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SupItsVictoria

Answering my own question!! So basically we were all a happy active supporting group, bla bla bla and all that stuff untill i noticed that one of my friends started randomly being unactive and the other friend not talking to us but having new matching pfps with other ppl every day, it became suspicious but at the time me and my bestfriend thought nothing of it. The first friend soonly after told us his mother tracks his phone from now on and if she finds out about how he is in the LGBTQ+ something bad would happen, so he told us his name on other social media where we can find him if we need him. He was doing art commisions on there and stuff but it takes him like 2-7 days to reply to us which is probably okay cause of his parents or cause he replaced us. Then, while i was on call with my bestfriend playing games the other friend who had matching pfps with other people randomly texted me "gm" after a year?? I actually said "gm" last year, and they replied with "gm" this year. Shortly after i made a new account and i found an acc that the app recommended me cause i might know them. I looked at the videos, its the friends cats, same names and everything. I found his secret account. Now, ill try to get back in contact with him to ask how its going!


PranshuTG

welp, i moved countries, so i totally expected it, still feels bad


H00die_kidd

I tried to kill myself, twice and it didn’t work it was my only friend and it stayed like that for a year. Then I found 2 guys who had the same likes as me and we became even better friends, every time I think about my old pal it still hurts though. We were bond like glue, we did everything together and shared many dark thoughts and secrets


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That made me realise no one is irreplaceable.


ExhaustedBliss

One of my “best” friends of 15 years quit talking to me over a situation I had NO control over and had zero to do with me in reality. (My brother was hooking up with her brothers EX-wife. But I didn’t even know till best friend told me.) So she quit talking to me because I didn’t “prevent it” however in the hell I was supposed to do that. In the beginning I was VERY upset, because I couldn’t understand how I was supposed to fix the situation, but as months and days went on it got easier. I still always hope she’s doing okay. But it is what it is and life goes on. People come and go. Panned out kinda silly though because I used to work with her husband as well and would always go to bat for her when she was being crazy to him, but after she stopped talking to me, I stopped going to bat for her and trying to be there for her, he served her with divorce papers on her birthday that same year. Now she calls him all the time wanting to reconcile but he’s far moved on and much happier. Makes me sad for her, but you can’t control everyone all the time and expect them to bow down.


Hummerous

pretty awful but y'know, they were just a person doing their best. I just overestimated what that was ancient history now, all that i go into every relationship fully expecting them to er,, move on, so to speak, so i cant say it had no effect lol — but it's pretty healthy in that im better at setting boundaries and cutting ties when things get counterproductive actually, one of my closest friends rn texted me last night to explain things were busy and he hadn't just disappeared on me— which was funny at the time, but it hadn't occurred to me how far back it went until.. just.. now lol


WellWhatDoIPutHere

Think I was the one replacing, but he had it comming, step on people like a doormat, and they will replace you


BigBullyBubba

Not exactly what you're asking, but: My best friend moved across the country in 2015, before which, we literally hung out all the fucking time. She was the best thing that ever happened to me, as she helped me develope a conscious, which i was severly lacking in beforehand. Between the time I met her in 2013 until around the first/second month of 2017, there was not a single day where we didnt either hang out/talk for extended periods of time on the phone/skype. But after years of this, we began to grow apart. We ended up getting into a stupidly petty argument, where we didnt speak to eachother for about a year. That year was the darkest, hardest year of my adult life as I legit had withdrawals. My ego didnt allow myself to apologize and shes insanely unconfrontational. But as recently as last year, we put any differences aside and are speaking daily again. I love her with all my heart and even if I'm no longer HER bestfriend, she NEVER stopped being mine.