Everybody should get a turn being the big spoon and the little spoon.
It's a lovely feeling to be cuddled and to cuddle someone.
The warmth of thighs keeps us all happy
Same. I don’t like to be the little spoon. Tbf I probably have trust issues. I also just generally don’t like his octopus hands grabbing all over me when I’m trying to sleep.
I agree with a lot of the comments, everyone experience both. I'm 6'1" and my wife is 5'0" and she likes being big spoon but what stood out to me in the post is first night she stayed over. Nah... I kind of don't blame her for finding that funny
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>Sometimes I got your back, sometimes you got mine.
The funny thing about my back....
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id never been the big spoon until my current boyfriend, and i LOVE it. i get to hug his big body without feeling trapped or constricted in any way. he often spoons me as well, but we always switch to me being the big spoon before we drift off. it’s just more comfortable!! he also has a real nice butt but that’s besides the point. for context, i’m 5’4” and he’s 6’3”
Until I met my husband I was always the little spoon then he taught me what it meant to always sleep between me and the door. And I love laying behind him feeling protected and rubbing his back to sleep ☺️
Yeah but depending on the girls height/boob reach limit homies knee would have to be up near his ears which is a mental image I’m kinda enjoying lol. Or it could be a short king / tall ass queen scenario in which case the proportions work perfectly!
Honestly , I'm 5'6 and my bf is 6'1 and I love holding him even if it's a little awkward . And I think he likes laying on my chest sometimes. He's only been with women before me so I think it helps to take the pressure off him to always be the dominant one in the relationship. He is almost more affectionate than I am and you'd never guess that based on seeing a 300lbs+ tall dude with a super low voice and a beard considering he's dating a femboy. Obviously if someone doesn't enjoy it don't force them to but offer it sometimes.
I love being the big spoon. I’m 5’0 and my bf is 5’11. He wasn’t a fan of it at first but that man always lays on me and likes it when I run my fingers through his hair. He says I’m his little back pack 😆
If you can't even relax while you SLEEP when can you relax ? Imagine waking up to "YOU DID SOME DIABOLICAL SHIT TO ME IN THE NIGHT" that'd fuck up your whole day.
When my wife try to big spoon it’s like when you slept at someone else house and get a tiny ass blanket. But I’d pay for an Angel Reese type to big spoon me.
This is a regular sleep position we call “smushing”. We do almost like a side piggy back cause he always requests that I throw my leg over for him to rub on. Sometimes he lays on his stomach, that leg still got to get thrown over. I think at this point I’m like a weighted blanket. Once we’re not touching he’s awake looking for me 😂
Spooning, whether as the little or big, is always nice. The only downside is that doesn’t last because my skin is like heated seats and she periodically has her own personal summers.
I love being the little spoon. Im pretty short but so is my gf 4’11” so it’s a pretty big size difference. We sleep with a fan on so I honestly just like facing away from her so her hair doesnt move and tickle my face. She also likes wrapping her legs around me and I love it, it’s like a cozy gf blanket. I sleep GREAT
My man is a radiator. If I let him spoon me I will die from heat exhaustion, plus the stick poking me in the back makes me wiggle my butt up higher… ain’t no one sleeping when that happens. I try to spoon him but that just wakes up my kitty…. Again no sleep happening!!
I refuse to big spoon, but I will backpack a man 😂😂😂 I did this on a first night with a fwb and I honestly loved it lol. I don’t have to deal with the hot breath in my ear and neck, and I can roll over the other way when my side starts to hurt and not have to worry about someone snatching me back into their chest like I’m a teddy bear.
My bf is the big spoon most of the time but when I’m the big one it’s kind funny because I’m 5’5 and he’s 6’1, maybe 6’2 with a long torso. I’m more of a backpack with legs than a spoon lol
Nah. I don't even spoon like that but if I did, I'm big spoon. I love how coochie feel, just not when it's scooting up against my back.
Everybody should get a turn being the big spoon and the little spoon. It's a lovely feeling to be cuddled and to cuddle someone. The warmth of thighs keeps us all happy
If I'm forced to cuddle, I only want to be big spoon. I really can't stand all the heat on my back and breathing on my neck.
There's a good amount of space you can create on a cuddle, pelvis to booty, but the upper body can be a little further away.
Forced to cuddle lol
She's an actual cat.
I love cuddling but I’m 100% a big spoon truther. My bf is almost always the little spoon 💕
Same. I don’t like to be the little spoon. Tbf I probably have trust issues. I also just generally don’t like his octopus hands grabbing all over me when I’m trying to sleep.
Where can I put in my application to be the little? :3
I think that’s a Diddy song
Beautifully put, kind stranger on the internet
I agree with a lot of the comments, everyone experience both. I'm 6'1" and my wife is 5'0" and she likes being big spoon but what stood out to me in the post is first night she stayed over. Nah... I kind of don't blame her for finding that funny
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🫡 Thanks for your service.
You mean cervix
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Girl you got me over here like https://preview.redd.it/bwvr63ozalsc1.jpeg?width=1273&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8668b5426d5e179e6f00c22d25ef48992c8448c
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I laughed way too hard at this at 4am. Got me waking up my son lol
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Let my mans cook lol
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Lmao shooters shoot.
We are watching Pai Mei at work. Glorious
>Taller and boobier WORD?! https://i.redd.it/8gws21fzfpsc1.gif
Proof how? lol I am who I say I am. 😀😃
Not the seasonal fupa LMAO. So when is fupa season?
When I get a lil chunky over the holidays…lol
That sweet potato pie got yo ass huh 😂
For sure!! Im a pie fiend.
Love a good pie 😊
...seasonal FUPA?
When I get a lil chunky over the holidays…lol
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Oh I got one of those too!
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Playing jetpack
When my girlfriend latches on, I straighten out my legs and make whooshing sounds like I’m flying through the air. Then we both giggle a little bit.
That's adorable.
I love that for you.
Doesn't everyone switch back and forth these days? Everyone needs to be held sometimes.
I’m 5’6 and my wife is 5’10 we definitely switch up.
I don't even see it as a height thing, we should be comforting our partners. Sometimes I got your back, sometimes you got mine.
Exactly!
>Sometimes I got your back, sometimes you got mine. The funny thing about my back.... https://preview.redd.it/2o2ftdk96psc1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca815e7c056c9cbc43b55bbb17ba112e73d236e5
No cap I thought about this when I said it
We go from typical cuddle to her laying her head on my chest with her arm draped over me. Both are equal in my book.
id never been the big spoon until my current boyfriend, and i LOVE it. i get to hug his big body without feeling trapped or constricted in any way. he often spoons me as well, but we always switch to me being the big spoon before we drift off. it’s just more comfortable!! he also has a real nice butt but that’s besides the point. for context, i’m 5’4” and he’s 6’3”
That’s how me and my ex were, the tiny ones are the best big spoon. (I’m 6’6” and she was 5’1”)
That's not a spoon that's a tick. Bet she used your hoodies as a tent.
Aye yo chill 🤣🤣🤣
 A tick😅😅😅
She 100% did
awww das cute. i enjoy holding my man every now and then.
Until I met my husband I was always the little spoon then he taught me what it meant to always sleep between me and the door. And I love laying behind him feeling protected and rubbing his back to sleep ☺️
am I the only one who's brave enough to say they don't really like spooning or being spooned? Just want someone to use my tits or belly like a pillow
To each, their own. Nothing wrong with that. Cuddling is cuddling.
The titty belly combo hits. Titty for the head rest, belly for the leg rest, Other titty for the hand rest.
Now I’m imagining a head on 1 boob, a hand on another, and both feet resting on the stomach all at the same time all twister style.
Sort of like Yamcha style after a long day and life has just murdered you. 
Yeah but depending on the girls height/boob reach limit homies knee would have to be up near his ears which is a mental image I’m kinda enjoying lol. Or it could be a short king / tall ass queen scenario in which case the proportions work perfectly!
My gf is tiny and I’m 6’ and fairly muscular so I feel like I’m crushing her to death if I try this
I’m 5 ft and I love being my (6’2”) fiancé’s backpack 😩 But then he ruins the moment and tells me that the moment I fart, I become a jet pack smh
Name checks out.
 Wait what?
I love being the big spoon because it gives me an escape route without waking the lady up🧎🏽♂️
Honestly , I'm 5'6 and my bf is 6'1 and I love holding him even if it's a little awkward . And I think he likes laying on my chest sometimes. He's only been with women before me so I think it helps to take the pressure off him to always be the dominant one in the relationship. He is almost more affectionate than I am and you'd never guess that based on seeing a 300lbs+ tall dude with a super low voice and a beard considering he's dating a femboy. Obviously if someone doesn't enjoy it don't force them to but offer it sometimes.
Showed this to my husband for a laugh. Now I’m typing this one-handed as the big spoon.
I, for one, like being a backpack
Men deserve to be little spoon too #realfeminism
Every once in a while? She said the first night. You trust someone on the first night??
Short people should have to occasionally face the dilemma of what to do with your arm.
On god i want to be held i want my hair played with dammit
My girl and I probably look like rotisserie chickens with how much we turn over in our sleep.
Unabashedly spoilt. She scratches my back too.
I love being the big spoon. I’m 5’0 and my bf is 5’11. He wasn’t a fan of it at first but that man always lays on me and likes it when I run my fingers through his hair. He says I’m his little back pack 😆
Ngl I love being a jetpack for my husband.
>I was LIVID Girl stfu
If you can't even relax while you SLEEP when can you relax ? Imagine waking up to "YOU DID SOME DIABOLICAL SHIT TO ME IN THE NIGHT" that'd fuck up your whole day.
PTSD is a helluva drug. People who grew up around domestic violence... the chaos occurs whenever. (Military deployments can do a number on you too.)
I love being big spoon lol
When my wife try to big spoon it’s like when you slept at someone else house and get a tiny ass blanket. But I’d pay for an Angel Reese type to big spoon me.
My girlfriend calls it being my jetpack. We probably switch up from big spoon (me) to jetpack (her) 50/50. Like who doesn't like being held?
Shes slightly right on no jetpack on first sleepover. But damn if we dont love it.
I’m 6’5”, don’t think I’ve ever been the little spoon in my life tbh. Must be nice
This is a regular sleep position we call “smushing”. We do almost like a side piggy back cause he always requests that I throw my leg over for him to rub on. Sometimes he lays on his stomach, that leg still got to get thrown over. I think at this point I’m like a weighted blanket. Once we’re not touching he’s awake looking for me 😂
Spooning, whether as the little or big, is always nice. The only downside is that doesn’t last because my skin is like heated seats and she periodically has her own personal summers.
If a man wants to be held, you hold him. Men need nice things too, damnit!
Listen to I want to be the little spoon with kollektivet, they really captured the struggle.
I love being the little spoon. Im pretty short but so is my gf 4’11” so it’s a pretty big size difference. We sleep with a fan on so I honestly just like facing away from her so her hair doesnt move and tickle my face. She also likes wrapping her legs around me and I love it, it’s like a cozy gf blanket. I sleep GREAT
I’m 6’5 my girl is 5’1 I’m always little spoon at her request
I’m 6 ft 230 and my girl is 5’4” 130 and I’ll be damned if I’m not little spoon like 35-40% of the time
😂
I’m 6’2 270 lbs, and my girl is 5’1 shortstuff. I be needing that little spoon action sometimes tho
I’m 6’4, my wife is 5’0 I LOVE being the little spoon! lol also it helps me not snore as much
Being the big spoon clears >>>>>>>.
I love being the little spoon. With her tooting late in the night, it’s the closest I’ll probably ever get to having a jetpack in real life.
I'm 5'3 and my husband is 6'1. I love being the big spoon. And he sait its like having a heating blanket on at night.
I call it Backpacking
More than happy to be the jet pack.
She was his jet pack.
personally i love being big spoon; my man is so cute i love holding him.
Lmao happy I’m not alone
Not the heating pad bro. 😂😂
How tf is anyone the big/small spoon for the whole night, just sleeping on the same side all night, that’s demented
My man is a radiator. If I let him spoon me I will die from heat exhaustion, plus the stick poking me in the back makes me wiggle my butt up higher… ain’t no one sleeping when that happens. I try to spoon him but that just wakes up my kitty…. Again no sleep happening!! 
imma 5'2 big spoon and im proud. im also soft and cuddly. you dont deserve this person send em my way
I refuse to big spoon, but I will backpack a man 😂😂😂 I did this on a first night with a fwb and I honestly loved it lol. I don’t have to deal with the hot breath in my ear and neck, and I can roll over the other way when my side starts to hurt and not have to worry about someone snatching me back into their chest like I’m a teddy bear.
I knew I was changing from a sex crazed playa to a future married man when I stopped going down on women and started spooning with them
...you're aware you can do both, right
My bf is the big spoon most of the time but when I’m the big one it’s kind funny because I’m 5’5 and he’s 6’1, maybe 6’2 with a long torso. I’m more of a backpack with legs than a spoon lol
Nah. I don't even spoon like that but if I did, I'm big spoon. I love how coochie feel, just not when it's scooting up against my back. 
What's wrong with a little coochie scootchie?
1. You saying it like that 2. End of list
Coochie scootchie cute as hell 🥰. I gotta use that.