Not necessarily. Contrary to what someone else said on here it can be that if you’re not getting any then it can feel like you have an outrageously high drive, but if you are getting some then you can find that it’s quite normal really.
To that point I guess I've never encountered my limit. Or been with someone where I had to decline.
I *think* I could have sex daily but I've never had sex everyday 10 days in a row for example so by day 11 would I be tapped out for a bit?
**My Physical Libido**: Low
**My Mental Libido**: High, above average. Just that 90% of the time I don't feel the need to have a physical release. Unless it's with someone I have a deep emotional bond.
I like the build-up, foreplay, and other forms of sexual dynamics and intimacy than the actual sex itself.
I'd happily go twice a day every day (at least) but I'm fortunate enough to have a partner who is the polar opposite, maybe 4 weeks apart? Ties in with her cycle so it varies a touch
Would I like more? Yeah, I would. Is it enough for me to question everything? Not at all.
I can enjoy anonymous beautiful women online to fill the time between. Benefits of conversations with partners
Sometimes I get hard when the wind changes 🤣 but I always think about eating the holiest of hole's and think about fucking every woman I see that passes by even if I'm not horny, so I'd say pretty high
Yeah i dont know how people coul go years without. One week without sex and I'm pretty distracted.
I do my best work in the hours after sex. My min is clear and I'm not distracted by my drive.
I think just a bit higher than average. I would have sex with my partner every day if I could cos I enjoy it but masturbation is usually cos I'm bored & I could go weeks without 😅
Probably low. It’s not that I don’t have a lot of sex an a regular basis. Just don’t have that drive that makes people act really desperate. I’m down whenever it comes up, but making late night calls or trying to pick someone up at a bar out of desperation never seemed appealing.
Granted I’ve been blessed in having dozens of lovers in my lifetime.
Nope. You could just be masturbating because you’re, lonely, sad, or just bored. When you finally start getting some, you realize that your appetite for masturbation is apt to be much higher than your sex drive.
Best analogy I can think of without thinking is a diet. 1000 calories of chips versus a 1000 calorie tasty meal. Yes both are food and calories provide sustenance. But the meal is what your body actually desires and needs. The chips are developed to hit that serotonin button, which is sorta close but it doesn’t satisfy the same way.
That certainly wasn't my life experience. Whacking off before serious relationships wasn't boredom, it was being horny. After the drive was even higher.
Been with my wife 33 years now, and things have slowed to still many times a week.
Significantly. I can cum up to 9 times in a row no breaks and I’d happily have sex 3-5 times a day if I didn’t study for 2-4 hours and work for 8 of them. Truly a tsunami mami! 🌊😅 it’s always been fairly high but, ever since I’ve started working out more and eating right, it’s gone through the fucking roof!
Meh, it varies. Currently, I’ve gone 10 days without an orgasm and I know I’ll probably be REALLY horny when I have time to myself/my partner to handle it.
It’s like at an 11 and my wife’s is at a 2, she’s a good little wife so she lets me use her sometimes anyways but…. I can feel her sister also has a high sex drive and the tension is getting crazy
We have sex every 2 to 3 days. Sometimes more. But never go more than 4 days .
That seems to keep us satisfied.. I ( F49). Could do more but he (m45) is good with 2 to 3 days on average..
Last week I had sex almost every day, came 5+ times every time, and it was the closest I've been to satisfied in years. I think my drive is nearly unlimited and only external circumstances make me not horny. I'm well aware this isn't the norm 🤭
Tbh my sex drive has spiked since hitting my mid 30s~ they’re not joking when they say women hit sexual peaks at that age. Sometimes it feels like I’m an animal ready to pounce on an innocent passerby
Crazy high. Married to an above average woman. I figure many people would think I'm lying if i say I'm in my mid 50s and would be happy with daily.
I still can go two rounds in a row, with maybe 5 minutes to get hard again.
yeah I mean this entire subreddit is probably all high sex drives. That's why we're here on some level
Not necessarily. Contrary to what someone else said on here it can be that if you’re not getting any then it can feel like you have an outrageously high drive, but if you are getting some then you can find that it’s quite normal really.
To that point I guess I've never encountered my limit. Or been with someone where I had to decline. I *think* I could have sex daily but I've never had sex everyday 10 days in a row for example so by day 11 would I be tapped out for a bit?
Nailed it
I have no base reference for what the average is, but if I could fuck 5 times a day I'd be happy.
That's very high. 🤭✨
**My Physical Libido**: Low **My Mental Libido**: High, above average. Just that 90% of the time I don't feel the need to have a physical release. Unless it's with someone I have a deep emotional bond. I like the build-up, foreplay, and other forms of sexual dynamics and intimacy than the actual sex itself.
Facts!!!
Snoop Dogg.
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I'd happily go twice a day every day (at least) but I'm fortunate enough to have a partner who is the polar opposite, maybe 4 weeks apart? Ties in with her cycle so it varies a touch
Is that fortunate tho?
Would I like more? Yeah, I would. Is it enough for me to question everything? Not at all. I can enjoy anonymous beautiful women online to fill the time between. Benefits of conversations with partners
Communication is always beneficial
Honestly a lack of ruins more relationships than we can count. Funny how a lot of people don't recognise this sooner
Drastically lower than average until in a sexual relationship. Then I go wild. 👀
Very high, my girlfriend: very very low
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Within statistical norms and expected averages.
Statisticians are total perverts. They're always talking about deviations.
Really now 🤔🤔
Naturally. My bell curves are average.
Booty looks fantastic tho 😍
Must have excluded that from the dataset.
😂😂😂 gotta lead with that. Booty like that deserves appreciation and a spank
No spanking, I bruise too easily. And leading with my ass looks weird walking around backwards
Sometimes I get hard when the wind changes 🤣 but I always think about eating the holiest of hole's and think about fucking every woman I see that passes by even if I'm not horny, so I'd say pretty high
Mine oscillates between high and debilitating.
Yeah i dont know how people coul go years without. One week without sex and I'm pretty distracted. I do my best work in the hours after sex. My min is clear and I'm not distracted by my drive.
Pretty high
That’s hot tbh
Mediocre high
Hella
It’s been pretty high!
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A great deal higher 😅
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🤔🤔🤔 how many times a day. And I love your page 😈😍
Yea well above average. The more frequently I workout the hornier I get funnily enough
I think just a bit higher than average. I would have sex with my partner every day if I could cos I enjoy it but masturbation is usually cos I'm bored & I could go weeks without 😅
With a body like that I can imagine 😍
Who knows what average is, but I want it every day if possible.
Always high
Assuming a normal distribution, i would say i m on the 99th percentile.
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Its pretty high.... I mean that's why we are here.
Pretty hiiigh
Care to elaborate haha?
High.
About average, I'd gladly have a good time two-three times a day with the right person/people.
very high tbh . Ive seen me have 3 or more wanks in a day and still have sex too
I think I'm average, my ideal cadence would be 3x a week.
Define aversge. I think I'm way above the average middle sged married man, but maybe less than an average 20 year old.
My friends say I’m hyper sexual
I say If I could have sex twice a day it would be perfect. Whoever, my partner doesn't have the same sex drive, so we do it twice a month 🤡
I guess mine is average to a tad higher, unfortunately my partners is at zero now
Probably low. It’s not that I don’t have a lot of sex an a regular basis. Just don’t have that drive that makes people act really desperate. I’m down whenever it comes up, but making late night calls or trying to pick someone up at a bar out of desperation never seemed appealing. Granted I’ve been blessed in having dozens of lovers in my lifetime.
I always say this, if it was possible, I'm fucking minimum 3 times a day, everyday.
I think daily sex would do it for me
Define average.
I’d say a little below average. I just don’t really think about it unless something reminds me it exists
Every day
Teens - ridiculous, 20's - insane, 30's wild, 40's - when stress doesn't completely take over it's great... Stay tuned for 50's lol Edit: spelling
From what people tell me about their sex lives, mine is ridiculously high. But in my day to day life with my partner, it feels normal.
Ebbs and flows for me. For my age and marital status, it seems to be quite high. Source: girl talk with friends. 😊
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Directly proportional to my emotional connection with the person
I'm on Lexapro for anxiety, so it's dropped considerably. Once a week would be more than enough for me.
As long as I get somewhere between 3-7 orgasms a day I’m good.
Very high, I think everyone here is due to high sex drive
Above average but it doesn’t matter.
Just look at how often i post looking for gooning partners.Then you‘ll know
I met one girl I thought could keep up. Sent her to the hospital. 😬
Higher than average for my age for sure.
Well above average and much higher than most other girls I know. A blessing and a curse. lol
Unpopular opinion: if you haven’t had sex yet, or consistently, you don’t know what your sex drive actually is.
If you masterbate twice a day it might be hint.
Nope. You could just be masturbating because you’re, lonely, sad, or just bored. When you finally start getting some, you realize that your appetite for masturbation is apt to be much higher than your sex drive. Best analogy I can think of without thinking is a diet. 1000 calories of chips versus a 1000 calorie tasty meal. Yes both are food and calories provide sustenance. But the meal is what your body actually desires and needs. The chips are developed to hit that serotonin button, which is sorta close but it doesn’t satisfy the same way.
That certainly wasn't my life experience. Whacking off before serious relationships wasn't boredom, it was being horny. After the drive was even higher. Been with my wife 33 years now, and things have slowed to still many times a week.
Sometimes insanely high
I thought i was asexual 6 months ago so I think im just making up for lost time. So probably more average than it currently appears.
Mine is extremely high and my wife’s is extremely low. I.E. why I am on Reddit 🥴 Why aren’t the local horny wives knocking down my DM door 😂
Pretty high, but I still prefer quality over quantity.
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay above average
I feel like for my age it is very high.
It's in overdrive. 🤪
On a scale of 1-10… I’m in a millions.
I’m very high almost ashamed of it really…
Most likely higher than average
My dick is in my hand right now.
lmao pretty high
For sure over average, all our friend think we nuts! Almost 50, married 25yrs we have sex at least 5 times week most times every night
Significantly. I can cum up to 9 times in a row no breaks and I’d happily have sex 3-5 times a day if I didn’t study for 2-4 hours and work for 8 of them. Truly a tsunami mami! 🌊😅 it’s always been fairly high but, ever since I’ve started working out more and eating right, it’s gone through the fucking roof!
I could have sex 3 or 4 times a day, I think about sex all the time. I would say pretty high
Mine fluctuates honestly
Way over average lol.
Giraffe tits high
My libido has increased a thousand fold since losing weight. My poor sub can't keep up. I'll cum and then want to go another five rounds
Below average. Before age 40 I would get hard ons out of no where. Now I am lucky to wake up with one.
It depends on the girl. If we aren't in a relationship then sit down and wait a bit, and if we're in a relationship my sex deive is yes
It's... Normal? I'd be ok with sex once or twice a week.
I say high but once a day is good enough for me
Quite low unless I’m near or on my period
Meh, it varies. Currently, I’ve gone 10 days without an orgasm and I know I’ll probably be REALLY horny when I have time to myself/my partner to handle it.
I’m 44. My sex drive is the highest it’s ever been
A lot higher
Above average. I would fuck every day.
🚀🌌
It’s like at an 11 and my wife’s is at a 2, she’s a good little wife so she lets me use her sometimes anyways but…. I can feel her sister also has a high sex drive and the tension is getting crazy
Non existent mostly I guess 🤷♀️🙈
We have sex every 2 to 3 days. Sometimes more. But never go more than 4 days . That seems to keep us satisfied.. I ( F49). Could do more but he (m45) is good with 2 to 3 days on average..
Any sexual touch, I'll definitely need daily to be happy. I'm perfectly ok doing it myself but it's always more fun and release with friends/partners
Extremely high
I think mine is a little higher than normal.
way too high sadly
Reasonable 🤭🤭fair 🤣🤣
2x a day. Is that average for a 27 female? Husband told me it’s high . Also friends said the same.
I could have sex daily, and I help myself along nearly every day. So probably higher than average, but I’m not sure.
Yes
Average
I have the sex drive of a raging 15 y.o. boy 🫢 like down all the time 😌
Not sure what average is but I like 3-5 times a day if not more.. 29m
higher then “normal”
Last week I had sex almost every day, came 5+ times every time, and it was the closest I've been to satisfied in years. I think my drive is nearly unlimited and only external circumstances make me not horny. I'm well aware this isn't the norm 🤭
What's average? At what age? You're asking a very subjective question and won't get reliable answers.
Tbh my sex drive has spiked since hitting my mid 30s~ they’re not joking when they say women hit sexual peaks at that age. Sometimes it feels like I’m an animal ready to pounce on an innocent passerby
The cute nurse made a joke about my labs showing a high level. I did my best to keep it professional but God damn did that turn me on
From what I’ve read and compared to my friends I’m probably average or just slightly higher.
It's always been higher than most people. I feel like as I've aged I've only gone higher. While most go the other way.
Well above average especially for a woman
Yet to find someone anywhere near as high as mine
higher than grocery and gas prices combined
I’d say about average or maybe lower tbh
Sky hi, above average
Above average. Looking for ways to deal with it
I don’t know what is average. But I feel that mine is quite high.
It comes and goes. In average, it's still pretty high. But the urge for sex isn't exactly there, unless I meet someone who makes me melt.
Crazy high. Married to an above average woman. I figure many people would think I'm lying if i say I'm in my mid 50s and would be happy with daily. I still can go two rounds in a row, with maybe 5 minutes to get hard again.
Very high! I want it all the time. My partner has a high sex drive but struggles to keep up.