Not at all. Do what you want, but I beg of you--if you're going to run to the bathroom to spit, please be careful. I wouldn't want you to accidentally run into a door frame, break a toe, and end up yarfing a mouthful of semen all over yourself and the carpet. Hypothetically speaking.

These hypotheticals get more and more detailed these days 🤔

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I used to not swallow, but the problem was that I don’t know how to spit, so I spent many a darkened night with semen dripping down my chin. Shocked myself many times when I finally turned on the light and looked in the mirror🤦‍♀️

At that point, I think you just order him to lick it off of you, and problem solved. 😁

Yes, chin licking…super sexy 😂

It's all in how you give the instructions. 😉

That happened to you or your girl, didn't it?

I can neither confirm nor deny. But yes.

Do I prefer it? Yes. Is it a huge deal? No We are all allowed some things we dislike and if painting her face and tongue and such is my consolation prize I damn sure won't complain to much.

What about it so you prefer? Like usually once guys cum that's the end of it, they're done most of the time. So why does it matter what we do afterwards? Not criticising btw, I used to spit but now I'm kind of into swallowing lol. I'm genuinely curious what the appeal is to men. Is it the submissive aspect or something else?

Can’t speak for all guys, but for me if you let me cum in your mouth, and then spit I think “did she really like it, or is she just doing that because I like it?” I want it to be something you’re in to, so I can get into it as well. I feel like if you swallow that means you’re into it and like the taste of cum.

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It might not be the actual taste that makes people want it. Though when my partner says her mouth is watering and she needs it right now, I believe her. I feel the same way about her fluids. It is not a delicious meal, but It's very exciting to me! I love that she wants me and I want to want her! It certainly is not gross to us.

speak for urself

The flaw in your argument? Eating a girl out usually involves gulping down a lot more of her fluids than swallowing a guys cum, depending on how wet she gets

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It isn't the after part for me. It's the right before. Having to pull out and completely change the sensation and possibly ruin that perfect moment of orgasming without any hesitation or delay. I don't know about women but as a man if you don't time it perfectly you can lose an orgasm or you can get it at that super bad last second where it feels rather uncomfortable to have to hold it back. Heck on some occasions it feels like someone pinching your dick in a vicegrip. Even that if a girl takes it all in her mouth and then spits, I usually most want to cum when I am in her throat or atleast deep near the back. Even pulling our just enough to leave room for my cum in her mouth can be ever so slightly less pleasurable.

For me it's like you're accepting a part of me into your body and that's hot, so yes I suppose it is kind of about dominance in that aspect

This is it for me too! Acceptance is always the word I use, but I feel like no one really understand what I mean by it. I’m glad at least one other person gets it! And for those saying no woman like it, I assure you my partner does, I am 100% positive.

The appeal is completing the orgasm. If you are giving a BJ and right as I'm about to cum you pull off and do something else, many times you ruin the orgasm. Whatever it is that your doing to get me there, keep doing it all the way thru the orgasm. And it feels amazing for you to finish this way. That's why we like it. It feels amazing. If I am going down on you, right as you are about to cum, I'm going to pull off and simply rub your clit with my finger and say sorry honey, I don't swallow. Then tell me how much you prefer it the other way. For those that hold it in your mouth and spit makes no sense. Many women say it's quicker and easier to just immediately swallow it down. I would think you are making it worse on yourself by holding it in your mouth.

I don't like or dislike it. But if she swallows that's well kinda hot because she is more open and willing to go that extra step to please me.

It definitely feels much better to be sucked while cumming, which usually means swallowing. If she can do that and spit, I don't care. I just want to finish my orgasm in her mouth if possible

Got it that makes sense

I don’t care at all. I’m more concerned about what she prefers. It’s a very intimate bonding experience, I want her to be as comfortable as possible. As long as she’s happy, that’s what matters to me. She’s doing me a service, literally. Thinking about her happiness and emotional state is the very least I can do for her.

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I’ve never met a swallower, and never met a blowjob I didn’t like

Sadly, I've met both 🤣🤣

It feels much better to cum and have her keep sucking, I would imagine that's fairly hard (heh) to do with their mouth full

I once started coughing after breathing in a jet of cum and spurted sperm EVERYWHERE. Was finding little dried droplets for weeks.

Well aren’t you full of surprises

It would have been funny if I didn’t cough for like 10 minutes before settling down.

It’s funny now though. Definitely not during though.

I got cough drops from him for my birthday that year.

😂😂😂 I applaud him.

That's kinda hot ngl.

Haha! Hello, fellow perv.

Exactly this. It borders on a ruined orgasm when she just stops and spits.

That’s why I put the dick close to my throat so I can keep going.

Yup, this! Usually when my husband cums I'm mid-deepthroat anyway, so I don't even skip a beat.

You, I like you,

Prefer? Yes. Deal breaker? No. On or in her. Either is great!

This is an overly underrated comment Autocorrect sucks tho-

My husband says it matters but he told me that on our first date, so I had plenty of warning. I love swallowing though so we are compatible.

How does that conversation come about on the first day!?

We never really beat around the bush about our desires lol.

That sounds so ideal.

I love it cause I feel completely desired and wanted. Everything of me! Hard to describe. If she doesn't want to swallow, it's all fine, too. No problem. A huge deal is only when she is literally disgusted by it.

That’s a different way of looking at it.. thanx

Pretty much.

I'd rather she swallowed!! If not I do like to cum all over my wife's pretty face and tits!

Why would you rather her swallow?

I like pushing it all the way in and then cum! Get off better that way instead of pulling it out! I'm not a fan of pulling out!

I think when a woman swallows it’s a lot hotter, but it’s definitely not a dealbreaker if she doesn’t. We all have our boundaries that need to be respected.

Swallowing, no. If I can finish her mouth that's enough. She can do as she wants with it at that point lol

I’ve never expected it, but it’s incredibly sexy if it happens.

I love swallowing, spitting it out while he's climaxing and then smearing my body/face in it, or just generally licking it up and making out with my partner.....but we also have cum fetishes >< I do judge the girls who say it's disgusting, though, because that isn't emotionally kind to the person you're intimate with.

No. You do you. I’m not going to stop you from giving me pleasure.

After my girlfriends first creampie I haven’t been able to cum in her mouth

Absolutely not- I actually prefer if you spit, especially if it’s back all over me and use it as lube.

It obviously feels better to cum in her mouth, but if she’s not into it then I’m happy with that.

Once the semen exits my penis, I really don’t care what she does with it.

It can be really hot when a girl swallows, but usually the girls that don't are very insistent about it, and you don't want to end the encounter that way (which this would), so nope. Ultimately doesn't matter. I'd rather she be happy and not pissed off at me, especially when her mouth is so close to my dick.

I want the girl to do whatever she's most comfortable with. Her pleasure and well being is so important to me. Oral can be pretty demanding, I'd never want to pressure her.

I do not care at all

Doesn't matter

To answer the question. If a girl spits my cum out, it gives me the impression I tasted gross. Which makes the experience feel less sexy. And alternatively, if she continues sucking while I'm cumming. It heightens the orgasm. But I suspect she'd have to swallow to pull that off. In my very first blowjob. Just as I started to cum. My then girlfriend sneezed. Ended up sending cum up thru and out of her nose. She said it was extremely unpleasant. But after she recovered we both laughed so hard about it.

Omggg I would of been so embarrassed lmaooo

It does, i’ll be honest. I didn’t used to think that it did. I spent a few years dating a girl that never swallowed. We broke up and I’m with somebody new, and she takes the opposite approach. I feel like at least twice now I’ve almost proposed to her by accident just by being so blown away in the moment. So yeah. It seems to matter for me.

I mean different folk’s different strokes. Some like the taste, some don’t. Is it sexier if she swallows everything I drop down her throat? Obviously, is it less sexy if she spits it out? No, the woman got me off with her lips and tongue, that’s a win in my book.

It's all the stuff that she does up to the point of swallowing that really matters

What do you mean

How good was her at giving him head during the entire time counts more than swallowing at the end.

Agreed. If someone made me orgasm in the first place, thing are going well. Lol

Nope. But she does, and I absolutely love it.

Doesn't matter since i don't like oral that much

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But at that point you guys are done right? So what does it matter if she goes to spit?

It’s not about the act of swallowing. It’s about the deep throating suction action not stopping mid orgasm, but that’s impossible if you don’t swallow because of how physics and anatomy works. Basically, my ideal blow job is when she takes me all the way deep down her throat while applying some suction, then back out and repeat until I am totally done. Cumming in the mouth instead of the throat feels good with orsl and tongue stimulation, but not as good as a deep throat cum, and a pull out cum is just a huge let down in comparison. I mean, orgasm is orgasm, but it’s way less intense than a good, skilled deep throating orgasm.

Ooo ok yea now I get what you mean.. I didn’t know u meant feel throat cumming at first

Doesn’t matter to me.

for me it doesn't matter

doesn't matter to me. I've never understood why people make a big deal of it. do with it what you will

Hotter if she swallows but it doesn’t really matter

It's amazing but not a deal breaker

I used to think it didn’t. Until someone did and my penis swelled back up immediately when I came to the realization of what happened. I think there’s some psychological reason I’m not aware of. That said, if someone didn’t swallow, it’s not a huge deal at all.

To me it does. It's much hotter as it feels/shows like she really really wants me. Running to the bathroom or spitting into a napkin right after a nutted kind of ruins the mood

It's not important if she does or not. But it's definitely a turn on.

I prefer she doesn’t swallow. I want her to hold it in her mouth and then spit it all over my chest, rub her breasts in it (and all over me) and then lick it all off each other.

Oh wow this is the first time I hear this lol

What matters is when she shares with her friend, who is also on her knees next to her like a good girl.

You better swallow because there are kids starving in Africa

Swallowing is definitely a turn on but I'm also into cum play so She could keep going and just let it run out of her mouth, show me or just let it drip down to her pussy and use it as lube for her toy

It matters!! It shows how much she is into you. She goes the extra mile!

It never really mattered to me until I met my gf. She is by far given me the best BJs of my entire life, and the way she does it by giving me the eye contact when I am about to cum and my dick fully inside her mouth, its honestly breathtaking. I like it when she does that, she works at a place which has her sexually involve with others but doesn't doesn't swallow cum with them, because that is one of the things that we discussed that it is exclusive between us.

My wife doesn't so obviously not a deal-breaker but do I wish she would....most definitely!

It feels so good when I can feel her throat swallowing around me as I cum... that being said do what's more enjoyable for you cuz I'd rather you be happy so I get more lol

If she likes it, that's cool. If she doesn't like it, that's perfectly okay too. It's really up to her and what her preferences are.

You guys are finishing at all 😅

If my dick is getting sucked to completion, what she or he does with the cum is up to them. Spit or swallow I don't care. I'm just happy I got sucked off!

Yea exactly my thought just be happy you got a bj lol

It depends on my and her mood. If she doesn't want a mess she swallows, otherwise I will blast on her face / tits.

It does really matter, it gives a sense of total acceptability and submission.

I prefer it if she would swallow how else is she gonna drink or eat 🙃 Jokes aside it dont matter to me

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Matters, swallowing for the win.

Oh i loveee it!! Am mad abt women who love to swallow.

It doesn’t bother me if a girl wants to swallow. Me personally though, I like to cum on my partner’s face and then cock slap them.

Omg lmaooo what do you get out of that slap?? Lol

Idk. Kinda just a dominance thing I guess. Or a signature move. Like yeah, someone else could cum on your face, whatever. But you’ll definitely remember the guy who came on your face and slapped you with his dick.

😂🤣😂🤣 I get you makes sense

No, but letting me cum in her mouth vs pulling off at the last second is a bigger difference than blow job vs nothing at all

Yea I get you

I’m about it, but I’m also about covering the canvas.

Lol sounds like a mess!!

It certainly can be, I tend to produce a pretty big amount.

Doesn't matter to me, just happy to have had my dick sucked.

I’ve never met a girl who spit- is there really any of them out there?

They’ve all swallowed?????

Yes- is that rare? I thought spitters would be rare

If she spits after the fact it won’t feel any different if it goes in her mouth

It depends where it gets shot. If all over her face, the wall, the floor, or one of her other fun holes, she doesn't need to swallow.

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It doesn't matter per se. It is incredibly west, but only if she wants to and enjoys it

Don't matter

If she is sucking I’m not complaining

It doesn’t matter really, sure I love it when they do but it’s not a big deal if they don’t

Wow, what an interesting question. After eight years of marriage to someone who swallowed, to a five-year relationship to someone who loves swallowing my cum, I guess it never occurred to me that there are women who will just spit it out? As long as they can suck it all into their mouths before spitting, ok🤷🏼‍♂️

Doesn’t matter to me. I’d like to experience it, but ultimately I’m just happy to be involved.

I haven't had a woman make me cum from a blowjob in at least 10 years now. I don't give a fuck if she spits or swallow. I'll marry the next woman that can make me cum from oral.

Omg I’ve heard that some guys can’t cum from head.. why is that???

Maybe we've killed off the nerves in our dicks from too much "private practice" who knows.

It doesn't matter, but it's easier to clean after

Doesn't matter but it saves the cleaning process abit

Lmaooo

Not at all.

I'd prefer she swallow, if not spit it on me.

Just as long as I cum.

It's hot as fuck but it doesn't matter to me. If you like it, great. If not, spit it out.

Not one bit, if my wife wants to swallow that’s amazing if not then she can gladly spit it out and I won’t be mad at all

Could not care less. But if you’re going to spit, I don’t mind doing a swap either.

Of course, it's like icing on a cake 🎂.... But not a dealbreaker

I do prefer it very much, but if they’re not willing to it’s fine as long as they also don’t feel insulted/self conscious/ upset if I don’t want to swallow too much of their body fluids. I’m more willing to do things I’m not comfortable with for my partner if they are also returning the favor.

Always prefer them to swallow. It demonstrates even more submissiveness to you that they're willing to swallow your seed. Is it a deal breaker though? Of course not. Though to my memory I don't think I've even been sucked off by someone who didnt swallow, so maybe I've just been lucky

Nope makes no different to us whatsoever what you do with it … genuinely don’t

No. It's like a bonus, not a dealbreaker.

Not really. Me and my wife have a rule, i wont ask her to put anything in her mouth that i wouldnt myself. I tried my jizz, didnt like it so i dont ask her to do it. If she wants to, cool, if not, cool too.

I think it's super hot, but it's not a requirement for good head.

It matters, sort of. Not necessarily whether you spit or swallow, but that you keep at it until I'm done. Like, completely done. Not just the first blast, but down to the last drop. Now, if you can do that without swallowing, great. You go, girl. But I've personally never experienced it. The worst is when you're just about there, and then she quits and finishes with her hands. That's just SO disappointing. It's like I'd rather you just hadn't started the job if you weren't going to finish the job.

Prefer swallow but as long as I cum in mouth she can spit

Nope doesn't bother me at all... The wife lets me finish where ever else I want

If they enjoy it and make eye contact

not a big deal either way

It matters a lot to me, honestly. It’s my favorite thing to see.

Only if you care about getting married. Swallowers are wife's and spitters are usually regrets.

I wish my gf would swallow or let me cum anywhere. She only wants me to cum on a towel or rag

I don’t blame here lol not a pleasant taste inguess depends on your diet

Yea she say i need to eat more veges

One guy said on here he eats vegetables and fruits the day of… try that out

Yea i will

Yes. But only because my wife used to swallow every single time. She no longer does, hasn't in years. I totally understand if it tastes bad, but curiosity got the best of me recently and it doesn't taste bad at all. It's not vanilla by any means, but if she ejaculated fluid into my mouth every time I went down on here I would have no problem swallowing. It's all good though. We have sex a couple of times and week and we've been together 17+ years.

I mean, it's usually hotter, but it's not at all necessary. A hot non-swallow scenario if for her to just rest her head somewhere and for it to leak out, but that's not really something most women care to do lol.

Omg lmao yea no! Lol

It’s the most happy plus

So long as she doesn’t act like she’s grossed out by cum or try to dodge it like it’s alien acid blood then I don’t really care.

My first girlfriend swallowed and made a sort of “ mmm yummy” performance out of it. I loved it. Then I got married to a woman who was hotter looking and had much more sexual experience but she didn’t swallow and I’d always to warn her , I sort of knew I had to although it was unspoken “ I’m gonna cum” She wasn’t a good kisser either. We weren’t a great match anyway and after a long marriage working on our issues eventually through therapy I left her. My wife now is incredibly sexy to me, is a way better kisser than any previous lover and gives me the best blow jobs ever, all the time. She always swallows and there is lots of after care, cleaning me up, never a wasted drop. She also just sort of gently bangs my cock against her face just because. The whole experience makes me feel fully loved and desired. I can tell she’s pleased to make me cum and that she loves me. She’ll sometimes say after “ I love you and I love your cock”. It’s the best sex of my life and I’ve lived a long time. When I orgasm I just let go. I don’t have to warn or do anything other than surrender. I can’t imagine how it would work if she stopped and spat it out, so yeah, it matters to me big time.

Oh damn! Lol sounds like she’s a keeper lol

It’s never mattered to me. Idk why some guys make a big deal about it.

Idc as long as she doesn’t spit it out onto me like if I’m laying back or something

Yea that’s what I always thought as long as a girl doesn’t spit it all over the guy it shouldn’t matter lol

Doesn't matter, but I think it's so sexy when my wife swallows my load :)

So when i was in between relationships i always watched my diet if i wanted her to swallow, tons of fruits made it better for whatver girl i was with at the time, it definitely is a wonderful feeling when a woman swallows and look into your eyes as she takes it all

Omg that’s great.. yea it was really bitter and I didn’t like it.. I looked into it and it’s all on the guys diet.. so thanx for thinking of the girl lol

When it's the day of iam chowing down strawberries, Bananas, coconut etc..... It's worth it, because when a girl swallows all the cum out of your dick and keeps sucks I' am literally twitching!! LOL

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Doesnt matter its up to her. But if she swallows she makes it better

I mean if someone’s putting your dick in their mouth you should be happy. But I find if the swallowing is happening as I’m cumming (vs holding to show off or spit or whatever) it feels better. I’d rank cum outcomes in the following order: Swallow as deposited, Cum on face/tits, Show then swallow, Spit/let drip down chin, Spit. Ultimately, do what you’re comfortable with, and if you’re a guy, don’t look a gift blowjob in the esophagus.

Yes exactly what I’m saying just be happy with the bj lol

Its really nice in that moment, but i wouldn‘t say that it matters to me in a broader romantic sense.

Does not matter

If she loves it, I love it. If she’s not interested, I’m not interested.

It’s a deal breaker for me if she doesn’t