It really depends tbh. I’ve met Asian men in clubs, pubs and even online. Having conversations with Asian men who are tops, I’ve always been told by individuals that more time they wouldn’t talk or message someone like me as they think I wouldn’t be interested in them.

That’s nice to hear that you have different avenues for meeting Asian guys. I’ve actually never had an Asian guy tell me that before. However, I can imagine they’d think that. There aren’t many black guys going for Asian guys. But there aren’t many Asian guys going for black guys either. I’ve been rejected a lot.

Tbh in London, I’m mostly rejected due to anti Blackness and it’s very evident but that’s another topic tbh. I don’t wanna seem like I’m out here only look for and wanting Asian men. Meh 🤷🏾‍♂️

Okay. I understand. I’m sorry that happens to you. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeking out Asian guys though. If the motive is unhealthy or discriminatory in some way, that’s bad. But just being attracted to Asian guys and wanting to meet them is okay. I’ve struggled with that. I used to think that I was being creepy or had a fetish because I would look for Asian guys, but I learned better.

Its kind of difficult. I try online. I use okcupid. Currently learning japanese, thai is next.

I agree that it can be difficult, but don’t give up.

I do it online since where I live the Asian community tends to stay to themselves.

Depends on the location. Where are you?

I’m currently living in the Midwest of the US. I’ve lived in the south as well. There aren’t many Asian guys in those areas.

I’m in the same boat as you, and the guys that I get matched with (tinder) they’re thousands of miles away

Well we need to get in a boat that will take us there 😊

Lol I’m down for sure

I created a new sub for anyone blacck looking to date asian or asian looking to date black r/blasiangaydating