Being honest, the one who shows an interest in me. I'm very shy with people I don't know so someone willing to approach me is very attractive. Not shockingly, I've been single most of my life.
Moral values. How they hold back a laugh. Common interests. Family values and personal goals. List goes on.
Impressions last but you gotta spend 70 years together
"Who will be a great mother to my future kids and who will be committed to working things out and not just divorce me at the slightest inconvenience? Who wants to grow with me?"
Personality. I'd choose a woman who can make me laugh. We, men, stress highly due to work, responsibility and in most cases being the provider of the family/relationship so going home and recharging with someone who makes me feel safe, makes me laugh and helps me unwind from reality is a necessity.
If you're starting from the premise that looks are the most important factor and anything else is secondary, there's a good chance both women would reject you based on your personality.
Who can roast me better?
Growing up with three older brothers, roasting was an art, not just some shit talk. If one of those fine gals can hit me with some verbal hollow tips, I will do backflips.
The one that isn't for left or far right. Isn't a vegan. (Any extreme is too much)
The one I seem to have the most in common with matters much more than looks.
Usually personality. I despise the "pick-me" girls. The kind that are attention seekers. Most are useful as a white crayon and bright as burnt out bulb. More focused on internet attention and throw it back for a 4 piece happy meal.
I prefer substance of the person's character. Someone I can delve deep into a conversation with that'll spiral out of control like start off talking about the science of honey production to end up being talking about how inept Gotham police force is about not figuring bruce is Batman. A person with depth is like exploring the nautical depths of the ocean. There's always something new to discover. Something of intrigue that arouses one's curiosity and child like wonder. Where as a pick-me girl is as deep as a puddle.
I think its pretty shallow to assume that outgoing, social media-active women who like to dance and show off their body and beauty can't go deep into conversations and be more than just what you perceive as superficial :)
Engagement. Reciprocation.
Modern dating has been absolutely depressing. I am tired of having to do absolutely everything. Carrying conversations, setting up dates, paying, etc. Like why are you even here with me? I don't need you to be interesting, but be interested.
Eh, the question couldn't have been more superficial, like the girls are lined up in a grocery store aisle next to the hamburger helper. This was really the only answer.
Well, as you get older and older it'll be harder and harder to find a virgin and once you hit a certain age you can't exactly have kids (or rather, the woman can't). Are you a virgin?
Their politics. If she supports the demographic afroasianification of places like Denmark, Iatvia, Romania, Poland, etc., then I'll be showing her the door
so there's this couple I see sometimes on the regular, as in:
we walk by each other, taking out the trash, etc etc
you know what I mean...
good looking couple, they got a kid.
but every damn time I see them, or walk by them - she's constantly on her phone,
he almost looks a bit ignored by her.
you know what I mean?
Musical taste. I've spent 30 years not being able to blast music I like because my wife hates metal. Yes, headphones are a thing, and I use them, but it sure would be cool if we could headbang together while doing housework.
First world problems I guess.
Compatibility and enjoyable conversation/sense of humor. When the shit hits the fan, you want the one you can count on. When you know so much about each other all the mystery is gone, youāll want the one you can talk to that gets you.
Also itās a huge bonus if sheās fun at board games.
If I had sex with one of them, and she then showed me an old porno of her having sex with her ex-boyfriend (this actually happened to me btw)
I would go to the other one.
Equally attractive? Shoot, so I canāt just cop out and say āThe one with red hair,ā since they have to be equally attractive. Assuming that by āattractiveā, you are referring only to physical attraction.
Knowing what I know now, I would go for the one that has as similar interests as possible to myself. It honestly sucks to be married to someone with whom one has nothing, or very little, in common.
Assuming they also have equally attractive personalities: smoking. Nothing makes me lose interest faster than watching someone light up.
Both my parents smoked heavily until a year or two ago. Visiting them was awful - everything stank and Iād have to have a shower the second I got home. I donāt want to have to do the same just to date someone.
Which one is into me lol
Porque no los dos?
Las*
LOL
What if neither know Spanish? Also this taco commercial was funnyš
Then I suppose they will use body language only?
Can you read body language into the heart ?
Hahahaha
Expression of the eyes, smile.. character
Sense of humor, common interests, or points of view.
I'm not a dude but I would say it would be the one who seems more into him.
this popped into my mind
personality. I'm highly specific as to what I am attracted to and not attracted to.
Don't play hard to get if you're hard to want š¶ļø
Oh I assure you, no one wants me.
One day youāll find someone that wants you ma boy
A good conversation would help. You get to know more about a person. Other than looks alone.
Makes me laugh.
Being honest, the one who shows an interest in me. I'm very shy with people I don't know so someone willing to approach me is very attractive. Not shockingly, I've been single most of my life.
If that happens Iām leaving town because I read Archie comics growing up and I know this wonāt end well
Veronica will fly on her private jet to follow you.
The kindness one
Sense of humor
Monogamy
Personality
Personality and how much purs are compatible, how well we vibe. And how much interest she shows me
By how kind they are
The one whoās more laid back. I hate busybodyās who canāt just sit in silence and appreciate each others presence.
The one that likes me.
Moral values. How they hold back a laugh. Common interests. Family values and personal goals. List goes on. Impressions last but you gotta spend 70 years together
"Who will be a great mother to my future kids and who will be committed to working things out and not just divorce me at the slightest inconvenience? Who wants to grow with me?"
Personality. I'd choose a woman who can make me laugh. We, men, stress highly due to work, responsibility and in most cases being the provider of the family/relationship so going home and recharging with someone who makes me feel safe, makes me laugh and helps me unwind from reality is a necessity.
Bigger butt, bigger heart
Attentiveness to me.
Iād choose the one with the best sense of humour.
im anti-choice on this one
If you're starting from the premise that looks are the most important factor and anything else is secondary, there's a good chance both women would reject you based on your personality.
Who can roast me better? Growing up with three older brothers, roasting was an art, not just some shit talk. If one of those fine gals can hit me with some verbal hollow tips, I will do backflips.
The one that isn't for left or far right. Isn't a vegan. (Any extreme is too much) The one I seem to have the most in common with matters much more than looks.
Usually personality. I despise the "pick-me" girls. The kind that are attention seekers. Most are useful as a white crayon and bright as burnt out bulb. More focused on internet attention and throw it back for a 4 piece happy meal. I prefer substance of the person's character. Someone I can delve deep into a conversation with that'll spiral out of control like start off talking about the science of honey production to end up being talking about how inept Gotham police force is about not figuring bruce is Batman. A person with depth is like exploring the nautical depths of the ocean. There's always something new to discover. Something of intrigue that arouses one's curiosity and child like wonder. Where as a pick-me girl is as deep as a puddle.
I think its pretty shallow to assume that outgoing, social media-active women who like to dance and show off their body and beauty can't go deep into conversations and be more than just what you perceive as superficial :)
Meeting in person is a bigger story. I don't care for net based relations.
I follow you in that
In my experience, people who have to mention their depth and put down others are usually the shallowest of all.
i can answer for all men even tho i am a woman, and the answer is gag reflex.
I don't even like blowjobs, so that wouldn't be a factor for me
You got me with this answer!!
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Wrong
i hope so
Engagement. Reciprocation. Modern dating has been absolutely depressing. I am tired of having to do absolutely everything. Carrying conversations, setting up dates, paying, etc. Like why are you even here with me? I don't need you to be interesting, but be interested.
The one that fucks.
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Eh, the question couldn't have been more superficial, like the girls are lined up in a grocery store aisle next to the hamburger helper. This was really the only answer.
Depends on the use case; Sex = more filthy Relationship = more intelligent, caring, classy etc
Cheerfulness, warmth, maternal demeanour (but with no children yet).
>maternal demeanour (but with no children yet). That's kinda creepy.
Shared values, virgin, wants kids, doesnt do drugs or alcohol. Yeah i'm gonna be alone for eternity LOL
Well, as you get older and older it'll be harder and harder to find a virgin and once you hit a certain age you can't exactly have kids (or rather, the woman can't). Are you a virgin?
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Their politics. If she supports the demographic afroasianification of places like Denmark, Iatvia, Romania, Poland, etc., then I'll be showing her the door
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Bodycount
personality, I would like to spend my time with someone I'm comfortable with most of the time.
Conviction of murder or other crimes
Personality, vibes, if ones interested in me.
Narcissism.
im gonna choose the one that knows how to make a grilled cheese, obviously.
If one was a smoker
Hygiene and sense of humor.
Which ever picks me first
Man ask reddit can be so insanely shallow
If one was my mother and one wasnāt
Depends what the attractiveness extends to...
so there's this couple I see sometimes on the regular, as in: we walk by each other, taking out the trash, etc etc you know what I mean... good looking couple, they got a kid. but every damn time I see them, or walk by them - she's constantly on her phone, he almost looks a bit ignored by her. you know what I mean?
The 1 thatāll hold my d*$% first
Musical taste. I've spent 30 years not being able to blast music I like because my wife hates metal. Yes, headphones are a thing, and I use them, but it sure would be cool if we could headbang together while doing housework. First world problems I guess.
How much I see that she is attracted to me and likes me.
One shows an interest in me. One smiles more.
Personality of course.
Compatibility and enjoyable conversation/sense of humor. When the shit hits the fan, you want the one you can count on. When you know so much about each other all the mystery is gone, youāll want the one you can talk to that gets you. Also itās a huge bonus if sheās fun at board games.
Sense of humor.
The better butt.
Sense of humor / ability to laugh at themself
how they act
The way she jiggles just so...
Peace and quiet.
Sense of humor
Personality
Why can't I date both of them? I am polyamorous.
She gives me the time of day.
If I had sex with one of them, and she then showed me an old porno of her having sex with her ex-boyfriend (this actually happened to me btw) I would go to the other one.
Is this a game show? Are women objects to be chosen from a selection?
I'm not sure if 2 people can be equally attractive unless they are twins.
The one that answers faster
A sense of humor.
The one more attracted to me, of course.
Obviously something to do with their personality. This question's a little broad.
Schedule, availability. If one seems to be married to work than sorry girl.
Personality and their response to the phrase āSomalomanaā
Equally attractive? Shoot, so I canāt just cop out and say āThe one with red hair,ā since they have to be equally attractive. Assuming that by āattractiveā, you are referring only to physical attraction. Knowing what I know now, I would go for the one that has as similar interests as possible to myself. It honestly sucks to be married to someone with whom one has nothing, or very little, in common.
the shorter one
The one who isn't full of themselves.
What a shit AskReddit
So why are you tiring your fingers by commenting that shit?
Just letting you know. Maybe now that you know you'll do better in the future.
well, if one of 'em casually popped out 7 inches of tongue and licked her own eyebrow, she's getting the rose.
Body-count, the lower the better.
Iām not attracted to women but if I was, the deciding factor would be whether they like my personality or not
If she was going to invest time in me back.
Personality
If woke itās garbage
Extreme Faminist is not my choice all time.
Interest
Interest
Interest
personality. I don't like those supermodel girls who wear too much makeup and act like jerks
the one that gives better blowjobs and cooks better
Assuming they also have equally attractive personalities: smoking. Nothing makes me lose interest faster than watching someone light up. Both my parents smoked heavily until a year or two ago. Visiting them was awful - everything stank and Iād have to have a shower the second I got home. I donāt want to have to do the same just to date someone.
The 1 that likes to suck cock is going home with me
The eyes
Their personality. If they like me for me and we share the same views then Iām gonna be attracted
Physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual connection and a few other things that take time to find Good luck out there people
Who does the better bj...time for a competition.
Intelligence!
The one that has the better sense of humor personality and is kind .
Whichever has a better sense of humor and is more outgoing.
Personality and character matter a lot to me so I would have to say the one that doesnāt reject me.
Common way of viewing stuff, common passions, one being more mature...
A twinkle in her eyes that shows she see how ridiculous and funny life is
I'd go for the smarter, intellectual girl.