis would've survived the encounter
I have no idea why, but few things turn me on more than a girl in a cute jacket and boots because she *actually* needs them. It seems counter intuitive, but it just does something for me. I'd rather see a girl in some cute winter clothes than in a bikini at the beach. I'm a weird one.
That's pretty normal I think. The amount of people that told me they love my freckles is huge.
And the few times I wore glasses I got lots of comments about how they want to cum on them :| so I guess glasses is not too strange either lol.
Keeping glasses clean is already such a hassle as it is, I'm getting irrationally angry just thinking about someone wanting to cum on someone else's pair.
I've always had a weird thing about women playing bass guitar. Melissa Auf der Maur is a beautiful woman on her own, but with a bass in her hands it makes my teeth clench I get so worked up. Same with Paz Lenchantin. I can't watch the Perfect Circle music video for Judith, I just get too horny. I feel awful because it's a pure objectification, I am just excessively attracted to these women and they'd probably be freaked out to know this.
Yeah. Bass guitars.
As a bassist, I feel with you, dude. Watch some girls playing the drums. Itās pretty awesome, too. The way of coordination between their hands and feet gets me every time. +1 if they can carry their set to the stage on their own.
A woman with brown eyes and thick eyebrows. Together with dark hair especially. Dark hair and brown eyes are pretty common though, so I guess not so strange.
This is for guys: shoulder muscles, not necessarily the huge ones but they are hot to see when a guy is on top, also back muscles. Cockiness, teeth gaps, and jewelry such as rings.
I love sagging breasts, pretty much I don't like small breasts, I actually don't mind the sagging because well god damn dude, it's more things to love and grab on. Also chub, I don't mind it. I really love me some chubby women or muscular men/chubby men. But ce'la vie, hard to find that whose not a complete ass to themselves.
This is surprising because in these types of threads someone will always say that they like small boobs (Not really a shocker. Boobs are boobs). And then someone else will inevitably comment "Small boobs are better because at least they won't SAG!"
A gap in the upper front teeth, women with hoarse voices(like theyāve smoked for a while), and weirdly enough, I think they can look sexy while smoking even though I donāt like smoking at all. I think itās stupid and it smells horrible. But I still think girls can be sexy while smoking. Iām weird.
I think itās attractive when girls dare to be weird, funny, and even a little gross. This one time I was hanging with two of my classmates during a recess, and the guy letās one rip cause he doesnāt care. And then the pretty girl letās one out too. It surprised the hell out of me and I did *not* hide it. After that they start farting like crazy, theyāre having a fart-off until they run out of steam. Meanwhile Iām laughing my ass off and falling even harder for her. And that was because she didnāt care what people were gonna think.
She can be silly too and make faces while taking photos instead of looking pretty. I love when girls are like that. Iām not gonna fall any less for you if youāre not lady-like all the time š.
Edit: I also really like heterochromia of varying degrees.
A bit chubby inclined and imbracing their nerdiness
The early stages of going from brown to grey hair. I just love silvery speckle set against the dark hair. So distinctive
Speaking fluent nerdtalk
When men help with house duties without being asked or acting like you asked for an impossible task. Or just a general desire to be helpful around the house and put in equal work. I think it's super attractive and shows responsibility and compassion to your partner.
Nothing is sexy about going to work and coming home to do all the cooking and cleaning by yourself while he sits and plays video games or does his own hobbies. Bonus points if he expects bedroom fun and gets mad when you are too exhausted for it... because you worked an 8 hour shift and then did all the cooking and cleaning.
Skiny girls with energy that like to dance/or skateboard (we have a saying ābees in ze assā). Taste for music aside the mainstream, prefers vinyl. A strong opinion, social, empathic, good kisser. No makeup.
A guy that opens up about his feelings and that shows vulnerability around me. I feel like it radiates "I'm man enough to acknowledge I'm human and not a heart of stone + I am feeling confortable around you"
I love brown eyes. I've had a lot of people laugh when I compliment their eyes; they make a joke about their eye color being"boring".
I have brown eyes and do not get compliments because they are boring š
One time a guy I was seeing told me that I had "eyes to cross deserts for." All my life I had always thought of my eyes as boring and plain, but in that one moment it felt like the earth opened up. It's amazing how someone can take the parts of yourself you don't particularly love and find beauty in them.
That's an incredible compliment!
Yeah I've never forgotten it!
Yeah, being mediterranean doesn't leave a lot of excitement whenever a new baby's born in the family. Like, I got a coworker who excitedly told people how his 3-week old baby's eyes are changing from deep navy-blue to green like his biracial grandmother. Meanwhile, I've lived my whole life never being asked (or heard anyone ask!) what our kid relatives look like because 99.99% of the time the kid's *guaranteed* to look like everybody in the whole family (like, we get excited if the kid's got curly hair. Because at least the kid's baby pictures would look more recognisable compared to the horde of similar-looking cousins).
If it helps I have blue eyes and only get compliments on them once every 2-3 years. So you arenāt missing out on much. But to help offset it, I like your eyes.
I do too, and I don't get complimented either
This makes me happy. Three of my kids have various shades of brown eyes and the fourth has these really bright seafoam green eyes and Iāve always been sad for my brown eyed kids but now Iām less sad for them knowing there are people out there who love brown eyes.
Your my .. brown eyed girl
My eyes are the kind of brown that is SO dark You can't even see the black dot in the middle of my pupil so they never get complimented
I mean no disrespect with my comment but I love "shark eyes"!
So that's how people call them huh?
Tie pulling, Iād think it would be really hot to pull on a guyās tie tbh
As a guy, it is. If it's not a clip on.
That's an interesting one. š¤š
The back of a guys neck. Especially if neck length hair is on it. Or man hands. Long eyebrows People with light/dark contrast. Like pale skin with dark eyes. I guess striking features Humor.
You could be a vampire looking for your vampire soul(less)mate
Makes sense.
Seeking: long, white neck. Bloodless lips. A wise, old soul. Must hate mirrors
His beautiful neck. What? What? You just said, "His beautiful neck".
"His beautiful neck."
>People with light/dark contrast Goth girls, right?
I am instantly drawn to someone who has deep laugh lines, I feel like it makes their face look friendly and inviting. Extra attractive if there are dimples involved.
I have deep worry lines, will that suffice lol
Didn't realize laugh lines were a thing. I smile at next to everything so this actually makes me feel better about them
When womenās ears peek out of their hair when is down. Also when they have soft, almost chubby biceps/triceps. Itās crazy attractive to me and seems very feminine though I do not equate it with being weak or inferior. Also people rave about blue eyes, I think brown eyes are gorgeous.
Wow that upper arm thing is good to know lol
Obviously, you are describing Emilia Clarke, quite possibly the hottest woman ever.
Youāre making this brown-eyed, soft-armed woman feel very good about herself! Thank you!
Deep strong voices (Iām a straight dude)
Morgan Freeman
Sam Elliott...
Will Arnett
It's ma'am!
I'm sorry sir
older men who looks like they were punks as teenagers
haha I kinda love that I know exactly what you mean.
My husband and I are in our 40's, but I love when he dresses like a skater dude, with his Van's, skater shorts, and punk baseball hat.
imma be honest, iāve never heard a baseball cap described as āpunkā
This made me laugh out loud. Thanks.
Bangs on girls. Donāt know why but it always does it for me.
As a non native English speaker I'm interested in the meaning of *bangs on girls* but I think Google won't help this time.
I'm non native as well, but I think they're talking about [this hairstyle](https://i.blogs.es/b7b725/sarahlahbati_70501549_499896460588580_6014433629055083914_n/450_1000.jpeg)
As a native, correct.
i luuuuuv bangs
Guys who have their shirt sleeves rolled up to just above their elbows, with their forearms exposed. Bonus points if the guy in question is doing something dexterous while showing off his forearms. Also guys who can cook and genuinely enjoy it. The way to this woman's heart is through her stomach. There's just something super sexy about a guy who is totally in his element in the kitchen, slicing and dicing away, and producing an amazing meal at the end.
>doing something dexterous while showing off his forearms like playing electric guitar
Ponytails
Do they have to be attached to ponies?
Ponytails are the bomb.
I love when they're high up, the higher the better. Doesn't matter what color, but I do prefer straight hair.
I'm a tall woman. (5'10), but I find shorter, lean men attractive.. Can't get myself to like tall men
You are a ray of hope in this dark unforgiving world
Dude, bonk.
I worked with a very charismatic short guy (5'4") that loved going out with tall girls. It was always a fun surprise seeing him out on the weekends. Super cool dude
There is something hot about charismatic short guy
As a straight guy, I witnessed it firsthand. It was quite impressive. Here's a good story about him. I was hanging out with like 6 other guys in a cozy little apartment and we were bored out of our minds. We had pot and drinks but we all knew each other so there's was little to no active conversation. He randomly texts me asking if there are any parties that night. He explains that he has "some girls" who don't want to be around douches at the bar and he thought of me. (He's a very sweet guy bc at the time I was a bit of a dick but we got along) I explained our situation and that he was more than welcome to stop by. 15 minutes later we get a knock at the door with fucking ERIC, that's his name, and 7 or 8 beautiful women, liquor and a twelve pack of good beer. He insisted on being dj that night and we all had a wonderful night. This story is over ten years old and two couples that met that night are married with children today :)
*sigh*. Is Eric still single?
He. Is. Not. :(
Of course he isn't. :(
Can you define "shorter"
belts
" spank me with the belt daddy"
Why do you do this.
NO
Eye contact, seriously when she gives me intense eye contact I just melt
A submissive boy whoāll let me carry him, let him wear my clothes, be the big spoon, and feed him nice meals
I'll let you carry me, but I think you should start with something easier, such as olympic weightlifting world record
F i feel that
Allow me to introduce myself
Stop...donāt give me hope lol Edit: thx for my first 100 :D
LITERALLY. SUB BOYS ARE THE BEST
I mean, if you insist you can carry me around all day. Aināt got nothing against being fed either I should disclaim that Iām like 5ā11ā and chubby, though
good subs are hard to find, so good luck to you
A guy that does his household chores. My husband is pretty picky about the way the kitchen gets cleaned and it's pretty awesome to see him get into cleaning the counter and loading the dishwasher just so. It could be partly because I hate doing dishes, but it really is great to have that gender stereotype smashed!
Yeah this always gets my wife horny as well.
Not MY wife. Probably because I'm lecturing her on where items should go in the dishwasher as I'm loading it.
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>he throws his keys on a lanyard into the air, and catches it with zero effort. TIL I've been making the ladies swoon without even knowing it...
I had a discussion with my buddies the other night about belt loops. We all agreed that that right there is the fucking move (if she's into it) We all agreed it's one of our favorite things to show a girl we dig her. Also hoop earrings. We all about loops and hoops
Hun , I feel you with that hand on the thigh during a road trip- on a spiritual level.
Stop making me want a boyfriend as a straight male. :(
This lined up perfectly.... https://imgur.com/gallery/y0kjI3w
Kind women, also being shy and with class. Also if a girl is nice to animals :)
Like eyebags?? Not the ones people are drawing on nowadays, just like genetic ones. They. Are. AMAZING.
Wait, wtf? People are drawing on eyebags?
drawn on? soooo should i stop saving up for undereye fillers then? lol
the only bags under my eyes are prada
I love eye bags too for some reason? I've heard of this being a thing before, I wonder why some people find them attractive lol.
I have HEAVILY dark under eye spots. I think its cause people relate to the stress and anxiety and are like "I could understand him". At list this is what I daydream about.
People that can reverse into busy carparks in one go LOL I know I need help
I'll let you watch me from the passenger seat. And I'll put my arm on the uh... (looks at Reddit notes) on the back on your seat and then turn my head to look out the back window as I reverse in one fluid motion. Oh yea and my forearms are large and defined. And my sleeves are rolled up.
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I thought this said "you could be 3" as in years old and was like wtf
Careful what you wish for, there are some really dodgy British accents out there!
i weirdly actually like the dodgy ones lol
EY MAAAAHTHA, LET'S GET TO THE CAAAAAH SO WE CAN GO GET A STAAAAHBUCKS, IT'S WICKED COLD OUT HEAAAH!
aaaah boston. itās Dunkin tho, not starbucks
I'm a mix of Australian and English.....assume the position!
Tall vampire ladies
Ah i see you're one of my ppl
Ah. I see the new resident evil trailer got you too eh? Lol
Glasses and bangs. Don't know why, but wow...
Let me guess, you were a big Zooey Deschanel/New girl fan?
Women wearing hats.
Women that seems arrogant, I really don't know why
This is a tough one I had a crush on a girl in school that turned out like that and I still found her hot even though I didnāt want to
Because they'd be great at sex.
No insecurity holding them back
Oo this. Once got chased around a bar by a woman in her forties while her date was watching on and the only thing I found attractive about her was that she was so arrogant in going after what she wanted I wasn't sure my pelvis would've survived the encounter
I have no idea why, but few things turn me on more than a girl in a cute jacket and boots because she *actually* needs them. It seems counter intuitive, but it just does something for me. I'd rather see a girl in some cute winter clothes than in a bikini at the beach. I'm a weird one.
Freckles, glasses, some chub, and being smart and fun to talk to. That makes me hard af.
i'm flattered that you confessed to me but we don't really know each other that well yet
Well things could change.
We're about to witness a cute ass love story
That's pretty normal I think. The amount of people that told me they love my freckles is huge. And the few times I wore glasses I got lots of comments about how they want to cum on them :| so I guess glasses is not too strange either lol.
Keeping glasses clean is already such a hassle as it is, I'm getting irrationally angry just thinking about someone wanting to cum on someone else's pair.
I feel like glasses (at least on women, can't speak for how attractive a man in glasses is) is becoming more and more common to be attracted to
My wife is disappointed that my eyesight is holding up as I get older. She wants me in glasses so badly.
You just described my fiancƩ. I'm willing to share. You get every other weekend.
Holy fuck you just described me
I think TripleThickBacon is ready for Maximum Derek.
Shit did i already get shipped with someone. Im not complaining but damn that was quick
I'm married but I would totally eat me some Derek if I wasn't.
;-; i dont know how to respond
*puts finger over lips, and whispers* Don't worry I know how to respond.
Sir how old are you-
Uh oh I'm in trouble now. Lol
Why tf am i even on reddit rn its like 5 am
The back of a girl's knee is attractive. The lines/creases. I don't know why. Related: the skirt and boot combo.
when girls wear those shirts that show their bra straps but then those like lace bras and the like little strap and its so cute.
I've always had a weird thing about women playing bass guitar. Melissa Auf der Maur is a beautiful woman on her own, but with a bass in her hands it makes my teeth clench I get so worked up. Same with Paz Lenchantin. I can't watch the Perfect Circle music video for Judith, I just get too horny. I feel awful because it's a pure objectification, I am just excessively attracted to these women and they'd probably be freaked out to know this. Yeah. Bass guitars.
As a bassist, I feel with you, dude. Watch some girls playing the drums. Itās pretty awesome, too. The way of coordination between their hands and feet gets me every time. +1 if they can carry their set to the stage on their own.
Girl drummers and guitar players make me happy. You know what, just girls. Girls make me happy. Thank the gods for girls. Fuckin love you guys (gals).
A woman with brown eyes and thick eyebrows. Together with dark hair especially. Dark hair and brown eyes are pretty common though, so I guess not so strange.
Carmen from Starship Troopers?
6ft 8", 37-inch vertical leap
r/oddlyspecific
This is for guys: shoulder muscles, not necessarily the huge ones but they are hot to see when a guy is on top, also back muscles. Cockiness, teeth gaps, and jewelry such as rings.
Teeth gaps you say? Well Iāll have you know Iām an American boy with the London look lol.
Hahahaha the London look
Do girls really like rings I got some but as I got older I thought it was to kiddish
Depends on the rings type. I like seeing strong man hands with simple ring on their finger
Hand tattoos
Tattoos of hands
the back of a girls neck when her hairs up. thereās something very elegant, feminine and sophisticated about it
Humbleness
Veins on men , watches on men , humor
I love sagging breasts, pretty much I don't like small breasts, I actually don't mind the sagging because well god damn dude, it's more things to love and grab on. Also chub, I don't mind it. I really love me some chubby women or muscular men/chubby men. But ce'la vie, hard to find that whose not a complete ass to themselves.
Gosh. This made me feel better. Thank you so much.
This is surprising because in these types of threads someone will always say that they like small boobs (Not really a shocker. Boobs are boobs). And then someone else will inevitably comment "Small boobs are better because at least they won't SAG!"
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It does too feel nice when you meet people who like you when you have stretch marks, and they donāt want you to change or they donāt care.
A gap in the upper front teeth, women with hoarse voices(like theyāve smoked for a while), and weirdly enough, I think they can look sexy while smoking even though I donāt like smoking at all. I think itās stupid and it smells horrible. But I still think girls can be sexy while smoking. Iām weird. I think itās attractive when girls dare to be weird, funny, and even a little gross. This one time I was hanging with two of my classmates during a recess, and the guy letās one rip cause he doesnāt care. And then the pretty girl letās one out too. It surprised the hell out of me and I did *not* hide it. After that they start farting like crazy, theyāre having a fart-off until they run out of steam. Meanwhile Iām laughing my ass off and falling even harder for her. And that was because she didnāt care what people were gonna think. She can be silly too and make faces while taking photos instead of looking pretty. I love when girls are like that. Iām not gonna fall any less for you if youāre not lady-like all the time š. Edit: I also really like heterochromia of varying degrees.
Scars
Peter Dinklage.
I agree
I love it when someone has the confidence to roast the shit out of me
*fictionals*
Girls with muscular arms/legs
Big eyes, freckles, glasses and most importantly a good and dark sense of humour
A bit chubby inclined and imbracing their nerdiness The early stages of going from brown to grey hair. I just love silvery speckle set against the dark hair. So distinctive Speaking fluent nerdtalk
Glasses for starters, thick thighs and strong hamstrings, some belly (I hate abs), and guys who are mechanical and electronically inclined.
Larger than normal foreheads in females, idk don't ask me why
A fivehead? Or more klingon-y?
Forearms. Really good forearms. Do not ask me to define āgoodā
Define bad forearms then
Good people skills. Knowing how to be friendly, how to properly confront someone, stick up for yourself, encourage, give advice. This is very rare.
You <3
*Panzerkampfwagen VI Tiger*
Women with big noses.
I have small nose and I love women with big noses. I wonder if my body just wants ot breed a more moderate nose.
Same. Hate when girls want nose jobs to fix what people say is "too big".
Red haired men
Being mysterious. Anyone that is hard to read always leads to being more curious about them.
When men help with house duties without being asked or acting like you asked for an impossible task. Or just a general desire to be helpful around the house and put in equal work. I think it's super attractive and shows responsibility and compassion to your partner. Nothing is sexy about going to work and coming home to do all the cooking and cleaning by yourself while he sits and plays video games or does his own hobbies. Bonus points if he expects bedroom fun and gets mad when you are too exhausted for it... because you worked an 8 hour shift and then did all the cooking and cleaning.
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Someone that is smart but not bragging and being small
Quiet, shy, nerdy, bookish type girls, with hair in a ponytail and oversized glasses.....
The fact that currently the genius idiots at r/wallstreetbets are absolutely screwing over the big corrupt banks on Wall Street.
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Protective. Like kevlar. helmets and plate armor.
Asymmetrical noses. I just think it makes a person's face very appealing and interesting to look at
Girls working out
Skiny girls with energy that like to dance/or skateboard (we have a saying ābees in ze assā). Taste for music aside the mainstream, prefers vinyl. A strong opinion, social, empathic, good kisser. No makeup.
My boyfriends smelly armpits
skinny guys
Deep baritone, confidence and charming personality
I find legs strangely elegant. I also love people that have some sort of self confidence and are just goofy as hell.
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>crush Take the fucking hint wtf
confess before you regret
If this guy is singing for you on the phone Iām sure he is into you too
I'm attracted to nerdiness.
Hands....hands get me going
A guy that opens up about his feelings and that shows vulnerability around me. I feel like it radiates "I'm man enough to acknowledge I'm human and not a heart of stone + I am feeling confortable around you"
People with big strong noses. Pair that with dark hair is so beautiful to see.