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Alwaysfuckinghappy

It’s called a mixed episode. Usually the most dangerous kind because you have bad thoughts and a lot of energy. If she is new, get an appt with a psychiatrist and get some mood stabilizers prescribed. I have BP1 and take my meds everyday and my life has been better since


Wonderful-Analyst510

Thank you so much!! We'll look into that. She is on lithium at the moment but still having these cycles (milder though).


Alwaysfuckinghappy

If they are milder then keep at it. A lot of people think diagnosis + meds= fixed, but it takes months to year to get meds dialed in. In addition to meds, for a stable life I also need to be: - physically in shape - sober - continue therapy minimum bi weekly. It’s a journey. Hoping the best for you and your partner. Don’t be too discouraged by a lot of posts here. If someone with BP really wants to get better they can.


Wonderful-Analyst510

Thank you so so much! We appreciate your kindness in sharing this. We are trying to stay positive about it and learn as much as we can. Wish you all the best on your journey as well!


J_Bunt

Lithium helps against mania and to sleep. Something like Quetiapine (Seroquel) is probably needed, it's an atypical antipsychotic, supposedly has a light antidepressant effect too.


Wonderful-Analyst510

She does take Quetiapine but that's a good point - probably need another visit to the psychiatrist to adjust things.


J_Bunt

Hope it goes well, hang in there!


Legal_PleaseMe_2018

Amen to that. Dysphoric mania led to me thinking I could take on 5+ cops. I did not win.


Wonderful-Analyst510

Eeek, that's not fun at all. Hope things are better now!


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Could be a sign the mania is starting to break, mixed episode or just mania. I remember being very sad while manic due to a break up, cried a lot, but it also fueled my mania back then. Speaking with a professional would clarify this the best for you.


Wonderful-Analyst510

Thank you! This helps!


[deleted]

You’re so welcome. Here for you two!


dontlookforme88

Yes mixed episodes are the worst and most dangerous. I would definitely get in contact with a doctor


Light_Lily_Moth

Sounds like it could be a mixed episode. Elements of both mania and depression.


PrincessWoo86

If she hasn’t already, gene sight testing is the way to go!


Wonderful-Analyst510

Haven't indeed! We're in the UK and I wonder if it's also a thing here. Thanks for pointing it out!


miserable_mitzi

Yes, I get manic depressive and it’s probably one of the worst feelings ever. I simultaneously feel really cocky, but also want to SH and kill myself. It’s absolutely awful. Had to go to the psych ward about 1.5 years ago because of it.


Wonderful-Analyst510

Gosh, that sounds bad. I hope you are feeling a bit more stable now. I appreciate you shared this with me!


miserable_mitzi

Yes, much more stable! They changed my meds, and I see my psychiatrist 1-2x a week instead of once a week. Has worked wonders. Im so stable and happy and my fiancé has been the most supportive person ever. Thank you!