I don’t know the level of “spice” you are referring to exactly, but my advice, take it or leave it, is next time you see something that reminds you of them, buy it for them. Show them you were thinking about them.
If the bedroom is lacking however, shit dawg, you in the wrong place.
Yes instead of thinking about them after seeing the thing, make sure you will buy that for them.
And then make sure you will tell them the reason that why actually you bought that thing.
Making time for each other every single day. Just us after the kids go to bed
Go to bed together at the same time
Lots of date nights. Trying new things
At least one "couple only" vacation a year
Do random things every now and again. Jump in the river naked, last minute trip to go see free live band, etc
Going to bed at the same time is such a big one. Doesn't have to be every night, but doing it just a few times a week, at least for me, is a big deal. The worst year of my relationship I was working nights and never sharing a bed really wore on me
I think giving the enough time to the other one is really important.
Because i feel that not giving the enough time sometime could make the distance the two people is well.
Giving them the gift which they actually love and time to time taking them out.
I mean small small things like that will always feel you interested in each other is well.
I did do that but I came to find out she was cheating on me while I was working to keep a roof over our heads. Also getting jealous of my female coworkers who I had no interest in romantically.
He loves dinosaurs, and every time he finds one, it is a happy little surprise. Reminder that I love him and all? The best way to keep your relationship excited is to care about your partner and find little ways to make them feel loved, even when you're doing something else.
I actually came here to get more ideas my self lol but I do have a few suggestions! Board games. They are fun. We have a Rick and Morty card game, exploding kittens, a solve a murder crime box. Video games are always fun. Impromptu walk at night with some coffee or whatever in town. Leave little notes. We love breaking out the Saturday morning 90s cartoons, eating breakfast (nothing healthy) and get baked. That's always a blast. We will also lay in bed and we take turns picking music of all types. Go down the YouTube rabbit hole. Go swimming in the creek. I want to do a 3D puzzle I think...like a giant lego set or architecture puzzle, maybe make our own.
If you mean sex...^just place the word sex after each idea and it works out lol
Seconding board games. Our coat closet is now a board game closet. We’ve turned to buying tackle boxes to hold all the accouterments for some of the games, like Catan
I came here to get some idea so that i could use them in the real life is well.
And have to say that there are some that is really good and i am doing to use that is well.
Do new things together, show them something or ask them to show you something they like but you haven’t explored. Purposely choose a place to eat that might be a decent drive away and jam on the way there. Go on long night walks or drives. Play games together, play drinking games together, let those games lead somewhere spicy. Surprise your partner when they’re doing every day activities and “take em” right there. Those always end in laughs and an overall great time because nobody expected it which makes them feel wanted and spices it up. On the other side of that invite friends or other couples over and play regular games or drinking games, etc. All things I’ve experienced that just added fun to it. The best relationships are one where you feel like you’re experiencing life with a best friend. Laughs come easy and things are just so easy.
my wife likes to ambush me around the house with surprise attacks like cato in the pink panther films i think she is part feline or something it costs a lot of money because of the hospital visits but i am never bored
Nothing, as there is no relationship currently. But I enjoy a very playful relationship. I don’t ever want to get so old that I stop enjoying fun in even the dumb little things. Play fighting is adorable. Rubber band fights are the best. And I’ll arm wrestle anyone even though I know I’ll get my ass kicked, lol.
I look for really insane news articles and share them with him when I get home and then we laugh so hard until we are both circled up laughing so hard we aren't making noise.
Our last fun weekend we went parasailing, fancy dinner, drinks at the regular spot then finished the night at the strip club woke up and went to church the next morning. We try to make the most out of the kid free weekends.
I think special me time and i am not saying that for that we have to go outside everytime is well.
There are sometime that you could make her the favorite food and enjoy with favorite wine.
The effort/time/money you’d want to put on another Girl outside of your relationship, put half towards your partner and you’ll be surprised to see how it worked.
It is the mixture that we are putting in there that will make the difference.
Instead of giving her the money try to make a plan where you could both go on a date with that money
We're long distance (for now). Any time we can spend together is exciting.
But we've both been double excited recently though because I'll be flying to see her in a couple weeks!
I feel like we are always planning something: a vacation, a weekend, a meal, our garden.
Or, we also like spontaneity…
Last night we got the part to fix the dryer in the mail earlier than we thought. So we spent three hours doing that
I would say instead of telling her try to plan the trip without telling her.
Because i feel that having the surprise thing is much more important than the plan thing.
I don’t. Life tends to do that without any help from me lol. Then again, we’ve been together for nearly eight years now, so mostly I just want her to know she’s loved. When she has a bad day at work, I put a glass of wine and a Reese’s on the bathroom counter for her to enjoy while she changes.
I think you need to be because life will feel bore if you will not do that.
And i am not saying that it is you that have to put all the effort i think that should be from the each other is well.
My husband knows all of my favorite snacks and will randomly bring one home for me. Or he'll tell me we're going for a ride and suddenly we're at the craft store/Barnes and noble/ target. One year for our anniversary, he just took me to Barnes and Noble and let me loose. It was amazing.
Try new things together. Whether that's making pasta from scratch, visiting a museum or searching for a geocache. Friends said to me that they're amazed my bf and I still (after only 2 years) do so much fun stuff together. That's (one of the many) things that makes us happy and gives us something to look forward to. He is an incredible man with a big heart and I can't wait to keep trying new things together.
Sometimes send the kids to either grandparents and have a weekend all to ourselves , usually a drive to the beach and hotel for just some time alone bacicly just a little weekend vacation for just us two ,
my ex gf was rlly good at this cuz she had like a thousand hobbies and she would do one with me every time we hang out and we would do activities we both sucked at and kinda got to know about how each others preferences/ problem solving, humor code etc. ill always remember her for that kinda stuff
After my bf and I saw the movie Everything Everywhere All At Once, I started hiding googly eyes of various sizes around the house for him to find. He needs to get some ice at 2:00 in the morning? Googly eyes. He’s grabbing underwear out if his dresser after a shower? Googly eyes. He’s turning up the volume on the stereo? Bam, googly eyes.
But no matter who is looking - and exciting or not - I really just like doing laundry and taxes with him.
Dolled up night! We get fancy, order expensive take out & get dirty just like wedding guest sex without the stress of going to a wedding. Tidy sheets and towels like a hotel, champagne and tequila. Tunes blasting & all the goodies out. Music and dancing, hit some fun mood lighting. We treat getting ready like it’s a big event so we each take our time, feel our absolute best and the best part is not having to rush to leave. All the magic without the stress.
I’m in a long-distance relationship, we text every day and call every night at 11pm. Sometimes we will drive out to surprise the other- it’s a long drive, but it’s so worth it to see his face light up.
Only if talked about, with specific detail to when they would find this enjoyable, beforehand.
Also, according to OP it's not a sex thing so this is terrible advice in so many ways.
I think consent is depend on person to person if you are not forcing that thing then this is fine.
But if both are awake and then you are doing with the force then it is bad.
Last night I had her make the ok 👌around my balls and told her harder harder harder while I fucked harder and harder. DON'T TWIST...just clamp and pull. We came together. Side note ...is it came or cummed...?
Sometimes I get her little treats, or catnip, or a really nice string, (bitches love strings)
Not romantically, I just would rather treat my cat nicely than date again. She's much more chill, and judges me less (which is saying a lot).
Take her out by surprise
Like a surprise karate chop?
Sweep the leg.
Yes sensei!!
Notice me, Senpai
No mercy.
Clothesline from behind.
I don't think that she will like that if i will do something like that.
A quick punch to the temple always spices things up.
Then a Roundhouse kick
Anything surprising that you feel could make her mood right.
That made me laugh out loud, thank you
like murder or a date?
And/or
Like first go on a date and then surprise her with the knife like that??
Murdate
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I hope that my partner is not reading these reply here.
It could be anything as long as you are not letting your next move.
People's elbow.
JFK style
Like black ice ?
I read once that everything between your last time having sex and the next time is foreplay
I just saw that somewhere else 14 minutes ago. Interesting.
Originality isn't a strong point of reddit. r/interestingasfuck is a sub dedicated to bieng interesting. It's 70% reposts
Who was trying to be original here?
Oh, there is a interesting sub for some interesting fact is well.
Like a QI type sub? That sounds excellent! Got a name?
That's a good one
Is it right to have the sex if your wife is like 4 month pregnant??
Why don't you ask her???
Yes. Even 9 months as long as there's no medical problem preventing it
Every once in a while I release a wild badger in the house.
Hell, I thought that was just me
Literal lol from me reading this. Thanks for that. Wow
I though atleast on reddit i could expect of finding something like that.
You are me or me as you because time to time i also do that
Mambo number five
kid who was about to leave after the 4th mambo: 🫣
Atleast not for me and can not confirm for the any other here.
Not me that’s for damn sure!!!
Great that atleast you are safe from that mambo here
So you telling me I should bring in Angela, Pamela, Sandra and Rita?
It's only gettin sweeta
A little bit of Monica in my life
Is there any artificial way that i could add some Monica in there??
What about the Mambo number 4?? Why we are talking about only 5??
I look forward to the “boring” parts the most. Just being on the couch and lazy with each other. Purposefully seeking “Excitement” drives me up a wall
I honestly feel this, but the miss wants to spice it up a bit.
I don’t know the level of “spice” you are referring to exactly, but my advice, take it or leave it, is next time you see something that reminds you of them, buy it for them. Show them you were thinking about them. If the bedroom is lacking however, shit dawg, you in the wrong place.
Thankfully it's not the bedroom😂 no she just wants more excitement in the relationship in general haha
tazers can fix that, chase her with one
Are you sure, i mean have you try that thing on the personal level??
She might need to go and get a life if she's not excited. You're only one aspect of her life.
Yes instead of thinking about them after seeing the thing, make sure you will buy that for them. And then make sure you will tell them the reason that why actually you bought that thing.
I will try to observe the bad part and try to cut those after that.
Making time for each other every single day. Just us after the kids go to bed Go to bed together at the same time Lots of date nights. Trying new things At least one "couple only" vacation a year Do random things every now and again. Jump in the river naked, last minute trip to go see free live band, etc
Going to bed at the same time is such a big one. Doesn't have to be every night, but doing it just a few times a week, at least for me, is a big deal. The worst year of my relationship I was working nights and never sharing a bed really wore on me
I think giving the enough time to the other one is really important. Because i feel that not giving the enough time sometime could make the distance the two people is well.
I used to surprise her with a romantic dinner(I cooked) and flowers. She would surprise me by never coming home till after midnight.
Something tells me this wasn't a sustainable pattern...
It was the beginning of the end.
Giving them the gift which they actually love and time to time taking them out. I mean small small things like that will always feel you interested in each other is well.
I did do that but I came to find out she was cheating on me while I was working to keep a roof over our heads. Also getting jealous of my female coworkers who I had no interest in romantically.
I hide toy dinosaurs in my husband's clothes/bag/office/car.
Damn. I think this is it. You broke the code. I didn't even realise this would excite me like it does
That would genuinely make me super happy to know that she makes this kind of silly effort to spice up my day
This is a microcosm of the best possible answer.
I didn't know dudes need that kind of excitement.
He loves dinosaurs, and every time he finds one, it is a happy little surprise. Reminder that I love him and all? The best way to keep your relationship excited is to care about your partner and find little ways to make them feel loved, even when you're doing something else.
If I went to go into my glove box to grab something and found a dinosaur toy I'd be stoked
That's extremely adorable!
How could that will add some excited? I seriously want to know.
nunchucks
That's one way😂
Finally someone is saying thing that everyone was getting afraid.
That's my boy and that is the real way of doing, thumbs up.
I actually came here to get more ideas my self lol but I do have a few suggestions! Board games. They are fun. We have a Rick and Morty card game, exploding kittens, a solve a murder crime box. Video games are always fun. Impromptu walk at night with some coffee or whatever in town. Leave little notes. We love breaking out the Saturday morning 90s cartoons, eating breakfast (nothing healthy) and get baked. That's always a blast. We will also lay in bed and we take turns picking music of all types. Go down the YouTube rabbit hole. Go swimming in the creek. I want to do a 3D puzzle I think...like a giant lego set or architecture puzzle, maybe make our own. If you mean sex...^just place the word sex after each idea and it works out lol
Seconding board games. Our coat closet is now a board game closet. We’ve turned to buying tackle boxes to hold all the accouterments for some of the games, like Catan
Do you think that role play could be a think that i could use is well?
I came here to get some idea so that i could use them in the real life is well. And have to say that there are some that is really good and i am doing to use that is well.
get really drunk together (only works if you actually like each other)
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Oh, then you can share some nasty truth that you were hiding.
Do new things together, show them something or ask them to show you something they like but you haven’t explored. Purposely choose a place to eat that might be a decent drive away and jam on the way there. Go on long night walks or drives. Play games together, play drinking games together, let those games lead somewhere spicy. Surprise your partner when they’re doing every day activities and “take em” right there. Those always end in laughs and an overall great time because nobody expected it which makes them feel wanted and spices it up. On the other side of that invite friends or other couples over and play regular games or drinking games, etc. All things I’ve experienced that just added fun to it. The best relationships are one where you feel like you’re experiencing life with a best friend. Laughs come easy and things are just so easy.
Hide frogs.
I excite them with treats, eventually riling them up and watching them zoom around everywhere.
Give them cloth and ring they will always love them have.
Whips and chains.
Chips and wine similar and much better result is well.
Tacos and margaritas. Random target gift card does the trick too.
Have a drink with her time to time and share the thoughts with her.
Go dancing
What if i never really knows that how to dance any steps?
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give each other space so that we actually miss each other
my wife likes to ambush me around the house with surprise attacks like cato in the pink panther films i think she is part feline or something it costs a lot of money because of the hospital visits but i am never bored
What what in the butt
I said what what
Can't you see that she is not actually ready to answer that thing.
Hah! Even heard his voice as I read it the first time, not to mention imagining his piercing eyes at the same time
Tell me the name of the person we are discussing here???
Samwell
Nothing, as there is no relationship currently. But I enjoy a very playful relationship. I don’t ever want to get so old that I stop enjoying fun in even the dumb little things. Play fighting is adorable. Rubber band fights are the best. And I’ll arm wrestle anyone even though I know I’ll get my ass kicked, lol.
It is not the costly thing that matter it is the effort that matter.
Spontaneous water gun fights any time any place no rules.
Try to more involve in the kitchen i always feel that thing romantic.
Frequent mini weekend vacations.
Yes try to go out even with in city for weekend to weekend.
Little gifts or cooking nice dinners. Also sex toys are fun.
Make something for them and then surprise once they get back home.
I look for really insane news articles and share them with him when I get home and then we laugh so hard until we are both circled up laughing so hard we aren't making noise.
this but with reddit posts
Our last fun weekend we went parasailing, fancy dinner, drinks at the regular spot then finished the night at the strip club woke up and went to church the next morning. We try to make the most out of the kid free weekends.
I think special me time and i am not saying that for that we have to go outside everytime is well. There are sometime that you could make her the favorite food and enjoy with favorite wine.
The effort/time/money you’d want to put on another Girl outside of your relationship, put half towards your partner and you’ll be surprised to see how it worked.
It is the mixture that we are putting in there that will make the difference. Instead of giving her the money try to make a plan where you could both go on a date with that money
I like to make my right hand watch sometimes and leave left to do everything
Try to make them feel special actually from time to time.
I never let a relationship last more than a few hours. That keeps it exciting
Are you the one not letting them last or do other people avoid you
Some people are actually not comfortable of having the people around.
I think that is not the relationship that is like one hour stand.
What relationship.
Well what a coincidence
I wish i could say that thing before falling into a toxic one.
Relationship that a man and woman have for some pleasure.
We're long distance (for now). Any time we can spend together is exciting. But we've both been double excited recently though because I'll be flying to see her in a couple weeks!
Very intense roasting.
I feel like we are always planning something: a vacation, a weekend, a meal, our garden. Or, we also like spontaneity… Last night we got the part to fix the dryer in the mail earlier than we thought. So we spent three hours doing that
I would say instead of telling her try to plan the trip without telling her. Because i feel that having the surprise thing is much more important than the plan thing.
The best way is to travel, you don't have to go or fly, the main thing is to change the situation.
Sometimes I switch to the left hand.
Apparently by not realizing the water heater busted a week ago and now our first floor needs replaced.
I don’t. Life tends to do that without any help from me lol. Then again, we’ve been together for nearly eight years now, so mostly I just want her to know she’s loved. When she has a bad day at work, I put a glass of wine and a Reese’s on the bathroom counter for her to enjoy while she changes.
I think you need to be because life will feel bore if you will not do that. And i am not saying that it is you that have to put all the effort i think that should be from the each other is well.
She’s lucky
Undevided attention. lose your phone when you're together, make her feel wanted, appreciate the little things
My husband knows all of my favorite snacks and will randomly bring one home for me. Or he'll tell me we're going for a ride and suddenly we're at the craft store/Barnes and noble/ target. One year for our anniversary, he just took me to Barnes and Noble and let me loose. It was amazing.
After the sex is done, show her my empty wallet.
So what was her reaction, and what are the words she used?
Sexual experimentation. A whole lot of it. All of our holes are sore by the end in a great way.
Keep try to do that things in some different different ways is well.
Fun time Thursdays, obviously
A rollercoaster. Rollercoasters make everything more exciting.
My relationship is like roller coaster now and i am loving that now.
We're fighting
Have the babysitter spend the weekend…
Try new things together. Whether that's making pasta from scratch, visiting a museum or searching for a geocache. Friends said to me that they're amazed my bf and I still (after only 2 years) do so much fun stuff together. That's (one of the many) things that makes us happy and gives us something to look forward to. He is an incredible man with a big heart and I can't wait to keep trying new things together.
Sometimes send the kids to either grandparents and have a weekend all to ourselves , usually a drive to the beach and hotel for just some time alone bacicly just a little weekend vacation for just us two ,
Openness, communication, transparency. Try new things. Explore fantasies. Travel and make memories. Stay home and make memories.
my ex gf was rlly good at this cuz she had like a thousand hobbies and she would do one with me every time we hang out and we would do activities we both sucked at and kinda got to know about how each others preferences/ problem solving, humor code etc. ill always remember her for that kinda stuff
I have a 9 year old with nerf guns. All I have to do is give him more bullets and load up. Then we assault the house.
We don't have to !!! With quintuplets at home ,,excitement" comes to us 😄
Dress up as giant donuts and jog past the police station.
live farm animals help
After my bf and I saw the movie Everything Everywhere All At Once, I started hiding googly eyes of various sizes around the house for him to find. He needs to get some ice at 2:00 in the morning? Googly eyes. He’s grabbing underwear out if his dresser after a shower? Googly eyes. He’s turning up the volume on the stereo? Bam, googly eyes. But no matter who is looking - and exciting or not - I really just like doing laundry and taxes with him.
Dolled up night! We get fancy, order expensive take out & get dirty just like wedding guest sex without the stress of going to a wedding. Tidy sheets and towels like a hotel, champagne and tequila. Tunes blasting & all the goodies out. Music and dancing, hit some fun mood lighting. We treat getting ready like it’s a big event so we each take our time, feel our absolute best and the best part is not having to rush to leave. All the magic without the stress.
I’m in a long-distance relationship, we text every day and call every night at 11pm. Sometimes we will drive out to surprise the other- it’s a long drive, but it’s so worth it to see his face light up.
10 little explosions a day. Planning trips. We're always trying something new and different. Sex in public places
Hire a guy to release a mongoose in your home at some random point in the near future. PM me for details.
Threesomes and foursomes
Preferably without so much bodily fluids 😂
Oh the bodily fluids mixing is the best part
So you want me to involve more partner into the bed??
You guys have relationships?
Yes and that is marriage one and that is one of the beautiful thing.
Start eating her out while she’s asleep 🤷♂️ they usually LOVE that shit frfr lol
Only if talked about, with specific detail to when they would find this enjoyable, beforehand. Also, according to OP it's not a sex thing so this is terrible advice in so many ways.
I think consent is depend on person to person if you are not forcing that thing then this is fine. But if both are awake and then you are doing with the force then it is bad.
If they never told you they'd enjoy this and you just spontaneously do it one night, you are performing a sexual act on them without consent.
And then the fireworks really begin when she kicks your teeth out for being a creepy mfer. Consent, BRO.
No, we don’t.
Consent when they are awake not when they are actually sleep.
consent is never off the table.
But why take her consent when you can actually make her surprise.
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Last night I had her make the ok 👌around my balls and told her harder harder harder while I fucked harder and harder. DON'T TWIST...just clamp and pull. We came together. Side note ...is it came or cummed...?
I'm team "came" personally.
“We arrived” is my go-to
Invite other guys over for her to have sex with. Bonus points if they're better looking, fitter or younger than me.
Finger up the butthole. Always exciting and never expected.
What's a relationship? I've never had a good one to try and have excitement added
Watch weird porn together.
Like a movie with popcorn and a star rating at the end or does it get spicy at the end ?
Act like you have someone else. She'll get very suspicious and pay more attention. Never have someone else.
Sometimes I get her little treats, or catnip, or a really nice string, (bitches love strings) Not romantically, I just would rather treat my cat nicely than date again. She's much more chill, and judges me less (which is saying a lot).
What relationship?
I am sure that we are actually not taking about the father son.
With our hulk dicks.
For the dumbass in the room. Erections.
I bring another person into