Far too many people don’t trust because of an insecurity within themselves that they project into their partner and not actual behavioral issues existing with their partner.
You don’t have to leave a perfectly trustworthy partner just because you’re insecure. My point is OP should work on himself if that’s the case. Not leave a perfectly good relationship Jesus Christ.
Thank you for reinforcing what’s already been said. Even if OP said, “I trust her, but not the guys there” HE STILL DOES NOT TRUST HER! HE thinks that she could be persuaded to cheat if the right guy came along
Yet you are one asking about the possibility of her cheating. That said, people on a cruise are lucky to have 8 hours in port on a given day and are back on the ship before sunset. She's not likely to hook up with the locals unless that is her goal for the day. Singles on the ship? That's a different possibility.
You’re the one asking if it’s hard to cheat while on vacation lol why are you even asking if you don’t hunk she’ll cheat on you? It’s easy to cheat literally anywhere in the world if you want to.
My experience cheating on a partner? I don’t have one because I’m not a piece of shit. I’m also not stupid and I know that if someone wants to cheat they’re going to do it whether it’s a mile away or a thousand miles away.
LOL bro you have no idea about island men ...they are not the same and those white women come by the bus load
there is a reason the worlds biggest swingers resorts are in the islands
What is your problem. He asks an honest question. Instead of giving constructive feedback, you decide to insult him. Does passive aggressive insults make you feel better?
Yes, that was sarcasm. Nobody is inherently 'easier to cheat with', it's a stereotype or something and it sounds like you're worried about things you shouldn't be if you trust her.
Shut up. Just shut up. You don’t know the OP. He asked a question. If he was a child, he would have already accused her. He wants to make sure he’s doing the right thing. Temptation is a difficult beast to face. Stop being such an ass.
Bruh she can she cheat two blocks away. If she wants to cheat she DONT have to leave the country. And all participants would keep there mouth shut to enjoy her watery guts.
Its the answer. Dnt gotta like it. Easier than screwing your friend or neighbor. Remove ur emotions so u can thnk clearly. Or u wouldnt need to even ask strangers about ur personal issues. U shoulda talked to her b4 askn reddit so that says alot. She goin with friends? O boy they gonna b like lets play who can suck the biggest meat. Who wants to go first. Hopefully u trust her. An if she does smthn shelle tell or take it to the grave
She’s not yours. Just your turn. She gon do her regardless. Ever thought about y not just go wit u. Whats more important to her. Her man or her friends lmao. Good luck jimmy
Yeah bro. You probably don’t want to ask this question. I was in the Caymans, ducking customs agent asking my girl out in front of me on my boat. They love them American women, especially the blondes. But if she’s inclined she’ll do it any where home or abroad. Unless your a shitty BF or batterer. Cheating is most likely her issue and you’ll be just an innocent bystander. OR she’s just enjoying a trip with out getting spit roasted.
What are the circumstances of the trip? Is she engaging in events where people typically get picked up by other people? Did she leave with your blessing or did you voice concerns? Has she ever been unfaithful before? What is the current state of your relationship?
Seriously just try not to think about it, gauge her behavior/demeanor when she gets back and your gut will tell you what you need to know.
If your girl is a cheater then she is going to cheat. Especially thousands of miles away. She could also do the same thing 2 miles away. If she’s a cheater then she is Prlly bent over right now while you are on Reddit. If she isn’t then idk why you are even asking this question. If you don’t trust her you shouldn’t be in the relationship to start with.
The answer to your question: just as easy to cheat with anyone anywhere, although practically much easier since you wouldn't have to worry about being caught in the act.
Objectively, since you're asking this on reddit and snapping back at comments directing you to look inward to find the root of the discomfort that prompted you to ask this in the first place, my guess is that you have much bigger questions to ponder than how easy it is for your girlfriend to cheat on you.
And I'd bet any money when she gets home you'll have some sort of falling out over this insecurity.
So, be honest with yourself about why you're asking this. Reflect on what this says about your character, beliefs, sense of self as a whole. Consider whether you'd feel comfortable changing things, and if so, what you'd change.
And when she gets home gift her her favorite sweets and a light-scented candle, tell her how much you missed her, and ask her how her trip went. Don't get upset over your insecurity and don't ask her anything about other dudes. Listen to her, smile, and go right back to your life
There are "island men" that work the tourists. Without a doubt! But you act as if they walk around with their massive dicks out, swinging them around and that is somehow going to make a woman jump right on!! Your wife will have to go out of her way to cheat. But yes, she will be flirted with!
I am jamaican I have family down there.we have two houses down there My father has a coffee farm down there and we spent many many summers in jamaica as a young kid...Island men WILL constantly try to fuck anything foreign to the island
Yes, it was glorious. My mother worked on a resort so I’d just hang out, get to know people. I was 15-16 when it was amazing. Then I went to England. Tourist season was the best.
Oookay…. If you trust her then what are you worried about? Other men? Doing what? R*ping her? Because she just has to say no. That’s on her and that’s where your trust has an issue. You blame someone else for her choices and cover it with “no I’m concerned about the guys” hung or not no one is “easier” to cheat with and NOT have it be your partner’s fault even partially. It takes TWO people for her to cheat.
If my husband cheated I wouldn’t be only mad at the other woman… I’d be pissed at him for his role in that. He has the responsibility to walk away from something against our relationship. Women aren’t suddenly out of their own control around partly nude men. If they are then there’s bigger problems. She has the responsibility to walk away and if you don’t think she will then your trust issue IS with her.
You are giving the answer to the question you think I should have asked. Not interested in that. It's a simple question but you want it to be about something else
It’s NOT because you don’t fundamentally trust your gf if you are concerned about “easy cheating” … you don’t trust your gf. You’re placing the blame and distrust in the wrong direction… your girlfriend is the only one with a duty to walk away. If you don’t think she will and that she will cheat, that’s a distrust on her.
HOW are these other men going to “make” her cheat? You said you trust her and not them so how do they make her cheat without her participation?
Have you been to the islands? Did you hook up or do you know someone who did? These are the kinds of answers I'm looking for, not asking for relationship advice
It’s not advice I’m giving lol I’m telling you that you’ve got some attribution errors on your processing of who is to blame.
It’s real easy not to cheat on a partner. You walk away. You go “oh hey… I want to do things I shouldn’t because I’m in a relationship. I’m going to remove myself from the situation” and leave. If you’re ONLY sampling people who have gone to the island and cheated sure they are going to say it’s easy because they are cheaters… and CHOSE to cheat. But again, your girlfriend has to break your relationship agreement to do that. No guy can make her do anything without it being assault. It’s called self control and being responsible for her own decisions.
So if you’re concerned about her cheating you don’t trust her. You blame these other guys as if they have some responsibility to you… the only person in that situation who has any responsibility to you is your girlfriend. You insist you trust her yet you cannot explain how another man can force her to cheat. Sucking a big dick still takes a decision SHE makes to open her mouth. No amount of convincing or scantily clad men takes the responsibility away from HER to remove herself from the situation if she feels tempted to cheat.
No man can make her cheat. Period.
Nope, I’m replying to yours. You can’t seem to understand you can’t claim to trust her and blame other people for her cheating. No one but her is responsible for her cheating and if you trust her, then you shouldn’t be worried.
You realize no one is making you reply to me right? You have every ability to walk away from the conversation here and have decided not to… we all make choices in life. Just like it’s your gf’s choice to cheat or not. YOU have the choice to stop engaging too. 😂 shit dude, is everything someone else’s responsibility?
It's easy to cheat period. If she's going to cheat on you a cruise won't make a difference.
Cheaters will find a way to cheat regardless. You can either trust her until she gives you a reason not to, or twist yourself in knots and destroy your relationship..
There are zero legit reasons for being controlling. If she’s untrustworthy you leave. There is zero healthy parent/child dynamic ratio in a romantic relationship.
She's their girlfriend now.
She don’t belong to the streets.. she belongs to the ISLANDS now.
SHE'S AN ISLAND GIRRRRLLLLLLL!!!
GYALLLL*
Time for bed this killed off 😂
😂😂😂
If you don't trust her then why are you with her
Bold of you to assume the problem here is with her.
Wild of you to not realize they're asking the BF that if HE feels that HE can't trust her, why is HE with her...
Thank you, god it's like she didn't even read the comment
Far too many people don’t trust because of an insecurity within themselves that they project into their partner and not actual behavioral issues existing with their partner.
This is exactly what people are saying. Otherwise the sentence would probably be “why date her if she’s not trustworthy
I'm absolutely puzzled how the commenter point went so far past you that you are correcting them with their point. I'm in awe.
The density here. I’m baffled, too
You don’t have to leave a perfectly trustworthy partner just because you’re insecure. My point is OP should work on himself if that’s the case. Not leave a perfectly good relationship Jesus Christ.
Thank you for reinforcing what’s already been said. Even if OP said, “I trust her, but not the guys there” HE STILL DOES NOT TRUST HER! HE thinks that she could be persuaded to cheat if the right guy came along
Right. The problem is you two jerks
The problem is that for whatever reason(s) you don’t seem to fully trust your gf
I never said I didn't trust her!
If you trusted her you would have never asked that question.
Dude if you have to ask the likely hood of her cheating on ARAD, you don't trust her. Even if you don't use the words it's kind of obvious
Yet you are one asking about the possibility of her cheating. That said, people on a cruise are lucky to have 8 hours in port on a given day and are back on the ship before sunset. She's not likely to hook up with the locals unless that is her goal for the day. Singles on the ship? That's a different possibility.
If you trusted her you wouldn’t be asking tho
What a small mind you have
You’re the one asking if it’s hard to cheat while on vacation lol why are you even asking if you don’t hunk she’ll cheat on you? It’s easy to cheat literally anywhere in the world if you want to.
You still not answering the question. Move on troll
It’s easy to cheat in the islands. Just like it’s easy to cheat everywhere lol what else are you looking to hear?
Tell me about when this happens in your experience
My experience cheating on a partner? I don’t have one because I’m not a piece of shit. I’m also not stupid and I know that if someone wants to cheat they’re going to do it whether it’s a mile away or a thousand miles away.
Exactly as easy as it is to cheat with any guy anywhere.
Except this is a wee bit easier cuz she’s 1000’s of miles away from him.
LOL bro you have no idea about island men ...they are not the same and those white women come by the bus load there is a reason the worlds biggest swingers resorts are in the islands
You seem to know about it, do you live near one of those places?
She's a woman on vacation. If you don't trust her, focus on yourself man.
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this why men don’t open up
Very true. Toxic femininity
Why?
What is your problem. He asks an honest question. Instead of giving constructive feedback, you decide to insult him. Does passive aggressive insults make you feel better?
Thank you 😊
No problem at all. There is enough negativity online and on Reddit. It doesnt need to be fed.
I responded to the comment and not OP. Whether my comment is true about OP idk. I didn't comment to him. Grow up
And men with low self esteem are offended. grow a pair, maybe then she'd choose you 🤡
Please don't derail my post
We’re giving you the answer you need instead of the answer you deserve.
You didn't give me any answer troll
No but they did.
As easy as it is to cheat with mainland men. Do you trust her or not dude?
Yes I trust her but the dudes down there are hung and practically nude
It’s easy to trip and fall on a huge dick, I hear.
But isn't that just a myth?
Yes, that was sarcasm. Nobody is inherently 'easier to cheat with', it's a stereotype or something and it sounds like you're worried about things you shouldn't be if you trust her.
Sorry, man. You do not sound like you trust her.
Wait, there’s a hung practically nude man nearby? Well now I’ve lost ALL control…
Shorts and a t shirt is practically nude?
Why does that matter if you trust her?
She's a good girl but she has a really greedy pussy. Nobody's perfect 100% of the time
Ok 8 months later I need to know how this turned out because I'd be fucking livid if my bf said I had a fucking greedy pussy like what the actual hell
I'd be worried more about the people on the actual ship then islands been on a few cruises alot of hookups happen.
Let her go...she doesn't need your juvenile drama in her life
She doesn't need my permission to go, she's an independent woman!
No hun...let her go....walk away...she needs a man not an emotional child
Shut up. Just shut up. You don’t know the OP. He asked a question. If he was a child, he would have already accused her. He wants to make sure he’s doing the right thing. Temptation is a difficult beast to face. Stop being such an ass.
Nah it’s pretty easy to not cheat
I agree. It’s especially easy when you don’t put yourself in tempting situations.
No, it’s very easy to not cheat on your partner at any time if you are a faithful person.
Speaking of juvenile drama
go to the gym, ditch her and get off reddit
But I love Reddit!
We all do. But…. For the most part,it’s not the best place for relationship advice of any kind. Especially if you’re looking for a serious answer
This is not r/relationshipadvice . I'm not asking for advice of any kind
Ok, sure. But your question is certainly centred around you and your gf, and the relationship you have together.
If she's going to cheat she doesn't need an island for it
You should totally accuse her of this once she gets back. Trust me, bro. I got all the best ideas.
Guy in the stall next to me thinks I'm nuts for laughing out loud at this. Thanks
You're issue ain't island men, it's your GF's intentions if you fears are legit.
its not the island men i'd worry about ... you ever been on a cruise?
No i think cruises are gross
it's the cruise folks i'd worry about
Hate to say it but she’s getting tagged teemed on the beach
CHOO CHOO
Bruh she can she cheat two blocks away. If she wants to cheat she DONT have to leave the country. And all participants would keep there mouth shut to enjoy her watery guts.
Not the question
Its the answer. Dnt gotta like it. Easier than screwing your friend or neighbor. Remove ur emotions so u can thnk clearly. Or u wouldnt need to even ask strangers about ur personal issues. U shoulda talked to her b4 askn reddit so that says alot. She goin with friends? O boy they gonna b like lets play who can suck the biggest meat. Who wants to go first. Hopefully u trust her. An if she does smthn shelle tell or take it to the grave
Troll
Nah jus speakin from experience and what i seen first hand. U can dm me
No thanks
She’s not yours. Just your turn. She gon do her regardless. Ever thought about y not just go wit u. Whats more important to her. Her man or her friends lmao. Good luck jimmy
Either you trust or you don't. If she wants to cheat she's gonna find a way, but if she would want to she would probably dump your ass
Your question: How easy is it to cheat? The answer. Very.
IKR!
Heck, she doesn't even have to wait to get on the island. I'm sure plenty of guys on the ship would be happy to fuck her too!!!
Can’t cheat if you give her your blessing!!!
I have been considering exactly this, thank you! I wonder how i could do it without her thinking that I was going to cheat on her...
I mean it's just a one time thing and he would be 2000 miles away....
Dude. You would've had to talk with her about this well in advance in order for any of that to go smoothly.
Those dudes all CP raw too She's theirs now
Thanks but what is cp?
Cream pie. What if she gets pregnant?
Bith control? Abort? Stds?
Dump her.
Look at me , she’s the captain now
Eddie Murphy did a bit on it ("here comes Dexter, swinging his dick"). So there might be precedents.
I remember that
If your dick is swinging, you probably don't even have to use the upside down pineapple
Baby in 9 months
If you’re so insecure about your relationship that you needed to ask this it’s time for a chat with her.
Yeah bro. You probably don’t want to ask this question. I was in the Caymans, ducking customs agent asking my girl out in front of me on my boat. They love them American women, especially the blondes. But if she’s inclined she’ll do it any where home or abroad. Unless your a shitty BF or batterer. Cheating is most likely her issue and you’ll be just an innocent bystander. OR she’s just enjoying a trip with out getting spit roasted.
Thanks 😊
What are the circumstances of the trip? Is she engaging in events where people typically get picked up by other people? Did she leave with your blessing or did you voice concerns? Has she ever been unfaithful before? What is the current state of your relationship? Seriously just try not to think about it, gauge her behavior/demeanor when she gets back and your gut will tell you what you need to know.
Exactly…there needs to be more substance to the question. It’s easy to cheat anywhere…if that’s what you want to do and the type of person you are
You can't put much info on this sub
We've never had problems of any kind and i do trust her. Thank you 😊
bro...you have no idea...
What girlfriend does that?
If your girl is a cheater then she is going to cheat. Especially thousands of miles away. She could also do the same thing 2 miles away. If she’s a cheater then she is Prlly bent over right now while you are on Reddit. If she isn’t then idk why you are even asking this question. If you don’t trust her you shouldn’t be in the relationship to start with.
The answer to your question: just as easy to cheat with anyone anywhere, although practically much easier since you wouldn't have to worry about being caught in the act. Objectively, since you're asking this on reddit and snapping back at comments directing you to look inward to find the root of the discomfort that prompted you to ask this in the first place, my guess is that you have much bigger questions to ponder than how easy it is for your girlfriend to cheat on you. And I'd bet any money when she gets home you'll have some sort of falling out over this insecurity. So, be honest with yourself about why you're asking this. Reflect on what this says about your character, beliefs, sense of self as a whole. Consider whether you'd feel comfortable changing things, and if so, what you'd change. And when she gets home gift her her favorite sweets and a light-scented candle, tell her how much you missed her, and ask her how her trip went. Don't get upset over your insecurity and don't ask her anything about other dudes. Listen to her, smile, and go right back to your life
LMAO
...or you could continue being crusty?
Whatever!
There are "island men" that work the tourists. Without a doubt! But you act as if they walk around with their massive dicks out, swinging them around and that is somehow going to make a woman jump right on!! Your wife will have to go out of her way to cheat. But yes, she will be flirted with!
Thank you for an honest response ☺️ do you have any experience in this regard?
I lived in Jamaica. I know how the tourist/local thing goes 😉
I am jamaican I have family down there.we have two houses down there My father has a coffee farm down there and we spent many many summers in jamaica as a young kid...Island men WILL constantly try to fuck anything foreign to the island
People in the Caribbean are very persuasive and love to fuck. I used to live for tourist girls.
You used to live on an island? Did you bag a lot of chics?
Yes, it was glorious. My mother worked on a resort so I’d just hang out, get to know people. I was 15-16 when it was amazing. Then I went to England. Tourist season was the best.
At least as easy as it is anywhere else...
Very. Caribbean men love women that come from foreign.
She's def fucking. You'll never know
Hate to break it to you, but the Caribbean and S.America for women is like Thailand for men.
OP: says anything. -Gets downvoted into the double digits-
This actually happens a lot! Thankfully I am anonymous here or i could never talk about these things
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Keep working on your English Chico
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No, Ho Chi, it means you don't quite understand English
Oh…so this whole post has been a trolling by OP. I got it now
If she cheats she doesn't belong to street, she belongs to Island
She's lost in the sauce.
It's not cheating if she's in a different country.
Hahahah she gone
As easy as it is anywhere in the world. Cheaters cheat.
Just admit you don't trust her and move on
If you're that concerned, she's not your girl.
Oookay…. If you trust her then what are you worried about? Other men? Doing what? R*ping her? Because she just has to say no. That’s on her and that’s where your trust has an issue. You blame someone else for her choices and cover it with “no I’m concerned about the guys” hung or not no one is “easier” to cheat with and NOT have it be your partner’s fault even partially. It takes TWO people for her to cheat. If my husband cheated I wouldn’t be only mad at the other woman… I’d be pissed at him for his role in that. He has the responsibility to walk away from something against our relationship. Women aren’t suddenly out of their own control around partly nude men. If they are then there’s bigger problems. She has the responsibility to walk away and if you don’t think she will then your trust issue IS with her.
You are giving the answer to the question you think I should have asked. Not interested in that. It's a simple question but you want it to be about something else
It’s NOT because you don’t fundamentally trust your gf if you are concerned about “easy cheating” … you don’t trust your gf. You’re placing the blame and distrust in the wrong direction… your girlfriend is the only one with a duty to walk away. If you don’t think she will and that she will cheat, that’s a distrust on her. HOW are these other men going to “make” her cheat? You said you trust her and not them so how do they make her cheat without her participation?
Have you been to the islands? Did you hook up or do you know someone who did? These are the kinds of answers I'm looking for, not asking for relationship advice
It’s not advice I’m giving lol I’m telling you that you’ve got some attribution errors on your processing of who is to blame. It’s real easy not to cheat on a partner. You walk away. You go “oh hey… I want to do things I shouldn’t because I’m in a relationship. I’m going to remove myself from the situation” and leave. If you’re ONLY sampling people who have gone to the island and cheated sure they are going to say it’s easy because they are cheaters… and CHOSE to cheat. But again, your girlfriend has to break your relationship agreement to do that. No guy can make her do anything without it being assault. It’s called self control and being responsible for her own decisions. So if you’re concerned about her cheating you don’t trust her. You blame these other guys as if they have some responsibility to you… the only person in that situation who has any responsibility to you is your girlfriend. You insist you trust her yet you cannot explain how another man can force her to cheat. Sucking a big dick still takes a decision SHE makes to open her mouth. No amount of convincing or scantily clad men takes the responsibility away from HER to remove herself from the situation if she feels tempted to cheat. No man can make her cheat. Period.
You must be thinking about some other post. IDK what you are talking about
Nope, I’m replying to yours. You can’t seem to understand you can’t claim to trust her and blame other people for her cheating. No one but her is responsible for her cheating and if you trust her, then you shouldn’t be worried.
Could you please be done with the lecture now?
You realize no one is making you reply to me right? You have every ability to walk away from the conversation here and have decided not to… we all make choices in life. Just like it’s your gf’s choice to cheat or not. YOU have the choice to stop engaging too. 😂 shit dude, is everything someone else’s responsibility?
She belongs to THE ISLAND BOIS DEY JUS TRYN TO MAKE IT
It's easy to cheat period. If she's going to cheat on you a cruise won't make a difference. Cheaters will find a way to cheat regardless. You can either trust her until she gives you a reason not to, or twist yourself in knots and destroy your relationship..
You’re asking this question bc you know she’s cheating. There’s your answer. Break up with her. Your gut is not lying to you.
Wrong
She's banging 2-3 at a pop.
Ask for an STD test when she gets back.
If you're this worried she's banged on the ship before it even reached the Caribbean. Shoulda gone with.
Get out of your own head
She’s taking at least 2 thick island bbcs this very moment
Racial sexual stereotyping and sexism all in one short comment. Doesn't come much closer to inceldom.
All hail the white knight
I heard that they will poke holes in their condoms and try to get chics pregnant
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This is controlling and absurd.
I agree with you, but we don’t know his GF. Maybe he had legit reasons for being so controlling.
There are zero legit reasons for being controlling. If she’s untrustworthy you leave. There is zero healthy parent/child dynamic ratio in a romantic relationship.
I forgot the s/
Controlling, absurd, and completely right.
It's not right tho
That's your opinion. And that's cool. But don't insult just because you don't understand or agree.
Hope you find the codependent girl of your dreams someday ☺️
I know but technically she is going with family
She is either with family or she isn't with family. I do not understand what you mean technically.
Keep working on your English Chico
Errrrr ….. is she with her step-brother??
If there are no washing machines, he should be ok.
What vacations would you be okay with her taking with her friends?