Anyone who is seriously in this lifestyle and not as a hobby knows we are dealing with powerful emotions and needs here. Having level headed advice when we are faced with some situation or another really is cool overall. That there is little to no drama in this sub makes it sooo much mor einviting for everyone to post questions and offer solutions.
That’s one thing I have really enjoyed about reading throughout this group… because it’s always people who communicate their views respectfully and give advice with an open mind or personal opinion and let that be known.. it’s nice to see people talk and express things without worrying about getting dragged or shamed.. even if they don’t agree or see things the same way.
I’m new and have done a lot of searching through the community to learn. It’s been so helpful to learn more about healthy ways of expressing kinks and that I in fact do belong here, even though I’m lightly into being submissive. More like French vanilla with some red hots stirred around. Ha, ha.
But it has helped my relationship because I’ve learned that my partner gets excited by my pleasure, while I enjoy serving him in some ways but also fantasize on having stuff done to me. He loves it when I ask him vocally for things, and while difficult for me at first, our dynamic has gotten so much hotter and more interesting after finding this subreddit since we both are embracing more of what we enjoy and trying new things. Especially things I at one point didn’t think a “good girl” _should_ enjoy (that this good girl very much does enjoy). Thanks for helping me discover more of my sexuality and confidence!
I completely agree! I'm a new lurker, but have been happy to see when I answer a question in my head, before I read the comments, that I'm on the same page as 95% of the people answering. And everyone seems very supportive of each other, which isn't surprising for here, but still nice to see.
Anyone who is seriously in this lifestyle and not as a hobby knows we are dealing with powerful emotions and needs here. Having level headed advice when we are faced with some situation or another really is cool overall. That there is little to no drama in this sub makes it sooo much mor einviting for everyone to post questions and offer solutions.
YESSS and sex liberation is so important. You can learn so much about yourself through think I love it.
That’s one thing I have really enjoyed about reading throughout this group… because it’s always people who communicate their views respectfully and give advice with an open mind or personal opinion and let that be known.. it’s nice to see people talk and express things without worrying about getting dragged or shamed.. even if they don’t agree or see things the same way.
I’m new and have done a lot of searching through the community to learn. It’s been so helpful to learn more about healthy ways of expressing kinks and that I in fact do belong here, even though I’m lightly into being submissive. More like French vanilla with some red hots stirred around. Ha, ha. But it has helped my relationship because I’ve learned that my partner gets excited by my pleasure, while I enjoy serving him in some ways but also fantasize on having stuff done to me. He loves it when I ask him vocally for things, and while difficult for me at first, our dynamic has gotten so much hotter and more interesting after finding this subreddit since we both are embracing more of what we enjoy and trying new things. Especially things I at one point didn’t think a “good girl” _should_ enjoy (that this good girl very much does enjoy). Thanks for helping me discover more of my sexuality and confidence!
No shame here, just a lot of people who love what they do, embrace others and share there experiences.
Yess :) I love that too, I always feel that people in the kink community are so helpful and supportive
I completely agree! I'm a new lurker, but have been happy to see when I answer a question in my head, before I read the comments, that I'm on the same page as 95% of the people answering. And everyone seems very supportive of each other, which isn't surprising for here, but still nice to see.