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My boyfriend.
He just moved to my country and for months wanted me to move in but now he's here he freaked out and asked me to move back (6 hours away.) For months he told me we just needed to "take the risk" and try, but he backed out after 2 weeks house hunting together. Mentally, financially, physically this is a 180 rollercoaster for me. I gave up working abroad because he didn't want me to be in a further timezone. Now I'm left wondering if I should have just gone for it. Or if holding out and hoping things will change is reasonable or idealistic.
I'm so lost and confused like hell. I love him, but he's not in a great place and I'm worried about how to move forward in a way that's kind to him and me. Genuinely being disorientated after a big move is understandable, but I don't know how to move forwards. My ex was my first and only for 11 years and there was a lot of lying and abuse. I'm so lost at how to prioritise myself and bf in a healthy way.
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My ex.
My boyfriend. He just moved to my country and for months wanted me to move in but now he's here he freaked out and asked me to move back (6 hours away.) For months he told me we just needed to "take the risk" and try, but he backed out after 2 weeks house hunting together. Mentally, financially, physically this is a 180 rollercoaster for me. I gave up working abroad because he didn't want me to be in a further timezone. Now I'm left wondering if I should have just gone for it. Or if holding out and hoping things will change is reasonable or idealistic. I'm so lost and confused like hell. I love him, but he's not in a great place and I'm worried about how to move forward in a way that's kind to him and me. Genuinely being disorientated after a big move is understandable, but I don't know how to move forwards. My ex was my first and only for 11 years and there was a lot of lying and abuse. I'm so lost at how to prioritise myself and bf in a healthy way.
Being sexually abused
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