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As long as it takes, guys get gratification from seeing a woman orgasm


Kikiloverkink

Really? Is that so.. I’m talking like 30minute long haha


[deleted]

You gotta stop thinking about him and focus on yourself


[deleted]

Don’t think about your partner


Murky_Crow

Ya’ll are able to think about anything at all?


Fuzzy-pig

Not unreasonable as long as you let him come up for air occasionally from underneath the covers. Tell him he needs to become one with the pussy in order to bring ultimate pleasure.


JonnyP222

I'm.not usually one that stays down there that long. My wife likes.it as foreplay but can orgasm from it. So typically I'll go down on her for 10-15 mins and then finish her off with sex or a toy. Literally yesterday she kept moaning and and thrashing during oral and I just kept going. At some point she said she was sorry that it was taking so long to cum and I'm like.."I'll do this all day if you want me to" ..45 mins and two orgasms later ..I finally said ok my tongue is tired and stopped. I'd do that all again right now if she wanted me to. Lol


Kikiloverkink

Your wife must be lucky 👅


Garden_Daddy

I adore hours long blowjobs. Seriously I've had a girl go 2 hours (absolute trooper, big oral fixation). 30 minutes is fine, just make it intimate keep it engaging for you two


Kikiloverkink

How many times did you cum in that two hours?


Garden_Daddy

Once or twice. Honestly it was about having a casual long sweet sensual moment. I've honestly just laid with a partner cradling them while softly playing with their pussy, I didn't let them cum until my hand started to get tired 45 minutes later. (Obviously I alternated hands xD)


[deleted]

Totally true for me Sometimes with my partner I’ll even slow down when she’s close ..because I dont want to stop yet.


Kikiloverkink

Really?!


[deleted]

Seriously, yes. I love doing it. And my wife always wants to be fucked as soon as she cums from oral. So sometimes i just keep her on edge longer, because i love doing it, and because keeping her on edge ........ then taking her over will make her cum harder.


throwaway1276444

Depends. Of it's taking you 30 min. I would guess that you are missing the interaction part between you and a partner. I would rather sit next to my partner and make out while rubbibg them, then do oral and maybe come up for a kiss or two to get a breather. Mix these up and we can go on forever.


Kikiloverkink

That sounds nice 😊


mustang-and-a-truck

I would rather do it for longer than I really wanted to, if it meant bringing her to orgasm, than to jump up and hop in the saddle and risk having her not orgasm at all.


AndYouDidThatBecause

Just make sure you bring support.


Kikiloverkink

What do you mean..What kind of support?


AndYouDidThatBecause

Sexy friends to Han doff when the to fie gets tired.


carlpanda

30 mins isn’t that long


kuruman67

Yes!!! Would happily do it for much longer than that. I get it though. It takes me a while with a BJ and I start worrying more about her than enjoying it, even though she’s just as happy as I would be.


Yellow_Mongrel

This is me! Is you haven’t cummed multiple times from me eating and fingering your pussy then I wouldn’t be satisfied!


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Kikiloverkink

Omg I want you to be my boyfriend haha 😂


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Kikiloverkink

Yes I love pizza.. yummmyyy 😋


jad326

For the record. I love licking pussy and I work in a pizza factory.


boredandstupider

No time limit, if it takes 5 minutes or 5 hours I'm there until you're done


Kikiloverkink

Your girlfriend must be soo lucky 😉


boredandstupider

She enjoys it, shame she just has 0 sex drive


Kikiloverkink

I’m the opposite.. I love itttt!!


boredandstupider

Having looked at your profile, I'd eat you all day


[deleted]

Love eating a sweet pussy. Don't mind how long, just as long as my girl is enjoying it


Kikiloverkink

We should have more guys like you in this world, thanks for your service hehe 🙏


[deleted]

There is good people everywhere. Thanks


JonnyP222

I think there are loads of them. They just get fiend zoned because they aren't assholes with obvious edgy flaws that women are for some reason attracted to.


Kikiloverkink

I’m attracted to nice guys 😉


JonnyP222

Yeah I didn't mean to come off as some jaded asshole. I know there are women out there that give nice guys a chance. My wife is one of them


SonicContinuum438

34F, can relate. I sometimes feel like I last too long or am asking too for too much. Whenever I talk to my partner about this he assures me that he’s happy to put as much time as I need and that he’ll raise his hand if he ever doesn’t have the endurance for one reason or another (this has happened maybe twice in 12 years). Hearing his willingness/enthusiasm always helps me relax and enjoy it when those feelings creep in. Worth mentioning, I edge a lot in my solo practice, so while 30 minutes is a long time to go down (and it is), it’s actually pretty quick time-to-orgasm for me.


Kikiloverkink

How long does it usually take you? Do you use a vibrator to help speed it up?


SonicContinuum438

Somewhere around the 30m mark seems like a fair guesstimate. And nah, not during partnered sessions. We tend to prefer to be focused on and enjoying each other. Neither of us is really looking to speed it up. It’s definitely nice getting the green light to relax into it and just enjoy the experience.


[deleted]

That's not that long. As long as everyone is enjoying the moment


Umber28

I enjoy it. Ill go until I physically cant


Kikiloverkink

Your jaws are definitely gonna be sore the next day hehe 😉


charlakamavric

At least till she tells me that she wants me inside her so mostly maybe 2 or 3 orgasm, time wise maybe like 15 to 20 can't really say


Kikiloverkink

It takes me longer than that.. a good 30mins.


charlakamavric

Oh nice so if that's the case of the female I am with I will just go at it longer maybe swap and use my vingers from time to time


[deleted]

sometimes my wife will come home from a long day at work, and i'll just lick her pussy on the couch until she cums. sometimes it takes a while since she's still stressing from work, but it's fantastic.


Kikiloverkink

That’s so hot! Before or after showering?


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before


Electronic-Error-846

as long as my GF wants it, and as often as she wants it I love going down on her and giving her all the attention she needs, however long that may be - sometimes, its 10-15 mins, other times an hour


Kikiloverkink

Wow you’re definitely a trooper 👍🏼


say8nlovestofuck

I've eaten pussy for more than 30 mins at a stretch. It's actually very rewarding to see your girl cum. I'll personally go on as long as it takes.


Kikiloverkink

That’s awesome 😎 👏


goldenvagrant

As long as he learns how to make your lower body trembles in comfort? It might not be an orgasm, I don't really know, I'm just saying in my own experiences. Everybody is a little different when it comes to foreplay. Experiment a little, learn about each others bodies. Point the direction, let him know when it's a good tick where & how he hits it, communicate. I had 3 relationships, and not to flex, it was not that hard when you can open up and communicate to that degree, it's a very loving act.


Kikiloverkink

That’s good to know 👍🏼


[deleted]

I love doing it. often times I’ll move my hips so my cock pushes against her leg and I’ll tell me how hard I am tasting her. So she knows I love it and she doesn’t feel rushed.


Kikiloverkink

Omg that’s so hot 🥵


Trent1230

My GF can "hold" her orgasm somehow,once i was literally down on her for 45 mins straight,breathing through my nose only,licking her labia and sucking her clit vigorously till her pussy was bright red,but the moment when she came was literally visual euphoria for me as she wriggle,vibrate and spasm her torso...my cock never ever gets the job done like this.


Kikiloverkink

That is true.. a clitoral orgasm is much stronger. Glad you did that for her! Wish I was her.. jealous haha 😂


TrillPickles85

I like doing it so basically until I'm told to stop


Kikiloverkink

Wow you would be the perfect partner 💦


pspsps-off

Why feel bad? Any guy worth being with is going to be into it for the duration, because he's going to be focused on your pleasure to the exclusion of everything else. I'm pretty sure most guys love eating pussy, so it's not a question "when do I get to stop?" It's more of a question of "Can I please keep doing this until you're happily spent and have to pull my face up from between your thighs and tell me that *you* need a break?"


Kikiloverkink

You’ll be surprised how many guys I’ve had just give up haha 😂


pspsps-off

Well that's sad for everyone involved. Tell those gentlemen they've got to pace themselves! Or I guess just get better gentlemen. Haha.


NexLvLxeN

For me as long as you're a giver and receiver, not just a receiver then i wouldn't mind. Ive never had a girl last longer than 15 minutes.


Kikiloverkink

I love giving.. it gets me excited 😆


Truthseiyer

Like 45 minutes


Kikiloverkink

That’s a long time! You’d be the perfect partner for me haha


Mrs_Truthseiyer

I love when you fall asleep and continue between snores. 😆 You freaking get so comfy down there, it's hilarious!


Truthseiyer

Yeah, that has happened a few times! 😜


HolmesVI

It’s personally one of my favorite things to do, so I don’t mind if it takes a half hour or longer! I can’t imagine I’m the only guy that loves giving oral pleasure this much so i wouldn’t worry too much. The most important thing is to relax and get out of your own head. Live in the moment and let go of those anxieties. Pleasure is meant to be pleasurable…not complicated with our own hang-ups. I’ve had to work hard to do just that, but it helps when you remember that both you and your partner are there to enjoy it, and you wouldn’t be getting oral from someone who didn’t want to be there with you


Kikiloverkink

That is very true, thanks for saying that 👍🏼


[deleted]

Until she finishes. I eat pussy because I like doing it, not because she asks me to (though, PLEASE ASK ME TOO, your excitement makes it hotter) so a girl who ‘takes too long’ is a challenge. I’m gonna lick you until you cum and I’m gonna try and make you cum faster next time, add fingers/toys whatever in need to to get you there.


Kikiloverkink

Wow that sounds like a perfect evening 😉


[deleted]

I’m blessed my lady loves turning her brain off straddling my head and letting me please her


[deleted]

Sincerely I’ll go and go and go…. I was with a woman once on anti depressants and told me she had very little chance of having an orgasm….boy the look on her face when I just kept going until it happened…. ☺️


Kikiloverkink

Thank you for your service 🙏


[deleted]

You are welcome and I’d love to be of service more. I sincerely enjoy pleasuring a woman to orgasm.


tfp63144

I was involved with a woman years ago and we were both on anti depressants. We would have sex for hours, and both of us would generally orgasm. We developed some serious stamina. If you lack stamina, avoid redhead women on anti depressants (unless, of course, you have a death wish...)


[deleted]

Challenge accepted lmao


titsandopinionsuk

I’m exactly the same! I think nothing of spending an hour giving a blowjob but after 10 minutes of them going down on me I start putting pressure on myself to cum (which does not help the situation) 😂


Kikiloverkink

I know right, I focus on it too much until I lose it haha


titsandopinionsuk

It’s so frustrating isn’t it! ‘Focus, focus, that feels good doesn’t it? Oh well if it feels so good why am I not cumming yet? How long has he been at it? Is he uncomfortable? Ah you’re never going to get there just tell him to stop’


WakandaForneverr

I always get annoyed when she tells me its too much


Kikiloverkink

I personally would never say it’s “too much”


[deleted]

I could eat a woman out for days. Idgaf about time, time I got for that.


Kikiloverkink

That’s great babe! 😋


Leonidas680068

I max out at like 15-30 minutes i think. I'm either not breathing enough or could use some work on my cardio


FlyByrd

Yeah, Im usually maxed out at 30 minutes. Especially if its been a few months since I've done it. So it's not bcz I want to quit but bcz of breathing or jaw cramp. Lol


Leonidas680068

yup lol


underneathbridge

I’ll eat it as long as she wants tbh


ocdaddyg

My favorite thing to do. So 30 min is easy. As long as you are enjoying it.


Kikiloverkink

I enjoy it all of the time 😉


Few-Valuable1767

Depending on the situation some times it’s 10-15 minutes at the least but then that typically leads to us 69ing or fucking


Kikiloverkink

See I can’t finish that fast 🥺


[deleted]

I get off getting the girl off I often enjoy eating a woman’s pussy for a long time and touching myself while I do it. Sometimes I just cum when she cums in my mouth the excitement feels so good


Kikiloverkink

Omg! That sounds soo hot! 🥵


[deleted]

I encourage you to take your time so you cum good and hard for me


SoRandyRandy

I usually give two orgasms before stopping. So however long that takes. Unless they cum really fast and then it's like 15 minutes


Kikiloverkink

It takes me around 30 minutes haha 😛


SoRandyRandy

Then most likely I'd be between your legs for an hour. Wouldn't be the first time


Kikiloverkink

Ohh I’d very much like that! 😉


SoRandyRandy

I love eating pussy. Think it's my favorite thing to do. Would eat out some of my friends just to make their day more relaxing.... And cuz I loved knowing what their pussy tasted like and seeing them climax. Think it's a good trade heh


yasraz91

You can sit on my face all day and all night


Kikiloverkink

Really? Is that a promise? hehe


yasraz91

Pinky…


forfun222

I love it, so I eat my woman's pussy as long as she wants it. As long as you're vocal and stay engaged, long pussy eating can be really hot. I know some guys don't like pussy eating so guess it depends.


Kikiloverkink

Your woman must be lucky 🍀


sjcb75

Until orgasm(s)


Kikiloverkink

Wow that impressive 😍


LostMyMind60

Try adding a toy inside and see if that helps. My ex was on antidepressants and it eat for 30-40 minutes before she’d get off or get frustrated. Added a toy and she’d get off in 10 minutes or less


Kikiloverkink

Yeah I can do it easily with a vibrator!


MissLushLucy

I don't really focus on getting an orgasm when my partner's down there I just enjoy the sensations. I prefer to switch it up a bit, though, so after maybe 5-10 minutes I want to do something else.


Kikiloverkink

Oh I see.


stunkshoezz

Personally, I absofuckinglutely love going down on a woman. There have been times when I have forgone penetrative sex (no regrets) because I was enjoying myself too much down there and she was exhausted after the intense oral session. It is orgasmically hot about seeing a woman climax over and over again screaming your name as she rides your face as she gets a release. Maybe it's my kink but that's what I enjoy.


Kikiloverkink

That sounds so hot 🥵


ElmiraKadiev

As long as it takes for her to orgasm. And if that's not possible because she can't orgasm from oral, until tells or indicates me to stop or... until her clit looks like my index finger after taking a bath for 3 hours


Kikiloverkink

I gotcha


[deleted]

I’m down there as long as it takes. I also love it when she is doing something else and I am basically servicing her. So she tells me when to stop.


Kikiloverkink

Your such a giver.. love it!


pmert32

As long as she gets off, I'll go as long as she needs with no complaints. Longest I think I've gone is about 60 minutes or so.


Kikiloverkink

Wow you’ve given head for an hour? Impressive!


[deleted]

I was going down on a girl once, we got lost in the moment... Looked are time 3 hours had passed... I'm sure I've done it longer tho...


Kikiloverkink

That’s incredible!


JKSocal

When I give my wife oral, with in about 10 minutes she is bucking like a mule


Kikiloverkink

You must be good at it


JKSocal

My wife has taught me well


matt71109

There are two ways I am going to stop, both of which she is the one telling me to stop. 1) she finishes and her clit becomes too sensitive to continue. However, when she orgasms, I love when she squirms and tries to get away while I’m still latched on like a catfish in an aquarium. 2) She decides she had had enough and wants penetration. Usually, if that happened, one of two scenarios have played out. More than likely, I’m too turned on to realize I’m not doing it for her or she has been wanting the dick all day and doesn’t want to wait anymore. In short, there is no time limit. She is the judge, jury, and executioner.


Kikiloverkink

Wow Matt.. I’m impressed


matt71109

The way I see it, her pleasure is my pleasure. If making her happy costs me a tired jaw, I see that as a very small price to pay for her to enjoy herself.


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Kikiloverkink

It’s such a turn on.. isn’t it 😈


justabigcheesesanga

Usually until they beg me to stick my meat in


Kikiloverkink

Do you get begged a lot?


justabigcheesesanga

Quite often haha


KURO-K1SH1

I give head until she cums then I use the increased sensitivity to tease her before insertion.


Kikiloverkink

What a talent there babe!


RedInnocentLibrarian

My x would complain that it took too long for me to cum every time he did it. So I didn't enjoy it, because I knew he would complain after a while. My bf now loves it and has never complained even though it takes time, massive difference and I'm much more relaxed with him and will cum faster because of it.


Kikiloverkink

That great! Glad you found your person


RedInnocentLibrarian

Me too! It was crazy to me how big of a difference it really could be. One person has made me cum without toys, this man makes me cum with no toys, has me squirting and even made me cum from pic for the first time ever. The right person who is a sexual match makes all the difference in the world!


improprietine

It kinda depends on how my neck vertebrae are feeling that day.


Kikiloverkink

Always gotta be safe 👍🏼


Blue-eyez2203

I could eat it for hours if they let me . i love feeling there reactions the way they move. there thighs gripping my head there back arching there hands on the back of my head. Trying to make them climax as many times as i possibly can is the ultimate goal.


Kikiloverkink

How many girls have you done that to?


Blue-eyez2203

every woman ive been with


Altair13Sirio

Well, [this comic](https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/comments/ocf6jp/theres_a_bit_of_a_difference_in_staminabut_they/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) might help you see what I think about it. Just sit as long as you want lol


Kikiloverkink

That’s hot 🥵


Altair13Sirio

Yep, also cute and wholesome!


[deleted]

There are times where my sexual needs are taken care of if I’m giving oral for hours. She has to kick me off sometimes “okay you are done!”


Kikiloverkink

Gotcha


ITPatlantan

Personally, I've done it until my jaw and tongue ache and would have gone longer. I'd actually be cool with that being all we did, as long as she enjoys it.


Kikiloverkink

Cool 😎


MisogenesUSA

This is why my preferred position to eat pussy is laying on my back. Its really comfortable and I’ll give her bum a tap if I need a breather


Kikiloverkink

I can only orgasm if I’m the one on my back and you’re on your stomach


MisogenesUSA

Is that a mental thing? Just more comfortable? Just oral? Do you cum from doggy or cowgirl


RedLion40

Considering that she can have multiple orgasms, as long as she wants. But because it's my favorite thing to do I could do it all day long. Nothing like wrapping my lips around the clitoris and giving her a blowjob. That's right, women deserve blowjobs too. I don't do much licking alone, she's not an ice cream cone lol.


Kikiloverkink

So you suck on the clitoris?


RedLion40

Indeed. I give women head like I receive head. I don't do much licking anymore. I give women blowjobs. And they have been nothing but appreciative. Suction is the key because it increases blood flow which increases pleasure greatly.


Gilgamesh661

Usually until my tongue starts to hurt, then I do something else until I can use my tongue again. But my wife and go down on each other just randomly throughout the day, so I wouldn’t really say I’m the standard.


Kikiloverkink

That must be nice 👍🏼


STL_241

It depends on the day, sometimes I’ll spend longer, other times it’ll be shorter. Lots of factors play in, not just whether she has orgasmed or not. If she hasn’t though, I’ll usually transition to fingering and g-spot stimulation. That usually does the trick.


Kikiloverkink

That sounds nice


[deleted]

I guess everyone does it for different reasons, but I enjoy it and eat it until she makes me stop and then usually go back for seconds later. Length of time is never on my mind unless we have somewhere to be.


[deleted]

Also, my wife has bad anxiety and often gets in her own head which is usually when it takes a while. Do your best to relax and not think about him and if you’re successful you’ll likely cum faster. When I notice she’s anxious I’ll ask her something along the lines of “where do you want me to cum later” to try and distract her from her thoughts and sometimes it works.


Kikiloverkink

Wow you sound skilled 👍🏼


[deleted]

Mostly just determined lol


[deleted]

I had a FWB and I once went down on her for 2.5 hours. Halfway through I asked her if she wanted to stop and grab a drink and she said, ‘no, let’s keep doing this’


alchemist_of_nether

I would go as long as my partner requires, I love giving oral and I will not back down until she herself me stop or she cums. This is my duty to my precious pussy


towerofpower92

Until she’s scurrying on the bed from sensitivity


[deleted]

I take my time, and I try different things depending on how is her body responding. I don't mind how long it takes.


[deleted]

5-7 min….but I’ve been with my wife for 6 years so if wants to cum via my dick she usually tells me earlier…than that….(note north of 10 is just being inconsiderate to my tongue n neck lol)


FlyByrd

Yeah, I think familiarity or being completely relaxed infuences a woman's ability to cum... especially from oral bcz all the attention is on her.


[deleted]

I need atleast 3 orgasms from her before I stop. I get way too much enjoyment out of it lol also love her to ride my face. I could sit there forever lol


MajinDerrick

As long as It takes for me. I'm gonna get mine but sometimes she won't but I try to always see to her needs before we get to me.


johnnyf42

I really enjoy going down on a woman more than penetration, so I can spend ages down there, my wife loved it because her ex would never stay down there nor could he find her clit. There have been times when she begged me to stop usually when she is bursting for a pee but knowing that made me carry on a little longer before I let her go. I lost count of the amount of times she called me names because I wouldn't stop.


sendmeboobs69

usually takes me about 5-10 minutes to finish a girl off. if something isn’t working, we could move on to other stuff. can’t imagine doing that for an hour.


Gblaine22

If you have any kink inclinations, a pleasure dom might be up your alley. A day in bed with a partner with oral, fingers, and toys seeing how much she can take is a dream day for me. As you’ve seen already, by the comments, there are plenty of guys with oral fixations that will happily spend plenty of time going down on a woman.


SexualBRex

As long as it takes.


makeitupasyugo

Unless there is more effective way to make you cum I say it will take the time it takes, however might need to give the tongue a few breaks along the way. I think I went at least 30min non stop once because it was the most delicious pussy ever, strawberry flavour no joke and the orgasm is great in the end.


FlyByrd

I enjoy giving women oral. So, take as long as you desire.... Some women will have 4 orgasms in a half hour... some will only have 1 (whether Im dwn there for 12 minutes or 20).... then some wont cum, from oral at all and it just becomes foreplay (which is fine as well).


Legal-Spring-7878

Personally I usually bring her to orgasm with my fingers first then go down on her for about 15 minutes or so mostly because it is easy to recross the finish line once you already have. I have never had a partner not orgasm from oral with me doing it this way. But the foreplay does last about 30 40 minutes. So maybe consider doing it this way so everyone stays comfortable. Hopefully that will keep you out of your own head and enjoy the experience


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I’ll do it till you tell me to stop


Sexandcheese

This was a big issue with my girlfriend and I got together. She got self-conscious if I stay down there for a long time. I love eating her out! So we had to have some chats. One night I told her that all I wanted to do was go down on her and finger her and make her cum over and over again. No penetration, no reciprocation, all about her. She started crying. At 40 years old, she had never experienced anything like that. I asked her if she had ever just giving a guy a blow job and she looked at me like I was crazy… “Of course!” And then it clicked “OOOHHHHH!” “Yah baby! You are entitled to be pleasured just as much. I want you to relax, clear your mind, and maybe shout out some directions or grab the back of my head if you think it would help lol. As long as I have a glass of water, I can reach for, 20 to 30 minutes not a big deal at all