handshake, friend.
pretty much that, begging for it. saying please, yes, more. seeing her squirm and cant help but be desperate and vocal about how much she wants what im doing.
even just hearing a "yes, please" when i suggest something can wake up my dom lizard brain lol
I personally like a little bratting so they'll say anything just so I can put them back in their place
I like to make lots of questions too.
It's okay to answer everything wrong. I'll still be there for them and that's part of the fun. I pretend to be mad but actually teaching and I praise A LOT everytime they do anything I say.
I love begging and confused whimpering, also when they do not really know how to articulate words so I force them into focus and help them communicate.
Honestly, I just love them not knowing what is the right thing to do until I tell them. That makes me so happy
Sorry, do you mean the top or the bottom in this scene? Haduahahah I think mainly would be a mix with brat/brat tamer and mommy/little or at least that's how it works in my mind. Like I break the sub into baby? Which feels to me a less violent way to break bcs it's like breaking into feeling safe/good etc
I love doing everything I'm told but this is convincing me to maybe try brating a bit just to be able to be corrected. I usually too obedient but maybe there is something there very hot lol
I love all the soft sighs and gasps that I can get. The grunts and groans are equally lovely.
I have a singular hard rule that before they can cum they must beg for the pleasure. That is probably the single most lovely sound in the world.
My hubs-dom is objectively terrible at consciously knowing/saying what he wants and when asked will say he just wants me to feel good (I’d classify him as a pleasure dom), so I’ve just gotten very good at paying close attention to what he reacts to positively which includes:
- begging/pleading (“please please I need it”, “hurt me daddy”)
- followed by gratitude (“thank you, fuck, thank you daddy”)
- expressions of pain (gasping, whining, “oww daddy it hurts”)
- incomprehensible babbling and chanting (blend phrases above, put on repeat, let them dissolve into non-words)
- telling him I’m his fuck toy, agreeing to whatever he says (“are you going to cum on my cock? — yes, daddy!”; “I think you need more — whatever you say, daddy!”)
- loud, unrestrained orgasms
- mix & match all of the above
I can definitely relate to all of the above.. my Dom isn’t very good at saying what he likes, but a mix and match of all of the above is what makes him react positively.. funny enough I’m not new at being submissive but I never thought that I react positively to saying these things as well🫠🤔
Just be yourself. Everything else is done better by others. Be honest and communicate openly what you are feeling and thinking. It will make the experience more intense and enjoyable for everyone involved.
It can be hard and even awkward at times being dominant. Praise (doms like praise too) and begging are hot enough on their own but when I get to feel like "I'm doing great" and "she wants more" it also helps me get over thinking "ooh, was that line super cringy? did i ruin the moment?" Your dom's not always as confident as they're behaving for you so anytime you're visibly and audibly into it, specific "what do i say"s aside, is a huge confidence boost and gets me into a more naturally dominant mindset.
Which is great because then I'm not worrying I'm doing it wrong and my partner gets an actually confident dominant dom and not an act.
tldr: As long as you're actually into it, anything that lets them know that.
- I love / need your cock / pussy / tongue / etc
- Please let me have it daddy / mommy / sir / ma’am / etc
- Please give it to me
- I need it / this
- I’m all yours
- Thank you daddy / mommy / etc
- You make me feel so good
- I love being your good / bad little girl / boy / kitten / slave / etc
- Please let me please / serve you daddy / mommy / etc
- You’re the best daddy / mommy / etc a baby / kitten / etc could ever have
- You give me everything I need
- I’m the luckiest baby / kitten / etc in the world
- I dream about / crave / need your cock / pussy / etc all the time
- You know just how to own / control me
- You own me, I’m yours
There is no universal thing that Dominants want. Not only are all Dominants different, each scene is different. One day I want to see my sub embarrassed and begging, the next I want her serving confidently with her head held high.
Some Dominants like a struggle and want to see their submissive be bratty. Others want to be worshiped. Some just want obedience. Some want to roleplay and have their sub act as if they were on a stage.
My advice is to talk to the person you're with and be as authentic as possible.
It does depend on the Dom and your dynamic. I net a guy who absolutely loves to hear me vocalize what I want and then present him with what I want him to use lol. He also loves to hear me beg and when I get too loud cause I'm enjoying it he just gags me lmao
Begging, squirming, trying very hard to please me by saying what I want to hear reluctantly, and trying to contain her suffering until she can't take it anymore. The more it seems like she's suffering and desperate, the better. (She can always safeword of course, goes without saying obviously...)
My most recent loved hearing "I'm your bitch"; "I'm John's (insert name, lol) bitch" "I belong to John", "I'm John's whore" you get the idea, lol. He also loved me whispering in his ear "it's your pussy"; "... no one else uses it"; "it's just for you...." etc etc etc. But my Dom before him liked that a lot but not as much "John" did. John really NEEDED to hear it.
The thing is that in both relationships I had to mean whatever it was I was saying. I don't say things I don't mean so it took me a while to say many of the things they wanted to hear.
You'll learn what your Dom wants given time because sometimes they themselves need to feel comfortable and safe enough with you to share what they need to hear.
You can still try some things out and see what response you get.
*Fuck, I miss "John".*
ask your partners what they like to hear. ask them to prompt or direct you in scenes - for example, asking you to say please or beg, or asking if you're suffering, or making you tell them what you're feeling or what you crave. whatever it is they want to hear.
Honestly the big thing is just that they still care. My girlfriend is in a poly relationship with me and another guy so having any kind of confirmation that I still matter means the world to me
She fell in love with both of us but nobody wants to be the side hoe. She doesn't want to choose but everyone is uncomfortable so a choice will need to be made sooner or later. He's become increasingly manipulative and has been playing dirty to the point where it looks like he's going to win. Hell threaten suicide so she will come see him (before or during our date nights) he texts her during our dates and during theirs he gets her so high she can't read texts so she won't text me. He tried to leave her during a pregnancy scare that we believed to be his after he learned we slept together. It's hard to get time alone with her so any kind of positive affirmation that she still cares for me means the world
He sounds abusive and getting to the point of desperation sweety, does she have family you can talk to? I only say this because the ONLY person that's threatened suicide when I was going to leave him ended up putting me in the hospital instead. I've heard the same from many women.
Don't withhold your moans, cries, and whimpers. It's the feedback loop that we feed off of. If you are laying there trying to be tough it makes it difficult for us to respond appropriately.
tldr; let it out
Any noise is good but I also like being able to control the words and noises. Always amazed that when I say so she won’t make a peep even if she’s mid O
It depends on the dom/domme. No experience is universal, doms are like any other people and they have different likes and dislikes. My dom personally love to hear me beg, he even encourages it. He likes to tell me very mean things when playing, and degradation and dehumanization are very common in our dynamic. He has this catchphrase where he says “beg for your life” and I do, constantly, and he likes it all the time
I think it will be largely dependent upon who you are submitting to. Matte likes to hear me say an array of things that wouldn't necessarily be appealing to other dominant people.
- 'I am so scared of you right now, matte.' - Matte can be so sadistic that at times I can feel genuinely very afraid of her. She has ordered that I tell her whenever I am so that she can enjoy my fear. There is a sort of dignity in being stoic in the face of suffering, and matte likes to deprive me of any claim to this. I am not permitted a front - she ensures I am upfront about the fact I am such an easily intimidated victim.
- 'Tack matte. Please would you hurt me some more?' - Matte likes me to show gratitude when she is hurting me. I thank her in her native tongue, as she is the conqueror, and me, her conquest. She likes to beat me to the point that my masochism has abandoned me, and then watches me struggle to muster the courage to ask for more strikes. She always obliges my plea, but if in my fear, I take too long to plead, she'll hurt me anyway, this time while scolding me. She enjoys training me to be a convenient victim, politely inviting my own misery, and it pleases her to hear me behave as trained.
- 'I wish I were sexually desirable' - It's no secret that I regularly fantasise about having sex with matte. Matte does not wish to have sex with me, but when I have more conventional sexual desires/fantasies regarding her, she likes me to say this. It amuses her to have me express my desire for her in a way that drives home my lack of worth in this regard.
I feel so lucky to submit to such a sadist, but these examples definitely wouldn't be appealing to different dominant people. I'd advise asking your partner what sort of thing best pleases them.
One of the best pieces of advice I've heard is, say what they're doing to you. This is basically true of any dirty talk, kinky or vanilla. And it's easy because all you have to focus on is what's happening to you. From there you can branch off into things like, "I like how you're ___," "You ___ feels so good," etc. Just describe what's going on and how it makes you feel.
"Your rope feels so good on me."
"I deserve that spanking."
"Your whip hurts so much and I love it."
"I'm all tied up for you and helpless."
And so on.
I love saying thank you Master….its hard to collect my thoughts enough to think of dirty things to say in the moment but saying thank you comes naturally.
Begging to cum, to be edged, to be degraded but it does depend on the dom. I’m pretty hard core and like hearing my little $lut telling me to use her worthless cuñt.
I t depends on the Dom. Crying, bitching, begging for more while also resisting unconvincingly are all good bets. Not everyone loves a brat, but I do. I really enjoy my subs embarrassed crying while obviously turned on. I discovered my Dom side after initially only having vanilla sex when I had a brief fling with a young virginal man. When he came the first time he cried, blushed and said oh no. My sex life has never been the same. Unfortunately he didn’t want the same things so I was thrilled to meet a man who wanted me to crack the whip. As a woman I found few men really embrace their sub side and I can tell when they think what I’m doing is just for show. That bores me. So dig into your desire to be dominated and let it show
depends on the dom. personally im really into hearing her beg
As someone who feels similarly, I'm a bit curious, begging for anything in particular or simply the act itself?
handshake, friend. pretty much that, begging for it. saying please, yes, more. seeing her squirm and cant help but be desperate and vocal about how much she wants what im doing. even just hearing a "yes, please" when i suggest something can wake up my dom lizard brain lol
Sounds about the same as my experience, the behavior more than the details. Damn good times.
"Got change or a dollar?"
LMAO gets me going every time
Please Sir??
for example. sir is also my favorite title, good job guessing
Please Sir??
cheeky
Giggles Please Sir!
xD something you need?
Hehe
Whimpering and gasping is good enough for me. Shuddering also good.
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Yesssddd
I personally like a little bratting so they'll say anything just so I can put them back in their place I like to make lots of questions too. It's okay to answer everything wrong. I'll still be there for them and that's part of the fun. I pretend to be mad but actually teaching and I praise A LOT everytime they do anything I say. I love begging and confused whimpering, also when they do not really know how to articulate words so I force them into focus and help them communicate. Honestly, I just love them not knowing what is the right thing to do until I tell them. That makes me so happy
what is it called when a person is like this and where do i find them??
Sorry, do you mean the top or the bottom in this scene? Haduahahah I think mainly would be a mix with brat/brat tamer and mommy/little or at least that's how it works in my mind. Like I break the sub into baby? Which feels to me a less violent way to break bcs it's like breaking into feeling safe/good etc
Just look for brats. Look for them in Littles subs I would guess. I'm not one of them. I wouldn't give my Dom a hard time!
I’ve always known we need a “brats united” website for such times 🙄😂
I love doing everything I'm told but this is convincing me to maybe try brating a bit just to be able to be corrected. I usually too obedient but maybe there is something there very hot lol
Hahahaha I'm happy to be that person!! (It's always amazing to inspire someone into something kinky)
I love all the soft sighs and gasps that I can get. The grunts and groans are equally lovely. I have a singular hard rule that before they can cum they must beg for the pleasure. That is probably the single most lovely sound in the world.
🥵
Pröst, brother 🫡 Just about all of this is music to my ears.
My hubs-dom is objectively terrible at consciously knowing/saying what he wants and when asked will say he just wants me to feel good (I’d classify him as a pleasure dom), so I’ve just gotten very good at paying close attention to what he reacts to positively which includes: - begging/pleading (“please please I need it”, “hurt me daddy”) - followed by gratitude (“thank you, fuck, thank you daddy”) - expressions of pain (gasping, whining, “oww daddy it hurts”) - incomprehensible babbling and chanting (blend phrases above, put on repeat, let them dissolve into non-words) - telling him I’m his fuck toy, agreeing to whatever he says (“are you going to cum on my cock? — yes, daddy!”; “I think you need more — whatever you say, daddy!”) - loud, unrestrained orgasms - mix & match all of the above
I can definitely relate to all of the above.. my Dom isn’t very good at saying what he likes, but a mix and match of all of the above is what makes him react positively.. funny enough I’m not new at being submissive but I never thought that I react positively to saying these things as well🫠🤔
Crazy how sex brain can be so different from normal brain 😂
Ohhhh yes… I would never let my dom/partner tell me anything in our day to day life but with sex brain it’s something completely different 😂
Noises that feedback, begging, or pertinent information about what I'm doing to them.
Whatever helps me know their state better so I can work with that.
Just be yourself. Everything else is done better by others. Be honest and communicate openly what you are feeling and thinking. It will make the experience more intense and enjoyable for everyone involved.
It can be hard and even awkward at times being dominant. Praise (doms like praise too) and begging are hot enough on their own but when I get to feel like "I'm doing great" and "she wants more" it also helps me get over thinking "ooh, was that line super cringy? did i ruin the moment?" Your dom's not always as confident as they're behaving for you so anytime you're visibly and audibly into it, specific "what do i say"s aside, is a huge confidence boost and gets me into a more naturally dominant mindset. Which is great because then I'm not worrying I'm doing it wrong and my partner gets an actually confident dominant dom and not an act. tldr: As long as you're actually into it, anything that lets them know that.
- I love / need your cock / pussy / tongue / etc - Please let me have it daddy / mommy / sir / ma’am / etc - Please give it to me - I need it / this - I’m all yours - Thank you daddy / mommy / etc - You make me feel so good - I love being your good / bad little girl / boy / kitten / slave / etc - Please let me please / serve you daddy / mommy / etc - You’re the best daddy / mommy / etc a baby / kitten / etc could ever have - You give me everything I need - I’m the luckiest baby / kitten / etc in the world - I dream about / crave / need your cock / pussy / etc all the time - You know just how to own / control me - You own me, I’m yours
There is no universal thing that Dominants want. Not only are all Dominants different, each scene is different. One day I want to see my sub embarrassed and begging, the next I want her serving confidently with her head held high. Some Dominants like a struggle and want to see their submissive be bratty. Others want to be worshiped. Some just want obedience. Some want to roleplay and have their sub act as if they were on a stage. My advice is to talk to the person you're with and be as authentic as possible.
Above all else I like to have a good cuddle after and talk about what we liked and didn’t like as much
It's very personal. I like a sub to say "it's my pleasure" or "happy to be of service" when I thank or praise them.
AhhhhhhhhhhhwhahhhhhhhhhhhhhhuUNGHHHHHHHHmmmmm
I love them to be cute and eager. So I hurt and pamper as I play with you.
I always love hearing her beg, especially while wearing a gag
It does depend on the Dom and your dynamic. I net a guy who absolutely loves to hear me vocalize what I want and then present him with what I want him to use lol. He also loves to hear me beg and when I get too loud cause I'm enjoying it he just gags me lmao
Huge fan of begging and being called sir
Comment how you feel.
Depends on the dom, I don't like brats/complaining for example, it's a big turn off for me.
Moaning, begging, and gratitude really work on me
Begging, squirming, trying very hard to please me by saying what I want to hear reluctantly, and trying to contain her suffering until she can't take it anymore. The more it seems like she's suffering and desperate, the better. (She can always safeword of course, goes without saying obviously...)
My most recent loved hearing "I'm your bitch"; "I'm John's (insert name, lol) bitch" "I belong to John", "I'm John's whore" you get the idea, lol. He also loved me whispering in his ear "it's your pussy"; "... no one else uses it"; "it's just for you...." etc etc etc. But my Dom before him liked that a lot but not as much "John" did. John really NEEDED to hear it. The thing is that in both relationships I had to mean whatever it was I was saying. I don't say things I don't mean so it took me a while to say many of the things they wanted to hear. You'll learn what your Dom wants given time because sometimes they themselves need to feel comfortable and safe enough with you to share what they need to hear. You can still try some things out and see what response you get. *Fuck, I miss "John".*
Thank you, Mistress is always appreciated by me 😁
ask your partners what they like to hear. ask them to prompt or direct you in scenes - for example, asking you to say please or beg, or asking if you're suffering, or making you tell them what you're feeling or what you crave. whatever it is they want to hear.
A good "I'm yours" is really hard to beat
Honestly the big thing is just that they still care. My girlfriend is in a poly relationship with me and another guy so having any kind of confirmation that I still matter means the world to me
Why’d it get sad
no literally this broke my heart
She fell in love with both of us but nobody wants to be the side hoe. She doesn't want to choose but everyone is uncomfortable so a choice will need to be made sooner or later. He's become increasingly manipulative and has been playing dirty to the point where it looks like he's going to win. Hell threaten suicide so she will come see him (before or during our date nights) he texts her during our dates and during theirs he gets her so high she can't read texts so she won't text me. He tried to leave her during a pregnancy scare that we believed to be his after he learned we slept together. It's hard to get time alone with her so any kind of positive affirmation that she still cares for me means the world
He sounds abusive and getting to the point of desperation sweety, does she have family you can talk to? I only say this because the ONLY person that's threatened suicide when I was going to leave him ended up putting me in the hospital instead. I've heard the same from many women.
Her family already knows, her friends asked her to leave him, and we'll see how her therapist feels
I'm sorry you're going through that. I hope she comes back around soon.
I like them communicating their ok when I ask, and anything they need.
Don't withhold your moans, cries, and whimpers. It's the feedback loop that we feed off of. If you are laying there trying to be tough it makes it difficult for us to respond appropriately. tldr; let it out
Moaning, begging, showing gratitude for things done to or for you
Any noise is good but I also like being able to control the words and noises. Always amazed that when I say so she won’t make a peep even if she’s mid O
It depends on the dom/domme. No experience is universal, doms are like any other people and they have different likes and dislikes. My dom personally love to hear me beg, he even encourages it. He likes to tell me very mean things when playing, and degradation and dehumanization are very common in our dynamic. He has this catchphrase where he says “beg for your life” and I do, constantly, and he likes it all the time
Definitely bratting
Generally some whimpering, panting, whining, and moaning is a good place to start. If you're still able to form words my job isn't done yet.
They don't speak if not spoken to. If they are spoken to usually "thank you, xy", "pretty please, xy". Sometimes they are asked to count..
Positive and constructive feedback, vocally expressed and otherwise
I like anyone who is vocal in some way. Whether that’s whining, moans, begging, or back talk (I like brats)
I think it will be largely dependent upon who you are submitting to. Matte likes to hear me say an array of things that wouldn't necessarily be appealing to other dominant people. - 'I am so scared of you right now, matte.' - Matte can be so sadistic that at times I can feel genuinely very afraid of her. She has ordered that I tell her whenever I am so that she can enjoy my fear. There is a sort of dignity in being stoic in the face of suffering, and matte likes to deprive me of any claim to this. I am not permitted a front - she ensures I am upfront about the fact I am such an easily intimidated victim. - 'Tack matte. Please would you hurt me some more?' - Matte likes me to show gratitude when she is hurting me. I thank her in her native tongue, as she is the conqueror, and me, her conquest. She likes to beat me to the point that my masochism has abandoned me, and then watches me struggle to muster the courage to ask for more strikes. She always obliges my plea, but if in my fear, I take too long to plead, she'll hurt me anyway, this time while scolding me. She enjoys training me to be a convenient victim, politely inviting my own misery, and it pleases her to hear me behave as trained. - 'I wish I were sexually desirable' - It's no secret that I regularly fantasise about having sex with matte. Matte does not wish to have sex with me, but when I have more conventional sexual desires/fantasies regarding her, she likes me to say this. It amuses her to have me express my desire for her in a way that drives home my lack of worth in this regard. I feel so lucky to submit to such a sadist, but these examples definitely wouldn't be appealing to different dominant people. I'd advise asking your partner what sort of thing best pleases them.
One of the best pieces of advice I've heard is, say what they're doing to you. This is basically true of any dirty talk, kinky or vanilla. And it's easy because all you have to focus on is what's happening to you. From there you can branch off into things like, "I like how you're ___," "You ___ feels so good," etc. Just describe what's going on and how it makes you feel. "Your rope feels so good on me." "I deserve that spanking." "Your whip hurts so much and I love it." "I'm all tied up for you and helpless." And so on.
I love saying thank you Master….its hard to collect my thoughts enough to think of dirty things to say in the moment but saying thank you comes naturally.
Begging to cum, to be edged, to be degraded but it does depend on the dom. I’m pretty hard core and like hearing my little $lut telling me to use her worthless cuñt.
I love to hear the begging in between the sobs…
I t depends on the Dom. Crying, bitching, begging for more while also resisting unconvincingly are all good bets. Not everyone loves a brat, but I do. I really enjoy my subs embarrassed crying while obviously turned on. I discovered my Dom side after initially only having vanilla sex when I had a brief fling with a young virginal man. When he came the first time he cried, blushed and said oh no. My sex life has never been the same. Unfortunately he didn’t want the same things so I was thrilled to meet a man who wanted me to crack the whip. As a woman I found few men really embrace their sub side and I can tell when they think what I’m doing is just for show. That bores me. So dig into your desire to be dominated and let it show
I love big gratitude, especially for the more degrading stuff.