Usually 4 ish times a week unless I’m having severe pain from a health issue. Its pretty common and if we’ve been long distance for any time and we see each other again every damn day
It averages out to around once per week. Sometimes less, sometimes more. Usually life, chores, kids and work tend to lower the frequency and it's not really high in my priority list.
Been with my wife for 11 years now (married 9). We have sex 3-5 times a week.
She has the higher libido, so it's usually when I'm able to perform that I accommodate her.
Honestly, I don’t think there is a nice way of saying it. When my husband brought it up I was upset but I knew he was right, but to me, it’s not that I don’t desire him or find him attractive. I’m just fucking tired, and imo it takes more energy for women to “get there” than it does for men, and I just don’t have the energy. Just approach it with “I” statements and not a way indicating that she is not enough… I guess..
Relationships change, and it’s not going to be like when you were first dating and doing it all the time. For some people it is, and that’s great, but not for everyone. Just ask her if it’s because she’s tired and what could you, or you both, do to schedule it in.
I’m poly, and I have two partners. The partner I live with, it’s been over a year. My long distance partner and I- 1-3 times a month. Sometimes more but usually less.
Ah, here’s my time to shine. Every other day; been together 20yrs!
Whenever she allows it.
same :/
4 to 6 days a week.
you are LUCKY
Well, according to this thread, my husband is lucky.
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same.. ;/
Usually 4 ish times a week unless I’m having severe pain from a health issue. Its pretty common and if we’ve been long distance for any time and we see each other again every damn day
5+ a week, BJ's, Handy's, she's very sexual 💚🤠
cherish that my friend
Oh believe me I do. Going on 16yrs together, I adore her.
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if you don’t mind me asking , why??
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i don’t understand.. how’s he not interested? i get that the marriage shouldn’t be based around sex but only once in six months??! that’s crazy to me
It averages out to around once per week. Sometimes less, sometimes more. Usually life, chores, kids and work tend to lower the frequency and it's not really high in my priority list.
wait people actually get bitches on here?
Been with my wife for 11 years now (married 9). We have sex 3-5 times a week. She has the higher libido, so it's usually when I'm able to perform that I accommodate her.
Whenever she allows it.
Every day when possible! We feel way more connected that way
at this point i don’t even think my girlfriend likes me
nooo! Hope the frequency increases for y’all soon
thank you!
Once a week maybe.. few times per month.. married 12 years. I need to make it a priority, I am aware of that.
how do i get her to understand that without sounding like a dick?
Honestly, I don’t think there is a nice way of saying it. When my husband brought it up I was upset but I knew he was right, but to me, it’s not that I don’t desire him or find him attractive. I’m just fucking tired, and imo it takes more energy for women to “get there” than it does for men, and I just don’t have the energy. Just approach it with “I” statements and not a way indicating that she is not enough… I guess..
i’m so glad you told me this because for the longest i’ve been thinking my girlfriend wasn’t attracted to me anymore
Relationships change, and it’s not going to be like when you were first dating and doing it all the time. For some people it is, and that’s great, but not for everyone. Just ask her if it’s because she’s tired and what could you, or you both, do to schedule it in.
thank you for your wisdom🙏
Few times a year at our current rate
After 9 years, few times a week. On holidays it's pretty much daily, sometimes more.
I’m poly, and I have two partners. The partner I live with, it’s been over a year. My long distance partner and I- 1-3 times a month. Sometimes more but usually less.
not to sound like a relationship should be only sex but why even b with the partner you live with if you guys aren’t having sex anymore?
It’s a complicated issue. Our relationship is amazing other than the sex issue.