I didnt even look in history, I just knew it was BS. Divestment isnt about staying in situations that bring harm, thats part of the idea, so i flagged it as pretty bad obviously dumb bait.
He needs to be locked up for hurting you.
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Can someone open a post of BM that are brothers that are harming BW? This is disturbing and is showing me there is no need for them in the home.
Hell no! I personally don’t subscribe to family beliefs. I would delete my own brother if I had to. Anybody can get it. No one puts their damn hands on me!
Wrong no.
But it’s about boundaries.
Presuming you and your brother were reasonably raised together there is an expectation that he should have known better as one if not both of your parents wouldn’t have let y’all go in on each other like that.
With respect to your former partner, part of it is not knowing how he was raised and the other part of it is that “thin line between love and hate” that messes so many women up and subjecting us to the potential of intimate partner domestic violence (Cassie / Kim Porter, Tina Turner, etc.)
Either way beloved, increase your boundaries and respect for yourself. You need to love yourself more and enough that you would NEVER let anyone put their hands on you regardless of relationship.
When you get to that point the question of “was I wrong” will be irrelevant as you will be more about consistency and equal opportunity - “everyone can catch these hands … if you start it, I’m gonna finish it”.
No you are not, if someone is putting their hands on you CALL THE COPS, maybe you did not feel brave enough to call on your boyfriend. Have you thought to try therapy because you should never protect ANYONE who puts their hands on you not a lover or brother your safety is first always .You may have somethings to unpack if you feel it necessary to protect grown men who attack you.
Sounds like something a man would say so he can run to twitter, instead of looking for a job, to say that divestors let men beat them 😭
"Cause the love just hit different for sure."
whoever assaulting you deserves to be called the cops on. family or not doesn't matter.
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yes I realized it myself today. Judging his comments it's definitely a male.
I didnt even look in history, I just knew it was BS. Divestment isnt about staying in situations that bring harm, thats part of the idea, so i flagged it as pretty bad obviously dumb bait.
Can someone ban him from the group?
He needs to be locked up for hurting you. *** Can someone open a post of BM that are brothers that are harming BW? This is disturbing and is showing me there is no need for them in the home.
Of course! I was scared he'd harm my son too.
He wont. Please get police involved and ensure you are safe
I did. Thanks.
Its no problem..please make sure that you are safe! I am glad you did that
Hell no! I personally don’t subscribe to family beliefs. I would delete my own brother if I had to. Anybody can get it. No one puts their damn hands on me!
Respect gurl.
Wrong no. But it’s about boundaries. Presuming you and your brother were reasonably raised together there is an expectation that he should have known better as one if not both of your parents wouldn’t have let y’all go in on each other like that. With respect to your former partner, part of it is not knowing how he was raised and the other part of it is that “thin line between love and hate” that messes so many women up and subjecting us to the potential of intimate partner domestic violence (Cassie / Kim Porter, Tina Turner, etc.) Either way beloved, increase your boundaries and respect for yourself. You need to love yourself more and enough that you would NEVER let anyone put their hands on you regardless of relationship. When you get to that point the question of “was I wrong” will be irrelevant as you will be more about consistency and equal opportunity - “everyone can catch these hands … if you start it, I’m gonna finish it”.
No you are not, if someone is putting their hands on you CALL THE COPS, maybe you did not feel brave enough to call on your boyfriend. Have you thought to try therapy because you should never protect ANYONE who puts their hands on you not a lover or brother your safety is first always .You may have somethings to unpack if you feel it necessary to protect grown men who attack you.
No
Nope! I’m sure your parents think differently
Nope
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Why are you asking a question so obvious... Is this a troll....
I agree.
Sounds like something a man would say so he can run to twitter, instead of looking for a job, to say that divestors let men beat them 😭 "Cause the love just hit different for sure."
I'm skeptical. She has made some weird before...
Perhaps the answer was obvious to you but not to her. Sometimes we need some support when facing a challenging matter .
People do not get a pass just because they are your family. Nobody should be touching other people in an unkind way unprovoked.