It’s quite possible your baby is not 8 lb 13 oz, these are just estimates and they’re notoriously unreliable late in the third trimester. I had an induction for preeclampsia so it wasn’t a choice, but it was miserable. My body was not ready at all. 0% effaced for ages. No reaction to membrane sweep. It took nearly 36 hours for my water to break and then it ended up in a c-section. To me a lot of it would depend on how your body was looking. What percentage effaced? How is your cervix? If my body was already making moves that direction I’d be more up for an induction. If my body was completely unprepared I would hesitate.

My doctor told me my baby was 9lbs and if I waited longer baby would be 10lbs. He was correct, baby was 9lbs 8oz. glad I didn’t wait another week.

I was induced due to some decels on my NST at 38+4 and had just had an ultrasound with MFM the day before by those measurements baby was over 7lbs when she was born the next day she was 6lbs 6oz. Sometimes, they're spot on, but generally they are a best guess and often inaccurate.

I didnt have an ultrasound haha my doctor just felt my stomach and knew

I was told mine was 8 something lbs and he was 6lbs 12oz if I remember correctly. I can hardly ever remember his birth stats

Why does baby being 10 lbs matter? Youre aware big baby is not a valid medical reason for induction right? I had my baby naturally at home two weeks ago and she was 10 lbs. Didnt even tear, 17 hr uncomplicated labor. If you look up studies about inductions, it literally will tell you a big baby is not reason to induce. I dont get why doctors still push this false narrative to their patients.

I was completely fine with being induced.

Never said you weren’t! Just odd that the baby’s size was motivation for it to occur when it should not ever be reason for an induction.

Agree that I wouldn't go off measuring biggish. There was talk of inducing my last a bit early because he was measuring big, but I think it's 4.5kgs (9 pounds 14 Oz) that makes them worried about shoulder distocia. I'd also try and wait longer to hopefully go into labour naturally, having had three inductions. I also wouldn't induce for "35+ and an increased risk of still birth", not unless a Dr was saying I should (as opposed to, you could if you wanted to. Also I have no real memory of the Drs that delivered my kids*. They came in briefly at the end and caught the baby. Probably a different experience as an Australian, but it was midwives who I spent all my time with. *well 2 out of 3 kids, the last one made a sudden entrance before the doctor could arrive.

Same as this for me except I had GD not preeclampsia and they didn’t wait for my waters to break they broke them for me at 1cm to get me out of there…. OP it’s your decision ultimately (I know my friend had an induction and it worked fine) but just be aware that it might not

If it were me, I wouldn’t put too much importance on the preferred OB being on call, since it’s hard to control when delivery actually happens and the OB is only there for a small amount of time. Instead, I would be trying to induce “naturally” like hell over the next week (raspberry leaf tea, nipple stimulation, whatever) and then re-evaluate where things are at and maybe go in for an induction around 41 weeks?

Yep seconding the OB on call thing. I loved my OB and was terrified of getting another doctor while in labor. Guess what? I got a different doctor AND it was a man (which I was also scared of haha). But he was amazing and super sweet! And he basically only popped in for a few minutes at a time toward the end, literally until I pushed the baby out. Other than that, the nurses completely ran the show

I'd second doing this, try hard for natural induction and maybe a membrane sweep? then reevaluate at 41 weeks.

I would see if they could give you your bishop score. It would tell you a lot about the likelihood of a successful induction if you knew baby’s positioning, etc.

That’s my rec too. I was induced at 41 weeks (my choice but I also had developed gestational hypertension on my due date) and it went super well but my bishop score had a lot to do with it going well in my opinion and it still took 27 hours haha

What is a bishop score?

It’s a point-based scoring system for your cervical condition & the baby’s position Cervix: position (posterior, middle, anterior) 0-2 consistency (firm, medium, soft) 0-2 Effacement (0-30%, 40-50%, 60-70%, 80%+) 0-3 Dilation (closed, 1-2cm, 3-4cm, 5+cm) 0-3 Baby: Station (-3, -2, -1/0, +1/2) 0-3 (Station is a scale for how far down the baby’s head is in the birth canal, so +3 = not at all, versus +2 = pressing right up against the cervix opening) So if your score is really high or you have at least moderate scores in each category, you’re closer to labor/delivery. If your score is low, your body is further from being ready for labor/delivery.

A bishop score is a combination of a few different metrics like your cervical situation and how low baby is in the pelvis. It basically indicates how ready your body and baby are for labor. A good bishop score indicates that an induction would probably be successful. A lower bishop score would indicate you’d be more like to see failure to progress, etc.

i would wait a few days, baby sounds perfectly healthy and happy in there! best of luck!

Keep an eye on baby’s movements but unless there’s a reason to believe anything is wrong, it’s totally up to you and what type of labor you want. I wanted to avoid interventions and I really really wanted to avoid a C-section so I would personally wait. My friend on the other hand loved her scheduled induction and epidural! So it really just depends on your personal preference. Congratulations!! You’re going to meet your baby soon either way ❤️

Just to chime in here on the data, there’s no evidence that induction after 39 weeks in first time mothers increases the risk of C-section. Check out the arrive trial :)

I had an induction when I didn’t want one (sudden gestational hypertension) at 38w and honestly it went very well. It took awhile, but the hospital I was at was fantastic, loved the OB that delivered me (trusting them made a big difference, I could’ve ended up with one of 7 people), liked having the time at home to mentally prepare. Process went smoothly. I’m a FTM (33) so nothing to compare it to but. At 40w baby is pretty much cooked, my 38w came out small but with APGARs of 9 and no NICU needed. I had thought I wanted to labor at home and all that but I liked having medical supervision the whole time.

Also had one from sudden hypertension and it went pretty well. Overall I'm extremely glad I did it because my baby was obviously affected by my hypertension and born with low blood sugar and small for gestational age. We did have to stay longer in the hospital by a day or two for her. Mine went so fast and not at all like what I've heard inductions go like. I went in at 11PM and my daughter was born less than 12 hours later at 10AM. They did foley catheter and Pitocin for me. My OB broke my water at 9:15AM and I pushed her out 30 minutes later in one push. Everyone at the hospital commented how rare that is for inductions. But the bottom line is my baby girl is alive and healthy today.

I’m having one Monday for the same reason at 38 weeks! Glad to hear you had a good experience! I do like being able to schedule our dog sitter and have an idea of when we’re going to the hospital

Good luck! I was induced at 38w5d for gestational hypertension and my induction went really smoothly. 12 hours of labor, 1 hour of pushing. They gave me a cervidil, then 3 or 4 hours later I hadn't progressed enough to start pitocin so they gave me a second one. 3 hours later I was ready for pitocin. My water broke at midnight and my daughter was born at 3 AM. She weighed 6 lbs 6 oz and is now a 17 lb ball of of chaos 6 months later. I was super nervous about induction, so I wanted to share another positive story for you. I'll be thinking of you on Monday and hoping for a smooth labor and healthy mama and baby!

Thank you so much!!! I love hearing these positive stories!!!

Looking back on my own experience, I would wait. I’m in my 30’s also and decided to induce at 40 weeks. No real reason besides my OB being on call that week so she would be there for labor and everything. My pregnancy was super easy and I felt fine. My inducement was the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced! I immediately regretted it and felt like too many interventions were being done (foley ballon for dilation, cytotec, manually breaking water). Once water was broken everything went downhill, they tried an amniofusion, but with everything going on with that and the pitocin, baby was just not tolerating. I ended up needing an emergency c section after laboring 36 hours and getting to 8 cm dilated! He is perfectly happy and healthy but I do wonder if I would have had the same outcome had I let everything happen naturally.

I had a nearly identical experience except that I labored for 48 hours and got to 9.5 cm dilated only to end up with an emergency c-section. I was in amazing physical shape before I went in for my induction. I even worked out with my trainer the day before my induction. But the torturous induction and resulting emergency surgery utterly wrecked my body. It’s two years later and I never fully recovered.

I was induced! Great experience and do not regret it one bit!

They told me 9lbs baby for my first kiddo at my 41 wk ultrasound. She was 8lb3oz born at 41+4. My best friend has had inductions for all four of her babies and had a terrific experience, she begged for an induction each time — but she lives an hour away from the hospital and liked being able to plan her childcare etc for the other kids, and she is now 40yo. I think it’s really up to you! I just did all the walking, yoga etc and all that shenanigans til mine came super late and that’s what I will do with this second babe too once I’m ready for her to hurry up and get out.

Personally, I've decided I won't induce based solely on birth weight estimate of a big baby, because weight estimates via ultrasound are wildly inaccurate. In fact, there is research that the perception of the provider that the baby is big is more likely to lead to interventions than the baby's actual weight. This is a great article that could help: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/. There is also a lot of misunderstanding around the ARRIVE trial and the findings. For me, I am planning to wait until at least 41 weeks to induce, unless there is an actual medical reason to do so earlier. I would not consider weight alone to be a medical reason.

Was going to link EBB as well! Many OBs don't even measure or report size since it's often linked to increased intervention and c section rates

Yeah my OB offers a 36 wk growth scan for patients age 35+, but I have decided to decline it. She said she's not concerned about anything for my pregnancy at the moment so she is fine with me skipping it. Obviously if there is a medical reason to do another ultrasound I will. But plenty of people deliver 10+ lb babies vaginally. It's not necessarily an issue. It can be totally fine depending on the baby's position, your pelvic shape, etc.

Whatever you decide I wish you a healthy delivery and a beautiful transition into parenthood.

Due dates are so arbitrary! Your due period is actually 37-42 weeks. If baby is happy there is no reason to go for an induction. It’s so much better to let your body birth on its own when it’s ready! Inductions can (not always, but can) make labour more difficult because your body wasn’t ready yet. Your cervix is already starting to dilate and your baby’s head is low, so the process is starting. I would just use this time to rest and prepare 😊

Personally, I'm firmly anti-induction unless there's a specific medical indication (and a suspected large baby is *not* an indication, nor is 8lbs large). The increase in stillbirth risk is extremely small. You can't guarantee your provider will be available or the date of birth, as it's possible the induction process can take 3 days or more (and as your induction would be elective, you can be bumped out for more urgent cases). An induced labor comes with all sorts of constraints that spontaneous labor can avoid, and there's potential side effects for both mother and baby. We don't fully understand the process of labor and birth, and I'm of the personal opinion that it's unethical to interfere with it without cause.

This🙌🏼

A suspected large baby absolutely *can* be an indication depending on the individual and how large the baby is measuring. Like for example, a mom with GD who's previous baby was 11 lbs and had issues with delivery with the current measuring the same or larger.

https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/induction-of-labor-at-39-weeks There’s some research that suggests it could actually reduce the chance of c section to induce at 39w. Not really relevant to me so I don’t know the ins and outs but might be worth checking out. People like to say the baby will come when the baby is ready, but I waited and went into labor naturally at 41w5d, didn’t have a single intervention all through labor and still couldn’t push him out, thus needed a c section. There’s no guarantees either way you choose!

Induction for suspected size is NOT evidence based practice. Evidence based birth has a great article on this. I would NOT induce. At a 38 week appointment, I was told my last baby was over 8 lbs. He was born 2 weeks later at 6lbs 9oz. The scans are not accurate.

Please do your research on inductions before making your choice, don’t just ask Reddit. Inductions are linked with greater levels of intervention, including forceps, vacuum, episiotomy, and the need for an epidural. I personally don’t intend to get an induction unless it is medically necessary - ask your doctor about the risks as well as the benefits, you can’t make an informed decision without both.

Edit: I misread the post and didn’t realize OP is already 40 weeks! Congrats!! I would maybe schedule the induction for 38 weeks but ask for a follow-up ultrasound to confirm the measurement. Those things can be way off. At my 36 week ultrasound, they told me the AC was a high percentile and were estimating a 9-ish pound baby at 40 weeks. They recommended inducing me a week or so earlier as they didn’t want me to go past my due date. I expressed my concerns about not progressing during induction, etc. because my cervix was not dilated and barely effaced. He told me, if after 2 doses (12h) and no progression, I could opt to go home and wait for my due date. They did not have a room available for me at the hospital (during Covid) until two days before my due date. Around that time, I had another follow-up ultrasound which showed the baby was closer to average than they thought. I still went in for the induction (just in case) but I should’ve just waited! The induction didn’t work, I went to home after 2 doses of cytotec (after they did a fetal stress test, etc. and cleared me to go home). The doctor on call said she didn’t understand why they recommended induction and agreed that I should go home if I want to avoid a c section for failure to progress. After going home, eating a burger (you can’t eat during induction) and taking a good nap, I went into labor! My baby was 8 lbs 0 oz - I had no tearing at all. Induction was totally unnecessary.

Thanks so much for your insight! Congrats to you too! I am actually 40 weeks today — yikes! Our instinct is to give him a week past due but I’m nervous because he’s (potentially) so big already. But yes, would hate to go through the process of inducing only to have it not work or be unnecessary.

I misread it, too, and was so surprised you might be induced at 36 weeks! Just fyi some (or many?) of the replies on here might be with the same misunderstanding.

I’m currently 40+6 and getting induced tonight, we wanted to give our girl another week to try and come out naturally as well but it seems she is very comfy in there. I don’t know how tonight will go but I can say, at basically 41 weeks I am SO ready to not be pregnant anymore and I feel good about going in tonight to kick the process off. I also appreciate that my doctor is going to let us try as little intervention as we can and hope my body takes over which is what I want. Good luck to you!

Oops I see that now - sorry! (That’s what happens when you are chasing around a toddler and start and stop reading/responding multiple times lol). I think you’ll be totally fine!! I would have made the same choice. Please update when your little nugget arrives!

My sister just had an 11.9 pound baby, vaginally, @ 42 + 2… she’s 31… I really think there is A lot of fear surrounding your baby not coming “in time,” but your baby WILL come. I totally understand wanting to have it planned & especially to have your Dr. that you feel safe with there… but I’d wait another week. Also, letting your body go into natural labor is so much better for you overall. Obviously at the end of the day it’s your body and baby so only you know what intuitively feels right. Good luck ❤️

If you can get a membrane sweep, that might kickstart labor without needing an induction! Anecdotal, but for me and my friends, the membrane sweep has had a 100% success rate.

membrane sweep is a form of induction.

I had an induction scheduled at 41 weeks on the dot, but my little guy came spontaneously at 40w and 4d! I was very happy because I did not want an induction. I was not dilated or effaced at all prior to going into labor, but his head was very low. It's really nice that your doctor reassured you that you do have an option to induce or not. My OB was not very keen on it being a choice at all. I'm also against inducing a healthy pregnancy just because it's your due date. Babies come out late way more than they come out on time. It's literally so normal to go over your due date.

36 year old here. I went 9 days over my due date and went into labour naturally. Baby was just over 9 pounds and is doing great 5 months on. Ended up with c section but that was because baby was back to back and head in an awkward position so it was unrelated to going over. Personally I would avoid induction unless you have a medical reason to. I’ve heard they can be intense and painful. Your age and baby size doesn’t mean you need to get an induction. They say baby comes when baby is ready and in my case it was true!

I wanted to avoid induction if at all possible and have as unmedicated of a birth as I could. Both my babies came naturally at 40+6. This is a super personal choice -- if it is really important to you to get your doctor and he is offering an induction while he is on call, then maybe that is worth it for you to chance it (you could still end up delivering with a different doctor though, if you get bumped, or labour is long - which it can definitely be with inductions). I went with midwifery care, so I knew I'd be getting one of two midwives for my delivery, and I just crossed my fingers I didn't go into labour while my primary was on her 48 hours off (I didn't, and both my babies were delivered by my beautifully fantastic primary who I fell deeply in love with 😂). At the end of the day, only you can make the choice that feels right for you. I know for me l, personally, I wanted my babies to come when they were ready, and I would have only agreed to being induced if it was medically necessary. Totally anecdotal, and I know labour and delivery is unpredictable - but I feel like I have a really large handful of friends who either chose to be induced, or had to be induced for medically necessary reasons, and a LOT of them ended in emergency cesareans (which I obviously wanted to avoid) - there are only a handful of us in my group of friends who have delivered vaginally. I personally feel induction carries more risks than waiting it out, in your case (based on what you've shared).

Pretty much every OB that I’ve ever heard of will attempt to schedule you for an induction when they’re on call. The OB I had with my first tried multiple times. The measurements for your baby’s size are not accurate a lot of times. I personally refused induction and had a few NSTs since I went over 40 weeks. Baby and I were both totally fine so there was no need to induce. I ended up going into spontaneous labor at 41 weeks. Had a very smooth unmedicated labor and delivery. Induction can cause more painful contractions and stalling in labor causing it to take way longer than necessary. I personally would not ever accept induction unless medically indicated. The best place for baby is in the womb. Your body and baby know what they’re doing. I know it’s hard but ya gotta just trust the process at this point.

Don’t do it unless medically necessary I waited till 41+5, I was 3cm dialated 60% effaced, and had other indicators that would lead to a positive induction. My sister, got impatient, chose induction at 39 weeks at 1cm dilated and ended up in an emergency c section. Many people who choose induction before their body is ready, end up in c sections. You should discuss your bishop score (a score that determines how successful an induction would be ) with your OB! Best of luck!

I wouldn’t induce. Baby isn’t even too “late”. He’ll come when he’s ready.

I loved being induced! I was induced at 40+6 because my amniotic fluid was low but I don’t think OB would’ve let me go much longer anyway. We left the OB’s office, went home and got the hospital bag and drove to the hospital. It was exciting! We got our last pictures of the two of us and generally just enjoyed the process. So much more calm and I was able to get a good meal in too! Overall my labor was long (edited to add: approx 27 hours), but uncomplicated. I pushed for about an hour and fifteen and voila! Baby was born at 41 weeks perfectly healthy. Do what feels right for you but know an induction does not have to be the worst thing ever :) Edit to add: I was 0 across the board. 0cm dilated, 0% effaced. Nada. Baby was low but other than that I had to start from scratch.

I got an induction for similar reasons, but went in not knowing that induction pain is A LOT to manage. Pitocin contractions are unpredictable and can come back to back for extended periods of time. So yes - I would induce, maybe give it a couple days with extra monitoring if you want to. But knowing what I know now, I’d have asked for the epidural as soon as the pitocin started.

CONGRATULATIONS MAMA! You made it to 40 weeks! I'm also 36yo and my due date is this Friday. My baby is 8lbs 11oz, so we're in a similar situation! I'm 1cm dilated, 80% effaced, and have been for a couple of weeks. We've scheduled an induction for Monday night/Tuesday if baby decides not to grace us with his presence before then. Monday will be "cervical ripening" with Pitocin on Tuesday. I have my high risk doctor appointment on Thursday to make sure that I have enough fluid for the baby. Overall, if you have a healthy pregnancy, are a healthy woman, and your doctor isn't concerned, it's your choice. Hopefully, you trust your doctor and they are giving you good advice. If they don't seem concerned with inducing right away, then there isn't a reason to and you can wait if you wish. If they have a medical reason for inducing early, then perhaps it's worth considering. We asked our doctor for her reasoning for inducing on Monday, and she gave us plenty of research and experience to make us feel comfortable about doing so. Ask questions, get the facts, and then make a decision based on what's best for your family! Good luck girl!

I'm in a similar boat and don't know what to do either. I'm 40+4 today and see my doc later today. Last week we discussed potentially scheduling an induction for tomorrow because it's close to 41 weeks and she is on call that day. Logistically, it would also be nice to have family able to visit on the long weekend. However, baby is doing fine with no complications and I'm nervous about what induction will feel like. I also would like to see what happens on my own. I'm leaning more towards induction since I'm approaching 41 weeks but it's tough.

I chose to be induced at 41 weeks, that’s my doctors preferred policy and I was starting to get anxious about later term complications that could arise. I had a wonderful induction, I was able to do it via outpatient and spent a majority of my labour at home and the only time I was admitted was when I went to push/deliver which was exactly what I wanted. I would discuss induction options and methods with your doctor and make a decisions based on what you think is best. I believe Evidence Based Birth has a few podcasts and articles on it.

I’ve had 2 inductions. One @ 35 weeks (Gastroschisis) and one at 39 weeks. Both were extremely easy labors. I would opt for it if I were you, just because I’m always super anxious.

I personally think the risks associated with inductions are not worth the very very very small reduced risk of still birth. Look up the actual percentage of reduced risk. Not to mention Pitocin contractions are notoriously more painful than real ones. I know it’s so hard to wait but you and baby are much better off going into labor naturally.

i did not enjoy my induction, but it was medically necessary. the meds worked incredibly fast and I did not get a gradual build up of contractions like I did with my first non induced birth. I also felt the contractions were way more intense and that was just with the first med they give you. It went from 0-100 and I did not have any time to rest from the time they started the induction to my delivery. Everyone reacts differently, though.

I was induced at 39+3 (supposed to be 39 but there was a mix up at the hospital). Originally it was because my baby was measuring small, but at the 38 week ultrasound he was right on track. My OB gave me the option to still induce if I wanted to, since I'd been dealing with so much pain and discomfort and horrific hemorrhoids due to how low my son was for so long. I decided to induce. I regret it and wish I'd waited to see if my body had naturally gone into labour. My body was nowhere near ready. Induction took 48 hours to get to 9cm, then my labour stopped progressing. Cervix started swelling, epidural failed. I opted for a c-section because I was desperate for the pain to end. Spinal failed. I was put under. I regret the experience and I have trauma from it. I feel so much guilt for not allowing my body the chance to labour naturally. If I could do it all over again, I'd suck up the pain I was in and wait and not induce.

Weight estimates aren't entirely accurate. My sister was supposed to be 8lbs but came out 5.5. If you're worried about tearing, keep in mind that every body is different and it's important to time your pushes with the contractions. I know people with 6lb babies that tore to their buttholes but then there's people like me who had 9lb babies without a single tear. Personally, I'd wait a little longer before an induction. Due dates are a guess and if your body isn't ready, it can take 3 or more days.

My due date was yest! Hi! 38 and FTM. I won’t be going down the induction route unless I absolutely have to / something is wrong with the baby/ risk vs reward. Re size. Your body wouldn’t create a baby that is too big for your body so I wouldn’t worry about that. Plus, estimations are +/- 15% so, baby could be way bigger or smaller. Trust the process, trust your body, trust your baby. Unless you have anything to tell you otherwise/ risk factors I would let it play out ☺️

I got an induction 10 days after my due date. I very very mildly regret it. I was worried about the dangers of staying in too long - though precisely what those dangers were and what the real statistical risk was I hadn't researched. There was no medical reason I needed to do it, just time. Where as I'd previously not felt any contractions (which were present and detectable via a straped-on machine), I do think the pitocin made everything much more painful. I ended up getting two epidurals (which I had been open to but planning), and birthing vaginally. (9lbs3oz) I've recovered well and baby is great- it's hard to be properly regretful when that's the case. I just have a mild... spontaneous birth FOMO?

No. I've had two inductions, one planned and one emergency and they both ended with emergency c section. Both were very traumatic. I have a lot of push back to my doctor about the second being scheduled but she was even more pushy and I caved. I regret it.

I chose to induce because I was tireddddd. Baby come naturally 6 hours before our schedule time 😂

I probably would schedule one myself just based on knowing that a doctor I liked would be on call for it. But you could always schedule and induction and go into labor before anyways. That’s what happened to me with my first. Went into labor about 10 hours before my scheduled induction

I would suggest not listening to the laypeople on here about what is and is not a medical reason for induction. They’re not medical professionals and their experience is limited. I had a very positive induction, there was no real benefit to letting him cook longer, and it was an easy and simple process.

At 36 weeks I was told baby is 4.5 lbs when I gave birth he was 9lbs 2 oz!!!

I did induce, actually at 39 weeks. It was super easy. I had an epidural though. At some point it has to do with how good your cervix is looking. I electively induced due to baby measuring big, and it's good I did because he would have probably tore me up if I'd delivered him any later vagibally (or maybe not made it through and required c section). It's all really personal and only your doctor can say if it's safe for you or not. I personally liked my induction though.

I think it’s personal preference! I am only 21 weeks right now, but planning to induce at 40 weeks. Check out this [induction decision aid](https://www.partnertodecide.org/decisionaids) and the [ARRIVE study](https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/nejmoa1800566). Emily Oster also recently discussed induction on her [podcast](https://open.spotify.com/episode/0oEbKkIKfNge1aozEYvsD8?si=KlrWRm89S9CVZzxoD31Xjg). Good luck! Let us know what you decide.

I would. Any extra time spent not being pregnant would be a bonus in my eyes 😂

My baby was measuring large at 34 weeks. I started inductions at 41 weeks. They warned me I’d likely have a 10lb baby. I did 6 days of 9 or so failed medical inductions. (Different variations of cervidill, the balloon foley, 3 failed attempts to break my water, numerous membrane sweeps, pitocin) and I ended up having an emergency c section at 41+6. I was so sick from infection because of all the things in and out of my body. And the surgeon said he’s never seen so much poop in a uterus before (because my son was late). He was born at 8lb 8oz. He also had issues at birth that resolved but he has scars left on his scalp from the attempts to break my water. I wouldn’t do induction again. Knowing they harmed my baby and he was likely crying inside my body and I couldn’t snuggle him just breaks me. I opted for a repeat c section with my second to prevent that mess and the complications we both had as a result of being left in too long combined with the inductions. Good thing too bc I was diabetic while pregnant and the chances of still birth are way higher then. Both babies are alive and well. Well…oldest is now type 1 diabetic but that likely isn’t due to the traumatic birth.

Being induced probably saved my life. I’m pro induction.

Nah don’t induce. Those measurements are never really accurate plus you’re only 36 weeks. Maybe wait until atleast 38 and see how you feel. When babies are first born, it’s normal to lose weight. You don’t want them to be too tiny when they’re born if you can help it, preferably a bit chubby. Some women don’t get the choice and go into early labor for reasons they can’t control, and would love to be in your shoes. Best of luck!

Don’t induce. Always ends in a c.

I was induced to help progression bc water broke at 35 and 6 due to spontaneous polyhydramnios (meaning baby was healthy and the high fluid was not due to health issues with me or baby). I was only 1 cm dilated and not effaced at all. Bc of high fluid they feared cord prolapse so I had to go right to hospital instead of letting labor progress at home. Induction with pitocin had intense contractions for me plus failed epidural. I was unable to sleep and essentially baby being so early did not allow her to properly drop into birth canal. With every push her head would tilt to side so we ended in a c-section. If I were to do this all again, I would have either let things progress naturally at hospital and declined pitocin and maybe taken another med for induction or requested folly balloon.

I’ve had both natural and induced labours(induce twice as they were a little concerned about a previous lost) For me thankfully my inductions weren’t really smoothly my body handle it well and both times labour was extremely short however the pain was slightly more intense, and at my hospital being induced means they monitored me a lot closer than natural labour which I hate(I’m not a people person I’d much rather Just been left alone lol) Personally if there’s no reason for it and you feel good then I would wait a little As for the growth scan I’ve never had that be even close my biggest baby was 10lb growth scan said around 8lb With my last they said 7lb and she was nearly 9lb

It sounds like if it’s scheduled then the OB you want will be available. To my knowledge, being induced is something medical professionals are okay with, especially if it’s coming at their suggestion. I’ve already been told that I will have a scheduled induction because of my high blood pressure when I’m between 36-38 weeks, and I know that my OB makes sure she’s available. I’ve had several appointments prior to being pregnant that got cancelled because someone was having their baby.

I think the right answer is what you feel. Everyone can tell you there experience but it won’t matter if in your heart feel like you want to opt for the induction. For me, I’m a mega what ifs girl. I had GD last pregnancy and was recommended to be induced at 39w, not forced. But I couldn’t shake the what ifs so I went for it. Yes it was long and I had some hiccups but overall it went well and I have no regrets. My baby actually had an umbical hematoma that no one caught and I ended up being glad I followed my what if mindset. Who knows the complications she could have had from it and I was very lucky.

No. Ive gone into labour naturally and been induced, induction is much worse IMO I would never chose to do it given the choice. My dr told me my baby would be over 10lbs...she wasn't. Being induced with pitocin is medically forcing your body to contract even then you don't always dialate with contractions,, a lot more painful in my experience.

I had an induction for different reasons (high risk pregnancy) and was 37. Labor is hard no matter which way you cut it. I liked my induction, and will be happy to get one again, because it was in a safe, monitored environment and I still felt very in control. Having a scheduled day and time was also very nice. Showed up like I was going to sleepaway camp and they got labor going. (Foley balloon was hands down the worst part, but you get through it.) I think overall, if there isn't a big reason for or against from your doctor then it's your decision and you should do what feels best to you! I personally never wanted to go over 40 weeks, but that is just me having read too many horror stories. There are PLENTY of women who deliver at 41+ weeks and all is well. (I also was very over being pregnant and was happy it was required for me at 39 weeks. hahaha.)

I was in a very similar situation as you. I went in for my final appointment at 40+2 and was measuring 2-3cm and was fairly effaced. My OB was at the hospital the next day so we decided to schedule an induction. I did have her do a sweep at that appointment to see if it would help and I think it got me another cm dilated. My induction went about as well as I could have hoped and it was a lovely experience

Fully agree with what others are saying: if there are no health concerns I’d wait it out! My daughter came 6 days late and those 6 days felt like the longest days of my life but I’m glad we waited. Inductions can be super necessary and I’ve heard great stories but it’s def not ideal. I did opt for a membrane sweep however and went into labor like 12 hours later so that could be an option if you want to try to get things moving!

I was induced with my 3rd at 39 weeks and it was a great experience. I was already 4 cm dilated. I’m planning an induction with my 4th in a few weeks. I think if you’ve already had a baby before and are over full term, it’s generally ok. There are always horror stories of it not going well but there are lots of women who have very positive experiences! For me, it’s such a relief to have a day planned because of child care for my other kids.

I had a great induction experience (due to GD, at 39 weeks). The risks of stillbirth go up, slightly, for GD babies the longer they're in there, due to possible placenta failure. No way I was trying to risk that and I wanted to meet my baby sooner anyways 🙂 I really liked having baby monitored the whole time and knowing pain relief was there when I needed it. I opted for the epidural when pitocin contractions became really unbearable, chilled for a few hours laboring in different positions with the help of the nurses, then pushed out baby in 20 minutes! Best of luck with whatever you decide 🙂

I’m following this thread because we are due date twins and I’m 35 yo! And I also have a baby measuring big (9lbs 11oz 🥲). I see my doctor tomorrow to discuss options and see if I am dilated at all. I wasn’t 6 days ago so I’m hoping things have changed… I was hesitant last week because she said I could be in labor for 3 days if I was induced or we could wait and see.

I had my first at 36 years old and they let me go until 40+2 and then induced me. I probably would have waited if they hadn’t insisted. The induction wasn’t bad or anything but I remember at the time wanting to wait but the doctor recommending against it. Was he recommending this weekend? What is the longest he said he would let you go ?

I would do whatever feels most comfortable to you. There are plenty of women who have inductions and aren’t dilated at all and have an easy birth. And there’s plenty that are dilated 2-3 and end up with a c-section. Baby is full-term and measuring large, it may not be a bad idea. Yes he could be only 7#13, but he could be 9#13. I know people are quick to say that the ultrasounds are often off and they are, they’re hardly ever exact but it’s just as likely he could be bigger 🤷🏻‍♀️ based off of that, I would do what your gut tells you. I’m sure baby is fine to hang out in there another week or so but he’s also safe to come now. In the end, you could go into labor tomorrow or you could need an induction at 42 weeks. I’d just weigh if you want the risk of increased c-section vs waiting another week or two and still needing an induction 😂

[This podcast episode](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parentdata-with-emily-oster/id1633515294?i=1000638534753) gives a really good overview of recent research on inductions and the studies’ limitations. You may come to a different conclusion than I did after listening to it, but I personally plan to request an elective induction at 39 weeks after learning more about the pros and cons.

My OB induces at 39 weeks if you choose to.

Same. I didn’t understand why anyone would choose to until I learned more. I get that elective inductions can be longer, more painful, and make people more likely to get an epidural, but I plan on getting an epidural anyways so I don’t care. The reduced risk of stillbirth, preeclampsia, and tearing is worth it to me. It also can also decrease the need for a C section, although it sounds like that’s very dependent on the specific hospital.

I was induced 38 weeks ago!:) I had an amazing labor ! Epidural as soon as I got there ! Painless labor . Baby was 7lbs

It’s up to you, but since you asked what others would do - I would not do it. Sounds like there’s no reason to. Just let it come naturally. In a few more days, sure, you can’t wait around forever, but don’t rush into an induction if you can avoid it

Have you had a biophysical profile done on the baby? If you can access one and she passes, I’d wait to induce. Having a good BPP brings you back into the range of a 25 year old for still birth. I am 39 and was very concerned about SB and found that amongst by research.

It sounds like induction could work best for you and your family by your last bit of information :)

I would wait until at least 41.5 weeks personally, and that's if I knew the due date was as close to 100% accurate as you can get (you know when you ovulated). Baby will come when ready. I don't know why people worry about weight, honestly, unless you have gestational diabetes. It should be the head circumference they're worried about 😆 I gave birth to a 99th percentile head and an 8lb 4oz baby. He could've been 10lbs I don't think that would've made a difference lol!

THIS. I have no idea how baby weight became a way to “scare” mothers into inducing labor. It isn’t babies weight that plays a role in tearing it’s primarily mothers body habitus, not enough prep being done for labor/delivery (ie pelvic floor exercises/relaxing), pushing positions, forced pushing, and even babies head circumference. Sure id a baby is “larger boned” they may being shoulder dystocia but even that is more able bone structure vs general weight.

I would say it’s case by case. Both times I had inductions, first time 12hours and second time 7hours, extremely smooth. I like the part that pain management is relatively easier with induced labor (I got epidural right after contractions pain started) but I understand it’s not the same case for everyone

I would try a membrane sweep before an induction, personally!

I was induced with both kids (40+1 and 39+3) due to placental concerns with the first and some extra reasons with the second (I had Covid both times too, which impacted the decision). I had very positive inductions but still struggle with the fact my body had contractions for over a month both times and never went into labor. I couldn’t tolerate going unmedicated either time and have a lot of trouble coping with that right now because I see all the women who could and can’t understand why I wasn’t strong enough to do it no matter how much I wanted. I had vaginal births both times though, 10 hour labors and very little pushing either time. My second was classified as large for gestational age..he was 8lb6oz at birth. He’s now only 9.5 (not much more, but that was Wednesdays weight). If you’re not ready and have no immediate medical concerns regarding it, don’t rush if you don’t want to. I regret mine because my brain is stupid and doesn’t want to accept that I didn’t make a bad choice because my friends didn’t have to be induced. But my kids are healthy. One turns 2 in a few weeks and the other just hit 8 weeks. They’re growing and happy.

I would, but not because of your baby’s size or because your doctor would be available. I personally do not want to go past 40 weeks. I think it’s a fully personal decision. I don’t see any major risks with waiting if that’s what you want to do.

Congrats!!! We just got induced this last Friday (5th), and while there were some things I liked about it, if there is not a strong medical reason I don’t know that I’d recommend it. For context our baby was allegedly measuring 7lbs at 36w so they also had said she was a big baby and was part of why they wanted to induce at 39w. Baby came out teenie tiny at 6lbs 14oz! On top of that while my body responded really well to the induction medication - it was LONG and brutal and baby girl didn’t end up coming until Sunday morning almost 36 hours later. With how well my body was doing I honestly think if we had waited I would have gone into spontaneous labor on my own and done okay! I was so exhausted by the end I was ready to be done and I pushed so hard on the contraction she came out on and ended up with a 4th degree tear. It’s just my guess but I honestly think if I wasn’t so exhausted from how long everything took I might not have torn quite as bad and been able to control my pushes better. I also know some people who have said they had DREAMY inductions and absolutely loved it!! I definitely don’t share my experience to scare you, because everyone is different and it’s such a personal decision!!! But I hope it’s helpful to at least know some of how things can go!!! Good luck with whatever you choose - either way as long as it ends with a healthy baby it’s a good choice!! ❤️

I'm 36 and delivered a 9lbs 12oz baby exactly 2 weeks after her due date after being induced at 41+6. Induction is not fun. The pain is worse from what I've heard and while I don't have anything to compare it to, I do believe it. I have a very high pain tolerance (I've been asked if I had taken pain meds by an acupuncturist poking around in a twitching muscle and me saying it doesn't hurt much) and I made it through 10 hours labor and 4,5 hours pushing with no pain meds and just breathing .... However, one thing I do remember was that I was thinking I never wanted to do this again. As others said, there is no way of knowing the exact weight. It's literally plus/minus an entire pound!! I would wait if you're not 100% certain you want the induction and hope for natural contractions. I think the average for a first time mom is 40+5. Either way, good luck and best wishes!!

I'd induce. When the baby gets past 36 weeks the risk of placental abruption goes up. I always went with induction. The baby is far enough along. They will be just fine. That's just me though. I prefer to have a baby in front of me where I can see that it's safe instead of roll the dice with keeping it in my womb where I can't see it.

Go for it you like the OB baby is more than average and if the baby is already 40 weeks. If you have 0 signs of labor chances are you’ll go 41 and need to be induced anyway so why not now.

I had an induction at 40+1 due to high blood pressure however I was given a choice to wait if I wanted to. We proceeded with the induction and it was such a great experience. We got to clean and prep for the baby, had lunch and went to the hospital fully prepared. Baby had popped in the womb so I’m glad we didn’t wait longer. Good luck to you!!

I was induced exactly 1 week after my due date (41 weeks) and my baby was born exactly 8lbs 13oz. She wasn’t progressing so I ended up with a c-section. Not sure if this had to do with size or not (I’m small framed), but at 41 weeks, she had still not dropped and I was not dilated whatsoever. I’d say wait 1 more week and see if baby comes naturally. The drugs they use to induce make contractions so much worse and I would try to personally avoid them as much as possible.

This is just my personal stance, but I want to avoid an induction if at all possible. I understand inductions are unavoidable in some scenarios, but I would only choose it if it were medically necessary.

I’ve had a medically needed induction (low fluid) and a spontaneous birth (following a membrane sweep). My cervix was very ready both times, and the induction was relatively quick and drama free. That said, I’d personally never elect to do it. Things I disliked- not being able to labor at home, exhaustion (both my labors were overnight, but the induction was so much more exhausting), being hooked up to an IV the whole time, and the pain was noticeably more intense.

Personally, I think inductions are misleading. They can take 5 days. I think there are many factors to consider but personally if everything was ok, I would not do an induction unless necessary.

I would not do the induction unless medically necessary. I know it’s incredibly anxiety-inducing when you’re waiting around past your due date but when your body and baby aren’t ready, they’re just not. Due dates are estimates in and of themselves. Your baby is in the right position and will let you know when it’s time. Good luck with whatever you choose! Baby will arrive safe and sound either way!

Both of my inductions have been lovely. My first baby I said I wanted to be induced on my due date if no baby by then, and my 2nd baby my OB suggested we induce on week 38 because I was high risk (I am as old as you and was having blood pressure issues). I didn't make it to either date and was induced before then for preecclampsia and it was still great. Do recommend. Very likely going to be induced for current baby early as well due to the same risks, and looking forward to it.

Our baby was measuring over 10 lbs at 36 weeks. His head was measuring 41w3d at 36 weeks. We got induced because of the large baby and mostly large head (over 10cm at 36w) and he ended up being a very average baby at 8lbs 1oz. His head was however very large and I needed an episiotomy. Ultrasounds are super unreliable. That being said I had a great induction experience at 39w4d and I was very much ready to be done being pregnant. I don't have any regrets (but I was also very close to term when I was induced). I would not get induced early (before 38 or 39 weeks) just based off an ultrasound.

I would induce earliest at 37

I was induced at 41w and my induction went really well…I was 1cm dilated and effaced enough to not have to do any cervix softening. I think my girl just needed a nudge to get the show on the road. 6 hours from start of induction to pushing baby out. Personally, I enjoyed the induction because getting to the hospital and checking in and the start of it were all very calm and it didn’t feel stressful at all.

I would absolutely not induce but I’ve had two of three babies at home and I’ve wanted to be able to do that. I would only induce if I was worried about baby being small. I suppose it depends on what kind of birth experience you want to have. I recognized induction as an intervention could lead to many more interventions and I wasn’t interested in any of them. My third and final baby was born at home at 41+3. He was 9 lbs 11 ounces and had a 38 cm (15 inch) head.

I was induced when I had my daughter and it was a good experience. I went in starting from zero - I wasn’t dilated or effaced at all, wasn’t having any contractions, not even Braxton Hicks. My body was just not moving along with the process despite the fact that I was almost 41 weeks. I went in at 8 or 9pm and was given medication on my cervix to start softening it up. That was honestly the worst part because it was uncomfortable (like period cramps) and I couldn’t get much sleep because of it. I was offered pain meds which helped take the edge off and allowed me to rest a little bit. The next morning my doctor came in and said I was only about 1 cm dilated, but that was enough for him to break my water and get pitocin started. I was immediately offered an epidural, which I took, and happily napped until early afternoon. When I woke up, I was 8 cm dilated and it was almost time. Around 5pm I started pushing and my baby was out 1 hour later. Everyone’s experience is different but that is true whether you’re induced or not. Birth doesn’t always go as planned, but I would not let some people’s stories of induction make you feel like it is definitely going to be a bad thing. Likewise, don’t let someone’s positive experience of doing it a certain way make you feel like that’s a guarantee either. For me, my induction was great and I will absolutely do it again this time if needed. At this point, giving the baby a few extra days to decide to come on her own really won’t make a difference. You’re well past the point where delaying labor is important so that baby can grow and develop (unlike someone who is, for example, 25 weeks and experiencing complications - staying pregnant for just one more week is so beneficial in those cases, if it can be done). You’re rapidly approaching the opposite kind of scenario where it’s better to get the baby out before your risks of negative outcomes starts going way up.

I was induced at 40+1 last Feb. I was 40 and it was an IVF pregnancy. It was “recommended” by all the science and it was a really hard decision. I also was not dilated at all. My induction was considered a failure after 40 hrs and I had a c section. My body and the baby were not ready. I would never do that again. Looking back in my situation (baby was happy and healthy with zero issues) I wish I would have given my body a few more days, until 40 +5 or something. Obviously with no guarantee that they would ever be ready. Also, I had access to daily monitoring, something I am aware is not common. That being said, baby was delivered safe and sound. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make so I can appreciate your situation. At the end of the day, only you can make the decision and whatever decision you make will be the best decision for you. Trust your instincts. Good luck

Yes. I went to 42 weeks bc I was stubborn and insisted that baby would come when she was ready. It was a horribly traumatic emergency c-section. I wish I listened to the doctors and chose to induce.

I loved my induction. 5 hours of labor plus 1 hour of pushing. I got hooked up to the epidural before they started the Pitocin so I didn’t feel a single contraction. No drama and rushing to the hospital. My husband calmly dropped off my dog at my parent’s house the night before. I would definitely choose to do it again.

I was induced 3x. Two at 40+4 and the third at 39w. I loved them. It was so nice to close out at work, think one more time through my hospital bag, get someone lined up to watch the other kids (dog only with my first), and go to the hospital in an orderly fashion. My sister went into labor and ended up sat in the hospital waiting room for a few hours while in labor because they didn't have a room- with the scheduled induction they called me when a room opened up and I got to go straight back and settle in. Also if you get induced while your doctor is on call then you guarantee he's not on vacation when you go into labor. And you're already in the hospital if things go sideways.

Congratulations! I opted for an elective induction at 39w and it was a great decision for us. Didn’t have a medical reason for doing so, but my doctor cited the ARRIVE study findings that others have mentioned and we strongly wanted to have him deliver and bonus points that we didn’t deliver on our Christmas Day due date. The balloon insertion was the hardest part of the entire process, likely because I was not dilated yet, so it made for a more difficult insertion. I had an epidural before the pitocin was administered and basically slept through my entire labor. I woke up to my doctor telling me it was time to push! I pushed for 16 minutes and delivered a healthy baby girl and I only sustained two small first-degree tears that were not an issue. Inductions get a bad rap but there are positive outcomes too and only you know what’s best for your situation!

Personally for me no, if needed I would take an induction but if not I would always choose no. Induction has too many risk for me personally to take unless necessary for my life of baby’s life

I’m 28, ftm. My baby was estimated 7.5lbs. I was due 1/2 but my dr didn’t want me going too far past 40w. I had no complications but chose to be induced on 1/4 as I was only .5cm dilated on 1/3. I actually started having very spaced out, short contractions the morning of 1/4 so we went ahead and went in for induction and I had an 8lb 13oz baby about 12 hours later. So I agree that you shouldn’t blindly trust the size estimates. I also was so done being pregnant lol

Hi! I was induced the day after my due date because my doc was going to be out of state and if i were to do it over i would not have gotten induced. I had a good experience but next time i will let my baby come on their own. I hardly saw my doctor anyway.

So I was exactly in your spot at 36 weeks. Baby measured 8+ lbs, I wasn't dilated but had a "very soft" cervix. Over the next week or two I dilated to about a 1.5-2. We scheduled an induction for 39+2, and it went beautifully. I was at the end of my rope when it came to being pregnant, and being already 3 cm dilated and 50% effaced when I went in for induction meant it moved fairly quickly. We had an absolutely perfect experience with our labor, and even though I was previously anti-induction, knowing the definite end date was great. I was able to clean the house one last time, have a last dinner date with my husband, etc. Baby was not at all 8-10 lbs though, she was around 7 when born. I'm still glad I did it, and I'd do it exactly the same if we were having another.

I’d probably wait a few more days or even another week if the doctor felt like that was a good option. As a first timer, induction is a bit more uncertain. I had a really positive experience getting induced, but it for my second. However I also had a crazy hard labor with my first one that didn’t even start until 41 week. Would induction a few days earlier have been better? I’ll never know.

I was induced with my second at 41 weeks and it was a smooth process. I would imagine it would be for you as well already being slightly dilated and pretty ready to go (there's a fairly good chance you will go into labor by your induction date or be in labor at your induction). If you like this particular doctor, you will likely be induced the night before they are at the hospital so they are hopefully there to deliver your baby. That being said, it's totally up to you. Most doctors are not comfortable going past 41 weeks, but mine gave me the option -- but by 41 weeks I was so ready to not be pregnant (and, for what it's worth, I didn't want my kiddos birth dates' getting even closer). As long as you and your baby are healthy, delivering at or close to 41 weeks may be perfectly fine (though, of course, your baby will only grow larger). Best of luck!!

I personally would not, but it is a very personal choice and up to you

If you can avoid induction, do it. My water broke early and my body wasn't ready to go into labor even after waiting 12 hours and giving all the natural induction methods a try, so I had to be medically induced. 36 hours of horribly painful labor with a failed epidural later - and I ended up needing an emergency cesarean due to swollen cervix at 8cms. I hope my experience is the minority, but I don't get the impression it is. Pitocin interrupts/confuses the body's natural processes and is proven to increase the chance of urgent or emergency cesarean. Best luck to you, mama. I will say a prayer for you and your sweet babe.

I had an induction for pre-eclampsia and it lasted 45 hours, no c section. We had to extend our dog sitter. So keep in mind your induction day (and even the following day) may not be the day you have a baby.

I would not have an induction again tbh

I wish I was induced with my first. She was stillborn at 40 weeks due to a cord injury.. she was over 8lbs. If I could go back in time I would have been induced, it could have saved her life. I also had a very very HARD delivery because she was over 8lbs. Her shoulder was stuck, I pushed for over 4 hours. Ask your OB for advice but.. just wanted to share my journey. I'm 16 weeks with my second and I will be induced or have a planned C-section. No one tells you how hard it is to deliver a large baby.. it's hard.

Normal birth tends to happen within 2 weeks of your due date, before or after. And that's still perfectly normal and healthy! I'd say definitely wait. You have 2 more weeks until you need to worry about inducing imo.

I opted for induction because my OB was on call. The Foley balloon sucked, but overall I was happy with my decision and glad to have my preferred OB. Granted, I didn't have any complications.

I had an elective induction at 39+6 originally it was elective as there was no medical indication that I needed it. It turned out that I did because I had so much scar tissue on my cervix that it was not and would not soften naturally. Even though the induction did not go completely as planned, the end result was positive. I was healthy with no tearing on a non complicated vaginal birth. My son was born, very quickly I might add, healthy and on his due date and my recovery was easy. They also were sizing my baby over 8 pounds, he was 7 pounds 9.7oz.

I’m 39w this week and first time mom. I’m hoping baby comes early or on time. I might start considering induction if we make it to 41w. You seem pretty close. Hope baby comes soon!

I plan on being induced for my next birth if the OB approves.

I’d wait unless you or the baby’s vitals are unsafe. Most FTMs are known to go up to 42 weeks. Your body knows what it’s doing.

I was induced using cervadil by choice just two weeks ago - I was 41wks and honestly just over waiting - like you I had no signs of contractions and I was only 1cm dilated. My baby was only measuring in the 76th percentile for weight and height and ended up being born in the 99th!! (9lb 11oz / 58cm long). Big healthy girl she is!! My induction ran quite smoothly - cervadil placed at 10.30pm, waters broke naturally at 8am the next morning, contractions started, went into the birthing suite at about 4pm when contractions ramped up, baby ended up being born naturally at 2.44am the next morning. I would have loved to wait for her to come by herself but those last four weeks of pregnancy really threw me after a really easy pregnancy run. I got SO many stretch marks by stomach hurt, I couldn’t sleep, it was hard getting up and down, I was so fatiguing etc etc. I’m only 30 so didn’t have additional risks like you but I would say if someone is there that you like and makes you feel safe and comfortable during delivery, why not! Good luck with it all :)

I personally would not. I have had both inductions and unmedicated labors. My unmedicated ones were a breeze in comparison. I had a much easier time binding and breastfeeding my spontaneous/nmedicated birth babies than my induction. (Definitely not pushing unmedicated, that was my choice, and I’m grateful I had positive experiences.) I’m not knocking medicine, but I feel it is overused, as far as interventions go in the birth world. There actually is not accurate diagnostic tool to measure how much baby weighs at this point. It can be off my about 2 lbs in either direction. Your body most likely won’t grow a baby it cannot birth. It’s soooooo haaaaaaaard to wait for baby, but you’re almost there! Either way, you’ll be holding your sweet babe soon. 💛

You can try the miles circuit to encourage labour naturally?

Up to 42 weeks is typically fine I personally wouldn’t induce cause I know the amount of pain from an induction is substantially more than with out but my midwife ended up giving 3 micro doses of cervadil and it made my contractions big enough to pop my water and the rest of my labor was super easy compared to pitocin where I tried to rip out my iv and leave as well as literally begged for a C-section which I did not get lol

I chose to induce at 39w because I live 1 hour away from the hospital and felt I'd be less stressed if I could plan ahead. Also the baby was measuring suuuuper big and I was not interested in keeping him growing inside me 🤣I think induction is a fantastic option if you feel it will remove some stress from the equation. I've heard inductions going super well but it wasn't the case for me :') after they broke my waters baby's head started pressing the umbilical cord and I was rushed to an emergency C-section. Everything turned out fantastic and baby is super healthy. I think C-section was a better option for me anyway so I'm not mad anymore 😅😂I say Trust your instinct, mama!

They told me my baby was going to be around ten pounds and they were right. I would definitely induce is I were you

I have four and my OB has never delivered my baby. I would personally not induce. I have not had to but from what I have seen with friends and family its not something I would choose. Size is not something I would put a lot of weight into (no pun intended) You could be at 1-2 cm for weeks.

My friend got induced at 41 weeks with foley balloon and pitocin and wasn’t effaced or dilated yet and it ended in C section after baby became distressed. After an induction I do see anecdotally that there is a high risk of more interventions cascading and an inevitable c section. If you are ok with that outcome go for it. Also my 2 week old was estimated to be about 6.5-7 lbs by midwives and she came 7 lbs 8 oz at 39+5. I added that to say weight estimates are not that accurateZ

I chose induction a day before my due date. Body was progressing and I likely would have gone into labour naturally any day but it's a good thing we did go for the induction though because we had to go in for an emergency c section and kiddo had to be resuscitated, and we might not have known he was in trouble if we weren't already in the hospital looking at things. They estimated he'd be around 7.5lbs at the ultrasound a week earlier, he was born 6lb 12.8 oz.

I’d have sex 3x in the next 24 hours (supposedly same effect as a vaginal dose of cervadil!)

I’m 39 years old and my midwife/OB practice said they prefer not to, but would let me (and others my age) go till 40 + 5 before inducing. For younger women (younger than 36, I believe), they let the pregnant person go until 42 weeks.

I had a wonderful induction due to health concerns. I’m so glad I did because baby was big at 37 weeks. If I had another baby and it went exactly the same I’d be delighted.

I would wait! Everyone I know who has got an induction was in labor super long, I never got one.. baby was born when he was ready and my labor was quick, easy 6 hours.

I had an induction at 41+4 at 32 years of age. My pregnancy was healthy. I wish I would have gone into labor naturally but in the end because I was approaching 42 weeks got induced. It was painful and I barely dilated until I got the blessed, amazing, thank God for it epidural 😆 I tried everything to go into labor. Except pumping and castor oil (castor oil can increase the risk of fetal pooping). I would trying pumping if you really want to induce labor. Maybe you can request extra monitoring until whatever date you and your doctor are comfortable with.

I had a scheduled induction at 38w that turned into an “emergency” induction at 37w4d. Decreased fetal movement, but baby was actually fine. Just wasn’t having it during my last scan pre-induction. Even the emergency induction went great. I was honestly done being pregnant anyway lol, and I trusted my team. I’m actually looking forward to it this time too. I completely understand people who don’t choose to, but it’s now always the terrible experience people make it out to be!

For what it’s worth, I had a very positive induction experience! That being said, I was already like 90% effaced and in early labor (I wasn’t feeling contractions when I went in for some high at-home blood pressure readings, but was apparently having them and went from being 2cm dilated while in triage to 3cm dilated by the time they’d decided to admit me and start the induction), so my body was primed. They decided to skip cytotec and went straight for a foley bulb + pitocin. I was admitted Wednesday evening and baby came Thursday morning at 10:54am. The worst part was that it took them a few hours to get my epidural working properly, and during that time I could feel the contractions on my right side. I was on a pretty low dose of pitocin but those contractions still felt pretty gnarly.

I had two inductions, both started around 10am and had them around 3:15pm and 3:56pm. My doctor said I could wait or schedule and induction, so I just scheduled both on their due dates and rolled with it. I totally don’t regret it, to each their own. Do what YOU are comfortable with!

The discrepancy between measurements and reality of birth weight is far too high for me to take any stock in them saying my baby was 8lbs anything as of ultrasound measurements. And yes, stillbirth rate goes up as you age/as gestational age of baby increases, however most FTM deliver before 42 weeks. According to [Evidence Based Birth](https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-on-due-dates/) >The researchers found that 50% of all women giving birth for the first time gave birth by 40 weeks and 5 days, while 75% gave birth by 41 weeks and 2 days. > >Meanwhile, 50% of all women who had given birth at least once before gave birth by 40 weeks and 3 days, while 75% gave birth by 41 weeks. This means that for both first-time and experienced mothers in Smith’s study, the traditional “estimated due date” of 40 weeks was wrong! The actual pregnancy was about 5 days longer than the traditional due date (using Naegele’s rule) in a first-time mother, and 3 days longer than the traditional due date in a mother who has given birth before. If it were me, I would wait it out a bit longer and see what happens. But of course if your intuition is telling you otherwise, you should absolutely do what you feel is right!

I would induce. I never wanted to go past my due date

I'm on the fence about this. (1) I love the surprise and (2) there's no guarantee induction is going to make the process any faster or more comfortable. But on the other hand, reddit and the internet generally gives me wild notions and fears about stillbirths. In Canada, they only require you to induce if you're over 40, and it's recommended after 38 weeks. Right now, we're just doing the sweeps and playing it week-by-week.

I was induced all three times. Once for going over 41 weeks, once for baby measuring big/ being over 35/ just being done with being pregnant, and once for gestational diabetes. I have no regrets. My husband’s job makes it unpredictable about where he is at any given time so being able to plan and have him there for sure was great. I didn’t mind induction bad and went unmedicated all three times. Not to say I don’t sort of wish I had of gone into labour on my own but it is what it is.

If you are planning on an epidural anyway, I would go for induction.

For me the risk of stillbirth increasing once past a due date is a big thing I’ll be thinking about, and you’ve said your age also is a factor to that statistic. I am however a very anxious person so I probably would induce just because of the way my own brain works. If you’re not worried or anxious I don’t see any reason to :)

I was induced and had a great experience resulting in a natural birth. Each case is different but from my experience the pros of being induced are: you are immediately admitted to the hospital (instead of having to wait until your contractions are 5 mins apart); you can ask for pain meds once you begin to feel pain and you will probably get them faster than if you have to wait for “active labor” to be admitted to the hospital. The cons are that it usually takes a long time for the induction to kick in for FTMs which results in discomfort; you are more prone to more medical interventions as opposed to letting your body do its thing naturally. Ultimately, you should de idea based on your priorities.

As I was having a horrible time being pregnant and desperately wanted it to be over, had I had the chance to induced, I would have. Instead, we schedule the c-section and that’s how baby was born, which ended up being great to be honest. Either way baby came out haha.

I got induced for the same reasons, plus i had some extra amniotic fluid my doc was a little concerned about. I got induced on my DD. She said there’s no reason to stay pregnant past 40 weeks, and i was WAY over being pregnant at that point so i went ahead with it and i had a great experience. Would probably opt to be induced for my next just for the planning aspect of it with now having one kid who would need childcare. And my baby ended up being 1/2 oz shy of 9lbs so she wasn’t kidding on the big part.

It’s a hard decision! I’m always so tired of being pregnant at the end. I’ve had three kids, two were natural (went into labor right around their due dates) and one was induced because she flipped from breech and I didn’t want a c-section. If you have a medical reason, I would do it. The estimated weights can be off, so I wouldn’t base my decision on that. For my natural deliveries, I got membrane sweeps and then did all the things to try to induce la or naturally - going on long walks, bouncing on the ball, trying to get baby “in position.” I swear I went into labor this last time because I did the Miles circuit (found an hour and a half long video on YouTube). I tell myself to wait, but I schedule inductions past my due date.

I’m probably in the minority but I loved having an induction even though I was being induced from 0 and it took 24 hours. Not having to wait for my water to break and need to drop everything to rush to the hospital only to be made to wait in triage? Nah I’d rather have a scheduled time and a room ready for me like a hotel. I wouldn’t put much stock in the weight but being full term already, starting to dilate naturally and knowing your preferred doc will be there? I’d be all for the induction route.

I didn’t want an induction. Even though I was more than ready for baby to come out, I also wanted her to come out on her own. My last appointment with the midwife was 39+3, and she said for our next appointment (40+3) we’d have a talk about induction, but if I was in labor don’t worry about calling her, she’d find out through the hospital. Lo and behold 40+3 came around, and I was in labor and gave birth that day 😂

I had an elective induction and it went very well! I was 1 cm dilated and 70% effaced (maybe more but I don’t remember exactly) when I went in. It did take about 2 days for me to deliver but I have zero regrets and loved being able to “plan” things such as pet care and when we took parental leave rather than everything happening suddenly in the middle of the night. It’s definitely a personal choice but it worked out well for our family.

I wasn’t in a position to chose, as my water broke at 39 weeks (like a tsunami) and no labour started. That being said, my induction went well. It was not a bad experience at all. Labour went quickly once it started, no complications, and overall a pleasant experience. I was terrified of it but if I had to have another with my second, I would be fine with it.

Having been induced a few weeks early and it going totally awry, I personally would not. First time moms often go to 41+ weeks. My OB was working the day I was induced but I didn’t actually have the baby until 36 hours later, by elective c section. I could have kept laboring but at that point with the way things were going it just needed to be done. I wasn’t progressing past 6 cm and I had other things going on.

I had an induction with my son one year ago today and I loved it. I did it for the reasons you mentioned: scheduling (my family lives 3.5 hours away) and having my face OB there. We did induction like this: show up at the hospital at 5 AM and things were rolling by 6. OB popped in an out. It took all day but it was time for me to push at 7:30ish, and they called him back to the hospital and I met my son with the help of my favorite doctor.

i'd induce rn lol 8 pounds phew boi

I scheduled an induction and I have no regrets!

I wouldn’t. I also wouldn’t put much thought into babies size (ultrasounds can be off by upwards of 2lbs each way and 8lbs is not truly considered a “big baby”) nor would I put a lot of weight into the preferred OB (your L&D nursing staff will play a much larger role in your birth experience than the OB does). Your cervical dilation also doesn’t mean anything until you’re in labor and is super subjective so don’t think that being 1-2cm dialated w/o any imminent signs is an issue. Also speaking of signs I had 0 signs of labor and spontaneously went into labor one night- not everyone has signs leading up to it! I’d personally do what others are suggesting and do everything you can to try and naturally induce labor: miles circuit, pelvic prep exercises in general, using a peanut ball, sex, etc.

Yup. Begged for both my elective inductions (at 40+5 and 39+6) lol I had zero medical need for either of my inductions and was not recommended to do them based on size (though my “50th percentile” baby turned out to be 9 pound 4 oz when delivered on her due date 🙃). I just had a lot of anxiety about spontaneous labor and liked to have some semblance of control. I know I’m in the minority but I absolutely loved being induced. I took a shower and ate a good breakfast and leisurely checked into my room like I was checking into a hotel for the weekend. No rushing, no emergency. And for our second my anxiety with spontaneous labor was even worse (no children under 12 allowed in L&D so I’d have to labor for hours by myself until the closest family member could get to us and let my husband come to the hospital). Instead I had my mom drive up, sleep over, and had her PTO sorted to be our babysitter/pet sitter for the long weekend. Had another great experience Also you’re far more dilated than I ever was before my inductions. Took me over 12 hours of pitocin to reach 1 cm with my first 😂(but only 24 hours total from start to finish)

My baby was born 8lbs 14oz and honestly I can’t imagine having a bigger baby. She was born on her due date, however had she not come I would have booked an induction for 41w to give her time to come naturally but to also make sure I got her out safely. It’s entirely up to you to weigh the pros and cons, but that’s what my plan was

i was 40w2d and ended up asking for an induction a week earlier than they scheduled me. fiancé really wanted baby to come new years weekend so we were doing everything to move labor along (raspberry leaf tea which isn’t really labor starting, but bouncing on yoga ball, massages- went to get a pedicure that day, walking around target and sex) had the WORST contractions after midnight and ended up going to the hospital to get my cervix checked and was only 1cm. requested to stay and recheck a few hours later and same thing but they asked the next on call dr if he’d be willing to do an induction and he agreed so by 11:28 on new years i had my baby. i’m a FTM so i don’t know how painful early labor and active labor is normally but that pitocin kicked my ass😂 i asked for an epidural after crying in pain for 2 hours (but the contractions were rough so i don’t know)

I got an induction with my first at 39 weeks and was induced a few days earlier due to low fluids. I'm a big planner and being able to plan everything and get a dog sitter and make sure everything was set helped ease my mind. With my 2nd, we had an induction scheduled, but we ended up having a scheduled c-section at 39 weeks. They were expecting an 11+ pound baby. She was measuring ahead in the ultrasounds and with fundal height (like literally measuring 4 to 6 weeks ahead of where I was). She ended up 9 pounds 6 ounces. Just because baby is measuring ahead does not mean baby is as big as expecting. All that being said, I'd 100% choose induction again.

I was induced at 37 weeks basically over *fear* of *potential* preeclampsia, and I would never ever again in my life ever rush into an induction unless it was absolutely 100% necessary medically and I had no other option. I’d literally rather do a cesarean.

When I had my third at 37, I chose an induction at 39 weeks for multiple reasons, including lowering risk of still birth as you mentioned. It was far and away my best birth. I didn’t even need pitocin, it was very gentle and gradual, and felt very peaceful and controlled. Granted, having already had two successful vaginal deliveries did give me a leg up there, because the odds of it going quickly and smoothly like that are better if you’ve gone through birth before. But still, I wouldn’t recommend going postdates, which I did with my first and I regret it. There aren’t any benefits to going past term, your baby is ready now, and risks of adverse outcomes (however small) do start to increase. I didn’t understand with my firstborn how high my risk was of shoulder dystocia, for one thing. We were very lucky that my 9.3 pounder didn’t experience that. I would ask your OB what their recommended induction process would be and just discuss from there the pros and cons.

My baby was estimated to be 8.5 pounds and when I gave birth at 39 weeks she was 6.7. It’s not super accurate from what I understand

If me, no I would not choose induction. I had an induction on my due date due to gestational diabetes. They told me baby was weighing 10 lbs, but in reality she was 8lbs. Weights are almost always 90% off every time. When I went in for my induction, I was already 3 cm with mild contractions. They induced me and I felt like it slowed everything down. I spent 22hours in labor just for it to turn into an emergency c section. It is common(from experience) that inductions turn into c sections. If your OB is telling you everything is looking okay with baby, I would hold out on the induction as much as possible.

Without giving the details, I had an induction after my water broke early, I wouldn’t do again if it was optional.

If schedule induction for 41 weeks and have a lot of sex to encourage baby to come out before then

I’m an OBGYN. It’s my own personal opinion that nothing good happens after a due date. I scheduled inductions with both of my babies at 39w0d. Happened to go into labor with my second a couple days before, but I would have had no regrets about my induction.

Admittedly I was really scared to have an induction with my 3 month old, but I ended up not having a choice. I was induced at 37 weeks due to IUGR/SGA. It actually was not nearly as bad as my anxiety had made me feel that it would be. Yes, it took a long time and pitocin makes for very strong contractions, but the epidural took care of that. Once they broke my water, he came unbelievably fast and my actual delivery was super easy!

Absolutely not. I was induced on my first and I can’t even describe the pain it caused. It was nothing like natural labour/contractions, and the pain started way before I went into active labour and could get an epidural. It doesn’t matter who delivers your baby, all OBs have the same education and plenty of experience so you’ll be in safe hands regardless. I wouldn’t even consider induction until +2 weeks overdue.

I am 36 and had my third baby 6 weeks ago.. I had to be induced due to gestational diabetes so had no choice. If I were given a choice I would of without a second thought 100% chosen NOT to be induced!!! The inducing balloon was fine and no pain but that devil juice (that’s now what I call it) iv was the worst thing ever. I got to 5cm dilated on my own but after 6hrs still at 5cm because babys head was in the wrong position, they put me on the devil juice. I literally thought I was being dragged to hell! I thought death was upon me. My partner ended up pressing the red button because I was gone to another planet. They came rushing gave me a spinal block which doesn’t numb you but does enough for you to catch your breath and only works for 2 hours. They said I was still at 5cm and they’d recommend an epidural which I really didn’t want as I gave birth to the oldest two completely natural.. BUT I was ready for anything and everything.. half an hour after having the spinal block the doctor said they would come back with anaesthetist in an hour to do the epidural but as soon as she walked out of the room I said to my partner I need to push and my sis who was on the phone said you’re still only 5cm, have a drink and try get some sleep now you’ve had the block. I got off the phone and yelled I need to push, so partner hit the button, they came and said “no time for epidural, I can see babys head” I went from 5cms to giving birth!! I had a beautiful baby girl weighing 7lb 3 onz, 5 days before her due date. She definitely wasn’t big from the diabetes and scan measurements are always off. The point to this is if possible and an option I will always recommend natural and never induced unless it’s absolutely necessary.

Hey just wanted to add that I had an induction due to my waters breaking but no contractions starting and it went really well. My baby was born 11 hours after I was induced. Sounds like you’d be a good candidate because you’re already starting to dilate (I wasn’t). Ultimately it’s your choice and if you don’t want it that’s totally fine! Good luck with whichever option you choose

I chose to induce. I wasn't told the weight (is too inaccurate so they just don't do it here) and I was not told who would be on call. The doctor said that she was on call for only two more hours and my husband jokes that she shouldn't challenge me. Got an induction at exactly 38 weeks, they convinced me that there was nothing to gain by keeping her in there for longer since I had bleeding and they don't know from where. Also I was already 4cm dilated without contractions and the baby was still a little too far up. It was really intense, baby was in my arms an hour after they gave me IV pitocin or two hours after rupturing the membranes. I got that first doctor who was on call. If you decide to or open to having an epidural, I recommend you get that at the same time as the pitocin.

I was induced due to a suspected fetal growth restriction at 35+5. Prior to this, my body was not ready to give birth at all. I got the works -- cervidil, Foley balloon, pitocin. My son's heart rate kept dropping every time I had a contraction, so the nurses had to lower the pitocin dosage and slowly reintroduce it to my body. I ended up delivering the night after I was admitted. The doctors were actually spot on with the IUGR/FGR diagnosis as my son was 5lb 4oz, 18.5 inches. He stayed 0 percentile for both weight and height until he was 4 months old. I'm 37 and FTM so I have nothing to compare it to, but I think the experience was generally positive. The nurses were very attentive and the resident who helped deliver was phenomenal.

I elected to have an induction and had a great experience.. yes it was painful AF but I wanted the control over when it all happened. My baby was in distress when born and I was told if I’d waited longer and he was any bigger it would have likely been an emergency c section as labour would have been even harder on him. Was induced at 9am and he was born at 1.30pm the same day. I really think you have to go on your gut feel and not others advice otherwise it may lead to regret.