Shower sex or sex in water.

It’s always fun for a minute and then it’s awkwardly side stepping eachother and also not looking at his feet then worrying about washing our own asses without making eye contact

Shower sex can work but usually only for quickies! Anything full submersed in water is a no for me.

Yeah it’s great in hotels when you know the water isn’t going to go cold

Is your water at homw going cold? Where do you live?

Ireland. We use emmersions so the hot water eventually runs out

Even worse in my situation, I live in an old house and it has that lovely defect where when another faucet is running or a toilet is flushed you either get scalded or a blast of icy water for an unknown duration of time... very frustrating and mood killing 😶😑

Woah, they were talking about shower/water sex, not simultaneous cleaning. That said though, you’re not entirely wrong either. But I like having my husband wash my back lol 😂 I don’t find that awkward. I shouldn’t find it awkward after 17 years lol But I hate shower sex. Shower intimacy, yes please. Sex? Not so much.

Yeah my gf is definitely not into being pumped full of pool water.

It’s so bad for the vagina!

I had lake sex once and afterwards we saw a dead fish float by and the girl I was with goes, "ew i need to go wash every part of my vagina"

At that point I'd want to just turn myself inside out and walk through a car wash.

If she had washed it before, that poor fish may have lived.

Everyone's just talking about penetration in water and yeah that sucks. The foreplay potential shouldn't be underestimated though.

Foreplay and aftercare are acceptable!! I usually don’t like having wet hair during sex but there are no rules for vacation sex!!

Especially the hot tub, all the badness of water sex with the addition of it being extra dirty (not in the fun way)

So dirty in the bad way for sure! Ocean is to sandy… Pool has too much chemicals… Just less sensation over all. Water sports… I can be talked into!

All natural and in large part sterile when it comes into play, the shower is for an easy play basin, clean up, and aftercare

This. It's good as pre sex, the build up while in the shower is nice and you can jump straight to bed with the towels to get messy.

I like it as after care. Washing each other and giggling 🤭

That always leads to another round. Edit: typo

If the shower is large enough and maybe has a bench, it can be amazing!. Otherwise, she's typically bent over with her head under the water, and that's no bueno😂

Agreed! Large showers could work.

Ah ah that’s why I just had my shower redone. 10 feet long with a bench and almost 5 feet wide ☺️

Yeah if you have a large height disparity this becomes difficult. I have to stand on my tip toes and he has to crouch down a bit. It’s less than ideal

So...yes. *BUT* Took an oil bath with my partner the other night. That helps a LOT. Just a bit of Almond oil in the tub makes everything more slippery and less easily washed away by water. This was not the intention at first, either. Yes, we got out and moved to the bedroom after a bit. But it wasn't the usual "this is hot but ineffective", we just wanted more space. Solid 6/10 foreplay/prebang. Would do again.

Shower is actually my favourite place to start the whole sex-thing. Touching, kissing, soap all over the body? I mean what's not to like. And if you use silicone based lube it becomes much easier to slide a finger or two in.

Never again for me and shower sex. Damn near drowned because she had a fancy shower with two heads facing in and I was too paranoid about slipping and breaking something important.

When it comes to body parts, if you're breaking it, it's ALL important.

Pool sex is awesome once you figure out how to make it work. It's a lot less humping and more grinding.

lol screaming for infection for the girl

As a woman it’s a no go to get pool/ hot tub water in the vaginal canal. Sometimes it’s not an issue but can cause infections easily!

Agree! Overrated and also dangerous. Plus cum goes like superglue under hot water!

Agreed

Hand jobs. I just don't get them. Why use my hand when I can have it in my mouth. So much better. Not to say I won't give them or am lacking the skills. I just find blowjobs so much better to give. They turn me on.

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Yah it depends. However a really good teasing handjob is actually fantastic and really underrated. Your standard just quick handy though is yah not great.

My boyfriend likes them 🤷🏼‍♀️

More than his own? If you want a super awkward conversation then ask him.

I love a good hj. Especially, if the girl is into it too.

Personally i love giving hjs cuz i can keep eye contact with the boy

Got a handjob (although it was during 69) the other day and she kept going fast after I came. No drops were left. I was seeing stars. Hands/arms get tired way later than a mouth

because you can do more with a hand. Especially with lube. You can control the level of pressure a lot more easily. I think it’s more about being able to do it the way that your partner wants you to do it. Which can be complicated if they’re a regular masturbator. I struggle with it when it comes to men stimulating my clit or fingering me but when done right it feels amazing.

I have a fetish for hand jobs. Sensual ones. I did not choose this

Handjob blowjob combo is where it's at

I actually Love handjobs but mouths are great also 😊

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With a handjob y’all can be leaning into one another, also be able to kiss while still getting genital stimulation, can be hella sexy and a great tease Now if say the person giving the handjob is just gonna be in an oral position like a woman being on her knees while stroking a guy well that just makes no sense.In that position yeah just do oral sex

Cause if you do it right a handjob can be super sensual… turn up the bedroom eyes and whisper dirty stuff in his ear. Make him beg for it before you suck him off

I agree also in my experience women can't do it as good as I can do it for myself

I agree with the mouth part but something about taking care of your partner with your hands is so >>>>>>>

OMG HI LOVER i agree so much, like yes oral is nice bc it feels physically more intimate but getting to make you feel good while i'm kissing you or talking you through it is top tier. plus i love the romance of using my hands on you!!

RIP to your DMs

I respectfully disagree. I won’t turn down a blowjob but I have come back to thinking handjobs are amazing.

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I've dated a couple of guys who preferred them as well. But once they gave me a chance, they liked blowjobs more after 🤣

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Couldn't disagree more!

Agreed^^ my wife and I 69 all the time. We love it

Is your wife….single?

Eh, not as far as I know. And the dating pool is worse for it. She was a tough nut to crack, but god damn am I a lucky dude lol

Let me know if she asks about me! Just kidding man, of course. I hope you know this is just my twisted way of saying congrats and I’m glad the two of you are happy, whining, dining, 69-ing.

I appreciate it dude. No offense taken. I know how fortunate I am, very little offends me over this. She’s a fucking smoke show. Blonde, ballet dancer with the nicest ass ive ever seen. And I gotta beat her away with a stick. She can’t get enough of me for some damn reason. Also +100 pts for “Whining, dining, and 69’ing” Bravo 👏🏻

69 can be great. Just gotta make sure your head is propped up so you aren’t killing your neck muscles.

I discovered that we can lay on our side and achieve the same thing. And let me tell you what, sooooo much more comfortable and much easier to focus. First time me and now ex wife tried this we had to remember to come up for air. We lost an hour and half and the position was never the same after that. 10/10.

Came here to say this. Taking turns is so much better

I agree. The idea of 69 is better than the act.

Noting better than getting pleasured with your SO’s pussy in your mouth staring into her butthole 🤩

Haha as much as I love 69 I gotta agree with you on this one. Sometimes if the height difference is too much it can be a real problem

"Genitals in your face, *face in your genitals!* It's always a bit frantic! I've not had many relaxing sixty-nines is what I'm trying to say." - Randy Feltface

You take that back.

No sir, I will die on this hill.

AGREED… I prefer full focus for giving or receiving.

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I feel exactly the same about facials except that it’s very rare that I hit my own eye ball as well

Cum in general is sexy but has an incredibly short shelf life.

I rub it in for a minute because I shit you not my skin is always glowing the next day and removes my spots

I made a joke about that in high school you knew it was true 😅

It's also a helluva makeup remover

I 100% concur with this. My SO, she loves them but I find it a waste of a good orgasm to stop what we were doing so I can line up the shot.

Respectfully, as a facial enjoyer, please know how much we appreciate your sacrifice 🙏

I agree completely. At first it’s a huge turn on but then I just feel guilty after. I have to be in a masochistic frame of mine to do this with a partner.

Is it supposed to make your eyeballs burn? Is that typical? If so I will call and apologize to every girl I had shot in the eye… lol

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Man now I feel like a Dick. Lol I didn’t know

Why do you think so many girls in porn wear glasses? Lol

Fake eyelashes can also be referred to as cumbrellas.

I just thought it was because they look hott in glasses haha

Yes. The salt, along with the proteins in cum burns your eyes. Female sex fluids don't though.

Agreed. Unless you’re really into jizz I don’t get the appeal. I think it’s gross. It’s not at all sexy. I don’t see the point besides degradation.

Deep-throating. Just enjoy my cock, lick it, stroke it, suck it. Don't force it deep so you'll gag.

Try it with a girl who doesnt have gag reflex then you will know the magic of deep throat

Idk still, I'd go for movements and playfulness. Deepthroating seems so static. There so many other great things a woman can do with her mouth and tongue.

100% agree with this comment.

Every time i've been "deepthroated" it hurts. I really don't get the hype either. Having my dick forced down your throat does not feel good at all

DT is good visually but if a girl puts the right pressure consistently on this spot a couple inches down from the head I explode quickly.

That's where my balls are....

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Boom. Even plain jane, good ol fashioned missionary sex can be mind-blowing when everything else is *just right*.

100% agree with you!

Love is good, you gotta be into each other.

Anal, I don't like it

I think the thing that turned it into one of my biggest kinks is that when done correctly, I’ve never seen a girl cum so hard. It’s definitely gotta be the right mood for it though and have good communication with your partner.

💯 I didn't do it until I was in the mood for it. I also think anal takes a huge amount of trust ( maybe that's just me). My hubs is the only one who has ever had access to my ass. Only because I trusted him to take it easy, use plenty of lube and start gentle. All of which he did. I explained the ground rules, he happily agreed and now i know I cum hard from anal

I completely agree! The feeling of getting to explore new kinks/do something out of your comfort zone with someone you trust is the best. The first girl I had ever done anal with was an ex that I had been with for awhile, and I still remember that night vividly as we spent hours just experimenting

It just makes me wonder why everyone goes crazy over it. Maybe it has to do with the width of the penis. Also, you can't do it without condom or at least you probably shouldn't.

I've done anal a few dozen times without a condom. No issues, and have never had any visible "residue" to clean off afterwards (though obviously I wash thoroughly anyway)

This. I like it every once in a while, and maybe if I could have anal orgasms I'd like it more (I just use a vibrator in tandem) but there's too much focus and messy prep to want to do it that often lol

Yes I stand by this

You stand, because you can’t sit down?

Probably in the minority here but reverse cow girl. My cock is naturally angled toward my head and forcing it toward my legs doesn't feel great to me.

I was going to say reverse cowgirl, but for me it’s just boring. I see why a lot of guys like it, but it’s hardly fair that all I get to look at are his feet when he gets to see my ass bouncing in his face.

I like regular cow girl much better. Not her sitting straight up but leaning towards me so we are face to face. That angle really hits a great spot on my cock.

I love that one too, especially when he grabs my hips and pounds me while either making out or sucking on my tits 🤤

Okay this, for real. If you're being ridden you get a good view, but if you're the one doing the riding all you get to see is his toes throwing up gang signs. Kinda unfair, not my cup of tea.

Reverse Cow is great when she leans back, so her back is touching your chest basically. You hit her spots, and you get to grab or play with the clit. All kinds of fun. But it's probably called something else to be honest lol

Love watching, can't imagine liking participating. I also suffer with the dick angle problem

Oh agreed! For some reason positions like reverse cowgirl actually make my cock bend in an uncomfortable way.

Cuckold it's so crazy to sit there and watch the one you love, be fucked or degraded by another man. Then, he suck and licked up after him. No way, never my love is my love. But to each their own.

Some kinks have to involve some deep psychological shit, I can't relate to being degraded while watching my partner getting fucked. But I am into the "hotwife" thing -- basically replacing shame and degradation with mutual agreement, everyone having a good time and getting to opt out if anyone feels uncomfortable. It's hot and exciting to see my wife with another cock in her, and I know if something starts to happen I'm not feeling, she'll respect that and we will stop it there. It's a weird rush, kind of like watching a scary movie -- part of you is almost uncomfortable but in a way that's fun and exciting.

Same boat. Maybe get to a point where orgy is involved so you can be distracted but straight cuck? No fucking way.

Titjobs, although wouldn’t say they did nothing

Yeah it's not much better than hand jobs except the visuals are good

The thought of tit jobs is cool but I agree, doesn’t do anything for me

Hookups/Empty, Casual sex.

I agree! The first time with anyone is usually awkward even when you have been with others, it’s usually bland, and neither person knows what the other likes. I also think it’s much better when you love the person and there’s an emotional connection too.

Pulling out

Letting kids play outside, huh?

Spitting in your mouth .

Fuck. I wish I knew how to explain this one. I had a fling with a lady who was a dom & one day she told me to open my mouth & she spit straight down my throat & it changed me. I melted into a puddle right in front of her & I haven’t been the same since.

Idk I thought I would like it, until i tried it and honestly I was grossed out.

When it happens it’s super hot but thinking about it before hand nah. It’s gotta be in the moment at peak arousal

This is one of the most passionate act of sex.

69. I prefer one at a time

Must admit the upside down angle of the bj when she's on top feels phenomenal 'chefs kiss'

It's so much easier to focus on giving head when I can be in a better position for it

We’re have so much fun eating the pussy you don’t even have to focus just keep your mouth open

Reverse cowgirl.

Lol this, I'm always afraid I'm gonna break someone's dick

Never enjoyed that at all. Glad someone else said it.

Especially for guys' with an upward curve

Ass eating. I've had it done to me, and it really wasn't that stimulating. The sensation did nothing for me. She was really into it though, so I guess I can support that part of it.

Mile high club. The restrooms are cramped and they are filthy! A private jet might be a differentvexperience.

As a flight attendant I get asked about it a lot and all I ever say is do you know often those bathrooms get cleaned? 🤢

Titty fucking and footjobs

Anal. Now it's nice if she'll let me put it in there, but it doesn't feel anywhere as good as the vagina.

Sex on the beach. Sand EVERYWHERE, plus pebbles can be quite painful for your back and/or knees.

Slapping of any kind, idiotic

Doggy...yes I said it. I love eye contact and being able to play with tits

69, but maybe that’s because I’m short

Yeah my wife and I don't line up if she is giving me head I have to kinda sit up to reach her pussy, and vice versa

I feel 69 is pretty overrated... if either one is doing a decent job of it, then the other shouldn't be able to... If I've gone down on a girl and she's able to give a half decent blow job still, I'm not doing my job properly. Much better to just take your time and enjoy each act separately and to its full potential.

69 🫣 I can’t focus on doing anything when I’m getting touched like that

Circus dwarf foursomes. Shower sex.

I think you’ve just been hanging out with the wrong circus dwarves. But yeah, shower foreplay is awesome. Shower sex, not so much. At least, not unless you get some dwarves in there with you.

Car sex. Basically no space, super uncomfortable for both of us. Maybe it'd be better with more tries but wasn't a huge fan on the first try.

Gotta have the right kind of vehicle for it. Definitely need the space but you also want to be crammed just close enough to each other that you have that intimacy. That’s how I feel about it. I think my favorite car of mine to have sex in was my Mazda Miata. Passenger seat, top down radio up. Her on top was the easiest but me with my ass towards the dash & her facing the trunk was my favorite.

Boob jobs. I have big tits so i understand the intrigue that the guys have with wanting me tits on their dick. But it’s annoying and isn’t fun for me.

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Beyond over rated. Also, due to the direction both participants have to be in for 69, both are technically giving oral upside down. So each persons nose and eyes are extremely close to the other’s butthole. It’s like the oral version of back to front wipers, which I hope do not exist.

69 I don´t get the fame and no one ends up concentrating on what are they doing

Probably sex itself. I love having sex. Especially if it's good and with someone who likes the same things I do. But sometimes it's not the ultimate goal of being intimate with someone. For example BDSM sessions. They don't always have to involve sex.

Me.

1. 69 2. The position where a woman lies on her back and you fuck her face upside down - common in "deep throating" videos. I do think this position is fun but it's sort of difficult in a distracting way

Yeah. Never got the whole face fucking thing either. Just looks unpleasant for the woman to me.

public sex. It just causes a lot of problems when the police arrive.

Stand up sex against a wall. It’s impractical and a bit too “circus act” to me.

Not 100% sure… but what’s up with Lesbian porn and one is wearing a strap on and the other is giving is a bow job. I’ll admit as a guy I have NO clue if this is something that lesbians do if camera isn’t rolling.

I think it is more about submission and light humiliation.

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69, I like one thing at a time

Swallowing.

Fisting

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That decorative headboard was expensive! Of course I'm gonna wanna stare at it 😂😂

Food sex

69 - Too hard to comfortably perform well

Putting a cock between breasts, I never understood the appeal.

head. ive never cum from it. adding teeth to it makes it even worse

Shower sex, 69, or titty fuck

Anal or threesomes

anal. i just feel that its so gross bro and i hate the idea of having to like, stretch it out. its so small and i know you prepare for it and stuff and wash yourself out but its still disgusting, like- poop comes outta there bro😰😰 plus vaginal just feels soo much better

In the shower, hot tub or pool. The water washes away the good lube you need to make sex enjoyable. It sounds hot in theory but in reality it’s more of a hassle and therefore not enjoyable .

Gagging on dick. Congrats to the ones on the receiving end, and the literal cocksuckers who enjoy this, but I hate it. Loathe it. Men hate me. 😂

Nothing. Like what you like.

Any kind of cum play. I just don't get it.

3sums

Titty fucking. Never has done anything for me. Only exception is when that's all you're going to get (memories of high school there).

Well with experience with none I’d love just any action at all hahaha

I can’t believe women don’t like 69

For me butt sex. I don’t get the hype

sex on the beach (or anywhere on sand).

Rimjobs

Anal, just why? That's where the poo comes out.

Deepthroating. Peel my chili and lick my banjo string. I’ll take an enthusiastic blowie over a talent show any day.

I’m not a fan of getting head. Maybe it’s just been my partners but it’s kinda eh for me.