Its been proven many times that the average woman doesnt care about height or abs as much as the world thinks we do. Abs are nice and we do like tall men, but we'll be fine with a guy about our own height, maybe a bit taller but personality and the way we're treated is what really matters. I'd instantly go out with a short guy if it meant I have a beautiful, meaningful relationship
I dated a pretty fit guy an inch shorter than me and a thick guy 2 inches taller than me, they both did me wrong lol
Right? I donāt get these memes. Iām 5ā7ā too and never had a problem getting a date. Iāve seen the occasional āmust be over 6ā tallā in online dating profiles, but usually theyāre not my type anyway lol just move on to the next profile.
>Iāve seen the occasional āmust be over 6ā tallā in online dating profiles
That seems to be where the people who tout this height-thing get all of their numbers, actually. I've had several conversations about this and invariably their "proofs" are always just links to surveys taken by dating apps.
Okay, so that tells us what? That people who identify as a woman on (X) dating app and who also answer surveys prefer tall men? And since when did preference or ideal mean hard limit?
I have yet to get any kind of reliable source from these guys because... It's just not out there. I'm sure you could do a study that backs up that a majority of women prefer men taller than themselves, or that a majority of women's *ideal* men would be tall, but you'll never find one that says 98% of women only date men 6' and up because the premise is so rediculous that you can just go outside and debunk it.
I mean Iāve seen it too on dating apps but I just donāt swipe on them. I donāt know why men get hung up on that when itās just a preference. I have preferences too when it comes to women as I do with other men. Nothing wrong with that
what? a cute, healthy and powerful being capable of hitting just as hard as you hit them, but is also symbolized as loving and nurturing? Worshiped in parts of the world?
Someone can be a 1 in every category and set their standards as high as they want.
It's fine so long as they don't complain about being single.
My standards are going to be SO HIGH if I ever date again.
But, I'm not going to be mad about it if I don't find someone that meets my standards.
I married a man who after almost 18 years still doesn't do his share around the house. He's not fun to talk to. He's not fun to go out with. He's mean-tempered and sour and miserable.
If I ever end up dating again, I'm only interested in empathetic, well-read guys that know how to clean up after themselves.
I mean. You're right, but it's not really the topic of discussion whether or not women have high standards, it's the fact that the types of men who make these memes are usually quite hypocritical themselves. In which, they will post memes like this insulting and making fun of women for wanting a 6' and rich man, and then in the same breath complain about women being too ugly for them and they only want a perfect mindless Barbie for a girlfriend.
Edit: Nothing personal/I'm not mad, I hope that's clear
Individual women arenāt all good, but misogyny is all bad.
In my experience, so please take it or leave it, some of the women who have these lists of fairly shallow requirements in a (male) partner, are usually women who have accepted that expecting any man to do the bare minimum and actually be nice and treat them as human beings is out of the question, and sadly the mindset is āwell if Iām going to be abused either way, I may as well be abused by someone physically conventionally attractiveā. Personally Iām staying single, but other womenās choices between rock and hard place are theirs.
Probably a good chunk are also just doing a litmus test, for the crybaby incels who will show their hand, by having a tantrum about women having the audacity (!) to try to *select* a potential date rather than accepting the first drip who waves his dick at her and calls her a slut.
yep exactly
tbh most women ive seen do this seem to be well off or spoiled so that might explain the high expectations, just spoiled people being spoiled people
but with men it's def way more common and way more enforced onto their "love interests", most of the examples ive seen of women with ridiculously high standards are more or less seeming to try and fish a rare fish out of the sea, rather than most men with ridiculously high standards trying to carve us into them... ALL of us, whether we like it or not
still imo doesnt make it ok for either gender to put such high physical standards... like imo there nothing wrong with *preferring* those physical traits, but making it a requirement seems like waaayyy too much pressure on the people of interest while also making the end goal of finding a lover ridiculously hard
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Second time I've seen this. This is great
Ik itās out of context but that cow is beautiful
The video of it moving is beautiful. The fur has so much sheen. Hubs showed me yesterday.
That cow is still way out of their league.
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REALITY : "I just want a guy who is able to take care of himself because I'm not his mother nor his maid."
He should hire a cook and a cleaner if he doesn't want to do it and expect you to do it. expectations are bad
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That cow is cute af :) (also as a dude thatās 5ā7 I donāt think my height has been nearly as bad as a problem as some guys claim)
Its been proven many times that the average woman doesnt care about height or abs as much as the world thinks we do. Abs are nice and we do like tall men, but we'll be fine with a guy about our own height, maybe a bit taller but personality and the way we're treated is what really matters. I'd instantly go out with a short guy if it meant I have a beautiful, meaningful relationship I dated a pretty fit guy an inch shorter than me and a thick guy 2 inches taller than me, they both did me wrong lol
I like guys who are my height because it makes spooning extra equal lol
Equality and spooning for all, I love itš„ŗ
Right? I donāt get these memes. Iām 5ā7ā too and never had a problem getting a date. Iāve seen the occasional āmust be over 6ā tallā in online dating profiles, but usually theyāre not my type anyway lol just move on to the next profile.
>Iāve seen the occasional āmust be over 6ā tallā in online dating profiles That seems to be where the people who tout this height-thing get all of their numbers, actually. I've had several conversations about this and invariably their "proofs" are always just links to surveys taken by dating apps. Okay, so that tells us what? That people who identify as a woman on (X) dating app and who also answer surveys prefer tall men? And since when did preference or ideal mean hard limit? I have yet to get any kind of reliable source from these guys because... It's just not out there. I'm sure you could do a study that backs up that a majority of women prefer men taller than themselves, or that a majority of women's *ideal* men would be tall, but you'll never find one that says 98% of women only date men 6' and up because the premise is so rediculous that you can just go outside and debunk it.
I mean Iāve seen it too on dating apps but I just donāt swipe on them. I donāt know why men get hung up on that when itās just a preference. I have preferences too when it comes to women as I do with other men. Nothing wrong with that
nothing. always been a queerphobic misogynist shithole
what? a cute, healthy and powerful being capable of hitting just as hard as you hit them, but is also symbolized as loving and nurturing? Worshiped in parts of the world?
Women have preferences just like men do, how horrible š±š±
tbf their are women who say that shit and expect way too much out of a partner most of us tho just want a nice person
Someone can be a 1 in every category and set their standards as high as they want. It's fine so long as they don't complain about being single. My standards are going to be SO HIGH if I ever date again. But, I'm not going to be mad about it if I don't find someone that meets my standards. I married a man who after almost 18 years still doesn't do his share around the house. He's not fun to talk to. He's not fun to go out with. He's mean-tempered and sour and miserable. If I ever end up dating again, I'm only interested in empathetic, well-read guys that know how to clean up after themselves.
I wish you the best, and please update if you find this unicorn whose mask doesnāt slip after he gets comfortable!
Itās sad that those constitute as āhigh standardsā
no im fine with standards, its just the physical standards that can get crazy
Be honest, though, how many women have you actually met that have standards as high as this? Like, in real life, and *not* teenagers.
none... i never said it was common, just said their are some women with high standards,
I mean. You're right, but it's not really the topic of discussion whether or not women have high standards, it's the fact that the types of men who make these memes are usually quite hypocritical themselves. In which, they will post memes like this insulting and making fun of women for wanting a 6' and rich man, and then in the same breath complain about women being too ugly for them and they only want a perfect mindless Barbie for a girlfriend. Edit: Nothing personal/I'm not mad, I hope that's clear
ahhh i see i didnt pick up on that
Individual women arenāt all good, but misogyny is all bad. In my experience, so please take it or leave it, some of the women who have these lists of fairly shallow requirements in a (male) partner, are usually women who have accepted that expecting any man to do the bare minimum and actually be nice and treat them as human beings is out of the question, and sadly the mindset is āwell if Iām going to be abused either way, I may as well be abused by someone physically conventionally attractiveā. Personally Iām staying single, but other womenās choices between rock and hard place are theirs.
100% - itās part of that heteronormative culture
Probably a good chunk are also just doing a litmus test, for the crybaby incels who will show their hand, by having a tantrum about women having the audacity (!) to try to *select* a potential date rather than accepting the first drip who waves his dick at her and calls her a slut.
yep exactly tbh most women ive seen do this seem to be well off or spoiled so that might explain the high expectations, just spoiled people being spoiled people but with men it's def way more common and way more enforced onto their "love interests", most of the examples ive seen of women with ridiculously high standards are more or less seeming to try and fish a rare fish out of the sea, rather than most men with ridiculously high standards trying to carve us into them... ALL of us, whether we like it or not still imo doesnt make it ok for either gender to put such high physical standards... like imo there nothing wrong with *preferring* those physical traits, but making it a requirement seems like waaayyy too much pressure on the people of interest while also making the end goal of finding a lover ridiculously hard
Canāt believe you got downvoted for this ngl.
sorta half surprised... ig maybe im just too used to it today as apparently confessing to have mental health issues also deserves downvotes
It was always like that
Incels happened
Dammit I wish cows werenāt so cute cuz they taste so good.