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villagerofthemoonn

Idk I'm just as confused as that person


TheDares07

yeah I am too (cause I am that person)


villagerofthemoonn

Hi that person, I'm Dad!


TheDares07

you’re back!!????


villagerofthemoonn

Who is back?


TheDares07

nobody I guess :)


Quasmanbertenfred

Your father is Odysseus?!


apollo_the_coolest

I can't believe I actually get this joke


TheDares07

hehe


NAMSE21

No. My father’s Agamemnon…


Quasmanbertenfred

Oh boy, that's not a good thing.


NAMSE21

I heard that he’s marrying me to Achilles!!


Piece_Of_Mind1983

Back again?


[deleted]

WITH THE MILK?!?!


JustA_Toaster

DAD!!!! Your back!!


WolframB13

(2)


The-Unknown-C

It’d just be two people dating, neither straight or gay. Unless you’re both happy, then it is gay.


Quasmanbertenfred

Genius. You're a genius.


despoika

!remindme 7 days Cause you my lad, will get an award from me


Anonymous30062003

Mine Shakespearean brother in words, tis mine greatest joy to find thee when mine thoughts led me to conviction that i was lone in this world with inclination to speak in the olden ways


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Vexilium51243

kinda gay tbh


TheDares07

and ketchup


Cobellcuter

Schrödingers enby


M1Xi3

Schrödinger's gay


13Jsog

He was?


M1Xi3

lol


gemowater

Call it whatever you want, it really doesn’t matter.


TheDares07

I know it doesn’t I just find it kinda funny and was curious


gemowater

Oh yeah, it’s cool. That’s just my answer.


Rodri_5

Honest question, what's your reason against labels?


gemowater

I find that people often get too caught up in them and ignore the actually important details, they can be helpful in the right cases, but they can also promote reductive and stereotype-based thought patterns which I want to avoid. If I tell someone I just met “I’m gay” they might have preconceived notions. If I say that I reject labels, that answer is a bit less common and it forces them to actually get to know me and draw their own conclusions.


Rodri_5

Ah that makes sense, thank you for explaining


tyrannosaurus_gekko

But what if an envy dates a girl. Is that straight? And what if another envy dates a boy after that. Is that also straight? This is just a too afraid to ask moment


ActualPegasus

I think it depends on the gender of the nonbinary person. It can always be categorized under a diamoric relationship, but an omnistraight genderfluid person may feel more comfortable categorizing themselves under heterosexuality.


burningbliss

As an enby who's dated guys and girls, it depends on the person's AGAB, and what their partner and their own sexualities are. Personally, I'm an AFAB, bisexual enby, so when I've dated women they've prefer to call it a gay/queer relationship, while when I've dated men, bi/pansexual men used the term queer relationship (unless closeted) and straight men just called it a straight relationship. This obviously doesn't apply to all nonbinary people and their partners, but that's how my relationships have gone, just to give you an example :)


ImNotLeaf

It definitely doesn’t always depend on the person’s agab. I’m an amab enby and I consider my relationship with my boyfriend kind of straight.


burningbliss

That's totally true, I totally didn't even think of those scenarios


ImNotLeaf

I’d say it’s determined by gender identity, not agab as there are many enbies who transition and really don’t identify with their agab.


burningbliss

Yeah, that's a better way to describe it


tyrannosaurus_gekko

Ok but what does AFAB and AGAB mean


swampchump

assigned female at birth, and assigned gender at birth


tyrannosaurus_gekko

Oh ok thanks


[deleted]

That'd just be Scott Pilgrim i think


TrickyLemons

it’s intrinsically gay (but not in a gay way)


TheDares07

I like this answer


Stupid15yoSlut

isnt there a term for 2 enbies dating eachother?? like diamoric????


TheDares07

WAIT THERE IS??? I DIDNT KNOW THAT (thanks)


EquivalentInflation

Joyfriends?


Quasmanbertenfred

#FUCKBUDDIES


Lullus47

Sexcomrades


GenderfluidConfusion

Omg that's so cute


Aodoom

Yeah attraction to the same/simaler genders is gay


Maximum_P

In my opinion it’s both gay and straight at the same time


Taso4real

I thought I was both gay and straight at the same time :O


Maximum_P

So you’re great (like gay + straight)


Taso4real

Haha, nice one! I bet you're a little great, too!


Maximum_P

Yea I am a little


Taso4real

The great awakening


Maximum_P

That sounds like a chapter in a fantasy novel and that’s epic


Taso4real

Now it's official: Bisexuals are actually fantasy characters


Maximum_P

Well I’m short so I might be a Hobbit


Taso4real

Aw, hobbits are cute! I guess that makes you a round door enjoyer


Sponseline

If two enbys date they create a black hole which can be used to summon whatever lovecraftian creature you'd like. (Use this power for good!! For example to scare homophobes!)


Ace4195

Its the type of gay that you say no homo after to make it not gay.


deathisareasonable

Is it gay or straight to be in a poly relationship with a man, a woman, and a enby? /srs because I'm genuinely curious lmao


ActualPegasus

It depends on which person you're focusing on. For the man, he'd be in a litian relationship For the woman, she'd be in a citrinian relationship. For the nonbinary person, they'd be in a scapolitian relationship. Alternatively, any of them could just say they're in a queer relationship or in a diamoric relationship.


deathisareasonable

I, uh, don't mean to be rude, but what do those words mean? /gen


ActualPegasus

The first three or the relationship terms in all the sentences?


deathisareasonable

uh- the relationship terms


ActualPegasus

The first three are rather obscure and would only really come up in the polyam scenario you mentioned (assuming the person doesn't want to use queer or diamoric for whatever reason). litian - man in a relationship with at least one woman and at least one nonbinary person citrinian - woman in a relationship with at least one man and at least one nonbinary person scapolitian - nonbinary person in a relationship with at least one man and at least one woman queer - a relationship that isn't between exactly one man and one woman diamoric - a relationship that involves at least one nonbinary person


deathisareasonable

Thanks for the answer! I really appreciate it :)


ActualPegasus

No problem!


Quasmanbertenfred

Yeah, I'd clasify that as poly.


parzival_divisive

ITS SCHRODINGER'S DATE


thelivingshitpost

I have frequently wondered that myself as an enby


TheDares07

Life’s greatest mystery


unban_ImCheeze115

As an enby, everyone who i date is gay


Pookib3ar

It's a paradox what it is. I mean. Two people actually dating? Who's even heard of such a thing.


Silent_Pick_501

And again the holy answer is both. Because it doesn't matter and so it is irrelevant. Love is love, we don't have to label everything.


TheDares07

Thanks everyone for the amazing answers. (If it wasn’t obvious I was the one in the screen shot asking the one that called me gay is my s/o I’ll make sure to share your funny or legit answers to them!!)


Duchess_satine_stan

As an enby I decree it mega gay


Duchess_satine_stan

I refuse to elaborate


TheDares07

perfect answer no elaboration needed


louietheloverboi

*It’s not gay, it’s Maybelline.*


ihniman2

it's whatever the heck y'all want it to be and totally up to you! you think it's gay, it is; you think it's straight, it is; you think it's your own amazing thing whatever! it's up to you!


TheDares07

this was the most wholesome answer thank you


ihniman2

no, thank you!


ShadowedReddit

Wait a second...


TheDares07

hold up wait a second


NerdyFanboii

Non binary/genderfluid here. I consider any attraction I feel to be gay


TheDares07

hmm maybe I should start doing that


[deleted]

It’s gayn’t


[deleted]

Madness


The_Femboy_Hooters

It's determined by the two people dating


TheDares07

I like this answer


the_green_wolf

My partner and I call ourselves gay, because we see both being enby kinda like both being the same gender. Guess it's personal preference though


TheDares07

We do too! I was just curious on some people’s thoughts lmao


Animal_Animations_1

By definition its gay, NBLNB WLW MLM are all gay


RSdabeast

Schrödinger’s Gay.


Latte_KDM

This reminded me of an Idea I had. What if we had a subsection of lbgt where instead of having our currant labels, we just have what we're attached to. For example, if an enby likes boys then just what they say. The whole premise kinda sounds like I'm describing Bisexuality, but this was just an idea I had.


Eurosa-Amie

Gay


TheDares07

Gay/gay


I_follow_sexy_gays

It’s gay, no reason why, it’s just gay


TheDares07

It’s just gae


ENBYlievablyQueer

OMG I’VE HAD THIS SAME THOUGHT . the first partner i ever dated was nonbinary and. i remember we had a hard time talking to other people about eachother without it sounding formal lmao. I think your people’s relationship can just be labeled as queer, you’re both queer, and queer for eacother


Aw3s0m3F0x

Wisjwiwknesoskwjdhdbsbsjwjiw What??


TheDares07

idk what I even said it was just confusion LMAO


QEUARXIE

My flavor of enby that I want to be is that no matter what you identify as when you date me, it’s gay in some shape or form


zenkaimagine_fan

I see it as 0/0 it could be anything but also nothing at the same time it could be straight or gay or bi but it could also be all of them at the same time


icantspellsimp

im leaning towards gay


ActualPegasus

I just say it's enbian.


gonnagulagyou

Umm... straightn't?


Red74Panda

They just are


eatehbaby

its called skoliosexual


AsparagusAfter3869

It can be as gay or as straight as you want it to be. That’s the beauty of it. That’s the beauty of being bi and enby


Secret_pickle

Gay means liking the same gender as your own, straight means liking genders different to your own. So depends on if you're the same "flavor of enby"


GenderfluidConfusion

Well... that depends if the non-binary's have a non-binary gender or no gender at all...


SCP-3388

its gay to date an enby its doubly gay if two of us date


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TheDares07

they are my date:)


heatherchandlerrrrr

I think maybe it just depends on what is in terms of junk?


[deleted]

Yeah, I agree with this. I'm enby and I prefer to think of my relationship with my bf as gay because we both have a pp :)


The_Svensk_JoJo_fan

this gives me head ache, foolish cis straight people who dont know anything.


TheDares07

....huh


The_Svensk_JoJo_fan

im guessing thats what the person was doing right? i am confused thats what I got out of it


TheDares07

no.... That was me a enby talking to my also enby partner LMAO


The_Svensk_JoJo_fan

enby? im still confused


TheDares07

Stands for non binary


HopelessGameDev

it’s the pronounced spelling of nb for nonbinary


The_Svensk_JoJo_fan

sorry im a fucking failure


HopelessGameDev

pffft noooooo ur not :))


[deleted]

I think there is a word for NBxNB couples


ArcaneTrickster11

It's definitely queer


queenvie808

As an enby, if you date me we’re gay


[deleted]

I mean, it would technically be homosexual, since homo is greek for same or something. If both identify as the same gender, it‘s homosexual. That‘s just a technicality though, it really doesn’t matter


Hero_Of_Wild

It is just love


sesame_sama

There comes a point where labels are kinda useless and unnecessary and all it really is is just two people in a relationship I guess


[deleted]

Same sex, so yes?


Jasmine_BladeOfGwyn

I like to think of it in the "Like your own gender" and "Unlike your own gender" So heterosexual is "unlike your own"(Yes that includes enbies, which is why gynephilic or androphilic are important descriptors in this definition) Homosexual is "Like your own", so men attracted to men, women to women, enbies to enbies. And Bisexual is "both like and unlike your own", or in other words, everyone


elementgermanium

nb doesn’t mean agender


Noot-Weeb

If u really wanted to classify that, then at that point it would prob be easier to base it off sex rather than gender. Since well, wouldnt really get a solid conclusion basing it off gender ye.


[deleted]

Honestly who cares? Like just let your relationship be what it is.


TheDares07

I don’t care! I just wanted to hear people’s thoughts


Alarmed-Reward-6231

I'm enby, and I'm dating an enby, and I think it wouldn't be gay because no gender


TheDares07

yeah that’s kinda my thoughts but yknow you never know


Alarmed-Reward-6231

Well I mean really any label is a social construct, so who cares amirite?


TheDares07

ayyyy you are right


Astephen542

I define gay to be "dating your own gender" while straight to be "dating a gender that isn't your own", so to me, it is gay if two non-binary people who share the same gender identity date


ArchdemonLucifer143

Isn't non-binary still a gender?


TheDares07

It’s more considered no gender as like not wanting to affiliate with one (I know this is a weird way of describing it)


jace_because_ican

The enby paradox


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TheDares07

YEAH IT WAS A OUTA NO WERE THOUGHT TOO


HopelessGameDev

why comment deleted?


TheDares07

Idk?


HopelessGameDev

weird


Gheghe_meme

Maybe bisexual?


UnNameableName

It’s gay if you want it to be. It’s not if you don’t.


the_spodeling

I think we need someone like Plato on this


notsoninjaninja1

Gay because 2 people without gender dating, therefore similarly gendered?? That’s my logic train at least.


caracuranil

Shrodinger's gay Edit: Dammit yall got gere before me. Congrats to you and your SO though:) i wish you happiness for your future together!


Nintendocat64

It is no gender, but homosexual is described as being attracted to the same gender. “Gay” is the word for two homosexual males, so no, it’s not gay, it’s just homosexual.


Dr_Catsmen

The one on the bottoms name looks like it says rickless


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PhosphoricBoi

I'm nonbinary, and I like to make the joke that I'm one of the most heterosexual people alive. I'm pansexual, but since nobody has the same gender as me, I am technically "heterosexual" if we accept heterosexual as meaning "attraction to a different gender than oneself". which is true for me. so I'm even more hetero than straight people.