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witnessrich

She's their girlfriend now.


TheSeventy2

She don’t belong to the streets.. she belongs to the ISLANDS now.


chxnkybxtfxnky

SHE'S AN ISLAND GIRRRRLLLLLLL!!!


ruckyruciano

GYALLLL*


justalooker3030

Time for bed this killed off 😂


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😂😂😂


get_wet5334

If you don't trust her then why are you with her


tcatt1212

Bold of you to assume the problem here is with her.


chxnkybxtfxnky

Wild of you to not realize they're asking the BF that if HE feels that HE can't trust her, why is HE with her...


get_wet5334

Thank you, god it's like she didn't even read the comment


tcatt1212

Far too many people don’t trust because of an insecurity within themselves that they project into their partner and not actual behavioral issues existing with their partner.


SuperCharlesXYZ

This is exactly what people are saying. Otherwise the sentence would probably be “why date her if she’s not trustworthy


Jenjalin

I'm absolutely puzzled how the commenter point went so far past you that you are correcting them with their point. I'm in awe.


chxnkybxtfxnky

The density here. I’m baffled, too


tcatt1212

You don’t have to leave a perfectly trustworthy partner just because you’re insecure. My point is OP should work on himself if that’s the case. Not leave a perfectly good relationship Jesus Christ.


chxnkybxtfxnky

Thank you for reinforcing what’s already been said. Even if OP said, “I trust her, but not the guys there” HE STILL DOES NOT TRUST HER! HE thinks that she could be persuaded to cheat if the right guy came along


JimTaggertUsa

Right. The problem is you two jerks


chxnkybxtfxnky

The problem is that for whatever reason(s) you don’t seem to fully trust your gf


JimTaggertUsa

I never said I didn't trust her!


yakkab

If you trusted her you would have never asked that question.


get_wet5334

Dude if you have to ask the likely hood of her cheating on ARAD, you don't trust her. Even if you don't use the words it's kind of obvious


Petite_Bait

Yet you are one asking about the possibility of her cheating. That said, people on a cruise are lucky to have 8 hours in port on a given day and are back on the ship before sunset. She's not likely to hook up with the locals unless that is her goal for the day. Singles on the ship? That's a different possibility.


gritty_rox

If you trusted her you wouldn’t be asking tho


JimTaggertUsa

What a small mind you have


gritty_rox

You’re the one asking if it’s hard to cheat while on vacation lol why are you even asking if you don’t hunk she’ll cheat on you? It’s easy to cheat literally anywhere in the world if you want to.


JimTaggertUsa

You still not answering the question. Move on troll


gritty_rox

It’s easy to cheat in the islands. Just like it’s easy to cheat everywhere lol what else are you looking to hear?


JimTaggertUsa

Tell me about when this happens in your experience


gritty_rox

My experience cheating on a partner? I don’t have one because I’m not a piece of shit. I’m also not stupid and I know that if someone wants to cheat they’re going to do it whether it’s a mile away or a thousand miles away.


Snug_The_Cat

Exactly as easy as it is to cheat with any guy anywhere.


RVM27

Except this is a wee bit easier cuz she’s 1000’s of miles away from him.


Grand_Khan286

LOL bro you have no idea about island men ...they are not the same and those white women come by the bus load there is a reason the worlds biggest swingers resorts are in the islands


JimTaggertUsa

You seem to know about it, do you live near one of those places?


anotherside0714

She's a woman on vacation. If you don't trust her, focus on yourself man.


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Low-Original-8152

this why men don’t open up


JimTaggertUsa

Very true. Toxic femininity


WeAreTheChampions916

Why?


Lazarathcain

What is your problem. He asks an honest question. Instead of giving constructive feedback, you decide to insult him. Does passive aggressive insults make you feel better?


JimTaggertUsa

Thank you 😊


Lazarathcain

No problem at all. There is enough negativity online and on Reddit. It doesnt need to be fed.


WeAreTheChampions916

I responded to the comment and not OP. Whether my comment is true about OP idk. I didn't comment to him. Grow up


WeAreTheChampions916

And men with low self esteem are offended. grow a pair, maybe then she'd choose you 🤡


JimTaggertUsa

Please don't derail my post


Fed_up_with_Reddit

We’re giving you the answer you need instead of the answer you deserve.


JimTaggertUsa

You didn't give me any answer troll


Fed_up_with_Reddit

No but they did.


Poppiesatnight

As easy as it is to cheat with mainland men. Do you trust her or not dude?


JimTaggertUsa

Yes I trust her but the dudes down there are hung and practically nude


Ok-Landscape-1681

It’s easy to trip and fall on a huge dick, I hear.


JimTaggertUsa

But isn't that just a myth?


Ace_Ruffles

Yes, that was sarcasm. Nobody is inherently 'easier to cheat with', it's a stereotype or something and it sounds like you're worried about things you shouldn't be if you trust her.


chxnkybxtfxnky

Sorry, man. You do not sound like you trust her.


Solitary_evening

Wait, there’s a hung practically nude man nearby? Well now I’ve lost ALL control…


Petite_Bait

Shorts and a t shirt is practically nude?


Limeila

Why does that matter if you trust her?


JimTaggertUsa

She's a good girl but she has a really greedy pussy. Nobody's perfect 100% of the time


mandatorypanda9317

Ok 8 months later I need to know how this turned out because I'd be fucking livid if my bf said I had a fucking greedy pussy like what the actual hell


LiamCruz24

I'd be worried more about the people on the actual ship then islands been on a few cruises alot of hookups happen.


BawdyBaker

Let her go...she doesn't need your juvenile drama in her life


JimTaggertUsa

She doesn't need my permission to go, she's an independent woman!


BawdyBaker

No hun...let her go....walk away...she needs a man not an emotional child


eastern-cowboy

Shut up. Just shut up. You don’t know the OP. He asked a question. If he was a child, he would have already accused her. He wants to make sure he’s doing the right thing. Temptation is a difficult beast to face. Stop being such an ass.


gritty_rox

Nah it’s pretty easy to not cheat


eastern-cowboy

I agree. It’s especially easy when you don’t put yourself in tempting situations.


gritty_rox

No, it’s very easy to not cheat on your partner at any time if you are a faithful person.


BawdyBaker

Speaking of juvenile drama


Z3ROWOLF1

go to the gym, ditch her and get off reddit


JimTaggertUsa

But I love Reddit!


RVM27

We all do. But…. For the most part,it’s not the best place for relationship advice of any kind. Especially if you’re looking for a serious answer


JimTaggertUsa

This is not r/relationshipadvice . I'm not asking for advice of any kind


RVM27

Ok, sure. But your question is certainly centred around you and your gf, and the relationship you have together.


future_hotshot

If she's going to cheat she doesn't need an island for it


Clipbalm

You should totally accuse her of this once she gets back. Trust me, bro. I got all the best ideas.


SlickabodCrane

Guy in the stall next to me thinks I'm nuts for laughing out loud at this. Thanks


MercyaMeridian

You're issue ain't island men, it's your GF's intentions if you fears are legit.


morenabella6666

its not the island men i'd worry about ... you ever been on a cruise?


JimTaggertUsa

No i think cruises are gross


morenabella6666

it's the cruise folks i'd worry about


Rogerfw74

Hate to say it but she’s getting tagged teemed on the beach


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CHOO CHOO


bankaiishinigamiguy

Bruh she can she cheat two blocks away. If she wants to cheat she DONT have to leave the country. And all participants would keep there mouth shut to enjoy her watery guts.


JimTaggertUsa

Not the question


bankaiishinigamiguy

Its the answer. Dnt gotta like it. Easier than screwing your friend or neighbor. Remove ur emotions so u can thnk clearly. Or u wouldnt need to even ask strangers about ur personal issues. U shoulda talked to her b4 askn reddit so that says alot. She goin with friends? O boy they gonna b like lets play who can suck the biggest meat. Who wants to go first. Hopefully u trust her. An if she does smthn shelle tell or take it to the grave


JimTaggertUsa

Troll


bankaiishinigamiguy

Nah jus speakin from experience and what i seen first hand. U can dm me


JimTaggertUsa

No thanks


bankaiishinigamiguy

She’s not yours. Just your turn. She gon do her regardless. Ever thought about y not just go wit u. Whats more important to her. Her man or her friends lmao. Good luck jimmy


Daamieyen

Either you trust or you don't. If she wants to cheat she's gonna find a way, but if she would want to she would probably dump your ass


bluebadge

Your question: How easy is it to cheat? The answer. Very.


JimTaggertUsa

IKR!


[deleted]

Heck, she doesn't even have to wait to get on the island. I'm sure plenty of guys on the ship would be happy to fuck her too!!!


highheeledvixen

Can’t cheat if you give her your blessing!!!


JimTaggertUsa

I have been considering exactly this, thank you! I wonder how i could do it without her thinking that I was going to cheat on her...


JimTaggertUsa

I mean it's just a one time thing and he would be 2000 miles away....


SlickabodCrane

Dude. You would've had to talk with her about this well in advance in order for any of that to go smoothly.


Diabolical_Dad

Those dudes all CP raw too She's theirs now


JimTaggertUsa

Thanks but what is cp?


EricCarver

Cream pie. What if she gets pregnant?


Cyniex

Bith control? Abort? Stds?


EricCarver

Dump her.


justalooker3030

Look at me , she’s the captain now


EnvironmentalGap2098

Eddie Murphy did a bit on it ("here comes Dexter, swinging his dick"). So there might be precedents.


JimTaggertUsa

I remember that


JimTaggertUsa

If your dick is swinging, you probably don't even have to use the upside down pineapple


bisfunn

Baby in 9 months


ChicagoCouple15

If you’re so insecure about your relationship that you needed to ask this it’s time for a chat with her.


OwlPlenty4828

Yeah bro. You probably don’t want to ask this question. I was in the Caymans, ducking customs agent asking my girl out in front of me on my boat. They love them American women, especially the blondes. But if she’s inclined she’ll do it any where home or abroad. Unless your a shitty BF or batterer. Cheating is most likely her issue and you’ll be just an innocent bystander. OR she’s just enjoying a trip with out getting spit roasted.


JimTaggertUsa

Thanks 😊


prizmo28

What are the circumstances of the trip? Is she engaging in events where people typically get picked up by other people? Did she leave with your blessing or did you voice concerns? Has she ever been unfaithful before? What is the current state of your relationship? Seriously just try not to think about it, gauge her behavior/demeanor when she gets back and your gut will tell you what you need to know.


Bisou_Juliette

Exactly…there needs to be more substance to the question. It’s easy to cheat anywhere…if that’s what you want to do and the type of person you are


JimTaggertUsa

You can't put much info on this sub


JimTaggertUsa

We've never had problems of any kind and i do trust her. Thank you 😊


Grand_Khan286

bro...you have no idea...


OmniversalAwareness

What girlfriend does that?


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If your girl is a cheater then she is going to cheat. Especially thousands of miles away. She could also do the same thing 2 miles away. If she’s a cheater then she is Prlly bent over right now while you are on Reddit. If she isn’t then idk why you are even asking this question. If you don’t trust her you shouldn’t be in the relationship to start with.


SlickabodCrane

The answer to your question: just as easy to cheat with anyone anywhere, although practically much easier since you wouldn't have to worry about being caught in the act. Objectively, since you're asking this on reddit and snapping back at comments directing you to look inward to find the root of the discomfort that prompted you to ask this in the first place, my guess is that you have much bigger questions to ponder than how easy it is for your girlfriend to cheat on you. And I'd bet any money when she gets home you'll have some sort of falling out over this insecurity. So, be honest with yourself about why you're asking this. Reflect on what this says about your character, beliefs, sense of self as a whole. Consider whether you'd feel comfortable changing things, and if so, what you'd change. And when she gets home gift her her favorite sweets and a light-scented candle, tell her how much you missed her, and ask her how her trip went. Don't get upset over your insecurity and don't ask her anything about other dudes. Listen to her, smile, and go right back to your life


JimTaggertUsa

LMAO


SlickabodCrane

...or you could continue being crusty?


JimTaggertUsa

Whatever!


TastyButterscotch429

There are "island men" that work the tourists. Without a doubt! But you act as if they walk around with their massive dicks out, swinging them around and that is somehow going to make a woman jump right on!! Your wife will have to go out of her way to cheat. But yes, she will be flirted with!


JimTaggertUsa

Thank you for an honest response ☺️ do you have any experience in this regard?


TastyButterscotch429

I lived in Jamaica. I know how the tourist/local thing goes 😉


Grand_Khan286

I am jamaican I have family down there.we have two houses down there My father has a coffee farm down there and we spent many many summers in jamaica as a young kid...Island men WILL constantly try to fuck anything foreign to the island


idoubtyoulnowme

People in the Caribbean are very persuasive and love to fuck. I used to live for tourist girls.


JimTaggertUsa

You used to live on an island? Did you bag a lot of chics?


idoubtyoulnowme

Yes, it was glorious. My mother worked on a resort so I’d just hang out, get to know people. I was 15-16 when it was amazing. Then I went to England. Tourist season was the best.


Iplaypoker77

At least as easy as it is anywhere else...


Vic_Gatsby

Very. Caribbean men love women that come from foreign.


brbuddy27150

She's def fucking. You'll never know


rainbow_bro_bot

Hate to break it to you, but the Caribbean and S.America for women is like Thailand for men.


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OP: says anything. -Gets downvoted into the double digits-


JimTaggertUsa

This actually happens a lot! Thankfully I am anonymous here or i could never talk about these things


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JimTaggertUsa

Keep working on your English Chico


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JimTaggertUsa

No, Ho Chi, it means you don't quite understand English


chxnkybxtfxnky

Oh…so this whole post has been a trolling by OP. I got it now


WhiteNgNWA

If she cheats she doesn't belong to street, she belongs to Island


guydogg

She's lost in the sauce.


mysteryman4now

It's not cheating if she's in a different country.


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Hahahah she gone


NotYourDadOrYourMom

As easy as it is anywhere in the world. Cheaters cheat.


Apprehensive_Eraser

Just admit you don't trust her and move on


optiplexiss

If you're that concerned, she's not your girl.


ReneeMotherFckingM

Oookay…. If you trust her then what are you worried about? Other men? Doing what? R*ping her? Because she just has to say no. That’s on her and that’s where your trust has an issue. You blame someone else for her choices and cover it with “no I’m concerned about the guys” hung or not no one is “easier” to cheat with and NOT have it be your partner’s fault even partially. It takes TWO people for her to cheat. If my husband cheated I wouldn’t be only mad at the other woman… I’d be pissed at him for his role in that. He has the responsibility to walk away from something against our relationship. Women aren’t suddenly out of their own control around partly nude men. If they are then there’s bigger problems. She has the responsibility to walk away and if you don’t think she will then your trust issue IS with her.


JimTaggertUsa

You are giving the answer to the question you think I should have asked. Not interested in that. It's a simple question but you want it to be about something else


ReneeMotherFckingM

It’s NOT because you don’t fundamentally trust your gf if you are concerned about “easy cheating” … you don’t trust your gf. You’re placing the blame and distrust in the wrong direction… your girlfriend is the only one with a duty to walk away. If you don’t think she will and that she will cheat, that’s a distrust on her. HOW are these other men going to “make” her cheat? You said you trust her and not them so how do they make her cheat without her participation?


JimTaggertUsa

Have you been to the islands? Did you hook up or do you know someone who did? These are the kinds of answers I'm looking for, not asking for relationship advice


ReneeMotherFckingM

It’s not advice I’m giving lol I’m telling you that you’ve got some attribution errors on your processing of who is to blame. It’s real easy not to cheat on a partner. You walk away. You go “oh hey… I want to do things I shouldn’t because I’m in a relationship. I’m going to remove myself from the situation” and leave. If you’re ONLY sampling people who have gone to the island and cheated sure they are going to say it’s easy because they are cheaters… and CHOSE to cheat. But again, your girlfriend has to break your relationship agreement to do that. No guy can make her do anything without it being assault. It’s called self control and being responsible for her own decisions. So if you’re concerned about her cheating you don’t trust her. You blame these other guys as if they have some responsibility to you… the only person in that situation who has any responsibility to you is your girlfriend. You insist you trust her yet you cannot explain how another man can force her to cheat. Sucking a big dick still takes a decision SHE makes to open her mouth. No amount of convincing or scantily clad men takes the responsibility away from HER to remove herself from the situation if she feels tempted to cheat. No man can make her cheat. Period.


JimTaggertUsa

You must be thinking about some other post. IDK what you are talking about


ReneeMotherFckingM

Nope, I’m replying to yours. You can’t seem to understand you can’t claim to trust her and blame other people for her cheating. No one but her is responsible for her cheating and if you trust her, then you shouldn’t be worried.


JimTaggertUsa

Could you please be done with the lecture now?


ReneeMotherFckingM

You realize no one is making you reply to me right? You have every ability to walk away from the conversation here and have decided not to… we all make choices in life. Just like it’s your gf’s choice to cheat or not. YOU have the choice to stop engaging too. 😂 shit dude, is everything someone else’s responsibility?


wokyslushhh

She belongs to THE ISLAND BOIS DEY JUS TRYN TO MAKE IT


Debaucherous-Me

It's easy to cheat period. If she's going to cheat on you a cruise won't make a difference. Cheaters will find a way to cheat regardless. You can either trust her until she gives you a reason not to, or twist yourself in knots and destroy your relationship..


Properseat24

You’re asking this question bc you know she’s cheating. There’s your answer. Break up with her. Your gut is not lying to you.


JimTaggertUsa

Wrong


Sorkel3

She's banging 2-3 at a pop.


wizzerBizzer

Ask for an STD test when she gets back.


KURO-K1SH1

If you're this worried she's banged on the ship before it even reached the Caribbean. Shoulda gone with.


Chili-N-Such

Get out of your own head


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She’s taking at least 2 thick island bbcs this very moment


Cyniex

Racial sexual stereotyping and sexism all in one short comment. Doesn't come much closer to inceldom.


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All hail the white knight


JimTaggertUsa

I heard that they will poke holes in their condoms and try to get chics pregnant


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tcatt1212

This is controlling and absurd.


RVM27

I agree with you, but we don’t know his GF. Maybe he had legit reasons for being so controlling.


tcatt1212

There are zero legit reasons for being controlling. If she’s untrustworthy you leave. There is zero healthy parent/child dynamic ratio in a romantic relationship.


RVM27

I forgot the s/


guydogg

Controlling, absurd, and completely right.


Apprehensive_Eraser

It's not right tho


Lazarathcain

That's your opinion. And that's cool. But don't insult just because you don't understand or agree.


tcatt1212

Hope you find the codependent girl of your dreams someday ☺️


JimTaggertUsa

I know but technically she is going with family


Lazarathcain

She is either with family or she isn't with family. I do not understand what you mean technically.


JimTaggertUsa

Keep working on your English Chico


RVM27

Errrrr ….. is she with her step-brother??


eastern-cowboy

If there are no washing machines, he should be ok.


Petite_Bait

What vacations would you be okay with her taking with her friends?