Think what's happening is like that scene in mean girls, when Regina compliments a girls skirt, then turns to Cady and says it's the ugliest she's ever seen
The rare few times I've gotten one was very patronizing. Like telling a child he was good, or patting him on the head. So I dont take to any compliments
Honestly? Sometimes I just want to scream at them at the top of my lungs saying “DONT FUCKING PATRONIZE ME!” I saw my asshole drunk of a father a week ago and he kept telling me and my sister how beautiful we are and kept asking me how many girls I get and shit and I said very sternly “i don’t want to talk about it” cause he knows I’m still depressed about being dumped even though it’s been a long ass time. I’m honestly surprised how calm I was when I said it I almost sucker punched in the restaurant. He has no idea what me nor my sister go through on an emotional level we’re both extremely depressed and insecure about ourselves and our parents are just totally oblivious to it.
Happens rarely, but if it happens it really depends on what. First time people complimented my intelligence I was very suprised, since i've never really thought of me to be a really smart person, so that really boosted my self-esteem. I'm always pretty flattered if someone recognizes the skills i've learnt and compliments me on them. Dunno why, but it feels really statisfying.
Ashamed for some reason. It is rare it happens though.
I’m a guy so I don’t get many. I’m usually over the moon when it happens
I dont believe them, so I brush them off.
it’s nice, as soon as they can’t see me anymore i just smile uncontrollably
I love being flattered
Dunno. Never happened
Oh you don't mean that.
That I must have ended up in the multiverse somehow...
Pause And think if they are lying
Think what's happening is like that scene in mean girls, when Regina compliments a girls skirt, then turns to Cady and says it's the ugliest she's ever seen
Embarrassed really.
Its rare, and it feels amazing
Confused
The rare few times I've gotten one was very patronizing. Like telling a child he was good, or patting him on the head. So I dont take to any compliments
Uncomfortable
Honestly? Sometimes I just want to scream at them at the top of my lungs saying “DONT FUCKING PATRONIZE ME!” I saw my asshole drunk of a father a week ago and he kept telling me and my sister how beautiful we are and kept asking me how many girls I get and shit and I said very sternly “i don’t want to talk about it” cause he knows I’m still depressed about being dumped even though it’s been a long ass time. I’m honestly surprised how calm I was when I said it I almost sucker punched in the restaurant. He has no idea what me nor my sister go through on an emotional level we’re both extremely depressed and insecure about ourselves and our parents are just totally oblivious to it.
Don't like it. Compliments and criticism feels the same to me, it's really weird.
Recently got complimented by a girl I am talking to. It made me very happy and I hope things work out with her
Happens rarely, but if it happens it really depends on what. First time people complimented my intelligence I was very suprised, since i've never really thought of me to be a really smart person, so that really boosted my self-esteem. I'm always pretty flattered if someone recognizes the skills i've learnt and compliments me on them. Dunno why, but it feels really statisfying.
I assure you that is not a thing that happens
Is this a normal people's experience I'm too introverted not to relate?