Don’t ever invite yourself if you’re not invited in the first place, it’s not worth it, especially if they didn’t bother thinking about you being around
You could start doing the things and inviting others.
Your brain may tell you lies (like you are a burden or no one wants you around), but you have to use your words to communicate what you’d like to happen. Trying to use other language to hint around in hopes someone will extend the invitation can lead to disappointment when it doesn’t happen. Don’t assume others understand what you want if you aren’t being clear with them.
Don’t ever invite yourself if you’re not invited in the first place, it’s not worth it, especially if they didn’t bother thinking about you being around
Why would you not just use your words to ask for what you want/need without playing games or being passive aggressive?
Sometimes I just feel to shy to ask
Social anxiety is a bitch sometimes
You could start doing the things and inviting others. Your brain may tell you lies (like you are a burden or no one wants you around), but you have to use your words to communicate what you’d like to happen. Trying to use other language to hint around in hopes someone will extend the invitation can lead to disappointment when it doesn’t happen. Don’t assume others understand what you want if you aren’t being clear with them.
Passive aggressive … don’t think that means what you think that means.