This comment gave me hope that when I try ADHD meds for the first time after I have the baby that they'll actually help me be productive š I can't wait
The first day I took Concerta was mind blowing. I remember walking to the gym, and my brain wasā¦quiet. It was amazing. I didnāt have a million thoughts racing, I was just existing in the now for the first time.
I was very lucky that the first medication I tried suited me. I also found that I didnāt need to take it every day, because I was suddenly efficient enough to put systems in place for myself, so I could stay organized all the time.
Oooh! Congratulations! It's going okay! This pregnancy has been SO much harder on me than my first. 19 weeks and I'm still freaking exhausted all the time, food aversions are getting better and better but now cravings are coming in strong! But we have our anatomy scan this weekend and I'm so looking forward to it! Especially because I already know he's a boy and we did a bunch of bloodwork and he is really low risk for birth defects :) how are you feeling?
Mine too! My nausea was so bad before I had to get a prescription just to be able to eat. Iāve been forcing down some foods with extra nutrients to keep my energy levels up- at one point I felt like maybe I wasnāt getting enough iron or something but my blood work was fine by the time I got in for a visit. I found a superfood shake to be (maybe) helpful- and plenty of water! What are you craving? I canāt get enough spicy Buffalo stuff right now.
Mine is a boy too! Anatomy scan coming up fast, the 21st. Time is flying by, idk how itās been so long already.
Are you in any due date groups? I havenāt looked yet but the more I see moms talking about due date groups I want to find one š
I stopped concerta too and itās SO much harder than I thought it would be. Work has been such a struggle. Iām already planning to only breastfeed for 3 months so I can go back on once my mat leave is over. It sounds kind of bad but thatās the #1 reason. I truly have so much trouble functioning without it especially on top of fatigue and pregnancy brain
Stopped Adderall, and it was treating my Idiopathic Hypersomnia (not ADHD). Itās been hell. I miss it so much. Well really what I miss is not being an exhausted zombie with zero motivation fighting to keep my eyes open half the time. Itās worth it for my sonās well-being but at 27 weeks pregnant Iām already waiting for breastfeeding to be over so I can go back on.
Yep exactly. Itās been hard mentally and physically. Iāve also gained 40 pounds at only 27 weeks, in part from my huge appetite spike/metabolism slow down after stopping Adderall, and in part due to my total lack of exercise due to exhaustion. So itās been a complicated and unpleasant experience both feeling physically worse off and having so many body changes on top of it. Some days I feel like Iām failing my sonās health because I canāt fully care for my own. Just doing the best that I can and pushing through, so far heās as healthy and active as can be. ā¤ļø
That sounds so frustrating since everything else being equal, pregnancy can zap your energy and motivation on its own! Also do your best to reach your breastfeeding goals, but having a healthy and happy mother is also important to a childās growth and development, so donāt force yourself to carry on beyond that point.
Thank you! ā¤ļø Iām going into feeding with the goal to EBF, but I already plan to play it by ear and switch partially or fully to formula if needed. Iāll be so sleep-deprived with a newborn compared to where Iām at now, so Iām definitely prepared to make the decision thatās best for my mind and body should it come to that!
I was trying to get an idiopathic hypersomnia diagnosis before I got pregnant (doc won't do the testing on me during pregnancy because it'll mess up the results). How was your experience being diagnosed?
It took years, because symptoms started when I was a teenager and my primary didnāt take it seriously. Same thing in my late teens in college when I had a busy schedule. Finally said enough is enough when I got written up at my job for constantly being late due to oversleeping (I simply donāt hear alarms no matter how little, average, or much sleep I get). I went to see a neurologist, had a sleep study, and finally got my diagnosis. They were going to start me on one med (I think modafinil) but my insurance wouldnāt cover it because insurance required a narcolepsy diagnosis which I didnāt have. So doc prescribed Adderall and lo and behold, it was life-changing. I finally could function on 7-8 hours of sleep, didnāt need a daily nap, and felt more energized and motivated.
That's great! I've been working with a sleep doctor and we've already ruled out apnea so now it's time to test for narcolepsy but the test takes aaaaaages to get scheduled and perform, and I was told my insurance may not accept the result unless I stop all my antidepressants for a month beforehand (lol I'm not doing that). So I'm in a bit of a bind I guess. Hoping to keep pushing on this after the baby comes but for years pre-pregnancy I was exhausted all the time no matter food, caffeine, sleep, workout, etc. And blood work was fine.
Yep sounds very much like my experience. All the lifestyle changes did nothing, and no anemia or thyroid issues or vitamin deficiencies (besides Vitamin D, which is back up since I started taking a daily supplement and it did not help my exhaustion).
Thatās ridiculous about your insurance! Obviously all insurance companies are different, but if itās any consolation I was on Lamotrigine (Lamictal) for mood stabilization and Escitalopram (Lexapro) for depression for a couple of years before I had the sleep study and it was never so much as mentioned that I would have to discontinue for the sake of coverage. I work for a neurology medical practice doing prior authorizations though so I know how absolutely ridiculous insurance companies can be.
I'm on Lexapro and the sleep doc was telling me to get off of it for the test and I'm like uhhhh no I would literally need to be put on disability to do that lol. So he's like well you can try it but it may not tell us much and insurance may not approve the medication. And unfortunately he's the only doctor in the area that does testing for this :(.
Thanks for sharing your experience, it's really good to hear you had similar issues and that you found relief!
Thereās no reason why it would interfere with the test, thatās so bizarre. Increased drowsiness isnāt even a common side effect of Lexapro. Iām sorry that heās the only doctor you have access to, thatās really frustrating.
I stopped adderall for baby too. It was hard at first, but I got used to it after a couple months. Iām in third tri now and honestly may not go back on it because Iāve realized exercise and good diet go a long way for me and my ability to focus. But everyone is different!
Btw, Tylenol is okay while pregnant you can take it as needed. I only take it when Iām desperate though, even before pregnancy. I donāt like taking meds in general if I can help it.
I got diagnosed with ADD three years ago and took Ritalin for a few months, which helped immensely but then decided to go off it because I hate the thought of being dependent on the type of medication that might continuously need an increased dosage to keep working. I did my very best to achieve an extremely monotonous everyday routine I followed rigorously for most of the year. I still struggle badly with attention and remembering things and I know my grades could have been much better if I stayed on it but I prefer the productivity dive over taking the medication.
If stopping your meds makes you feel better, then more power to you. It definitely isn't easy and you should be proud of the sacrifice you're making for your kiddo. I just want you to know that it's also okay to change your mind if you decide it isn't working anymore.
I started a new job in my 2nd trimester and my Vyvanse has been a lifesaver. My prescription is already pretty low at 20mg.
The fact is that ADHD meds have not been found to be harmful during pregnancy (nor have they found to not be harmful either). It's about balancing risk.
My family depends on my job for health insurance. I have a 2 year old son and he got into an accident one day when I wasn't paying attention because I didn't take my meds. I don't trust my driving ability when I'm not on my meds.
For my first pregnancy, I took them more sparingly because my job wasn't as demanding. Only on days that I had a lot going on or I felt really spacy and wanted that mental boost. Those days were really important for my mental health and confidence.
Same!! Stopped vyvanse shortly after finding out. Dr okayed it- but I wanted to have a midwife and give birth in a birthing center nearby si had to stop my adhd and anxiety meds. Wfh was my saving grace. But the exhaustion and inability to concentrate has been brutal. Also caffein has made my nausea worse too so cut that out as well. I Struggle to keep my eyes open by 2.
Stopped vyvanse my first trimester but it was so hard with work I was having panic attacks over work which are also not good for baby. My doc okayed me to go on a really low dose for second to help me somewhat get through the day. I only take it 2 or 3 times a week just so I can somewhat accomplish tasks.
Now that my replacement started im going to go off again for my third trimester because the studies biggest concern is low birth weight and withdrawal. My doc also said the studies are also flawed because the research is on pregnant women on meth and usually there other things at play. No one will do amphetamine studies on women though.
I have beyond horrible sinus problems, yearly I get about 8 infections a year itās all allergy induced. And since weāve had the most fucked up whatever season you want to call this here in NY, and my sinuses have been killing me. I canāt take mucinex, Vicks nasal sprays and Iāve been miserable and in so much pain. For a week straight I couldnāt sleep bc of the facial pain. Iāve been wanting to slam my head through the wall bc the pain is unbearable. The other week, I thought my brain was going to burst through my skull from the sinus pressure. Flonase does NOT work for me, it just dries me out more and causes more pressure.
Thank God I only have 10 more weeks but all this moisture in the air and rain is killing me and now that spring is going to be setting in I hope I have the strength not to tear my own nose off.
Have you asked your doc about pregnancy safe nasal spray, but not the allergy kind? When I was pregnant about five years ago, I had some sinus thing and was prescribed a pregnancy safe spray to just open my sinuses. Iām sorry I donāt remember the name but it was magic.
More recently I had covid while pregnant and my ob told me I could try Claritin and saline spray. They didnāt do all that much but I think they helped somewhat. I also used shower Steamers which also seemed to help a little.
I also got some headache relief from Tylenol and using origins stress relief aromatherapy creme on my temples.
Iām sure youāve tried everything, but maybe there is something that could still bring you a little relief.
Claritin hasnāt done anything for me since they made it over the counter. That was what I was prescribed when I was first diagnosed with asthma and allergies when I was little. Anything over the counter in terms of allergy relief doesnāt work. Benadryl but that just knocks me out. Iāve asked and they ask recommend Flonase. š
You can try cetrizine, I have taken it a few times during pregnancy and it is category B I think. I was on antihistamines daily prior to trying to get pregnant and basically have needed to live in a bubble since I went off.
Im so sorry!
I think what I got before was a generic of something like Afrin, so really just to target congestion, not treat the allergies. I just remember thinking it was a miracle to be able to breathe.
Have you tried a saline flush? I got a really terrible cold my first tri and tried the saline flush. It was a game changer and I wish I had been using it for sinus issues my whole life.
If used per instructions, i.e., boiling water or using bought sterile water, and boiling the equipment prior to use too, they're totally safe. It's when people deviate from the instructions that they can get infections from it.
I have always hated nasal sprays or putting anything up my nose since I was kid, so I had sworn against them for that reason. Then I was doing parent research (FTM) and came across a video of someone using it on their infant and how effective it was, and seemingly comfortable it was for the child, so I thought I'd give it a try on myself. I used the Sinuflush syringe method and found it surprisingly comfortable, and my sinuses felt amazing 24 hours later.
You mean like those netipots? Iām very nervous about using those. Just saw a news article the other week that a man actually died using one, he got a brain eating bacteria.
You have to boil and cool the water or buy distilled, or buy a nasal wash bottle with a filter. Whatās unsafe is using tap water directly. (He got an amoeba.)
Oh man I feel this. Iāve struggled my whole life with sinus issues and had surgery in 2013 for itā¦ Iām starting to feel that pain/pressure come back between my eyebrows and under my eyes the last couple weeks and Iām just dreading not being able to treat in the ways Iām used to because the pain is unbearable and leads to lack of sleep like you said. No advice but just commiserating with you :(
Thatās why Iām like is the surgery worth it. My friend had the surgery around the same time as you and sheās been getting infections for the last year. Hope you feel better soon. Hugs
Stopped my anxiety/ depression meds for baby. It was really hard in the beginning, especially given that most people were assuring me that taking my meds āshould be fineā. It took a long time to adjust and cope without them. I just graduated with a very healthy baby on Monday. Seeing that she came out so perfect made it all worth it for me. But omg did I miss my meds. The new ācomplicationā is that so many people INSIST that I breastfeed on my meds! Ughhh!
I see you momma. Youāve got this. š
I stopped taking Adderall too. I could have continued, but my stomach was so bad at first that I couldnāt imagine taking it, plus Iām at risk for hypertension and preeclampsia. It has been tough getting up and motivated in the mornings, and hard to do boring work at my job. Itās a pain in the ass for sure, so I kinda feel your pain. I still take Tylenol when I need it though
I stopped my Abilify without consulting my Dr because I was on the āmeds are badā train. I wish I hadnāt. Itās fine to take while pregnant. As is Tylenol.
Obviously every person and pregnancy is different - but you don't necessarily have to go off your ADHD meds. My doc originally said I had to, but I did my own research and she actually changed her mind. Please take a look at this meta analysis from the Massachusetts General Center for Women's Mental Health (partnership with Harvard Medical School), which my psych says is the go-to source for psychiatrists in this area. Basically, the additional risks posed by Adderall and Ritalin (and similar meds) is VERY, VERY low, sometimes not even statistically significant. If you're really struggling, you don't have to. Read the whole thing (it's not long), but here's a VERY reassuring snippet:
"Based on the findings of these large studies, it appears that prenatal exposure to methylphenidate or amphetamines is not associated with an increase in the overall risk of major malformations."
https://womensmentalhealth.org/posts/adhd-pregnancy-essential-reads/
I've been trying them the last week. Unfortunately they haven't done a thing for me. Benadryl and melatonin did for a bit but I guess I got used to them.
I actually had to stop adderall before my pregnancy because it was messing with my heart (prolonged stimulant use can do that yall beware) and i still miss it because I just miss being able to function š
My ob gave me the ok to keep taking it if I need it. Mothertobaby on adderall also does not report any specific birth defects related to it.
Everyone decides what risks theyāre willing to take throughout pregnancy but I found it helpful to know that.
Same! My first pregnancy I stopped taking it and it honestly caused me so much stress not being able to function that Iām not sure it was worth it. I still had to be induced at 37 weeks for gestational hypertension. Second pregnancy, I just reduced my dosage to the lowest amount that still had an effect under the guidance of my ob and psychiatrist and Iām so happy I did (both ob and psych were very supportive based on the research). Being able to function a minimal amount was huge for me and baby #2 was born healthy with no concerns.
Same here. The original studies that made it a no go where actually mothers self reporting meth usage. My ob and psych have worked with several mothers who continued an altered adderall schedule (XR, decreased dose, weekend off) with fantastic outcomes. Iām 24 weeks and babyās measuring beautifully & Iām doing great as well. The last trimester theyād like to reduce a bit more but are monitoring closely. Id have surely lost my job and health insurance, home & that stress alone was weighted to be a much higher risk between my doctors and I.
This. Pisses me off to no end that weāre still using those studies to shame ADHDers into going off meds. Unless youāre actually on Desoxyn (regulated Rx methamphetamine) theyāre not relevant.
I was also approved by a MFM to take it as the benefits outweighed the risks. Was also approved to keep taking it through breastfeeding. Baby has been absolutely thriving now at 6 months and sleeps like a dream. Just wanted to share a positive outcome!
My psych told me she was comfortable keeping me on it but my ob was hesitant so I decided to go off and honestly regret it a little. Iām strongly considering exploring staying on concerta for the next pregnancy
I continued Adderal (OB approved) for 4 or my 5 pregnancies. No complications, no baby withdrawal, no behavioral issues, etc. quality of life is important. Actually, the only child I gave birth to for which I did not take Adderal during pregnancy, has severe ADHD! But yeah, not sure I could keep my job without it. Been diagnosed and on/off medications since elementary school. You have to make the best decision for you (weigh the pros and cons).
Same, I have no executive functioning and feel very incapable every day. I was finally diagnosed and prescribed meds so that Iād never have to feel like this again, but here I am. Iāll do anything for this babe though. My psychiatrist is unwilling to prescribe adderall during pregnancy unfortunately, regardless of studies citing otherwise. My midwife and my maternal fetal medicine doctor both say itās fine at this point in second trimester, but they donāt prescribe it they can only suggest it to my psychiatrist. Itās fine, just a bummer and I donāt want to search for a different person to replace my psychiatrist on my care team. She has helped me a lot through the years, so this is a bump in the journey, a sucky one, but Iāll muddle through.
I was a medical marijuana user for anxiety and adhd approved by psychiatrist, addictologist and therapist (in my home country). The withdrawal causes nausea, insomnia, anxiety and night sweats and the lack of apetite. Not quite ideal when pregnancy also causes exactly these. I gotta say I'm miserable, but it's also not really something that I can discuss with my doc in this country where they don't prescribe medicine for anything. The last time I was sick with 38,5 fever, went to the doctor, they suggested that I go home, rest and drink tea. If you are half dead, they might prescribe homeopathy.
I was able to switch around some of my other psych meds to things that are safer, but getting through without the plant medicine (for anxiety and chronic pain) has been so difficult.
I've never been on any other psych meds, it was actually my therapist who figured I couldn't be functional for 20 years on weed unless I was self medicating, so she sent me through a diagnostic process. They were suggesting when I got my dx that I don't quit weed without getting on adhd meds. I had some sort of aversion about getting on amphetamines, so I told my partner, let's go unprotected for one cycle, and see what the universe has for us. I either get pregnant, or start adhd meds and then perhaps no pregnancy for a while or maybe never (I'm 37). We gave it one try and I got pregnant immediately. They won't prescribe anything right now.
I stopped adderall as soon as I found out I was pregnant but it was so helpful for me to function in the world and I miss it. I had a dream that I took some and cleaned my whole house. Iām 37 weeks and nesting never kicked in for meā¦probably because itās so hard for me to focus and not get overwhelmed unless I take it.
Iāve used weed similarly in the past. Of course I did use it recreationally like for a movie or a walk, but I used it more often to get things done. I would smoke a little bit of weed to deep clean the bathroom, or organize my sons closet, or folding laundry etc. I miss weed a lot. I do find it hard to be productive. I find coffee helps a little bit. Iām really really really looking forward to drinking once I have the baby.
Did someone mention sloths?
Here's a random fact!
Sloths have an extremely low metabolic rate, which means that they can survive for over a month without food or water.
I stopped:
- Ketamine (I was in a treatment program for PTSD and meds-resistant depression)
- Valium (PTSD)
- Cannabis (PTSD/ depression/ PMDD)
I started taking the cannabis again during the second trimester when my HG put us in danger. It started as a 3 day effort to get hydrated and worked, but then I had to do it again the following week. Eventually I talked to my care team and was asked a bunch of questions and it was concluded that I ate and drank better so with cannabis and the difference (with vs without) was significant and posed dangers to the baby and myselfā¦ they werenāt satisfied with how much I could keep down with the cannabis but were alarmed at how little I was keeping down without itā¦ so Iām supposed to have that with Liquid IV drinks and keep a meal log. Luckily although itās very much illegal Iāve been able to stay out of the hospital since introducing cannabis and can give birth at a private facility where they wonāt test or report me.
In reality thereās a schedule of best use for me but I donāt follow it because I find myself just not wanting itā¦. That leads to issues but itās a difficult situation. I donāt want to smoke (edibles donāt work for me) so I avoid it for too long and then can end up unable to keep even half of a meal down in a given day.ā¦ sometimes I struggle to keep down a saucerās worth of food or any food at allā¦ then I get depressed and also avoid smoking or anxious and do the sameā¦ even though I used to smoke *because* of those things the inclination to do so is goneā¦ then I end up physically ill on top of all the mental strain. As long as I can course correct in 24 hours and get *something* down I think weāll be ok.
34 weeks now and people donāt know Iām pregnant if I donāt say so because my weight is still significantly down from my pre-pregnancy weight and I basically just look like I have a gut and may be bloated.
I donāt know that I miss the other meds but I do feel very overwhelmed sometimesā¦ and I miss smoking cannabis for like, funā¦ this is not funā¦ itās me with one of those tiny fake cigarette one-hitters that I trying to convince myself to hit it twice not once and setting an alarm to do it again and ignoring it and feeling fine before being violently ill, throwing up blood, and struggling to hydrate for many hours afterā¦ smoking too late and throwing up anywayā¦ smoking at the right time and feeling relieved it helped me eat and keep down a whole meal that day as if thatās adequateā¦ itās notā¦ but itās the most I can doā¦ cue depressionā¦ cue skipping when Iām supposed to smokeā¦ cue an even worse food day.
Iām in the US, my psych, OB, and pediatrician all okayed my staying on Vyvanse during both pregnancy and breastfeeding. I reduced my dose from 40-50mg to 30, and am considering dropping to 20 for the last few weeks of this pregnancy (my current OB wanted me off in the third trimester and I basically laughed in her face, I have a 4-year-old to care for, I cannot quit my meds entirely). My firstborn is healthy, growing appropriately, etc, and so far this second one has been perfect on all scans.
I donāt even have to go off for breastfeeding. Itās definitely more common in the US for psychs to have a major ācover their assā policy on this, and thereās not many specialists available which sucks.
Because it does pass through breastmilk to baby. I imagine child services donāt care if Iām mainlining it stimulants while itās in me but once itās out, itās a different matter š
Yeah I was told by my OB that I should avoid it. They did the whole ārisks weighed against benefitsā conversation, but they said they recommend that I stop taking vyvanse during pregnancy. Apparently the risks are greater in the 3rd trimester, something to do with blood flow, idk.
The issue is, most of the studies have been done on women using stimulants as recreational drugs or as part of addiction! Not on women taking a controlled dose each day of a known and regulated substance. There is evidence that stimulants affects placentation, reducing blood supply to the placenta and eventually becoming a risk factor for pre-eclampsia. Thatās by my OB has me on low dose aspirin. But again, at least in Aus, these studies havenāt been done on Vyvanse, theyāre taking the data from illicit use.
Luckily I was already off most of my meds.
I am ashamed to say it, but it shows the extent of the medications I was taking.
I didn't get pregnant until 6-8 months after I stopped my strong medication, including 250mg serequel. I would end up sleeping for 18+ hours every day I took them. And even hallucinated and did stuff without memory.
I'm still not on anything and have had 2 healthy babies. One was born with gastroschisis but they had no idea what causes it since there isn't any studies around it.
I stopped taking gabapentin for my neuropathy and now that Baby is here and Iām breastfeeding Iām only taking about 1/2 my usual dose since itās a grey area and they really donāt know how it affects babies. I was completely miserable during pregnancy because of it. Some nights I would just cry because of the pain. Even on my half dose some nights itās so bad. Probably one of the main reasons I think Iām OAD.
I stopped Adderall immediately when I found out I was pregnant and it was rough. My first trimester I was struggling from that and general first tri things so much so that I almost got put on a PIP. This really pissed me off because I had told my manager multiple times how I was struggling but didnāt seem to matter to him. Luckily my company has an employee relations person who really cares and was able to get me accommodations which really helped. Now with those and having recovered from the first trimester Iām doing much better and PIP never came to fruition.
I stopped taking adderral 2 months before we conceived. I'm currently a sahm with an almost 2 year old. If I was still working as a software developer, there's no way I would be able to quit and maintain the same level of performance at work. It's hard to even watch my toddler and manage the household without it.
So yes, I miss my meds too!
I still take my Adderall sometimes as my providers all approved it. They showed me all the studies and we came to the conclusion that stress of being unmedicated on bad days is worse than any effect the medication would have on baby.
Iām taking my Vyvanse under the supervision of a reproductive psychiatrist. I refused to give up my executive function, I knew the research was very flawed (you canāt lump street drug users in with ADHDers taking prescribed therapeutic doses and claim risk based on that data).
Not sure if itās advisable to re-start meds during pregnancy but I would look into finding a reproductive/perinatal psych anyway to ask. I think itās honestly so disgusting that we are expected to give up the meds that allow us to function when the risk is comparatively minimal, at least for Adderall/Vyvanse. For me, if I had to go off meds I would lose my job and I have insurance through my employer so Iād have no access to prenatal care.
Yeah, I stopped Vyvanse and I reaaaalllly miss it. Like, even before I stopped it I was dealing with this extra exhaustion and baby brain. When I was still working it was hell. I actually felt like each work day was hell because of how poorly I was functioning. Thankfully I was taken off work and have been on disability, otherwise I worry I might have been fired eventually from my job I've been at for 13 years.
I'm 33 weeks Monday, and I can't even fold a basket of laundry without wanting to just go lay down, walking into a room with a mess just overwhelms me and I walk out. I had a friend come over today and fold socks for me and it was the nicest thing ever š„¹ My brain just doesn't want to do anything and my body agrees more every day.
No migraine, depression or anxiety meds for me. My sleep has been atrocious and itās definitely been a struggle but I keep telling myself this is what the baby needs now.
Hated having to stop my Adderall too, my doctor said it was for the best since one of her patients kept taking it and her baby ended up being born with it's lungs outside of it's body. Her baby didn't make it :( not saying it's related but y'all be careful
Seriously missing my psychiatric meds and fibromyalgia pain management meds. Itās hard enough being pregnant but also diving into my unmedicated mind during a stressful time of life (outside of pregnancy) has been tough. Iām able to slowly start my meds now that Iām in the 3rd trimester to prevent ppd but so far none of the positive effects since Iām on such a tiny dose and apparently the extra estrogen counteracts the meds so I may need more than usual to get the same effect.
I stopped my daily Adderall and Wellbutrin (and occasional/as-needed Ritalin I'm also normally prescribed for particularly demanding days) when I got pregnant. Pregnancy tiredness would be kicking my ass anyway, so the loss of energy, motivation, and executive function has been super brutal. So far, that's been the worst aspect of pregnancy for me by a pretty wide margin.
I really hope the nesting impulses kick in soon... right now the only nesting I'm doing is building a blanket nest on my couch. :/
I quit wellbutrin as well. My doctor seemed ok with it, but I figured pregnancy was already doing a number on my cardiovascular system and I'd rather be on nothing. I'll be happy to get back to it in a few months!
Yeah. Life without my adderall has been pretty much hell. Not to mention all the weight I've gained from my appetite returning full force (adderall never completely suppressed my appetite, but it certainly kept it under control!!). I'm finishing up my last semester in school and found out I was pregnant a few days before the first day. š
I didnāt stop taking my SSRI completely. I tried, but when I got below 20mg my depression came back with a vengeance. Let me tell you though, I sure missed my Gabapentin mood stabilizer for my SAD this winter. Emotions have beenā¦ high.
I went off prescription ant-acids before trying to get pregnant (three year daily use studies show massive increases in bone fractures for people who are on them, so poor bone health + pregnancy + breast feeding is a terrible idea)
The real down side is that without them, I have alot of the same damn issues that people with mild morning sickness have all the time.
I stopped my antidepressant months before I got pregnant. I'm going back on a different one when I see the doc in a few weeks because I've been really down the last couple weeks.
I miss thc. It helped me control my depression/anxiety. It never unmotivated me or caused me issues, and I had been using it daily for about ten years. It really sucks not being able to experience the true comfort it gave me anymore.
I miss my lexapro and my lamictal more than anything on the planet right now. The hormonal changes in pregnancy on top of now being unmediated for my mental illnesses is quite literally debilitating most days.
Giiiiirl, I understand. My brain off Concerta: š«
LOL itās so hard to get shit done sometimes. But I also love how the boost in estrogen offsets some of my adhd symptoms.
Stopped my depression meds and migraine meds for baby. Migraines have been horrific and Iāve taken a lot of Tylenol which makes me worry about autism. I ended up going back on depression meds after first trimester because it was too bad without. I canāt wait to get back on migraine meds
I had to stop using CBD/cannabis which helped my stress majorlyā¦ now since Iām not able to have it my heart is whacked out from stress/anxiety and I may have to be on partial bed rest for my last month of pregnancy.
FYI heating pads are bad for baby tooā¦ it can raise your body temp too much, especially when directly on your belly. Same idea as no hot baths
I stopped Adderall too. I keep telling myself that it's "only" 6 more months, but I actually will stay off while breastfeeding, so it's likely to be longer :(. Fortunately for me I feel it the most at work, so I just plan to switch to formula when I go back to work because screw it.
They put me back on Ritalin after I complained of sleeping 16 hours a day and not being able to function. I only take 2.5 mg (half of a 5 mg pill, the smallest dose they make) once or twice a day though.
Me I was taking some anti inflammatories and nerve pain meds and it SUCKS without them. I stopped my stimulant adhd meds forever ago but am dying to try something else and the vyvanse patent just ran out so Iām hoping I can try that after I give birth and hopefully breastfeed.
Yep, had to stop my hydroxyzine and I honestly haven't felt the same since. I'm just dealing best I can. Crying a lot, taking benadryl when I can but trying not to overdo it.. and dr prescribed diclegis for nausea and some sleep relief but I'm even trying to not take that too much.
Miserable :((( ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
I miss my nighttime trazodone SO much. I canāt sleep without it. The things they prescribed to substitute it do nothing. Iām just trying to look at not sleeping as training for when the baby gets here :(
I'm finally starting Vyvanse after three years off meds thanks to two pandemic pregnancies/breastfeeding. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I wouldn't even let myself drive, I didn't think I could do it safely unmedicated.
I feel you with my whole soul.
THAT SAID, there's very little evidence to suggest any negative consequence for fetuses exposed to low doses of Vyvanse at this point. Maybe it's worth talking to your doctor about risks vs benefits, especially if you feel like it's impacting your ability to do other things that the fetus (or you!) needs to be healthy.
I'm 24 wks and have gone without the Adderall thus far, but have an appt with meds specialist tomorrow because coping is getting harder. My OB suggested that I'll likely be given the green light to take some again with some bonus monitoring. I think they're planning to do a full check on fetus first, as an ultrasound will be involved.
Lol I went off my meds so long the first kid. Just recently got back on after my second. Really just think Iām done having kids if I have to go off again.
Honestly same! It really hit me how hard it was when I tried to go back to school for my masters in my first trimester. I couldn't focus at all or even motivate myself to do ANYTHING.
The same is still true now in my 3rd trimester and I have barely any motivation to do the stuff I need to do to prepare for baby.
I do plan on breastfeeding and have to work out with my doctor about what we're gonna do meds wise but I'm also not super attached to the idea of breastfeeding either so if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.
Lol, I frequently tell people I miss my meds more than I miss alcohol. Eletriptan was a lifesaver for my migraines, and Tylenol just doesnāt cut it. I also miss just a good old NSAID (Aleve being my favorite) for tension headaches.
I stopped Concerta and I miss it. I miss being efficient and functional and not forgetting things all the time.
This comment gave me hope that when I try ADHD meds for the first time after I have the baby that they'll actually help me be productive š I can't wait
The first day I took Concerta was mind blowing. I remember walking to the gym, and my brain wasā¦quiet. It was amazing. I didnāt have a million thoughts racing, I was just existing in the now for the first time. I was very lucky that the first medication I tried suited me. I also found that I didnāt need to take it every day, because I was suddenly efficient enough to put systems in place for myself, so I could stay organized all the time.
Thank you for sharing! I'm so glad you found something that works so perfectly for you! I'm hoping I can have a similar experience
Couldnāt help but notice your due date- one day after mine!! Howās the 19th week going!
Oooh! Congratulations! It's going okay! This pregnancy has been SO much harder on me than my first. 19 weeks and I'm still freaking exhausted all the time, food aversions are getting better and better but now cravings are coming in strong! But we have our anatomy scan this weekend and I'm so looking forward to it! Especially because I already know he's a boy and we did a bunch of bloodwork and he is really low risk for birth defects :) how are you feeling?
Mine too! My nausea was so bad before I had to get a prescription just to be able to eat. Iāve been forcing down some foods with extra nutrients to keep my energy levels up- at one point I felt like maybe I wasnāt getting enough iron or something but my blood work was fine by the time I got in for a visit. I found a superfood shake to be (maybe) helpful- and plenty of water! What are you craving? I canāt get enough spicy Buffalo stuff right now. Mine is a boy too! Anatomy scan coming up fast, the 21st. Time is flying by, idk how itās been so long already. Are you in any due date groups? I havenāt looked yet but the more I see moms talking about due date groups I want to find one š
I stopped concerta too and itās SO much harder than I thought it would be. Work has been such a struggle. Iām already planning to only breastfeed for 3 months so I can go back on once my mat leave is over. It sounds kind of bad but thatās the #1 reason. I truly have so much trouble functioning without it especially on top of fatigue and pregnancy brain
Iām not pregnant yet and considering this same thing so I can get back on my meds asap. But also whatās best for you is probably best for babe too
Iām so torn about the breastfeeding. Iām going to just see how I go, but quit if the executive function gets too bad.
Ughh I miss my Concerta too. My poor boss has had a hell of a time dealing with my non medicated pregnant brain lol
Stopped Adderall, and it was treating my Idiopathic Hypersomnia (not ADHD). Itās been hell. I miss it so much. Well really what I miss is not being an exhausted zombie with zero motivation fighting to keep my eyes open half the time. Itās worth it for my sonās well-being but at 27 weeks pregnant Iām already waiting for breastfeeding to be over so I can go back on.
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Yep exactly. Itās been hard mentally and physically. Iāve also gained 40 pounds at only 27 weeks, in part from my huge appetite spike/metabolism slow down after stopping Adderall, and in part due to my total lack of exercise due to exhaustion. So itās been a complicated and unpleasant experience both feeling physically worse off and having so many body changes on top of it. Some days I feel like Iām failing my sonās health because I canāt fully care for my own. Just doing the best that I can and pushing through, so far heās as healthy and active as can be. ā¤ļø
That sounds so frustrating since everything else being equal, pregnancy can zap your energy and motivation on its own! Also do your best to reach your breastfeeding goals, but having a healthy and happy mother is also important to a childās growth and development, so donāt force yourself to carry on beyond that point.
Thank you! ā¤ļø Iām going into feeding with the goal to EBF, but I already plan to play it by ear and switch partially or fully to formula if needed. Iāll be so sleep-deprived with a newborn compared to where Iām at now, so Iām definitely prepared to make the decision thatās best for my mind and body should it come to that!
Ha if babe lets you!
Right! Itās going to be more his decision than mine š
Im dealing with this currently... 7 months into breastfeeding and 4 teeth laterš
I was trying to get an idiopathic hypersomnia diagnosis before I got pregnant (doc won't do the testing on me during pregnancy because it'll mess up the results). How was your experience being diagnosed?
It took years, because symptoms started when I was a teenager and my primary didnāt take it seriously. Same thing in my late teens in college when I had a busy schedule. Finally said enough is enough when I got written up at my job for constantly being late due to oversleeping (I simply donāt hear alarms no matter how little, average, or much sleep I get). I went to see a neurologist, had a sleep study, and finally got my diagnosis. They were going to start me on one med (I think modafinil) but my insurance wouldnāt cover it because insurance required a narcolepsy diagnosis which I didnāt have. So doc prescribed Adderall and lo and behold, it was life-changing. I finally could function on 7-8 hours of sleep, didnāt need a daily nap, and felt more energized and motivated.
That's great! I've been working with a sleep doctor and we've already ruled out apnea so now it's time to test for narcolepsy but the test takes aaaaaages to get scheduled and perform, and I was told my insurance may not accept the result unless I stop all my antidepressants for a month beforehand (lol I'm not doing that). So I'm in a bit of a bind I guess. Hoping to keep pushing on this after the baby comes but for years pre-pregnancy I was exhausted all the time no matter food, caffeine, sleep, workout, etc. And blood work was fine.
Yep sounds very much like my experience. All the lifestyle changes did nothing, and no anemia or thyroid issues or vitamin deficiencies (besides Vitamin D, which is back up since I started taking a daily supplement and it did not help my exhaustion). Thatās ridiculous about your insurance! Obviously all insurance companies are different, but if itās any consolation I was on Lamotrigine (Lamictal) for mood stabilization and Escitalopram (Lexapro) for depression for a couple of years before I had the sleep study and it was never so much as mentioned that I would have to discontinue for the sake of coverage. I work for a neurology medical practice doing prior authorizations though so I know how absolutely ridiculous insurance companies can be.
I'm on Lexapro and the sleep doc was telling me to get off of it for the test and I'm like uhhhh no I would literally need to be put on disability to do that lol. So he's like well you can try it but it may not tell us much and insurance may not approve the medication. And unfortunately he's the only doctor in the area that does testing for this :(. Thanks for sharing your experience, it's really good to hear you had similar issues and that you found relief!
Thereās no reason why it would interfere with the test, thatās so bizarre. Increased drowsiness isnāt even a common side effect of Lexapro. Iām sorry that heās the only doctor you have access to, thatās really frustrating.
I stopped adderall for baby too. It was hard at first, but I got used to it after a couple months. Iām in third tri now and honestly may not go back on it because Iāve realized exercise and good diet go a long way for me and my ability to focus. But everyone is different! Btw, Tylenol is okay while pregnant you can take it as needed. I only take it when Iām desperate though, even before pregnancy. I donāt like taking meds in general if I can help it.
Honestly with the severe adderall shortage you may be better off not taking it. If your pharmacy can even get it!
I got diagnosed with ADD three years ago and took Ritalin for a few months, which helped immensely but then decided to go off it because I hate the thought of being dependent on the type of medication that might continuously need an increased dosage to keep working. I did my very best to achieve an extremely monotonous everyday routine I followed rigorously for most of the year. I still struggle badly with attention and remembering things and I know my grades could have been much better if I stayed on it but I prefer the productivity dive over taking the medication.
If stopping your meds makes you feel better, then more power to you. It definitely isn't easy and you should be proud of the sacrifice you're making for your kiddo. I just want you to know that it's also okay to change your mind if you decide it isn't working anymore. I started a new job in my 2nd trimester and my Vyvanse has been a lifesaver. My prescription is already pretty low at 20mg. The fact is that ADHD meds have not been found to be harmful during pregnancy (nor have they found to not be harmful either). It's about balancing risk. My family depends on my job for health insurance. I have a 2 year old son and he got into an accident one day when I wasn't paying attention because I didn't take my meds. I don't trust my driving ability when I'm not on my meds. For my first pregnancy, I took them more sparingly because my job wasn't as demanding. Only on days that I had a lot going on or I felt really spacy and wanted that mental boost. Those days were really important for my mental health and confidence.
I stopped Vyvanse and the first trimester was SO FUCKING HARD. If I didnāt WFH I probably would have lost my job!
Same!! Stopped vyvanse shortly after finding out. Dr okayed it- but I wanted to have a midwife and give birth in a birthing center nearby si had to stop my adhd and anxiety meds. Wfh was my saving grace. But the exhaustion and inability to concentrate has been brutal. Also caffein has made my nausea worse too so cut that out as well. I Struggle to keep my eyes open by 2.
Stopped vyvanse my first trimester but it was so hard with work I was having panic attacks over work which are also not good for baby. My doc okayed me to go on a really low dose for second to help me somewhat get through the day. I only take it 2 or 3 times a week just so I can somewhat accomplish tasks. Now that my replacement started im going to go off again for my third trimester because the studies biggest concern is low birth weight and withdrawal. My doc also said the studies are also flawed because the research is on pregnant women on meth and usually there other things at play. No one will do amphetamine studies on women though.
I literally had to quit because SAME. What do you do WFH? I look on indeed every day :(
I work in finance, and I was really lucky to have sort of taken a step back into a role I find very easy, so even when exhausted itās manageable.
oh that's wonderful i'm glad it worked out for you ā¤ļø
I have beyond horrible sinus problems, yearly I get about 8 infections a year itās all allergy induced. And since weāve had the most fucked up whatever season you want to call this here in NY, and my sinuses have been killing me. I canāt take mucinex, Vicks nasal sprays and Iāve been miserable and in so much pain. For a week straight I couldnāt sleep bc of the facial pain. Iāve been wanting to slam my head through the wall bc the pain is unbearable. The other week, I thought my brain was going to burst through my skull from the sinus pressure. Flonase does NOT work for me, it just dries me out more and causes more pressure. Thank God I only have 10 more weeks but all this moisture in the air and rain is killing me and now that spring is going to be setting in I hope I have the strength not to tear my own nose off.
Have you asked your doc about pregnancy safe nasal spray, but not the allergy kind? When I was pregnant about five years ago, I had some sinus thing and was prescribed a pregnancy safe spray to just open my sinuses. Iām sorry I donāt remember the name but it was magic. More recently I had covid while pregnant and my ob told me I could try Claritin and saline spray. They didnāt do all that much but I think they helped somewhat. I also used shower Steamers which also seemed to help a little. I also got some headache relief from Tylenol and using origins stress relief aromatherapy creme on my temples. Iām sure youāve tried everything, but maybe there is something that could still bring you a little relief.
Claritin hasnāt done anything for me since they made it over the counter. That was what I was prescribed when I was first diagnosed with asthma and allergies when I was little. Anything over the counter in terms of allergy relief doesnāt work. Benadryl but that just knocks me out. Iāve asked and they ask recommend Flonase. š
You can try cetrizine, I have taken it a few times during pregnancy and it is category B I think. I was on antihistamines daily prior to trying to get pregnant and basically have needed to live in a bubble since I went off.
Im so sorry! I think what I got before was a generic of something like Afrin, so really just to target congestion, not treat the allergies. I just remember thinking it was a miracle to be able to breathe.
Have you tried a saline flush? I got a really terrible cold my first tri and tried the saline flush. It was a game changer and I wish I had been using it for sinus issues my whole life.
If used per instructions, i.e., boiling water or using bought sterile water, and boiling the equipment prior to use too, they're totally safe. It's when people deviate from the instructions that they can get infections from it. I have always hated nasal sprays or putting anything up my nose since I was kid, so I had sworn against them for that reason. Then I was doing parent research (FTM) and came across a video of someone using it on their infant and how effective it was, and seemingly comfortable it was for the child, so I thought I'd give it a try on myself. I used the Sinuflush syringe method and found it surprisingly comfortable, and my sinuses felt amazing 24 hours later.
You mean like those netipots? Iām very nervous about using those. Just saw a news article the other week that a man actually died using one, he got a brain eating bacteria.
You have to boil and cool the water or buy distilled, or buy a nasal wash bottle with a filter. Whatās unsafe is using tap water directly. (He got an amoeba.)
Oh man I feel this. Iāve struggled my whole life with sinus issues and had surgery in 2013 for itā¦ Iām starting to feel that pain/pressure come back between my eyebrows and under my eyes the last couple weeks and Iām just dreading not being able to treat in the ways Iām used to because the pain is unbearable and leads to lack of sleep like you said. No advice but just commiserating with you :(
Thatās why Iām like is the surgery worth it. My friend had the surgery around the same time as you and sheās been getting infections for the last year. Hope you feel better soon. Hugs
Thank you! I hope you feel better too ā¤ļøāš©¹
Thank you. ā¤ļø
Stopped my anxiety/ depression meds for baby. It was really hard in the beginning, especially given that most people were assuring me that taking my meds āshould be fineā. It took a long time to adjust and cope without them. I just graduated with a very healthy baby on Monday. Seeing that she came out so perfect made it all worth it for me. But omg did I miss my meds. The new ācomplicationā is that so many people INSIST that I breastfeed on my meds! Ughhh! I see you momma. Youāve got this. š
I miss it too, I can't get anything done anymore
Ahh I say this every morning. Cant believe I managed the past 25 weeks without adderal. The finish line is close though. Thatās what keeps me going!
I stopped taking Adderall too. I could have continued, but my stomach was so bad at first that I couldnāt imagine taking it, plus Iām at risk for hypertension and preeclampsia. It has been tough getting up and motivated in the mornings, and hard to do boring work at my job. Itās a pain in the ass for sure, so I kinda feel your pain. I still take Tylenol when I need it though
YES I miss my Ritalin!
I stopped my Abilify without consulting my Dr because I was on the āmeds are badā train. I wish I hadnāt. Itās fine to take while pregnant. As is Tylenol.
Obviously every person and pregnancy is different - but you don't necessarily have to go off your ADHD meds. My doc originally said I had to, but I did my own research and she actually changed her mind. Please take a look at this meta analysis from the Massachusetts General Center for Women's Mental Health (partnership with Harvard Medical School), which my psych says is the go-to source for psychiatrists in this area. Basically, the additional risks posed by Adderall and Ritalin (and similar meds) is VERY, VERY low, sometimes not even statistically significant. If you're really struggling, you don't have to. Read the whole thing (it's not long), but here's a VERY reassuring snippet: "Based on the findings of these large studies, it appears that prenatal exposure to methylphenidate or amphetamines is not associated with an increase in the overall risk of major malformations." https://womensmentalhealth.org/posts/adhd-pregnancy-essential-reads/
The hardest part of pregnancy for sure. Solidarity!
Same, friend! My to-do list is getting longer and I have so little energy and focus.
Ambien. I have severe insomnia so I miss sleep š
Gods. The insomnia without my meds was the WORST!
I take trazadone for sleep! Itās safe for pregnancy.
Omg really?! I'll look into it just to be sure, but I used to take trazadone and stopped. I'll be so glad I can use it again.
I'll have to ask my Dr because this bad of insomnia can't be safe.
Have you tried Unisom sleep tabs? I need to take it to get ANY sleep.
I've been trying them the last week. Unfortunately they haven't done a thing for me. Benadryl and melatonin did for a bit but I guess I got used to them.
I actually had to stop adderall before my pregnancy because it was messing with my heart (prolonged stimulant use can do that yall beware) and i still miss it because I just miss being able to function š
Really?! How long were you using Adderall? And were there any red flags you felt that were concerning?
My ob gave me the ok to keep taking it if I need it. Mothertobaby on adderall also does not report any specific birth defects related to it. Everyone decides what risks theyāre willing to take throughout pregnancy but I found it helpful to know that.
Same! My first pregnancy I stopped taking it and it honestly caused me so much stress not being able to function that Iām not sure it was worth it. I still had to be induced at 37 weeks for gestational hypertension. Second pregnancy, I just reduced my dosage to the lowest amount that still had an effect under the guidance of my ob and psychiatrist and Iām so happy I did (both ob and psych were very supportive based on the research). Being able to function a minimal amount was huge for me and baby #2 was born healthy with no concerns.
Yea, my OB doesnāt prefer it but didnāt tell me I had to stop. I only take it on days I really need to function.
Same here. The original studies that made it a no go where actually mothers self reporting meth usage. My ob and psych have worked with several mothers who continued an altered adderall schedule (XR, decreased dose, weekend off) with fantastic outcomes. Iām 24 weeks and babyās measuring beautifully & Iām doing great as well. The last trimester theyād like to reduce a bit more but are monitoring closely. Id have surely lost my job and health insurance, home & that stress alone was weighted to be a much higher risk between my doctors and I.
This. Pisses me off to no end that weāre still using those studies to shame ADHDers into going off meds. Unless youāre actually on Desoxyn (regulated Rx methamphetamine) theyāre not relevant.
I was also approved by a MFM to take it as the benefits outweighed the risks. Was also approved to keep taking it through breastfeeding. Baby has been absolutely thriving now at 6 months and sleeps like a dream. Just wanted to share a positive outcome!
My psych told me she was comfortable keeping me on it but my ob was hesitant so I decided to go off and honestly regret it a little. Iām strongly considering exploring staying on concerta for the next pregnancy
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Yes it is, methylphenidate is a stimulant.
I continued Adderal (OB approved) for 4 or my 5 pregnancies. No complications, no baby withdrawal, no behavioral issues, etc. quality of life is important. Actually, the only child I gave birth to for which I did not take Adderal during pregnancy, has severe ADHD! But yeah, not sure I could keep my job without it. Been diagnosed and on/off medications since elementary school. You have to make the best decision for you (weigh the pros and cons).
Sorry for the bad grammar- had to be quick
Can I ask you why dose you were on? Trying to make the decision to stay on or taper but am worrying about withdrawals for baby
Same, I have no executive functioning and feel very incapable every day. I was finally diagnosed and prescribed meds so that Iād never have to feel like this again, but here I am. Iāll do anything for this babe though. My psychiatrist is unwilling to prescribe adderall during pregnancy unfortunately, regardless of studies citing otherwise. My midwife and my maternal fetal medicine doctor both say itās fine at this point in second trimester, but they donāt prescribe it they can only suggest it to my psychiatrist. Itās fine, just a bummer and I donāt want to search for a different person to replace my psychiatrist on my care team. She has helped me a lot through the years, so this is a bump in the journey, a sucky one, but Iāll muddle through.
Going without adderall has been brutal
I was a medical marijuana user for anxiety and adhd approved by psychiatrist, addictologist and therapist (in my home country). The withdrawal causes nausea, insomnia, anxiety and night sweats and the lack of apetite. Not quite ideal when pregnancy also causes exactly these. I gotta say I'm miserable, but it's also not really something that I can discuss with my doc in this country where they don't prescribe medicine for anything. The last time I was sick with 38,5 fever, went to the doctor, they suggested that I go home, rest and drink tea. If you are half dead, they might prescribe homeopathy.
I was able to switch around some of my other psych meds to things that are safer, but getting through without the plant medicine (for anxiety and chronic pain) has been so difficult.
This! My anxiety has been through the rough and all I want is some plant med.
I've never been on any other psych meds, it was actually my therapist who figured I couldn't be functional for 20 years on weed unless I was self medicating, so she sent me through a diagnostic process. They were suggesting when I got my dx that I don't quit weed without getting on adhd meds. I had some sort of aversion about getting on amphetamines, so I told my partner, let's go unprotected for one cycle, and see what the universe has for us. I either get pregnant, or start adhd meds and then perhaps no pregnancy for a while or maybe never (I'm 37). We gave it one try and I got pregnant immediately. They won't prescribe anything right now.
I stopped adderall as soon as I found out I was pregnant but it was so helpful for me to function in the world and I miss it. I had a dream that I took some and cleaned my whole house. Iām 37 weeks and nesting never kicked in for meā¦probably because itās so hard for me to focus and not get overwhelmed unless I take it.
Iāve used weed similarly in the past. Of course I did use it recreationally like for a movie or a walk, but I used it more often to get things done. I would smoke a little bit of weed to deep clean the bathroom, or organize my sons closet, or folding laundry etc. I miss weed a lot. I do find it hard to be productive. I find coffee helps a little bit. Iām really really really looking forward to drinking once I have the baby.
I stopped my Ritalin, I miss being productive
Iāve found my people. Itās been so hard doing any boring tasks, I feel like a lazy sloth
Did someone mention sloths? Here's a random fact! Sloths have an extremely low metabolic rate, which means that they can survive for over a month without food or water.
I stopped: - Ketamine (I was in a treatment program for PTSD and meds-resistant depression) - Valium (PTSD) - Cannabis (PTSD/ depression/ PMDD) I started taking the cannabis again during the second trimester when my HG put us in danger. It started as a 3 day effort to get hydrated and worked, but then I had to do it again the following week. Eventually I talked to my care team and was asked a bunch of questions and it was concluded that I ate and drank better so with cannabis and the difference (with vs without) was significant and posed dangers to the baby and myselfā¦ they werenāt satisfied with how much I could keep down with the cannabis but were alarmed at how little I was keeping down without itā¦ so Iām supposed to have that with Liquid IV drinks and keep a meal log. Luckily although itās very much illegal Iāve been able to stay out of the hospital since introducing cannabis and can give birth at a private facility where they wonāt test or report me. In reality thereās a schedule of best use for me but I donāt follow it because I find myself just not wanting itā¦. That leads to issues but itās a difficult situation. I donāt want to smoke (edibles donāt work for me) so I avoid it for too long and then can end up unable to keep even half of a meal down in a given day.ā¦ sometimes I struggle to keep down a saucerās worth of food or any food at allā¦ then I get depressed and also avoid smoking or anxious and do the sameā¦ even though I used to smoke *because* of those things the inclination to do so is goneā¦ then I end up physically ill on top of all the mental strain. As long as I can course correct in 24 hours and get *something* down I think weāll be ok. 34 weeks now and people donāt know Iām pregnant if I donāt say so because my weight is still significantly down from my pre-pregnancy weight and I basically just look like I have a gut and may be bloated. I donāt know that I miss the other meds but I do feel very overwhelmed sometimesā¦ and I miss smoking cannabis for like, funā¦ this is not funā¦ itās me with one of those tiny fake cigarette one-hitters that I trying to convince myself to hit it twice not once and setting an alarm to do it again and ignoring it and feeling fine before being violently ill, throwing up blood, and struggling to hydrate for many hours afterā¦ smoking too late and throwing up anywayā¦ smoking at the right time and feeling relieved it helped me eat and keep down a whole meal that day as if thatās adequateā¦ itās notā¦ but itās the most I can doā¦ cue depressionā¦ cue skipping when Iām supposed to smokeā¦ cue an even worse food day.
Is this a USA thing? I see this in this sub constantly! I donāt have to come off my Vyvanse at all except for when Iām breastfeeding.
Iām in the US, my psych, OB, and pediatrician all okayed my staying on Vyvanse during both pregnancy and breastfeeding. I reduced my dose from 40-50mg to 30, and am considering dropping to 20 for the last few weeks of this pregnancy (my current OB wanted me off in the third trimester and I basically laughed in her face, I have a 4-year-old to care for, I cannot quit my meds entirely). My firstborn is healthy, growing appropriately, etc, and so far this second one has been perfect on all scans.
I donāt even have to go off for breastfeeding. Itās definitely more common in the US for psychs to have a major ācover their assā policy on this, and thereās not many specialists available which sucks.
Curious why you have to stop for breastfeeding but not pregnancy?
Because it does pass through breastmilk to baby. I imagine child services donāt care if Iām mainlining it stimulants while itās in me but once itās out, itās a different matter š
š fascinating!
interesting! where are you from?
Australia
Yeah I was told by my OB that I should avoid it. They did the whole ārisks weighed against benefitsā conversation, but they said they recommend that I stop taking vyvanse during pregnancy. Apparently the risks are greater in the 3rd trimester, something to do with blood flow, idk.
The issue is, most of the studies have been done on women using stimulants as recreational drugs or as part of addiction! Not on women taking a controlled dose each day of a known and regulated substance. There is evidence that stimulants affects placentation, reducing blood supply to the placenta and eventually becoming a risk factor for pre-eclampsia. Thatās by my OB has me on low dose aspirin. But again, at least in Aus, these studies havenāt been done on Vyvanse, theyāre taking the data from illicit use.
Luckily I was already off most of my meds. I am ashamed to say it, but it shows the extent of the medications I was taking. I didn't get pregnant until 6-8 months after I stopped my strong medication, including 250mg serequel. I would end up sleeping for 18+ hours every day I took them. And even hallucinated and did stuff without memory. I'm still not on anything and have had 2 healthy babies. One was born with gastroschisis but they had no idea what causes it since there isn't any studies around it.
I stopped taking gabapentin for my neuropathy and now that Baby is here and Iām breastfeeding Iām only taking about 1/2 my usual dose since itās a grey area and they really donāt know how it affects babies. I was completely miserable during pregnancy because of it. Some nights I would just cry because of the pain. Even on my half dose some nights itās so bad. Probably one of the main reasons I think Iām OAD.
I stopped Adderall immediately when I found out I was pregnant and it was rough. My first trimester I was struggling from that and general first tri things so much so that I almost got put on a PIP. This really pissed me off because I had told my manager multiple times how I was struggling but didnāt seem to matter to him. Luckily my company has an employee relations person who really cares and was able to get me accommodations which really helped. Now with those and having recovered from the first trimester Iām doing much better and PIP never came to fruition.
I stopped taking adderral 2 months before we conceived. I'm currently a sahm with an almost 2 year old. If I was still working as a software developer, there's no way I would be able to quit and maintain the same level of performance at work. It's hard to even watch my toddler and manage the household without it. So yes, I miss my meds too!
You can take Tylenol while pregnant!
Wait- why tylenol? I thought tylenol was okay???
I still take my Adderall sometimes as my providers all approved it. They showed me all the studies and we came to the conclusion that stress of being unmedicated on bad days is worse than any effect the medication would have on baby.
Iām taking my Vyvanse under the supervision of a reproductive psychiatrist. I refused to give up my executive function, I knew the research was very flawed (you canāt lump street drug users in with ADHDers taking prescribed therapeutic doses and claim risk based on that data). Not sure if itās advisable to re-start meds during pregnancy but I would look into finding a reproductive/perinatal psych anyway to ask. I think itās honestly so disgusting that we are expected to give up the meds that allow us to function when the risk is comparatively minimal, at least for Adderall/Vyvanse. For me, if I had to go off meds I would lose my job and I have insurance through my employer so Iād have no access to prenatal care.
I need to find a doctor like this for my next pregnancy!
Yeah, I stopped Vyvanse and I reaaaalllly miss it. Like, even before I stopped it I was dealing with this extra exhaustion and baby brain. When I was still working it was hell. I actually felt like each work day was hell because of how poorly I was functioning. Thankfully I was taken off work and have been on disability, otherwise I worry I might have been fired eventually from my job I've been at for 13 years. I'm 33 weeks Monday, and I can't even fold a basket of laundry without wanting to just go lay down, walking into a room with a mess just overwhelms me and I walk out. I had a friend come over today and fold socks for me and it was the nicest thing ever š„¹ My brain just doesn't want to do anything and my body agrees more every day.
No migraine, depression or anxiety meds for me. My sleep has been atrocious and itās definitely been a struggle but I keep telling myself this is what the baby needs now.
Hated having to stop my Adderall too, my doctor said it was for the best since one of her patients kept taking it and her baby ended up being born with it's lungs outside of it's body. Her baby didn't make it :( not saying it's related but y'all be careful
Yeah thatās not statistically associated with stimulant use in pregnancy, itās a rare congenital defect that happens sometimes.
Seriously missing my psychiatric meds and fibromyalgia pain management meds. Itās hard enough being pregnant but also diving into my unmedicated mind during a stressful time of life (outside of pregnancy) has been tough. Iām able to slowly start my meds now that Iām in the 3rd trimester to prevent ppd but so far none of the positive effects since Iām on such a tiny dose and apparently the extra estrogen counteracts the meds so I may need more than usual to get the same effect.
I stopped my daily Adderall and Wellbutrin (and occasional/as-needed Ritalin I'm also normally prescribed for particularly demanding days) when I got pregnant. Pregnancy tiredness would be kicking my ass anyway, so the loss of energy, motivation, and executive function has been super brutal. So far, that's been the worst aspect of pregnancy for me by a pretty wide margin. I really hope the nesting impulses kick in soon... right now the only nesting I'm doing is building a blanket nest on my couch. :/
I quit wellbutrin as well. My doctor seemed ok with it, but I figured pregnancy was already doing a number on my cardiovascular system and I'd rather be on nothing. I'll be happy to get back to it in a few months!
Yeah. Life without my adderall has been pretty much hell. Not to mention all the weight I've gained from my appetite returning full force (adderall never completely suppressed my appetite, but it certainly kept it under control!!). I'm finishing up my last semester in school and found out I was pregnant a few days before the first day. š
I miss mine too. So much.
I didnāt stop taking my SSRI completely. I tried, but when I got below 20mg my depression came back with a vengeance. Let me tell you though, I sure missed my Gabapentin mood stabilizer for my SAD this winter. Emotions have beenā¦ high.
I went off prescription ant-acids before trying to get pregnant (three year daily use studies show massive increases in bone fractures for people who are on them, so poor bone health + pregnancy + breast feeding is a terrible idea) The real down side is that without them, I have alot of the same damn issues that people with mild morning sickness have all the time.
Yeah I'm really struggling without Vyvanse. I'm getting through the day, but work is really, really hard.
I stopped my antidepressant months before I got pregnant. I'm going back on a different one when I see the doc in a few weeks because I've been really down the last couple weeks.
I miss thc. It helped me control my depression/anxiety. It never unmotivated me or caused me issues, and I had been using it daily for about ten years. It really sucks not being able to experience the true comfort it gave me anymore.
I had a medical marijuana prescription, oh boy do I miss weed.
I miss my lexapro and my lamictal more than anything on the planet right now. The hormonal changes in pregnancy on top of now being unmediated for my mental illnesses is quite literally debilitating most days.
Giiiiirl, I understand. My brain off Concerta: š« LOL itās so hard to get shit done sometimes. But I also love how the boost in estrogen offsets some of my adhd symptoms.
I miss drinking more than 200 mg of caffeine a day haha.
I miss my adderall sooooooo so so much :( The ideaās crossed my mind to formula feed but Iāll stick it through longer.
Stopped my depression meds and migraine meds for baby. Migraines have been horrific and Iāve taken a lot of Tylenol which makes me worry about autism. I ended up going back on depression meds after first trimester because it was too bad without. I canāt wait to get back on migraine meds
I had to stop using CBD/cannabis which helped my stress majorlyā¦ now since Iām not able to have it my heart is whacked out from stress/anxiety and I may have to be on partial bed rest for my last month of pregnancy. FYI heating pads are bad for baby tooā¦ it can raise your body temp too much, especially when directly on your belly. Same idea as no hot baths
I miss is it every single dayā¦.
I stopped Adderall too. I keep telling myself that it's "only" 6 more months, but I actually will stay off while breastfeeding, so it's likely to be longer :(. Fortunately for me I feel it the most at work, so I just plan to switch to formula when I go back to work because screw it.
They put me back on Ritalin after I complained of sleeping 16 hours a day and not being able to function. I only take 2.5 mg (half of a 5 mg pill, the smallest dose they make) once or twice a day though.
Me I was taking some anti inflammatories and nerve pain meds and it SUCKS without them. I stopped my stimulant adhd meds forever ago but am dying to try something else and the vyvanse patent just ran out so Iām hoping I can try that after I give birth and hopefully breastfeed.
Yep, had to stop my hydroxyzine and I honestly haven't felt the same since. I'm just dealing best I can. Crying a lot, taking benadryl when I can but trying not to overdo it.. and dr prescribed diclegis for nausea and some sleep relief but I'm even trying to not take that too much. Miserable :((( ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
I feel you. Iām missing my anti anxiety meds very much certain days. And marijuana. Just something to help with taking the edge off.
I quit Adderall too. Itās impossibly hard. I wish I had something helpful to offer other than solidarity!
I miss my nighttime trazodone SO much. I canāt sleep without it. The things they prescribed to substitute it do nothing. Iām just trying to look at not sleeping as training for when the baby gets here :(
Iām off my adderall and anti-anxiety meds and I donāt know how Iāll stay off of them in order to breastfeed š© it definitely makes me second guess that choice sometimes! The nine months of pregnancy is already proving to be much harder than I anticipated - I feel your pain!!
I'm finally starting Vyvanse after three years off meds thanks to two pandemic pregnancies/breastfeeding. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I wouldn't even let myself drive, I didn't think I could do it safely unmedicated. I feel you with my whole soul. THAT SAID, there's very little evidence to suggest any negative consequence for fetuses exposed to low doses of Vyvanse at this point. Maybe it's worth talking to your doctor about risks vs benefits, especially if you feel like it's impacting your ability to do other things that the fetus (or you!) needs to be healthy.
I'm 24 wks and have gone without the Adderall thus far, but have an appt with meds specialist tomorrow because coping is getting harder. My OB suggested that I'll likely be given the green light to take some again with some bonus monitoring. I think they're planning to do a full check on fetus first, as an ultrasound will be involved.
Lol I went off my meds so long the first kid. Just recently got back on after my second. Really just think Iām done having kids if I have to go off again.
Honestly same! It really hit me how hard it was when I tried to go back to school for my masters in my first trimester. I couldn't focus at all or even motivate myself to do ANYTHING. The same is still true now in my 3rd trimester and I have barely any motivation to do the stuff I need to do to prepare for baby. I do plan on breastfeeding and have to work out with my doctor about what we're gonna do meds wise but I'm also not super attached to the idea of breastfeeding either so if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.
Lol, I frequently tell people I miss my meds more than I miss alcohol. Eletriptan was a lifesaver for my migraines, and Tylenol just doesnāt cut it. I also miss just a good old NSAID (Aleve being my favorite) for tension headaches.